Here's one that I get all the time:
"Dave... what's the right way to flirt so that I don't come across as obnoxious or a total dork to a woman... and instead get her attention and make her actually want to go out with me?
This is a great question... and a very common one.
No doubt it's because flirting is something that most guys think they "get"... yet something that comes very easily to only a few guys... but not so easily to most.
And that's why I'm dedicating today's newsletter to explaining easy ways to do it.
And then, as a special added bonus... I'm going to share the BIG ONE with you...
The #1 most POWERFUL pick-up line on the planet...
The one that you can start using tonight to get better results (using far fewer words) than anything else you can possibly say or do with a woman...
But that's coming up. So stay tuned.
But first, let's get to it... Here comes:
5 EASY WAYS TO FLIRT WITH A WOMAN
I'll start by saying this:
Most often, flirting is about doing just one thing:
Getting a woman's attention, but in an unusual way.
And the best way to do it - bar none - is using a bit of humor that immediately makes a woman start to think to herself, "Hey, I can't tell if this guy's serious or not... but I definitely want to find out."
Keep doing it right, and she'll start thinking:
"He’s obviously pretty confident and possibly interested in me at some level... so I think I'll hang around to find out more."
And then you're in... you've flirted "successfully."
Now stay with me...
No matter what you think you may already know about flirting, doing it successfully always comes down to behaving in one of 5 ways toward a woman... let's run through them:
1. Teasing
This is the one that most guys think of right off the bat when they think about flirting.
It's basically pulling a girl's pigtails on the playground...
It's "busting on her in ways" that gently poke fun but that don't hurt her feelings.
Pretty basic, right?
So let's jump right into some examples of how to tease:
Let's say a woman acts a bit bratty in any way toward you. You jump in and say, "Oh, poor baby is throwing a tantrum... You've probably been doing the same thing since you were 2, and you didn't get your way then, either."
Or maybe she complains about being teased. You'd say something like: "Well then leave and find some other boring-ass guy, because I do this a lot."
Another simple tease is to make sure you keep a woman hanging onto your words by never giving her a direct answer.
For example, if she says, "How do you like my dress?" You might say, "Well, I dunno... give me a few minutes to look at it on you and I'll get back to you."
Or, when she inevitably asks, "What do you do for a living," say, "Something pretty important, but a woman like you wouldn't be interested... "
Finally, never let her have what she wants.
If she says, "Kiss me." say, "No." If she says, "Come over to my house." say, "I'm busy right now, I'll come over later."
If she says, "I want you so bad, please make love to me." say, "Well, I think that you need to wait a little longer. And besides, I'm not finished kissing you."
But you get the picture...
Bottom line with teasing is to:
A) Get her attention
B) Quickly show her that you're not like every other lame, boring guy she meets all day long
C) Show off the kind of confidence that starts triggering the first feelings ATTRACTION
Okay, onto:
2. Sarcasm
This one's pretty self-explanatory...
Sarcasm is mocking or making a much bigger deal out of something than it actually is.
And, trust me on this one... it works great to get a woman's attention.
If she's wearing a sexy outfit, simply say something like, "Thanks for wearing that. No way any other guy takes a second look at you tonight..."
Or, if she's changed her hair or some other aspect of her look, say, "I don't care how hard you try to get my attention, there's no way you're bringing me home."
You get the picture.
3. Acting too serious
This one's a close-cousin of sarcasm.
It's all about acting like whatever is going on around you is far more serious than it really is, and reacting accordingly in a way that brings attention to the fact that you could care less.
Quick example:
If you walk in to see a scary movie and the place is empty, say something like: "I just know I'm going to have to act all strong and protective of you, but please don't think I mean anything by it. I'd do the same for my sister."
Next:
4. Invading personal space
I love this one.
It's not just effective, but (when done right) can be a lot of fun.
For instance, if you're stuck in line somewhere, accidentally press back up against her (not too much... you don't want to on top of her like some kind of creep).
Then apologize and tell her the guy in front of you smells like your grandpa's Old Spice.
Or, if you're at the coffee shop, reach a bit too closely across her to grab a stir or some sugar. Brush lightly, but not too hard.
Remember, this isn't about making her uncomfortable in any way...
What it IS about is letting a woman know (again, most often in a humorous way) that you're not uptight about physical contact. That you like to have fun. Above all, that you have the confidence to flirt!
Lastly...
5. Sexual innuendo
Again, this way to flirt sounds pretty obvious, right?
It's basically taking a conversation to an unintended level of "raciness" just slightly earlier than a woman expects.
Now you have to be careful - do it too soon and a woman is very likely to think, "Ewww, creep... " and shut down on you for good.
But when the moment's right (especially if a woman says something "racy" first) feel free to jump right in - sexual innuendo is the BEST way I know of to communicate to a woman that you're not interested in being her friend, her brother, or the confidante she talks to OTHER guys about!
Sound good?
Awesome.
Then get out there and start trying some of these.
I think you'll be pretty amazed at the responses you get... probably beyond anything you imagine.
And now... (drum roll...)as promised, here it comes:
My Bonus Quick-Tip of the day...
THE MOST POWERFUL PICK-UP LINE EVER
I get dozens of emails asking, "What's a good pick up line?" And typically, guys want the quick fix, the words, the magic bullet.
But here's the thing:
The whole the issue here isn't that the greatest "pick-up" line is NOT about words!
The whole key to starting ANY conversation with a woman is your body language, facial expression, and voice tone...
No magic pickup line is going to work if you're shaking so badly that you need to sit down!
Now, I'm not changing the subject here... I'm still about to reveal the greatest, most powerful opening line there is...
But, right now, I want all of you to STOP focusing on creating an approach that's all about making a woman think that you're NOT coming on to her!
Listen... if you're at a party or in a bar, and you walk over and start talking to a woman, she's going to know what you're doing.
SHOCKER: even if you're not interested in her, she's going to think you are!
There's nothing you can do to change that fact.
So what's the answer?
Focus on starting a conversation with one nice, pleasantly delivered word...
Wait for it...
That word is:
"Hi."
You heard me.
The greatest pick-up line there is simply a pleasant, confidently delivered "hello."
What's REALLY important is that you use your body language, voice tone, and humor to make a woman start wondering IMMEDIATELY if you might be good dating material...
... also known as a CONFIDENT, IN-CONTROL REAL MAN.
You see, you can have the best lines in the world... but if you come across as a weak, scared person, NOTHING will work for you.
On the other hand, if you have confident, calm body language, then almost ANYTHING works.
So start practicing in front of a mirror... just say, "Hi... you look like someone I want to meet."
If you say it with the right body language and voice tone, and you talk to several women, you'll get some positive responses.
Trust me.
And then you can think about putting things in gear by doing some flirting, using everything we talked about above.
In other words...
GO INTO "COCKY AND FUNNY" MODE AND START TEASING HER LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW.
You feeling me?
Okay then, that's about it for today...
Be sure to keep watching your inbox...
I've got more useful, start-using-them-right- away "quick tips" queued up and coming your way soon.
Until next time...
Your friend,
P.S. I have to be frank...
In the end, there’s really only one thing that EVERY "master" of dating success agrees on...
It’s that any man who feels NERVOUS and INSECURE about approaching women is guaranteed to "blow it" once he does.
Or worse: he'll NEVER TRY AT ALL.
But here’s the good news: ANY man can leave behind all that nervousness, fear, and insecurity FOR GOOD, faster than he ever imagined possible.
Learn how to do it (fast and 100% guaranteed) right here.
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