Online Dating Tips & Secrets: How To Warm Up A Cold Woman

If you're a regular reader of my newsletters (and if you're not... WHY NOT?) you've probably noticed that my mailbag newsletters have been busting at the seams lately.

Tons of great questions... including a bit later in this newsletter, how to "warm up" a cold woman and make her start CHASING YOU.

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So let's get to it.

Today might be the day that I answer YOUR question. First up:

Q. Honestly Dave, I think you need more caution, and warning signs on your products, before some knucklehead tries to sue you for loading his life with more women than the poor soul knows how to handle.lol

I've followed your newsletter, purchased your Ebook, and Advanced Series. Totally Incredible stuff. I dated my High School sweetheart for the better portion of 5 years, and honestly if I knew way back then what I know now it probably wouldn't have lasted 5 months.

She was always demanding, and got upset when I tried to hang out with friends of mine, pretty much your average basket case, but I felt like she was the only girl that I could ever attract.

Then I managed to stumble over your site and signed up for your newsletter and not long after I cut the ties with her, and I am happier today and date more interesting, intelligent women than I ever thought possible.

All thanks to your ingenious, and selfless hard work and research.

I would say that my greatest problem is that I'm generally a pretty low keyed mellow kind of guy that doesn't mind going out to clubs but would far rather find a few girls that don't mind chilling out at home or enjoying a walk on the beach, stargazing or hell just wrestling around on the bed.(no pun intended)

However if these girls tend to stay homebound for the most part what sort of venues would you recommend for meeting these types. Door to door dating perhaps.. lol

I have also tried the online personals which is where much of my success come from, but many of these girls you have to look out for or you could have a bona fide stalker on your hands. (I know this from experience)

Yeah it sucks being a good looking, confident guy huh?

This is my first time emailing you after reading the newsletter for well over a year now..(yeah I stay busy) but I wanted to tell you what a awesome job your doing and that it's greatly appreciated from myself and multitudes of others, not that you didn't already know that; just thought I'd annoy you by saying... lol

OK Dave.. Take care and keep up the terrific work. God Bless

Lionhart, DE

A. Well, first off I want to thank you for the shameless promotion and over-hyping of my materials. I appreciate it.

Next, let's talk about your wish list.

You don't mind going out to clubs, but you'd far rather find a few good girls that don't mind chilling at home or enjoying a walk on the beach, stargazing or hell, just wrestling around on the bed.

Hey, sounds good to me. Maybe while they're wrestling they'd let you videotape... and you could start an Internet company based on the concept. Ya know, I like the way you think. Cut me in for a percentage.

Learn My Best Secrets And CHANGE Your Life

I remember when I first started learning how to overcome fear, approach women, get numbers, and dates, etc...

Let me tell you - there's nothing that will turn your entire life around like being able to walk up to any attractive woman, start a quick conversation, and walk away with her number!

If you'd like to learn MY BEST SECRETS on how to make it happen (and therefore start changing your entire life) all you have to do is take a minute to read this:

If You Want To Get Women, FIRST You Have To TAKE ACTION

The internet-bed-wrestling-make-money idea was a pretty good one... hey, kill two birds with one stone. Other than that, you might try out a few of those magical activities that are interesting, enjoyable, and (big point here...) that also draw intelligent, gorgeous women like a magnet.

Here are a few suggestions:

Try an art history class.
Go to a classy food fair or restaurant opening.
Hit a yoga class or a kickboxing aerobics class.
Dance classes are also a big winner.

In other words, there are some great places you can go to meet women... and have fun... and become a more interesting, classy guy. Who'd-a-thunk-it?

Q. I have been talking to this girl for about a month now and I find myself falling in love with her every time we see each other (every Tuesday Night).

She recently told me that she didn't want to date me yet, because she would hurt me. She also said that if it is meant to happen it will, and that we shouldn't force it.

My question is how do I get her to realize that it is meant, and that we should push it, and how do I prove to her she won't hurt me?

Sincerely, -J.K.

A. Well, I'd say that the first thing you should do is grab a piece of paper and a pen, and walk into the bathroom right now.

Next, turn on the light. Then, on the piece of paper I want you to write the letters "YSSUW" on it. I know, it doesn't make sense... but do it anyway. Now, hold the piece of paper in front of you, so it's facing the mirror... almost as if it's a caption of your face.

Look at yourself in the mirror. Let that settle in for a minute.

Now That You Have A Clear Picture Of What A WUSSY Looks Like...

Let's get serious and get to the point.

That point is... you are SOOO missing the point here. She does not want a guy who will prove to her that she won't hurt him. She doesn't want to be with you because you're acting like a wussbag.

You see, women aren't attracted to girly-men. Girly-men freak women out. Women run from girly-men.

The answer is for you to start acting like a man... and stop acting like a girl.

To make it happen fast, you need to watch my Advanced Dating Techniques program immediately.

This is an emergency. Do it. Here it is:

Q.*** Success Story ***

Hi Dave,

I have in my life had good and bad success with women and I just learned to live with it. I have a very good job I'm a big guy 6'3" 240 nice build and I get told a lot that I'm good looking.

So with all that being said, I just thought I would take things as they come. I have always been cocky+funny naturally BUT I didn't use that on the women that I really wanted always on ones that wanted me or just girls I work with etc..

Also I wasn't doing it in the fashion that you teach. I wouldn't use the lines You know you want me admit it or just say please those would move the attention to me and away from the situation I would think which wasn't what I was after while doing it.

I would always be C+F just because that was me.. I wasn't trying to pick anyone up lol its so funny thinking back now. Anyway, after reading your mail bag and book, it dawned on me.. WTF was I thinking..

I would have literally dozens of women chasing me but all of them I didn't want (not cute or whatever).. but the ones I wanted were like he's cool but whatever... well this girl that I like is a bartender at a bar I go to every weekend, we joke play but never date..

I started using the stuff you teach on her as a test (was in friend zone) and bam she wont leave me alone said to me today on phone that she's liking me more and more every day... I said damn your slow.. everyone else gets it what's taking you so long..

I helped her tend bar last night and every time she passed me I said loudly "will you stop grabbing my ass" its like a different girl.

I have lots more stories since I've been using your stuff for weeks now and its un-real I am able to get laid 3 or 4 times a week now with out even really trying. (need to rest sometimes) lol.

I wasted so much time and I'm only 34.. oh one more thing to those people that worry about age.. the oldest girl I was with since I started Dave's stuff was 30 and that's cuz she was a challenge.. the rest are 22-26

Its like magic man.. get rid of your fears and go for it

P. S. since I started DD101 I have filled my cell phone book with numbers and most I didn't even ask, they would take my phone and put it in themselves.

J from Michigan

A. Yeah, I love getting emails like yours...

Listen... one of the great things about using Cocky & Funny (often referred to as Cocky Comedy) is that so many guys already "get it." And, just like you, many of us have understood exactly what to do... we just never did it when we were around women that we liked.

I'm glad you're figuring out how all of the pieces fit together. And thanks for reminding all of us that just because you're tall and good-looking DOES NOT MEAN that you're going to automatically get girls.

Q. Greetings David,

I live in small Easter-European country which is by all means underdeveloped.

So, after encountering the ad for your book, I was suspicious if it is going to work for Bosnian women too. But, after buying and reading it, I only discovered that the whole story about Bosnian women was only in my mind.

I discovered that after reading about all kinds of fears men have while approaching women. Those fears take form of the entire set of reasons only not to be rejected or embarrassed.

Anyhow, in brief: After browsing through the book I started implementing concepts. My address book is now filled with emails and phone numbers right below the email. I am constantly going out with girls. And I enjoy it.

But the biggest benefit I derived from the book was: it has instructed me to be a better person and man. It has also shown me how. So, thank you for sharing your knowledge with me. I am very much interested in your new publications, should you have some. And in joining the Buyer's club if you have one, too.

Could you please let me know about these things?

Many greetings to the DoubleYourDating community.

It's OK to be a man.

Regards, D

A. Nice! Thanks for your email. I get a lot of emails and questions from guys who ask, "Will this work in my country?"

Now, I personally don't have a lot of experience in different countries and cultures... but from what I hear back from guys all over the world who are using these concepts, they are universal.

Congratulations, and thank you for your email.

Q. David,

I loved your book. And I really think that the advice of the more women you talk to the better at it you will be is worth the price of the book alone. I have one dilemma.

My local mall where I live is the place where all the women go, but after years of rejection or faint politeness at best by doing exactly that over the years, I am so defeated, I cant bring myself to walk over cold to a female in that mall anymore.

I am 44 years old and after getting the cold shoulder for over 20 Years wherever I go, particularly in malls, its hard to believe I can get any other kind of result other than making an ass out of myself. What repulsive vibes I must be giving off!

I am a so- so looking guy, 5'9 170 lbs in decent shape and I approach women from 19-38 and I cant seem to get positive reactions. And I don't talk like a truck driver either. I am college educated.

Yes I am scared shit-less upon approach till they talk to me, but once they open up, I am so relaxed and funny (not cocky though).

Anyway, how do I get my confidence back at approaching women in malls? Heeeeeeeeeeeeeelp!

A. OK, remember the advice I gave to the guy earlier, where I told him to bring a pen and paper into the bathroom?

I think you need to call him... maybe the two of you can go into his bathroom together... and conserve paper.

Let me get this straight... Sometimes you go to the mall... hoping that a girl will come sit next to you on a bench... and she'll think that you WORK there? And you think this is going to work magic for you?

We need to talk. Three things...

You're whining like a little girl.
You're committing the sin of using only half of the Cocky & Funny formula. In other words, you probably sound like a DORK to women.
You need to go and make friends with some guys who are great with women, and watch them interact with women in person.

Look, if you're not going to use my materials the way they're intended to be used, why are you complaining? Just bang your head against the wall like twenty times a day... It will save you a trip to the mall.

**The GUARANTEED Formula For Success Is Cocky PLUS Funny. Period.**

Cocky + Funny. Get it? Cocky + Comedy. You need to use arrogant humor. Bust balls. Tease with sarcasm. Create some sexual tension.

You can get a fast and easy education in how to do it right here:

Also, read my eBook again and try using the materials the way I've presented them to you.

By the way... I was talking to a good friend of mine recently, and we were talking about starting conversations with women wherever you happen to be...

We were talking about that moment when you first start using Cocky Comedy with a woman who's acting all "cold" toward you, and she suddenly says "You're kind of full of yourself... what makes you think you're all that?" as if she's put off by your attitude. And my friend says:

"Yeah, You Totally OWN A Woman At That Point."

Now, what did he mean? How is it possible that if you've apparently acted too cocky... and turned a "cold" woman off... that you could own her?

Well, it's true.

I was once joking with a friend... sometimes you'll meet a girl... she'll be acting all "cold" like this and you'll bust her balls and tease her so much that she starts to get agitated... and all of a sudden she snaps into a mode of: "I don't know what it is that makes you think you're god's gift... but I need to make out with you to find out!"

Now, "warming up" a woman like this is more advanced stuff. You need to have a good feel for chemistry and sexual tension before you really try these types of moves with women you don't know. But there's a very interesting lesson here...

A Woman Doesn't Have To LIKE You To Feel ATTRACTION For You

The attraction happens on its own... regardless of other things happening at the same time.

It's a proven FACT: certain traits and communication techniques TRIGGER ATTRACTION... and if you know what they are (and how to amplify them)... then you can create results that will literally seem like magic to others watching.

Now, if you're reading this and you'd like to be one of the few men on this planet that actually gets it when it comes to this other level of communication, then you need to watch my Advanced Dating Techniques program.

It will open up a new world that you never knew existed, and teach you how to be the kind of man that women have been hoping for all their lives... and the best part is that women in your life will thank you and appreciate you for learning this stuff.

All the details are here:

And like I said... if you haven't downloaded my online eBook Double Your Dating yet, then go get it! You can download it right now and be reading it within a few minutes here: