Friday, May 20, 2022

"The Color of My Nether Lips" (Mailbag)

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Here is a letter from Mimi about how she's embarrassed by the color of her labia. If you are a woman who isn't entirely in love with your genitals, please read this email. If you're a lover whose woman does not fully embrace the beauty of her genitals, please read this email.

I have a treat in this email for you, so please keep reading.

"Dear Susan,

The inner lips of my labia have always been a darker brown color on the outer edges. I've always been self-conscious that men don't find it attractive.

In porn and the media, vaginas are portrayed as pink and even photo-retouched to make them look "better." I think this has given men a false idea of what an average or sexy vagina should look like.

I let my husband look at my lady parts but do not feel very confident about how it looks.

It's hard for me to feel sexy because of it.

He recently commented about the color, and I've felt weird ever since.

Where can I go to find various pictures of vaginas to show him, so I'm not so self-conscious about this?" – Mimi.

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"Hi, Susan! Brilliant report! This is my new bible for the female anatomy. Sheri Winston's drawing on page 14 is the best I've ever seen! The picture on page 4 is the best "pleasure map" and guide I've ever seen, and it shows everything in color on a REAL woman. (I love those sensitive cheeks and belly.) I now understand the true purpose of foreplay and arousal… engorgement.

I never really knew about all the erectile tissue available for stimulation on a woman's body. I thought the clit and g-spot were it, and I figured she was good to go if I had succeeded in getting her nice and wet. Now I know better, and foreplay has a whole new purpose for me. I can't wait to begin exploring. Thanks for this fantastic resource!" – Tom

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Dear Mimi,

Thank you so much for telling me about your embarrassment regarding the color of your labia. I know a lot of women feel like you do. It's heartbreaking because there is no perfect vagina. Every vagina is perfect.

Your genitals are the seat of your power. Your Yoni is your vitality. If you don't love your pussy, how can you love yourself? Why are you letting media and pornography dictate how you feel about being a beautiful human being?

Get a mirror and look at your genitals. The more you look at your pleasure palace, the more you play with your lady parts, the more you become familiar with your anatomy, and you'll love just how beautiful it is. Notice it as you stroke and play with yourself. Your vagina changes color. Watch yourself go from flaccid to engorged. And witness the miracle.

I wonder? What if your husband, knowing you're sensitive about your appearance, was complimenting you? What if he was trying to reassure you? But you took it as a criticism through the filter of your shame?

I'd like you to go back and talk to your husband about what he said and how it landed for you. I'd like you to tell him that you need to be encouraged to love yourself. You want to go on a journey together to appreciate your own beautiful body because I can pretty much assure you that he loves your genitals.

Download this book and look at the pictures. You'll see that many of the images of women's genitals show a tinged color around the edges of the woman's labia. It is widespread that as a woman gets more engorged or aroused, the edges of her labia get darker.

This is what occurs with my labia. I love it! When I see my labia getting darker, I know my body is getting turned on and that my genitals are doing exactly what they're supposed to do.

Thank you for posting this question. I know that a lot of women struggle with loving their genitals. I hope that your question has helped many women feel better about the beauty of their vulva.

And to the men out there who are with women who still are not in love with their genitals – Thank you so much for helping us women appreciate our beauty.

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We Are All Goddesses,
Susan

Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com.

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