77 Ways To Create ATTRACTION In Women

Hey Man,

Have you heard of that popular women's book
called, "The Rules?"

Just in case you haven't, it's a book written
in the 90's by 2 women that contains 10
controversial "rules" women should follow if they
want to capture the heart of the man they want.

While I don't agree with all of the rules the
authors suggest women follow, it makes for an
interesting read, that's for sure.

Let me get to the point:

Since the release of that book, many have tried
to ride the wave of fame by creating similar
books of rules for MEN to follow.

Several of these books were released around the
time I was first trying to learn how to be
successful with women and dating... and as you can
guess, I read them ALL.

As you can also guess... most of the "rules"
just plain SUCKED.

These books contained rules like...

- "Never bring a woman roses until the 3rd date"

- "Open all doors for a woman, and order for her
when you're on a date"

- "Be sure to talk about your mother in a positive
way"

Now... I'm not saying you should talk bad about
your mama... and I am a big believer in being
chivalrous and treating a woman like a lady... but
here's my problem with these so-called "rules":

None of them have ANYTHING to do with actually
CREATING ATTRACTION.

If you don't spark ATTRACTION in a woman *very*
soon upon meeting her, she'll be falling asleep
when you are saying those nice things about your
mom, you'll only get to open doors for her ONCE...
and you sure as hell won't make it to the "rose
date"...

Get it?

So... is there a set of "rules" you can follow
that guarantee you will create ATTRACTION in the
women that you meet?

Fortunately now, the answer is YES.

Several months ago I released what might be my
final program on how to meet and attract women,
and it's called, "77 Laws Of Success With Women
And Dating":

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/77Laws/

This program is a compilation of the biggest
and most important lessons I've learned over the
last 10 years of learning how to attract women for
myself, and over the last 5+ years of teaching
other men to do the same.

If you're new to my materials, this program
will give you an eye-opening JUMPSTART into the
world of what REALLY works with women in a VERY
short amount of time.

It's the best of my 10 years of research in
this area, put together in a condensed, rapid fire
manner that is designed to teach you ONLY what you
need to succeed with the women you want.

No B.S. and no filler.

If you're familiar with my materials, use this
program as a refresher to pound to the most
important lessons in your head... and keep your
game on track.

I'm very proud of this program, and I am
confident you'll get INSTANT RESULTS by going
through it, no matter what stage of the game you
are in with the ladies.

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Like all of my programs, it comes with my "try
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Click that link and grab it now. You'll be glad
you did.

Talk soon,

David D.


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>NOTE: I think that the internet is a literal
MIRACLE when it comes to meeting women, practicing
conversations skills, and learning how to create
attraction using only your words, humor, and other
communication. If you'd like to learn some of my
personal secrets for turning the internet into a
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***QUESTION***

Hey David,

I was wondering if you could offer any wisdom on
what you've gained from writing and responding to
online personal ads. I'm not having a great deal
of luck so far. Specifically, my questions are:

1. How brief should your descriptions of yourself
and/or your ideal catch be? I've heard it said
that "brevity is the soul of wit", but you also
want to be memorable, right?

2. When writing descriptions, should you stick
with C&F? I've noticed that humor often doesn't
translate well in written form, so I wasn't sure
how to go about all that.

3. I think I read in a previous newsletter that
you recommend not posting a picture. At the same
time, I tend to avoid ads without pictures due to
having one too many blind dates which ended with
me throwing a stick and shouting "fetch!" in order
to distract her long enough to get away. Don't you
think that by committing a picture on your ad,
women might pass you up for the same reason? Or am
I mistaken?      An apprentice,

J.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    You've asked some questions that really require
more of an in-depth treatment... but here are a
few pointers that have taken me YEARS to figure
out:

1) You'll get more responses in general by
replying to personal ads placed by women than you
will by placing your own ad (Unless you're a
master of writing personal ads).

2) If you're going to use the personals, look at
the new ads that are placed daily, and respond as
soon as a woman places her ad. Attractive women
typically get 50-100 responses per DAY to personal
ads, and it's very easy to get overwhelmed. You'll
notice that a lot of women take their ads down
after just a few days... this is why.

3) Be charming and funny (also known as COCKY and
funny) in your replies (or in your ad, if you
write your own). Say things like "I was looking
through all these ads here on the internet
thinking to myself "Look at all the poor,
desperate, lonely women..." and then I saw your ad
and thought to myself "Hey, here's a poor,
desperate, lonely woman that's actually CUTE..."
so I thought I'd write and see if you're as
interesting on the inside as you are in this
picture..."

4) I mentioned in one of recent newsletters that I
got an email from a guy who had his picture taken
with some dolphins... and that he's getting tons
of responses from that. I've never done it myself,
but it sounds like a great idea!


***QUESTION***

Dave, love your book. I have learned more about
women in the last two months than I knew in my
lifetime. The teasing and being cocky/funny really
turns them on. I have know this girl for some time
and we were mostly friends. Just lately she said
to me "I love you R,". Is it ok for me to tell her
I love her too or is it better to say nothing and
just smile which I did so far.

R.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    Take a cue from Han Solo...

    Say "I know".

    You might throw in a sly half-smile to let her
know that you're having fun after you say it.

    As far as your question of "Is it OK to tell
her that I love her too?" I can't answer that.
You're at a stage that is past our topic here.

    I think that love and relationships are great,
but since this isn't the area that I choose to
talk about, you're going to have to decide for
yourself.

    Just don't turn into a wussy... that's bad no
matter what.


***COMMENT***

It seems like a lot of the guys who subscribe to
your newsletter and buy the book - myself included
- are average guys who have trouble with girls
just because they are afraid of getting rejected.
I've got an idea that might help. Get two or three
good friends together and have a 'contest' where
the goal is to get shot down. Spend a day or a
night out in clubs, coffee shops, malls, etc.
going up to girls with the sole intention of
having them reject you, and whoever gets rejected
the most times wins. Try out any approach - good
or bad - you can think of. Be rude, crude, funny,
serious, a nice guy, a jerk, whatever you want,
and take notes on how the girls react. If she
slaps your face, that's fine because that's the
goal. And if she doesn't shoot you down, that's
even better. After a night like this you'll become
a bit 'numb' when you are rejected in the future,
and you'll have a better understanding of how
girls react to being hit on. If necessary go to a
different city for the weekend and try it out
there, so that you aren't afraid of running into
these girls again.

- C.L.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    I think that the basic idea is good, but I'd
say that you're probably better off seeing who can
get the most email addresses - instead of seeing
who can get shut down.

    If you go out with the specific idea of being
rude, crude, a jerk, etc., I think you're working
on the wrong outcome.

    I get what you're saying about how this might
make you "numb" to future rejection...

    But I think you'll learn a lot more if you take
the approach of "We're each going to approach 50
women today, and let's see who can get the most
email addresses". Focus on what you want, not what
you don't want.


***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

First off, I want to thank you for spreading your
wisdom. I bought your book two weeks ago after
reading several of your newsletters, and it was
the answer to most of my prayers. I've gone from
dating a girl maybe two women in a year, to dating
3 women at once, all 3 call me every day, and this
was before I even bought the book, just from the
advice from your emails!! You have definitely
"Doubled" my dating!!

My question, one girl in particular I find really
attractive and the most challenging (which I like)
still has a "Control Freak" boyfriend, with whom I
think she's afraid to break up with. He's the kind
of guy that would threaten to kill himself if she
were to leave him, but basically uses her for sex,
and controls most aspects of her life. Should I
just stop talking to her? Or keep bustin her balls
about why she's still with him? Because I find
myself feeling some sort of sympathy for her, and
its affecting my "cocky and funny" routine (with
her at least).

Thanks for your help!!

C. from MD

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    Let me ask you a question...

    Why in the world would you want to be with a
woman who has a "suicidal control freak" boyfriend
fetish?

    When you meet a woman like this, the warning
bells should be going off in your head... "Danger
Will Robinson, Danger!"

    Do yourself a HUGE favor. Find a woman who's
interesting and "challenging" like her that
DOESN'T have a psycho neurotic boyfriend... and
don't turn into one.


***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

I just wanted to say thank you, from all the women
out here in single land. Out of curiosity, I
clicked on a link from (another website) to see
what all this great advice was about. just from
reading about your "kiss test" I knew you had
figured it out. I like being hit on by a confident
assertive man. I also like a man who can figure it
out that I'm not interested.    Honestly, I will
fall over and spread my legs for any man that does
the right things whether he's extremely attractive
or not. I would never tell him how to do it. I
guess that's your job. Anyway, like I said, I just
wanted to thank you. I personally hope I get hit
on in the grocery store by someone who has read
your book!

Thanks,

K.H.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    Well, thank you for your letter. I truly
appreciate your honesty and directness.

    Most men can't believe that what you're saying
could actually be true, but as we both know, it
quite often is.

    The interesting thing you say (which I agree
with) is:

    "I would never tell him how to do it."

    In other words, A WOMAN WILL NEVER TEACH A
WUSSY BOY WHO DOESN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO THE SECRETS
OF GETTING HER.

    Translation for guys: If you don't know what
you're doing when it comes to women, LEARN.


***QUESTION***

Dave,

I have been reading your articles and from other
guys out there trying to improve their macking
skills, your articles and tips are on point on how
to be a mack with the ladies, but I feel that
because of a negative experiences with women in my
teenage and college years, really hold me back
from being the mack that is inside of me along,
now in my mid-twenties, I need to get passed this
negative experiences with women, I have no problem
talking to women or having a conversation, but i
don't have my own place, my income is very low at
this moment, this make it even harder for me,
could you give me some advice to get pass this
fear that because i have very little now plus the
past experience with women in the past, plus I
live in nyc where women are into themselves, and a
man without his own place, car, and little money
are looked at like "why are you talking to me, you
have nothing to offer me."

M.

nyc

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    First of all, YES, there are women who will
only talk to you if you have money...

    BUT THIS IS NOT THE RULE... IT'S THE EXCEPTION.

    If a woman feels the magical emotion of
ATTRACTION, then it matters not how much money you
have.

    I used to believe that it was probably only
guys who had nice cars and lots of cash who got to
go out with all the women...

    But then, as I got to know more and more guys
who were VERY successful with women. I realized
that it came down to their personalities more than
anything else... including looks, height, money,
etc.

    In fact, MOST of the guys who I've met that are
very successful with women aren't rich at all.

    You need to learn how to make women feel
ATTRACTION by using your personality. That's the
ticket.

    Really.

    Go download this right now and read it all:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook/

***QUESTION***

Hi Dave:

I have been reading your material for a few months
now. One of the best things I learned about your
work is how to get e-mail addresses and phone
numbers from women. I have great success at this
point. This has also helped my business.    I need
help in two areas that involves taking it to the
next level. I want to meet a nice girl and settle
down. Firstly, how can I figure out which one of
these girls is the BEST for me in terms of
personality and chemistry. My last relationship
lasted a year and a half and did not work because
we were always busting each others chops.
Secondly, I think there is a point when we just
need to stop playing games and be nice to these
women... What do you think?

B. NYC

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    Well, I'm not the relationship expert, so I'm
not going to address how you should choose a woman
to settle down with...

    But I will comment on your question of whether
or not there is a point when you should stop
"playing games" and "be nice to these women".

    The mind set and techniques that I teach are
not
my idea of a "short term technique to get laid".
Once you start using the methods, you'll find that
women respond to them on an ONGOING basis. In
other words, if you can keep up the charming,
Cocky and Funny attitude, it will keep a woman
feeling attracted to you FOREVER.

    "Nice" is not a word that you want associated
with yourself, in my opinion. Women aren't
ATTRACTED to guys who are "nice".

    Be interesting, unpredictable... even
thoughtful and original.

    But don't be NICE.

    Think about it.


***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

Well, let me start with my story. I'm average guy,
22years old. I always had the fear to approach
beautiful women. I'm funny by nature, but only
with my friends. I've totally changed my behavior
with women, when I've read your book. I now meet
women on every step (bar, caffe, library,...),
using your C&F approach and a lot of them are in
my bed in a week or so. Now the only problem at
the moment is, that all of those women want a
commitment. But I would love to be just a "sex-
buddy";). Of course, they don't want to hear about
that. So after first sex, when I try to explain to
her, what I want, either she gets mad and I can go
;) or I am the biggest male egoist... bla bla bla.

So, tell me, is there any way to do that with
success?    Tnx again,

B. from Slovenia

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    If you're at that stage where you'd like to use
your newly found success to attract only "sex
buddies"... and you don't want the women you date
to think of you as their "boyfriend", then DON'T
ACT LIKE ONE.

    Don't call more than once or twice a week.
Don't stay on the phone for more than 5 or 10
minutes. Don't see her more than once or twice a
week.

    In other words, DON'T ACT LIKE A BOYFRIEND.

    I know this sounds rather simple, but think
about it...

    Women are just as interested in sex as men are.

    In my experience, if a woman knows that you're
only interested in sex, she'll be OK with that.

    The problems come up when you start calling all
the time, seeing her a lot, and acting like you
care for her...

    At this point a woman starts to become
emotionally attached to you. She thinks that
you're becoming her boyfriend.

    If you don't want to be a boyfriend, then don't
act like one!


***QUESTION***

Hello,

Your are the man. I have been using your cocky
funny method on girls i already know and see the
difference in the way they act towards me, they
seem to definitely be more interested. My dilemma
is that i run out of cocky comments and little
jokes. For eg i went to the coffee shop yesterday
with one of my buddies and there were two cute
girls in front of us who smiled at us when we
where in line and i looked back and smiled but i
had no idea what to say to them or what to make
fun of and they got what they wanted and left. I
simply had no idea what funny comment to make.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    Here's the answer...

    List the 10 most common situations that you'd
find yourself meeting women... and list 10 cocky
and funny things to say in each situation.

    Next, mentally rehearse each of the comments so
you have them ready!

    If you are at the stage where Cocky and Funny
doesn't come "naturally", then you're going to
have to PRACTICE.

    Why do Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods make
their sports look EASY? Why do they TOTALLY
dominate all of the other players around them?

    Practice, of course.

    Stop trying to create magic from nothing, and
start practicing. Practice makes magic.


***QUESTION***

Dave,

Because of my job, I am on the road a lot. Lots of
times I like to drive with the windows down, music
blasting and just taking in the sun. Many times I
find myself waiting at a stop light with a good-
looking girl waiting next to me. Some of these
girls, we make eye contact, others just glance
over. Sometimes I'll drive for miles with the same
girl to the side of me. The problem is I never
really know what to do next. So I guess my
question to you is this:

1. How do I get her to roll down her window? 2.
Once she does, what should I tell her?

I drive an average car (VW Jetta) so I know
they're not looking at that, but I'm just
uncertain how to get her attention.

Thanks for the help.

R. in So Cal

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    Oh, you can have a lot of fun with this one.

    I have a good friend who can't drive up next to
a woman without flirting. He likes to "waggle his
eyebrows" at every woman he sees.

    Next time you're next to a cutie, waggle your
brows and wave. When she smiles, make the old
fashioned motion of rolling down your window to
her, and roll down yours.

    Finally, take out your cell phone, point to it,
and say "What's your number?"

    I've done variations of this myself, and had
some great fun success with it.


***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

You ARE da man! Although I have not purchased the
e-book yet, I will soon, as I have seen the magic
work firsthand, just from the newsletters I have
been getting. Check this out! About a week ago, I
send an email to a totally rad chick suggesting
that we meet for coffee. I used the movie "You've
Got Mail" as part of my "schtick", and although it
was "cute" and "funny," I realized later that it
was actually quite "wussy-ish." After getting NO
REPLY for almost a week, I sent her ANOTHER email,
this time busting her balls a bit by saying, "Well
I guess my dazzling good looks and wicked sense of
humor didn't catch your fancy, eh?" The response
was lightning fast and almost instantaneous!!! She
wrote that she had every intention of returning my
email, but she was "out of town" blah blah blah,
and she would meet me for coffee sometime. I
really believe that if I had not sent her that
second email, I never would have gotten a reply to
the first one.

Here's the question (and problem): In addition to
the "ball busting" in my second email, I also told
her I liked her! (a big faux pas, I know, but I
never expected a reply!) She had taught a class of
which I was a student, and I made a comment like,
"Well I'm probably not the first of your students
to have a crush on the teacher." Now that the
cat's out of the bag, how do I diffuse this
damaging admission?    I already sent her a reply
email, in which I poured on the cocky/funny, but I
wanted to get your input and hopefully I made the
right choice by my reply.

Thanks Dave!

--C.K. San Francisco, CA

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    lol... the best thing you can do is GO MEET 10
MORE WOMEN!!!

    Duh!

    And what are you doing writing to me asking for
advice on how to un-screw-up your situation... and
you haven't even read my book? Go to:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/

    RIGHT NOW and get it. You are doing great, you
just need to get some of the details together.

    And as for your teacher, STOP SAYING THAT YOU
LIKE HER! And start acting like the Cocky and
Funny guy that make her respond to you!


***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

I just started receiving your newsletter. And I
was just curious about the letters that are coming
in. Are these letters from real guys or is it
something that 's written by your staff just to
sell your ebook? I can't honestly believe a book
can really do that much for a guy. I get another
newsletter on dating women and this guy doesn't
seem to profess the "cocky" attitude you write
about.

Anyway, just to let you know who I am. I am a 50
yr young man. I'm 5'7" , good shape and health.
Have all my hair and teeth. I'm a nice guy but I
want to shed that image but not be an asshole if
you know what I mean. I don't want to even tell
you how long it's been since I've been laid. Can
your book really help a guy like me? I've been
going on the online dating seen but don't always
see what I want which is a sexy young woman. Also,
how young can I acceptably go. Anything you can
tell me would be a help.

Sign me,

Not getting enough

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    I love letters like this one...

    OK, to answer your first question... EVERY
SINGLE LETTER THAT I PRINT IN EVERY SINGLE ONE OF
MY NEWSLETTERS IS REAL. I NEVER INVENT THEM.

    I have every one of the originals saved to
prove it.

    To answer one of your comments of "I can't
believe that a book can really do that much for a
guy"...

    IT CAN'T. The BOOK isn't what does it.

    It's a combination of the material in the book
and actually TAKING ACTION ON IT AND USING IT.

    It's taken me YEARS of trial and error...
trying just about everything under the sun to
learn the things that I've learned. I really went
out there and did the work.

    I tried and tested everything I could find...

    If you're reading this right now, and it's time
for YOU to get this part of YOUR life handled, and
finally start enjoying the kind of success with
women that you've only dreamed about it the past,
then maybe it's time for you to TAKE ACTION.

    If you'd like to get a behind-the-scenes look
into the minds of women, and you'd like to learn
the techniques for attracting women and creating
ATTRACTION that it's taken me literally YEARS to
figure out, then I'd recommend you go and check
out my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.

    This program is a "condensed education" that
has taken me a LONG time to organize, prepare, and
create.

    Instead of spending years of your OWN time and
spending (or rather WASTING) a lot of money... and
dealing with the pain of trial-and-error, you can
save yourself a LOT of frustration...

    This program contains literally HUNDREDS and
HUNDREDS of step-by-step techniques for overcoming
fears and improving your self image, approaching
women, meeting women online, getting dates, and
taking things to a "physical level" smoothly and
without rejection.

    You can check out some great free audio and
video clips from it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/

    And if you haven't downloaded your copy of my
online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need
to go and do that RIGHT NOW. You can download it
and be reading it in just a few minutes... it's
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/

    ...and download it now.

    And I'll talk to you again soon.

         Your Friend,

         David D.
         

P.S. You can see the rest of the programs I've
created to help you meet women, plus watch some
great video clips of them all right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/






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WOMEN DON'T MAKE SENSE!

   Have you ever noticed that women don't seem to
make sense AT ALL when it comes to "dating?"

   What's up with that?

   I'm sure you've been in a situation where you
really liked a woman, and you did everything
"right"... but for some reason she just never felt
attracted to you...

   You called her often, took her to nice places,
bought her gifts, and were a complete gentleman
(translation, you didn't try to kiss her, gave her
space, etc.)... but nothing seemed to cause her to
like you for more than just a "friend"...

   And I'm sure you've been in a situation where a
TOTALLY HOT female friend of yours was dating a
complete jerk who was mean and abusive to her...
and all she did was tell you about how badly he
treats her (and of course she talks about the sex,
too)... all the while you're sitting there and
would do ANYTHING just to have a chance at dating
her. Right?

   What is going on here?

   Why is it that when you're overly nice to a
woman in the beginning, it just causes them to be
less and less interested?

   And why is it that jerky guys who mistreat
women seem to get laid like Rock Stars, even
though they are the WORST possible choice for an
attractive woman?

   This is a fascinating question to me.

   In fact, I've spent the last several YEARS
thinking about this and other related questions.

   It's funny, because when you first ask a
question like this one, you can come up with some
"OK" answers. But now that I've taken the time to
REALLY think about it, research it, and look
DEEPER into the topic, I've realized and found
some FASCINATING answers.

   But more importantly, I've come up with ways
that any guy can take advantage of the secrets
that "jerks" use to attract women... without
having to be abusive.

   OK, so let's talk about some of these concepts
that I've been working on...

   Before we get into the specific concepts, I
want to mention that you can get yourself a
FANTASTIC education about how to communicate with
women in a way that creates ATTRACTION by getting
yourself a copy of my "Sexual Communication"
program. Go check out some video clips of the
program here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/

   ...I can remember when I used to call women all
the time, take them out, and generally show them
that I was VERY interested in them when I first
met them. I was REALLY a "nice" guy.

   And you can guess what happened. Exactly...

   They would always be nice to me, say that they
appreciated what I had done, and accept my
calls...

   BUT I NEVER SENSED THAT THEY FELT ANY KIND OF
ATTRACTION FOR ME.

   Something just never felt quite right.

   I always felt this little tension... as if the
woman KNEW that I was interested, but for some
reason THAT VERY FACT was the thing that kept her
from feeling the same in return.

   It was as if the more I tried to get a woman to
like me, the less she would.

   IT JUST DIDN'T MAKE SENSE!

   Why wouldn't a woman choose to like me when I
was such a nice guy?

   Was it my looks? Or the fact that I didn't make
a lot of money? Or that I didn't have a nice car?

   Well, I've since realized something...

   Women don't CHOOSE at all who they are
attracted to.

   ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.

   Attraction is something that happens virtually
on its own... WITHOUT ANY CONSCIOUS DECISION AT
ALL.

   Most people have a hard time accepting the idea
that they're not in control of themselves.

   I just read in a marketing book today that some
experts estimate that over 95% of ALL decisions
aren't made consciously.

   In other words, less than 5% of all the
"decisions" that people make were ALREADY MADE FOR
THEM in their minds, and they're just trying to
pretend that it was their idea!

   Well, when it comes to women and ATTRACTION,
things are no different.

   Ask a woman why she's attracted to a certain
guy, and she'll answer, "Oh, he's such a
sweetheart" or "He's really a great guy" or
whatever.

   I personally believe that if you could get a
woman to stop and think about it for a minute, the
REAL answer would be something like "I have no
frickin' idea whatsoever. I just feel an emotion
that makes me crave being with him, and then I
justify it in my mind so I can EXPLAIN it to
myself and everyone else so I don't sound crazy."

   Whoa.

   That's heavy.

   But if you take a look around, it's not NEARLY
as heavy as REALITY. Think about all of the women
you've known who were smart, attractive, and
interesting. Now think about all of those women
who dated abusive, insensitive losers who did
nothing but take from them... and how the women
just dealt with it and kept dating them.

WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON HERE?

   Well, the answer is somewhat complex.

   A combination of evolutionary pressures,
cultural and religious programming, and the
magical way the mind works creates a very unique
and interesting puzzle.

   But let me tell you one thing about this
puzzle.

   When you're first learning how to be successful
with women and dating, you must put aside all of
your past ideas and conditioning for awhile.

   You have to pretend that you don't know
ANYTHING about how women work... and play a little
game.

   Instead of doing what you THINK should work,
try doing what ACTUALLY works.

   When you have this mind set, you'll TRY
different things, JUST TO SEE WHAT WORKS.

   Instead of saying, "Oh, that won't work," just
try it.

   I was out with a good friend of mine one time.
We were at the mall walking around, and I was
showing him how easy it is to meet women.

   We went into a fancy store, and walked up to a
girl who was selling makeup. He started a
conversation with her, and I watched.

   She was laughing, and he was doing fine.

   But you know that point in a conversation with
a woman where you both know that something needs
to happen?

   She needed to get back to work, and he needed
to either move on or ask for her information.

   So I walked over and said "Here, let me see
your hand" (she had her left hand in her pocket,
and we couldn't see if she had a wedding band on).

   She took her hand out, and I looked at it.

   Sure enough, she had a ring on her finger. But
it didn't look like a wedding band to me.

   So I pointed at it and said "So does this ring
mean something? Or is it just to ward-off dumb
asses?"

   She started laughing.

   Here's the good part...

   I looked at my friend and said OUT LOUD, "See,
that's how you find out if she's single. I've got
a line for everything..." and I laughed.

   Then we asked her if she had a card, and made
fun of her for not having an email address... of
course, my friend walked away with her info.

   Now, the funny part of this story is that most
guys would CRINGE if they even THOUGHT of saying
something like "See, that's how you find out if
she's single..." etc. right to a woman's face.

   But she found the humor and arrogance quite
funny and charming.

   What I'm trying to say is that you need to put
aside your ideas about what women respond to when
it comes to ATTRACTION... and start doing what
WORKS, instead of what you THINK SHOULD WORK.

   Remember, WOMEN DON'T MAKE SENSE.

   If you keep trying to think about it and get
them to make sense in your mind, you're going to
keep going in circles and chasing your tail.

   Success with women really comes down to
learning a new way to think about women, then
combining it with the actual techniques that cause
women to feel that magical emotion called
ATTRACTION.

   Once you start using the techniques in the real
world, in real situations, you start to get a FEEL
for how this whole thing works. And once you start
to see how successful you can be, it encourages
you to start doing more "illogical" things.

   You've heard me mention my Advanced CD/DVD
Series many times in these newsletters.

   One of the things I'd like to mention here is
that I take several HOURS to explain how and why
these SUBCONSCIOUS things are taking place, and
how to not only overcome your own personal fears
and limitations, but how to understand what's
going on inside of a woman... and those things
that cause a woman to feel an UNCONTROLLABLE
ATTRACTION.

   Most of the material I teach in this series is
advanced.

   It's not just a replay or expanded version of
my eBook.

   In fact, I assume that you've already read my
book if you're listening to it (and if you
haven't, then I recommend that you read my eBook
first).

   After listening to this series, I ABSOLUTELY
guarantee that you will look at the world and
women VERY differently.

   And I guarantee that you will feel more power
and control, and experience more success with
women as a result.

   This material isn't taught anywhere else, and
it's the culmination of several years work...

   Go here for some great free samples:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/

   And, of course, if you haven't read my ebook
yet, then make sure you go and download it
IMMEDIATELY. You can download it here, and be
reading it within a few minutes from right now:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/

   Enjoy, and I'll talk to you again in a few
days!

      Your Friend,

      David D.

P.S. Make sure and remember to go look through my
online catalog of programs... where you can watch
video clips of all of them. Just go here now:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

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5 Ways To Trigger "Sexual Tension" With Women

5 Ways To Trigger "Sexual Tension" With Women


>NOTE: If you'd like to read the story of how I
learned to attract and meet women... and get
dates with models, dancers, actresses... and many
fantastic "regular" girls as well, just go here:

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SEXUAL TENSION... AND HOW TO CREATE IT...

    Let me ask you a quick question.

    It's a question that MOST men do NOT know the
answer to...

    It's also a question that most women DO know
the answer to...

    The question: "What is SEXUAL TENSION?"

    Take a minute and "mentally answer" that
question. Think it over if you have to.

    I'm not kidding. Think about it.

    What did you come up with?

    To most men, the words "Sexual Tension" are a
MYSTERY.

    They just don't make sense.

    Or if they DO make sense, they make sense in a
way that DOESN'T make sense. Make sense?

    In other words, some guys think that the words
Sexual Tension mean "negative anxiety about sex"
or something equally unhelpful.

    But, if you go ask a group of WOMEN what the
words mean, you'll get a MUCH different answer.

    Women know what Sexual Tension is.

    To a woman, Sexual Tension is the feeling that
she feels during those times when she is
interacting with a man that she feels ATTRACTION
for... but she doesn't know exactly what's going
to happen.

    Maybe she can't tell if he's into her, but the
conversation is so good that something MUST be
happening...

    Maybe he's making her laugh a little bit "too
much", and she's unable to control her feelings
towards him...

    Or maybe it's obvious that he's interested, but
he's so in control of himself and the situation
that he's not blatantly "making a move"... and
she's on the edge of her seat waiting to know
what's going to happen.

    These are all possible examples of Sexual
Tension.

    Now, just because one of these situations is
happening doesn't mean that Sexual Tension is
present.

    But these are the types of situations where it
is MOST LIKELY to be present.

    With that, let me see if I can take you behind
the scenes and give you a different perspective.

    Men and women have some BIG differences when it
comes to ATTRACTION.

    Men have their "attraction mechanisms"
"triggered" by much different things than women.

    For women, things usually begin with a small
spark.

    Eye contact for a little too long.

    A Cocky & Funny comment.

    A teasing remark.

    It can be anything.

    The point is that SOMETHING SPARKS the
ATTRACTION.

    Then it GROWS over time.

    It doesn't have to be a lot of time, but it
does usually require time.

    It might take an evening, or it might take a
date or two... but if a man does all the right
things he can AMPLIFY one these little sparks of
attraction into a powerful emotional feeling for a
woman... that is too much for her to resist.

    Of course, as we both know, a man can usually
feel a sexual attraction to a woman INSTANTLY.

    I'm sure you've had a woman smile at you and
BOY-OY-OY-OY-ING.

    SCHWING.

    AWWWWW YAYAHHHHH.

    What's worse, we totally don't get how things
work for women.

    So we tend to do all the WRONG things.

    And when we do all the WRONG things, women
don't even get the little sparks that can grow
into full-blown ATTRACTION.

    So let's talk about Sexual Tension...

    Why "Tension"?

    Most people don't like the idea of "tension".

    It's uncomfortable.

    It usually means confrontation or dealing with
someone who's mad at you or who doesn't like you.

    Tension is seen as a NEGATIVE by most people.

    And when most men feel ANY type of tension
around a woman, they make a HUGE mistake...

    THEY RELEASE THE TENSION.

    Because most guys are so caught up in the
"tension is bad" way of thinking, they DESTROY all
of the great Sexual Tension that arises in the
situations they find themselves in with women.

    It's a total bummer.

    So, the first thing I'm going to ask you to do,
for the purposes of understanding this concept, is
to put your ideas of what tension is and how it
works behind you.

    Open your mind to a new way of thinking.

    Become "OK" with the idea of CREATING TENSION
when you're around women that you feel an
attraction for... and even AMPLIFYING that
tension.

    And realize that if you can do this, women will
LOVE you for it.

    Women, and especially ATTRACTIVE women who are
approached all the time by loser guys, don't enjoy
dating guys who are boring, predictable, and lame.

    They love guys who are unpredictable,
mysterious, and CHALLENGING.

    They love guys who keep them guessing what's
going to happen next.

    And they love guys who can keep the TENSION
BUILDING, and NOT LET UP.

    If what I'm saying is starting to make sense,
but you'd like to get a more in-depth understanding
of Sexual Tension and Chemistry, then read THIS
before you read the rest of this newsletter:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/

    Here are a few ideas for "sparking" that
initial tension that I'm talking about...

1) TEASE.

    If you want to INSTANTLY change the way a hot,
stuck-up woman is behaving, TEASE HER about
something.

    Now, not all beautiful women are stuck up.

    Duh.

    But, teasing works PARTICULARLY well when a
woman IS stuck up... lol.

    Maybe it's her big purse.

    Or her tall shoes.

    Or her "runway model" walk.

    Whatever.

    Just tease her.

    Say, "Hey, what's with the big purse? You're
not one of those women with a live dog named
"Precious" in there, along with organic vegan
high-protein treats for when she's in the mood to
be pampered, are you?"

    It doesn't matter.

    Just say something to tease her.

    Oh, and it's usually better if you can do this
with a STRAIGHT FACE. This creates even MORE
tension.

    If you MUST smile, make sure it's the "I'm only
smiling because I know that you can't believe how
confident I am that you love me" kind of smile.

2) EYE CONTACT

    When a man and a woman make eye contact for the
FIRST TIME, it's USUALLY the man who looks away
first.

    Men are WUSSIES when it comes to doing things
that say "I'm a strong, confident person".

    Looking away when you make eye contact with a
woman is one of those things. BIG TIME.

    Instead, if you HOLD the eye contact until SHE
looks away (and you don't fidget or twitch like
you've got some strange bug crawling up your
shirt), it will send a strong signal.

    Oh, and it has a good chance of "sparking" this
attraction that we're talking about.

3) ROLE PLAY

    Often an opportunity will come up when you're
meeting a woman where you'll want to instantly
shift into a "roll play".

    Maybe she mentions that she's getting a new
job. Tell her that you sure hope it pays well,
because she's going to have to support both of
you...

    And then tell her that you hope she has enough
energy to cook at night after work, because you
need a wife who can bring home the bacon, AND fry
it up in a pan...

    Then tell her that something she just said
screwed it all up for you, and that you're
probably going to wind up divorcing her a week
after you get married... and taking half of HER
money.

    Roll playing is fun, and if it's done right it
can REALLY spark this tension that we're talking
about.

    The point is that you have to SPARK it.

    YOU must lead the way, and YOU must do
something to create that little moment where
things transition into "we're playing like
adults". Women feel this, and respond to it
INSTANTLY.

- TURNING UP THE TENSION

    Now, once you've sparked this tension and
engaged her into an interesting banter, it's time
to DIAL UP THE TENSION.

    That's right, I said, CREATE MORE TENSION.

    Let's say that you were talking to her about
making a lot of money so she can support you, and
she answered with, "Well, I can support you, but
you're going to have to do all the housework,
dishes, and take care of the kids".

    Most guys would be thinking to themselves
"Cool, she's having fun with me, I'll say
something to make her like me now".

    So they'd say, "OK, I can do that" or something
equally dumb-assed.

    This is the place to TURN IT UP.

    Say, "Oh no you don't. I'm the man here. I get
to lie around all day watching TV.., then go out
with my friends when you get home".

    Reversing gender stereotypes like this, and
teasing is all kinds of fun.

    At this point the woman might open her mouth
with the "Oh no you didn't just say that" look.

    Of course, you should look back at her, raise
your eyebrows, and slowly nod your head, as if to
imply "Oh yes, you're going to support me".

    This is just one example.

    Here are a few more, just so you really "get"
what it is that I'm saying.

1) DON'T take advantage of something.

    Let's say that the woman you're talking to is
wearing a sexy outfit. She gets up and walks
across the room to get something. She KNOWS that
you're going to be looking at her.

    BUT YOU DON'T.

    When she turns around to come back, you're
looking down at your shoes, and commenting about
what great taste you have.

    THIS IS SUBTLE, BUT POWERFUL.

    Not taking advantage of a look, a touch, a
kiss, etc. when it's available DIALS UP the Sexual
Tension.

2) Push her away.

    Let's say that you have your first kiss.

    PUSH HER AWAY gently just before the kiss
"should" be finished.

    Shake your head.

    Say, "you're trouble".

    TENSION BUILDS.

3) End interactions first.

    If you're talking to her on the phone, and
you're both enjoying the conversation, say, "OK,
I've got things to do. See ya."

    This is MAGIC.

    Not only are you ending a great conversation
when it was on an UP note, but you're also not
trying to get anything from her.

    Most guys cling and stay on the phone forever,
then ask for a date or if they can call later.

    DON'T DO IT.

    Just get off the phone.

    If it's the end of the date, leave just a
little bit too soon.

    The point is to create TENSION in the moment.

- EVERYDAY SITUATIONS

    In just about every situation there is an
opportunity to TURN UP THE TENSION.

    When you do this, you create a very special
emotion for women.

    It's that combination of her laughing, her not
knowing what's going to come next, and you not
acting like a WUSSY...

    It's that special curiosity that is aroused
inside of a woman when she doesn't know what's
going to happen... but she WANTS to know...

    It's that magical moment when it's obvious that
most guys would start acting like CLINGY WUSSBAGS,
and you're just leaning back as if you've got all
the time in the world... and you need nothing.

    These things spark and amplify Sexual Tension.

    And they INSTANTLY communicate to women that
you understand something that most men DON'T.

    Now, of course this isn't a simple topic.

    There's a lot more to it.

    In fact, one of the most important factors in
creating sexual tension is your ability to not act
needy... which has more to do with your self image
and overcoming your insecurities than it does with
your "behaviors" alone.

    As you probably know, I believe that it's as
important to work on your "Inner Game" as it is to
work on our "Outer Game".

    It's as important to learn how to change how
you think and feel as it is to learn the words and
actions.

    You must start on the INSIDE, and work your way
OUTSIDE.

    You can have the 100 best pick up lines ever
created memorized word-for-word, but if you care
too much what women think of you, then THEY WON'T
WORK WORTH A DAMN.

    In fact, almost NOTHING WILL WORK if you don't
have your Inner Game together.

    One of the things that really separates my more
advanced training materials from others is that I
spend a LOT of time teaching you how to overcome
your insecurities, improve your self image, see
things from a better angle, and really work
through those "inner" things that are holding you
back.

    In my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD
program, I spend several HOURS on "The Inner Game"
before I ever share techniques for meeting women.

    It's THAT IMPORTANT.

    Really.

    Of course, after I spend four or five hours
tweaking up your thinking and your emotional
issues, I also share HUNDREDS of killer ideas for
approaching, meeting, dating, and "getting
physical" with women in ways that AVOID REJECTION
and amplify success.

    The best part? I guarantee results.

    All you have to do is go through this program
one time, and you'll see results.

    I mean, you'll probably go through the whole
thing MANY times, and you'll hear a TON of new
things each time... but the very first time will
change you for good.

    EVEN BETTER: I'll send this program to you to
TRY before you pay one single dime... I'm THAT
SURE it's going to get you results with women.

    All the details are here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/

    Have you read my original online eBook "Double
Your Dating"? It's literally jam packed with great
techniques for meeting women... and you can go
download it RIGHT NOW and be reading it in a FEW
MINUTES. It's here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/

    I'll talk to you again soon.

         Your Friend,

         David D.


P.S. Make sure you take a minute and look at all
of the different programs I've created to teach
you how to meet women. You can see them all, plus
watch some great video clips right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/






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Secrets Of Dating Younger Women

Secrets Of Dating Younger Women

It's a FACT: right now, most single women are
feeling frustrated and unsatisfied with the men
they're meeting.

That in mind, I have to ask you...

WHY AREN'T YOU TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THIS SITUATION?

If you're still "sitting on the bench," there can
only be 2 possible reasons for it
#1) You have so many women chasing you that you
don't even need to try. Or...

#2) You're dealing with obstacles like anxiety,
fear, or lack of self-esteem that destroy your
chances of success before you even get started.

If #2 sounds like you, I'm here to tell you that
you can CHANGE EVERYTHING RIGHT NOW... and it's
easier than you think.

Learn why here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame/

>>>As I was finishing up writing
this newsletter, something very interesting
happened. Read all the way to the very, very end
for the story<<<

Ah, younger women.

It's taken me a long time now to finally see
clearly that the appeal of younger women is not
just "slight".

I recently read somewhere that when men get
married for the SECOND time, they marry women an
AVERAGE of 10 years younger.

And something like 20% of men who marry for a
second time wind up marrying a woman that is over
20 YEARS YOUNGER.

I also recall reading somewhere that women are
universally attracted to men who are older than
them, and that the "average" relationship contains
a man that is four years older than the woman.

Interesting stuff.

Remember Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall?

Bastard.

Or how about Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta
Jones?

I hate him, too.

In my own family there are age gaps ranging
from 10 years to over 40 years.

Yeah, you read that one right. Over 40 years.

I won't even go there...

Let's just say that it brings a whole new
meaning to "I traded my 40 in for two 20s".

I guess what I'm trying to say here is that
this pattern of older men dating and marrying
younger women isn't going away anytime soon.

In fact, I personally believe that the more
"socially acceptable" it becomes, the MORE it's
going to happen.

For most of my adult life, I've dated women
that were either my own age, or very close.

But for some reason, right about when I turned
30, I began sometimes dating women who were
younger than me.

At first it was a little bit strange.

I didn't feel like I had anything to talk about
with a woman who was five or ten years younger
than me.

But the more it happened, the more I realized
that younger women have a certain appeal that goes
far beyond just the "physical beauty".

Younger women just have a different VIBE.

If you meet the right younger woman, you'll
find that she can bring an amazing energy, vibe,
and youthful atmosphere to your life.

After having the experience myself, talking to
other guys who have shared it, and reading about
it a lot, I can say that many guys have the
experience of FEELING YOUNGER and MORE VITAL when
dating a younger woman.

It can be a blast.

Now, I'm not saying that it's a bad idea to
date women your own age, or women who are older
than you.

Not at all, in fact. Mature women have
qualities that are amazing.

I'm just saying that if you find yourself
attracted to younger women, it's perfectly OK.

And I want to devote this newsletter to the
topic of how to successfully date younger women.

Keep your eye out in the near future for a
newsletter titled "How to date women that are old
enough to be your grandma". Somehow I don't expect
that one to be quite as popular as this one...lol.

OK, let's get to it.

First, I want to talk about my take on younger
women in general, then I'd like to share some
specific techniques and ideas for dating them....

YOUNGER WOMEN MATURE FASTER

Now, we've all heard that "women mature faster
than men"...right?

Well, if you could have the opportunity to
listen to a group of four 20-year-old models
standing in front of the bathroom mirror at an A-
List club in Los Angeles or New York, I think you
might change your mind....

My personal view is that SOME women mature
faster than most men...and that SOME women have a
SIDE of them that matures faster than most men.

All women don't mature faster than all men.

But there are those women that DO mature
faster...and these younger women can be VERY
interesting to hang out with.

Take a minute and imagine what it would be like
to be an attractive 18-year-old young woman who
has just graduated from high school and is
starting her first year in college.

Let's assume that she's above average in the
looks department, smart, and beginning to enjoy
her new-found freedom and independence.

What would be going through your mind?

How would you be approaching that world?

Well, I think that you'd probably have begun to
realize (in a big way, most likely) that you have
a certain POWER over most men.

You've probably also begun to realize that
there are certain types of "boyz" that hold a
certain appeal...and that appeal triggers a
certain type of magnetic attraction in you.

(If you've had a chance to go through my
Advanced Dating Techniques Program, then you
understand that this ATTRACTION is being triggered
by certain traits, and not just good looks.)

Now, without taking too long to explain the
point, if you think about it, the traits that
trigger ATTRACTION in women are MORE likely to be
found in an OLDER man than a YOUNGER one.

Traits like higher status, masculinity,
leadership, mystery, challenge, confidence,
composure...and many others.

It often takes men DECADES to cultivate the
traits that are attractive to women...and you'll
notice that when they do, they often act like they
just discovered the concept of FRICTION...and they
behave accordingly.

And if you were an attractive younger woman who
was just "finding her wings" in life, you'd be
responding to this in a way that you probably
wouldn't be able to explain.

The point?

Younger women are more likely to feel
ATTRACTION for a man who is older.

This principle has proven itself to me over and
over...and the more I look around, the more I see
it in action.

IS IT "NORMAL" TO DATE A WOMAN WHO IS YOUNGER
THAN YOU?

One thing that makes this particular topic very
interesting to me is that it often evokes VERY
emotional responses from people.

Some people say, "It's sick for an older man to
date a younger woman"...some people see it as
perfectly normal...and some see it as MORE normal
than men dating women their own age.

Everyone has an opinion about it, one way or
another.

The reason that this is important is that the
younger women you'd like to date have a wide range
of opinions as well.

In other words, one 20-year-old woman might
think that the idea of dating a guy who is 27 is
TOTALLY GROSS, while the next one might ONLY find
herself attracted to men who are over 30.

The point I'm making here is that if you are
going to date younger women, you must not let
yourself be overly influenced by the opinions of
others...especially the women you would like to
date.

Just because one woman says "I think that any
guy who asks a woman out who is more than three
years younger is sick" doesn't mean that ALL women
think that way.

The girl right behind her might say "I just
don't have a clue why ANY woman would want to date
ANY guy who's under 40...they're all immature".

If you wind up talking to a woman who isn't
interested because you're "too old", just move
on...and don't let it distract you.

You're going to have to get over any negative
"self image issues" before you're going to be able
to make this work. If you have problems with your
self image, then read THIS and get it handled
before you read any more of this newsletter:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame/

THE YOUNGER WOMAN'S PERSPECTIVE

I've found that women usually fit into one of
the following three categories when it comes to
how they view this topic:

1) "It's perfectly normal" (Maybe 20%)

2) "It's taboo, and very intriguing" (Maybe 20%)

3) "It's GROSS!" (Maybe 60%)

I just made these numbers up based on my
personal experience and my personal observations.

Some guys I know ONLY date women who are much
younger than themselves...and their experience is
that MOST younger women want to date guys who are
older...see for yourself.

Next, I personally think that maybe only 25% of
the younger women you meet are even worth your
time and attention.

75% are in the categories of not interested in
older guys, not attractive physically or
personality-wise, too immature, etc.

Of those that ARE worth pursuing, most fit into
one of a few categories:

1) Damn smart, high standards, and on the path to
bettering herself.

This young woman will often respect you and
admire you for your experience in life, and look
to you for approval, advice, and input.

She will probably get a thrill from being with
a guy who is mature, sophisticated, and who knows
how to make her feel good physically.

This woman might be the daughter of a strict
and/or religious family who is now experimenting
with her independence.

2) Attractive and overly-concerned with what
others think...very competitive, life revolves
around boys.

If you meet a woman who is between 18 and 23,
and she's a model, actress, dancer, or other
"entertainer", you'll often find this personality
type...

Often these girls like to PARTY.

Drama usually isn't far away.

These women often enjoy the thrill that being
with an older guy brings.

They are often found on the arm of rich,
playboy types...because they like the attention
and material gifts and advantages.

WARNING: These women, in my experience, are
more likely to be users, cheaters, and the types
that turn your emotional life upside-down with all
kinds of unimaginable drama.

Buyer beware.

3) The nice girl who likes you. Maybe not
stunning, and maybe not a super-genius, but likes
the fact that she's met a man who is a MAN...and
who makes her feel good.

Most of these women have a common realization
that guys their age just don't "get it".
They're tired of hearing about dumb "guy stuff",
and they are fascinated by a man who is both
clearly in control of himself and his environment,
and very aware of how to treat a woman...how to
make her feel good...how to take his time.

These women can be great fun, and they can be a
real joy to be around. They often bring a fun,
spontaneous energy to the relationship, and they
make things a little unpredictable.

Now this isn't a complete list.

And it's not exact.

But it's pretty accurate, and if you use these
categories as general guides, you'll begin to
understand and have more success in your
interactions with younger women.

THE SPECIFICS...WHAT, WHEN, HOW, WHY, WHERE...

Here are some specific ideas for dating younger
women.

REMEMBER: These are WOMEN. They're not a
different species, and everything else that you've
learned from me still applies.

1) Be Cool, Dude.

When most older guys meet a younger woman that
they feel attracted to, they immediately begin to
act WEIRD.

They stop acting like "themselves".

Now, women don't know what you're like
"normally", but they can tell INSTANTLY if you're
NOT ACTING LIKE YOURSELF.

We guys do all kinds of subtle and not-so-
subtle little things when we're feeling nervous...
and these things give women the HEEBIE JEEBIES!

So be cool.

Relax.

Don't act like a Wussbag.

2) Treat her like a BRATTY LITTLE SISTER.

Now that you're being "cool", take it to the
NEXT LEVEL...

Use one of my favorite personal techniques, and
treat her like your BRATTY LITTLE SIS.

Tease her.

Make fun.

It's OK, go for it.

Say all the things you never had a chance to
say when you were a freshman.

Now is your big chance!

And don't worry about it when she plays "fake
mad". Just turn it up some more.

Oh, and call her on everything she does or says
that's immature.

I can't go into all the reasons why this is a
great idea, but it is. You keep your power, you
have all kinds of opportunities to be Cocky &
Funny, and you can always keep things interesting
and challenging.

Oh, and it's COMPLETELY different than the way
most Wussies treat her...which is good.

3) Don't try to follow or get her to lead.

Women in general are not attracted to men who
don't take the lead...and younger women are no
exception.

In fact, younger women have less experience in
life, so trying to get them to lead and tell you
what they want you to do is just a horrible idea.

Don't do it.

You lead. You decide where you're going. You
make the rules.

If you try to make her the boss, you'll run her
off faster than you can say "I touch myself".

4) Don't try to take advantage of the situation.

Most attractive young women have had at LEAST
one "icky older guy" that "tried something" with
her.

Younger women are HYPER-ALERT when it comes to
sketchy behavior.

If you try to take advantage of the situation
or try to "make a move" too early, you'll most
likely signal to her that you're a "perv" and that
you aren't to be trusted.

Lean back.

Chill.

Give her room.

When you walk down the street with her, bump
into her and push her AWAY from you.

Tell her not to walk too close to you...tell
her that other people might think something.

If you're alone with her in your living room,
don't sit right next to her.

If she touches you while talking, don't touch
her back...or better yet, make fun of it and say
"Keep your hands off the goods".

5) Don't intrude on or interfere with her life.

You must remember that younger women have lives
of their own.

Often they're very close to their families, and
they're unsure of how their families would respond
if they found out that their pride and joy of a
daughter was dating an older guy.

Remember, she just got FREE of the overbearing
father...and she doesn't need a new one.

Don't call her at work, don't show up to see
her unexpectedly, and don't embarrass her.

If you want to make an attractive young woman
perform magic (the instant disappearing act), just
interfere with her life.

She's free, so let her be free. Encourage it,
even. Don't interfere.

6) Let her come to you...don't chase her.

If you want to make friends with a cat, the
best tactic is to IGNORE IT.

Cats are interesting creatures.

Have you ever noticed that if you chase a cat,
it will run...but if you sit and ignore it, you'll
soon find yourself pushing it off of your lap?

Same goes for younger women.

Like I just mentioned, younger women have often
just "escaped" from controlling parents,
structured lives, and zero freedom.

If she's attracted to you, it's not because
you're creating the environment that she just
left...it's because you represent something
different.

You'll find that if you call her all the time
and chase her, she'll be harder to get a hold of,
and less likely to continue to see you.

If you let her go, let her live her life, and
make yourself more scarce, you'll be more likely
to have HER pursuing YOU.

Be the man that she's always dreamed about, and
then don't chase her.

7) EXPECT her to change.

If you're dating a woman between the ages of 18
and 23, you need to remember that her life is
probably going to change DRAMATICALLY over the
next few years.

You need to keep an open mind, and not try to
restrict or hinder her options.

You need to expect and even encourage her to
grow, change, and become all she can be.

The reality is that the chances are SLIM that
she's going to be with you in a few years.

In fact, the chances are slim that she's even
going to be the same person in a few years.

Get over it, and be OK with it.

Challenge her to grow, achieve, and be her
best...and don't accept second-class behavior from
her.

But...she's going to change, so expect it.

8) Be CHIVILROUS.

Most younger women have had VERY FEW men in
their lives who even knew what the word "Chivalry"
meant.

If you're one of those men, then you need to
LEARN what the word means.

Opening doors, walking on the outside of the
curb, and pulling out chairs makes a BIG
impression on younger women.

When you combine a masculine, powerful presence
with chivalry, you will stand out and make
yourself VERY intriguing and attractive.

9) Stay totally calm in the face of drama.

Younger women often have a lot of drama
happening around them, and they often act
dramatic.

I could write an entire book about all the
things that a young woman has going on around her
that are TOTALLY UNSTABLE...

And the most influential one is the other
people in her life.

If she freaks out about something, don't let it
get to you.

Stay cool and calm.

Don't try to fix all her problems, and don't
try to stand in for her dad.

She isn't looking for advice, so don't give it
to her (unless she asks seriously, and in a non-
emotional tone).

One of the things that makes you attractive as
an older man is the stability that you bring.

So BRING IT.

10) Be conscious of how often you see her and
speak with her.

Younger women are less in-control of their
emotions...and can become attached more quickly
and easily.

The "trigger" for a woman "becoming attached"
is how often you see her and talk to her.

If you want to trigger the "relationship"
mechanism, spend a lot of time with her.

If you DON'T want to trigger those emotions,
you need to limit the time you spend with her.

As a rule of thumb, don't see her more than
once a week, and don't talk to her more than once
or twice a week unless you want her to start
becoming very attached to you.

And I don't care what you SAY...it's the AMOUNT
OF TIME you spend with her that makes this
determination.

Trust me.

UNDERSTAND ATTRACTION

As always, the most IMPORTANT thing you must
understand when dating younger women is how
ATTRACTION WORKS.

If you don't understand ATTRACTION, then none
of what I just taught you will make a damn bit of
difference...

In fact, if you don't understand ATTRACTION,
then most of the things I just taught you will
probably BACKFIRE on you.

So what's the best way to learn how to make
women feel ATTRACTION for you?

In fact, what's the fastest, most efficient,
most complete, most EFFECTIVE way to learn how to
make women feel ATTRACTION for you available in
the world?

I'd say that it's my Advanced Dating Techniques
CD/DVD program.

And after spending YEARS figuring all of this
stuff out, you can believe me when I say that this
is the program that I wish I would have had when I
first started.

If you put a young, beautiful woman in a guy's
house on his couch, he doesn't know the FIRST
THING about how to make her feel ATTRACTION for
him. He'll do things to please her, hoping that at
some point she begins to get "into the mood"...and
then somehow lets him know.

It will NEVER HAPPEN.

But if that guy knows the secrets of how to
make a woman feel ATTRACTION...and how to smoothly
take things to a physical level without triggering
resistance and rejection...then he will be
successful almost every time.

If you want to be that guy, then you need to
get yourself a copy of my Advanced Dating
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It is literally JAM PACKED with hundreds and
hundreds of techniques for making women, young and
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All the details, plus some great free audio and
video samples are here:

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And if you haven't read my online eBook "Double
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IRONIC PROLOGUE:

As I sit here in Starbucks writing this
newsletter on my laptop, across from me is a
couple sitting at a table talking.

And guess what? He's obviously older.

He's probably in his early 30s.

She looks and sounds like she's around 19 or 20
years old.

It's obvious that this is the first time that
they've met (they're wrapping up their
conversation, and she just said, "It was nice
meeting you").

He wasn't saying much, and she was basically
doing all the talking...and boy, was she ever
talking. About a million miles a minute...

She was leading the entire conversation, and he
was trying to be a "nice guy" and let her lead
things.

She was talking about what life was like before
she moved away from her parents.

She was saying, "My parents were overbearing..."
and talking about what it was like to live at home.

The guy was sitting there nervously talking to
her...and fidgeting.

She was asking him questions like, "What is
your family like?", and he was trying to give her
"good answers" like "My family is nice, and my
parents are sweet", etc.

It was obvious that she was trying to keep the
conversation going, and he was trying his best not
to "say anything stupid"...he was trying to seem
like a "nice guy".

At one point when she asked him a question, he
sat forward, turned his hands up in the air in a
"I'm just a regular guy, nothing special here"
gesture, and answered about himself.

They just got up and left.

It was PAINFULLY CLEAR to me that this guy did
NOT understand what to do in this situation.

He probably met her online in a chat room or on
a personals website.

He was probably all excited about meeting her.

He probably offered to take her to dinner, and
paid for an expensive meal...and maybe even a
movie before winding up at Starbucks.

He probably has no idea whether or not she is
interested in him, and he will probably go home
tonight wishing he would have kissed her...and
wishing he would have "made a move".

He didn't get it.

DON'T BE THAT GUY!

OK, enough of my ranting.

Go check out the samples of my Advanced Series,
and get yourself a copy. It's the answer!

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/

And download my eBook here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Younger women and older women alike respond
VERY well to the technique that I call "Cocky &
Funny". If you'd like to get a great education
about this technique, and learn how to trigger
ATTRACTION inside of women with humor and
communication alone, then check it out.

You can watch some great video clips of the
program here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/

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