Friday, September 30, 2016

Why You Should Not Compliment A Woman

 

 

Hi Man,

Guess what... it's time to dive into the mailbag again...

Big news: this time I'm going to include an email that I received from a WOMAN.

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Now, I get a lot of email from female readers, and I include a lot of it in my Mailbag... but this particular email just stuck out, and I think that we can all learn something important from it.

Keep reading, because this is going to get VERY interesting. But right now:

The Big Question: Should You Ever COMPLIMENT A Woman?

To compliment or not to compliment... that is the question.

Women tell us they want us to compliment them. Your mom told you to be nice to girls, right? And we guys like to really turn up the compliments when we like a woman...

But here's the issue: do compliments really create ATTRACTION when you first meet a woman?

Most of the time the answer is no. In fact, I have a word for guys who like to give women lots of compliments when they first meet her. That word is *wussy*.

 

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Okay... now like I said, I recently got an email from a woman about this very topic, and I thought it would be the perfect way to introduce this and explain why compliments are NOT the way to build attraction. Here we go:

Q.I agree that your funny/cocky routine works very well and women are attracted to it. Yet, I have to disagree with you on one aspect, women LOVE to be complimented.

They live for it. Why else, but to get men's attention and be complimented, do they spend hours getting ready, and buy all that sexy clothing?

Sure, their faces light up when you make them laugh or they really have fun. But, how many times have you seen that special girl smile at you and kiss you like there's no tomorrow when you tell her she's the most incredible thing in the world and that she's so beautiful you just can't stop loving her?

Probably never, because you think that's a wuss thing to do. But, you don't know how wrong you are.

J. -IL.

A. You know what, J.? I totally love that smart women like you are out there reading and thinking about my material (especially the Cocky & Funny comment)

I'm going to use your email as an opportunity to break down the things you're talking about into a few specific topics, then address them individually. Here are the three "big ideas" that I'd like to address:

  1. The "big idea" that women love to be complimented.
  2. The "big idea" that women spend all of their time and energy getting ready and fixing themselves up because they want compliments.
  3. The difference between complimenting a "special" girl and complimenting just any girl.

Here are a few things to keep in mind as you read my commentary on this letter and these different topics:

  • We humans (and I'm talking about women in particular here) don't always realize what we really want.
  • We humans don't like to admit what's really going on inside of us, because it can be irrational and illogical.
  • It's very important to realize that there is a critical difference between a girl you've just met or have dated a few times and a special girl in your life.

So, let's talk about the topics individually...

Big Idea #1: "Women Love To Be Complimented"

So, do women love to be complimented? I think so. In fact, I think that many really attractive women feed off of attention and compliments. The more attention and compliments they get, the better and more powerful they feel. It's an ego boost.

But... and it's a BIG but... this doesn't mean that a woman will feel ATTRACTED to you if you give her compliments.

You see, attractive women get compliments in various forms all the time. In fact, they're so used to getting compliments, that's what they expect.

As a matter of fact, if you start talking to an attractive woman and say, "Wow, you're really beautiful. I mean, you're like a goddess... are you a model or an actress?" etc., the most likely response you're going to get is her giving you the cold shoulder.

Why?

Because she got what she needed from you, and you showed her that you're just like every other guy out there that will worship her for her physical beauty.

As a general rule, you always want to avoid being mentally slotted into the "average" and "like all the other guys" category at all cost.

I have started conversations by giving a woman a compliment, but I never let it become part of the actual conversation. If anything, I begin teasing and making fun of her looks as soon as possible, if she's really hot-looking. And I never give the compliment in a way that says, "I'm intimidated because you're obviously very powerful and desirable."

NOTE: If you want to learn how to master the art of "busting" on women and using teasing and Cocky humor to create ATTRACTION, then you should go here and check this out (and make sure you watch the videos):

Cocky Comedy

In the meantime, let's move on to:

Big Idea #2: "Women Spend All Of Their Time And Energy Getting Ready, Fixing Themselves Up, And Dressing Sexy To Get Compliments"

Well. A few years ago, when I was first learning about how to be successful with women, a good friend of mine said something that totally shocked me.

He said, "Women don't dress up for men, they dress up for each other."

I was stunned. I couldn't understand the logic behind this for the life of me. It still makes me shake my head when I think about it.

As it happens, I lived in Southern California for a few years (San Diego and Los Angeles). This is a place where beautiful women from all over the world come to seek fame and fortune.

I was able to see things and learn things here that would have taken much longer to learn if I had lived in other places, because I can see how attractive women interact with each other more often.

If you put a group of attractive women together in a club or bar, and watch them carefully, you'll see something interesting begin to happen... The women will start doing "catty" things, like looking each other up and down with disgusted looks, making negative comments to their friends about how other women look, and trying to intimidate other women with their eyes.

Most men would never notice this subtle communication that's going on between women, but if you look for it, you'll find it.

The fact is that women don't like to compete with each other on the football field... they compete to be the most attractive.

Men could really care less what a woman is wearing or how she's dressed for the most part. Sure, it's nice to see a woman dressed well, but it's just not that important. But for women it's a whole different matter entirely.

Women, and especially attractive women, don't like the idea that another woman is getting more attention than her. And women can tell very quickly if another woman is more attractive... this leads to "bitch looks," negative comments, and other amazing displays.

To summarize: women don't spend a lot of time fixing themselves up to get compliments, they do it to compete with and impress other women.

Still don't believe it? Ask a few attractive, well-dressed women about this and they'll tell you.

Finally...

Big Idea #3: The Difference Between Complimenting A Girl You Don't Know Very Well And That "Special" Girl

First off, let's get something straight. For the purposes of answering J's email, the topic at hand is "women and dating."

Again - that's women and dating. It's not "women you're in a relationship with" or "special girls" or anything of the sort.

After you've gone out with a woman for a few months or so, and she proves to you beyond the shadow of a doubt that she's a great PERSON, then I think it's great to consider making her your special girl. (You can learn all about how to do THAT right here.)

And yes, the dynamics change at that point. You can be nicer... you can be more complimentary... you can do more thoughtful things. At this stage this kind of thing will have a different meaning (but don't EVER turn into a wussy!).

As I mentioned, if you start talking to an attractive woman and immediately start with the "You are beautiful and I'm not worthy" routine, you shoot yourself in the foot.

There's a huge opportunity in these first meeting situations, but most guys never even consider it because it's not what comes naturally.

The thing to do when you meet an attractive woman is to actually TEASE AND BUST on her a bit, rather than giving her compliments. This effectively scrambles her whole program and causes her to lose her composure. It takes her off guard and shakes her out of her world... so you can actually have a conversation.

I wrote a newsletter a while back about a guy who walks up to women and says, "Your fly is open," then walks away. The women usually come and find him to say, "You're a jerk"... and then he laughs at them... and then the women usually wind up going out with him.

Verrrrrry interesting. But... do you think it would work the same way if he walked up to women and said, "You're amazingly beautiful" and then walked away?

I think not.

So, in summary, it's true... women do in fact like compliments. But, if you want to make a woman feel that magical feeling of ATTRACTION for you, then you might think twice about giving them too early on.

Women like compliments that they have to work for a lot more than the ones that just come to them.

Now...if you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself, "You know, I need to learn this stuff about how to meet and attract women so I can get rid of that insecure and fearful feeling I have," then YOU'RE RIGHT!

Now...if you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself, "You know, I need to learn this stuff about how to meet and attract women so I can get rid of that insecure and fearful feeling I have," then YOU'RE RIGHT!

ANY man Can Save Tons Of Time, Energy And PAIN By Learning The Skill Of Creating ATTRACTION

Unfortunately, most guys never take the time to do it... and they wind up going their whole lives wishing that they could attract the kinds of women that they want.

Well, I used to be one of the guys who didn't know what he was doing with women. Now I'm one of the guys who can go out anytime, in any situation and attract women.

What's the difference?

I took the time to learn. And if you'd like to learn, too, then I recommend you learn the things that I learned FIRST.

It's taken me a long time to figure all this stuff out, and it's also taken a lot of time, effort and energy on my part to put it all on paper and video... so that any guy can learn from the things I've discovered.

I'd like to personally invite you to check out my materials. In a matter of hours you can learn things that took me years to figure out... all from the comfort and privacy of your own home.

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   Also -- if you tend to give compliments because you are looking for APPROVAL from women - then I recommend that you also click here:

  

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Lastly, if you haven't read my original eBook called Double Your Dating, then you need to do that RIGHT NOW. It's the foundation for everything I teach in these newsletters, and for everything I teach in my Advanced Series.

It's a "must read" and you can download it online and be reading it in about 5 minutes... get it right here, right now.

   I'll talk to you again soon.

 

   Your friend,

 

David DeAngelo

 

 

  

 

P.S. Here's a tip that will CHANGE EVERYTHING about how you feel about approaching women...

Did you know that there's actually a word-for-word sentence that you can say to ANY woman... ANY time... ANYWHERE that you happen to be... that instantly makes her start imagining herself as YOUR girlfriend?

These words make a woman long to be with you... they make her think about you when you're not around... often, they'll even make her CALL YOU UP to get more of the same feeling you gave her by saying these words.

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Man - Do You Know How To Pass Her Tests?

Hey Man,
 
In case you missed my email on Wednesday, check this out - I just released the 3rd video in my amazing new series about attracting women…

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Basically, it all comes down to this: do you want to start meeting amazing women?

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We all know the answers to these questions.

I just wish I had this information sooner. You will, too. So really… watch this video.

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Wednesday, September 28, 2016

The Secret To Making A Woman Want You

 

 Hey Man,

 

Listen... long before I ever learned how to attract women, I used to watch how those guys we call "Players" would walk into a room, leave with the woman of their choice, and make it look so damn easy.

 

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I used to think to myself that it would be SO fantastic if I could do that... but I figured that these guys must be good looking or rich... or have some secret something that I didn't have.

 

But later, after I learned the skill of meeting women, I realized that the most important thing they had that I didn't was just that: the learn-able SKILL of knowing how to ATTRACT women.

 

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No matter what you'll hear from certain so-called "experts," there's actually a proven, easily learn-able "formula" for turbocharging your love life that 99% of men (AND all those "experts") have NO CLUE exists.

Guess what else: every guy who's lucky enough to learn this simple formula can't believe they wasted so much of their lives NOT succeeding with women!

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So here's the bottom line:

Absolutely ANY Man Can Learn To Succeed With Women

I'm living proof. But if you don't learn how to create attraction like I did, then you will just continue to beat your head against the wall your entire life and still not have any success.

Thing is, I also believe that you can learn FAST how to create powerful attraction in women.

I mean REAL fast.

And the fastest, simplest, most SUCCESS-PROVEN way for you to learn how to create MASSIVE ATTRACTION is to read my downloadable eBook called Attraction Isn't A Choice.

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   I'll talk to you again soon.

 

   Your friend,

 

David DeAngelo

 

 

  
 
 
 

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Ladies... Is He Pulling Away? Quick, Do This!

Why Men Pull Away (And What Women Can Do About It)
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Have you ever wondered why men pull away?

After being together for a few weeks with a guy you're just dating, or a few months, or even a man who you've been in an intimate, loving relationship with for years...

It's only a matter of time before men somehow, with no reason whatsoever, stop showing that they care... they stop showing that they LOVE us.

They become silent.

They pull away.

And this isn't a rare case at all.

It happens with almost every man.

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Sometimes they say they've gotten so busy with work. Other times, men say that they just have a lot on their mind and they need some time to "work things out."

But after dating coach Slade Shaw asked his entire subscriber's list full of men about why they pull away from some women, while being totally devoted to a certain type of woman, (and after receiving over 700 responses)...

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He discovered 3 things that gave a concrete explanation as to why men pull away from women they love.

The first thing has something to do with what all men in general look for in a woman.

The second thing is about what men in general actually NEED from a woman.

And the third discovery is what "pulling away" means for a man, and the very logical reason why he does it.

Slade Shaw explains it much better than I can in his presentation.

HURRY! Watch This ASAP! <=== This Could Be The Decisive Moment That Dictates Whether He Continues Pulling Away, Or If You're Able To Do Something To Pull Him Back In Love

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Thursday
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- How To Make Love To A Woman With 3 Sexual Mind-Sets

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- If He's Pulling Away, DO NOT Do These 2 Things... (And What To Do Instead)
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- The "Do-Over" Communication Technique

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