How To Not Be Seen As An "Average" Man

How To Not Be Seen As An "Average" Man

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   This week I want to talk about an obvious point
that's taken me a few years to really notice.

   The idea is simple: We humans don't want what
everyone else has... we want what everyone else
has AND MORE. In the context of women and dating,
it goes like this:

WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO GUYS THEY
PERCEIVE AS AVERAGE.

   Remember, ATTRACTION doesn't make logical
sense... Women don't say, "Oh, he's a kind,
honest, loyal type of guy from a good family...
AND THAT REALLY TURNS ME ON."

   Nope.

   Women say things like:

"He's sexy"... "There's chemistry between
us"... "I really feel something for him"... etc.

   And also remember: If a woman feels a strong
ATTRACTION for you, then the rest of the equation
isn't as important. If she feels it, she'll go out
of her way to find good reasons to be with you...
even if you're not her "physical type".

   On the other hand, no amount of gifts, favors,
dinners, kindness, or a good family will make her
feel ATTRACTION... at best these things can only
make her feel a more "loyal" kind of love.

   So, if women don't like "average" guys and the
most important thing is to make her feel
ATTRACTION towards you, then how do you do it?

   I thought you'd never ask...

   Let's talk about the word "average" and what it
REALLY means.

   As far as women are concerned, and especially
the ATTRACTIVE ones, men are EVERYWHERE. They're
like cars. Every once in awhile one stands out and
makes you say, "Oh, that one is nice."

   A lot of guys take this concept too far and say
"Well, I'm not rich, and I'm not famous... so, no
really hot woman is going to find me attractive."

   My experience and research has shown me that
women are far more ATTRACTED to things like
attitude, confidence, body language, humor, etc.
than looks or money. Sure, those things might
INITIALLY get a woman's attention, and there are
those women that will only settle for a rich or
unusually handsome guy... but, this is the extreme
minority.

   In fact, it's very easy to be seen as "above
average" if you know what women are looking for,
and you know how to deliver.

   Remember the danger: If you are perceived as
"average" early on, then a switch goes off in her
mind, and the game will be over before it's even
begun.

   So, let's do a little exercise...

   Let's figure out two things:

1) What most guys do that women see as "average",
and...

2) What you can do to instantly be seen as "ABOVE
average" and, most importantly, ATTRACTIVE.

   First, let's talk about what most guys do in
most situations (more specifically, what most guys
do WRONG). Here are some of the things that I've
seen...

   If the setting is a bar or a club, most guys
will either say, "Can I buy you a drink?", "Wanna
dance?", or "Hey baby, how YOU doin'?"... or they
do crass things like stare at women with wanting
eyes or grab them as they walk by.

   If the setting is a public place, like maybe a
woman working at a clothing store, a waitress, or
some other similar high-traffic situation, most
guys will ask a lame question like "Do you have a
boyfriend?" or "Can I take you out sometime?"

   Ugh.

   These kinds of approaches can only result in
you being seen as another lame, average guy.

   Here are a few ideas to try instead...

   If you're in a bar or club setting, try asking
a woman or a group of women THEIR OPINION on
something. I personally like this one:

   "Hey, my friends and I were talking and we need
a female perspective... What do you ladies think
about this new trend of women being proud of
paying their own way and buying their own things?"

   Women will usually ENTHUSIASTICALLY join into a
conversation like this one. (I personally like
this topic because it starts off by talking about
women taking care of themselves in a positive
light, which sets the stage for not having to pay
for a lot of things right up front!)

   A quick note: Any conversation topic can be
turned into flirting and there is a very special
ART to this. If you want to learn how to really
become a master of taking any conversation topic
and turning it into ATTRACTION, then you really
need to go and check this out right now:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication

   If you're out in a public place, at a store
where a woman is working or some other high-
traffic place, you might try something like this:

   After chatting about whatever business you're
doing there say, "Hey, are you single?"

   I love this question! It's such a shocker, and
it says all the right things. Most guys say, "Do
you have a boyfriend?" which is the usual
question. "Are you single?" is much more forward,
and most women have to do a double take to think
for a moment.

   If she pauses, I say, "I'll take that as a
YES...", which is pretty funny and usually gets a
laugh.

   In either of these cases, it's now time to get
the digits and get out. You already know that I'm
not a fan of standing around and trying to keep a
conversation going for any longer than you have
to.

   So, after two or three minutes of small talk
and general conversation, just go into the "3
Minute Phone Number" close that you've learned in
an earlier newsletter or in my book...

   Say, "It was nice talking to you, I'm going to
get back to my friends... (or shopping, or
whatever)" and as you turn away, turn back and say
"Do you have email...?" etc.

   These two scenarios are obviously very simple,
and also very easy. I've had guys say to me,
"Well, there's nothing really that different about
those approaches."

   Ah, but there is.

   The most important difference is that you're
doing something COMPLETELY different than the
other 47 guys who have approached her that day...
and you also know EXACTLY what you're going to do
and say as the conversation progresses.

   Of course, another thing you can do that will
INSTANTLY separate you from the rest of the crowd
is to use the idea of being "Cocky & Funny", which
I teach in my eBook "Double Your Dating" and in my
Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.

   This very unique approach has helped many of my
thousands of readers to dramatically increase
their success with women... and to no longer be
seen as AVERAGE by women.

   If you haven't learned how to use the almost
MAGICAL formula of being Cocky & Funny, or any of
the literally hundreds of other techniques I
teach, then you really need to get yourself a copy
of my online eBook and a copy of my Advanced
Dating Techniques program.

   These two tools will DRAMATICALLY increase your
success with women and dating.

   You can download my online eBook here right
now:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

   And you can order your copy of my Advanced
Dating Techniques CD/DVD program risk free here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

   So go out this week, and DON'T BE AVERAGE ANY
MORE.

   Talk to you soon.

      Your Friend,

      David D.

P.S. If you find yourself trying all kinds of "tricks and
techniques" with women that aren't working, there's
something else you need to know. Go here and find out
how to become the kind of man who NATURALLY
attracts women:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan

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