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	I love the saying, "Life is hard by the yard... a cinch by the inch." For all of you metrics fans, how about: "Life can defeat us by the meter... so it is sweeter by the centimeter." OK, I tried! Haha. The gem of the day is this Comfort Zone graphic I found on Instagram. If you're not following me there, please do so. It's where I post more personal information, sassier pics, and funny memes. Follow Me On Instagram ⇐ Susan Bratton + Sexy Pics + Sex Memes = FUN The comfort zone of your sexuality is dangerous because it gets boring. And especially for the female of our species, she needs a lot of variety and novelty, particularly in a monogamous relationship. This is one of the reasons that men are always seeking new pleasurable skills. They know they have to keep it fresh between the sheets. The feminine's massive pleasure potential is like an arms race. When she achieves the first level of climactic skill, she's ready for the next. She gets better and better in bed when she has a partner who can leap her over the fear zone directly to the learning zone. LEAP THE FEAR ZONE I often call the masculine-feminine dynamic "polarity" - the magnetism of opposites. The masculine leads, initiates, encourages and makes it safe. When he introduces ideas in the bedroom and shows her what she's capable of, magic happens. She blossoms and expands her sexual pleasure potential. And she loves him for doing this for her. Can the roles be flipped? Yes. We all have the entire masculine-feminine spectrum within us. Can the woman suggest an erotic playdate and lead her man through it? Yes. Can same-sex partners take turns holding the masculine or feminine frame? Yes. Can gender-fluid partners transform moment-by-moment? Yes, all this switching comes from practice. Roleplay in the bedroom is a great way to flip gender roles or strengthen polarity. When you try something new, a new toy, a new location, a fantasy enactment, a new technique together, you can leap the fear zone and go straight into learning and growth. They happen concurrently; you're growing as you're learning. Bringing novelty into your intimate life is what keeps you zesty. There's a formula for "DESIRE" I learned many years ago from one of my mentors. DESIRE = NOVELTY + SAFETY Essentially, if you want to keep your desire high, try something new in a safe environment. If you just do new things all the time without feeling safe, it's too edgy. If you always do the same old things, safety gets boring. Boredom is the death knell of your passion and desire. DESIRE FORMULA Now let me ask you, what are you "working on" in your intimate life? What are you learning now? Are you learning something to improve your wellness? A new pleasuring technique? Are you scheduling erotic playdates? Are you asking your partners, even brand new partners, what they'd like to learn or try when you're together? Today I want you to think about three things you'd like to experience in the bedroom. THREE THINGS I'D LIKE TO EXPERIENCE IN THE BEDROOM 1. ___________________________________________ 2. ___________________________________________ 3. ___________________________________________ Email me back and tell me what the three things are. If you're not moving forward, you're stagnating. Sure, there are times when you want to rest and relax right where you are. But if you're honest with yourself, there is something that you want to move toward, isn't there? Right now, I've been doing a 15-week intimate pleasure challenge. If you can't think of any things you'd like to do, maybe this will spur some ideas... What are you interested in learning? Share it with me. Reply to this email and let me know the three things you'd like to experience in the bedroom right after you scroll down and read this week's fantastic advice. There might well be some new technique below that pops right onto your "3 Things" list. I look forward to hearing from you and reading every email. Love you so much for being part of my world and for standing for your sexual maturation. Your intimate life keeps getting better as you age. It's one of the best things about maturing! Scroll down now and enjoy all the goodies we've created for you this week. And reminder! Monday is the last day of our Steamy Sex Ed™ Video Collection Sale. It's part of Personal Life Media's 15th Company Anniversary. 15 years of helping lovers have hot sex, great orgasms, and deep intimacy.

VIP Link For Steamy Sex Ed® Early Access

We are having our 15th Anniversary! And to celebrate, the wonderful, best-selling Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection is now 60% OFF! However, we only have 500 copies available. So VIPs like you get the first chance at the sale price with no obligation to purchase.

Saving Your Marriage By Watching Steamy Sex Ed® Together

We've printed more copies of the Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection. They are ON SALE NOW. The new and improved offer includes both the DVD's shipped to your home or office in a discreet, plain box and immediate digital downloads of all 8 titles.

How To Destress Your Life

STRESS is the number one reason people don't have more intimacy. But when you're stressed, you can't even think about passion... So here is a little work-around that calms you down and gets you more in the mood.

Body-Melting Passion Techniques That Remove Her Performance Anxiety

When you're an intimately, passionate creature, it's a delicate balance opening to a man. Here's the "trick" I use to be as lusty as I want without cheapening my connection. I make love like I am a PASSIONATE GODDESS.

Embodied Lovemaking Described

Here are four "embodied sex" skills that turn your mate into your sexual soulmate, even if you've just met. Embodied means, "from your body," not your mind. This is the root of sensual sex.

Creating A Strong And Intimate Relationship

Want to inject endless passion and intimacy into your relationship? The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection is your best, hottest, most heart-connected bet.

How to Unlock Your PEAK Health Potential

Paraliminals are affirmation audios that entrain your brain to open to health. I found this Perfect Health paraliminal to be calming and encouraging. It's free and worth a listen. I hope you will find something here that supports your healing.

The Healing Power of PEMFs

If your illness is caused by someone else or a circumstance where you feel betrayed or hold a grudge, then Dr. Joe Vitale's exercise on Ho'oponopono helps you forgive and heal. It's easy and powerful. A beautiful tool you can use your whole life long.

CBD For Better Sex? (Mailbag)

Arousal begins with relaxation. If a woman is stressed, it is harder for her to slow down and enjoy physical touch and sensation. The relaxing compounds in CBD and THC help her feel more pleasure.

Salad Dressing For Better Sex

One of the most potent ways to optimize your health is adding delicious salads and green juice to your daily routine. Here is an easy-to-make healthy salad dressing recipe that lasts for weeks in your fridge and makes salads taste so good!

Susan Bratton Saved Her Sex Life (and Could Maybe Save Yours Too)

Muse by Clio recently did a spotlight article on our very own Susan Bratton. She shares her adventures as an orgasmanaut, as well as what triggered her "reinvention," the first steps she took to save her sex life and so much more. Check it out tonight!

Susan Bratton with the Naked Podcaster

Susan joins Jenn Taylor, the naked podcaster, to talk about Love, Intimacy, Pleasure, Connection, and Sexual Satisfaction. Susan shares her experience with her own sexual trauma, how she grew into sexual confidence, as well as discovering, mastering, and teaching heart-connected intimacy and lovemaking. Also, check out Jenn's Crossroads Coaching program. I believe in what she's doing and I recommend you see if she can help you.

3-Day Eat Well To Be Well Challenge

It's not just what you eat, it's "what's in" what you eat. I know your time is valuable, and you may not want to create (or follow) long, expensive, drawn-out diet trends. One healthy option I recommend is to try the 3-day Eat Well To Be Well Challenge. That's right, it only takes 3 days to discover a new, healthy, and smart way to take back your health. Check out this 3-day challenge from my good friend, Mira Dessy, the Ingredient Guru.

Holistic Sleep Summit with Suz

Join me and my friend, Suzie Senk, as we talk about natural sleep solutions without using dangerous drugs. Discover easy, simple ways to feel naturally rested as you wake up each day. Level up your rest and recovery with over 27 sleep experts on the Holistic Sleep Summit.

How to Manifest Him Back into your life

I kept finding all this evidence online and in the couples I worked with before. Manifesting DOES work. And it also works with love. He showed me countless posts he found online of women who used this unique Law of Attraction technique to manifest their men back.


	The Magic Keeps On Coming, Susan Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Wellness Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com.

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