Thursday, August 29, 2013

Keeping A Beautiful Woman Attracted

NOTE: One day you WILL meet a woman who is everything you've been looking for... and since she's a quality woman, she'll probably only give you one shot. When this happens, aren't you going to want her to know that YOU are the "Mr. Right" she has been looking for? Learn how here:

***DATING QUESTION FROM READER***

Hello, David!

I want to start by thanking you for your work. Once in a great while, someone comes along that truly wants to help others succeed, and puts in the effort to the research and testing, and makes something great for others. You are one of those people, and I'm glad to see you succeed by helping so many others do the same.

I was reaching to find answers, like a lot of us were, and found your material. It has been awesome. In the last week, I saw the most attractive woman I perhaps ever have. She was a 9.5 on my scale, which is truly rare to find for me. Not just in looks, but a great personality. Instead of giving in to my normal habits, I applied the methods you taught. We went out to a club, and had a great time. I had another friend of mine there, and I used him as a means to partially ignore her at times, constantly making jokes that were just too quiet for her to hear, and looking at her and smiling when doing it. She constantly wanted to know what was funny, yet she wasn't mad, just shyly curious. I was aloof, yet not terribly too distant from her. I would wander off by myself, knowing she was with my friend, and leave them hanging alone for a little while now and then. (I knew my friend wasn't going to hit on her). I would go up to other girls and whisper something in their ear right in front of her, to give her the idea that I was completely comfortable in my own skin with women. Once, on my way back from the dance floor, I found her with some other guy. I flashed a sly little smile, but kept on walking right by, as if to imply "You have a good time there. I could care less. As a matter of fact, you look a tad pathetic coming on to him." She soon returned and said that I had been gone too long, and some guy had "dragged her away from me". That night, I had resisted the urge to act like anything but the kind of man you would teach someone to be. All urges at wussness were disregarded, and I played the part to a tee. Even though it didn't entirely feel normal or comfortable at first, I could see that it was definitely working, so I kept it up. I would occasionally catch her staring at me from the corner of my eye, sometimes for 2 or 3 seconds. I didn't react, but just kept saying to myself "Damn. David has been right the whole time".

I woke up the next morning with a weird feeling... this was something I had never achieved before. I don't mean sex with a woman soon after I met her, but the fact that she was so damn gorgeous. At the risk of sounding a little chauvinistic, she was the best girl I have ever had. Well, over the next two weeks or so, I kept coming over and doing things during the days with her and staying at night. This is when things began to change.

You had a timeless question from a guy once who said something like "After I sleep with a woman why do I feel like hating her?" Well, I normally feel the same. But with this girl, it was different. I wanted to keep her. But, the more time we spent together, the more we started to both feel like whatever I sparked was fading quick. I could see the thrill of our initial meeting was dying, and I wanted to add to my image in her mind the idea that I could be a part of her daily life too, not just the nighttime party one.

I felt like I had to show her something that proved I didn't just want her for sex. I knew I couldn't let her interpret it as me buying her attention or body, although I'm afraid that may have been exactly what I did. I ended up purchasing her and her roommate a full stock of groceries, which they definitely needed. It gave me some kind of a sense that I had shown that I was more than just a sex buddy, which really felt good to me. However, lately she has pulled away. We will still go out and have a good time, but more like friends, with only a little flirting. She now refuses sex, saying "it would complicate things." By the way, although she has been in long-term relationships since she was 16, she currently isn't, and seems to be enjoying the party life a lot. She is 22 now. I know you said in your series that it is a mistake to try to tie down a party girl, but she told me of her long-term history with guys, and that's why I tried. Did I screw up by getting too close too fast? Was it unrealistic for me to show that kind of attention to her needs that quick or at all? How many times should a guy see a girl each week if he wants to keep up the attraction and have a great time, but not become too familiar to her?

Thanks man.

Confused, -J

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oh, I feel your pain.

I'm sure that just about every man alive can identify with this story in one way or another... even if it doesn't involve a woman that you'd describe as a "9.5".

So, let's talk about the situation you're in, what happened at first, and what to do now...

First of all, congratulations on the fact that you were able to make this kind of success happen in the first place!

You're doing great, and I know how good it feels to have this kind of success with a really attractive woman.

It sounds like you're really starting to "get it" at a deep level. The more you continue to study the materials you have (especially the CD Series) the more you'll understand how to attract these UNUSUALLY attractive women... and more importantly, KEEP THEM ATTRACTED.

Let's review a few of my main concepts, and how they apply to this situation...

ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE

Explained differently, a woman doesn't CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE to feel attracted to a man.

A woman also doesn't consciously choose to STOP her attraction for a man.

It happens for reasons that seem very illogical to most men.

The things you were doing when you first met this girl were EXACTLY the right things for creating this wonderful feeling of ATTRACTION inside of her.

And she obviously enjoyed it tremendously.

You mentioned that you didn't feel totally comfortable at first, but since it was obvious that she was becoming more and more interested in you, you kept going... which led to you getting together with her.

But, remember the flip side: If you start doing the WRONG things, the woman will LOSE her ATTRACTION for you as well. And it will happen ALL BY ITSELF. The worst part is that you can't logically convince her to keep feeling attracted to you. If you screw it up, you're probably going to screw it up to a point that is almost impossible to fix.

More of the "psychology" of creating and amplifying attraction is here:

GIVE HER THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU

What do most guys do as soon as they meet a REALLY HOT, ultra-attractive woman?

Of course! They call three times a day, and want to see her all the time.

Attractive women know better than to do this.

When an attractive woman meets a man she likes, she usually PLAYS HARD TO GET. Instead of calling, she acts like she's BUSY.

This makes the man try even harder, and pursue her even more...

It sounds like you did exactly the opposite.

In your email here you say:

"Well, over the next two weeks or so, I kept coming over and doing things during the days with her and staying at night. This is when things began to change..."

No no no!

Over the next two weeks you should have called her every few days, and seen her maybe three times for a few hours each.

No "doing things during the days with her and staying at night"!

You really need to remember to GIVE HER THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU!

If you're around all the time, you become predictable, expected, and uninteresting.

On the other hand, if you're mysterious, challenging, and hard to pin down, she will think about you and miss the times she's had with you.

DON'T TURN INTO A WUSS

This is one of the biggest mistakes that men make when they meet a woman that they REALLY like.

I get a lot of emails from guys saying "I met this girl, and I used everything I've learned from Double Your Dating to get her... but now that we've been seeing each other for awhile things are changing, and I'm starting to lose control of how I act... and I'm turning into my old Wussy self..."

As I'm sure you can guess, this is bad bad bad for attraction.

When you start out by doing things that are attractive to her, then gradually turn into a WUSS BAG, you go from her wildest dream to her worst nightmare right in front of her eyes.

If you figure out how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you, then KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING!

Don't start being a clingy Wuss. Translation: Don't spend every day and night with her, don't buy her groceries, and don't try to get her into a relationship fifteen minutes after you meet her.

You also mentioned a few little words that stood out for me: "I kept coming over...".

YOU kept coming over. When you're the one coming to her, then she's the one in control. Think about it. This is a small point, and it isn't always the case, but in this situation it makes a difference.

So, what should you do now?

You should give her some space. Don't call her more than once or twice a week, and don't see her more than once or twice a week for awhile. Don't pressure her physically, and don't try to push for a relationship.

DATE OTHER WOMEN! Get out there and go out with some other women... and when you talk to her don't hide the fact that you're doing it. Be casual about it, but feel free to mention it in conversation once or twice.

GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE

Don't get hung up, don't obsess about her, and don't make it important to "win her back". Just move on.

This combination will give you the greatest chance of winning her back...

And the next time you meet a beautiful woman that has an interesting personality, DON'T TURN INTO A PREDICTABLE, BORING, CLINGY, WUSSY!

You've done a great job getting this far. Now get back in there and take this to the next level!

And if you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself "I need to learn this stuff so I can meet beautiful women like this guy...", then we have to talk.

One of the most important insights I've gotten from learning the secrets of how to attract women is very interesting...

I've realized that if a man doesn't know how to attract women, it spills over into all other areas of his life. It's a very special kind of insecurity that causes a lot of problems in other areas as well.

Let's face it.

Just about everything that men do to achieve material success in life is somehow connected to ATTRACTING WOMEN.

But guess what?

Material success won't make the INSECURITY and the FEAR go away!

The only thing that WILL make it go away is actually LEARNING how to attract women.

I know, because I've been there. I can CLEARLY remember how different I felt inside when I had no idea how to meet women... and I know how different it feels now that I do.

My relationships work better, because I'm not acting AFRAID... afraid that she's going to leave, afraid I won't be able to find someone else... etc.

And when I'm single, I'm happy. I don't constantly worry anymore, not knowing if I'll ever meet another woman.

I personally think that taking the time to learn how to make women feel ATTRACTION is one of the best investments you will ever make in yourself and your life, period.

It might be THE best investment.

If you'd like to get the best training available in the WORLD, then you need to get yourself a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques Program.

It's a complete education, from the psychology of how to overcome fear and improve your self image, all the way to specific techniques for approaching, meeting, and dating women... and even how to take things to a "physical level" without rejection.

I absolutely guarantee that this program will change your success with women.

All the details, plus some great free samples are here:

If you've gone through my Advanced Dating Techniques program, and you enjoyed the INNER GAME aspects of attracting women... and you've realized that REALLY attractive women are more attracted to INNER qualities than "techniques"... AND you want to learn how to become the kind of man that women are NATURALLY attracted to... and that they STAY attracted to...

...then you REALLY need to check out my program: "On Being A Man... Who Naturally Attracts Women".

Inside this program you'll learn how to develop the QUALITIES inside YOURSELF that women are "naturally" attracted to.

This program will teach you how to leave your "Inner Wuss" behind, and how to cultivate a natural masculine power that women find literally IRRESISTIBLE.

All the details are here:

And if you haven't taken the time to download my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need to go and do that RIGHT NOW. You can download it right now and be reading it within a few minutes. Go and get it here:

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P. S. Don't forget to check out my online "catalog" page, where you can watch video clips of all of my different programs:









Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Major Video Tip: How To Project Instant Confidence With A Woman

Drop everything...

I want you to watch a *FREE* video clip from one of my recent, jam-packed LIVE SEMINARS, and I want you to watch it RIGHT NOW.

It's all about a body-language technique that you can start using *IMMEDIATELY* to communicate "real man" CONFIDENCE to the next woman you meet... or ANYONE ELSE for that matter!

You won't believe how well this works to instantly TAKE CONTROL of a situation. Click the play button to watch and learn from this clip NOW:

If you can't see the video above, click here:

Hey Man,

When a man meets a great woman for the first time (or anyone else he wants to "impress," for that matter) he inevitably behaves in 1 of 2 ways:

1) He smiles nervously... lowers his head... acts "meek" and says stupid, "forced" things.

(Basically, he instantly projects submissiveness and "low status" because he's so desperate for the approval of the person he's talking to.)

On the other hand:

2) Some men (very few, actually) do the RIGHT things to IMMEDIATELY send out powerful signals that *they* are the ones in charge of a situation.

These guys behave in a way that instantly communicates that they're calm, cool, and comfortable in their own skin -- and that a woman would be LUCKY to have a conversation with them.

In other words... some men project CONFIDENCE...

... also known as the fastest way to start creating feelings of ATTRACTION!

You heard right:

Say and do a few simple things the moment you meet a woman, and you can start getting HUGE results in the way she reacts to you -- and how EAGER she is to "explore" things further.

And that's what today's VIDEO TIP is all about...

Watch it NOW to find out how to greet a woman in a way that projects attraction-building confidence INSTANTLY.

This one's so simple and fun, it'll probably make you laugh.

But again.... IT WORKS.

So get to it. Click here to watch an exclusive *FREE* video from one of my "standing-room-only" live events:

This one's so EFFECTIVE at getting real-world results, I want you to go out and try it TODAY.

Your friend,

David D.









Thursday, August 15, 2013

Much Better Than Taking Her To Dinner…

FILE THIS ONE UNDER *TOTALLY MIND-BLOWING*:

Did you know there are 12 WORDS you can say to ANY woman (within minutes of meeting her) that literally FORCE HER TO BE INTERESTED IN YOU... even to start *FANTASIZING* about YOU?

Listen, there was a time I didn't believe this one, either.

But then I used it, and it worked. And then it worked AGAIN. And AGAIN and AGAIN.

Amazing...

This one's like a "magic spell" for making women stop... listen to you... then start seeing you as the guy they might want to be with TONIGHT!

Learn how to "cast your spell" here:

*** DATING QUESTION FROM A READER ***

Hi David, love your newsletters, always remind me the great points I read in your book...You recently wrote:

"If you buy a woman enough dinners, she may begin to feel some AFFECTION for you...but food and gifts will never lead to ATTRACTION. Big difference."

So what do we do after the first date of tea and stimulating conversation?

I figure that at some point, I would like to go to dinner with a new girl. Should I just let them pay for theirs?

I did that last time, since we were just becoming friends, I wasn't that into the woman and didn't want to look like I was trying to impress her (since I wasn't trying to impress her), and she also has her own business and I could tell she wasn't struggling.

Dinner has been my main date approach in the past, and I have become the Wuss in most cases!

I recently came up with a good line for a girl at the Farmers market who told me I should eat my greens...I told her she should come over and cook them for me!

She didn't know how to respond, but I think she liked it by her smile. I'm gonna hit her up next time to be serious about that request, I think she can probably cook up some nice greens to go along with my nice Ahi Tuna dish...

A.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I want to share an interesting story about a conversation I had this evening.

I was talking with, of all people, my MOM about the topic of "men paying for things for women" and it was fascinating to me to hear her perspective.

Without hesitation, she said that she believes that men should pay for everything, and if they really like a woman that they should SUPPORT her as well.

Of course, I burst out with, "YOU HAVE TO BE KIDDING!"

After we shared a laugh, she said, "No, I'm not kidding."

And she wasn't kidding, either.

My own mother believes that it's just part of being a "gentleman and good suitor" to pay for dinners, gifts, and even shelter for the woman he desires.

I immediately replied with {paraphrased}:

"This kind of sounds to me like you believe that men should pay women to give them attention, affection and sex."

At this point I think she remembered that I write books about this kind of thing and she gave up.

But the thing that really got my attention was that she REALLY BELIEVES THAT MEN SHOULD PAY FOR EVERYTHING.

IN FACT, SHE BELIEVES IT AT THE "WELL, OF COURSE! THAT'S JUST THE RIGHT THING TO DO" LEVEL!

Heavy man, heavy.

No wonder I was such a loser before with women.

OK, I love my mom and mean no disrespect towards her...

But let's talk about the real world for a second.

Here are a few things that I believe about how things work in general when it comes to women and dating...

LISTEN UP, THESE ARE HUGE:

1) People in general, MALE OR FEMALE, intuitively know when they are being "pursued." As soon as we know that we have something that someone else wants, the price starts to go up. Economics 101.

2) When the price starts going up (translation: she realizes that you really like her and she starts playing hard to get, making you "prove" yourself, etc.) you start to LOSE CONTROL RAPIDLY.

3) When you lose control, you have a couple of basic ways you can respond: A) Pursue her harder, giving her even MORE control OR B) Giving up. (Neither of these options sounds very good to me.)

4) An alternative is to NEVER START GIVING UP CONTROL IN THE FIRST PLACE.

5) One way to do that is to stay away from things that put a woman into the "courting" mode of thinking and behavior.

6) Asking a woman to dinner and then buying is probably the absolute most certain way to put a woman in the state of mind that she is being "pursued" (with the possible exception of stalking her, which I strongly discourage).

By the way, I'm not opposed to the idea of buying dinner for a woman.

I'm opposed to the mindset that you put her into when you buy it.

Does this make sense to you?

If so... EXCELLENT.

In fact, if you "get" this point, here's how I want you to build on that knowledge right now:

I want you to start to succeed with women (like you never imagined YOU could ever do) by doing just 1 new thing in your life...

I want you to adjust your "mindset" with women so that you always broadcast CONFIDENCE and CONTROL...

... instead of neediness, desperation, fear, nervousness, and anger!

Once you know how to make this adjustment by doing just a few small things (like NOT taking a woman to dinner) I absolutely GUARANTEE IT:

* Your FAILURE and FRUSTRATION with women will quickly become a thing of the past.

* Every part of your dating life will begin to run more smoothly

* You'll feel like you are on "auto-pilot" as you make all of the right moves with women (and in life in general) every time.

If all of this sounds good to you...

HAVE A LOOK AT THIS RIGHT *NOW*:

Once you do, you'll realize that your lack of success with women may really just be a "symptom" of a deeper problem... one that MANY men have.

In the meantime -- before I get into the SPECIFICS of what you need to do instead of buying a woman dinner -- let me share what I used to PERSONALLY think whenever I first met an attractive woman...

I always thought something like this:

"Well, she seems nice, but in my experience you never know what a person is like until you get to know them better. So what am I willing to do to find out?"

After some thought, it usually came down to... "I guess I'd be willing take the time to have a cup of tea with her to find out more."

Know why?

It was because the investment of going for a cup of tea is just about all the chance I'M GOING TO GIVE HER THE CHANCE TO PROVE TO ME THAT SHE'S MORE THAN JUST A PRETTY FACE.

I never think, EVEN FOR A SECOND, that I need to buy her dinner so she'll sit and talk to me.

No way.

Incidentally, or not so incidentally, having an attitude that you need something other than yourself in order for a woman to like you is UNATTRACTIVE to women.

They can smell this kind of attitude and lack of self-worth.

Bad, bad, bad!

OK, so you get that I'm not real big on the idea of starting things off by paying for dinners and gifts.

"What should you do instead?"

I thought you'd never ask...

Well, first off, if you ABSOLUTELY CAN'T HELP YOURSELF and you just HAVE to take a woman to dinner, at least frame it as "I want to go out to this favorite restaurant of mine, and if you'd like to go you're welcome to join me."

Then if you decide to pay, it can be something you were doing for yourself, and you were being POLITE by paying for hers.

If you do this, make it clear that you're there because you want to go there, and that it's not to court her!

A much better idea is to be creative and avoid all of the things that scream "I'm willing to spend money to have your attention" (and therefore driving the price of that attention up).

Why not a walk in the park? Going to an art show? Going window shopping in an interesting part of town? Taking her with you to run errands? Taking her to a party that friends are throwing?

Here's a hint:

DO SOMETHING THAT HAS INTERESTING CONVERSATION AND EXCITEMENT BUILT IN.

Sitting at a dinner table ALONE with someone that YOU DON'T KNOW is hardly "interesting conversation built in". Think about it.

Take a moment right now and think of 10 things you could do with a woman that cost little or no money, but have all kinds of interesting conversation, adventure, and excitement BUILT RIGHT IN.

Then, just do some of those things!

This is great... you get to have fun, not look like a wuss, not put her in "courting" mode, and have interesting conversation built right in.

Added bonus:

You save $$.

Nice.

What I'm really trying to say here is don't set up the idea that you're paying for her attention.

And as for the gal who you met in the market..

I love the fact that you suggested she should come over and cook for you. Cocky and funny, very nice.

When she got that shocked look and couldn't respond you might have said, "Oh, I didn't mean to embarrass you...you can't cook, huh? Well, that's OK. It's nothing to be ashamed of..."

These are the best moments to turn up the heat!

After that, just simply move to the "It was nice talking to you but I have to get back to my shopping..." Then, just after turning away, say, "Hey!...Do you have email?"

"Yes."

"Great {pull out pen}. Give it to me."

Then follow up with this email:

"Hey, nice bumping into you at the market today. After carefully considering it, I've decided that I can live with the fact that you can't cook. I'll just have to adjust. I'm busy tomorrow, but maybe the next day we can get together for a cup of tea and I can teach you a thing or two about this cooking thing. It's really not that hard, and I'm sure you'll get the hang of it in no time..."

By the way, I have no problem with the idea of having a woman cook for you. Just remember that if she does YOU NEED TO PLAY HARD TO GET!

Wait a minute; you need to do that anyway...

There's only one place in the world I know of that you can learn all of this information quickly, easily, and thoroughly...

And that one place is my Advanced Dating Techniques program.

In this program, I'll take you all the way through all of the things that you need to know in order to be successful with women...

...from theory to practice...

... from nuts to bolts...

... from meeting to dating to "getting physical."

I'm talking ALL OF IT, including:

--A simple, top-secret technique you can use to permanently eliminate your fear and nervousness around women!!!

--The SHOCKING REAL REASON that a woman will sleep with one man on the first night... but make another man wait for MONTHS... or FOREVER. (Know this secret, and the choice is yours!)

--2 fast exercises to learn how to talk to women in a way that makes them feel INSTANT ATTRACTION (Watch "Advanced Dating Techniques" instantly online today, and get results TONIGHT!)

--A word-for-word script to use when you call a woman for the first time that GUARANTEES you'll get a date with her!

--My famous 10-point "First Date Checklist" of everything a man NEEDS to go over before he goes out the door!

AND THE BIG ONE:

--How to use "The Kiss Test" to MAKE YOUR MOVE with a woman with 100% SUCCESS EVERY TIME!!!

You can check out more specific, great samples of all this (and MUCH, MUCH MORE) right here, so get on it:

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This book and the three bonuses that come with it are the FOUNDATION for success with women. Everything you read in these newsletters will make more sense once you have read the book!

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. For better or worse, life-changing success with hot women isnt all about "lines" and "techniques."

It's also about learning to FEEL like a "real man" when you're around women... as in, ALL THE TIME... so you'll never need "lines" and "techniques" again.

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After watching my legendary "On Being A Man" Program just ONCE, you'll stop worrying about success with women...

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Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Video Tip: A Simple Way To Learn What Women Really Want

There's 1 thing that guys WASTE more time trying to do (while FAILING miserably...) when it comes to women than anything else:

It's trying to "read" a woman's mind to figure out what she REALLY wants in a man.

But... what if you could actually DO it? What if you could GET INSTANT ANSWERS about what she's really looking for?

Guess what: THERE IS -- and it's the subject of today's VIDEO TIP.

Click the "play" button to watch my SPECIAL GUEST (dating expert LANCE MASON!) describe a shockingly simple way to find out *EXACTLY* what women want when it comes to "romance":

Oh, and if you can't see the video above, click here.

Hey Man,

I hear it from a LOT of discouraged, frustrated guys every day...

When it comes to figuring out what women are REALLY looking for in a man, it can feel like a mystery.

Like an unsolvable puzzle.

And, based on what you hear from so-called "relationship experts"... it can feel like a puzzle with CONSTANTLY CHANGING ANSWERS.

This is why I wanted you to have a look at a clip from my world-renowned "MAN TRANSFORMATION" program today...

In this segment, my special guest Lance Mason (legendary founder of one of the world's TOP DATING-SUCCESS companies) shares a favorite "shortcut" for getting a look into the mind of a woman.

It's a shockingly quick-and-easy way to find out what women are *REALLY* thinking when it comes to how they want a "real man" to behave!

This one's also great because it's a "secret" resource that hasn't changed in 100 YEARS... it ALWAYS WORKS with women and ALWAYS WILL.

So forget what Dr. Drew and Dr. Phil have to say (seems they change their minds every week about what it takes to succeed in a relationship, anyway) and have a look at this tip from Lance Mason.

I LOVE THIS ONE. And since I made it part of my world-famous "Man Transformation" program, I know that you will, too.

Click the link below for *FREE* INSTANT VIEWING:

Your friend,

David D.









Thursday, August 1, 2013

Body Language That Turns Women Off

Ever wish you had "X-Ray" vision?

I'm not talking about seeing through walls, here.

I'm talking about being able "see" straight through ANY woman...to know what she's feeling...what she's thinking...whether she's interested in YOU...how to take things to the next level with her.

I'm talking about seeing ALL OF IT...as CLEAR AS DAY...just by LOOKING at a woman.

This is "X-RAY" Vision that ANY guy can have (and achieve miraculous results using) once he learns a few simple secrets.

Get them here:

Man, are you frustrated that despite knowing a few great "lines" or certain techniques for approaching women and getting their numbers that seem to work like magic for other guys.

YOU are still choking time and time again especially around women that you think are "out of your league?"

What is it that these other guys have that seems to work so well and so effortlessly for them? How do they get women to GRAVITATE to them without even trying?

If I were to guess, I'd have to say that the only reason you're still having such a hard time when it comes to creating attraction and interest in a woman, it's because there's something going on SUBCONSCIOUSLY that you're not even aware of.

You're simply sending her the "wrong message."

And you don't even know it.

You might be coming across as needy, desperate, weird, too intense. But how would you know?

Right. You wouldn't - unless she tells you to your face.

And that wouldn't be any fun.

So here's where I'm going with this.

I'm going to shed some light into this situation for you.

I'm going to teach you:

-- The first and MOST IMPORTANT STEP you must take in order to eliminate the most common mental obstacles getting in the way of you having success with women a "whole body" technique that can REVERSE unproductive subconscious behaviors right now

-- A 5-second technique to instantly get women to NOTICE YOU when you walk into a room, without have to say a word

-- How your CHILDHOOD SECRETS may be negatively affecting the way your body feels when you're with a woman. Yeah, I'm talking about your dad's Penthouse magazines here

-- The one thing you can do with your body -- without touching her -- that will make her think you'd be good in bed. This is the secret of men who you wouldn't even THINK should be getting women. Amazing stuff.

-- What to say in the first 10 seconds of approaching a woman at a bar or party to virtually eliminate the possibility that she'll think you're "creepy."

-- and a whole lot more.

It's all here:

Believe me, if you're still sitting around at home wondering why you can't seem to get your game on no matter what you try, then you need to click this link above.

***SUCCESS STORY***

"If there are people out there who still don't believe in the cocky & funny, QUIT DOUBTIN' IT AND START WORKIN' IT!

The other night I was at a burger joint near my office. It's one of those grungy independent places that's popular with the locals, and out of towners make a point to visit if they're here for something else. The line had snaked around, and a group of three cuties was standing in front of my table. They were talking about what they'd heard, and one of them said she was looking forward to their fries.

Since I had a bunch of fries in front of me, I made eye contact and gave my fries a Vanna White flourish with my hands. She said, "Wow those look good. Can I?"

I offered her one of my fries. She dipped it in my cup of ketchup, and right as she popped it in her mouth, I looked her in the eye and said "By the way, I double-dip." In the space of two seconds, her expressions ranged from shock at my brashness, to wondering whether she should be grossed out, to laughing.

I knew I could have gotten her e-mail/number... and the thing is, I didn't even want to, because I've been seeing a solid eight. Sure, there are hotter, but until recently I would have thought she was entirely out of my league. And I ALWAYS bust her balls. She's always coming up to me, saying "Gimme kiss". I think for a second and say, "Umm...no, but thanks!" And then she's enthusiastically kissing me. Or more.

I'm not the hottest guy out there. I'm pretty fat, actually. But women hate how desperation smells, and if a beautiful woman sees that you're not looking for just anyone who'll return the conversation, and that you're not intimidated by their looks, that's GOLD, man, GOLD.

In fact, it's even worked for me at the office. Now, yes, here you have to be more careful. And it doesn't substitute for competence. But my boss sees I'm not intimidated, and I get stuff done. In fact, today I just landed a $5K raise.

You must be tired of hearing it...well, hear it again. Dave, you da man.

E Michigan"

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Nice!

Well, I think my favorite line in your email was...

"...women hate how desperation smells..."

Because this doesn't make a whole lotta sense to most of the guys who read it, let me do the honors of breakin' it down for ya...

When someone says something like this, what they're trying to say is that there's something about "desperation" that women pick up on...but it's not easy to describe.

Desperation comes across in all kinds of subtle ways, from how you talk to a woman, to the eye contact that you make, to how often you call her.

Women can "smell" it because women are approximately TEN TIMES better at reading body language than men. Your body language says everything about you to a woman...so, if you want to get better at attracting women, you'd better start paying attention to and taking control of it.

Start with your posture. Lift your chest.

Lean back, not forward.

Leaning forward is usually a "needy" signal.

Leaning back is usually a signal of strength.

Slow down your movements.

Fast movements convey nervousness and skittishness.

Slow movements convey self control and strength.

It's a good idea to take some time and study the body language of guys who are successful with women. Watch closely, and pay attention to EVERYTHING.

Even though something doesn't SEEM like it's important, it probably is.

I have a good friend who holds his drink a certain way when he's talking to a woman that he's interested in.

He does it almost every time.

Is it important?

You do the math.

More great tips for triggering attraction and "chemistry" can be found here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/SexualCommunication/

***COMMENTS FROM A WOMAN***

"Hey Dave -

Ok, I can't help myself. I've got to comment again. I commented last week in response to a writer who was disturbed with your methods of meeting women. And now this week, I find another, equally amusing halfwit who just doesn't get it (the one you affectionately called a "crack smoker"..hehehe).

Is it me or the rest of the world? Jesus, people.

It's not disrespectful, it's not meant to be hurtful or demeaning. It's called TEASING...it's a playful, flattering form of teasing.

Let me give you an example of a guy I met recently, from a female's point of view -- one guy's success story (and unless he gets your newsletter or has read your materials, he's probably totally unaware of HOW he "hooked" me so easily). I met a guy online several months ago, we chatted for awhile and quickly discovered that we had a very compatible quick-witted sense of humor (he was cocky and very funny from the get-go...I loved it). Every time we talked on the phone, he'd find a way to bust my chops and make me laugh. (Sounds cliche, but "He had me at hello." hehehe) He'd always point out some imperfection of mine and blow it all out of proportion and talk about how it just wasn't going to work out because of all my flaws (kidding the whole time, of course)...one being the fact that I'm not particularly very well endowed in the chest region. A modest 38B. So after we met that first time, he walked me to my car that night, and as he turned to walk towards his car, he paused and turned back long enough to say "oh, and you're right, you're not very busty." Shocked, I just said, "oh get outta here you *&$%@# " and jabbed him in the arm. And I grinned the whole way home. And I couldn't wait to see him again.

I hope you consider including this in your newsletter to encourage guys to keep trying your methods. THEY DO WORK! With the negative comments in the last couple of newsletters from "outraged" readers, I'd hate for any guy to second-guess that this stuff works. Because as far as I'm concerned, there just aren't enough of you guys (cocky & funny) around. At least I can't find 'em.

J, in Maryland"

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeah, well I think that the REAL problem that the "halfwits" and "crack smokers" of past newsletters are having is that they don't GET IT.

I've found that women HATE the idea that guys are doing ANYTHING "intentionally" to become more successful in the dating world.

Anything that has to be "learned", really freaks some women out (as a side note, I've found that most of the women I've talked to in person about my ideas were OK with them. On occasion, a woman will freak out, but after they actually "get" what I'm talking about, they almost universally LIKE the ideas).

The REAL profound insight that I've had relating to this topic is that women will often SAY that they want one thing, but then, when they GET it, they seem like they don't want it.

On the other hand, women will often SAY that they don't like certain types of guys or certain traits, then they'll turn around and SLEEP with one of these exact guys.

Keep in mind, we're talking about women here. I don't mean to pick on them...the fact is that GUYS have their own set of bizarre behaviors too. But, since everyone is reading these Mailbags to learn about how to attract women, we're going to have to skip this discussion (Wink - Wink) of these exact guys.

And, for all the guys who doubt that what we're talking about here "works", just ask yourself these questions:

1) Is what you're CURRENTLY doing working?

2) Isn't it worth the risk to try ANYTHING else if there's even a CHANCE that it will actually work?

Nice.

Thanks for your email.

***QUESTION***

"Hey Dave,

Been getting your newsletter for about two months now. Also got both your books and program. They're just unbelievably superb!!!! The stuffs in your book and programs are so easy to be understood. It is like reading "How to double your dates for Dummies". I was always nervous when I was around hot looking girls. Now, I actually have the confidence to walk up to them and ask for their emails/numbers. It's such a big shift in such a short time. Composure is almost what the girls are looking for. Without it, they can sense you got no game. You really got the stuffs. It works wonders. I'm certainly still new to this and I am practicing everyday constantly.

I have no problems asking girls for the emails. I understand how the composure, voice tone and everything works. But this is my problem. Some girls actually say this exact same lines like "Why don't you give me your email/number and I'll email/call you." I really am stuck after they said this. I just can't figure out some C&F to say at this point to amplify the situation. I am ready to be enlightened by your teaching.

My new Sensei,

Big bow to you, E.F Canada"

>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol...I love questions like this one.

Yeah, when you start getting good at approaching women, you will start having all kinds of far-out things happen.

As a matter of fact, some of my favorite stories that my friends and I laugh about are about times that I started conversations with women.

Here, let me confuse you for a moment...

Let me give you a couple of different perspectives on your situation.

I have one good friend who has been with literally HUNDREDS of women.

He told me a story about a woman that said this to him. He asked her for her number, and she said, "Well, why don't you write down your number and I'll call you?"

He didn't even hesitate...he shot back, "Don't give me that SH**, write your number down!"

She smiled and wrote her number down.

One time, I was out talking to a girl...I asked her to write down her email and number, and she said, "You give me your number" etc.

I looked at her and said, "Never mind".

Then, as the conversation went on, she started making comments about talking to me in the future, giving her my number, etc.

I just said, "Nah, you're not serious. If you were, you wouldn't be playing games with me, and you'd just give me your number".

She wrote it down.

Funny enough, my standard response to "Why don't you give me your number instead and I'll call you" is to just look at her and say, "Write it down. It will be OK..." and then point to the paper.

That probably works about 50% of the time.

You have what I like to refer to as a "high quality problem". Remember what you've learned in my program about what a woman is REALLY looking for. Then be it.

Just because a woman says, "Give me your number instead", doesn't mean that you've lost control. It's usually just a test.

For more ideas about how to meet women and get their numbers, go here:

***COMMENT***

"OMG okay Dave,

I'm a female and have been reading your newsletters to try and figure out where guys get their "game" from. Now that I know it's from you, I would like to say you're a total genius. Like I've had guys use your tips on me and at first I've been like "what the hell" then later on in the conversation, we were exchanging numbers and kisses. you must be like a woman in disguise or something. you are so awesome."

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, one thing is for sure...I'm NOT a woman in disguise.

lol...

I don't know many women who could explain this stuff the way I do.

Oh, and feel free to send your picture and phone number with your emails in the future.

If there's one thing that's better than a man recognizing my genius, it's a cute gal recognizing it.

By the way, you said something that was very interesting in your email.

You said that when guys start using these techniques with you, at FIRST you respond with "what the hell"...but LATER ON you wind up kissing and exchanging numbers.

Very VERY interesting.

This is a KEY point that most guys just can't grasp or work with. Thanks for laying it out.

***QUESTION***

"hello there. can u please let me know, what is meant by a wussy.? I've came across this word a lot, in ur newsletter, wussy, and wussies, but couldn't figure out, what it means. I didn't find the meaning of that word in the dictionary too. As you used in ur letter, Women aren't attracted to Wussies what is meant by that. waiting for ur reply bye

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, I can explain the concept of what a "Wussy" is quite easily.

If you say things like "waiting for your ur reply", you're communicating like a Wussy.

If you don't know what a Wussy is, you probably are one.

Guys who aren't Wussies know what a "Wussy" is because they usually MAKE FUN OF THEM a lot.

I know, I know...I'm being harsh.

But, I used to be a BIG TIME Wussy. It was a problem.

I used to call women all the time, kiss up to them, give away my power to them, and every other WUSS-ISH thing you could do.

In other words, I'm an expert.

A Wussy is a guy who gives away his power to women, and behaves in a "submissive" way.

Don't do this.

It's the DARK SIDE, if there ever was one.

***QUESTION***

"David,

I've been reading your newsletter for about a month now and I respect your honesty and perspectives. The things you've said makes lots of sense and I have no doubts that they work. In fact, I have observed others use your techniques they and get remarkable results with the ladies. Now, when I read your newsletters, I thought to myself and realized that I have been somewhat using your "cocky and funny" techniques unconsciously...ie, teasing the girls, making fun of them but not putting them down. (I guess its part of my personality). I make some of the girls I work with as well as my customers laugh. The thing is, when I go out to a bar or a nightclub, or anywhere else for that matter, I tend to clam up for some reason. I might even give the impression to others that I'm a tight ass because I don't open my mouth. I know I can keep the ball rolling once I have the girls attention. My problem is the ice breaker. The very first thing I say AFTER introducing myself, or even BEFORE depending on the situation. I feel like I don't have any interesting things to say to start up a conversation. My question is how can I prepare myself to be more cocky per say? What ice breakers can I use and not look like a wuss at the same time? I try to listen in on the guys next to me pick up girls, try to hear what they are saying. But I'm hard of hearing and its quite hard in noisy situations for me to hear anything unless my ear is literally close. Interested in any perspectives and feedback you can give to start off.

Thanks A.W.G. - Illinois"

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Most guys are afraid of approaching women and starting conversations.

When you say the words "ice breaker", you ASSUME that a woman is going to respond to you "coldly". You know, Ice = Cold.

The fact is that there are a certain percentage of women out there who are happy, open and receptive in general, and a certain amount that are cold, closed and NOT receptive.

I had a guy come to my last seminar in Los Angeles who went out and started approaching women.

He came back into the seminar the next day and told this story...

He said that he couldn't believe how he let his past negative programming stop him from starting conversations with women. He had gone out and walked up to women, one after the other, and just simply said, "Hi, I'm out meeting people tonight, what's your name?" and women were giving him all kinds of positive responses.

Just remember that most women will respond somewhere in the range of "neutral" to "positive" if you say almost ANYTHING to them.

Now, if you want to start conversations in bars and nightclubs and you just can't get the nerve up to do it, try this...

Find a BUSY place near the bar where people are lining up to order drinks. Find a place where people are literally crammed together like sardines.

Work your way up to the bar at the BUSIEST spot, and either stand there, or get a chair there.

The idea is that you want to be where a lot of women will walk up to the bar during the evening and ACCIDENTALLY bump into you.

If you REALLY want to make this work for you, wear a loud or unique shirt...something that has a soft, "feely" texture.

Over the course of a few hours, some conversations will start BY THEMSELVES.

Women will say, "excuse me" and try to get past you.

Some women will ask you to order a drink for them.

Some will just bump up against you on accident and then apologize.

Take a few minutes, and think up some good responses that fit your personality...and have them ready.

Try:

"Look, if you wanted to start a conversation with me you could have just said, "hi", you didn't have to be violent about it."

That should get you started.

The point is that there's a way to put yourself in a situation that automatically sparks conversations. You just need to be ready when it happens.

This kind of thing should help you get past the fear and hesitation to start conversations on your own.

***QUESTION***

"David D.,

First off, I'd like to thank you for taking the time to put all of this material together. As a guy who is finally beginning to understand the game and is on his way to "get it", I'd like to thank you. I'm still not completely to the place I'd like to be, but I'm on my way (being able to walk up to any woman who I'd like to meet and being able to secure digits and lead things the rest of the way from there). The ideas that I'm finding that really help me keep my focus (and not get too nervous/needy) are many from your advanced program that I purchased. ex- What they think of you is their business, and acting almost too comfortable around them. I'm also in the process of reading Comedy Writing Secrets by Helitzer and have 3 other books purchased (of those you recommended) that will be my next projects.

Okay, on to the comment and question. I've read recently that studies have shown (can't remember if this was from Reader's Digest or what) that even if you're a shy person, acting outgoing will improve your mental health and get rid of that feeling of seclusion that many introverted people have. On to the question...in your Advanced program, the idea of congruence is mentioned several times, mostly as that you have to be congruent when you talk to a woman. This concept seems to be rather elusive and I was wondering if you could go into more detail about what "being congruent" entails.

Thanks, T.C. from Virginia"

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Sure, the idea of being "congruent" when you communicate simply means to have ALL LEVELS of your communication "in alignment" with each other and "saying the same thing".

If you're asking a woman for her number, but you're looking around nervously and hesitating, it's not "congruent".

On the other hand, if you're saying, "Write down your email and number for me" while taking out a pen and paper...as if it's the 147th time that you've done it, it's CONGRUENT.

Most people don't realize that they're sending MIXED MESSAGES all the time.

Have you ever asked someone "What's wrong?" and had them say, "NOTHING'S WRONG! Why does everyone keep asking me what's wrong?"

That's a mixed message. And it's not congruent.

You want to line up ALL of your communication.

Your body language, voice tone, words, etc.

All of the different specific body language, voice tone, and gestures that I recommend in my programs have a single goal in mind: To help you be 100% CONGRUENT when you are communicating with women.

There are ways to use "mixed messages" that can create attraction, but make sure you're doing it INTENTIONALLY when you do!

The more congruent you are, and the more you use the techniques that I'm teaching, the better your responses from women will become.

***COMMENT***

"Y'know, my mom actually wanted to comment on your program. She's been teaching me and my brothers about what women REALLY want from men ever since I was very small. She's been teaching us pretty much the same material that you cover in your book and advanced series (which I recently picked up by the way, I fell so much in love with the book I just couldn't resist, it's been GREAT!), and she just wanted me to tell you that you hit it right on the head! Her saying has always been pretty much: "Women don't want a hard-ass, but women also don't want a BITCH-ASS, either." I have tried other dating success training, and t his one is by far my favorite. There's...one... that I tried before yours. Theirs isn't NEARLY as good as yours, because the techniques they teach are way to unnatural, too analytical, doesn't let you be yourself at all, and doesn't work for everyone in every situation. Your service is the best I've seen so far, because IT ALLOWS YOU TO BE YOURSELF, while HONESTLY sparking ATTRACTION in a female, and automatically DOES NOT work on a woman with a stick up her ass! I can tell you put a lot of work into this, you've defiantly touched many lives. Not just for men, but women too. Thanks David.

C.D. from Texas"

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oh YEAHHHHH!

Dude, even your MOM endorses my stuff.

This is out of control.

You know, actually...you suck.

I wish that MY MOM would have taught me this stuff, instead of teaching me wisdom such as "You need to buy women more things" and "A man should always pay for things", etc.

And any mom who would teach her son:

"Women don't want a hard-ass, but women also don't want a BITCH-ASS, either."

...has my respect.

And to comment on your experience with the techniques and systems that others teach on how to meet women...

My guess is that 95% of the others who have written books on this topic or developed other programs are doing it for the MONEY alone.

In other words, their main focus is the CASH, and NOT helping guys improve with women.

Now, I certainly enjoy the cash. No argument there.

But my MAIN OBJECTIVE is to have the absolute BEST system and materials that are available ANYWHERE, at ANY PRICE.

I have spent a LOT of time, effort and energy to figure out what works to attract women.

Here's the test:

Go download my online eBook, and order up one of my programs. You can get all to try out RISK- FREE.

THEN, go buy another book on the topic, or whatever else you can find (make sure it comes with a 100% money-back guarantee.)

My bet is that you'll return everything else before you've even finished reading it (or listening, or whatever) and that I couldn't pry my stuff out of your hands with a CROWBAR.

My stuff WORKS BETTER, and is easier to use than all the other stuff out there, period.

And, probably the MOST IMPORTANT benefit is something that was mentioned in this newsletter when you learn how and why women feel ATTRACTION, and you learn how to trigger it with your communication and body language, you don't have to use a bunch of "unnatural tricks" or dishonest techniques that "feel wrong".

I'll teach you how to develop that "innate" or natural part of yourself that is already there... and give you the correct perspective and programming to get RESULTS.

Try it, you'll like it.

And, if you don't like it, you've lost nothing...because all of my stuff comes with a "try it before you buy it" zero risk policy.

So, do this...

Go download my online eBook "Double Your Dating" right now, and you'll be reading it within a few minutes. You can download it here:

And go order a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques program. This program is the most complete, in-depth program in the world for learning how to overcome fear, approach women, get numbers, get dates, meet women online, and take things to a "physical" level without fear or rejection.

Go watch some great preview video clips of it, and get all the details here:

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Make sure you take a few minutes and look through all of the different programs I've created to help you succeed with women. You can look at all of them right here, plus watch some fantastic free video clips right here: