Eye Contact & Body Language Attract Women
>NOTE: If you want to learn how to use your
eye contact and body langauge to spark
instant attraction in any woman - BEFORE YOU
SAY EVEN A SINGLE WORD - then check this
out (and watch the free video clips too):
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage
***QUESTION***
Just wanted to share a little bit of what your
lessons have done for me. I read your book and
started concentrating on what I thought was my
weak points. I did as your book recommended and
started picturing myself as the cocky funny person
I wanted to be. I even did the whole daydream
practice thing everyday. I work at a fitness
center so I see lots of hot women all the time. My
biggest weakness is that I look away quickly after
eye contact is made. I decided that before I
started trying to approach women I would make it
my goal for a couple of weeks to just make eye
contact and hold it until they looked away. Ok,
here is the good part. After practicing eye
contact for a couple of weeks and doing the whole
mental exercise thing, I was at work one day
working out after my break and was practicing my
eye contact thing between sets with this really
hot girl near the dumbbell rack.
I knew she noticed but it never bothered me cause
I had no intentions of acting. Well, I had to go
over to get a set of dumbbells for my next
exercise and as I got close to where she was she
suddenly turned around and said "I have a
boyfriend" and turned around. Normally I would
have kinda stood there in shock and said nothing
but, I guess all that mental practice paid off.
With out even thinking or pausing the words just
came out. I said "Hey that's great I am happy for
you. (Pause - and in a lower tone) I know this is
probably a major accomplishment for you but to the
rest a the world this is kinda normal so you might
not want to go telling every stranger you see."
Then I just walked off with my weights to do my
sets. 5 min later she comes over to me and
apologizes and asks for my number. Turns out she
didn't have a boyfriend but was just tired of
being picked up by losers while she was trying to
do a workout. Thanks for the pleasant surprise!
KAL
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Niiiiice one.
Your letter is really a wonderful affirmation
and summary of some of my favorite concepts:
1) Read my book, "Double Your Dating"
2) Actually use the material and mentally rehearse
3) Start from where you are
4) Be Cocky & Funny
5) Show complete indifference
6) Use illogical Jedi-Level mind power to create
ATTRACTION.
I'm going to talk more about eye contact and
body language in a moment, but if you'd like to
get the ultimate education on how to be Cocky &
Funny, then you MUST take a minute and get this:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy
OK... onward.
First of all, your story would make NO sense at
all to most guys. They would say, "Yeah, whatever.
She was probably abused as a child and wants you
to be her daddy." or "Well, if I worked at a gym,
I could do that too."
Of course, you realize that this had nothing to
do with it... this was a result of you learning
about how women are, then preparing, and then
taking action.
I couldn't be more impressed.
Now, let's talk about some of the things that
were happening that most people would MISS when
reading the story...
You mentioned your exercise of keeping eye
contact until women look away. This is very
powerful. I am guilty of not addressing this issue
more often and I'm glad you mentioned it here.
If you can learn this skill, it will
communicate powerfully for you. Great job.
You said, "I guess all that mental practice
paid off. With out even thinking or pausing the
words just came out."
This is the result of preparation and mental
rehearsal. This wasn't "luck". Even though the
words were unique to the situation, the MESSAGE
was delivered clearly. By learning how to better
communicate in the language that women understand,
you created magic.
And, as for the words themselves...
You just gotta love saying: "Hey that's great.
I am happy for you." (Pause - and in a lower tone)
"I know this is probably a major accomplishment
for you, but to the rest of the world, this is
kinda normal. So, you might not want to go telling
every stranger you see." to a hot woman at the
gym!
You INSTANTLY took a situation that would
normally strip a man of all his composure and
personal power, and then REFRAMED her words in a
way that caused HER to look like the socially
inept one.
Then you did something equally powerful:
YOU WALKED AWAY.
In effect, you busted on her, then PROVED
BEYOND THE SHADOW OF A DOUBT THAT YOU COULD TAKE
HER OR LEAVE HER. Actions really do speak louder
than words... most guys would have messed up that
situation by standing around waiting for her to
say something. You did the right thing by walking
away.
When you combine all of these factors together,
you get a totally illogical outcome:
ATTRACTION.
She realized that you weren't just some other
loser who hoped to maybe get a date by kissing up
to her... You turned out to be one of the
EXCEPTIONAL men in the world who have more
personal power than her, and one of the even MORE
exceptional men who also know how to create
ATTRACTION.
This combination made her feel a feeling that
you can't create by DECIDING that you want it. It
can only be created by TRIGGERING IT.
Finally, I'd like to comment on the fact that
SHE asked YOU for YOUR number. You realize that
it's not typical for a woman to approach a man,
apologize, and then ask for his number.
Women will often ask a man for his number just
to get rid of him. But not in a situation like
this one. This was different. She apologized, then
told you that she's tired of being picked up by
losers... then asked for your number. This was, in
effect, her telling you that she sees you
DIFFERENTLY.
All because of your eye contact, followed by a
perfect execution of the Cocky and Funny attitude,
followed by an excellent physical demonstration of
indifference.
Again, to most men this would make no sense at
all. If you consulted most relationship books,
they would argue that this type of approach would
NEVER work. I mean, men are supposed to "court"
women, compliment them... pursue them with gifts
and favors, right?
Yeah, right.
The problem is that the mainstream relationship
books forgot to TITLE the chapter that suggests
this kind of behavior:
"HOW TO BE THE WUSS WOMEN RUN FROM"
...or...
"HOW TO CONVINCE THE WOMAN YOU DESIRE THAT YOU
HAVE NO BACKBONE AND WOULD PAY ANY PRICE FOR HER
ATTENTION"
...or...
"SIMPLE TECHNIQUES FOR GIVING A WOMAN YOUR
REPRODUCTIVE EQUIPMENT ON A PLATTER".
The question I have for you is...
CAN YOU PUT ASIDE YOUR PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS
ABOUT WHY MEN AND WOMEN "SHOULD" BE ATTRACTED TO
EACH OTHER LONG ENOUGH TO SEE WHY THEY ACTUALLY
ARE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER?
And, can you do what it takes to get yourself
from where you are, to where you actually need to
be, in order to attract the kinds of women that
you would like to meet and date?
It can be done, but you're going to have to do
it.
As I mentioned above, the first step is to read
my online eBook, "Double Your Dating". That's the
best head start I can give you. Just go to:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook
You'll be reading it within just a few minutes.
And get yourself a copy of my fantastic program
"Body Language For Success With Women And Dating".
You will learn the "animal magnetism" secrets
that guys who are "naturals" with women use to
attract women using COMMUNICATION ALONE.
No looks, money, or gifts required.
Go watch all the great preview video clips
right now... right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage
And I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Don't forget to check out all of the programs
I've created to help you learn how to attract and
meet women. My programs cover ALL aspects... from
"Inner Game" stuff like how to overcome fear and a
limiting self-image, to specific techniques like
how to approach women, how to meet women online,
and how to make sure that your conversation
creates ATTRACTION. You can check them all out
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
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