How To Take Control And Develop Unshakable Confidence With Women

Hi Man, As you know, when it comes to becoming more successful with women and dating, I honestly believe that the most important thing to do is get your INNER GAME issues handled. (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) And, as you may also know, I've actually done an entire program called Deep Inner Game... a program that is 100% focused on helping guys deal with their Inner Game issues. I get a lot of questions about this program, and I thought I'd take a minute to answer a few common questions... and to give you some ideas about how you can fix your Inner Game Dating problems... Get The "Inner Game" You Need To SUCCEED   SPECIAL NOTE: If you've realized that your lack of confidence is holding you back from having success with women and in life, then NOTHING is going to change for you until you finally TAKE ACTION and DO something about it.   Here's what I suggest:   Go check out a program that I put together specifically to help in this special area...   It's all here:       Let's start with this one: "Nothing Has Worked For Me In The Past... Will This Program?" My honest answer is... I don't know. Comforting, huh? Seriously, one of the things that I and my co-teacher talk about in this program is the concept of MATURITY. Part of growing up is learning that there aren't very many magic bullets in life... there aren't many quick-fix techniques that will solve all your problems. What I can tell you is that this program is based on over twenty years of combined research, experience, and learning... and the two people who are teaching in this program have studied the best. Personally, I've had some very challenging personal Inner Game issues in my life... many of which took me years to figure out and overcome. And here's what I learned along the way: I think that the problem with a lot of self-help programs is that they're what I'll call idealistic and wishful. They're not based on years of research, testing, and personal experience. All of the things you're going to learn in this program WORK and have been refined over time. What I'm trying to say is that I believe this program has the greatest chance of helping you fix your Inner Game issues... and I think it is the fastest way to do it as well. Next question... "How Long Will This Program Take To Work?" Another great question. And I'll give you another great answer: I don't know. What I can tell you is that you can start using the tools you're going to learn immediately. And I'll put myself out there and say that I believe you will actually feel differently, and you'll see others respond to you very differently as soon as you implement what you're going to learn. The material in this program is a highly-condensed crash course in the most important aspects of psychology and behavior, as they apply to success with women and dating... I think that once you learn the main tools and concepts (which are taught in an EASY-TO-LEARN visual way), you will be able to see many of your challenges in a way that allows you to take control of them. One of the biggest problems guys experience is this feeling of being out of control, and I think that one of the most important advantages you're going to experience when you go through this program is an instant feeling of TAKING CONTROL. And, if you stick with these materials, and use what you're learning, I believe you can make huge improvements very rapidly. "Are The Exercises And Tools Difficult To Learn And Use?" This one is easy. No. I've been studying psychology for a lot of years. I love the topic, as you know. But one of my personal Pet peeves is when these smarty psychology gurus use big, complex, confusing terms... and seem to intentionally confuse with their ideas. This program is the opposite of that. You'll see instantly that everything is explained in an easy-to-understand way. Any psychology terms are explained along the way... and avoided as much as possible. All of the ideas are easy to understand... and all of the tools are easy to use. I promise you that. "Are There A Lot Of Dating Techniques Included?" Let's be clear about this... This program does NOT contain a ton of dating techniques. If you're looking for techniques and step-by-step moves for different dating situations, then go check out one of my other programs... like Approaching Women or Meeting Women Online. THIS program is focused on helping you achieve life-changing Inner Game success... period.... and the techniques are all for overcoming inner challenges. "What Makes This Program Different From Other Self-Help Materials?" I've spent several years of my life reading self-help books... listening to audio programs... and going to seminars... so, instead of explaining what makes this program different, I'd like to tell you what makes this program SPECIAL. I like to make fun of self-help... partly because, well, it's easy to make fun of... and partly because a lot of it is just plain lame. That said, many of the self-help books I've read are amazing. I credit a lot of my own success personally and in the dating world with the things I've learned from some of the wise self-help authors in the world. The problems that I kept running into as I read self-help books were: The material wasn't specifically created to help me become more successful with women and dating. The authors of the books I was reading really didn't understand how to ATTRACT women or create attraction. In other words, I had to do a lot of the work of translating what they were saying into the dating world. But my Deep Inner Game program was actually created to help you overcome Inner Game issues... that will lead to dating success. No translation required! This program will transform how you feel inside... and it will lead to more success with women and dating. I guarantee it. In fact, the way I guarantee it is with the offer I'm going to make you right now... If you're experiencing Inner Game challenges that you know are preventing you from having success with women and dating, then I'd like to try out this program to use for a month... at MY risk and expense. You can go through the program and actually use the concepts and techniques inside. If it doesn't help you... and you don't get real results inside that month, then just cancel it. I've spent a lot of time learning all this stuff and putting this program together... and if you want to take advantage of all my work and effort... and get a huge jump on this area of your life, then get this program. You can get a lot more details and check out the video clips of the program here: That's about it. Go learn about the program, and I'll talk to you again soon.    Your friend,                P.S. Don't forget to check out all of the programs I've created to help you learn how to attract and meet women. My programs cover all aspects... from Inner Game stuff like how to overcome fear and a limiting self-image, to specific techniques like how to approach women, how to meet women online, and how to make sure that your conversation creates attraction. You can check them all out here.     Approaching Women     Never get nervous around women again: Talk to any woman, anywhere Close the deal every time Eliminate fear and shyness forever         Become Mr. Right   All the magic powers you need to attract & keep an incredible woman:   Show women you're "The One" Meet, date, & keep a "Total 10" Turbocharge your success in life & love     Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

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If Women Won't Get Physical With You Try This

Hey Man,   Tell me something: Do you ever get so nervous when it's time to "make your move" with a woman that you end up totally screwing it up? Or worse yet... you decide that you won't even TRY? If so, listen up: there's a simple way to get HER to make THE FIRST MOVE -- all YOU have to do is sit back and let it happen! Learn my fail-proof "magic trick" for "getting some" every time.     Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE      This totally SUCKS...    When it comes to "getting physical" with women, a lot of you have been telling me you feel like you're living under some kind of "CURSE" or something.    You've been telling me that when it comes time to "make your move", you get so nervous you don't even try.    Or, if you somehow do get up the nerve, the woman shows ZERO SEXUAL INTEREST in you.    Worst of all... you sometimes feel like you're actually SCARING WOMEN OFF whenever you "go for it".    Like I said... this SUCKS.    And let me tell you, I totally get it.    In fact, I know all too well that this situation is basically a LIVING HELL.    I know how it HURTS every time you meet a great girl who'll never see you as more than "just a friend"...    I know how it hurts every time a woman looks at you like you're about as sexy as a piece of lawn furniture...    I know how it hurts every time you intentionally AVOID an opportunity to "get physical" with a woman because you're too scared to try...    And I know it hurts THE MOST when you wonder if things will ever CHANGE for you... if you'll EVER understand how to "get physical" with a woman.    Sound about right?    If so, like I said, I totally understand.    Because I've BEEN THERE.    And that's why I don't want to waste another moment before revealing the REASON so many men have to endure so much pain (and failure) in this area...   ...and what YOU can do IMMEDIATELY to break "THE CURSE" for yourself.    Let's start by making sure you understand just one simple fact:    Good news... it's one that I think you'll find both inspiring and encouraging...    The fact is this:    99.99% of the time, your failure to "get physical" with women is NOT about your looks... or how much money you make... or even being so inexperienced that you "turn women off."    Truth is, 99.99% of the time, "The Curse" is all about just one thing:    What you're NOT DOING to make things happen with a woman!    That's right, you heard me...    Most guys don't blow it with a woman because they're doing something "wrong"...    The real problem is...    THEY'RE NOT DOING ANYTHING *RIGHT*.    But this should actually come as a HUGE RELIEF for you....    After all, it's MUCH easier to start DOING A FEW THINGS RIGHT than... say... to suddenly become Brad Pitt overnight.    Am I right?    That in mind... here's what YOU too can start doing NOW to finally break free of "THE CURSE"...    ...and start living the love life of your    dreams.    In simplest terms, it's all about getting a handle on one fact:    Women won't even CONSIDER "getting physical" with a man who doesn't show clear signs of SEXUAL CONFIDENCE.    Let me rewind and cue that one up again...    WOMEN WON'T EVEN *CONSIDER* GETTING PHYSICAL WITH A MAN WHO DOESN'T SHOW CLEAR SIGNS OF SEXUAL CONFIDENCE.    Just to be damn sure you got it, let me say it a whole other way...    If you don't "broadcast" certain signals the moment you meet a woman... signals that show her RIGHT AWAY that you're potential "mating material"...    ...it's GAME OVER.    She'll move on so fast your head will spin.    Or she'll banish you to "THE FRIEND ZONE" with NO possibility of parole.    Sound familiar?    Now, of course, all of this is a bit of a "Catch 22"...    If you don't have sexual confidence to begin with, then every woman you meet will instantly reject you.    But if you keep getting rejected, how can you get the confidence you need to succeed in the first place?    It's a great question.    And a HUGE problem.    Here's the simple solution:    Studies show that men who do just a FEW SIMPLE THINGS to "hint" at sexual confidence can trigger some very complex emotions in a woman.    They can make her feel an intense, instant excitement and interest.    But more importantly, they can make her feel a pleasurable kind of NERVOUSNESS. Almost a kind of FEAR.    I know, right? It doesn't seem to make logical sense at all...        Approach a woman the right way, and you'll    SCARE her?    Well that's the part of all this that I found absolutely fascinating... and that I saw as a HUGE OPPORTUNITY for guys who are "slow starters" with women.    Turns out that when a woman senses just a few specific behaviors in a man, she will instantly categorize him (often subconsciously!) as a potential sexual partner.    And that's then she starts to feel that excitement.    And that FEAR.    She feels this way because of the RISK that meeting a potential new mate instantly creates.    It makes a woman imagine a new world of new possibilities about what she might soon get to experience in her life...    ...and with HER BODY.    It's called a "sexual threat" -- the kind of man who makes a woman nervous that she might lose control, both physically and emotionally.    And the really AMAZING thing is, coming across as a "sexual threat" is like a SHORT CUT... a DIRECT ROUTE to making a woman feel intense physical desire for the man that's making her feel so "nervous"!    You can learn more about how (and why) YOU need to become a "Sexual Threat" right NOW.      But for now, here's what I want you to take away from this:    Once you learn to broadcast a few simple signals of "sexual confidence," you're IN.    You'll immediately start noticing that women are acting VERY DIFFERENTLY toward you.    They'll start acting INTERESTED.    They'll start acting OPEN and RECEPTIVE.    They may even start acting a little NERVOUS.    Get this:    They may even act a little CONFUSED.    And once YOU start getting these reactions from women, you'll know it for sure:    The "curse" is over.    In fact, that's EXACTLY how it happened for    me...    After learning the behaviors that signal SEXUAL CONFIDENCE to women, my "love life" started to change in ways I never dreamed possible.    Suddenly a new world of MIND-BLOWING SEXUAL SUCCESS opened up for me.    And you know what?    It was an unbelievable feeling.    It felt like I'd never have to worry again about "blowing it" when it came time to "make my move" with a woman.    It felt like I could get to the "next level" with any woman I wanted, any time I wanted.    Above all, it felt like a HUGE RELIEF, leaving all my fears of failure, humiliation, and rejection behind for good.    Which brings us back to YOUR situation right now...    How do you think YOU'LL feel when you finally leave the "curse" behind?    Even better... how will YOU feel when women suddenly start doing all the WORK to get physical with *YOU*?    Stupidest question ever, right?    Well, because I understand the pain and hopelessness of men afflicted by "the curse" so well, I've dedicated one of my most powerful home- study courses to eliminating the problem forever...    It's a program called "POWER SEXUALITY," and it's my acclaimed video series containing EVERYTHING YOU NEED to STOP FAILING when it comes to "getting physical" with women.    Here's just some of what you'll learn, (so quickly and easily it'll blow your mind): -- What to do in ANY situation to "connect physically" with a woman and move things FORWARD (instead of screwing up and "turning her off"). -- The #1 way to trigger a massive SEXUAL REACTION when you first meet a woman (and subconsciously confirm that you're her perfect "sexual match") -- How to get a woman so TURNED ON with "innocent" words and touches that you'll have her fantasizing about having full-on sex with you the rest of the day!    Finally, and most importantly: -- How to "deliver" in the bedroom so she'll keep coming back for more!    You can learn about all of this and more RIGHT HERE.      In the meantime, I still need to say this:    "POWER SEXUALITY" includes EVERY fail-proof strategy and technique you'll need to make women see you as irresistible "mating material".    But, that said, there's more to the story...    You see, once women start WANTING you, it's meaningless if you can't "CLOSE THE DEAL."    To be blunt... you can be the most confident, skilled lover on the planet... but if you can't COMMUNICATE those qualities properly to a woman, here's what you'll likely hear:    "I can tell that you're an amazing guy... can I fix you up with one of my friends?"    What? What just happened there?    Not good... yet it happens ALL the time (for reasons most guys will never understand).    Fact is, there's actually a hidden "secret language" that ALL women look for in a man before they'll actually get physical with him.    Now as you can imagine, I've spent YEARS trying to decode this "secret language"... and I'm proud to announce that I've finally SUCCEEDED.    BIG TIME.    Here's what I learned:    Any man who can't speak this language will CONTINUE TO FAIL WITH WOMEN.    And to make matters worse, when it comes to this "secret language", there are only 2 rules: #1) Attractive women are "fluent" in it. #2) Almost all men are NOT.    Add them up, and here's what you get:    Women can tell INSTANTLY if you speak the "secret language" of sexual Communication.    If you DON'T, they move on.    Case closed.    But listen, no worries. I've got that covered too...    I've assembled a killer "crash course" on how to speak the language of SEXUAL COMMUNICATION like it's second nature.    It's the companion video course to "Power Sexuality" called "SEXUAL COMMUNICATION."        Here's what you'll learn in this one: --How to FLIRT PROPERLY with a woman so she doesn't see you as just another "lame loser" or "total player". -- A step-by-step process for going from "hand holding" to "hot sex" that NEVER, EVER FAILS! (This alone is worth the entire cost of the program!) -- How to overcome a woman's "shyness" or "resistance" to getting physical with you. (FACT: Men CREATE their own failure by not doing just one key thing!)    And WAY more... too much to list, so click here for the details.      Meanwhile, the "elephant in the room" remains:    If YOU still feel like you live under a "curse" that makes women treat you like "just a friend" (or worse, a "creep")...    ...this is happening to you for a REASON.    So stop feeling helpless and embarrassed... and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.    Put just a few of my SIMPLE, PROVEN METHODS to work for you, and you can put "the curse" behind you for good.    I GUARANTEE IT.    Listen. I can't make this any easier...    You can get started NOW by checking out "Power Sexuality" 100% RISK-FREE, as well as "Sexual Communication".      After that, let me know how it feels to break free of "the curse" for good...    ...and to start "getting physical" with the women of your dreams!      Your friend,     P.S. Oh, one last thing... Tell me... do you ever "freeze up" or get tongue-tied when it comes time to "get physical" with a woman? Well, guess what: there's something you can do when it's time to "make your move" that will DRIVE A WOMAN CRAZY with DESIRE... without saying a word to her! Check it out here.      If you no longer wish to receive our emails, click the link below: Unsubscribe Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

Making Yourself More Attractive To Women

I've got a bunch of YOUR emails waiting for me today. Let's get right to MY brilliant answers... (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) Q. ***Success Story*** Hey Dave, I just had to tell you how great your stuff is. I got your first email (ten things most guys do) and before I finished reading the list, I went to the site and ordered the book. I figured what can I lose, I don't have success now and I spent more then $40 on my last date and they offer a 100% money back deal. I read it as soon as I downloaded it then read it again the next day, of course went and bought comedy writing secrets the 3rd day and read that the same afternoon. I have to tell you I was clueless before I read your book. I would naturally get a few women attracted to me when I wasn't trying because I didn't have interest in them and would bust on them for my own amusement. Of course when ever I got a date I would turn into major Wuss boy and do all the things I shouldn't. I now understand and it all makes perfect sense. The best part about your system is that it's not trying to manipulate women it's teaching you how to make yourself more attractive to them. I still have a lot to learn but it's only been a week since I ordered the book so I'm well on my way. Wuss boy no more. On to the success, remember it's just the first week so it's still minor success right now. I'm naturally introverted so coming up with spur of the moment funny is somewhat of a problem (I'm working on it everyday). With that said I decided to get some practice with online personals. I had already posted a profile before so I went back made some modifications and started sending emails. I did ok with my own cocky/funny responses but it was taking a little too much time to write the emails... I started taking some of your examples and modifying them to my own needs. So far I'm at about a 90% response rate, and I'm only sending emails to the best looking girls on there who have obviously gotten a lot of emails. One of the responses I just got today (she looks like about a 9.5 from her pics) was: "Hey... as far as I know I am fairly normal... I think! I'm kinda in a hurry so I can't really write much right now... sorry but I will definitely get back to you Mr. Cuteness! (God this stuff is great, I'm gonna have some fun with this one!)" Also one of the dates I went on only a day or two after reading your stuff went great. I had her laughing the entire time and even had her telling me about her sex toys. (Most women I know like to talk about sex just as much as guys so if you can bring it up in a cocky/funny way you can have some great conversation.) Anyway, on to the end. I knew I wasn't really interested in her so I cut it short and didn't take things to the next step, but it was great practice and I got an email the next day saying how much she enjoyed herself and that I am naturally charismatic and that if I didn't vibe her the same way she still wants to hang out. Oh I don't want to forget, I used the you want me thing and had her blushing. Needless to say I'm about to start having a lot of fun. Thanks for giving me that great big He-Bitch- Slap and smacking the wuss out of me. Forever Grateful (I know wussie closing), D at the U of A P. S. For those of you who haven't done it: Read the book! A. Hey D., you have no idea how glad I am that I could help... and we all need some help at some point in life. And I REALLY appreciate your comment about my materials not being about manipulating women... but instead being about becoming attractive to women. Most men don't get this distinction, but once you DO get it, an entirely different world opens up... and all kinds of things become available that weren't before. And just so you (and everyone reading this) knows...   Learn To Get Women Without Saying A Word   Even if you have a PhD in English, you can't talk your way to triggering intense, can't-control-herself ATTRACTION in a woman without sending the right "unspoken" messages to her as well.   That's why - if you've dreamed of making women want you without being a "smooth talker" or the life of the party -here's how to get a woman's attention... spark attraction ... even have her chase you... using only subtle gestures and subliminal signals she can't resist!   Get an education in using your body to get HERS right here:         I Was Just Like You When I Got Started The Cocky & Funny comments didn't come quickly and naturally to me. I practiced a lot online, chatted with a lot of women, etc. to polish up my skills. It didn't help that I had to also figure out what Cocky & Funny even was to begin with... but I feel where you're coming from. So stay with it. You're on the right track. Q. David, Your material is awesome. It has completely changed my dating and it's results. I lost a really hot girlfriend late last year, and it wasn't until I started reading your newsletters that I finally understood what went wrong. I wussed out, completely. "I just need some room to find myself. It's not you, it's me." Man you were literally quoting my gf! But now I get it. In the last few months I have been able to get phone numbers every time I go out, if I want to. I get chicks to buy me drinks now, and had one girl force her number on me. Gotta love that. Even some of the girls with boyfriends I hang out with every now and then are saying I'm cocky, and pull the o'l hit me on the shoulder and give me the "I can't believe you just said that" look, with a big smile of course. Man everything you have said makes perfect sense, and really works. I got my first date from an online dating service by replying to this chick with a very cocky and slightly funny statement that I mostly intended to drive her away. She wrote back saying I was way too cocky, but you know what? She went out with me! Muahahahaaa. I haven't found the right girl yet, but your techniques have helped me weed out more wrong ones in the last few months than in the last few years before. And I can't describe how cool it feels to have a stack of numbers that I will never call, but know I could if I wanted too. I'm about to get your e-book, so I'll keep you updated on how well that works. One question though, what's your deal with tea? Thanks, CL - Dallas, TX A. Lol... what's my deal with tea? It's classy, cheap, and quick. And you can escape if she winds up being crazy. Try it, you'll like it. Oh, and iced tea is acceptable as well, by the way. Now, you said a lot of great stuff in your email... You're not the only guy who's heard those painful words "I need to find myself" and "It's not you, it's me." But now that you understand ATTRACTION better, you'll definitely be preventing that in the future. Also, I enjoyed your story about the online personal date... and how she said that you were too cocky, then went out with you. Now you're getting it, and I like the way you think... you haven't found the right girl yet, but by beginning to understand attraction you've been able to weed out the ones who aren't right for you faster. That in mind, I have a question for you... Did You Read Your FREE BONUS REPORT? It's the one you get when you download and read my book... make sure and pay close attention to it. It's called The 8 Personality Types Of Men Who Are Naturally Attractive To Women, and it's 100% GUARANTEED to help you understand how to keep the girl you want once you find her. Go read the report, and thanks for the email. Q. Dear Dave D, My name is N, thank you for ur kind email. I have had, for the past six years problems talking to women. Often I approach one that takes my fancy in a bar and she just laughs in my face, perhaps it is my mullet and novelty beard but i don't want to change my image as I'm happy with the way i look. I also seem to find myself feeling sexually pent up and this makes me more desperate and hence starts a chain of cataclysmic problems in which i just frighten off any women by suggesting she "come back to my place". I don't know how to leave this vicious circle of dating desperation i have found myself in. I was just wondering if you had any advice for such a lost cause. Yours faithfully, N (the potential loser) A. Sometimes I get emails from guys who say things like "Are all those stories and emails you print real? Or do you make them up?"... Mullet and novelty beard? The potential loser? Yep, that's a real question, from a real person... I'm here to tell ya... I don't make any of these stories and questions up... ever. Not even one. I mean, could I make up stuff like this? Q. You know I'm not dissing you, I'm sure you provide a good service, but I am a regular guy and I like to do for others, especially women I like, and I'm not gonna hide who I am. I'm a nice guy who does not play games, I'll admit I get played, sometimes, but that's the price I have to pay for being such a great guy. good luck and I hope that not too many meaningless relationships come from your advice, leading to a higher divorce rate. A. Okay... I've included the above letter because I want to use it to demonstrate the attitude of a guy who is naturally unsuccessful with women. This particular guy actually thinks that his approach of getting played a few times because "That's the price I have to pay for being such a nice guy" is not only the best thing for him, but also the best thing for everyone else. Notice the "I hope not too many meaningless relationships come from your advice" comment. The subtle implication here is that what I teach is bad for relationships... and that doing for others and being a nice guy are the ultimate sacrifice and demonstration of your superiority. Well, I have some sobering news for you... Doing Nice Things For A Woman Is The Ultimate Way To "Play Games" And "Manipulate" Her Walking into a relationship with a woman thinking that doing unhealthy, unbalanced things like taking her out, buying her things, and giving her gifts is the biggest way to try to "manipulate" a woman... you're basically trying to "buy" her attention. It's the WUSSY thing to do. Even worse... when women sense this manipulative behavior, they take advantage of the perks without giving anything in return. And finally, your not-so-subtle suggestion that the things I teach guys contributes to meaningless relationships and a higher divorce rate did not go unnoticed. And guess what? It's also misinformed. The reality is that YOU are the one who is doing things that are leading to more meaningless relationships and a higher divorce rate. Stop the insanity, man. WOMEN DON'T WANT WUSSIES. Period. They don't want men who have to buy their attention and approval. They don't want men who act like women. Want to make yourself more attractive to women? Then understand just one simple fact right now: Women Want Men Who Act Like Men Do yourself a huge favor. Think this one over carefully. I can tell that you're not TRYING to manipulate women and do things that lead to a more meaningless relationship and contribute to a higher divorce rate... but you are. If you'd like to stop doing it, I suggest you click here right now:         Q. Dear David, You have been a god-send the last few months since i discovered your mailing list. It's been a great daily reminder and motivator. But now i have a kinda odd question. You've always taught that attractive women are always approached and they all have seen and heard all the lines. yada yada. BUT what if I'm not normal and i don't chase after hot model figures, but rather a down to earth, pretty cute and nice, not too wild, doesn't even go to bars much. Would your advice still apply. This situation kinda reminds me of American Pie, where one of the characters, i forget his name, has to go after a not so hot, plain Jane choir girl. I'm sure if she was real, she would not have been approached by as many guys as a hot girl would be approached by. Does the cocky/funny attitude come off as different for this type of girl, or just kinda rude and pushy. Please include this in your newsletter as I'm sure there's a bunch of guys out there that don't always go after the head cheerleader type. Do it for all of us nerds. PS. One of my favorite tips in your book was to watch James Bond movies and learn his posture and attitude, etc. Its killer, i swear its worked like gold for me. Lots of contact from females. woohoo MO from KS A. Yes, my advice will still apply. Now quit talking about it and thinking about it and get out there and do something. Find out for yourself. The only one who can really validate this stuff for you is you. Go use the materials! Q. Dave, Bullseye! Your e-book is exactly right! It reminds me of when I was flying for the Air Force (Trust me Dave, nobody is cockier than a pilot). My buddies and I would walk into a Dallas bar like we owned the place (shoulders back, chin up, slow walk). Guys would end up with some absolutely gorgeous women before to long. Sometimes it only took as much as catching a woman looking at you, curling your finger in a come hither fashion and you were off to the races. After reading your book, I realize the attraction was all about body language. We just did it without thinking about it or having a method. I had no idea there was a method so I want to learn more. Now I realize just about all the times I've been wildly successful with women have to do with cocky+funny and other techniques you mention. "Oh! My hair is such a mess," she said. And I replied, "Yeah, it is! I don't think I can be seen with you!" I had to laugh when I read that one. I actually used that quite a while ago. She grinned, smacked me in the arm and said, "Shut up!" -- still grinning. Also, every time I've failed miserably with a woman it is because of something you recognized as failure tactics. Like you, I've been on both sides of the dating capabilities fence and the women and life in general are soooo much better on this side as an alpha male. You've done a great job of focusing your product on meeting women but readers should know that you are selling a whole lot more than just technique. You're selling a bit of freedom, self-respect, and relaxation. Think about it. what kind of lion would you rather be? The alpha male that owns hundreds of square miles, never goes hungry, and gets laid, or the juvenile male who gets his ass kicked and has to hump a tree for companionship? It's good to be the king! It's all in the mind set. I've got a question. My home town is pretty small and so has small town women looks if you know what I mean so I'm kind of stuck. Luckily, there is a great city about 75 miles away that I'm trying to move to. I go there pretty often especially since I have family there. Until I move, I probably won't be going to the city just for a cup of tea and some stimulating conversation. But I figure on meeting my next girlfriend from the big city I can say, "I'm hanging out with my brother on Saturday. Maybe afterwards you could meet me at Juan Valdez's cafe for a cup of tea and stimulating conversation." Sound like a plan? What other suggestions do you have for a guy with high standards living in a small town? Thanks, SS Colorado A. You know, as I read your email I thought about that scene in that 80's classic "Top Gun" where they're in the bar, and the guys are all in uniform picking up the babes. The arrogance and cocky attitudes coming from Tom Cruise and Val Kilmer were the epitome of what you're talking about. It's interesting that you had that experience in real life. I've only known one guy that was a Top Gun Pilot type of guy. He was from San Diego, and he was actually one of the instructors at the Top Gun school. This guy was probably 5'4" tall... but he had this attitude about him that said "I am the man." He was always surrounded by women, of course. To answer your question, I think you're on the right track. I've had dates with women that lived 2,500 miles away... no problem. Instead of maybe afterwards you could meet me you could say "I'm going to be in the area on Sunday... so get me while the gettin is good... and don't screw this up!" The "maybe you could meet me" sounds weak. You're not looking for approval, remember? Q. David, I had the ultimate C&F zen moment at the end of my date last night. When I first scheduled a date with this girl, I'd been making some comments about sandwiching her in between my 6 o'clock and 10 o'clock (quite literally, I am booked solid... hot dates for weeks in advance, thanks to you and C&F!), so she had better impress me in her allotted time slot since the competition was so fierce. Anyway, had a fun night of cocktails, busting on her the whole time, keeping her on the fine line between laughing her ass off and omigod-did-he-really-say-that?! We were saying goodnight in the parking lot after, and the girl literally attacked me. After making out with her for a few minutes I pulled back and said, totally deadpan, "Not bad... you were almost as good as my 6 o'clock." At which point the girl practically screamed in (sexual) frustration, "You are SO damn cocky!... and I love it!" Straight from the proverbial horse's mouth. :-) I'll let you guess what happened next. Your material has put me in the driver's seat in relationships for the first time in, like, ever. I've now been on dates with 4 different girls over the last 5 nights. Girls are fighting over me and my friends think I'm a god... all thanks to you and those three magic words, cocky and funny. Wow. I'm on the verge of nominating you as godfather for my dozens of imminent love children. E. in Seattle A. Wow, E., sounds to me like you're on a rampage. And isn't it amazing how we've all had women talk about other guys, but most of us wouldn't dream of mentioning other women? But, oh the effect it has... even when used in jest and fun. Great story. Oh, and if you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself: "I really need to be having four dates in five nights," then guess what? You're right. You do. And I'll tell you something. If you're walking around right now and you have no idea HOW to get four dates in five nights, then that's only the tip of the iceberg. In other words... I Know What It's Like To Have ZERO CLUE How To Succeed With Women It basically SUCKS. It's like a constant drag on your mind and emotions. Everywhere you go, and everywhere you look are more reminders of the fact that you don't know how to attract women. Well, I spent many years of my life in that same situation, and I finally got to the point where I just couldn't stand it anymore. It took me tons of trial and error, learning, testing, trying things that didn't work, and getting to know guys who were naturals with women... but in the end I figured it out. If you want to learn all of my very best ideas, techniques, and personal strategies, then I'd recommend that you check out my Advanced Dating Techniques program. It's taken me literally years to put all of this great material together, and you can get it all in about 12 hours of instant online viewing. (Relax, you don't need to watch it all at once!) But you DO need to click here:   And... if you've gone through my Advanced Dating Techniques program, and you'd like to learn more specifics... like how to use Body Language to attract women, or how to master the teasing communication skill that I call Cocky & Funny, then go and check out my programs that are designed to help you with those areas... For example, my program Body Language For Success With Women And Dating is one of the ultimate weapons in your ATTRACTION ARSENAL... it's designed to teach you how to create and build attraction with your body language and voice tone alone! 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