| This email is for women only... if you are a man, please click here so we won't send you email for women. ⇐ Men Click Here I just received an email from Florence, who has severe pain from intercourse. Check out her email and my response below. 
No Sexual Advice Please ⇐ Click here and you will only get Relationship Advice BLOOM AT HOME "Hi, Susan. I married when I was 27. I'm now 53. My husband and I have had relationship problems like many others. We have had intimacy problems big time. About ten years ago, I had laparoscopy surgery for painful periods supposedly caused by endometriosis. This was the 2nd laparoscopy surgery I had for this problem. Anyway, after I healed up, the first time we had sex hurt so bad I had to stop. I thought it was because of the surgery. But I was healed, so it didn't make sense. So I went to my GYN, and she said I needed dilators daily because my muscles were tight. I had two young adopted kids, so I didn't follow her instructions. Looking back, I don't think we had had sex for a very long time. My husband is a sweetheart, but we were not paying attention to each other. He started turning more and more to porn—eventually, even cyber sex. I knew about it but stuck my head in the sand. It isn't straightforward. I came close to ending things with us. But we decided to stay together. We both want to make it work. Sometimes I'm doing all the work. I've completely changed. I have lost 45 pounds. I still want to lose 30 more. I'm still self-conscious. I don't let him see me naked, standing up in front of him. I want to wear lingerie for him, but I want to lose more weight first. I'm eating better than ever. I know he wants to please me, but he doesn't know how. We will start working on your Relationship Magic. Reading your material, I realize that my pain is probably mostly from vaginal atrophy. Funny, no doctors have ever mentioned this. The first time we had sex three months ago, I cannot explain the pain. I can't believe it would hurt so bad. I'm trying to take lots of omegas and oils. I plan to try the Vfit you recommend. Before I saw your emails on the Vfit, I bought myself a magnetic dilator. I've been using this daily for about six weeks. We can have sex now, but I still have quite a bit of deep pain though it's getting better. I don't know if the dilator is working because we had worked up to having sex before I started using it. But I think the pain has decreased since the first occurrence three months ago. The original reason for this email is that I saw your YoutTube video on "Intercourse pain after childbirth." Though I have not had children naturally, I wonder if I may have scarring from the endometriosis causing deep pain. In this video, you talked about the man doing a massage on her scarring. I know about cesarean scars, but can you do that on the inside too? Will that massage work no matter the cause of the scarring? Thanks for all your knowledge and research." — Florence (not her real name) ========================= Hi Florence, I love that you've started on Relationship Magic. That's precisely the first step in the right direction for your situation. First, let go of worrying about your body. It will always look flawed. Take your pleasure. If a negative thought invades your mind, change the radio station to KLUV. The insecurity will go away. Start masturbating. I recommend the LadyBi. It's small but will stimulate your internal and external clitoral structure. Try a 30-day challenge. See if you can have at least one orgasm or as many as you want every day possible. Use BeeFriendly or Hobe oil for lube. It's very safe. Click Here For The Full Article ⇐ Read My Response And Suggestions To Florence's Email Sending love,
Suz  Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions," is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills, such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com.
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