Friday, June 28, 2013

Video Tip: Try This When A Woman (or Anyone Else) Treats You Badly

So. A woman treats you badly... a coworker gets under your skin... a buddy makes you mad.

Tell me: what do YOU usually do about it?

Do you usually just "take it"... getting "beat up" and coming away feeling like a loser?

If so, guess what: there's a reason you act like this... like a "doormat"... and it usually has something to do with how you feel about yourself on the INSIDE.

This why I want you to know NOW that there are things you can do -- NOW -- to START WINNING in both LIFE and LOVE.

See one powerful example in TODAY'S VIDEO TIP. Click "play" to WATCH IT NOW:

Oh, and if you can't see the video above, click here.

Hey Man,

I recently recorded a standing-room-only live seminar for men with painful, crippling "Inner Game" issues.

In other words: it was for men who basically feel HELPLESS (and HOPELESS) and when it comes confronting and handling LIFE'S BIG ISSUES.

Issues like success with women, naturally.

But also, issues like how to TAKE CONTROL in life in GENERAL... in EVERY area... from dealing with friends and family to making career choices.

It was an AMAZING day with mind-blowing breakthroughs all around, and I couldn't be more proud.

But here's the part I want to share with you...

I brought in a VERY SPECIAL GUEST for the live seminar that day.

His name is Dr. Paul, and in case you've been living under a rock somewhere, he's the definition of the words "INNER GAME EXPERT."

He's a world-class psychiatrist who's been profiled on CNN... USA Today... The Wall Street Journal... you name it. Basically the ultimate authority when it comes to mastering your "inner game."

Dr. Paul and I got to talking that day about situations where guys find themselves being mistreated by another person.

It could be a woman they just approached... a boss... a coworker... a buddy or family member.

Again... whatever.

In every case, every man in the room felt like YES... they'd been HURT, USED, or TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF in life... and that they desperately wanted to learn how to START COMING OUT ON TOP in these situations.

That's when Dr. Paul shared his famous, SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN way to take back CONTROL and "win every time" when someone mistreats you.

I mean, this one's literally THE BOMB.

It's guaranteed to work on ANYONE -- in ANY scenario -- to make you feel CONFIDENT, IN- CONTROL, and like a WINNER when someone treats you badly.

You've got to hear what Dr. Paul has to say... it's an EXTREMELY powerful, SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN way for guys with "inner game" issues to start turning things around!

Check it out here:

Your friend,

David D.









Thursday, June 20, 2013

Why Paying For Dinner Is A Bad Thing

It's a FACT: right now, most single women are feeling frustrated and unsatisfied with the men they're meeting.

That in mind, I have to ask you...

WHY AREN'T YOU TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THIS SITUATION?

If you're still sitting on the bench, there can only be 2 possible reasons for it:

#1) You have so many women chasing you that you don't even need to try.

Or...

#2) You're dealing with obstacles like anxiety, fear, or lack of self-esteem that destroy your chances of success before you even get started.

If #2 sounds like you, I'm here to tell you that you can CHANGE EVERYTHING RIGHT NOW...and it's easier than you think. Learn why here:

***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

I have a question concerning dating and when/when not to pay for stuff. At what point (if any) should I pay for both of us when dating? I don't want to get the woman into the mind set of "courtship." What should a man pay for when he's dating?

"DOUBLE YOUR DATING" has changed me for the better. I look forward to getting your advance dating series.

Sincerely,

M.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a common dilemma that most men face...

"To pay or not to pay, that is the question."

Here are some of the problems that "paying" creates:

1. It sets you up as the one who is "pursuing" the woman, which symbolically gives away your power to her.

2. It can be expensive.

3. It usually causes women to play even "harder to get".

4. It triggers all kinds of "courtship" behaviors. Like her making you prove yourself, waiting to have sex, etc.

5. The places you'll be going to "pay" are often not the best places to actually get to know another human being. Movies, fancy dinners, etc., aren't natural environments and they don't lead to people "being themselves".

So, what's the alternative?

Well, the FIRST thing you should do is CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT "DATING"...and "paying".

Most guys just naturally assume that if they're "taking a girl out" that they need to take her to a show or movie, a nice dinner, etc.

And by the way, this is actually part of a much BIGGER issue...that most guys feel OBLIGATED to give things to women, buy them things...and basically PAY for their attention and affection.

If you've got a "bad" case of this, then I recommend that you get your hands on a copy of my "Deep Inner Game" program. It will help you change all of that BAD programming, and build a self image and a powerful self confidence that will make women feel more NATURALLY attracted to you. Details are here:

Of course, these are basically the WORST places to go with a woman in the beginning because, as I mentioned above, they aren't very "natural" places to be.

Instead of asking a woman "out to dinner", try this...

When you're talking on the phone about getting together say, "Let's meet for a cup of tea. This way, if YOU turn out to be a complete freak, I can run away easily."

This will get a laugh, and it will get her thinking to herself, "Wow, this guy is qualifying ME."

Also, suggest a place that's close to your house, in case you want to invite her over afterward.

When you meet for tea, actually drink tea (or iced tea). Because coffee makes your breath nasty and tea is perceived as a more "classy" drink. It's also cheaper than a latte or a mocha.

After you have tea for 30 or 60 minutes, decide how YOU like HER. If you want to continue say either:

"Hey, let's keep talking. I want to shop for a bit, come along."

...or...

"Hey, let's keep talking. Where are you parked? You can follow me..." (to your place, of course).

In either case, just assume that she will go along with whatever you're doing, and she almost always will if you're doing a good job of being Cocky & Funny and keeping her attention.

If you do go out "shopping", go to a funky alternative neighborhood that has tattoo shops, record stores, ethnic food restaurants, etc. Every city has an area like this, so go there.

These places are SO GREAT because they have fun and interesting conversation BUILT RIGHT IN.

If things are going well, and you're enjoying the time with her, you can then have her follow you over to your place. Again, just tell her that you're enjoying the conversation, and that you'd like to continue...and for her to follow you.

Total expense (if you pay for her tea and yours):

A few bucks.

How much better is this than taking her out to an expensive meal and trying to have a normal conversation across a table while being forced to look right at each other all night?

You do the math.

If you actually do a little creative thinking, you can figure out ALL KINDS of great things to do that cost little or no money at all when you go out with women.

Extra bonus:

When you don't do "normal" dating things, women will tend to play "hard to get" less. They'll expect less in the way of gifts and money spent on them and they'll actually HAVE MORE FUN.

Really.

You mentioned above that you're going to be getting my Advanced Dating Techniques Program. Good choice!

It contains a workbook and about 18 HOURS of digitally recorded and edited audio and/or video that's JAM PACKED WITH HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS of great techniques for approaching, dating, and getting physical with women.

The guest interviews alone are priceless.

Of course, it comes with my "try it before you buy it" RISK-FREE guarantee.

If you're not THRILLED with it, just let me know and you won't be charged at all.

I know it's going to help you meet women. Go to:

...for the details.

And if you're reading this right now, and you haven't yet downloaded my online eBook "Double Your Dating", you really need to get a copy. It's the foundation for everything I teach in these newsletters, and it will make EVERYTHING about women and dating make more sense.

It's at...

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Do NOT forget to check out all of my other great programs, each one designed to teach you a specific area of success with women and dating. They're all here:









Friday, June 14, 2013

How To Make A Woman Beg You To Get Physical

SHOCKING FACT OF THE DAY:

There's 1 HUGE MISTAKE that nearly ALL men make when trying to "getting physical" with a woman... and it ALWAYS makes her run screaming for the door.

But guess what -- all YOU have to do is NOT make this mistake... and the next woman you're with will be so grateful (and TURNED ON) that she'll beg you to take things further.

Learn what that BIG MISTAKE is -- and how to make sure YOU never make it again -- right here:

Man

Okay, listen... I have to admit it...

Lately I've been talking to you about some VERY "deep" stuff when it comes to women and dating.

We've discussed how to permanently overcome your fears of approaching women and getting rejected.

We've talked about how to "transform" yourself into the kind of man who can get any woman he wants, any time he wants.

We've talked about how to "close the deal" with women to get more dates than you can handle...

We've even gone into how to have a great RELATIONSHIP (man, sometimes I still can't believe we've gone there...)

But like Tom Cruise said in "Risky Business", sometimes you just have to say "what the ****" and get down to it....

That in mind...

Today, I want to talk about a subject I hear from hundreds of guys a month about...

HOW TO GET PHYSICAL WITH A WOMAN...and FAST.

That's why, in just a moment, I'm going to get into the BEST WAY to take things from "hello" to HOT AND HEAVY with a woman...

But even better... how to make her BEG you for it.

But first, the ground rules:

#1) I'm going to assume that you've overcome all your fear and "shyness" when it comes to approaching women.

#2) I'm going to assume that you know how to approach a woman in different situations and start conversations.

Finally, and most important...

#3) I'm going to assume that you know EXACTLY what to say and do to get numbers from women... and then close the deal to get actual DATES.

In other words, I'm going to assume that you've laid all the necessary groundwork for "getting physical" by mastering the principles and techniques of CREATING ATTRACTION.

Why?

Because if you don't have a handle on the basics of creating ATTRACTION yet, this is the cold, hard fact:

NOTHING I'm about to tell you will help you "get physical" with a woman.

Why not?

Because women won't give you the time of the day -- let alone consider you as a sexual partner -- until you understand HOW ATTRACTION WORKS.

And I am NOT talking about having to look like a movie star, drive a sick car, or have lots of money.

ATTRACTION is *NOT* about any of these things.

Period.

That's why, if YOU need to a crash course on how to CREATE ATTRACTION... 100% by what you say and do... I need you to go here right now:

Then, once you understand these basics, here's the VERY good news...

It's EASIER THAN YOU EVER IMAGINED to take things to a physical level with a woman... and do it FAST.

Even make her BEG you to take her to bed.

That in mind, let's dive in...

As a starting point, let's imagine you're coming to the end of your first date with a woman you really like.

Now, if you've listened to me at all, you know that this date BETTER NOT have included buying her an expensive dinner.

Let's say you're a good student of mine, and that you took her for late coffee.

Well done.

Now it's time...

You're going to generate the first spark of "sexual feelings" in her by TAKING CONTROL of the situation right now.

How?

By making sure YOU'RE the one to "end" this date.

By being the one who says, "Okay, I think we'd better be going."

This immediately creates intrigue in her.

It builds feelings in her that you might actually be a sexual partner, instead of a "wussy-boy" who's scared to cut short any opportunity to talk to a woman...

...then inevitably blow everything by saying something stupid.

Okay, now that you've taken control by "ending" this date, next you need to walk her home...

To YOUR home.

Invite her back to your house or apartment, and DO JUST ONE THING at the door before you go inside:

Start talking to her like she's trying to convince you to let her come in (even if she's not).

Say something like: "Sorry... I had a great time, but I have to get up early in the morning..."

She'll probably stare at you in surprise. So wait a few beats. Then say: "Oh, okay, you can come in for a few minutes."

Then open the door for her like a GENTLEMAN.

Now let's freeze-frame right here, and think about what you're actually doing...

You're being chivalrous AND busting her balls at the same time.

LISTEN CLOSE:

I can't emphasize enough how well this works to ramp-up feelings of sexual desire in a woman.

I *always* make sure to keep both of these feelings going at the same time.

I open doors for women, walk on the outside of the curb, and pull chairs out, etc.

But I also tease and use what I call "Cocky Comedy" at every opportunity.

This is crucial. More about all that here:

But here's the bottom line:

By being both CHIVALROUS *and* BUSTING HER BALLS, you're creating incredible SEXUAL TENSION inside her.

You're showing her two things at once...

That you're BOTH a "bad boy" AND a "gentlemen."

And make no mistake: this is the HOLY GRAIL when it comes to what women want in a SEXUAL PARTNER.

Learn it. Live it.

Okay, let's un-freeze and continue...

Next, just walk in, and let her follow.

Now you're in the house.

Cool.

Take her for a casual tour, then sit her down somewhere comfortable.

Doesn't really matter where... sofa's good, bed is even better... but wherever you wind up is fine.

Then here's the next move:

BECOME QUIET.

"Whu? Huh?" I hear you asking.

What I mean is, get quiet and let HER do the talking while you just look at her.

Then, while she's doing it, lean away from her, and look away. As if you're thinking about something.

Then just reach over and stroke her hair.

Just a little, at the bottom, while she's talking.

Okay -- now let's pause again, because this is a key moment.

The whole ball game, really.

If she's okay with your doing with this, you can take it as a SURE SIGN that she's into you... and things are wide open to take things to the next level physically.

This is a CRUCIAL, and a piece of the puzzle that it took me a long time to figure out how to solve.

I used to do massages and all kinds of other stuff, but I quickly learned from "the naturals" -- the masters of women and dating -- that NOTHING works as well as stroking a woman's hair like this.

The fact is, if a woman doesn't pull away from you (or give you some other sign she's not into it), she's going to be making out with you in very short order, period.

IMPORTANT NOTE: If a woman does pull away, or in any way shows you she's not interested in getting physical at this point, STOP. Move on. This isn't about forcing anyone to do anything.

Sheesh, did I really have to tell you that?

Anyway. Onward...

At this point, if she's letting you stroke her hair in this way, you should take things up just one small notch.

Try a light hand massage.

Maybe a little neck rub.

Definitely try to pull her in closer.

Start to "cuddle" with her.

Sniff her hair more and more while you continue to stroke it.

Within about 5 or 10 minutes, move to her neck and ears.

Listen up... NO KISSING at this point.

No touching or groping at all.

DO NOT DO IT!

Just continue with the smelling, leaning back and showing that you're completely into it.

Like it's relaxing you.

Keep this going and I GUARANTEE IT:

She'll soon become so turned on that you won't believe it. And at some point soon... SHE'S going to be the one who tries to KISS YOU.

And that's what you should be waiting for.

Let her lips get close to yours... even let them touch yours a bit...

... then (surprise) back off and just keep smelling.

Say something teasing like, "Oh, you're kind of forward, aren't you?"

It'll drive her CRAZY.

After a few more moments, finally kiss her back, full-on.

Run your hands through her hair... the whole romantic kiss thing...

...THEN STOP AGAIN.

See what's happening here?

This kind of teasing is EXTREMELY stimulating to women... almost to the point that they'll be in actual pain if you leave them hanging.

But we both know you won't....

But until then, be PATIENT. Hold out until the woman can't stand it anymore.

You're REALLY waiting for her to start doing something sexual... maybe grinding her hips on you... or grabbing your butt... whatever.

Now listen close, this is KEY...

At this point, SHE'S going to become the aggressor. So you'll say something like:

"All you have to do is say PLEASE."

Maybe she'll then say, "No no no... I'm not going to beg you..."

You just say, "OK". Then roll over or just lay back and look up... but look AWAY from her.

This will make the woman begin to wonder what the heck is going on here.

Her interest and desire will be on fire.

She'll come over and start cuddling and kissing you to get things going again.

And you'll keep on with the sensual kissing, breathing in her ears... all that good stuff.

When she's so worked up that you can hear her breathing faster and her heart pounding, you'll say it again:

"All you have to do is say PLEASE."

OK, you get the idea.

If you need help on what to do after this step, it's tragic. I recommend you go buy a book. Maybe the Kama Sutra or something.

My point is, the key to getting physical woman FAST is all about ramping up SEXUAL TENSION.

If you'd like to learn incredibly FAST AND EASY WAYS more way to do it, I'm ready to help...

My legendary "SEXUAL COMMUNICATION" program is a home-study course designed to teach you 100% OF WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW about driving women so wild with desire, it's almost IMPOSSIBLE for them *not* to get physical with you!

Here are just a few of the SUCCESS-PROVEN TOOLS AND TECHNIQUES you'll get in the program:

--What you MUST say and do to get a woman to come back to your house -- and stay as long as you want her to!

--Step-by-step processes for taking her from "Hello" to the bedroom... FAST.

--Word-for-word "Power Lines" that create OVERWHELMING SEXUAL AROUSAL the moment a woman hears them.

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Plus a whole lot more.

Pretty amazing stuff, but let me be frank...

If you're one of those guys who has no problem turning "friendly chats" with women into mind- blowing SEX, then this program isn't for you.

But... if you're looking for the fool-proof tools you need to make sure you never go home "alone and frustrated" again... this program will simply CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

In fact, I'm so sure of it, if it doesn't happen for you FAST, I'm going to send your money back, no questions asked.

Sound good?

Then let's do it...

Just click here for details:

And be sure to send me your stories of your new, off-the-hook sexual success!

Your friend,

David DeAngelo

PS: Did you know there are 19 qualities that EVERY woman looks for in a man to "test" if he might be her next sexual partner?

Fascinating, but here's what YOU need to know right NOW:

There are also specific, WORD-FOR-WORD things you can say to ANY woman that IMMEDIATELY prove to her that you're her SEXUAL MATCH.

In fact, say just 2 or 3 of these things to her and you're "in"...

Learn what they are right here:









Thursday, June 6, 2013

How To Use Cocky Comedy For Online Dating Success

NOTE: I'd like to teach you the direct method of communication with women called Body Language... that will get a woman to notice you, feel attraction for you, and even APPROACH you. Find out more here:

***QUESTION***

Dave:

On your video series, you talk about getting past the fluff and "talk to that other part of the woman" How do you do that? Especially with online dating, I keep thinking that my dialogue with these women is all wrong.

I know you gotta be C&F, but sometimes there's not much to go on from an online profile. Here's an example from a girl that lives in my neighborhood:

"I'd like to eventually settle down with someone that I can look to as a best friend and that I can laugh with. I enjoy traveling, working out, yoga, music, and dining out in NYC. I am playful and fun and have a lot to offer the right man. I believe that the best relationships are based on friendship. I am genuine, kind and compassionate and I am looking for the same in a man.

My ideal match is the kind of guy that isn't afraid of being himself. He knows what he wants and goes for it. He is confident, not cocky. He is a person of good character, high morals and loyal. He is thoughtful, considerate and knows how to treat a lady. Last but not least, my ideal man is attractive with a good sense of humor".

I can't think of anything cocky to say to this... or how to communicate that I'm a sexually aware man. I'm not really sure what you mean by sexually aware anyway, unless you mean sexually successful...like when you know you're hot and women want you.

So, can you help me understand how you'd respond?

thanks,

-R

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, first of all, I recommend that you go back through my program, and pay attention to the workbook that came with it.

I actually included a sample "cut and paste" type of answer for online profiles that works very well.

In fact, when I originally published it in one of these dating tips newsletters, I had literally dozens and dozens of guys from all around the world who wrote in saying that they cut and pasted it and used it online... and had fabulous response.

Now, let me address a few of your comments...

To summarize what I think about your situation, I'd say that you probably need to keep reviewing the material that you have, and keep practicing.

If you have little experience with women, then you have almost no frame of reference for what I'm talking about in general. Until you start DOING more, you just won't "get it" as well.

Especially when it comes to online dating, you have to remember... attractive women are getting TONS of responses and matches.

So you need to stand out.

At some point, the hundreds of men who are trying to get the attention of a beautiful women, will all run together into a big lump of desperate men. Make sure you're not one of them.

Also, forget about trying to start a conversation with a woman by reading her profile, thinking about it, considering what she's looking for, and then responding in a way that she will find interesting.

No no no!

The profile you sent above could have been written by any woman in any part of the world... it might as well be a generic ad template for women.

The one thing it DOESN'T mention (and the one thing that NO female profile EVER mention) is what makes this woman feel ATTRACTION for a man.

Think about it for a minute...

This woman sat down one night at her computer, and said to herself:

"I'm tired of the dating game. Maybe if I write an online profile and describe the kind of guy I'm looking for, Prince Charming will find me and we'll live happily ever after."

Can't you just FEEL it in her words?

"I'd like to eventually settle down with someone that I can look to as a best friend and that I can laugh with..."

"I believe that the best relationships are based on friendship..."

And the whole last paragraph is priceless...

"My ideal match is the kind of guy that isn't afraid of being himself. He knows what he wants and goes for it. He is confident, not cocky. He is a person of good character, high morals and loyal. He is thoughtful, considerate and knows how to treat a lady. Last but not least, my ideal man is attractive with a good sense of humor..."

So what do most guys do when they read this?

Of course... they write back something like:

"Hi, I'm a nice attractive SWM who has a sense of humor, high morals, is honest, and also believes that a good friendship is the foundation for a great relationship."

UGH!

Someone bring me a bucket, because I'm gonna PUKE.

Look... when a woman is writing about herself, she's usually at a point in her life where she's lonely... and hoping to find a long-term companion.

OF COURSE she's going to write all this sappy stuff.

But that doesn't change ANYTHING about what is going to get her attention and make her feel ATTRACTION.

Again, my gut tells me that you're trying to figure out how to act here with a WUSSY response that will make her love you.

Don't.

And to address your question of how to communicate that you're a confident, sexually aware man...

You do this by NOT trying to please her, saying what she wants to hear, and kissing up to her.

It sounds to me like you need to spend more time studying the materials you have, practicing your Cocky & Funny skills, and making your personality more interesting... and less time chasing women who are looking for an open, honest, Yoga-loving husband.

Use the materials you have!

Practice!

Get online and work on your Cocky & Funny. Copy and paste the conversations ideas and tips in your Advanced Series and use it online.

Until you're REALLY good at engineering, quit trying to reinvent the wheel.

And if you're reading this letter and thinking that you also want to try some proven techniques to get the attention of beautiful women online, check out my Advanced Series program:

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

You are right the C & F seem to work but I wanna ask you something... how often are you supposed to be c & f? I mean, are you supposed to sprinkle it in during a normal convo or should you use it moderately or at every single thing she says? I ask b/c id like to hold a normal convo also & in your opinion what would be best? I'm interested in your opinion on this.

CJ, New York

>>>MY COMMENTS:

The more you use it, the more you'll get a feel for how much to use Cocky & Funny.

Use it a LOT in the beginning, on the first outing for a cup of tea, during the first dates, etc.

And use it especially if you're doing the whole online dating scene... it's the best way to stand out from all the other guys women are reading about.

The exception is if you don't have a lot of time, and you want to get a woman's number/email fast. In that case, use the 3 minute technique I talk about in Double Your Dating, and as described in a past newsletter that you've probably read. In those cases, it takes too much time.

Also, as you get to know a woman, you'll have more and more "normal" conversations...

Never stop being Cocky & Funny, unpredictable, etc.

But you can ease up a little as you get to know a woman better.

Use it... and you'll get it.

***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

I have been reading your newsletter for about a year now and it works great!! True genius!!! I have always been cocky and funny even before knowing what c&f was, you just helped me realize exactly why I was succeeding with women. There is this girl who is probably a 9-10, but has had a boyfriend for some time now. I have been cocky and funny with her since the day i met her (btw she's a bartender) and she really seems to respond to it. She poured me a drink once and after I tasted it I said to her "whoa this is really strong, are you trying to get me drunk to take advantage of me," and she responded by saying "oh yea baby" and smiled at me and rubbed my arm. My question is as follows: I really want this girl and she seems to respond to my cocky and funny routine, in fact I think she likes me, but what do I do about the boyfriend situation?? What are the odds I can actually end up with this chick??

GB Orlando

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, so what you're trying to tell me is that the only attractive woman in ORLANDO, FLORIDA is a bartender with a long term boyfriend?

Hey, good idea... since there are only about a million or so single women in your area, why not pick one who's already seeing someone?

Duh.

Stop that!

If a woman has a boyfriend, just walk away, man.

Every month or two, when you're ordering a drink from her say, "Hey, are you still married?"

This is funny because you're busting on her and at the same time asking if she's still with her BF.

At some point she'll probably say, "No, I just dumped him". Most relationships end, so stay in touch.

And in the meantime, do something productive with your time... like dating some of the single women in your area, who don't have boyfriends that are probably the jealous 6'6" 250 pound meathead bouncer at the bar who likes to beat up guys for fun.

Here is what I would do: try online dating.

It's the best place to practice your skills and use humor to build attraction with women. Hey, what's the worse it could happen? You get a few dates with other attractive women in your area and become really good at this for when your favorite bartender is single.

Go check out my Advanced Series... It's FULL with tips and ideas to write your profile, and how to start intriguing conversations online.

***QUESTION***

Hi David,

thanks for all your great info that i have been receiving over the past several months. I have been putting into practice the things i learned from your e-book and newsletters with much improved results in the dating scene...........in a few of your newsletters you mentioned that jealousy is the strongest of all emotions. How do you deal with it if it is the woman who tries to make you jealous. What's the best mindset and way to handle it David.

d London

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Jealousy is an interesting topic.

I'm not sure that I said it was the "strongest" of all emotions... but I probably did say that it was one of the most powerful.

Jealousy causes people to do all sorts of stupid things... but it can also keep relationships together.

If a woman knows that other women are interested in you, she'll want you more.

If a man finds out that his girl is sleeping with another man, he can fly into a rage that often leads to violence (or worse).

Women are notorious for trying to make men jealous.

Many women intuitively realize that jealousy will make a man more interested and make him work harder for her attention and affection.

If a woman tries to make me jealous, I just laugh.

If she says:

"Oh, this guy I used to date called me last night to see if I was single..."

I might laugh and say:

"Well you should go out with him."

At this point a woman will usually realize that what she's doing isn't working and say, "No, I don't like him, why did you say that?"

It's important to overcome the natural tendency in life to have your emotions triggered by outside events.

It takes some work in many cases, but it's worth it.

Jealousy is an almost useless emotion. Do your best to realize that you don't need it... and then communicate that you're not easily played... and you don't get jealous over other men.

Works wonders, and makes you even more attractive.

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

I read your ebook a few weeks ago and like everyone else, I am going to suck up to you and say it's great. These tips really helped me out in the dating life. To the problem, I've known this Italian girl since the summer. It started out as an Internet thing in a chat room as with my natural humor and new set of balls, I got hooked into me. Fast forward to a few months in November, we still kept talking and views me as a "Friend", even though we didn't even send a single picture to one another. Things are going so well, that *she* decides that we should meet up somewhere. We did, and I bet every reader in this room would be very very very jealous if they saw me with this girl.

Things went well on this "get together", I busted her balls, made her laugh, and her facial expressions were mostly "What the..." look with sometimes leaving her speechless. At the end, she said I was definitely a keeper... wee. Fast forward to a few days ago, and now she tells me that she had sex with her ex-boyfriend who "she loved" and hasn't seen a long time. The reason why they broke up is because he had to move, they were both in good terms. Even though the ex is currently seeing someone else, who he claims he is not interested in this "other", they still did it. She said at the end that she views me as a "friend"

My question: What gives? She was taking initiative to even *ask* me out, which is something that 0.001% of girls ask for, she compliments me, kisses me, the whole package, yet just a few days ago she tells me that she loves her ex?

For some reason I am going to get the feeling you are going to go on with my life, wish I could, but even though I did "double my dating", my dates haven't been all that fulfilling. Let's say my best date besides this one was some Swedish Figure Skater who kept talking about her past 90000 boyfriends.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oh, yeah. I really feel for you.

In the months since you've been reading these newsletters and few WEEKS since you've read my book you've dated a super-hot Italian girl and a Swedish Figure Skater.

And your dates haven't been "all that fulfilling."

Bummer, man.

OK, as for your Italian girl who slept with her ex.

These things happen, man.

Welcome to life on Earth.

My book is called "Double Your Dating," not "How To Make Sure Every Relationship With Every Woman In Your Life Turns Out Like A Movie."

Get out there and date some more women!

That'll get your mind off of the Italian girl (who you obviously feel attached to)... and onto some other super-babes that you have yet to meet.

Do what you know works...

Didn't you say this thing with her started as an "Internet thing?" Well, do that again.

And use any opportunity to bust on your dates when they talk about their exes. They're probably just testing you anyways, to see if you get jealous.

Don't fall into that trap. Make a joke about it.

Don't let the conversation continue about an ex!

Use the humor and Cocky Funny techniques you're learning from me to stay away from the ex - talk.

***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

Well I've read your e-book for about the 4th time now. I'm most likely going to read it at least that many more times. I'm just starting to put your teachings into the real world. The first time out I was with 2 of my buddies and 2 women that they both new a lot better than I did. One girl is a 8/9 the other is a solid 9. Well my buddy was in the process on dating the 8/9 so I started to work on the 9. I did the C/F routine, but I think I was a little short on the funny but after all my teasing and busting she still smiled and laughed. I told her some stuff about how "hotties" view men and how beauty was like a curse to them. She seemed to look at me like I could read her mind. But after that she kind of drifted from me and eventually went over by the guys that I bet her would all sleep with her in a heartbeat.... who all acted like ass kissers might I add. My question is...did I scare her with my knowledge of knowing so much of her game? Also it is really hard for me to work in a group of people. How can you really focus your skills when everybody is always switching who they are talking to. I'd say for a first time out it with my new tools it wasn't a loss but more of a tie.

M Tampa

>>>MY COMMENTS:

A "tie?"

And what were you trying to do with this girl, win a popularity contest?

Did you ask her for her email?

No.

Did you ask her for her number?

No.

Did you add her to your social network?

No.

Quit talking so much about losers who like to kiss ass and act like Wussies, and start thinking NEXT STEP.

Remember the bonus booklet that you got with "Double Your Dating" called "Bridges?"

This booklet teaches you how to go from one step to the next.

The principle is that you need to know where you are going... and then take steps to get there.

What... did you expect this girl to jump on your lap and say, "Let's get out of here!"?

Lighten up on being the profound guru a little, and start thinking NEXT STEP.

You didn't have a "tie" here, you had a "I didn't do what it takes to win" here.

***QUESTION***

Dear David,

I have been reading your emails for about 6 months now, and I gotta tell you. Your words and advice have helped me with my life more than anything else *ever*. I have gone from getting a date with maybe one average looking girl every 4 months, to getting 7 or 8 dates from very beautiful women in less than 2 weeks. My confidence is skyrocketing, and women I would have automatically accepted before (based on their above average looks) are now often unacceptable in one way or another (usually due to neurotic behavior).

I have been changing my patterns and even people at work are noticing the difference. I am way more confident when confronted by my boss. I have gone so far as to make cocky/funny jokes at his expense hehe (surprisingly, it had the same effect on him as the women, he's started following me around, YIKES). I am attempting to find humor in every situation. Even being stalked by my massive... scary... hulking, boss (God help me).

I am still not at the place I want to be, but like anything new, practice makes perfect (I imagine buying your book and DVD set may help too). I can actually notice daily improvements as I apply these principles to my life.

Thank you so much David. Who knows, I may even get a raise ;)

Quick question: I have had so many girls talk to me about their problems like right away. I agree with what you say about becoming a dumping ground and how it has 'wussy' written all over it. Do you have a few examples of how I could stop this behavior without scaring them off or making them think I am some kind of a**hole?

YOU ROCK

SF, BC

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, first of all, congratulations on getting 7-8 dates from beautiful women in 2 weeks. You're the man.

To answer your question about what to say to women who start talking about their problems right away...

Here's the deal.

When a woman starts talking about her problems, what she's REALLY saying is, "I'm feeling bad right now. I think that if I talk about my problems I'll feel good... so that's what I'm going to do."

I hope you're with me here.

Most guys go along with this, and try to be "nice" about the whole affair.

If you're like I used to be, you actually TRY TO HELP.

Well guess what?

This is a REALLY bad idea if you want a woman to feel ATTRACTION for you.

The BEST thing to do in these situations is to make her FEEL BETTER.

And being a "nice" Wuss Bag Girly-Man Therapist isn't the way to do it.

Try this:

Next time a woman starts with the problems, just interrupt her and say, "Hey, whoa... wait a minute here... do I look like one of your GIRLFRIENDS?"

She'll say, "No."

You say, "Great, then don't talk to me like I'm one of them, OK?"

Continue with:

"If you want therapy, I'm going to have to charge you at LEAST two hundred an hour... I'm expensive. I'm in WAY too good of a mood to listen to this stuff for free."

Now, you MUST remember something here.

You're NOT trying to come across like a heartless bastard when you say this stuff.

What you ARE trying to say is, "Hey, you have girlfriends, and their role is comforting you and talking about things. I'm not your girlfriend. I'm the person who you feel GOOD when you're around... the one that cheers you up... the one that keeps you interested."

This is a VERY important distinction.

You must understand and believe this when you do it, or else you'll just come across like a selfish prick.

I've done this exact thing NUMEROUS times in my day, and almost EVERY time the woman stops, laughs, and says:

"Oh, sorry. You're right... so what are you doing?" etc.

You can COMPLETELY change the mood and tone of a situation if you stand up, act like a man, and refuse the invitation to be her free Wussy Therapist Buddy.

But you really need to remember that a generous helping of Cocky & Funny will make this work best.

If you listen to her problems and act like a girlfriend, then that's what you're going to turn into.

And thanks for the compliments... I get a lot of feedback that this stuff helps in a lot of different areas of life, and I know that my own life has improved in many different ways as a result.

Oh, and you're right about the fact that investing in my video program will REALLY help your success.

I guarantee that you'll be slapping yourself and saying, "What the hell have I been waiting for?"

If you've been dating average women, you'll start meeting SUPER hot women.

If you've been running into a challenge, this program will solve it for you.

And if you're reading this right now and you've been thinking of investing in my Advanced Dating Techniques program, then you need to do it.

It comes with a 100% satisfaction guarantee... if you're not thrilled, and it doesn't take your game to a whole new level, just ask for a refund.

Really.

I want you to be one of the success stories in the next Mailbag... go check out the details here:

And in this Mailbag you've also heard from a lot of guys who are using my original eBook "Double Your Dating" to improve their success with women and dating. It comes with three additional free bonus booklets, and it's a complete introduction to my principles and techniques. Of course, it also comes with a 100% guarantee. Go download your copy here... you can be reading it in literally a few minutes from right now:

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

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