Everything "Logical" I Tried To Make Women Want Me Always FAILED
It seemed that everything I did just didn't work in a way that made sense...and one of the biggest mistakes I made was assuming that ATTRACTION worked the same way for women that it does for men.
It only made sense that since men are attracted to looks and sweet personalities that women should be too... right?
So, of course, I tried to work this angle by wearing nice clothes, doing nice things for women, and being the nicest guy you could ever meet. I was accommodating to the extreme. I would do whatever a woman wanted, and basically accepted whatever flaky or manipulative behaviors she used with me.
But since none of that stuff seemed to really help at all, I just kept coming to the same conclusion:
I must not be attractive enough, good looking enough, rich enough, or something enough.
I mean, I was doing everything I could imagine to be a nice, sweet, great guy... but women just didn't seem to respond to me in a physically attracted way...
I Thought... "It Must Be ME That's The Problem"
Well, fortunately for me, I'm not one to quit easily. I stuck with it, and I finally did something that had a profound impact on my personal success...
I made friends with different guys who were naturally successful with women and I watched what they did. And when I think back now, I think to myself, duh! But it really made a huge difference.
By watching different guys in different situations as they interacted with women, got phone numbers, went out on dates, and even made physical moves, I learned a lot.
What really fascinated me was that these different guys, who in many cases didn't even know each other, were doing EXACTLY the same things in many cases.
And, the really mind-blowing part was that the great techniques they were using were no big deal to them, and therefore had never been organized and taught in the "main stream." By imitating what I learned from these new friends, and by getting their help, all of a sudden my success began to skyrocket. I mean... big time.
I went from barely being able to talk to a woman and get her number... to having 3 or 4 dates a week. IT WAS GREAT.
But there was a problem...
Even Though I Knew "What" Worked, I Still Had No Clue WHY It Worked
In other words, it still didn't make any damn sense to me! Even though I had more game, and better techniques... and women were responding better to me, things still didn't feel quite right.
And I didn't always get the same results when I did things with women.
Now, you'll never get 100% consistency with anything in the real world, but it was just TOO inconsistent most of the time. And even worse, women would either fall in love with me too quickly, or not call me back after the first few dates most of the time.
Basically, I knew enough to be dangerous, but not enough to really, really understand what was going on.
Well, fast-forward to now...
In the last several years, I've written a book, produced seminars at both ends of the country, released several comprehensive programs, and generally spent a lot of time teaching and refining this material.
A major benefit that this has provided me is the ability to explain things better and faster... and I'd like to give you a quick explanation of a critical aspect of female attraction that, once you understand it, can literally change your life forever with women.
My Big REVELATION For You Today
As we know, men are more attracted to physical traits, and women are more attracted to personality traits.
Men get turned on instantly at the sight of a young, shapely female body. As a man, you know that this process happens instantly and all by itself, meaning you don't really have a choice in the matter.
Well, women get aroused initially and turned on when they interact with a man that has certain qualities and personality traits.
Women become instantly turned on when they are in the presence of certain personality traits, just like men become turned on by certain physical traits..
Now, if you're as fascinated with this process of how and why women get turned on differently than men, and you'd like to read more about it, click here. In the meantime, here's the SURPRISING TRUTH (and the BIG news) for YOU today:
ANY Man Can Make These Traits A Part Of Himself... And I Mean FAST
Think about that for a moment...
Men become turned on by what they can see. Women become turned on by what can never be seen. And, even when it comes to the physical, women are still more interested in the how than the what...
It's not as much his body as the way a man holds it and carries it. It's not as much his voice as the way a man uses it.
Do physical looks, money, fame, power, height, age, etc. play into this at all? Of course they do.
But they're not nearly as important as most men think they are.
If you're tall, handsome, rich, and famous... great. You'll probably have an easier time attracting women. But just watch the tabloids... this can open the door for a guy, but it doesn't at all guarantee that the woman will stay around.
There are a lot of rich, handsome, famous, powerful men who still have no success with women!
To sum it up...
- Attraction is different for men than it is for women.
- While men are attracted mostly by physical traits, women are attracted mostly by personality traits.
- Women don't decide who to feel attracted to with their logical minds. They decide with their emotions and then make up reasons and rationalize it.
I say it all the time...
ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE
It's why some men attract women so well, while others don't... and why any man can improve his success with women dramatically, no matter what his looks, age, or income.
Now, I want you to think about what you've just read, and pay attention when you're out watching men and women interact.
Start noticing those things that men are doing to attract women that are related to their personalities and their communication with women. You'll see things you've never seen before, and learn secrets that will improve your success with women tremendously.
Of course, if you want to shave a couple of YEARS off the learning curve, and get a detailed description of those qualities and methods of communicating that women find sexually attractive, then I recommend that you check out my Power Sexuality program.
In it, I spend several HOURS going into great detail and teaching the *exact*, step-by-step process of communicating with women in a way that triggers their sexual attraction mechanism.
Once you learn this skill, you'll have it forever - and that means a lifetime of interesting and attractive women in your life.
Learn all about it right here:
And if you'd like an introduction to my main concepts and to learn the basics of how to be more successful with women and dating, then go right now and download my eBook Double Your Dating. It comes with three bonus booklets that are invaluable and critical to your understanding of, and success with, women.
You can get it and start reading it right here:
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
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