Monday, March 7, 2016

How To Escape The "Friend-Zone"

I'll bet this sounds familiar to you...

There's a woman you think is incredibly attractive, you think about her all the time... but she's told you, "I don't think about you like that!  Why can't we just be friends?"

You probably already know that the dreaded "friend-zone" is place that is very, very difficult to escape from.  

Once a woman you're interested in puts you into the "just friends" category, she is very unlikely to change her mind and start thinking of you as "sex-worthy".

But here's something you might not know (and it's not great news):

It never ends.

Even men in relationships can get "friend-zoned" by their wife or girlfriend.

And in many ways, if you are in a long term relationship it can be EVEN HARDER to get out of the friend-zone because, chances are, your woman thinks she already knows everything there is know about you.  If she's lost interest in the sex, it's going to be hard to convince her otherwise.

Likewise if you've got a long-time friend you're interested in kindling something with, your odds of changing her mind and her suddenly wanting to jump your bones...

Well, let's just say you might want to take up a different hobby.

If you've been reading my newsletters then you know:

Attraction isn't a choice. Women don't CHOOSE to friend-zone you.  

It's automatic, sub-conscious, and a response to psychological, social, and biological cues that she has zero control over.

Don't you think that if she COULD, she certainly WOULD choose to be attracted to a good guy like YOU who obviously cares about her??

When a woman you are interested in friend-zones you, one of the problems is that she usually already knows that YOU would like to be more than just friends, and she's already subconsciously creating defenses, excuses, and rationalizations for why she doesn't want anything more with you before you ever even bring it up.

But because the real reasons for her taking you out of the sex-worthy category are completely subliminal and unconscious for her in the first place, her rationalizations are just that: rationalizations.

Attraction is NOT rational.  It's animal.

Now you may have gotten some advice around using jealousy and feigned disinterest to escape the friend-zone, and yes, those sort of manipulative tactics CAN work...

The problem with those sorts of clever tactics is ...

1) They are a lot easier said than accomplished!  

You can't always get that best friend laughing at your jokes and putting her hands all over you in public just because you whip out some PUA openers.  

And faking disinterest can often come across as exactly that: Faking... Particularly if she already knows that you have a crush on her.  And again, the better she knows you, the more accurately she'll be able to tell that you're faking it.

2) It doesn't always work by a long shot.  In my observation, the track record is pretty low.  Especially if the woman you're interested in has healthy self-esteem or is highly confident in herself (Which is the kind of woman you deserve, by the way).

3) It's manipulative and completely dishonest and might leave you feeling like a creep.  Especially if you happen to be in relationship with this woman that you're trying to manipulate.

And THAT is why I'm very pleased to tell you about a more reliable, honest, and authentic way to get out of the friend zone that works a lot better >>

CLICK HERE

Why is the friend zone so hard for most men to escape?

Because they put their effort in ALL THE WRONG DIRECTIONS:  They try to do something to CHANGE HER MIND about being attracted to you.

But since attraction isn't a choice, you can't convince her to change her mind about it. (And I'll just keep saying that over and over again until guys finally GET IT).

But most guys continue to invest tons of time and work into these schemes, because what actually works is confronting, threatening, and even scary.

What works takes balls.  What works is making new choices for your SELF.

Men will get angry and rationalize: "Well if she doesn't like me the way that I am, then screw her!"

But that's a bunch of self-deceptive BS.

Because the the most powerful way to get a woman to see you as "sex-worthy," desirable, and sexually arousing, is to get over that crap and be more authentic about who you really are as a man.

It sounds counter-intuitive, I know, but if you do this right, it works.  And it works fast.

Curious?

Here is the step-by-step blueprint for becoming the man that your woman wants >>

The Blueprint

Even if the woman in question thinks of you as just a friend...

Even if she's known you for years and firmly made up her mind...

Even if she says she has a "low sex drive," and just isn't that interested...

If you follow these simple steps she will begin to notice that she feels much sexier and feminine whenever you're around...

And pretty soon she'll be having naughty thoughts about you.

And then she'll start to secretly hope that you make a move on her...

It's been working for hundreds of other men, I think you're going to really dig it, and, by the way, it's 100% guaranteed to work for you.

Find out for yourself by clicking here >>

Your Friend,

David D.


P.S., You probably already know that Alex Allman is an old friend of mine, and he's consistently one of the most popular speakers at my events.  It was ME that told him to write his book because I thought his ideas around attraction were so ground breaking...

And I'm very proud of him for creating this new program that's going to help a LOT of men.

Check it out here >>
 
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