Monday, October 29, 2012

Video Tip: What It Really Takes To Make Women Feel Attraction

URGENT ALERT: I just recorded a personal video message to answer the #1 QUESTION that's baffling almost EVERY GUY that I talk to:

"Why do all the great women I know always seem to go for some OTHER guy?"

Click the video below to GET THE "SHOCKING" ANSWER straight from yours truly:

If you can't see the video above, click here:

Hey Man,

Feeling frustrated that all the great women you know are attracted to (or even CHASE after) other guys...

... while they won't even give YOU the time of day?

Sorry, dumb question...

Of course you're frustrated.

It's why you're hanging with ME right now.

But it's also why I'm sending you an URGENT VIDEO TIP today...

I want to make sure that you hear me LOUD AND CLEAR when I say this:

What it *really* takes to create feelings of attraction in a woman...

... is TOTALLY DIFFERENT than what YOU probably think it is!

I just can't say it enough:

Making a woman feel attraction does *NOT* depend on your looks.

It does *NOT* depend on how "sweet" and "nice" you are.

It does *NOT* depend how rich you are.

Making a woman "feel it" for you DOES depend on just ONE THING...

Click here, and I'll personally explain the illogical "magic secret" of making women start feeling it for YOU:

Once you get the message, I know it will be the beginning of some VERY big changes in YOUR love life...

Your friend,

David D.









Sunday, October 21, 2012

Get Women Like A Rock Star

Do you consider yourself "shy"?

Do you stammer and hem and haw (and create INSTANT REJECTION with women) because you can't "get the words out" to let the "real you" shine through?

If so, there's a simple, WORDLESS body language "trick" you can use to say it all for you in the first 30 seconds...

...and SPARK irresistible feelings of attraction in a woman that GUARANTEE SUCCESS.

Learn about it here:

Hey Man,

As you know, I'm all about getting SPECTACULAR RESULTS with women.

And I'm about getting those results *FAST*.

That's why I want to share a KILLER TECHNIQUE with you right now... that you can use TONIGHT at a bar or club... and immediately attract not just 1 woman... or even 2 women...

...but a whole GROUP OF WOMAN, all drawn straight to you, as if by MAGIC.

You heard right... I'm talking about magnetically attracting MULTIPLE WOMEN to YOU without ever saying a word. As if you're suddenly a total "ROCK STAR".

Sound good?

Excellent.

Then without further delay, let's get to it.

Here's what I want you to do TONIGHT to experience that "ROCK STAR" feeling...

First of all, call up a buddy or two. Tell them to meet you at a bar or club near you...

...and be sure to bring a CAMERA with you.

It can be a stand-alone digital, or built into your cell phone. Doesn't matter. Either is good...

...as long as the camera has a WORKING FLASH.

And that's it.

It's all you're going to need to experience magnetic, ROCK-STAR-LIKE SUCCESS with women like you've never dreamed of.

But more on that in a minute.

Right now, back to what you're going to do TONIGHT...

You and your buddies are going to go into the bar or club, and you're going to take a good look around.

When you do, you'll notice something right away...

99% of the single guys in there will probably look JUST PLAIN MISERABLE.

Like they're waiting to see the dentist or something.

They act like deer in the headlights.

They BROADCAST that they're totally clueless.

Some will have "wussy" and "dork" written all over their faces.

Most will look like they can't wait to get home, I guarantee it.

Know why?

Because THEY'RE NOT HAVING FUN.

The fact is, for most guys, going out to a bar or club to "pick up women" is about as enjoyable as a root canal.

It's tragic.

And it's disastrous.

But make no mistake:

Every women in the room -- especially the ATTRACTIVE ones -- will pick up on the miserable "vibe" most guys put out there.

Without even trying, women can sense "LOSER" coming off these guys, like a bad radio station playing a song they just can't turn off.

And guess what...

*YOU* need to be ALL OVER THIS SITUATION.

You should be TAKING ADVANTAGE of the fact that almost every guy in the room is killing his chances with these women before he ever opens his mouth.

The fact is, 99% of the guys in a bar or club are so busy looking miserable and sabotaging themselves that it creates an unbelievable OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU.

And here's what you MUST do to take advantage of it...

Make ONE SIMPLE MOVE that puts the spotlight of ATTENTION squarely on YOU.

How?

Well, remember that camera you brought?

As you hang out with your friends, start snapping a few pictures.

Of the bar.

Of each other.

Whatever.

As the FLASHES go off, start to laugh.

Snap a shot of the bartender. Show him.

High-five each other. Laugh some more.

In other words...

SHOW THAT YOU'RE HAVING FUN.

And listen:

At this point, DO NOT PAY ANY ATTENTION to any of the women in the place.

Don't look at them.

Don't even glance their way.

Just HAVE FUN with your friends.

And THAT'S ALL.

This will slowly begin to create a "rock star" energy around you that's positively MAGNETIC.

Before you know it, you'll be drawing people over who want to know "What's going on over here?"

Both men and women, all wondering, "Why are THOSE guys having so much fun... and what am I MISSING OUT on?"

In fact, there was a time when I did this on a friend's suggestion, and I couldn't believe the crowd we drew!

It took a little time, but as curiosity built, more and more folks joined in.

Soon, it really was like there was a rock show going on or something!

It was AMAZING.

Of course, all YOU should care about at this point is how to connect with THE WOMEN you've attracted.

More on that in a moment -- PLUS A "BONUS" WAY TO OVERCOME REJECTION WHEN YOU ASK FOR NUMBERS.

But first, let's look at what's going on here...

First off, that camera you brought is really just a prop.

It has no "power" on its own, any more than a rock star's clothes and hair do...

...that is, until he finally gets up ON STAGE.

At that point, he becomes the CENTER OF ATTENTION. And then connecting with women in the crowd is like shooting fish in a barrel.

You see, it's really about the SIGNALS you can give off by becoming the CENTER OF ATTENTION and HAVING FUN.

These signals create an absolutely irresistible "vibe" that is 100% GUARANTEED to draw women to you.

Why?

Because, when you're GENUINELY having a good time, you AUTOMATICALLY generate 80% of the body language needed to CREATE ATTRACTION.

Without even trying, you BROADCAST biologically proven expressions, movements, and eye contact that MAKE WOMEN INTERESTED IN YOU.

You put out signals that cause women to be naturally intrigued and curious about you.

In other words... when you're the center of attention and having fun, you start to act like a rock star...

...WITHOUT EVEN HAVING TO THINK ABOUT IT!

Without saying a word, you make them lower their defenses NATURALLY.

Without even realizing it, you make women WANT to have a good time with you. And usually (just like it happens for rock stars) WOMEN will approach YOU to make it happen!

Again -- all without YOU having to do or say a thing.

This is really the bottom line...

The reason I emphasize using body language to be more successful with women is because I know how scary it can be to approach a woman.

Truth is, I used to be scared to death to even try.

Even worse, that fear and anxiety used to be written all over my face. Women could literally read it from a mile away -- and REJECT ME before I ever said a word!

It was a total train wreck.

But once I discovered the SIMPLE SECRETS of using body language to wordlessly CREATE ATTRACTION, here's what I learned fast...

I could get more women than I could handle... I'm talking ROCK STAR NUMBERS OF WOMEN... simply because I was "broadcasting" that I was the kind of man women NATURALLY respond to.

And once YOU can do it, too, women will "feel it" for you right away (instead of being turned off by the way you stammer and fumble with "Pick-up lines").

And then, guess what...

You've already won more than half the battle, because women decide in the first few moments whether there's any chance you might be "dating material."

In other words, give off the wrong signals on approach, and you'll be dead on arrival. Period.

But learn how to send the right messages, and you're golden.

You can get more details about all that right here:

But in the meantime, I also want to throw out a "bonus" tip about how to TURN IT AROUND if things start to go badly when you start talking to a woman.

I actually learned this one from a guy who put "Cocky & Funny" to work in this situation, and I have to tell you, it works like magic...

Let's say you've successfully created that "magnetic" atmosphere of having fun and "enjoying yourself".

You've started drawing your "rock star" crowd, including some women you'd love to ask out.

Now, you focus on one and you're ready to get her number...

...but when you ask for it, SHE TURNS YOU DOWN.

Gulp.

It happens.

But YOU have to realize that it's no big deal.

You won't die. You don't have to run crying for mommy.

And when it does happen, it doesn't mean you've necessarily done something wrong.

So let's pretend a woman turns you down. Tells you she doesn't give out her number, or gives you some other excuse.

First, from the perspective of USING BODY LANGUAGE to create ATTRACTION, here's what you MUST NOT to do:

DO NOT look hurt.

DO NOT look angry.

DO NOT look like you even care in the least.

In other words, DO NOT give off signals that you're a "loser".

That means no slumping shoulders.

No pouty frowns.

No "wussy" vibes of having been "defeated" yet again.

Instead, here's what this guy trained himself to do when a woman says no...

He smiles at her.

He flashes a "devil may care" look.

Then he turns to his friend, laughs loudly and says "YES!"

You following this?

Without missing a beat, he acts like he's practically CELEBRATING being rejected.

Again - he does NOT give off the slightest body language or signals that he's hurt or angry.

And when you do this, too, here's what will happen:

The woman will be like, "What? Huh?"

She'll be stunned and dazed, because this is a response she NEVER hears from a man.

Immediately, you start to look like a kind of man she's never encountered before...

...and that's a VERY good thing.

So... next, my friend turns back to the woman and says: "My buddy bet me that I wouldn't get a rude rejection from a beautiful woman like you. Now he has to by me a drink."

I love it.

Suddenly, this woman's like, "Wow, I just played into this guy's plan. I did exactly what he predicted I would do."

And when that happens, all of her "power" is suddenly SHIFTED TO YOU.

And once you can successfully do THAT, I guarantee it: You can convert almost ANY rejection into interest and intrigue from a woman.

Of course, after that, it's up to you to say and do EXACTLY the right things to amplify that new spark of interest. To dial it up into full-blown feelings of ATTRACTION.

Need a refresher on the basics of how to do it?

You can get them quickly and easily right here:

But the lesson is this:

Any guy who comes across as "naturally having fun" with women does NOT have to be rich and handsome. He NEVER has to "convince" a woman to feel attracted to him with memorized "pickup lines".

This is the kind of man who attracts women with seemingly NO EFFORT... all because he's letting his BODY LANGUAGE do his talking for him.

And that's why I want YOU to learn absolutely EVERYTHING you need to know about the "rock-star" power of BODY LANGUAGE, too.

I want you to feel like it's time to stop dreaming... and start EXPERIENCING REAL SUCCESS success with beautiful women.

Here's what I have in mind...

Take a look at my world-famous "BODY LANGUAGE FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN AND DATING" home-study video course...

...absolutely RISK-FREE.

The fact is, my "Body Language" program is 100% GUARANTEED to teach you what you need to know about harnessing the incredible power of BODY LANGUAGE... and taking your success with women to an unbelievable new level.

I do NOT want you to miss out on this.

In the course, you'll learn how to get mind- bending results with women, as if by MAGIC, all without saying a word.

You'll learn:

--How to use the 6 basic body language "signals" to create feelings of IRRESISTIBLE ATTRACTION in ANY woman, right away.

--How to use body language to more than make up for your "shyness"... and make a woman feel mysteriously drawn to you without any conversation whatsoever!

--5 hugely powerful ways to FORCE your body to project "primal dominance"... to literally trigger the "animal" magnetism that makes men respect you and women NEED to approach you.

--How to project sexuality in a way that turns women on INSTANTLY, to the point they can't stop imagining sex with you.

--The 10 "deadly body language mistakes" you MUST not make -- but that MOST guys do anyway and blow their chances (If you've ever been rejected and couldn't explain why, it's probably because you made one of these.)

Plus MUCH, MUCH MORE. So listen..

Using BODY LANGUAGE is simply the FASTEST, EASIEST WAY to turbocharge your success with women, bar none.

That's why using just a few of these tips, tools, and techniques will bring you instant, mind- blowing results -- with practically no EFFORT ON YOUR PART.

In fact, you'll probably start to believe it's all happening by "magic."

So... ready to start getting some of that effortless "ROCK STAR" ACTION?

Then there's just no two ways about it... You need to click here:

Then let me know what happens when YOU master the irresistible, unstoppable power of body language...

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. There's a "SECRET WEAPON" that all the "naturals" use to make women react in a FRIENDLY, RECEPTIVE way when being approached.

This "secret weapon" is such a GAME-CHANGER for "shy" guys that if YOU have trouble starting conversations with women, you need to learn this technique RIGHT NOW.

Click here to get it:









Monday, October 15, 2012

Competition From Other Men - How To Handle It

Quick-Tip #11: HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN WANT YOU WITHOUT SAYING A WORD

Make 5 small tweaks to the way that you carry yourself (in other words, how you stand and walk).

These will automatically cause your body to project what's called PRIMAL DOMINANCE.

When you do, it's scientific:

You trigger feelings in a woman that she can neither HELP nor RESIST...a literal animal attraction that draws her to YOU (whether she wants to meet a man right now or not).

Click here to make it happen TONIGHT:

***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

I am recently divorced and found myself having a hard time making connections with women after being in a 9-year relationship. Before I met my ex-wife I considered myself as a "player" and had little trouble finding girls to go out with. After being out of the scene for so long, I had lots of trouble trying to get back in to the swing of things. Your ebook and emails have instantly put me back in the game and I am now getting dates with very attractive women! It's been amazing!! Thank You!

Now for the question. All these attractive women have brought something into my dates that I am not used to, Men (Cock Blockers)! Currently, I am dating this "bomb-shell" occasionally and when we go out on a date, men will hit on her as soon as they get a chance. If I turn my back for second, some guy will try to make eye contact or say something to her. I don't blame the guys because she is very hot, but how do I deal with this in a way that shows I am 100% confident? Typically, I just laugh and continue to have a good time by ignoring the lame ass attempts to pick up on my date, but there has to be a way that I can turn this around to make me look more confident in her eyes.

You're the man,

B from Colorado

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well then...welcome back!

I've noticed that the period after breaking up with a long-term girlfriend or spouse is often a difficult one.

I think it's easy for men (and women) to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR when ending that relationship...

"What's going to happen?"

"Will I ever meet another woman?"

"How do I get started?"

...etc.

I can remember breaking up with long-term girlfriends in years past, and feeling an empty, fearful, LONELY combination of emotions in my gut that was HORRIBLE.

That ALONE feeling is enough to cause a lot of problems.

Add to that, not knowing where to start, what to do, or how to "get your game back" if you had it in the past, and you usually get a bad situation.

I've learned that knowing how to go out anytime and meet women has a couple of MAJOR benefits when it comes to this area:

1) When you know that you can meet women anytime you want, it makes you stop acting so NEEDY and CLINGY in a relationship. Most needy and clingy Wuss behaviors are rooted in the FEAR that you'll never be able to find another woman.

2) When it comes to ENDING a relationship, this skill makes things MUCH easier. Too many guys stay in relationships that are bad for them, and are afraid to END a relationship because of that deeply-rooted insecurity that comes from not knowing how to walk out the door anytime, anywhere and meet women. When you know how to do this, you won't try to hold on like a girly-man, sacrifice your own respect and dignity, pleading and begging, and ultimately make the situation much worse than it would have been if you would have just walked away.

In short, what I'm trying to say is that I think understanding this area called "How to attract women" is KEY to having a good relationship.

When you have that inner confidence and KNOWING, it makes you more attractive...period.

Now let's talk about what to do when there is competition from other guys...

First I want to talk about what I believe is at the ROOT of the problem:

1) INSECURITY.

2) JEALOUSY.

When you are insecure, you're always wondering if some other guy is going to come along and steal your girl.

This often shows up as a combination of feelings that make you worry about losing your girl, and at the same time worrying about not being able to find another one if you DO lose this one.

This is a BAD, BAD thing because it then CLOUDS YOUR THINKING, and creates an illusion that the woman you're with is BETTER than she is, and that you're WORSE than you are.

We're talking about some deep issues here, but this is the stuff that triggers the ULTIMATE WUSS types of behaviors.

Then, as if things weren't bad enough, you go out with your girl, and other guys start hitting on her right in front of you.

This triggers MORE insecurity, and then the REAL problem...JEALOUSY.

Jealousy is an incredibly powerful emotion.

It often leads people to KILL people they love.

One scientist wrote an entire book about Jealousy, and basically claimed that it was the most powerful and important emotion ever! (The book is called "The Dangerous Passion"... referring to jealousy)

When you're out with your girl, you turn around to order a drink, and when you turn BACK around there's some guy talking to her with that "I'd love to take you home and do things that the lord forbids", it can trigger a few emotions...

This is very natural. Animals have this same response in similar situations. I personally believe that we come pre-wired with BOTH of these things:

- We come pre-wired to want women that other men already have (Don't covet thy neighbor's wife).

- We come pre-wired to feel jealousy if we suspect that our spouse is cheating or if we think that someone is going to take them from us.

Again, normal and natural stuff.

If Yoda were here, he'd probably say:

"Jealousy is useless...

...Jealousy leads to anger, anger leads to INSECURE WUSSY BEHAVIOR... and insecure Wussy behavior leads to the DARK SIDE."

Now, jealousy doesn't always lead to insecure WUSSY behavior, sometimes it leads to insecure DUMB ASS behavior, like getting into a fight, or shooting someone.

Some men enjoy fights and violence.

And some women have no problem dating a man who likes to beat other men up (or beat her up).

I personally think that violence and hurting other people is the IGNORANT way to deal with things.

But, I also know that there are a lot of guys out there that don't share my views.

The POINT I'm trying to make is that insecurity and jealousy make people do all kinds of stupid and thoughtless things.

These emotions take over your mind and body, and can trigger some of the most short-sighted behaviors you'll ever experience.

These are complex emotions that have evolved over millions and millions of years...and they're not going away anytime soon. In many cases, they literally take control of your mind and body.

For instance...

Let's say you've just broken up with your girlfriend or wife, and it took you a long time to finally get a date with an attractive woman. Maybe you were feeling insecure and didn't know if you could meet another woman, and let's say that the breakup was hard on you as well.

Let's say you're out at a bar with your new date and you excuse yourself to use the boy's room... and when you get back, there are TWO big, handsome guys talking to your date, and she's laughing hysterically at what they're saying.

What would most guys do in this situation?

THEY'D FREAK. That's what.

All kinds of fear, jealousy, insecurity, etc. would INSTANTLY take over, and there would be thoughts of her wanting to be with these guys, them taking her away, etc.

And what do most guys actually DO in one of these situations?

They walk over, act nervous, and try to take the girl away from the situation. And they make the mistake of making it OBVIOUS that they're all freaked out, intimidated, jealous, and insecure.

This, of course, only makes the other guys feel more powerful, and makes the woman realize that she's with an insecure WUSS.

It becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy, in most cases.

As a side note: I have met and know of guys who actually ENJOY picking up women who are out with other guys. It's a game to them.

And they've found that it's EASY, because most men are insecure, and most women don't want to be with a WUSS...

So what's the answer here?

What's the best thing to do when a guy is making his move on your girl?

Well... let's start from a little BEFORE that.

And before I give you my take, I want to recommend that you ALSO get your hands my "On Being A Man... Who Naturally Attracts Women" program. This program will help you develop a DEEP and important part of yourself... that will help fix some of the issues we're talking about here.

You can get all the details about it here:

Onward...

The best thing you can do in one of these situations is what you do BEFORE it ever happens... and it's a combination of things:

1) Realize that there's nothing to be insecure and jealous about, and that these things only lead to fear and loss.

2) Get your game in shape with women. Get yourself to the point where you can meet women in ANY situation. This way you always know DEEP DOWN that if any woman you're with ever decides to leave, you can turn around and start meeting women. This eliminates insecurity.

3) Mentally prepare. Take some time to imagine that you're in one of these situations, and notice the feelings you have. Go over it in your mind until you can think about it without having any negative emotions triggered.

And here's what to do when you're actually IN the situation...

1) EXPECT IT. If you start dating hot women, other men will hit on them, GUARANTEED. It's part of life, man. You must expect that it's going to happen and not be surprised when it does.

2) Learn how to have FUN with it. Most guys have no game at all...and it's kind of funny to watch and listen to them. I enjoy watching guys try to meet women, because they FAIL miserably in most cases. I like to wait until a guy is finished trying to pick up on the girl I'm with, and then get her to share the details so I can laugh.

3) Suggest that she date the guy. One of my favorite things to do is say, "Hey, you guys would make a cute couple...I think you should go for him." Of course, this is all said in a light, fun way.

4) If you suspect that the girl you're with is actually TRYING to make you jealous, talk to other women. If you actually think that a woman is deliberately trying to make you jealous, you must do some thinking as well. Some women enjoy making men compete over them and you probably don't want to be with one of these women. They're a pain. But if you think it's just a typical situation and the girl is trying to figure out if you "really" like her (because you'll get jealous if you do), then just turn around and start a conversation with a group of girls...and wait for her to come and find you.

The point I'm making is that you MUST get over that fear/insecurity/jealousy issue, and realize that there is nothing to be afraid of.

The only power that other guys will have with your date is the power that you GIVE them... so don't give them any power by acting like a WUSS. Keep your power for yourself. The main reason that other guys try to hit on your girl is because they don't have one themselves. Remember that.

...and if you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself, "You know, I need to learn this stuff about how to meet and attract women so I can get rid of that insecure and fearful feeling I have" then YOU'RE RIGHT!

I think that every man should invest in himself and learn this skill.

Unfortunately, most guys never take the time and invest in themselves... and they wind up going their whole lives WISHING that they could attract the kinds of women that they want.

Well, I used to be one of the guys who didn't know what he was doing with women. Now I'm one of the guys who can go out anytime, in any situation and attract women.

What's the difference?

I TOOK THE TIME TO LEARN.

And if you'd like to learn then I recommend you learn the things that I learned FIRST.

It's taken me a long time to figure all this stuff out, and it's also taken a lot of time, effort, and energy on my part to put it all down on paper and on video...so that any guy can learn from the things I've discovered.

I'd like to personally invite you to check out my materials. In a matter of hours you can learn things that it took me YEARS to figure out...all from the comfort and privacy of your own home.

My Advanced Dating Techniques Program has over 12 full hours of me teaching live...all recorded and edited in high-quality digital video streaming format that you can watch right now, online. It contains literally HUNDREDS of great ideas for meeting and dating women... and it's probably the single best investment you can make in your dating life.

My eBook "Double Your Dating" is the FOUNDATION for everything I teach in these newsletters, and for everything I teach in my Advanced Series. It's a "must read" and you can download it online and be reading it in about 5 minutes...

The Advanced Series is available for immediate viewing here:

And the eBook is available for immediate reading here:

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Make sure you take a minute and look through all the different programs I've created to help you learn how to meet and attract women. You can see every program I've created right here, plus watch free video clips of each one of them...







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Tuesday, October 9, 2012

The Words I Swore I'd Never Say...

Did you know...the BEST WAY to spark INSTANT ATTRACTION in a beautiful woman doesn't rely on "tricks", "techniques" or "pick-up lines"?

The fact is, do just 1 simple thing, and you won't even have to THINK about making it happen...the hottest women on the planet will actually come to YOU.

Ready to discover the #1 secret of mind-blowing success with "Total 10" women? Then go here now:

Hey Man,

We have to talk. I mean, like, right now.

I recently came to a realization... and it's going to make me say something that I'VE NEVER SAID BEFORE.

In fact, once upon a time, I swore that I'd NEVER say these particular words at all. Ever.

So I have to admit, I'm a little nervous about all this.

So be gentle with me.

Let's ease into it this way...

After talking to so many men who can't get dates with the women they REALLY want (or can't get dates with ANY women at all) the biggest obstacle these men face became obvious.

Time after time, the reason for their failure was EXACTLY the same:

You guessed it...

It's FEAR.

Most men get nervous at just the *thought* of talking to a beautiful woman.

They're afraid they won't know what to say. That they'll hem and haw, or get tongue-tied.

They're afraid they'll be humiliated.

They're afraid they'll be insulted, laughed at and mocked.

Usually, they have so much fear that they never even try to talk to an attractive woman, let alone get a date with one.

So... what DO these guys do instead?

They make excuses for themselves.

They tell themselves that they're not good- looking enough.

That they don't have a cool enough car or job.

That "Total 10" women are only interested in rich, powerful guys.

Listen... I know these excuses well. Because I've BEEN THERE.

I lied to myself the exact same way... for YEARS AND YEARS.

But I'm here to tell you right now...

These excuses for failure with beautiful women are total B.S.

They're a smoke screen.

They're NOT REAL, and it does NOT have to be this way.

How do I know?

Because, like I said, I've been there...

But I finally learned the real truth:

When it comes to approaching and getting dates with highly attractive women, my fear was way out of whack with THE REALITY.

The sad fact was...before I understood what it took to BECOME THE KIND OF MAN THAT THESE WOMEN WANT... my fear was the only REAL obstacle stopping me from getting dates with them!

But, after years of not getting women, I finally got tired of watching other guys go home with the kind of women that I went home alone and... shall we say... fantasized about.

And I finally decided to do something about it.

I decided that the BEST way to overcome my fears was to get all "Nike" on the situation, and "JUST DO IT."

So, like some kind of kamikaze pilot, I started approaching women. All the time. Everywhere.

Of course, always expecting them to turn into monsters before my eyes.

Expecting them to hiss and spit at me.

Expecting them to do everything they could to blow me up or shoot me down.

But guess what?

The more that I approached these women and tried to start conversations, the more I realized something.

Yes, in the beginning, I didn't get any dates (more on the reasons for that in a moment). But here's the thing:

The smoke finally cleared, and I finally could see THE REAL TRUTH about all this. And that was...

There was actually NOTHING TO FEAR about approaching beautiful women.

Nothing at all.

I found that, if you approach these women in a positive, respectful way, they will almost ALWAYS respond positively to you in return.

Like I said, you may not get an actual date right off the bat (at least, not until you learn EXACTLY what you need to do to make it happen...) but these women definitely won't turn into "monsters".

They won't try to humiliate you.

They won't try make you feel bad.

In fact, most of the time if they're not interested, they'll go out of their way NOT to blow you up or shoot you down.

They'll actually bend over backwards NOT to hurt your feelings.

They'll say something like, "That's so nice of you, but I have a boyfriend" or something similar.

They'll probably even smile at you.

Awesome, right?

But why am I telling you this?

I'm telling you because, right now, I can almost guarantee it...

The #1 thing preventing you from getting amazing women...and possibly even keeping you from CHANGING YOUR WHOLE LIFE because of it... is your FEAR.

That's why I need you to understand right now, before you waste any more time being "afraid", that ELIMINATING YOUR FEAR IS EASIER THAN YOU EVER IMAGINED...

...once you have the tools in your "mental arsenal" to do it.

That in mind (and before I get to those WORDS I SWORE I'D NEVER SAY) here are 3 quick tips to help you overcome your fear of being rejected by beautiful women.

These are quick, easy, and you can try them out tonight.

And after you do, I promise...you'll begin to see a new world of possibilities.

Here we go...

#1) START BY JUST WATCHING

The first thing I want you to do is go out to a bar or club. Alone. Find a seat at the bar where things are busy.

In fact, make sure you visit a place that is REALLY busy, so you can see a lot of people interacting.

And just WATCH other men.

Observe exactly how, when, and where they approach the most beautiful women in the room.

And pay close attention.

You'll begin to pick out the guys who approach a lot of women, asking them to dance, buying them drinks, etc.

Watch what happens. Note what works and what doesn't, right there in front of your own eyes.

Soon enough, you'll be able to see for yourself that most of the time, even if the woman isn't interested, nothing bad happens.

And seeing the reality of these interactions will start to reprogram your mind IMMEDIATELY.

You'll realize that women don't usually "reject" a guy.

Even in the most intense situations, even after they're "worn out" by being approached all night long...most women are kind, gentle, and work hard to let a guy down VERY easy.

#2) PRACTICE WITH A "SURE THING"

Next, practice approaching women who are actually PAID to talk to you.

Let me repeat and be clear...These are women who are paid to TALK to you. Just TALK.

Got it?

Good.

So who are these magical women whose job it is to talk to you? And more importantly... where can you find them?

Well, you'll find them everywhere. Especially in one my favorite places...

The mall.

Stores in malls mostly hire attractive young saleswomen.

Walk into any store and you'll find one fast.

I want you to start a conversation with one of these women.

Ask about the ties or cologne or whatever. Then take advantage of that free "face time" with a beautiful, friendly woman.

Practice making eye contact with her.

Come up with a few jokes.

Ask her for samples and ask her to give you her opinion.

The more you do all of this, I guarantee it...

Once you get used to starting conversations with women you don't know, and staying comfortable while you're talking to them, you've already won half the battle.

#3) HAVE A PLAN

It amazes me how many guys don't plan ahead.

It's the best investment in success, yet almost no one does it.

As the old saying goes... "Fail to plan, and you plan to fail".

But most guys have no idea what they're going to say or do in advance, so they get even more nervous and afraid as they approach a woman.

And then it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

After all, fear is NOT KNOWING what's going to happen in a given situation. So...mentally rehearse what you will do and say to handle every possible situation when you approach a woman.

When you plan out how to respond EXACTLY RIGHT to a woman no matter what she says or does, you'll magically start to RELAX.

You'll start to be more "in the moment" instead of constantly searching for words and struggling to come up with the next thing to say.

You'll come across as cool and confident.

And once you can do THAT, you can spark attraction in any high-quality woman you want... NATURALLY...without even having to THINK about it.

And then these women will actually start coming after YOU.

To get the specific details about what you need to say and do to make it happen, go here now:

In the meantime, let's look at the big picture...

Overcoming your fear is just the first step toward getting the kind of women you've always dreamed about.

After that... it's REALLY game on.

Next: you must learn how to be DIFFERENT than the 99.99% of guys that beautiful women "reject" immediately.

In other words...YOU MUST BECOME THE KIND OF MAN THAT THESE WOMEN REALLY **WANT**

Duh. Makes sense, right?

Well buckle in, because it's leading to those WORDS THAT I SWORE I'D NEVER SAY...

They're words inspired by the fact that high- quality women are looking for men to behave in a very particular way...and these women will INSTANTLY REJECT a man right off the bat if he doesn't act that way.

I know...sounds incredibly unfair, right?

You've finally overcome your fear...but these women are immediately classifying you as a "reject" anyway...without giving you a chance to prove otherwise!

But here's the truth about what they're REALLY doing...

These woman are putting you to "THE TEST."

They're instinctively evaluating you.

But for what?

Well, here's the news:

It's NOT to see if you're rich or handsome enough.

What these woman are REALLY looking for -- whether they're conscious of it or not -- is the possibility that you're (drum roll please...)

"RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL"

I know.

What a buzz-kill, right?

It couldn't be less fair... or further away from the way that us guys think.

But lucky for you, I'm here to translate.

Here's what it all means...

Either consciously or subconsciously, attractive women test every man who approaches them to see if there's any chance at all he's "Mr. Right"... the kind of man she can see herself with for the long term.

And the even-more-brutal fact is: a beautiful woman will reject 99.99% of the men who approach her because they instantly act in a way that proves they're NOT "the one."

They'll act like either JERKS or WUSSIES.

They'll act too rude, or too nice.

They'll act "needy."

They'll ooze insecurity and weakness.

They'll seem out of control, over the top, or under confident.

In other words, they'll act like the TOTAL OPPOSITE of what an attractive woman REALLY wants.

And like I said...a beautiful woman will use this "test" every time, even if she really has no intention of looking for "relationship".

But here's how this is GREAT news for you...

If you can be that one guy in a thousand who knows how to pass her tests and comes across as "Mr. Right"...

...you'll suddenly seem to have the "magical powers" you need to GET ANY WOMAN YOU WANT.

You'll start making the most amazing women on the planet start to feel an instant, irresistible attraction to you -- no matter how "hot" or "unattainable" they used to seem.

You'll suddenly have the confidence you need to stop making embarrassing mistakes on approach -- and start having your pick of the crop.

You'll suddenly have the air of a "natural" -- the kind of man who attracts top-notch women without having to use any pick-up lines or techniques at all!

In fact, all of this is what reminded me of something recently...

I was asked a great question in one of my advanced seminars that went to the heart of what we're talking about.

It went something like this:

"Dave, once I know how to spark attraction and get dates with beautiful women, how do I keep them coming back for more?"

Like I said, it was a great question.

And I'll tell you what...because I'm in such a daring mood, I'm going to take things even a step further.

Get ready, because here it comes...

As I've said, once you know how to become "Mr. Right", you can use that knowledge to attract and get dates with any woman you want.

Now hold on to something...

This is where I'm going to say words I once swore that I'd NEVER, EVER say...

Here goes...

You can use that same knowledge to CREATE AN AMAZING EXCITING, LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH A "TOTAL-10" WOMAN!

Whoa, steady...hope you didn't spill your Red Bull.

I know... If you've been learning from me for awhile, you know I swore I would NEVER, EVER talk about relationships.

So what's changed?

This did...

I've heard so many men who've mastered my dating techniques (and arrived at a certain point in life) say that they now want MORE.

They want to take things to the "next level" in their lives.

They want to create the foundation for a long, exciting, fulfilling relationship with their "perfect woman"...

...and they challenged me to help them do it.

Well you know me...I can't walk away from a challenge.

And the really fascinating thing to me about all this is, when it comes to turning dates with great women into amazing long-term relationships...

THE WHOLE GAME CHANGES.

In fact, if you try to use my techniques for meeting women and getting dates to keep a "Total 10" woman around, it'll totally backfire.

And I mean BADLY.

The reason is: it takes something TOTALLY DIFFERENT to keep a woman "addicted" to you than it does to get her attention in the first place.

And that "something" is revealed in the descriptions a woman uses for the man she wants to be with for the long-term.

As I told you earlier, one of those descriptions is "Relationship Material."

Another description is "The One."

Another is "Mr. Right."

See the pattern here?

If you want to attract and KEEP the kind of spectacular woman you've always dreamed about... then you MUST become the kind of "Mr. Right" that this kind of woman is looking for.

And the truth is -- 99.99% of guys have no clue how to do it.

But when YOU'RE ready, I can help you do it...

...and it's easier than you ever imagined.

In fact, I've brought the secrets together in my acclaimed "Become Mr. Right" Video Program, so I suggest that you check it out ASAP.

It's really the ultimate training for men who want to stop fantasizing about a mind-blowing love life and finally start living one, whether that means experiencing multiple "Total 10's" at the same time...

...or finding long-term happiness with that one perfect girl.

There I go...I said it again. Think I need to go lay down...

But seriously, here's why I couldn't be more excited right now...

This in-depth, video training program will teach you EVERYTHING you need to know make your hottest dreams come true.

It includes the most powerful set of tools available ANYWHERE for starting, building, and sustaining a powerful relationship with a "Total 10" woman, including:

--The #1 way to get a "Total 10" hooked on you in the first place (hint: if you don't do this, forget having any chance with her.)

--How to get beautiful women without using any "techniques" at all (or even having to think about it)!

--How to create red-hot intimacy with a "Total 10" woman (while avoiding every obstacle that stops other guys from succeeding with her).

--The "secret checklist" that beautiful women use to decide if you're a "reject" or "Mr. Right" (I love this one -- it's like having the answers before you take a test).

--How to avoid the #1 MISTAKE that guys make to FAIL EVEN WORSE with a woman than before they started trying! (If you've never gotten results in your life, it's probably because you are making THIS hard to spot but easy to fix mistake)

And much, much more.

Let's face it: if you haven't figured out how to get and KEEP an attractive woman by now... odds are that you're NEVER going to figure it out on your own.

But the thing is: the clock's ticking... and I want YOU to start making your dreams come true.

And I mean RIGHT NOW.

That's why I'm also making my "Become Mr. Right" Program available to you 100% RISK-FREE. You have absolutely nothing to lose...but a WHOLE NEW LIFE to gain... so click here to get started:

And when you start getting the women of your dreams, feel free to thank me all you want.

It's what I live for.

Talk again soon...

Your friend,

David D.

PS - If you haven't had a "Total 10" woman yet, needless to say, you're missing out and I feel SORRY for you.

But the thing is, there are probably just a few common "mental barriers" standing between you and making your dreams come true.

But the GREAT NEWS is: It's SIMPLE to knock down these barriers... once you know what they are.

(Hint: one of them is so obvious -- and easy to fix -- that you won't believe you've let it stop you for this long.)

Find out the SHOCKING TRUTH about what's standing between you and mind-blowing SUCCESS with super-hot women. Click here NOW:









Friday, October 5, 2012

How Guys Screw Up First Dates...

Want to approach that amazing woman that you've been dreaming about... then get her number... then get a date with her... then take things EFFORTLESSLY to a "physical" level with her...

... all without *any* NERVOUSNESS or FEAR of rejection whatsoever?

If so, then you've got to check THIS out:

Hey Man,

No big surprise... I get email from a LOT of guys who want to know how to behave around women.

And naturally, many of these questions focus on the first meeting or the first date.

That's why I want to devote this entire newsletter to a concept that I feel is VITAL to understanding how you MUST behave around a woman you've just met...

In a few moments, I'm going to share a SIMPLE, 3-POINT PLAN that ANY man can use to avoid the biggest mistake most guys make to screw up a date.

But first, let's get right to "the problem":

THE BIG MISTAKE THAT ALMOST EVERY GUY MAKES...

No doubt about it: there's a KEY difference between the way men and women act when they first meet a "potential mate"...

Women usually act in a way that can be characterized like this:

"You're interesting to me. I'd like to get to know you better, and we can see where this goes."

Men usually act in a way that can be characterized like this:

"I am so interested in you that I'm nervous. In fact, I'm already thinking of you as a potential girlfriend or wife... or at least a one-night stand."

In other words, women are usually casual and laid-back when they're first meeting a guy...

But GUYS tend to act like every girl is a POTENTIAL WIFE.

As you can imagine, this creates a lot of tension and pressure.

And I'm not talking about the GOOD kind, either.

I'm talking about the kind that makes men shiver and shake with nervousness, and women feel uncomfortable because the MAN is acting uncomfortable.

I KNOW that you can relate to this in some way.

And if so... chances are good that *you* are a man who starts acting all freakish and nervous when you're talking to a woman... and therefore you SCREW THINGS UP before you even have a chance to get started.

But that's OKAY.

I was right there with you, not very long ago.

And listen... treating a woman I'd just met as if she could be the love of my life was something that I would always do...

... until I learned a very different approach that actually WORKED.

I began to ASSUME, and therefore ACT like, every woman had SOMETHING that was going to annoy me, bother me, or SCREW UP HER CHANCES with me.

The MAIN reason that I did this?

SURPRISE...

It's because IT was actually TRUE!

The fact is that MOST women are NOT compatible "long term" with most men.

In other words, if you do get into a long-term relationship with a particular woman, the chances are that she's going to have things about her that you don't like.

This is why one of my favorite Cocky & Funny themes to follow is, "You're screwing up your chances with me."

Here's how it works:

Let's say I'm walking down the street with a girl to have a cup of tea. We'll assume that she and I just met the night before, I got her number, and now we're walking from my place to tea.

On the way in the door to the coffee shop, let's say she trips over the doorway.

I might look at her, shake my head in an "overly dramatic fake annoyed" way, and say, "This relationship just isn't going to work."

Then, let's say fifteen minutes later, she spills her tea on the table and herself.

I'll shake my head again and say, "What did I tell you about this kind of behavior?"

In other words, I'm communicating the very OPPOSITE of "You're a potential wife."

Instead, I'm saying, "I'm so comfortable around you that I can even make fun of you without caring what you think of me."

Does this sound a little crazy?

Good. It should.

But trust me.

If you spend a couple of hours having regular, normal conversation... being Cocky & Funny, enjoying yourself, NOT trying to impress her, and generally demonstrating that you could care less how things turn out...

... you'll be FAR more likely to take things further than if you act as if she might be the love of your life and you wind up acting so nervous, stilted, and DUMB that she runs away.

Oh by the way...

If you're a guy for whom being naturally, effortlessly, CONFIDENTLY funny with women doesn't come naturally (just like it didn't for me...)

... then I want you to know that there's a "magic cure" that I discovered for this "disease" that quickly CHANGED EVERYTHING for me.

It's an incredibly simple way to go from being a "stick in the mud" to the kind of guy who always knows EXACTLY what to say...

... at EXACTLY the right time...

... in EXACTLY the right way...

... to make a woman laugh and therefore create the first SPARKS of irresistible ATTRACTION.

Whether you need the full "magic cure" for becoming a Cocky & Funny master... or you just need to "fine tune" the Cocky & Funny skills you already have... then you should take a minute and check this out right now:

But anyway...

Back to the 1 thing that most guys who are unsuccessful with women do that screws things up... and a SIMPLE, 3-POINT PLAN to keep in mind to make sure you never do it again.

Again, here's the one thing that YOU need to AVOID...

MAKE SURE THAT YOU *NEVER* TREAT A WOMAN YOU'VE JUST MET AS IF SHE'S A POTENTIAL FUTURE WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND.

And here's my simple plan for what you need to do instead:

1) Lean back and be cool.

Like I said, make jokes about her screwing up her chances with you.

Tell her that she's a nice friend.

Assume that she has qualities that are going to annoy you, then point them out (in a Cocky & Funny way, of course).

This way, suddenly you'll come across as cool and comfortable in your own skin, and it will be reflected in everything from your personal style to your body language.

2) Don't lose your composure.

You see, most men "lose it" with a great woman the moment she starts "testing" them with questions to see if they're needy, insecure, or inexperienced.

So stay on course. Stay composed.

No matter what she asks, react with your body, behavior, moods, and responses based on what YOU need to do to CREATE ATTRACTION instead of KILL IT.

If she mentions that other men... or says she's unavailable... or complains about something you do... you need to react like a man who couldn't care less what she thinks, has a life of his own, and loves to be in control.

3) Learn how to "get" women.

Unfortunately, most guys look for tricks and "pick up lines" when it comes time to LEARN how to meet women.

They don't realize that every trick in the world isn't going to help them if they don't UNDERSTAND what's really "going on" inside a woman... then learn how to use that knowledge to CREATE LIFE-CHANGING NEW SUCCESS in life and love.

In other words:

First, you need to learn how *NOT* to do things like treating a woman like she might be your future wife...

... and then you need to learn everything you must do RIGHT (and there are many).

Today, I wanted to let you know that there is a way to get *ALL* of this handled... quickly and EASILY... so that you can FINALLY start enjoying the kind of success with women you've always dreamed about.

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Here's a quick example of how this program is SPECIFICALLY DESIGNED to start turbocharging your success with women IMMEDIATELY:

In the very first segment of the program, we focus entirely on your "Inner Game."

In other words, right off the bat, we focus on helping you understand what's *really* going on INSIDE YOURSELF... and INSIDE THE MINDS OF THE WOMEN YOU WANT.

This program goes into DEPTH about ALL aspects of psychology and behavior of men and women...

... and then teaches you how to USE THAT KNOWLEDGE to start getting incredible, real- world results in your love life.

Of course, I also teach a TON of specific, step-by-step, immediately usable techniques as well.

Hundreds of them, in fact.

In "Advanced Dating Techniques, you get over 12 solid hours of high quality streaming video of me teaching everything (from the ground up) on how to take things all the way from beginning to end... from the first meeting through the first date... all the way to the bedroom and beyond.

You'll learn how to overcome your limiting beliefs about women.

You'll learn how to eliminate your fears of talking to women.

You'll learn how to make women feel ATTRACTION for you, even if you don't have money or looks, etc.

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Don't let this one slide.

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There are simple, hidden "secrets" waiting for you that you'd never have thought of in a million years... but that you can start putting to work for you TONIGHT.

So go ahead.

Have a look, let me know what you think, and then I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

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