Know what?
Sometimes I look back at my life and still can't believe it...
I can't believe I wasted so much time NOT getting women...all because my FEAR of just walking up to one and SAYING something!
Tell me if you know what this feels like:
I basically went day after day, seeing great women everywhere...
...at work...at the market...at the gym and the park...
...some of them so beautiful, friendly and AVAILABLE...
...yet there I was -- totally HELPLESS to do anything that might give me a chance to be with them!
Basically, just the thought of approaching one of these women gave me the cold sweats. It would have been easier to perform a root canal on myself than to just walk up and SAY SOMETHING.
So, logically enough, I did NOTHING.
Well, not quite nothing...
I actually went home alone and fantasized about what it would be like to be with these great women.
I know. Not a pretty picture.
Even worse, each time this happened, it made me feel even MORE HELPLESS (and HOPELESS) about myself and my future with women...
...if I couldn't even TALK to one, how was I ever going to get one!
This, my friend, was a HORRIBLE feeling.
That's why, if YOU'RE feeling this way right now, I want to do something about it IMMEDIATELY.
I totally understand that being unable to START CONVERSATIONS with women is the #1 ROADBLOCK guys face when it comes to getting dates...so I want to get this handled for you RIGHT NOW.
To do it, I'm going to share 3 of my all-time favorite ice-breakers -- word-for-word opening lines that CHANGED EVERYTHING for me.
Simply by helping me kick-start conversations with beautiful woman, they helped me like I never thought possible...
Looking back, I can see that they actually helped me kick-start my entire life!
Which leads me to something else I want to share today...
I'm not getting into the psychic business or anything, but today I ALSO have a SHOCKING PREDICTION for you.
It's a prediction that'll blow your mind... simply because you'll immediately know it's 100% TRUE...
... and it's GOING TO HAPPEN TO YOU, almost GUARANTEED!
In fact, it's going to happen to about 99 out of 100 unlucky guys reading this newsletter right now...so strap in and read on to see if this earth-shaking prediction applies to YOU, too.
But right now, first thing's first...
When it comes to succeeding with women, you CAN'T WIN if you can't even GET IN THE GAME.
So without further delay, here they come...3 of my favorite ice breakers...
ICE-BREAKER #1:
Let's say that you find yourself in a place where there are women you'd like to approach... but that there are lots of OTHER GUYS around as well.
Of course, this usually is the case...so you need to learn how to make this common situation work for YOUR ADVANTAGE.
Let's imagine you're at a bar...or a grocery store...or the dog park...or wherever.
The first thing I want you to do is find ANOTHER GUY...one who looks a certain way...
I am NOT talking about picking out a poor homeless fellow who's wearing rags, here.
I'm talking about spotting one of those totally clueless DORKS...one who wears beach sandals to the store...or Jersey-Shore muscle shirts on the dance floor...or needle-thin ties (straight out of 1982) at the bar.
Don't worry -- no matter where you are, there will be no shortage of these clueless fashion train-wrecks to pick from.
Once you spot that guy, here's what I want you to do:
Walk up to a woman while you LOOK AT THAT GUY.
We clear on this?
I want you to make NO EYE CONTACT AT ALL with the woman you're approaching. Then, as you look at the guy, say to the woman:
Wow! Check out that guy over there. What's up with those flip-flops? (Or shirt, or tie, or whatever he has going on).
Once you do this, here's what's going to happen next:
First, the woman will look at YOU in surprise.
But guess what: you still WON'T look at her.
You'll still be looking at the guy...shaking your head a little...almost like you can't believe what you're seeing.
At this point the woman will say something like, Excuse me? What did you say--
...but YOU'LL STILL be looking at the other guy.
So here's what she'll do next:
She'll follow your gaze to him.
Now, if you're totally spot-on in picking out a genuinely cluelessly dork, here's what the woman will do next:
She'll LAUGH.
But why?
And the bigger question: Why is this important to your success approaching women?
It comes down to a simple, fail-proof math equation:
MAKING A WOMAN LAUGH = BREAKING THE ICE.
What I'm saying is, it's basically SCIENTIFIC: Making a woman laugh releases certain chemicals in her brain...
...which then create certain feelings in her...
...which then lead to irresistible OPENNESS TO BEING APPROACHED.
Got that?
It's why I just can't say it enough:
Any time that you can make a woman laugh, DO IT.
It INSTANTLY paves the way to SUCCESS with her. More on the details of how (and why) it works right here.
But for now, all that YOU need to understand is this:
Approaching a woman this way comes with a couple MAJOR benefits:
1) It immediately proves you're not a WUSS. And like I always say...being a WUSS is the fastest way to FAIL with women.
2) When you show (in a humorous way) that you recognize another guy's cluelessness, it instantly pre-qualifies you to a woman. It tells her that YOU are NOT clueless, and that you're worth spending time to get to know.
These are both HUGE in determining how a woman will react to you when you approach.
But FAIR WARNING:
Before you try this one, make sure that YOU do have a clue when it comes to how you dress and your personal hygiene.
Otherwise, the women will just look at you and laugh AT you.
So shower. Use deodorant. Make sure you're wearing neat, clean clothes with subdued style and colors (always a safe bet).
Geez, do I really have to tell you all this? Nuff said.
Let's get on to our next ice-breaker...and then that SHOCKING PREDICTION of mine...
ICE-BREAKER #2:
Let's say you're in a crowded bar or club, and you see an attractive woman across the room.
This time before you approach, I want you spot some other guy who's actually hitting on another woman (and, by the way, probably BLOWING IT).
Walk up to the woman you'd like to meet and point this situation out to her.
Just that simple.
Say to her: Wow. Look what's happening over there...
Again, this one comes down to human nature... women can't get enough of watching guys trying to be smooth and make their move with other women.
Don't believe it?
Just check out the latest ratings for THE BACHELOR.
I rest my case.
So...find a guy who's in the process of hitting on a girl, and you're set. Point it out, then share one of my favorite observations:
Know why they call it ‘hitting' on a woman? Because it's usually so PAINFUL for her. Right? This will pull a woman into the conversation with you for 2 reasons:
1) Like I said...women are naturally intrigued by the moment of connection -- especially when the scene is playing out live and in-person in front of them.
2) If a woman's intelligent, she'll immediately LAUGH at the Cocky & Funny nature of your pointing this out to her...She'll realize the irony (and confidence) of your commenting on something that you're actually doing yourself at the same moment...approaching women!
More specifics on how to then follow through and close the deal right here.
But for now, on to our final conversation-starter of the day.
(Damn these are good...I should write a book or something...)
Here comes the most simple and effective ice-breaker of them all...
ICE-BREAKER #3:
Walk up to a woman and simply say:
Did you hear what happened today? Say this to ANY woman, and it's GUARANTEED you'll have her FULL ATTENTION.
Why?
Again, proven science is behind this one...the fact that ALL human beings are hard-wired for news and gossip. Simple as that.
So, what I'm suggesting here is that you do a little homework before you go out.
Check the newspaper -- or even better, a news website (more on why that is in a moment) and memorize the WEIRDEST, FUNNIEST STORY you can find.
Then you're set.
When you go out later, approach a woman and ask her if she's heard what happened today.
Then tell her the weird/funny story, and the benefits will be three-fold:
1) If the story's odd or funny, it'll MAKE HER LAUGH. (Can you tell how critical this is yet?)
2) You'll show her you're a man who's up on things, and that's a GREAT way to CREATE ATTRACTION in women who value INTELLIGENCE.
(IMPORTANT SIDE NOTE: whereas men often see BEAUTIFUL WOMEN as trophies, women often feel the same way about INTELLIGENT MEN.)
3) If you have a link to the story, you can offer to email it to her. And then guess what -- YOU'VE GOT HER EMAIL. Nice!
So there you have it...3 guaranteed ice-breakers for starting conversations with women, any time, any place.
So...
What are you waiting for?
I mean, you understand that you'll NEVER WIN if you can't even GET IN THE GAME, right?
Of course you do.
Which takes us to my...
***** SHOCKING PREDICTION *****
It's simply this:
Even with these success-proven ice-breakers locked and loaded, I bet that YOU still won't go out tonight and try approaching women!
Am I right?
And it's all because (if you're like I used to be) you still FEAR RESISTANCE, or worse... flat-out REJECTION.
It's because, even with these ice-breakers in hand, you feel like you still have no clue what to SAY and DO if a woman doesn't react positively to your approach.
Right?
So, as a quick Bonus Tip, I also want to share an easy example of how to handle resistance as well...
Let's say you try one of these ice-breakers, and the woman tells you, You're a funny guy, but you don't have a chance with me.
Here's how to handle it:
Immediately turn to a buddy you're with and tell him: Okay, dude. You lost the bet. Pay up.
Believe me...just uttering those words will SNAP a woman's attention to you.
Continue to tell your friend: I told you she would totally blow it...that she was one of 'those' women. I could tell.
Now you'll have her hook, line and sinker.
Why?
Because you've just set off about dozen ALARMS in her.
She's now thinking to herself, Wait a minute... what kind of bet was this about me?...What did I 'blow'?...What am I ‘missing out' on?
And most intriguing of all to her...What kind of woman does he think I am?
At this point, she'll either try to prove you wrong about her (by doing all the things that a successful approach would have caused her to do in the first place!) or she won't do anything at all.
If she does try to prove you wrong, EXCELLENT. You're back on track.
If she doesn't, no big deal, just move on. There are plenty of women out there... and you've got your ice-breakers locked and loaded!
Either way, here's the bottom line:
Your ONLY goal right now is to start making a woman feel interest in you the moment you open your mouth...so GET TO IT (and prove my shocking prediction wrong!)
That in mind, I also want to leave you with this...
If these Ice Breakers make sense to you...if you get how and why they work...then I CANNOT SAY THIS STRONGLY ENOUGH:
You are the kind of man who stands to BENEFIT THE MOST FROM THEM!
It's because you already get it...You have the critical instinct (that most men lack) about what it REALLY takes to become successful with women... if you'd only START TRYING!!!
Of course, maybe you feel like you still need a bit more help and inspiration to make it happen.
Totally understandable.
If so, here's what I suggest:
If you see the science and logic behind the ice-breaking tools I shared today, I recommend you grab my complete Approaching Women program.
This is my home course where I deliver EVERY SUCCESS-PROVEN TOOL AND TECHNIQUE that the masters use to successfully approach women, including:
--How to INSTANTLY stand out from EVERY OTHER GUY (so that approaching women becomes FUN and EASY instead of scary and painful.)
--Exactly what to say and do to succeed on almost EVERY approach (including DOZENS AND DOZENS of POWERFUL word-for-word lines, tools, and techniques)
--How to eliminate the DREAD and FEAR of approaching women that's crippled your success and self-esteem for so long (and how to CHANGE YOUR WHOLE LIFE FOREVER by starting to SUCCEED!)
Plus a whole lot more, all of which makes me want to say it again:
As a prime candidate for success using Approaching Women, I want you to have a look at this program ASAP.
It's available for INSTANT VIEWING through online streaming... so you can go start watching it right now.
Just take it for a test drive entirely at MY risk -- if it doesn't work for you (but it WILL!) just let me know, and you'll get a full refund, no questions asked.
Learn more by clicking here.
In the meantime, I'll be busy putting together another newsletter packed with more powerful tips (and maybe a few more SHOCKING PREDICTIONS!) so look for it soon.
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
PS: Did you know it's actually better to NOT be the life of the party when it comes to approaching women?
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