In the meantime, the point I'm making is that when you do things like asking her if she wants you to call her or if she wants to call you... and apologizing for making out with her, you are making the same basic mistake.
Why would you apologize for making out with a woman? I mean, think about it. You're not REALLY sorry... otherwise you would not have done it in the first place. Duh. You were actually LYING when you said you were sorry. You were only sorry that she didn't want to continue, man.
When you said, "I'm sorry," what she HEARD was "Uh oh, I just screwed up. I'd better say something quick to fix this. I will put aside my own wants and desires, and say whatever you want to hear in hopes that you'll like me and give me attention and approval."
There's No Faster Way To Instantly KILL ATTRACTION
The reality of this situation is that when you apologize, you create a power shift. The power shifts from YOU to HER.
I guarantee that in the few seconds after you said "I'm sorry," you felt a sinking feeling in your stomach and knew something was wrong. But I also guarantee that she felt a little surge of power at that very moment.
At the same moment you were realizing that you just did something wrong, she was realizing that she owned you. Unfortunately, she probably also felt a little bit of disappointment in you, because you were apologizing for something just to get her approval... and women don't want to own men.
Heavy man, heavy.
And the same thing happened in the moment that you asked her if she wanted you to call her or if she wanted to call you (but probably to a lesser degree).
That's one of those little moments where you basically said "Here, take the power. Tell me what you want me to do, and I'll do it. You get to make the decisions. Please tell me that you want me to call you, because that will affirm that you like me."
Keep this up, and you'll probably wind up a boyfriend who she eventually cheats on... or, even worse, a boyfriend who she eventually marries and then divorces because you turned into a boring Wussy husband from hell.
So here's my general advice to everyone reading this:
Stop Your Attraction-Killing "Wussy Behavior" IMMEDIATELY
In other words, stop doing things that let a woman know that she totally owns you.
If she says something that indicates that she's not happy with you or your behavior, pause. Don't respond. Stay still. Keep the mouth shut and the brain operating.
If you have to, run everything through your mental "Wussy Analyzer." Decide if the response you're going to give her is to get her approval, and if it is, STOP. Don't do things that hand over the power in the relationship. Don't let the things a woman says shake you emotionally.
Finally, K., I want to address your mistake of making out with her somewhere other than in your house or her house...
Theory #2: "Women Want Men Who Know How To Make A Move"
One of the best things I've learned is that if you lean back when you're out on a date with a girl, and don't try to "make your move" early on, you'll do much better later. So by rushing the make out portion of the evening to a place that couldn't lead to other opportunities...
You actually LIMITED the fun you could have together.
Now, you mentioned that you're reading my eBook right now... and it sounds like you're actually doing pretty well. If you've gotten five women's numbers in four days, I think you're going to live.
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Most Guys Screw This Part Up... Even Though It's SO EASY To Do!
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Your friend,
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