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>NOTE: I think that the internet is a literal
MIRACLE when it comes to meeting women, practicing
conversations skills, and learning how to create
attraction using only your words, humor, and other
communication. If you'd like to learn some of my
personal secrets for turning the internet into a
dating BONANZA for yourself, then take a minute
and read this:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline/
***QUESTION***
Hey David,
I was wondering if you could offer any wisdom on
what you've gained from writing and responding to
online personal ads. I'm not having a great deal
of luck so far. Specifically, my questions are:
1. How brief should your descriptions of yourself
and/or your ideal catch be? I've heard it said
that "brevity is the soul of wit", but you also
want to be memorable, right?
2. When writing descriptions, should you stick
with C&F? I've noticed that humor often doesn't
translate well in written form, so I wasn't sure
how to go about all that.
3. I think I read in a previous newsletter that
you recommend not posting a picture. At the same
time, I tend to avoid ads without pictures due to
having one too many blind dates which ended with
me throwing a stick and shouting "fetch!" in order
to distract her long enough to get away. Don't you
think that by committing a picture on your ad,
women might pass you up for the same reason? Or am
I mistaken? An apprentice,
J.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You've asked some questions that really require
more of an in-depth treatment... but here are a
few pointers that have taken me YEARS to figure
out:
1) You'll get more responses in general by
replying to personal ads placed by women than you
will by placing your own ad (Unless you're a
master of writing personal ads).
2) If you're going to use the personals, look at
the new ads that are placed daily, and respond as
soon as a woman places her ad. Attractive women
typically get 50-100 responses per DAY to personal
ads, and it's very easy to get overwhelmed. You'll
notice that a lot of women take their ads down
after just a few days... this is why.
3) Be charming and funny (also known as COCKY and
funny) in your replies (or in your ad, if you
write your own). Say things like "I was looking
through all these ads here on the internet
thinking to myself "Look at all the poor,
desperate, lonely women..." and then I saw your ad
and thought to myself "Hey, here's a poor,
desperate, lonely woman that's actually CUTE..."
so I thought I'd write and see if you're as
interesting on the inside as you are in this
picture..."
4) I mentioned in one of recent newsletters that I
got an email from a guy who had his picture taken
with some dolphins... and that he's getting tons
of responses from that. I've never done it myself,
but it sounds like a great idea!
***QUESTION***
Dave, love your book. I have learned more about
women in the last two months than I knew in my
lifetime. The teasing and being cocky/funny really
turns them on. I have know this girl for some time
and we were mostly friends. Just lately she said
to me "I love you R,". Is it ok for me to tell her
I love her too or is it better to say nothing and
just smile which I did so far.
R.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Take a cue from Han Solo...
Say "I know".
You might throw in a sly half-smile to let her
know that you're having fun after you say it.
As far as your question of "Is it OK to tell
her that I love her too?" I can't answer that.
You're at a stage that is past our topic here.
I think that love and relationships are great,
but since this isn't the area that I choose to
talk about, you're going to have to decide for
yourself.
Just don't turn into a wussy... that's bad no
matter what.
***COMMENT***
It seems like a lot of the guys who subscribe to
your newsletter and buy the book - myself included
- are average guys who have trouble with girls
just because they are afraid of getting rejected.
I've got an idea that might help. Get two or three
good friends together and have a 'contest' where
the goal is to get shot down. Spend a day or a
night out in clubs, coffee shops, malls, etc.
going up to girls with the sole intention of
having them reject you, and whoever gets rejected
the most times wins. Try out any approach - good
or bad - you can think of. Be rude, crude, funny,
serious, a nice guy, a jerk, whatever you want,
and take notes on how the girls react. If she
slaps your face, that's fine because that's the
goal. And if she doesn't shoot you down, that's
even better. After a night like this you'll become
a bit 'numb' when you are rejected in the future,
and you'll have a better understanding of how
girls react to being hit on. If necessary go to a
different city for the weekend and try it out
there, so that you aren't afraid of running into
these girls again.
- C.L.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I think that the basic idea is good, but I'd
say that you're probably better off seeing who can
get the most email addresses - instead of seeing
who can get shut down.
If you go out with the specific idea of being
rude, crude, a jerk, etc., I think you're working
on the wrong outcome.
I get what you're saying about how this might
make you "numb" to future rejection...
But I think you'll learn a lot more if you take
the approach of "We're each going to approach 50
women today, and let's see who can get the most
email addresses". Focus on what you want, not what
you don't want.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
First off, I want to thank you for spreading your
wisdom. I bought your book two weeks ago after
reading several of your newsletters, and it was
the answer to most of my prayers. I've gone from
dating a girl maybe two women in a year, to dating
3 women at once, all 3 call me every day, and this
was before I even bought the book, just from the
advice from your emails!! You have definitely
"Doubled" my dating!!
My question, one girl in particular I find really
attractive and the most challenging (which I like)
still has a "Control Freak" boyfriend, with whom I
think she's afraid to break up with. He's the kind
of guy that would threaten to kill himself if she
were to leave him, but basically uses her for sex,
and controls most aspects of her life. Should I
just stop talking to her? Or keep bustin her balls
about why she's still with him? Because I find
myself feeling some sort of sympathy for her, and
its affecting my "cocky and funny" routine (with
her at least).
Thanks for your help!!
C. from MD
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Let me ask you a question...
Why in the world would you want to be with a
woman who has a "suicidal control freak" boyfriend
fetish?
When you meet a woman like this, the warning
bells should be going off in your head... "Danger
Will Robinson, Danger!"
Do yourself a HUGE favor. Find a woman who's
interesting and "challenging" like her that
DOESN'T have a psycho neurotic boyfriend... and
don't turn into one.
***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***
I just wanted to say thank you, from all the women
out here in single land. Out of curiosity, I
clicked on a link from (another website) to see
what all this great advice was about. just from
reading about your "kiss test" I knew you had
figured it out. I like being hit on by a confident
assertive man. I also like a man who can figure it
out that I'm not interested. Honestly, I will
fall over and spread my legs for any man that does
the right things whether he's extremely attractive
or not. I would never tell him how to do it. I
guess that's your job. Anyway, like I said, I just
wanted to thank you. I personally hope I get hit
on in the grocery store by someone who has read
your book!
Thanks,
K.H.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, thank you for your letter. I truly
appreciate your honesty and directness.
Most men can't believe that what you're saying
could actually be true, but as we both know, it
quite often is.
The interesting thing you say (which I agree
with) is:
"I would never tell him how to do it."
In other words, A WOMAN WILL NEVER TEACH A
WUSSY BOY WHO DOESN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO THE SECRETS
OF GETTING HER.
Translation for guys: If you don't know what
you're doing when it comes to women, LEARN.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I have been reading your articles and from other
guys out there trying to improve their macking
skills, your articles and tips are on point on how
to be a mack with the ladies, but I feel that
because of a negative experiences with women in my
teenage and college years, really hold me back
from being the mack that is inside of me along,
now in my mid-twenties, I need to get passed this
negative experiences with women, I have no problem
talking to women or having a conversation, but i
don't have my own place, my income is very low at
this moment, this make it even harder for me,
could you give me some advice to get pass this
fear that because i have very little now plus the
past experience with women in the past, plus I
live in nyc where women are into themselves, and a
man without his own place, car, and little money
are looked at like "why are you talking to me, you
have nothing to offer me."
M.
nyc
>>>MY COMMENTS:
First of all, YES, there are women who will
only talk to you if you have money...
BUT THIS IS NOT THE RULE... IT'S THE EXCEPTION.
If a woman feels the magical emotion of
ATTRACTION, then it matters not how much money you
have.
I used to believe that it was probably only
guys who had nice cars and lots of cash who got to
go out with all the women...
But then, as I got to know more and more guys
who were VERY successful with women. I realized
that it came down to their personalities more than
anything else... including looks, height, money,
etc.
In fact, MOST of the guys who I've met that are
very successful with women aren't rich at all.
You need to learn how to make women feel
ATTRACTION by using your personality. That's the
ticket.
Really.
Go download this right now and read it all:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook/
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave:
I have been reading your material for a few months
now. One of the best things I learned about your
work is how to get e-mail addresses and phone
numbers from women. I have great success at this
point. This has also helped my business. I need
help in two areas that involves taking it to the
next level. I want to meet a nice girl and settle
down. Firstly, how can I figure out which one of
these girls is the BEST for me in terms of
personality and chemistry. My last relationship
lasted a year and a half and did not work because
we were always busting each others chops.
Secondly, I think there is a point when we just
need to stop playing games and be nice to these
women... What do you think?
B. NYC
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, I'm not the relationship expert, so I'm
not going to address how you should choose a woman
to settle down with...
But I will comment on your question of whether
or not there is a point when you should stop
"playing games" and "be nice to these women".
The mind set and techniques that I teach are
not
my idea of a "short term technique to get laid".
Once you start using the methods, you'll find that
women respond to them on an ONGOING basis. In
other words, if you can keep up the charming,
Cocky and Funny attitude, it will keep a woman
feeling attracted to you FOREVER.
"Nice" is not a word that you want associated
with yourself, in my opinion. Women aren't
ATTRACTED to guys who are "nice".
Be interesting, unpredictable... even
thoughtful and original.
But don't be NICE.
Think about it.
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave,
Well, let me start with my story. I'm average guy,
22years old. I always had the fear to approach
beautiful women. I'm funny by nature, but only
with my friends. I've totally changed my behavior
with women, when I've read your book. I now meet
women on every step (bar, caffe, library,...),
using your C&F approach and a lot of them are in
my bed in a week or so. Now the only problem at
the moment is, that all of those women want a
commitment. But I would love to be just a "sex-
buddy";). Of course, they don't want to hear about
that. So after first sex, when I try to explain to
her, what I want, either she gets mad and I can go
;) or I am the biggest male egoist... bla bla bla.
So, tell me, is there any way to do that with
success? Tnx again,
B. from Slovenia
>>>MY COMMENTS:
If you're at that stage where you'd like to use
your newly found success to attract only "sex
buddies"... and you don't want the women you date
to think of you as their "boyfriend", then DON'T
ACT LIKE ONE.
Don't call more than once or twice a week.
Don't stay on the phone for more than 5 or 10
minutes. Don't see her more than once or twice a
week.
In other words, DON'T ACT LIKE A BOYFRIEND.
I know this sounds rather simple, but think
about it...
Women are just as interested in sex as men are.
In my experience, if a woman knows that you're
only interested in sex, she'll be OK with that.
The problems come up when you start calling all
the time, seeing her a lot, and acting like you
care for her...
At this point a woman starts to become
emotionally attached to you. She thinks that
you're becoming her boyfriend.
If you don't want to be a boyfriend, then don't
act like one!
***QUESTION***
Hello,
Your are the man. I have been using your cocky
funny method on girls i already know and see the
difference in the way they act towards me, they
seem to definitely be more interested. My dilemma
is that i run out of cocky comments and little
jokes. For eg i went to the coffee shop yesterday
with one of my buddies and there were two cute
girls in front of us who smiled at us when we
where in line and i looked back and smiled but i
had no idea what to say to them or what to make
fun of and they got what they wanted and left. I
simply had no idea what funny comment to make.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Here's the answer...
List the 10 most common situations that you'd
find yourself meeting women... and list 10 cocky
and funny things to say in each situation.
Next, mentally rehearse each of the comments so
you have them ready!
If you are at the stage where Cocky and Funny
doesn't come "naturally", then you're going to
have to PRACTICE.
Why do Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods make
their sports look EASY? Why do they TOTALLY
dominate all of the other players around them?
Practice, of course.
Stop trying to create magic from nothing, and
start practicing. Practice makes magic.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
Because of my job, I am on the road a lot. Lots of
times I like to drive with the windows down, music
blasting and just taking in the sun. Many times I
find myself waiting at a stop light with a good-
looking girl waiting next to me. Some of these
girls, we make eye contact, others just glance
over. Sometimes I'll drive for miles with the same
girl to the side of me. The problem is I never
really know what to do next. So I guess my
question to you is this:
1. How do I get her to roll down her window? 2.
Once she does, what should I tell her?
I drive an average car (VW Jetta) so I know
they're not looking at that, but I'm just
uncertain how to get her attention.
Thanks for the help.
R. in So Cal
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Oh, you can have a lot of fun with this one.
I have a good friend who can't drive up next to
a woman without flirting. He likes to "waggle his
eyebrows" at every woman he sees.
Next time you're next to a cutie, waggle your
brows and wave. When she smiles, make the old
fashioned motion of rolling down your window to
her, and roll down yours.
Finally, take out your cell phone, point to it,
and say "What's your number?"
I've done variations of this myself, and had
some great fun success with it.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
You ARE da man! Although I have not purchased the
e-book yet, I will soon, as I have seen the magic
work firsthand, just from the newsletters I have
been getting. Check this out! About a week ago, I
send an email to a totally rad chick suggesting
that we meet for coffee. I used the movie "You've
Got Mail" as part of my "schtick", and although it
was "cute" and "funny," I realized later that it
was actually quite "wussy-ish." After getting NO
REPLY for almost a week, I sent her ANOTHER email,
this time busting her balls a bit by saying, "Well
I guess my dazzling good looks and wicked sense of
humor didn't catch your fancy, eh?" The response
was lightning fast and almost instantaneous!!! She
wrote that she had every intention of returning my
email, but she was "out of town" blah blah blah,
and she would meet me for coffee sometime. I
really believe that if I had not sent her that
second email, I never would have gotten a reply to
the first one.
Here's the question (and problem): In addition to
the "ball busting" in my second email, I also told
her I liked her! (a big faux pas, I know, but I
never expected a reply!) She had taught a class of
which I was a student, and I made a comment like,
"Well I'm probably not the first of your students
to have a crush on the teacher." Now that the
cat's out of the bag, how do I diffuse this
damaging admission? I already sent her a reply
email, in which I poured on the cocky/funny, but I
wanted to get your input and hopefully I made the
right choice by my reply.
Thanks Dave!
--C.K. San Francisco, CA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
lol... the best thing you can do is GO MEET 10
MORE WOMEN!!!
Duh!
And what are you doing writing to me asking for
advice on how to un-screw-up your situation... and
you haven't even read my book? Go to:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
RIGHT NOW and get it. You are doing great, you
just need to get some of the details together.
And as for your teacher, STOP SAYING THAT YOU
LIKE HER! And start acting like the Cocky and
Funny guy that make her respond to you!
***QUESTION***
Dear Dave,
I just started receiving your newsletter. And I
was just curious about the letters that are coming
in. Are these letters from real guys or is it
something that 's written by your staff just to
sell your ebook? I can't honestly believe a book
can really do that much for a guy. I get another
newsletter on dating women and this guy doesn't
seem to profess the "cocky" attitude you write
about.
Anyway, just to let you know who I am. I am a 50
yr young man. I'm 5'7" , good shape and health.
Have all my hair and teeth. I'm a nice guy but I
want to shed that image but not be an asshole if
you know what I mean. I don't want to even tell
you how long it's been since I've been laid. Can
your book really help a guy like me? I've been
going on the online dating seen but don't always
see what I want which is a sexy young woman. Also,
how young can I acceptably go. Anything you can
tell me would be a help.
Sign me,
Not getting enough
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I love letters like this one...
OK, to answer your first question... EVERY
SINGLE LETTER THAT I PRINT IN EVERY SINGLE ONE OF
MY NEWSLETTERS IS REAL. I NEVER INVENT THEM.
I have every one of the originals saved to
prove it.
To answer one of your comments of "I can't
believe that a book can really do that much for a
guy"...
IT CAN'T. The BOOK isn't what does it.
It's a combination of the material in the book
and actually TAKING ACTION ON IT AND USING IT.
It's taken me YEARS of trial and error...
trying just about everything under the sun to
learn the things that I've learned. I really went
out there and did the work.
I tried and tested everything I could find...
If you're reading this right now, and it's time
for YOU to get this part of YOUR life handled, and
finally start enjoying the kind of success with
women that you've only dreamed about it the past,
then maybe it's time for you to TAKE ACTION.
If you'd like to get a behind-the-scenes look
into the minds of women, and you'd like to learn
the techniques for attracting women and creating
ATTRACTION that it's taken me literally YEARS to
figure out, then I'd recommend you go and check
out my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.
This program is a "condensed education" that
has taken me a LONG time to organize, prepare, and
create.
Instead of spending years of your OWN time and
spending (or rather WASTING) a lot of money... and
dealing with the pain of trial-and-error, you can
save yourself a LOT of frustration...
This program contains literally HUNDREDS and
HUNDREDS of step-by-step techniques for overcoming
fears and improving your self image, approaching
women, meeting women online, getting dates, and
taking things to a "physical level" smoothly and
without rejection.
You can check out some great free audio and
video clips from it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
And if you haven't downloaded your copy of my
online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need
to go and do that RIGHT NOW. You can download it
and be reading it in just a few minutes... it's
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
...and download it now.
And I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. You can see the rest of the programs I've
created to help you meet women, plus watch some
great video clips of them all right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
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>NOTE: I think that the internet is a literal
MIRACLE when it comes to meeting women, practicing
conversations skills, and learning how to create
attraction using only your words, humor, and other
communication. If you'd like to learn some of my
personal secrets for turning the internet into a
dating BONANZA for yourself, then take a minute
and read this:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline/
***QUESTION***
Hey David,
I was wondering if you could offer any wisdom on
what you've gained from writing and responding to
online personal ads. I'm not having a great deal
of luck so far. Specifically, my questions are:
1. How brief should your descriptions of yourself
and/or your ideal catch be? I've heard it said
that "brevity is the soul of wit", but you also
want to be memorable, right?
2. When writing descriptions, should you stick
with C&F? I've noticed that humor often doesn't
translate well in written form, so I wasn't sure
how to go about all that.
3. I think I read in a previous newsletter that
you recommend not posting a picture. At the same
time, I tend to avoid ads without pictures due to
having one too many blind dates which ended with
me throwing a stick and shouting "fetch!" in order
to distract her long enough to get away. Don't you
think that by committing a picture on your ad,
women might pass you up for the same reason? Or am
I mistaken? An apprentice,
J.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You've asked some questions that really require
more of an in-depth treatment... but here are a
few pointers that have taken me YEARS to figure
out:
1) You'll get more responses in general by
replying to personal ads placed by women than you
will by placing your own ad (Unless you're a
master of writing personal ads).
2) If you're going to use the personals, look at
the new ads that are placed daily, and respond as
soon as a woman places her ad. Attractive women
typically get 50-100 responses per DAY to personal
ads, and it's very easy to get overwhelmed. You'll
notice that a lot of women take their ads down
after just a few days... this is why.
3) Be charming and funny (also known as COCKY and
funny) in your replies (or in your ad, if you
write your own). Say things like "I was looking
through all these ads here on the internet
thinking to myself "Look at all the poor,
desperate, lonely women..." and then I saw your ad
and thought to myself "Hey, here's a poor,
desperate, lonely woman that's actually CUTE..."
so I thought I'd write and see if you're as
interesting on the inside as you are in this
picture..."
4) I mentioned in one of recent newsletters that I
got an email from a guy who had his picture taken
with some dolphins... and that he's getting tons
of responses from that. I've never done it myself,
but it sounds like a great idea!
***QUESTION***
Dave, love your book. I have learned more about
women in the last two months than I knew in my
lifetime. The teasing and being cocky/funny really
turns them on. I have know this girl for some time
and we were mostly friends. Just lately she said
to me "I love you R,". Is it ok for me to tell her
I love her too or is it better to say nothing and
just smile which I did so far.
R.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Take a cue from Han Solo...
Say "I know".
You might throw in a sly half-smile to let her
know that you're having fun after you say it.
As far as your question of "Is it OK to tell
her that I love her too?" I can't answer that.
You're at a stage that is past our topic here.
I think that love and relationships are great,
but since this isn't the area that I choose to
talk about, you're going to have to decide for
yourself.
Just don't turn into a wussy... that's bad no
matter what.
***COMMENT***
It seems like a lot of the guys who subscribe to
your newsletter and buy the book - myself included
- are average guys who have trouble with girls
just because they are afraid of getting rejected.
I've got an idea that might help. Get two or three
good friends together and have a 'contest' where
the goal is to get shot down. Spend a day or a
night out in clubs, coffee shops, malls, etc.
going up to girls with the sole intention of
having them reject you, and whoever gets rejected
the most times wins. Try out any approach - good
or bad - you can think of. Be rude, crude, funny,
serious, a nice guy, a jerk, whatever you want,
and take notes on how the girls react. If she
slaps your face, that's fine because that's the
goal. And if she doesn't shoot you down, that's
even better. After a night like this you'll become
a bit 'numb' when you are rejected in the future,
and you'll have a better understanding of how
girls react to being hit on. If necessary go to a
different city for the weekend and try it out
there, so that you aren't afraid of running into
these girls again.
- C.L.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I think that the basic idea is good, but I'd
say that you're probably better off seeing who can
get the most email addresses - instead of seeing
who can get shut down.
If you go out with the specific idea of being
rude, crude, a jerk, etc., I think you're working
on the wrong outcome.
I get what you're saying about how this might
make you "numb" to future rejection...
But I think you'll learn a lot more if you take
the approach of "We're each going to approach 50
women today, and let's see who can get the most
email addresses". Focus on what you want, not what
you don't want.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
First off, I want to thank you for spreading your
wisdom. I bought your book two weeks ago after
reading several of your newsletters, and it was
the answer to most of my prayers. I've gone from
dating a girl maybe two women in a year, to dating
3 women at once, all 3 call me every day, and this
was before I even bought the book, just from the
advice from your emails!! You have definitely
"Doubled" my dating!!
My question, one girl in particular I find really
attractive and the most challenging (which I like)
still has a "Control Freak" boyfriend, with whom I
think she's afraid to break up with. He's the kind
of guy that would threaten to kill himself if she
were to leave him, but basically uses her for sex,
and controls most aspects of her life. Should I
just stop talking to her? Or keep bustin her balls
about why she's still with him? Because I find
myself feeling some sort of sympathy for her, and
its affecting my "cocky and funny" routine (with
her at least).
Thanks for your help!!
C. from MD
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Let me ask you a question...
Why in the world would you want to be with a
woman who has a "suicidal control freak" boyfriend
fetish?
When you meet a woman like this, the warning
bells should be going off in your head... "Danger
Will Robinson, Danger!"
Do yourself a HUGE favor. Find a woman who's
interesting and "challenging" like her that
DOESN'T have a psycho neurotic boyfriend... and
don't turn into one.
***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***
I just wanted to say thank you, from all the women
out here in single land. Out of curiosity, I
clicked on a link from (another website) to see
what all this great advice was about. just from
reading about your "kiss test" I knew you had
figured it out. I like being hit on by a confident
assertive man. I also like a man who can figure it
out that I'm not interested. Honestly, I will
fall over and spread my legs for any man that does
the right things whether he's extremely attractive
or not. I would never tell him how to do it. I
guess that's your job. Anyway, like I said, I just
wanted to thank you. I personally hope I get hit
on in the grocery store by someone who has read
your book!
Thanks,
K.H.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, thank you for your letter. I truly
appreciate your honesty and directness.
Most men can't believe that what you're saying
could actually be true, but as we both know, it
quite often is.
The interesting thing you say (which I agree
with) is:
"I would never tell him how to do it."
In other words, A WOMAN WILL NEVER TEACH A
WUSSY BOY WHO DOESN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO THE SECRETS
OF GETTING HER.
Translation for guys: If you don't know what
you're doing when it comes to women, LEARN.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I have been reading your articles and from other
guys out there trying to improve their macking
skills, your articles and tips are on point on how
to be a mack with the ladies, but I feel that
because of a negative experiences with women in my
teenage and college years, really hold me back
from being the mack that is inside of me along,
now in my mid-twenties, I need to get passed this
negative experiences with women, I have no problem
talking to women or having a conversation, but i
don't have my own place, my income is very low at
this moment, this make it even harder for me,
could you give me some advice to get pass this
fear that because i have very little now plus the
past experience with women in the past, plus I
live in nyc where women are into themselves, and a
man without his own place, car, and little money
are looked at like "why are you talking to me, you
have nothing to offer me."
M.
nyc
>>>MY COMMENTS:
First of all, YES, there are women who will
only talk to you if you have money...
BUT THIS IS NOT THE RULE... IT'S THE EXCEPTION.
If a woman feels the magical emotion of
ATTRACTION, then it matters not how much money you
have.
I used to believe that it was probably only
guys who had nice cars and lots of cash who got to
go out with all the women...
But then, as I got to know more and more guys
who were VERY successful with women. I realized
that it came down to their personalities more than
anything else... including looks, height, money,
etc.
In fact, MOST of the guys who I've met that are
very successful with women aren't rich at all.
You need to learn how to make women feel
ATTRACTION by using your personality. That's the
ticket.
Really.
Go download this right now and read it all:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook/
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave:
I have been reading your material for a few months
now. One of the best things I learned about your
work is how to get e-mail addresses and phone
numbers from women. I have great success at this
point. This has also helped my business. I need
help in two areas that involves taking it to the
next level. I want to meet a nice girl and settle
down. Firstly, how can I figure out which one of
these girls is the BEST for me in terms of
personality and chemistry. My last relationship
lasted a year and a half and did not work because
we were always busting each others chops.
Secondly, I think there is a point when we just
need to stop playing games and be nice to these
women... What do you think?
B. NYC
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, I'm not the relationship expert, so I'm
not going to address how you should choose a woman
to settle down with...
But I will comment on your question of whether
or not there is a point when you should stop
"playing games" and "be nice to these women".
The mind set and techniques that I teach are
not
my idea of a "short term technique to get laid".
Once you start using the methods, you'll find that
women respond to them on an ONGOING basis. In
other words, if you can keep up the charming,
Cocky and Funny attitude, it will keep a woman
feeling attracted to you FOREVER.
"Nice" is not a word that you want associated
with yourself, in my opinion. Women aren't
ATTRACTED to guys who are "nice".
Be interesting, unpredictable... even
thoughtful and original.
But don't be NICE.
Think about it.
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave,
Well, let me start with my story. I'm average guy,
22years old. I always had the fear to approach
beautiful women. I'm funny by nature, but only
with my friends. I've totally changed my behavior
with women, when I've read your book. I now meet
women on every step (bar, caffe, library,...),
using your C&F approach and a lot of them are in
my bed in a week or so. Now the only problem at
the moment is, that all of those women want a
commitment. But I would love to be just a "sex-
buddy";). Of course, they don't want to hear about
that. So after first sex, when I try to explain to
her, what I want, either she gets mad and I can go
;) or I am the biggest male egoist... bla bla bla.
So, tell me, is there any way to do that with
success? Tnx again,
B. from Slovenia
>>>MY COMMENTS:
If you're at that stage where you'd like to use
your newly found success to attract only "sex
buddies"... and you don't want the women you date
to think of you as their "boyfriend", then DON'T
ACT LIKE ONE.
Don't call more than once or twice a week.
Don't stay on the phone for more than 5 or 10
minutes. Don't see her more than once or twice a
week.
In other words, DON'T ACT LIKE A BOYFRIEND.
I know this sounds rather simple, but think
about it...
Women are just as interested in sex as men are.
In my experience, if a woman knows that you're
only interested in sex, she'll be OK with that.
The problems come up when you start calling all
the time, seeing her a lot, and acting like you
care for her...
At this point a woman starts to become
emotionally attached to you. She thinks that
you're becoming her boyfriend.
If you don't want to be a boyfriend, then don't
act like one!
***QUESTION***
Hello,
Your are the man. I have been using your cocky
funny method on girls i already know and see the
difference in the way they act towards me, they
seem to definitely be more interested. My dilemma
is that i run out of cocky comments and little
jokes. For eg i went to the coffee shop yesterday
with one of my buddies and there were two cute
girls in front of us who smiled at us when we
where in line and i looked back and smiled but i
had no idea what to say to them or what to make
fun of and they got what they wanted and left. I
simply had no idea what funny comment to make.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Here's the answer...
List the 10 most common situations that you'd
find yourself meeting women... and list 10 cocky
and funny things to say in each situation.
Next, mentally rehearse each of the comments so
you have them ready!
If you are at the stage where Cocky and Funny
doesn't come "naturally", then you're going to
have to PRACTICE.
Why do Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods make
their sports look EASY? Why do they TOTALLY
dominate all of the other players around them?
Practice, of course.
Stop trying to create magic from nothing, and
start practicing. Practice makes magic.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
Because of my job, I am on the road a lot. Lots of
times I like to drive with the windows down, music
blasting and just taking in the sun. Many times I
find myself waiting at a stop light with a good-
looking girl waiting next to me. Some of these
girls, we make eye contact, others just glance
over. Sometimes I'll drive for miles with the same
girl to the side of me. The problem is I never
really know what to do next. So I guess my
question to you is this:
1. How do I get her to roll down her window? 2.
Once she does, what should I tell her?
I drive an average car (VW Jetta) so I know
they're not looking at that, but I'm just
uncertain how to get her attention.
Thanks for the help.
R. in So Cal
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Oh, you can have a lot of fun with this one.
I have a good friend who can't drive up next to
a woman without flirting. He likes to "waggle his
eyebrows" at every woman he sees.
Next time you're next to a cutie, waggle your
brows and wave. When she smiles, make the old
fashioned motion of rolling down your window to
her, and roll down yours.
Finally, take out your cell phone, point to it,
and say "What's your number?"
I've done variations of this myself, and had
some great fun success with it.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
You ARE da man! Although I have not purchased the
e-book yet, I will soon, as I have seen the magic
work firsthand, just from the newsletters I have
been getting. Check this out! About a week ago, I
send an email to a totally rad chick suggesting
that we meet for coffee. I used the movie "You've
Got Mail" as part of my "schtick", and although it
was "cute" and "funny," I realized later that it
was actually quite "wussy-ish." After getting NO
REPLY for almost a week, I sent her ANOTHER email,
this time busting her balls a bit by saying, "Well
I guess my dazzling good looks and wicked sense of
humor didn't catch your fancy, eh?" The response
was lightning fast and almost instantaneous!!! She
wrote that she had every intention of returning my
email, but she was "out of town" blah blah blah,
and she would meet me for coffee sometime. I
really believe that if I had not sent her that
second email, I never would have gotten a reply to
the first one.
Here's the question (and problem): In addition to
the "ball busting" in my second email, I also told
her I liked her! (a big faux pas, I know, but I
never expected a reply!) She had taught a class of
which I was a student, and I made a comment like,
"Well I'm probably not the first of your students
to have a crush on the teacher." Now that the
cat's out of the bag, how do I diffuse this
damaging admission? I already sent her a reply
email, in which I poured on the cocky/funny, but I
wanted to get your input and hopefully I made the
right choice by my reply.
Thanks Dave!
--C.K. San Francisco, CA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
lol... the best thing you can do is GO MEET 10
MORE WOMEN!!!
Duh!
And what are you doing writing to me asking for
advice on how to un-screw-up your situation... and
you haven't even read my book? Go to:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
RIGHT NOW and get it. You are doing great, you
just need to get some of the details together.
And as for your teacher, STOP SAYING THAT YOU
LIKE HER! And start acting like the Cocky and
Funny guy that make her respond to you!
***QUESTION***
Dear Dave,
I just started receiving your newsletter. And I
was just curious about the letters that are coming
in. Are these letters from real guys or is it
something that 's written by your staff just to
sell your ebook? I can't honestly believe a book
can really do that much for a guy. I get another
newsletter on dating women and this guy doesn't
seem to profess the "cocky" attitude you write
about.
Anyway, just to let you know who I am. I am a 50
yr young man. I'm 5'7" , good shape and health.
Have all my hair and teeth. I'm a nice guy but I
want to shed that image but not be an asshole if
you know what I mean. I don't want to even tell
you how long it's been since I've been laid. Can
your book really help a guy like me? I've been
going on the online dating seen but don't always
see what I want which is a sexy young woman. Also,
how young can I acceptably go. Anything you can
tell me would be a help.
Sign me,
Not getting enough
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I love letters like this one...
OK, to answer your first question... EVERY
SINGLE LETTER THAT I PRINT IN EVERY SINGLE ONE OF
MY NEWSLETTERS IS REAL. I NEVER INVENT THEM.
I have every one of the originals saved to
prove it.
To answer one of your comments of "I can't
believe that a book can really do that much for a
guy"...
IT CAN'T. The BOOK isn't what does it.
It's a combination of the material in the book
and actually TAKING ACTION ON IT AND USING IT.
It's taken me YEARS of trial and error...
trying just about everything under the sun to
learn the things that I've learned. I really went
out there and did the work.
I tried and tested everything I could find...
If you're reading this right now, and it's time
for YOU to get this part of YOUR life handled, and
finally start enjoying the kind of success with
women that you've only dreamed about it the past,
then maybe it's time for you to TAKE ACTION.
If you'd like to get a behind-the-scenes look
into the minds of women, and you'd like to learn
the techniques for attracting women and creating
ATTRACTION that it's taken me literally YEARS to
figure out, then I'd recommend you go and check
out my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.
This program is a "condensed education" that
has taken me a LONG time to organize, prepare, and
create.
Instead of spending years of your OWN time and
spending (or rather WASTING) a lot of money... and
dealing with the pain of trial-and-error, you can
save yourself a LOT of frustration...
This program contains literally HUNDREDS and
HUNDREDS of step-by-step techniques for overcoming
fears and improving your self image, approaching
women, meeting women online, getting dates, and
taking things to a "physical level" smoothly and
without rejection.
You can check out some great free audio and
video clips from it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
And if you haven't downloaded your copy of my
online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need
to go and do that RIGHT NOW. You can download it
and be reading it in just a few minutes... it's
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
...and download it now.
And I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. You can see the rest of the programs I've
created to help you meet women, plus watch some
great video clips of them all right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
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