Learn To Understand Flirting, And You Can Make ANY Woman Begin To Feel ATTRACTION For You
Understand how flirting and sexual tension work, and you'll never have to become famous or make a lot of money to be successful with women. And to do it, here's the first thing you need to know:
Remember when you were a kid and you used to play fight with your friends? The difference between "play" wrestling and "real" wrestling? How did you know the difference when it was happening... when your friend ran up and pushed you down, then jumped on you and tried to pin you?
The Answer Is... You Just Knew
You see, it's obvious to humans (and other animals, by the way) when someone is playing and when they're serious.
Flirting is similar.
If you start talking to a woman and say, "Hi, you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're NOT flirting. On the other hand, if you say, "Hi, I realize that you're probably shy because you get no attention from men... so I thought I'd come over here and pay attention to you..." it's obvious that you're not being serious.
This is flirting.
By the way, flirting is *not* simply telling jokes, or trying to be cute...
One of the programs that I teach is called Cocky & Funny. It's simply a powerful, concentrated way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humor.
It's so funny to me how some guys write in because they can't see themselves being Cocky & Funny around women because they don't want to come across as jerks. This really cracks me up... because it's obvious to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.
When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky & Funny way, which is really a form of adult verbal play, you tune in to a certain frequency in a woman's mind and cause her to go into a very special kind of emotional state... one that's almost always GUARANTEED to lead to ATTRACTION.
You can learn everything you need to know about using Cocky & Funny in the right way, right here.
In the meantime, let me explain this whole thing a different way...
Learn To Flirt CORRECTLY And Women Will Respond INSTANTLY
One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it." In other words, you have to actually get out there and practice so you get a feel for how this kind of communication works.
I think a lot of guys give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "You're a loser." Instead of just realizing that they need more practice or that the woman might have just been in a bad mood or even one of those horrible "I don't have a sense of humor" cases, they take it personally and decide to just have it mean that they're a failure.
But take my word for it... once you learn how to flirt effectively and communicate in the language of adult play you will simply not believe how women will respond to you.
If you want to see some video clips of me personally teaching Cocky & Funny then go here:
Otherwise, here's one example of some of one of my favorite topics to riff on when flirting...
It's the topic of getting married and us being in a relationship... and I'll give it to you in the form of a sample dialogue. Keep in mind, I might have a conversation like this one with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier...
Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money."
Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get married? We could leave for Vegas right now and be married in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with money."
Her: "OK, that sounds like a plan."
Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you can support the both of us on your income? I really want to be a stay at home husband... you know, keep an eye on the TV and such."
Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."
Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's over between us. I was going to marry you, then divorce you a week later and take half your money."
Her: "You can't break up with me! I'm not even your girlfriend."
Me: "That's all the more reason."
Do You Get What's Going On Here?
I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job and income) and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a fun mood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage, divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting me, etc.).
If the above example doesn't make any sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to get out and practice more.
Try it on a waitress or two. When you ask for something and she says, "I'm sorry, we don't have that", just say, "Ok, this relationship isn't working out... I'm going to have to break up with you."
In fact, you can say this in just about any situation with any woman where she's saying something that you don't like, and it's funny. When you communicate like this, you're flirting. You're TEASING, and you're initiating a different kind of communication than what most men initiate. And as soon as the woman you're talking to engages you in this kind of dialogue, the game is ON.
By the way...
There are a lot of ways you can flirt, and a lot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that don't require words.
If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same... only exaggerate it. If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down at it, then look up at her in a surprised way, then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a major ah-ha realization... then start smiling and nodding your head as if you just realized that she wants you.
This is a powerful combination because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning in her touching you.
There are a million ways to flirt like this, but the point that I'm trying to make is that you need to start doing it right from the beginning of your interactions with women. It will set off all of your conversations with women on the right foot, and start a dialogue that creates sexual tension and ATTRACTION.
If you DON'T learn how to communicate with women like this you'll have boring, "normal" conversations that never lead to sexual tension and attraction.
Remember, women can tell instantly whether you're flirting with them or not. If you are, and you're doing it in a subtle, charming way, you'll get amazing responses.
One of the keys to flirting and creating attraction effectively, is projecting confidence and indifference both in your voice tone and body language as you do it... And in order to project these things, you need to have the right understanding and beliefs about how male/female attraction works... and then be able to project them throughout your conversation with women.
(NOTE: If you don't naturally "get" the concept of flirting with women, and you'd like to learn how to use it to spark attraction and eventually take things to a physical level, then I highly recommend that you get your hands on a copy of my Sexual Communication program. You can learn more about it here.)
Basically, here's what I'm saying:
As I Learned From Guys Who Were Good With Women, I Noticed They Did Something Most Men CAN'T SEE
I discovered what I think of as a "secret language" that men and women use to communicate on a physical level...
Well, after discovering that this was going on right in front of me all my life... and then learning how to use it to attract women... I realized that I HAD to teach this to other guys.
And that's really what my Sexual Communication program is all about: teaching YOU to speak this language.
After going through my Sexual Communication program, I guarantee that you'll look at all your interactions with women very differently... and you'll create a LOT more attraction with women using only your voice tone, inflection, and body language.
Oh... and you'll ALSO know how to flirt like an EXPERT.
Not too shabby, huh?
Okay then. You can check out all the specifics of my Sexual Communication here:
Oh... and if you haven't gone and downloaded my online eBook Double Your Dating, then you really need to get in gear and do that right now to get a handle on "the basics." You can be reading it in just a few minutes from now. Go get it here:
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
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