Friday, April 30, 2021

What If A Woman Wants To Be Just Friends?

 
 

 

Hey Man,

I can't wait to jump into today's mailbag... this one contains a question about getting stuck in the "Friend Zone"...

Be sure to stay tuned for my answer. It's critical that you "get" what I'm going to tell you if you want to have any hope at all of finally succeeding with women...

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... then this is an EMERGENCY SITUATION.

 

You need to CHECK THIS OUT before your entire love life passes you by:

 

Attraction Isn't A Choice

 

 

 

 

Q. Hello,

My name is O. I'm 20 years old, living in Cyprus. Actually in my college I got interested to a gal.

She was also good with me and many times did something that means, at least for me, she is interested to me, too.

 

Recently I got her mobile number and I called her the day after it and she talked to me normally BUT after a few days when I called her again she did not answered to my call (she didn't pick the mobile up). Then I sent her this SMS:

Without U life is Black not White. Without U the world has no hope, no light. Without u I cant go left or right. Without U I lose my sight. Thank u my glasses!

I called her 2 or 3 times after it in 3 days but she did not answered again. Then I sent her this SMS: Days r 2 busy hours r 2 fast seconds r 2 few but there is always time 4 me 2 remember you!

2 days after it I again called her and this time she did not pickup the phone as well, So I decided to say her every thing and tell her the truth and at least I will know is she really likes me or not, then i sent her this message:

 

Hello my A., I sent you lots of messages but you did not answered to me. I'm worried about you, is every thing all right? I want to tell you a truth... I like you, in fact I love you. You are always in my mind, you are everywhere, I never forget you...I really miss you!

Then, after 2 hours she replied me with this message:

Hey O. I got all your messages. I'm all right. Thanks for asking. Sorry for not replying. Anyway, I want to tell you that I just want a be your friend. Sorry if I gave you the wrong idea, I didn't want you to misunderstand me.

With this message she told me that she does not want to be my girlfriend so in reply to her I wrote this (I said good bye):

Thanks for answering. I hope you be successful in your life everywhere with anybody and thanks for every thing cause you taught me many things!

I was not expecting any reply from her but she sent this sms right after my sms:

I enjoy being your friend. I wish u the best. Have a nice holiday. Sorry if I made u feel bad:(

I did not send her any sms but after 2 days she sent me this sms, which really made me quite confused:

....Friends are like stars.... you do not always see them but you know they are always there!

I really need your advise. The girl who did not even wanted to answer to my calls now sends me such messages!

Now,I beg you please tell me what does she mean by these words? What should I do?

I really loved her but when she told me that she want just to be my friend, however, it was hard for me to believed but I accepted it and said goodbye to her with my last message. But as you can see....

I need your idea totally, What do think about her? If you suggest me to continue being her friend... What should I do now after sending that goodbye sms? What should I reply to her last message, what should I told her? Honestly, I still like her! but I think I'm not sure is she playing with me? The last question..

If she want me just as friend.. Am I so important for her that she do not want to lose me? and Why?

I'm looking forward to hear from you. Please tell me what do you think about her from her messages.

Very Sincerely Yours,

O.

A. Hey O., even though you live all the way on the other side of the world from me in Cyprus, I can still feel your pain. And I think that every man can identify with the following sequence you hit on:

  • Meet girl.
  • Get along well with girl.
  • Feel attracted to girl and think she is attracted to you.
  • Tell girl that you like her (after getting up the nerve).
  • Girl disappears.
  • Call girl 47 times, but still no response.
  • Finally girl turns up and says, I only like you as a friend and sorry if I hurt you.

Ouch. I know it's a bummer, but you might take comfort knowing that this has happened to me and just about every guy I know many times.

Let me take a shot at explaining what's going on here and hopefully help you and the others reading this to avoid this kind of thing as much as possible in the future. From my perspective, there are a few main issues going on here all at once...

  • Women are complex and often illogical (so are men, but in different ways).
  • Women are attracted to men for reasons that most men either don't know, don't understand, or won't accept.
  • The way that women communicate isn't always as direct and straightforward as most of us guys would like.
  • It's difficult to un-do one of these situations once it has reached this point.

There are things you can do to avoid this kind of thing in the future. Let's deal with these one at a time as they relate to your situation...

Women Are Complex And Often Illogical

So are men, but in different ways. Women act on emotion and intuition more than men. They don't do the logical thing as often as men.

Women walk into Starbucks and order a fat free cafe mocha and then get whipped cream on top. No kidding. I see it all the time.

Women will go through a full closet of clothing trying to choose something to wear to the supermarket, then conclude that there's nothing to wear in here. Women spend $200 on shoes that are going to be worn a few times...

Again, men have their bizarre behaviors, and I'm not trying to badmouth women... but in my experience women are usually not very logical about things, and they're especially illogical when it comes to relationships.

Men are perfectly logical... they want to be with every attractive woman they meet. Women aren't logical. They only want to be with men who don't want to be with them.

My point is that you have to put your ideas about how things should be out of your mind. Start a new way of thinking about things based on reality and not logic.

Women Feel ATTRACTION For Reasons That Most Men Just Don't Get

As I like to say, ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE. We don't think about who we'd like to feel attraction for, it just happens on its own in most cases.

But the thing to remember is that attraction has a pattern. It's like a combination lock or a puzzle. There is a way to create it if you know the recipe. On the other hand, if you don't know the recipe, then you're not likely to figure it out by trial and error. And the reason for this -- again -- is because it's not logical.

While men are attracted mostly to looks, women are attracted mostly to personality traits.

In your situation, you displayed the personality trait that I refer to as wussy a little too early in the game. Women generally aren't attracted to men who get too lovey-dovey and emotional too quickly. There's no mystery or challenge when you fall in love immediately.

And when you call 31 times a day, it only makes the problem worse. What you need to do in these situations is lean back more and give her some space. Give her room to think about you and miss you.

Women Don't Communicate In Direct, Straightforward Ways

If a woman wants to tell you that she isn't interested in you in a romantic way, she'll often not tell you as her way of telling you. In other words, she might just disappear for awhile. Or she might not return calls quickly. Or she might talk about other guys with you...

Once again, you have to put the concept of pure, rational logic out of your mind when it comes to the world of attraction.

Women are subtle. They read into things and try to tell you things indirectly. Women don't generally take what you say at face value. They want to know what everything really means.

If you meet a girl and after the first date you say I really like you, you're beautiful and I have feelings for you they think you said I'm a Wuss because I fall in love too quickly.

On the other hand, if you say Good night, give me a call sometime she'll think you said You were kind of boring, and if you want to talk to me again you're going to have to call me.

You Can't "Undo" A Bad Situation... So DON'T EVEN TRY

Unfortunately, once a woman has made up her mind about a guy, it's almost impossible to change her mind.

If you're in a situation like this where a woman has said I only like you as a friend, then you're best off going out and meeting some other women and getting on with your life immediately. Don't wait. Get on with it.

If you disappear from HER life, then turn up a month or two later... and you're dating a few other attractive women... she might see you in a new light. Jealousy is a very powerful motivator to women and this is often what it takes to get a woman to see you in a new light once you've let out your inner-wussy too early in the game.

Point: Don't try to un-do it. Just get on with your life and quit obsessing over her.

You Can EASILY Avoid These Situations In The Future!

 

The most important step you can take is to learn how ATTRACTION works. You need to learn this game so you know what's happening in future situations... and, most importantly, you know what to do to make women feel attracted to you from the beginning (and, of course, how to not let your inner wuss rear its ugly head too often).

 

As you know, some of my favorite ways to do this are by being Cocky and Funny, teasing women, busting on them in a particular way, playing hard to get, etc.

 

But if you want to learn how attraction works and to make it work for YOU, then YOU'RE going to have to go out and do it. No one else is going to do it for you.

 

I did the trial-and-error thing. I tried all kinds of stuff. In fact, I've probably tried more different ideas for meeting women than anyone I know.

 

The real shift towards success came when I started making friends with guys who were very successful with women... and then watching what they did in person.

 

I found that these guys did things that they weren't even aware of... things that made women literally pursue them. I then took all of this information and combined it with the other things I had learned... I worked like a mad scientist for a few years on this because I really wanted to get this area of my life figured out.

Well, as you can imagine, I developed some pretty amazing techniques for meeting women, getting emails and phone numbers, taking things to a physical level, and everything in between.

You have to do a lot of inner work if you want to be the kind of guy who can keep an amazing woman.

When I was on my own personal quest to learn how to attract women, I found that most of the materials available only focused on the outer game. In other words, they only talked about techniques.

They said Just go up to a woman and say "Hi"... but they didn't talk about HOW to say the words, or how to understand what the woman would be thinking when I did approach her... or any of the million other inner game issues around meeting women.

After spending a few years figuring this stuff out, I realized something critical about the first step toward succeeding with women. It's simply this:

A Man Must Get His "INNER GAME" Together FIRST

Once you understand how and why women are attracted to certain types of men, and how the human mating dance works, you will see things differently. You'll understand things in a new way. It's like putting on a pair of 3-D glasses... and seeing things in a totally new way.

Then, I think it's important to learn the best techniques and actual strategies for meeting women... from where to go, to what to say, to how to take things to a physical level smoothly and without rejection.

If you'd like to build a rock solid Inner Game - I'm talking about POWERFUL SELF-CONFIDENCE AND SECURITY in every situation - then you need to check out my programs that are specifically designed to help you do it...

Namely, my On Being A Man Who Naturally Attracts Women program is all about learning the skills that most of us never learned from our dads. It's about how to become the kind of MAN that women are naturally attracted to.

You hear women saying things like,"I want a real man and I don't want a boy." Well, this program will explain to you exactly what that means, and, more importantly, it will show you how to transform yourself into a man that women want.

On Being A Man is truly a one-of-a-kind program, and the guys who see it are giving me amazing feedback about it, so...

Next, I recommend that you get your hands on a copy of my Deep Inner Game program.

In this program, I invited a brilliant guy to come and co-train with me. He has developed what I think of as the ultimate synthesis of psychology models... and he's created a set of concepts and tools that anyone can use to overcome their Inner Game challenges. Check it out here.

Also, when I put my Advanced Dating Techniques program together, I really spent a lot of time organizing and arranging everything I've learned in order to make it easy to really get your Inner Game together first... then I focused on the techniques and strategies that guys who are naturally good with women use to be successful.

Towards the end of the program I spend a few hours interviewing five different guys I know who are truly unbelievable with women... and getting them to share how they meet women.

It's a complete package... and it's an education that isn't available anywhere else at ANY price.

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   I'll talk to you again soon.

 

   Your friend,

 

David DeAngelo

 

 

   
 
 
 

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Thursday, April 29, 2021

“3-day FLOW samples?” (Mailbag)

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Some of my fans have been requesting samples so they can try out our FLOW and TRIO supplements.

They want to see if they get any results before getting a bottle for themselves.

I understand you want to dip your toes into something new before diving in.

We're so used to the usual pills and potions sold in the mass market that promise instant results with outrageous benefits.

But most of those remedies are synthesized with additives and chemicals that bring more harm than good in the long term.

That's why we decided to make FLOW as natural and organic as possible by using organic watermelon, spinach, and cherries in our formulation.

As you age, your body's ability to pump blood through your cardiovascular system declines. You get plaque in your arteries. The plaque clumps up and gets stiff from calcification.

Your body can't pump as much blood through the thickening pipes. You get less oxygen to your brain, your organs (including your penis or vulva), and your fingers, toes, and nose start to tingle.

Memory loss is aggravated by a lack of blood flow to your brain.

Hormone and neurotransmitter production is limited by lack of blood flow to your brain too.

Strokes come from the plaque breaking off. Heart attacks happen from the thickening and slowing down of your blood transport system.

Supplementing with nitric oxide boosts your energy, your memory, and your circulation.

Check out a reader's email about samples and my response below.

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"Hi, Susan,

Do you have any samples of these supplements that I could try before I buy them?

The nitric oxide FLOW sounds appealing to me.

Three days' worth usually does the trick to know if it works for me.

I appreciate all you do!" — Rob (not his real name)

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Hi Rob,

Our FLOW supplement is for people in their midlife and beyond. It has 750mg of daily nitric oxide support, a safe and effective amount for the typical person to take daily.

Some young muscle-bound men take up to 6 grams of NO supplements a day to get a big pump when they work out. When you take 3-6 grams, you can feel an instant difference. However, this is too much for the average person, especially too much for anyone over 40.

You won't "feel" FLOW after taking it for three days. It's more like a daily vitamin. You may not feel it until you stop taking it. And you take it because you know you are not getting the micronutrients from food that our ancestors did.

Unless you're eating many greens in every meal three times a day, your body is not getting the nitrates it needs to convert to nitric oxide.

It's the same with testosterone and nitric oxide production; they both diminish with age. You'd be taking FLOW to top up a critical system.

Also, FLOW uses citrulline, not arginine. Studies show that people lose their ability to convert arginine into NO at about age 40. Citrulline is a better pathway for midlife and beyond.

If you are young and don't have herpes, you can take up to a gram of arginine before you work out.

If you're older, take FLOW with citrulline derived from organic watermelon and nitrates derived from organic spinach daily for cardiovascular health and healthy blood flow to your penis or vulva.

We don't have 3-day samples. It wouldn't make any sense to offer them because taking FLOW for three days doesn't give you enough time to build back your nitric oxide production stores.

What we do have is a money-back guarantee. So if you try FLOW for thirty days and are not happy, just email support@personallifemedia.com, and my Care Team will refund your purchase price minus shipping.

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"Nitric Oxide… plays a ubiquitous role in the body in controlling the function of almost every, if not every, organ system," according to researchers in the Journal of Experimental Gerontology.

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Wednesday, April 28, 2021

How To Approach Women & Start Conversations

My mailbox is once again overflowing with your questions, so let's get right to them...

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Q. Dear Dave,

You are an awesome teacher. Since using your material (the e-book and the programs) I have increased my dating life by many-folds. It has become a lot easier to be Cocky and funny; it feels like second nature at this time and a part of my personality.

I have two questions: One, where can I find old newsletters? I save all your newsletters but I accidentally erased about ten of them from my e-mail account. I really would like to re-read some of them but I cannot find them anywhere on the web.

The second question is:

What do you do in a situation where you have set up a coffee date with a woman and she blows you off by not showing up? The problem specifically is how do you react when you see this woman again. I work out in a local gym and had asked one of the personal trainers to coffee.

However, I was stood up and I see her everyday. Would you respond by ignoring her (which seems childish and behaving in the immature manner she treated me by not respecting me and my time) or by talking to her (and thereby acting like a spineless wimp)? Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Disciple in D.C.

A. Hey D.C., to answer your first question about where to find my past newsletters: Nowhere. You have to stay tuned.

As for your second question, let me answer it with a question of my own:

Whose Problem Is It When A Woman Blows You Off And "Flakes"?

Well, that all depends on your perspective. When a woman flakes out on me, I see it as a huge mistake that SHE made. So, if/when I see her again, I shake my head in disappointment and say, "Well, you sure missed out on a good time."

And then, regardless of what she says (unless her mom died or she lost a leg in a car accident), I just give her the "You're a flaky woman with no integrity" disappointed look and walk away.

Again I ask you: whose problem is it? Do you really want to go out with a woman who is flaky? I say... don't let it bother you and move on.

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Never Feel Nervous Around Women Again

 

If you're like most guys, it's probably happened to you within the last week:

You saw a woman you desperately wanted to meet... the kind that you would do anything to be with... and you did absolutely nothing.

Believe me, it used to happen to me, too -- until I broke free of my fears and anxieties about approaching women. And now you can do it too (faster than you ever imagined). Click here to find out how:

Approaching Women

 

 

 

 

Q. Dave i just have to say that your Audio Series kicks some major ass!! There is a God, and in this case it's you man! I haven't ever gotten so much out of any help program such as this one.

I absolutely love it and anyone who purchases it will never want their money back!

However, I have a question concerning gift ideas for those involved in relationships. I am desperate for gift ideas for my girlfriend that I've been dating for 7 months now. Of course, there are also other times that couples should exchange gifts: birthdays, Valentine's day, and the big one... the one year anniversary!

I desperately need help with these as well. What have u gotten your long-term girlfriends for Christmas? Their birthday? On Valentine's day? The one year anniversary?

I'm the type of guy who just HATES to spend a ton of money but I want to make everything perfect for this girl because we love each other so any ideas on gifts would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks a million and keep up the good work!

-R.

A. Know what, R? I like your question because it calls up another bigger issue... That issue is when, and if, it becomes appropriate to start doing the things that I try to get guys not to do in the beginning with women (take them out, buy them gifts, give them flowers, etc.).

As it turns out, most men that I know (and most men that I meet and talk to who order my eBook and other programs) really want to be generous.

In other words, I think that deep down....

Most Men Want To Treat Women Well... But There's A Catch

Most of us want to do nice, thoughtful things for a special woman, and have her do nice, thoughtful things in return. The problem comes when we go overboard and start using gifts and favors too much, and start communicating to the woman that we are owned by her.

If you're going to do wonderful things for a woman that you care about, make sure that you:

  • Do things that make an impact.
  • Do things that aren't predictable.

If you want to give her a nice gift that doesn't cost a lot of money then cook her a meal, then give her a massage, and finally wrap up with feeding her fruit in bed... etc.

Women want things that communicate thoughtfulness. (Not that they don't enjoy diamonds...) But if you do something that says, I was thinking about you, and I wanted you to have a great experience, it will make far more of an impact than an expensive gift that wasn't chosen with care.

But, as I mentioned, don't overdo the gifts and favors. Above all, don't ever become predictable.

If you'd like a world-class crash course on how to be the kind of man that keeps women constantly intrigued, excited, and coming back for more, I recommend that you check this out:

   On Being A Man

 

   In the meantime, I'll leave it at this: if a woman starts acting overly demanding and spoiled after you give her a gift of thoughtful experience, then you might have a high-maintenance woman on your hands, so pay attention.

 

Q. So far I've read a lot of good advice on how to handle some of the most common situations with women. But one thing still remains a mystery for me: I have the most trouble initiating a conversation and namely one that will lead to getting her number or setting up a date, etc.

If I see a woman walking down the hall of my college or maybe even at the store, how do I approach her and start a conversation without seeming like just another jerk guy who is trying to get her into bed.

I would like to meet women and have them be actually attracted to me not just have encounters. I never know what to say, I mean sure I could introduce myself but then what? And also once the conversation has started, when is a good time to ask for a number? How much conversation is a good amount or what type of level should a conversation reach so that she will feel comfortable about giving her number out?

Generally I like having friends introduce me to someone because it gives me a good starting point and we both have something in common to talk about: a mutual friend. And once it gets rolling I have no problems, even though I am not the best looking guy. As you said in your last letter even regular guys benefit from this and its true I am average at about everything but I have my share of women.

Initiating conversations with women I don't know or any of my friends know is the toughest for me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks and keep up the good work!

JS Chicago, IL

A. Good questions, JS.

First off, I noticed that you wrote: "How do I approach her and start a conversation without seeming like just another jerk guy who is trying to get her into bed..."

Listen... Do you really think that every guy who approaches women wanting to get into bed are jerks? It sounds to me like you have the concepts of jerk and wanting to get her into bed linked together in your mind.

But in my experience, a woman won't think of you as a jerk unless either:

  • She's dating you, you're abusive, and she can't figure out why she can't bring herself to break up with you.
  • You're the kind of guy that obviously has no game at all whatsoever, but you're trying to talk to her in a sexually suggestive way.

Are you with me here? Women don't automatically think of regular guys who stop them in the hall or at the bookstore as jerks. And this is especially true if you're interesting, charming, and comfortable with yourself. So the first thing you need to do is stop using your wonderful, creative imagination to limit yourself!

I know many guys that approach women all the time... in the hall, in the store, at clubs, on the Internet, and every other place on the planet... and I've heard of very, very few instances where something bad came of it.

And, in fact, the worst I've ever heard of is having a woman walk away without saying anything at all. The point is...

You'll Survive Approaching A Woman You Don't Know

In fact, I guarantee it. Plus, if you do it in an interesting, charming way there's a very good chance that a woman will give you her name and email/number. But if you don't start talking to her, then the chances are zero that you'll get her email/number.

Here, try this: next time you walk by a girl in the hall, look her right in the eye and give her a slight smile. Then say, "Hey, can I ask you a question?" When she stops and says, "Sure," say: "Are you single?"

If she asks, "Why?" say: "Well, I know someone who I think would really find you attractive. He's nice, funny, interesting... and I think you might like him." And smile in a knowing way as you say all of this, hinting that you might be talking about yourself.

Then ask, "Do you have email?" If she asks if you're talking about yourself, just look at her and say, "Maybe." Get her email and say, "I'll have him email you." Then walk away.

This is a fun way to start a conversation, and the direct "Are you single?" question really throws women off balance for a moment.

There are an unlimited number of ways to start conversations with women, and I recommend that you check out some of my programs for more great info. If you like this idea and you'd like another hundred or so more just like it, then go here:

Approaching Women

Q.David:

I just purchased your Advanced Series; I can't wait to listen to it.

I recently saw firsthand what being cocky around a woman can do. I was at a party with some people from my work, and I started talking with this one girl (Actually, she started talking to me). Anyway, she was telling me how she had to wear a different dress because the zipper got stuck on the other one.

A friend of mine who will say anything to anyone at anytime then asked her "Why, because your ass is too big?" Now, I would never think of saying such a thing, and she seemed a bit appalled at first, but guess who she proceeded to talk to the rest of the night? Oh, by the way, he also told her he liked "the dye in her hair."

I have one question for you: I met a girl at a costume party over the weekend. I made a joke about her costume, she played along with it, then when I told her I was leaving she voluntarily gave me her number.

I called her twice, but she didn't return my calls. In the meantime, I was trying to set up a date with another girl who promptly answered my calls, but let's just say she looked a lot better at the club with the lights down low.

So now I want to call the hot one, but I don't want to look stupid because I waited so long. What do you think?

Thanks, J San Diego

A. J, I have to say, it takes game to look a woman right in the eye and ask, "Why, because your ass is too big?" Not for the weak of heart! (I've done similar things, and all I can say is, you'd better make sure that it's funny.)

Now to answer your question about calling the cute girl back...

Look, in the book, "The Rules" (the one that teaches women how to play games to get a man to marry them), the authors recommend that women NOT call men, and rarely return their calls. So, don't worry about it.

Some guys don't like to call women more than once or twice, but I ask you this:

What Do You Have To Lose?

If you have to call her once a week for five weeks until you get a hold of her, what have you wasted? Five extra minutes dialing the phone?

Now, if you're feeling like a needy little puppy, and you're calling her five times a day trying to get a hold of her, that's a different story. But as long as you're getting on with your life, keeping busy, and dating other women, then keep trying until you reach her.

I'll personally keep calling a woman until either:

  • She tells me to stop calling her (which has never happened)
  • I get too busy to care anymore (which happens all the time)
  • I set up a meeting with her

But it sounds like you're really getting this stuff down, so keep at it! And, in the meantime, if you're reading and thinking to yourself Wow, It's REALLY time that I got this area of my life together... and learned how to be more successful with women and dating... then I have five words for you:

YOU'RE DAMN RIGHT IT IS.

OK, technically that might be six words.

Here's what I recommend: First, go and download a copy of my eBook Double Your Dating. It will introduce you to all of the main ideas and key techniques that I learned and developed over YEARS of working to figure this stuff out.

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Think about it this way: You can review a couple of chapters worth of main concepts in just a few minutes... before going out, before a date, etc. Very valuable. You can go and download it to your computer right now and be reading it within a few minutes. It's here:

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And one more thing: As you probably know, I have an entire program called  Cocky Comedy.

This one's famous for teaching any guy how to be funny in a way that creates massive attraction with women. It's one of the greatest techniques I've ever discovered, and it's one of the only things that literally any man can use to spark and amplify attraction with women.

PLUS, conveniently enough, the other place that Cocky Comedy comes in handy is approaching women and starting conversations.

When you understand how to use this technique, it gives you an unfair advantage over other guys in just about every type of situation... and makes starting conversations with women not only easy, but also fun.

If you'd like to get a feel for what I'm talking about, go check out the website and watch the FREE sample clips of the program. Just watching the samples on this page will give you a feel for Cocky Comedy... and a feel for the all-important timing you'll need to learn in order to master it.

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   I'll talk to you again soon.

 

   Your friend,

 

David DeAngelo

 

 

   
 
 

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