Let me ask you something...
How would your life be different if... starting TODAY... you could effortlessly, automatically, naturally make women feel irresistible ATTRACTION FOR YOU?
I'm talking about MAKING WOMEN WANT YOU without using "lines" or tricks...
Without trying to "buy" their affection with food, gifts, and compliments (which never works anyway)...
Without having to rely on movie-star good looks or money...
I mean... what if you were a guy that hot women wanted to "get physical" with... ASAP... just because of your PERSONALITY ALONE?
If that life sounds good to you... HERE'S HOW TO START LIVING IT:
If you've been a student of mine for any length of time, you've heard me say it a bazillion times...
Hot women don't see a man as potential "relationship material" based on his looks, money, or cheesy pick-up lines.
When it comes to figuring out if a particular guy might be "Mr. Right," the first thing that hot women DO look for are sure signs of CONFIDENCE.
More specifically... 4 unmistakable, magnetic signals that ALL confident men "broadcast" to a woman the moment they meet her.
Now, naturally.... a man doesn't need to show all of these signs of confidence to get the attention of a great woman...
BUT -- if he manages to show her just a few of these -- the chances DRASTICALLY INCREASE that she'll start "feeling it" for him.
The chances DRASTICALLY INCREASE that she'll want to spend MUCH more time around him.
The chances DRASTICALLY INCREASE that she'll feel irresistible urges (whether she wants to or not) to take things to a PHYSICAL LEVEL with him.
In fact, when a man sends these signals of confidence to a woman, chances dramatically increase that she'll actually MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!
So, without further delay, here they come...
The 4 sure signs of confidence that every great woman looks for in a man:
SURE SIGN OF CONFIDENCE #1: "Easy-Going" Attitude
Listen... don't get me wrong right off the bat...
Being "easy-going" does NOT mean acting so laid back when you first meet a woman that you're practically ASLEEP.
It also doesn't mean being a "doormat" and putting up with rude or inappropriate behavior from a woman.
Here's what it DOES mean:
It means handling the opinions, pressures, and attitudes of a woman (and all others) with grace, and coming across as comfortable in your own skin.
When you're attitude is truly "in the zone," even your body language communicates it...
A confident man will literally, physically "lay back," leaning back while keeping his body open and facing forward when conversing.
He'll maintain eye contact and focus his attention on a woman without coming off as creepy or too intense.
A confident "real man" also doesn't obsess about what other people think or do.
He doesn't take it as an insult if someone doesn't like him, or disagrees with him.
Above all, he isn't needy, clingy, and always trying to be the center of attention.
Basically, this "easy-going" attitude signals a woman that a man is the leader of his own life... everyone else do what they may.
Successfully communicate THAT to a woman, and she'll start plotting and planning ways to get to know you better.
MUCH better.
SURE SIGN OF CONFIDENCE #2: Being "Put Together"
It's true, a woman will never decide that a man might be "Mr. Right" just because he looks like Brad Pitt...
But rest assured she'll INSTANTLY RULE HIM OUT if he doesn't look "right."
That means caring about himself enough to attend to the basics of appearance... which, in turn, communicates a positive, healthy self-image.
Again, this doesn't mean that a man has to buy trendy clothes... wear a "scent"... or look like an obsessive gym rat.
It DOES mean that he needs to master the basics of good grooming and hygiene.
Because, if a man doesn't have it together enough to attend to his own needs, a hot woman knows right away that there's NO WAY he can possibly attend to hers.
By the way...
This also means being savvy enough to avoid "extremes" in appearance.
When first meeting a woman, I recommend dressing neutrally and neatly, neither coming across as a stuffy "suit" or a sandal hound.
Finally: coming across as "put together" means communicating confidence about who you are on the INSIDE as well.
You can do it by being able to carry on an interesting conversation about music... food... culture... whatever.
Becoming a good conversationalist is a sure sign that you have it all together... that you're in a healthy, curious, CONFIDENT state of mind.
If you'd like to learn a whole lot more of "theory" behind communicating confidence about who you are INSIDE, go here...
Meanwhile, I don't want to get too far off track, so on with the 4 sure signs of confidence that every woman you meet is instantly looking for in YOU (whether you realize it or not.)
SURE SIGN OF CONFIDENCE #3: Being "Humble"
This is a big one...
Like I always say, any "jerk" can act cocky with a woman...
... but coming across as truly CONFIDENT requires something else:
The ability to control what you say and do so that you never come across as "above" anyone else.
Sure, a man can act cocky... as long as he makes sure that it's FUNNY (since arrogance without humor equals "jerk" every time).
A truly confident man makes fun of HIMSELF above all others, and never "nitpicks" or tries to hurt another person's feelings.
For example:
It's okay to look across the room at some other guy and say something cocky like, "Look at that guy's facial hair... I think 1975 wants it back."
But ONLY if he's HUMBLE enough to add a comment like, "Believe me, I know... mine was just like it."
The power of being "Cocky" with a woman in exactly the right way... by mixing in the right amount of "Funny" and humility... is one of the cornerstones of everything I teach, and you can learn more about it here.
Meantime, on a related note, on to:
SURE SIGN OF CONFIDENCE #4: A Sense of Humor
File this one under "No-Brainer"... a great sense of humor is the most instant, obvious, magnetic force that makes a woman sense a man's CONFIDENCE...
And therefore feel the first sparks of ATTRACTION for him.
That's why I suggest that guys do whatever they can to cultivate a "comic sensibility," even if it means just reading a few books about the theory and structure of comedy and timing.
I also recommend checking out cutting-edge humor sites like "Funny Or Die" and "The Onion," or just watching Saturday Night live to understand what's hip and funny TODAY...
... because it's all guaranteed to change and become "lame" TOMORROW!
Okay, so add up these 4 sure signs of confidence, and the message is clear:
While most men waste time trying to impress women by acting "tough" or "dominant,"...
... the signs of confidence great women REALLY look for are much more subtle...
... and MUCH more easily achieved!
You can learn how to start making them a part of who YOU are and how you ACT around women them (more easily than you ever thought possible...) right now.
But here's what I want every man reading this to walk away with right NOW:
By focusing on "broadcasting" the 4 TRUE signs of magnetic "real-man" confidence...
... the kind of women you want to meet will start sensing that YOU just might be "Mr. Right."
Once that happens... YOU'RE GOLDEN.
Your love life (and your life in general) will change in ways you never thought possible.
And you'll wonder why you wasted so much time NOT enjoying the love life of your dreams.
So get on it!
Until next time... when I have a topic lined up that I think is going to OPEN YOUR EYES and BLOW YOUR MIND...
We'll talk soon.
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