Friday, July 29, 2011

Get Women Like A Rock Star *TONIGHT*

Do you consider yourself "shy"?

Do you stammer and hem and haw (and create INSTANT REJECTION with women) because you can't "get the words out" to let the "real you" shine through?

If so, there's a simple, WORDLESS body language "trick" you can use to say it all for you in the first 30 seconds...

...and SPARK irresistible feelings of attraction in a woman that GUARANTEE SUCCESS.

Learn about it here:

Hey Man,

As you know, I'm all about getting SPECTACULAR RESULTS with women.

And I'm about getting those results *FAST*.

That's why I want to share a KILLER TECHNIQUE with you right now... that you can use TONIGHT at a bar or club... and immediately attract not just 1 woman... or even 2 women...

...but a whole GROUP OF WOMAN, all drawn straight to you, as if by MAGIC.

You heard right... I'm talking about magnetically attracting MULTIPLE WOMEN to YOU without ever saying a word. As if you're suddenly a total "ROCK STAR".

Sound good?

Excellent.

Then without further delay, let's get to it.

Here's what I want you to do TONIGHT to experience that "ROCK STAR" feeling...

First of all, call up a buddy or two. Tell them to meet you at a bar or club near you...

...and be sure to bring a CAMERA with you.

It can be a stand-alone digital, or built into your cell phone. Doesn't matter. Either is good...

...as long as the camera has a WORKING FLASH.

And that's it.

It's all you're going to need to experience magnetic, ROCK-STAR-LIKE SUCCESS with women like you've never dreamed of.

But more on that in a minute.

Right now, back to what you're going to do TONIGHT...

You and your buddies are going to go into the bar or club, and you're going to take a good look around.

When you do, you'll notice something right away...

99% of the single guys in there will probably look JUST PLAIN MISERABLE.

Like they're waiting to see the dentist or something.

They act like deer in the headlights.

They BROADCAST that they're totally clueless.

Some will have "wussy" and "dork" written all over their faces.

Most will look like they can't wait to get home, I guarantee it.

Know why?

Because THEY'RE NOT HAVING FUN.

The fact is, for most guys, going out to a bar or club to "pick up women" is about as enjoyable as a root canal.

It's tragic.

And it's disastrous.

But make no mistake:

Every women in the room -- especially the ATTRACTIVE ones -- will pick up on the miserable "vibe" most guys put out there.

Without even trying, women can sense "LOSER" coming off these guys, like a bad radio station playing a song they just can't turn off.

And guess what...

*YOU* need to be ALL OVER THIS SITUATION.

You should be TAKING ADVANTAGE of the fact that almost every guy in the room is killing his chances with these women before he ever opens his mouth.

The fact is, 99% of the guys in a bar or club are so busy looking miserable and sabotaging themselves that it creates an unbelievable OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU.

And here's what you MUST do to take advantage of it...

Make ONE SIMPLE MOVE that puts the spotlight of ATTENTION squarely on YOU.

How?

Well, remember that camera you brought?

As you hang out with your friends, start snapping a few pictures.

Of the bar.

Of each other.

Whatever.

As the FLASHES go off, start to laugh.

Snap a shot of the bartender. Show him.

High-five each other. Laugh some more.

In other words...

SHOW THAT YOU'RE HAVING FUN.

And listen:

At this point, DO NOT PAY ANY ATTENTION to any of the women in the place.

Don't look at them.

Don't even glance their way.

Just HAVE FUN with your friends.

And THAT'S ALL.

This will slowly begin to create a "rock star" energy around you that's positively MAGNETIC.

Before you know it, you'll be drawing people over who want to know "What's going on over here?"

Both men and women, all wondering, "Why are THOSE guys having so much fun... and what am I MISSING OUT on?"

In fact, there was a time when I did this on a friend's suggestion, and I couldn't believe the crowd we drew!

It took a little time, but as curiosity built, more and more folks joined in.

Soon, it really was like there was a rock show going on or something!

It was AMAZING.

Of course, all YOU should care about at this point is how to connect with THE WOMEN you've attracted.

More on that in a moment -- PLUS A "BONUS" WAY TO OVERCOME REJECTION WHEN YOU ASK FOR NUMBERS.

But first, let's look at what's going on here...

First off, that camera you brought is really just a prop.

It has no "power" on its own, any more than a rock star's clothes and hair do...

...that is, until he finally gets up ON STAGE.

At that point, he becomes the CENTER OF ATTENTION. And then connecting with women in the crowd is like shooting fish in a barrel.

You see, it's really about the SIGNALS you can give off by becoming the CENTER OF ATTENTION and HAVING FUN.

These signals create an absolutely irresistible "vibe" that is 100% GUARANTEED to draw women to you.

Why?

Because, when you're GENUINELY having a good time, you AUTOMATICALLY generate 80% of the body language needed to CREATE ATTRACTION.

Without even trying, you BROADCAST biologically proven expressions, movements, and eye contact that MAKE WOMEN INTERESTED IN YOU.

You put out signals that cause women to be naturally intrigued and curious about you.

In other words... when you're the center of attention and having fun, you start to act like a rock star...

...WITHOUT EVEN HAVING TO THINK ABOUT IT!

Without saying a word, you make them lower their defenses NATURALLY.

Without even realizing it, you make women WANT to have a good time with you. And usually (just like it happens for rock stars) WOMEN will approach YOU to make it happen!

Again -- all without YOU having to do or say a thing.

This is really the bottom line...

The reason I emphasize using body language to be more successful with women is because I know how scary it can be to approach a woman.

Truth is, I used to be scared to death to even try.

Even worse, that fear and anxiety used to be written all over my face. Women could literally read it from a mile away -- and REJECT ME before I ever said a word!

It was a total train wreck.

But once I discovered the SIMPLE SECRETS of using body language to wordlessly CREATE ATTRACTION, here's what I learned fast...

I could get more women than I could handle... I'm talking ROCK STAR NUMBERS OF WOMEN... simply because I was "broadcasting" that I was the kind of man women NATURALLY respond to.

And once YOU can do it, too, women will "feel it" for you right away (instead of being turned off by the way you stammer and fumble with "Pick-up lines").

And then, guess what...

You've already won more than half the battle, because women decide in the first few moments whether there's any chance you might be "dating material."

In other words, give off the wrong signals on approach, and you'll be dead on arrival. Period.

But learn how to send the right messages, and you're golden.

You can get more details about all that right here:

But in the meantime, I also want to throw out a "bonus" tip about how to TURN IT AROUND if things start to go badly when you start talking to a woman.

I actually learned this one from a guy who put "Cocky & Funny" to work in this situation, and I have to tell you, it works like magic...

Let's say you've successfully created that "magnetic" atmosphere of having fun and "enjoying yourself".

You've started drawing your "rock star" crowd, including some women you'd love to ask out.

Now, you focus on one and you're ready to get her number...

...but when you ask for it, SHE TURNS YOU DOWN.

Gulp.

It happens.

But YOU have to realize that it's no big deal.

You won't die. You don't have to run crying for mommy.

And when it does happen, it doesn't mean you've necessarily done something wrong.

So let's pretend a woman turns you down. Tells you she doesn't give out her number, or gives you some other excuse.

First, from the perspective of USING BODY LANGUAGE to create ATTRACTION, here's what you MUST NOT to do:

DO NOT look hurt.

DO NOT look angry.

DO NOT look like you even care in the least.

In other words, DO NOT give off signals that you're a "loser".

That means no slumping shoulders.

No pouty frowns.

No "wussy" vibes of having been "defeated" yet again.

Instead, here's what this guy trained himself to do when a woman says no...

He smiles at her.

He flashes a "devil may care" look.

Then he turns to his friend, laughs loudly and says "YES!"

You following this?

Without missing a beat, he acts like he's practically CELEBRATING being rejected.

Again - he does NOT give off the slightest body language or signals that he's hurt or angry.

And when you do this, too, here's what will happen:

The woman will be like, "What? Huh?"

She'll be stunned and dazed, because this is a response she NEVER hears from a man.

Immediately, you start to look like a kind of man she's never encountered before...

...and that's a VERY good thing.

So... next, my friend turns back to the woman and says: "My buddy bet me that I wouldn't get a rude rejection from a beautiful woman like you. Now he has to by me a drink."

I love it.

Suddenly, this woman's like, "Wow, I just played into this guy's plan. I did exactly what he predicted I would do."

And when that happens, all of her "power" is suddenly SHIFTED TO YOU.

And once you can successfully do THAT, I guarantee it: You can convert almost ANY rejection into interest and intrigue from a woman.

Of course, after that, it's up to you to say and do EXACTLY the right things to amplify that new spark of interest. To dial it up into full-blown feelings of ATTRACTION.

Need a refresher on the basics of how to do it?

You can get them quickly and easily right here:

But the lesson is this:

Any guy who comes across as "naturally having fun" with women does NOT have to be rich and handsome. He NEVER has to "convince" a woman to feel attracted to him with memorized "pickup lines".

This is the kind of man who attracts women with seemingly NO EFFORT... all because he's letting his BODY LANGUAGE do his talking for him.

And that's why I want YOU to learn absolutely EVERYTHING you need to know about the "rock-star" power of BODY LANGUAGE, too.

I want you to feel like it's time to stop dreaming... and start EXPERIENCING REAL SUCCESS success with beautiful women.

Here's what I have in mind...

Take a look at my world-famous "BODY LANGUAGE FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN AND DATING" home-study video course...

...absolutely RISK-FREE.

The fact is, my "Body Language" program is 100% GUARANTEED to teach you what you need to know about harnessing the incredible power of BODY LANGUAGE... and taking your success with women to an unbelievable new level.

I do NOT want you to miss out on this.

In the course, you'll learn how to get mind- bending results with women, as if by MAGIC, all without saying a word.

You'll learn:

--How to use the 6 basic body language "signals" to create feelings of IRRESISTIBLE ATTRACTION in ANY woman, right away.

--How to use body language to more than make up for your "shyness"... and make a woman feel mysteriously drawn to you without any conversation whatsoever!

--5 hugely powerful ways to FORCE your body to project "primal dominance"... to literally trigger the "animal" magnetism that makes men respect you and women NEED to approach you.

--How to project sexuality in a way that turns women on INSTANTLY, to the point they can't stop imagining sex with you.

--The 10 "deadly body language mistakes" you MUST not make -- but that MOST guys do anyway and blow their chances (If you've ever been rejected and couldn't explain why, it's probably because you made one of these.)

Plus MUCH, MUCH MORE. So listen..

Using BODY LANGUAGE is simply the FASTEST, EASIEST WAY to turbocharge your success with women, bar none.

That's why using just a few of these tips, tools, and techniques will bring you instant, mind- blowing results -- with practically no EFFORT ON YOUR PART.

In fact, you'll probably start to believe it's all happening by "magic."

So... ready to start getting some of that effortless "ROCK STAR" ACTION?

Then there's just no two ways about it... You need to click here:

Then let me know what happens when YOU master the irresistible, unstoppable power of body language...

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. There's a "SECRET WEAPON" that all the "naturals" use to make women react in a FRIENDLY, RECEPTIVE way when being approached.

This "secret weapon" is such a GAME-CHANGER for "shy" guys that if YOU have trouble starting conversations with women, you need to learn this technique RIGHT NOW.

Click here to get it:



Monday, July 25, 2011

Quick 4-Step System For Getting Her Number

>>REMEMBER: If you want to learn about all of the different programs I've created to help you learn how to meet women... just go here:

>>>DATING QUESTION FROM A READER:

Hi Dave,

I'm glad you put together this newsletter because it's so helpful and awesome! But anyways, I have a couple questions if you could please help me.

Number 1, I have your book and follow your stuff and I LOVE IT...to say the least. I've noticed though, that a lot of your stuff dealing with first encounters and pickups seems to be best fit for the club/bar scene which is great and everything, but I'm wondering how you go about doing pickups in regular places, like a supermarket, store, or coffee shop for instance? What suggestions do you have for meeting women here and how would you personally approach a women in these circumstances? I mean, after a conversation has progressed, I can see how the cocky and funny will work but I wondering about the first encounter if you could help please.

Second, I see that one of your biggest suggestions is seeking out other successful guys in your area and hanging with them and learning from them. My problem is even though I live in a huge college campus area with PLENTY of women around and lots of stuff to do, I can't find any other guys in my area who I can go out with and kick some a** with. Most of my family and friends are back home and I haven't really made any close guy friends that I can hit the clubs/bars with here (the ones I do have are just nerds who want to stay home and just drink only). I mean I can go out by myself but I like having a wing with me-it's funner that way! I really agree with you though about the importance of this and I was wondering if you any suggestions on how to find other guys who you can go out and chase tail with? See...why can't you live closer to me damn it!!

Thanks for everything Dave and I hope you have more success in the future because you've helped bring that to a lot of people.

Sincerely, F.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

First of all, I want to point out that the ideas in my programs and books are NOT designed for meeting women in clubs and bars only. Most of my personal success with women, and most of the success of my readers, happen in more "normal" places like coffee shops, bookstores, schools, parties, and even online.

I think that maybe some people just mentally apply what they read to situations that they're familiar with, so it might seem that I'm talking about "clubs and bars" when I'm really talking about more than that.

With that said, let's talk about some of the "how to's".

I chose your particular email because of the way it was worded. Part of the question is:

"...I'm wondering how you go about doing pickups in regular places, like a supermarket, store, or coffee shop for instance? What suggestions do you have for meeting women here and how would you personally approach a women in these circumstances? I mean, after a conversation has progressed, I can see how the cocky and funny will work but I wondering about the first encounter if you could help please..."

It sounds to me like you're assuming here that you should have a fairly in-depth conversation when you first meet a woman. I think that most guys have a fear of approaching women because they don't really know what to say, or where to take the conversation. I know that was a big one for me when I first wanted to learn this stuff.

But here's what I learned: YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE A "CONVERSATION" AT ALL WHEN YOU FIRST MEET A WOMAN. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GET HER DIGITS!

In my ebook, I teach you how to get a woman's email and phone number in about 3 minutes. I know that it kind of sounds sensational... like I'm probably just using that as a marketing trick... but I'm actually very serious about it.

Now, there's a lot more to success with women than just getting numbers. But for the sake of this argument, let's just say that ALL YOU REALLY NEED TO BE CONCERNED WITH WHEN YOU'RE FIRST MEETING A WOMAN IS GETTING HER EMAIL AND PHONE NUMBER.

Yep, that's it.

And you can do that in a few minutes, if you know what to do and how to do it. I've had MANY friends of mine go out with me and watch me get 5+ numbers in an evening from women, and only talk to them for a few minutes each to do it. And I'll tell you what... it changes their perspectives forever.

Long conversations are not a pre-requisite for getting a phone number, email address, or future date.

I can hear the arguments now:

"But no woman is going to just give out her number..."

"What makes you think a woman is just going to hand over her private information to a stranger?"

Well, I'm here to tell you that I, and many guys I know, have done it SO many times that it's no longer a question in my mind.

And here's why you might want to do it this way:

Let's say you're relatively NEW at learning how to approach women and begin conversations...

The longer you talk to a woman when you first meet her, the more likely you are to say something stupid, say something that disqualifies you in her mind, or get into a conversation that goes down the wrong road. It's as simple as that.

If you don't waste any time, and just focus on getting her email and number, you'll be able to set up a second meeting... where you can focus on taking things to the next level. And trust me, it's a lot easier to recover from a mistake or bad conversation when you're sitting across from her alone over a cup of tea then when you're looking at her over the mango section in the supermarket.

Think about it.

So let's land the plane...

The question is, "What do you do to get her to give up the info so quickly?".

Easy.

1) Know exactly how you want the conversation to go.

2) Know HOW to ask.

3) Know WHEN to ask.

4) Have pen and paper on you.

Also, if you're PARTICULARLY interested in learning how to approach women and start conversations, then you should check out my video program... it's called "Approaching Women"... duh! Go check out the free preview video clips of the program and get all the details about it here:

I recommend that you take a few minutes every day to imagine having conversations with new women. It might go something like this:

"Hi there, you're cuter than the average woman that I see in the produce section... are you friendly?"

Her: "Ha ha... well, sometimes."

"So, are you shopping for a special occasion, or is this just a routine produce visit?"

Her: "No, just here for some fruit."

"Nice. Are you from the area?"

Her: "Yeah."

"Are you from here originally?"

Her: "Born and raised."

"Well, it was nice meeting you... and enjoy your mango..."

Her: "Thanks."

"Hey... do you have email?"

Her: "Yeah, I do."

Check this out... treat the "Yeah" as an agreement to give it to you, then take a pen out of your pocket (I prefer the Space Pen) and hand it to her to write down her email. As she's writing say, "and write your number there too... and your name, which I didn't get..."

The key is that you have to act LIKE THIS IS THE MOST NATURAL THING IN THE WORLD.

...OK, see how easy that was? Is that realistic? I think so. I've personally gotten HUNDREDS of emails and phone numbers (from women I've just met) with dialogues like that.

I think a key is to MENTALLY REHEARSE how you will handle yourself so you know exactly what to do when the time comes. It all has to flow and seem natural.

OK, to address the second part of your question... how to meet other guys who know what they're doing...

I think it's a good idea to go out once in awhile to the local hotspots and WATCH what's going on. Specifically, I think it's a great idea to look for beautiful women that are with guys, and watch how the GUY is behaving. Also, it's interesting to watch guys picking women up to see what they're doing. You'll learn a few really important things first-hand when you do this:

1) You'll see the body language of guys that are able to attract and keep women.

2) You'll see the gestures and hear the voice tone of guys that are approaching women, and see how the women respond.

3) Invariably, you'll see some guys are really good with women, and you can make friends with them. It's easy... just say, "Hey, you are the mac with the babes. Let me buy you a beer. I need you to tell me a few things." A beer is a cheap price to pay for wisdom.

Of course, you probably realize, as I did, that getting a number or a date is A SMALL PIECE of the puzzle.

If you REALLY want to master all of the different aspects of success with women and dating, then you need to try my Advanced Dating Techniques program.

Everything I teach in my Advanced Dating Techniques program is very specifically designed to teach you the ATTITUDE and BODY LANGUAGE and all the other little things that cause women to feel ATTRACTION inside... for reasons that they don't even understand.

This program will teach you everything from how to overcome fear and shyness to how to approach women in different situations... all the way to how to take things to a "physical" level smoothly and without "rejection."

Two more important points:

1) I'll let you try it at zero risk... meaning that you don't have to decide if you want to keep the program until you tried it out, experienced success, and convinced yourself that it's worth many times the investment.

2) You can start watching it online RIGHT NOW, in a high quality video streaming format.

Go get it here:

And if you haven't downloaded your copy of my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need to go and do that right now. You can download it right now and be reading it within a few minutes. It's here:

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Don't forget to check out my entire "catalog" of different programs. You can see them all, plus watch killer video clips of each of them right here:



Thursday, July 21, 2011

Why "Cocky & Funny" Attracts Women

QUICK QUESTION: Have you tried out using the Cocky & Funny technique with women, and you really liked the results? Would you like to learn how to MASTER the technique, and create SUPER attraction with women? If so, then I want you to take a minute and look at THIS:

WHY THE COCKY & FUNNY ATTITUDE IS ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN...AND HOW TO USE IT

I get a lot of email from guys who don't quite get the Cocky & Funny attitude.

It just doesn't make sense to some guys that teasing women, busting their balls, being slightly arrogant, not kissing up to them, etc., could or should make them feel attraction.

I can understand this because I was exactly the same way the first few times I heard it and saw it being used.

I kept thinking to myself, "If I do this cocky and funny thing, I'm only going to come across as arrogant...and that can't make women like me more."

Well, was I wrong.

You must always remember that ATTRACTION isn't logical. It doesn't follow the rules that it "should" follow. ATTRACTION is a very powerful emotion that has reasons and triggers that don't make any sense at first glance...

I'm sure you've seen many attractive women with guys who mistreat them, abuse them, and were exactly the opposite of what you'd expect a woman to accept.

Why?

ATTRACTION. In the beginning she felt attraction, and as bad as it may sound, almost no amount of being "bad", abusive, or jerk-ish can convince a woman, feeling a strong attraction to a guy, to leave.

So let me take the opportunity to talk a bit about the Cocky & Funny attitude, why it works, and how to use it to attract women (without having to be an abusive jerk).

First of all, you have to remember that the formula is Cocky PLUS Funny. Always both.

If you act too cocky, you'll only come off as arrogant and insecure.

If you're just funny, always telling jokes, and making people laugh, you will probably come across as "too goofy."

But if you use BOTH together, you will create magic. Cocky + Funny is like sparring...it's sport...it's fun...it's challenging...it's interesting when used with skill.

So let's get clear about what "Cocky + Funny" is.

Here's a cocky statement:

"Her dress makes her look fat."

Here's a Cocky + Funny statement:

"If she doesn't find a dress that fits better, the fashion police are going to send in the SWAT team for her ass."

Get it?

Start with arrogance, then add humor.

So why does it work to attract women?

Well, the short (email-newsletter size) answer is:

COCKY AND FUNNY ATTRACTS WOMEN BECAUSE IT QUICKLY AND DIRECTLY SAYS ALL THE RIGHT THINGS ABOUT YOU.

Women are attracted to "alpha male" types - We all know that. Women are attracted to a sense of humor. We all know that one too.

Women AREN'T attracted to men who give away their power, kiss up to them, smother them with attention, act like whipped puppies, and get nervous just being in the same room with them.

And by the way, giving away power to women is a much more complex topic than using humor, etc. If you have a problem giving away your power to women, or becoming a "Wussbag" when you're around a woman that you like, then you need to try THIS:

If you meet an attractive woman, and IMMEDIATELY start giving her a hard time about something, busting on her, and having fun, it basically says to her:

"You are interesting enough to talk to, but you're going to have to do a lot more than just look good to impress me. Your beauty doesn't make me nervous in the least, I'm perfectly calm, and in fact, I'm so comfortable that I just noticed something about you that I'm going to make fun of..."

There is no faster way on earth to communicate all the right attitudes, beliefs, self-image, comfort, confidence, and power than to be Cocky + Funny.

(Except maybe to put on a perfect Brad Pitt costume.)

Once you start using this attitude, you will be totally astounded at the results.

Here's a low-risk example:

Next time you're at the grocery store in the checkout line paying for your groceries, say:

"So how much of this cash do you get to keep?" (as you hand her the money)

She'll probably laugh and say: "None...I wish."

To which you can respond with:

"Oh, I figured you were pocketing 10 or 20%... I assumed you were rich and could support me, but now I'm not interested...I want a rich girl." (Turn up your nose.)

This is a great one. It's always fun to ask a woman if she's rich or famous, then when she says that she's not, tell her that it messed up her chances with you, and that you're not interested anymore.

One of the keys to the Cocky + Funny attitude is to never "crack." If she opens her mouth and gives you the "I can't believe you just said that" look, you need to turn it up a notch...

Most guys will crack and say "Oh, I was just kidding."

DON'T DO THAT! It makes you look like a wussy.

In the example above, if the checker looks at you and gives you the open mouthed "I can't believe you said that" look and says, "Hey! I may not be rich, but I'm nice!", you just look at her and say "Nice isn't good enough, I need RICH AND nice."

Your goal is not to upset a woman, but to get under her skin enough by teasing, busting on her, and acting cocky and funny so that it ignites the magical challenge/attraction mechanism.

And once you can see that you're getting a good response from a woman, GET HER NUMBER. Or get her email. Don't stand around like a dork trying to make her laugh.

As you become better and better with these tools, you can then begin "extending" the conversation...increasing the attraction...and taking things to the "next level."

So get out there and use it, because the magic formula of Cocky + Funny will create all kinds of good things for you. You'll see.

And if you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself "I really need to learn how to master this Cocky & Funny thing", then I AGREE!

In fact, learning how to be Cocky & Funny is one of the FASTEST, EASIEST, and MOST FUN ways you can make women feel ATTRACTION for you.

If you'd like to get a "fast track" education on Cocky & Funny, then I HIGHLY recommend that you check out my Cocky Comedy program.

This program features me and several amazing guest speakers teaching you STEP-BY-STEP how to master the technique...along with DOZENS and DOZENS of specific Cocky & Funny "lines" and "comebacks" for every situation you can imagine.

Go watch some of the preview video clips, and see for yourself how valuable this program is:

Another skill you need to learn is how to use your BODY LANGUAGE to trigger and increase ATTRACTION with women. As you've probably heard, I recently released an entire program on this exact topic.

Just like my Cocky Comedy program, this is a cutting-edge education that isn't available ANYWHERE else...at ANY price.

Using tools like Cocky Comedy and Body Language to attract women has MANY advantages. You don't have to buy women gifts, you don't have to chase after them...and you don't have to take them out to dinner hoping that they'll "magically" feel it for you because they appreciate the food so much.

Just like my Cocky Comedy program, I've put up a set of preview video clips for you to watch... and I think you need to go check them out right now. They're here:

Oh, and if you haven't taken the time to download my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need to go and do that RIGHT NOW. You can download it and be reading it within a few minutes. Go and download it here:

I'll talk to you again soon,

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. You should also take a minute and look at the other programs I've created to help you learn how to attract and meet women. You can see them all, plus watch video clips of them right here:



Tuesday, July 19, 2011

How To Make A Woman BEG You To "GET PHYSICAL"

Body: SHOCKING FACT OF THE DAY:

There's 1 HUGE MISTAKE that nearly ALL men make when trying to "getting physical" with a woman... and it ALWAYS makes her run screaming for the door.

But guess what -- all YOU have to do is NOT make this mistake... and the next woman you're with will be so grateful (and TURNED ON) that she'll beg you to take things further.

Learn what that BIG MISTAKE is -- and how to make sure YOU never make it again -- right here:

Dear Man

Okay, listen... I have to admit it...

Lately I've been talking to you about some VERY "deep" stuff when it comes to women and dating.

We've discussed how to permanently overcome your fears of approaching women and getting rejected.

We've talked about how to "transform" yourself into the kind of man who can get any woman he wants, any time he wants.

We've talked about how to "close the deal" with women to get more dates than you can handle...

We've even gone into how to have a great RELATIONSHIP (man, sometimes I still can't believe we've gone there...)

But like Tom Cruise said in "Risky Business", sometimes you just have to say "what the ****" and get down to it....

That in mind...

Today, I want to talk about a subject I hear from hundreds of guys a month about...

HOW TO GET PHYSICAL WITH A WOMAN...and FAST.

That's why, in just a moment, I'm going to get into the BEST WAY to take things from "hello" to HOT AND HEAVY with a woman...

But even better... how to make her BEG you for it.

But first, the ground rules:

#1) I'm going to assume that you've overcome all your fear and "shyness" when it comes to approaching women.

#2) I'm going to assume that you know how to approach a woman in different situations and start conversations.

Finally, and most important...

#3) I'm going to assume that you know EXACTLY what to say and do to get numbers from women... and then close the deal to get actual DATES.

In other words, I'm going to assume that you've laid all the necessary groundwork for "getting physical" by mastering the principles and techniques of CREATING ATTRACTION.

Why?

Because if you don't have a handle on the basics of creating ATTRACTION yet, this is the cold, hard fact:

NOTHING I'm about to tell you will help you "get physical" with a woman.

Why not?

Because women won't give you the time of the day -- let alone consider you as a sexual partner -- until you understand HOW ATTRACTION WORKS.

And I am NOT talking about having to look like a movie star, drive a sick car, or have lots of money.

ATTRACTION is *NOT* about any of these things.

Period.

That's why, if YOU need to a crash course on how to CREATE ATTRACTION... 100% by what you say and do... I need you to go here right now:

Then, once you understand these basics, here's the VERY good news...

It's EASIER THAN YOU EVER IMAGINED to take things to a physical level with a woman... and do it FAST.

Even make her BEG you to take her to bed.

That in mind, let's dive in...

As a starting point, let's imagine you're coming to the end of your first date with a woman you really like.

Now, if you've listened to me at all, you know that this date BETTER NOT have included buying her an expensive dinner.

Let's say you're a good student of mine, and that you took her for late coffee.

Well done.

Now it's time...

You're going to generate the first spark of "sexual feelings" in her by TAKING CONTROL of the situation right now.

How?

By making sure YOU'RE the one to "end" this date.

By being the one who says, "Okay, I think we'd better be going."

This immediately creates intrigue in her.

It builds feelings in her that you might actually be a sexual partner, instead of a "wussy-boy" who's scared to cut short any opportunity to talk to a woman...

...then inevitably blow everything by saying something stupid.

Okay, now that you've taken control by "ending" this date, next you need to walk her home...

To YOUR home.

Invite her back to your house or apartment, and DO JUST ONE THING at the door before you go inside:

Start talking to her like she's trying to convince you to let her come in (even if she's not).

Say something like: "Sorry... I had a great time, but I have to get up early in the morning..."

She'll probably stare at you in surprise. So wait a few beats. Then say: "Oh, okay, you can come in for a few minutes."

Then open the door for her like a GENTLEMAN.

Now let's freeze-frame right here, and think about what you're actually doing...

You're being chivalrous AND busting her balls at the same time.

LISTEN CLOSE:

I can't emphasize enough how well this works to ramp-up feelings of sexual desire in a woman.

I *always* make sure to keep both of these feelings going at the same time.

I open doors for women, walk on the outside of the curb, and pull chairs out, etc.

But I also tease and use what I call "Cocky Comedy" at every opportunity.

This is crucial. More about all that here:

But here's the bottom line:

By being both CHIVALROUS *and* BUSTING HER BALLS, you're creating incredible SEXUAL TENSION inside her.

You're showing her two things at once...

That you're BOTH a "bad boy" AND a "gentlemen."

And make no mistake: this is the HOLY GRAIL when it comes to what women want in a SEXUAL PARTNER.

Learn it. Live it.

Okay, let's un-freeze and continue...

Next, just walk in, and let her follow.

Now you're in the house.

Cool.

Take her for a casual tour, then sit her down somewhere comfortable.

Doesn't really matter where... sofa's good, bed is even better... but wherever you wind up is fine.

Then here's the next move:

BECOME QUIET.

"Whu? Huh?" I hear you asking.

What I mean is, get quiet and let HER do the talking while you just look at her.

Then, while she's doing it, lean away from her, and look away. As if you're thinking about something.

Then just reach over and stroke her hair.

Just a little, at the bottom, while she's talking.

Okay -- now let's pause again, because this is a key moment.

The whole ball game, really.

If she's okay with your doing with this, you can take it as a SURE SIGN that she's into you... and things are wide open to take things to the next level physically.

This is a CRUCIAL, and a piece of the puzzle that it took me a long time to figure out how to solve.

I used to do massages and all kinds of other stuff, but I quickly learned from "the naturals" -- the masters of women and dating -- that NOTHING works as well as stroking a woman's hair like this.

The fact is, if a woman doesn't pull away from you (or give you some other sign she's not into it), she's going to be making out with you in very short order, period.

IMPORTANT NOTE: If a woman does pull away, or in any way shows you she's not interested in getting physical at this point, STOP. Move on. This isn't about forcing anyone to do anything.

Sheesh, did I really have to tell you that?

Anyway. Onward...

At this point, if she's letting you stroke her hair in this way, you should take things up just one small notch.

Try a light hand massage.

Maybe a little neck rub.

Definitely try to pull her in closer.

Start to "cuddle" with her.

Sniff her hair more and more while you continue to stroke it.

Within about 5 or 10 minutes, move to her neck and ears.

Listen up... NO KISSING at this point.

No touching or groping at all.

DO NOT DO IT!

Just continue with the smelling, leaning back and showing that you're completely into it.

Like it's relaxing you.

Keep this going and I GUARANTEE IT:

She'll soon become so turned on that you won't believe it. And at some point soon... SHE'S going to be the one who tries to KISS YOU.

And that's what you should be waiting for.

Let her lips get close to yours... even let them touch yours a bit...

... then (surprise) back off and just keep smelling.

Say something teasing like, "Oh, you're kind of forward, aren't you?"

It'll drive her CRAZY.

After a few more moments, finally kiss her back, full-on.

Run your hands through her hair... the whole romantic kiss thing...

...THEN STOP AGAIN.

See what's happening here?

This kind of teasing is EXTREMELY stimulating to women... almost to the point that they'll be in actual pain if you leave them hanging.

But we both know you won't....

But until then, be PATIENT. Hold out until the woman can't stand it anymore.

You're REALLY waiting for her to start doing something sexual... maybe grinding her hips on you... or grabbing your butt... whatever.

Now listen close, this is KEY...

At this point, SHE'S going to become the aggressor. So you'll say something like:

"All you have to do is say PLEASE."

Maybe she'll then say, "No no no... I'm not going to beg you..."

You just say, "OK". Then roll over or just lay back and look up... but look AWAY from her.

This will make the woman begin to wonder what the heck is going on here.

Her interest and desire will be on fire.

She'll come over and start cuddling and kissing you to get things going again.

And you'll keep on with the sensual kissing, breathing in her ears... all that good stuff.

When she's so worked up that you can hear her breathing faster and her heart pounding, you'll say it again:

"All you have to do is say PLEASE."

OK, you get the idea.

If you need help on what to do after this step, it's tragic. I recommend you go buy a book. Maybe the Kama Sutra or something.

My point is, the key to getting physical woman FAST is all about ramping up SEXUAL TENSION.

If you'd like to learn incredibly FAST AND EASY WAYS more way to do it, I'm ready to help...

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Your friend,

David DeAngelo

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Friday, July 15, 2011

How To Make Her Think About You

>NOTE: I've spent several years focused on discovering the secrets that the "masters" use to approach women, get numbers, meet women online, get dates... and take things to a "physical level" without rejection. If you want to see what I've learned, and read about how I learned it, then read THIS:

If you've seen the classic cult movie "Swingers", then you probably remember the part where the guys are discussing how long a guy should wait to call a woman after he's gotten her phone number.

The scene really hits home for a lot of guys because it gets down to a real-world situation that we all confront and ponder.

I get a lot of emails from guys asking me what to do in this very situation.

The more I've thought about it, the more I realize that this particular question (and the answer to it) are part of a bigger, more important CONCEPT about how to deal with women.

Let me explain.

When a guy asks me "How long should I wait to call her?" this immediately tells me a few things:

1) The guy doesn't feel like he's in control of the situation. If he felt like he was in control, then it he wouldn't ask, because it wouldn't matter.

2) The guy doesn't really "get" how male/female attraction works. If he did get it, then he'd be thinking in those terms rather than trying to figure out the exact best amount of time to wait before calling.

To put it differently, the "when do I call her back?" problem is part of a bigger concept, and once you understand that bigger concept better, then you'll have an automatic feel for when to call a woman back.

Most guys don't "get" one simple point:

If you want a woman to feel ATTRACTION for you, then you must behave differently than if you want her to feel that "just friends" feeling.

In the world of ATTRACTION, things are completely different.

For instance, our moms taught all of us guys to "be nice" to women. This usually includes being sweet and complimentary when first meeting them, answering all of their questions directly, and giving them what they want when they want it.

But if you want a woman to feel that INSTANT GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION right from the beginning, then you're going to have to put aside this kind of thinking, and start learning some NEW ideas.

For instance:

1) A challenge is generally attractive to women.

2) Teasing and being evasive is generally attractive to women.

3) Making fun of a woman's appearance in a flirty way, as counter-intuitive as it might sound, can lead to ATTRACTION.

- By the way, psychology is one of my VERY favorite topics, and the psychology of creating attraction is FASCINATING. If you're as interested in it as I am, then you should check this out as well:

I'm trying to communicate the idea that when you're dealing with ATTRACTION, you have to put aside old "normal" ways of thinking and behaving.

I would like to mention one more point before getting into the specifics here...

These days, people are becoming very sensitive to having "techniques" used on them.

If a salesman uses a sales technique on us, we immediately get defensive and resistant.

If a panhandler asks for money in a way that smells of "tricks or "techniques" we pass them by without pity.

If a business treats us like a "thing" or a number instead of an individual person, we avoid them or buy elsewhere.

We humans don't like having manipulation techniques used on us, and when we detect that someone or something is using one to get the better of us, we resist.

So let's get back to the "how long to wait before calling her back" issue.

If you think about it, every situation is slightly different. One time you might meet a woman in the morning at coffee, and another time you might meet a woman at a club at 1 in the morning.

If you wait too long to call her back, I think you run the risk of seeming like you're just using a technique on her and you come across as a player who's trying to do your thing on her.

When deciding how long to wait before you call or email, I think it's important to ask yourself this question:

"What will likely INCREASE THE ATTRACTION in this situation?"

Here are a couple of ideas I have used with great success:

1) Email instead of calling first. I personally email the next day. I'll start with a charming email to get the conversation started and then tell her that I'm going to call in a day or two. This has the effect of making contact with her relatively quickly, but still creating anticipation because you haven't actually talked.

2) Call the next day, and make a joke about the situation. I might call and say, "Yeah, I was watching Swingers and they said to wait three days to call, but I was kind of in more of a one day mood..."

If you didn't get her email address and you MUST use the phone, just do your best to avoid being AVERAGE.

I personally believe that our attention spans as humans are getting shorter and shorter. We have more and more information coming in from television, newspapers and other sources - and we're getting cultural A.D.D. I think that if you wait too long, you're risking either being seen as using a technique, or risking being forgotten altogether.

But if you make the opposite mistake and call too soon (for instance a few hours later), you run the risk of being seen as a needy Wuss who has no life.

In past newsletters, I have written about why it's important to leave immediately after getting a woman's email and/or number.

How long you should wait to call her back is a natural extension of this.

As a matter of fact, if you get a woman's email/number and then you keep coming over to talk to her, it can almost be seen as waiting 5 minutes to call her.

There's no anticipation, and it says all the wrong things.

A couple of other quick pointers for when you're making that first call:

1) Be busy. If you're going to ask her to join you for tea or something similar, make sure you mention two times that you're busy for every one time that you're available.

2) Don't linger on the phone. Make that first call short and to the point. If you stay on the phone for more than a few minutes, you're running the risk of getting into a normal "What do you do?", "Where do you live?", "Where did you go to school?" conversation. Avoid this.

To summarize, when in doubt wait a day or so to contact her again.

But more importantly, think about the situation in terms of anticipation and ATTRACTION, so when you do make contact it creates the correct context.

And now I have another question...

Do you enjoy learning the PSYCHOLOGY of how to create ATTRACTION with women? And do you enjoy learning the psychology of how to create more internal confidence... and how to overcome your "Inner Game" psychological issues?

Yeah, me too.

In fact, I think that the PSYCHOLOGY of success with women and dating is the MOST interesting part.

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Your Friend,

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