Hey Man,
What if you could SAY and DO a few simple things to automatically, helplessly, irresistibly bring out the "SEXUAL ANIMAL" in ANY WOMAN YOU WANTED?
Well, get this:
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***QUESTION FROM A READER***
Hey Dave!
I am an avid reader of your newsletters and
mailbags...this stuff literally blew me away. I
also have your e-book.
I had never seen or read any other "dating expert"
use the word "attraction"...period! They never mention it in anything they write yet it is the
MOST IMPORTANT thing that determines your success
with women.
Out of literally dozens of articles and e-books
from so-called "dating pros", the word "attraction" just doesn't ever come up!
I even read in one e-book that to attract women you need to get a golden tan. I was like: "What the hell? That's not the key to attracting women you dummy! Besides, what if you can't tan?!!"
When attraction is imminent, women try to be with
you and chase you. If attraction is not there,
they make up excuses and try to avoid you. This is
so simple...yet so easy to understand but many
guys who haven't read your eBook miss this vital
point and thus waste time on women that aren't
interested!
Attraction is EVERYTHING! That is why anyone
reading this that hasn't bought your e-book or
your Advanced series should do it IMMEDIATELY!
It's definitely worth the investment.
In fact it will pay you back over the rest of your
life because you will be so much better with
women!
Don't pay hundreds of dollars or waste time on the other material that's out there...buy Dave's
materials!
Ok, Dave, I'm sure your head has grown 10 times as
big now and since I'm not getting paid for making
you a few extra sales, so I'll quit now!
But really, buy the stuff...it's excellent! It's
things in there you have never heard of before
that is so critical to your failure or success
with women!
Anyhow, that was my insight on how great your
material is... now I have a question about
something I read in your mailbag previously that
really stood out to me.
It was the one about the guy who said "Can I kiss
you" to a woman that was getting out of the car as
he dropped her off. I thought saying "Can I kiss
you?" was wussified behavior?
That didn't sound like something you can say
without looking like a needy dork but the guy said
it worked for him and he got the kiss anyhow.
Did I miss something here? Explain that Dave.
Also, have you learned of any other "Kiss
Tests" like the one on your site?
GT from Nashville
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, thanks for the shameless advertisement for my ebook and Advanced Series. I'm glad you're having success with the material.
I'd like to comment on your observation that there's no one teaching guys about ATTRACTION...
I noticed this exact same thing when I was first learning about how to meet and date women.
It took me probably two years of trying things before I finally realized that there was something else going on with women that NO ONE was talking
about.
Finally, I realized that this magic something was an EMOTION.
Women don't meet men and say to themselves "Well, he's my physical type, he has a good job, he dresses himself pretty well, and he looks like
he's good in bed... I think I'll TURN ON MY ATTRACTION for him..."
No way.
There's something that happens to a woman, usually in an INSTANT, that sparks the "Chemistry" or "Sexual Tension" or "Attraction."
And then, if the man knows how to build that tension and AMPLIFY the EMOTION called ATTRACTION that the woman is feeling, there's a very good
chance that they will get together.
If, on the other hand, a man does NOT understand this simple fact, and more importantly, how ATTRACTION works, then no magic technique in the
world will work consistently for him.
I've learned that ATTRACTION is EVERYTHING.
SO WHY HASN'T ANYONE FIGURED THIS OUT?
Well, I have a theory about that, too.
In a nutshell, I think that because men are sexually attracted primarily to LOOKS, they just ASSUME that women must be the same way.
We guys just simply never take the time and energy to figure out what women are actually attracted to...so we act like failures with women... and they treat us like failures.
And many of the guys I DO know who are good with women don't realize WHY what they do works so well.
They just do what they do, and women are attracted to them.
Most of them haven't taken the time to figure out that what they're doing is triggering the powerful emotion called ATTRACTION inside of women!
To finish my thought on this -- you're right.
No one talks about ATTRACTION... and that's a problem, because if you don't "get" attraction, then it's going to be hard to "get" women to be
interested in you.
Now, you asked a question at the end of your email.
You wanted to know if the guy who asked, "Can I kiss you?" was being a Wuss.
OK, now you've gone and done it...
I'm about to share one of my MOST POWERFUL SECRETS for successfully interacting with women.
But, before I share that HUGE secret...
I need to mention that -- if you feel deep down inside like you need more than just a "quick answer" to all this -- that you could benefit from a wall-to-wall "crash course" covering EVERY ELEMENT of succeeding with women...
... from creating ATTRACTION...
... to turbocharging your inner game and self-confidence...
... to "big picture" concepts that solve the mystery of why women choose one man over another...
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But okay... back to your question about the guy who asked, "Can I kiss you?" being a Wuss...
When you asked this, you asked in a way that showed me that you've MISSED THE WHOLE POINT of what was going on here.
One of the main things I tell guys to do is TEASE women.
Teasing can mean one of a couple of things.
Teasing can mean starting to kiss her, then stopping, starting, then stopping... over and over again. In this context it's usually considered a
good, pleasurable thing.
For instance, if you kiss a woman gently, then pull away... then do it again... then again... and you can tell that she wants more, but you're not giving it to her, you're teasing her.
Also, teasing can mean "poking fun".
An example would be saying, "Wow, those are some tall shoes. What, are you like three feet tall without them?"
Think of how you used to tease girls on the school playground when you were a kid.
That's a different kind of teasing.
Now, BOTH kinds of teasing are great to use with women who you have a romantic interest in...
Let's talk about the "Can I kiss you?" example for a minute.
As you might remember, it went something like this:
He waited for a moment when it was clear to him that it would be OK to kiss her. She wanted it. Then he said...
Him: "Can I kiss you?" Her: "Yes" Him: "OK, I'll make sure to do that."
At this point, she said "Right"... and leaned in to kiss HIM!
What happened here?
What happened was a little bit of GENIUS.
That's what happened.
He was TEASING HER. He was doing something that, at first glance was kind of Wuss/Nice Guy thing to do.
But remember, he had so much momentum built up, that this little "slip" was perceived by her as OK.
In fact, he had so much momentum and ATTRACTION built up that she WANTED IT.
He says, "Can I kiss you?", she says, "Yes", then he TEASES her by saying, "OK, I'll make sure to do that."
Yeah!
In that moment, she realizes that his Wuss behavior was actually a JOKE, and that he was actually MESSING with her and teasing her.
And at that point she leaned over and kissed HIM.
Now, let me share something that I made up that I have used with women on many occasions...
Let's say I'm out and I meet a girl walking down the street, and I get her email and phone number.
We send a couple of emails back and forth, then we get on the phone.
Because I'm always teasing and busting balls, I KNOW that she's enjoying it and interested in me... so in that first phone conversation I'll say:
"You know, I was telling my mom about you today."
Her: "Really?"
Me: <pause for effect> "NO, you dork! Why would I tell my MOM about you? Get over yourself!"
Are you with me?
Remember: I'm being charming, Cocky, Funny, and unpredictable from the start...and I KNOW that she's enjoying it. The tension is building, even as we have our first phone conversation.
So I then say something that just plain doesn't fit ("I was telling my mom about you today?").
She says, "Really?" in a half flattered/half surprised way, wondering what's going on.
I then pause to build up the suspense.
As the pause is happening, and she's starting to think to herself, "Uh oh, he really likes me", I drop the "No, you dork! Why would I tell my MOM about you? Get over yourself!" line.
It's funny, confusing, and a HUGE tease.
It usually gets a huge laugh... and it communicates that I not only "get" what's going on, but I'm so confident that I'll tease her about it.
Now, this is what you might call an "advanced" move.
If you don't know how to tell if a woman is attracted to you, how to spark attraction, how to amplify the attraction, and how to move from one step to the next, you're just going to sound like a dumb ass when you say something like this...
... because you'll say it at the wrong time, or you'll say it to a woman who isn't very interested in you...which will make things WORSE instead of better.
I hope you hear what I'm saying.
One of the GREATEST things you can learn is how to use SUBTLE humor with women to IMPLY what you're thinking without actually SAYING it directly.
As I say in my ebook, "Double Your Dating" (and in my legendary "Advanced Program" as well) men take things literally and women are always
interpreting.
Women are always trying to figure out what everything you're saying and doing "REALLY MEANS."
That's why communicating with women on a "sexual" level is a skill that you must learn and develop.
The good news is... ANY man can learn how.
The bad news is... that means you can forget the excuses you've been giving yourself about how you're not good-looking enough, or cool enough, or rich enough, to get great women.
NONE OF THIS IS TRUE, AND I'M THE LIVING PROOF!
The REAL truth is... once you learn the "language" of communicating with women on a "sexual" level, you'll start to SUCCEED with women like you never thought possible.
Period.
So, for now, I want you to "get educated" on how to do it...
Get the facts from my materials or somewhere else, and start paying attention to the details of how you communicate with women.
Once you do, you won't believe how your life starts to change!
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