Approaching A Woman, Getting Her Email & Number
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***QUESTION***
David,
The other weekend I went out with a couple of
guy friends and we met up with some of our other
guy friends. Well, one of them has a female
roommate (friends for years) who is smoking hot.
She mostly hangs with the guys and they are very
protective of her. Anyways, right off the bat
after I was introduced to her I shot off with the
"nice necklace....what did you get that out of a
cracker jack box?" She had a stunned look on her
face like she just got rabbit punched. My friend,
her roommate, was all pissed at me, kept telling
me to be nice to her, not to be mean, etc. About 2
minutes later I ask her if I am being mean (in
hindsight I realize that was a mistake), she says
no, and we start talking. I smoke when I drink
and I tell her to give me a cigarette. She does.
We talk a little more. I tell her to buy me a
drink. She does. We start talking again and she
is swinging her head, moving her hair, and she
grabs her breasts, you know kind of cups them with
both hands. I say, "What the hell are you
doing...quit grabbing your boobs". She couldn't
believe I had said that. We start talking some
more and she tells me that in all but 5 minutes
since I have met her I have told her 3 things that
no guy has ever said to her: 1. Give me a
cigarette 2. Buy me a drink 3. Quit grabbing your
boobs. And then she proceeded to tell me, "But
look who I am talking to." She was into me. I
kind of went my own way after, didn't want to but
had to, with some other friends, but I didn't try
to get her number because I knew I would see her
again the next time I go over to my buddies
apartment. I had to give her the gift of missing
me, ya feel me. And believe me, I will be
stopping by soon. I think guys need to be
tellers, not doers. As much as women don't like
to admit it, I think that they like being told
what to do. Do you agree? Your thoughts please.
TT Kansas City
>>>MY COMMENTS:
My thoughts:
1) You're a stud. Well done.
2) You should have followed up when she said:
"...in all but 5 minutes since I have met her I
have told her 3 things that no guy has ever said
to her: 1. Give me a cigarette 2. Buy me a drink
3. Quit grabbing your boobs..."
...with:
"Yeah, well that's not all I'm going to tell you.
Now that you're doing everything I tell you, it's
time for you to decide where you're going to take
me to dinner. And make it somewhere nice. I'm
picky."
Before you give a woman the gift of missing
you, you might want to make her like you more.
Just a thought.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David-
I'm a long-time fan of your stuff...I've got
all of your products and am just waiting for the
lunchbox and the David DeAngelo action figure with
kung-fu grip :)
So anyways, I was at work the other day and
this cutie of an Asian girl had just started her
first day so I had to train her. Well, she walked
in with a bitchy attitude if I've ever seen one
and the minute she started whining and being a
total bitch, I just stopped, looked at her and
said to her very seriously, "Listen here little
girl, I don't know if other people accept this
behavior of yours but I won't...got it? You're in
my reality, so cut it out now". At that moment she
FROZE and you could just see her immediately
transform herself into sweetest little girl
ever!!! For the rest of the day, she was all over
me and wanted to know ALL ABOUT ME - yet I never
gave her a straight answer ONCE!!! "Where do you
live?", she asks. "I'm not telling you. For all I
know, you could be a psycho stalker - as a matter
of fact, I think I've seen your face on America's
Most Wanted." **SLAP IN THE ARM** And, I just kept
this up for the next 3 hours and David, let me
tell you, she MELTED. She was grabbing my ass on
the job and I told her that if she didn't stop I
was going to call Sexual Harassment on her (see
the role reversal here!!). It was phenomenal, man!
I'm quitting my job next week so now I can go
ahead and pursue this without "dipping my pen in
the company ink", as you say. I'll let you know
how it goes.
And this is all b/c I could have cared less
what she thought of me and was out just to enjoy
MYSELF - I learned this well from your Advanced
Series CD's. You must create YOUR REALITY and Live
in it, or else you fall victim to someone else's
whims. It's powerful stuff, man!
peace! AG Memphis
>>>MY COMMENTS:
That's a fun story.
As you know, one of my favorite comedy themes
is reversing gender stereotypes...
The whole "If you don't stop grabbing my ass
I'm going to call Sexual Harassment" line is
golden.
Nice!
One of my favorites is accusing women of just
seeing me as a sex object, and not caring about my
feelings...
Another is telling a woman that I want her to
support me and that if she's not nice, I'm going
to divorce her, take half her money, and leave her
with the minivan.
You gotta love the look on a woman's face when
you say that to her...
Classic.
***SUCCESS STORY FROM A WOMAN***
I've been reading your newsletters for a couple
of months now. I thought you were full of crap. At
first I began to read this because I was
interested to know how men went about their sexual
desires. Just out of curiosity only because I am
not into men. I love women, and I am a woman.
After this weekend you have persuaded me to buy
your products. I started in with a group of women
claiming I could read palms, and that led to your
cocky funny bit. I'm still laughing at how easy it
was to have these women eating out of the palm of
my hand. Like I said I thought this was some much
bullsh*t that I would embarrass my self if I tried
it. Well, I had a few drinks and I got the courage
to do so, and it was amazing how the women
reacted. That's all I can say. Sorry boys, I will
be using your techniques against you. You can have
the bimbo's with the fake tits. Keep those on your
side, lesbians don't like them much.
DD South Florida
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, I'll bet all the men are going to be VERY
upset with you for competing... AND stealing all
the natural-breasted women.
I guess we'll just have to make do with what
you leave us.
And yes, I get a lot of emails from women who
use this stuff on both men AND women.
Of course, stories from lesbians are my
favorite, just because everyone knows that
lesbians are COOL.
Thanks for the email. I always love to hear
from "The man on the inside".
***COMMENTS***
David,
I'm 35 and I gotta hand it to ya. Your emails
have helped me stay focused with the girl I'm
dating (she's an 8). Your techniques have also
given me new strategies every day with other women
I meet. The C&F strategy works wonders and it's
AMAZINGLY EASY to hook a woman wh2enever I
tactfully and playfully poke fun at her.
Anyway, I wanted to agree with your point that
age is only a big deal when you make it one. My
current girl is only six years younger than me,
but my last girl was nine years younger. Let me
respectfully spell it out for anyone who wants to
listen: YOUNGER WOMEN LOVE OLDER MEN. But, David,
if I might suggest a couple of additional ideas,
and feel free to elaborate on them.
Young women love older men who are:
--Immaculately and tactfully dressed (no shorts or
t-shirts!). --Not clingy. --At least somewhat
knowledgeable about business & world events --
Able to pick a decent wine with dinner.
Anyway, just my two cents. Feel free to use
however you want.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, younger women also love older men who:
1) Rock her world in the bedroom.
2) Mentor her.
3) Don't tolerate her drama.
4) Treat her like a lady.
5) Aren't WUSSBAGS.
I have to agree with you.
A LARGE percentage of "younger" women LOVE
"older" men.
Thanks for your thoughts.
***SUCCESS STORY***
I have been thinking of buying your ebook and
now I am SURE I will. I have been recently
discussing CONFIDENCE and how important it is in
the dating game... I have been making an effort to
willfully increase mine and I have been DIEING to
try out this approach of yours and not be
intimidated by women. I had a great situation
happen to me on the bus this morning: I am
sitting there reading and this HOTTIE comes up and
asks if the seat next to me is taken (she's about
a 7.5 to 8 or so on my scale)..."no, not really",
I say, kinda nonchalant, like its no biggie. She
made a comment about "just making the bus" and we
start talking. I decided to try using the Cocky
and Funny approach that I have heard about in the
newsletters (I am sure once I get the ebook that
more will be revealed on that)...and she is EATING
IT UP! I'm making unbelieveable progress with
this chick so I decide to try another tip the
newsletters have mentioned...I just flat out ask
her if she is single. "no...unfortunately I'm
not", she says. "Hmmm...well, that's too
bad......for YOU, I mean", I tell her, giving her
a knowing smile. BIG grin from her. MAN this was
great...I was just saying all the things I usually
WANT to say but are afraid they will not "sound
good". I was teasing this girl and she was eating
out of my hand! She, by this time, has already
mentioned a friend of hers that she want to set me
up with and she says "WOW, how come I could never
find any great guys like you when I was still in
the dating scene?"...so I turn up the flame and
bust her with, "You know...you could ALWAYS trade
up", She LOVED it! "You're so AWESOME", she says,
"Its so hard to meet people nowadays, and you
know, I hardly EVER run across guys that are so
intelligent and funny as you are.And, by the way,
I really LOVED how you just cameout and asked me
if I was single...most times guys are too scared
to ask that and so both you just sit there and
wonder and never know, that was really great". I
was STUNNED...WHO KNEW!
MY GOD, HOW SIMPLE AND EFFECTIVE A CONCEPT!
Short story long, I get her email & she BEGS me
for MY info as well...she makes a point (no less
than 3 times, mind you) to mention to me "be sure
and send me an email". She also mentions a
Halloween party she is planning and says she will
definitely include me on the guest list. I haven't
sent her anything yet... I'm letting her stew for
awhile...but plan to and am gonna bust her about
the "Swiss Miss" costume she said she was planning
on wearing to the party. WHAT A MORNING...THANKS!
M.B. Dallas, Texas
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, I'd love to comment on your story, but
you did everything RIGHT, so I don't have much to
say.
A few brainstorms:
When she said that she had a friend that she
wanted to introduce to you, it would have been a
good idea to have said "Tell me about her. Is she
rich? Famous? A supermodel? I'm picky...".
Then, after she finished talking up her friend
you could have said "Well, I guess we'll have to
see what she's like. In the meantime, think of
more cute, single, rich friends... just in case I
don't like this one", etc.
There's a tremendous amount of power in making
friends with beautiful women who have attractive
friends. Think about it.
***COMMENT***
I cannot believe people pay you for this crap.
You must be laughing all the way to the bank.
When you figure out what relationships are
actually really all about, then you'll know for
yourself what a fool you are. Dating what you call
hot, smart women demonstrates how clueless you
really are. You crack me up.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, you've hurt my soft little feelings.
But really, did you have to be so mean about
it?
I'm glad you've turned my head around and shown
me the light... and made me realize what a huge
mistake it is to date HOT, SMART WOMEN.
I'm a new man.
From now on, I'm going to only date UGLY, DUMB
women. Oh, and I'm going to immediately get into
RELATIONSHIPS with them.
No more dating.
I am a fool. You're right.
But, honestly, on a more serious note... I
don't laugh when I go the bank.
But I do laugh at jackasses like you. You
really do add that little extra "sumthin sumthin"
that makes this the best job in the world.
***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***
I accidentally got on your mailing list, but I
read every email you send out. I'd buy your ebook,
but the thing is...I don't really need help
getting women, I am one. Let me just tell you,
that I didn't believe in that cocky funny thing
until I met ...We'll call him... J. I do not
consider myself easy at all, but after only 2
dates I found myself in bed with this guy who
totally epitomizes the cocky funny attitude. I
find myself chasing him until it is ALMOST
frustrating, and I can't believe it. I've never
chased a guy before. People should definitely
listen to what you have to say.
>>>MY COMMENTS
Amen.
***QUESTION***
Hi David,
I'm a 25 year old guy. I have a stable & good
career, money is not a problem. I've been
successful with women in the past. Maybe all these
women were looking for the husband material type
coz it never works. However, now I'm attracted to
a 26-year old independent girl. She admits to
being self-centered & that the world revolves
around her. I have taken her out for around 6
times but I've never held her hand. Every time I
take her out, she would say that I'm boring
although she would say she was joking later. The
problem is that I really like her & I told her
that (big mistake). She replied by saying she is
on neutral ground but she's quite comfortable with
me & that's about it. Is there any chance of
salvaging this & making her my girlfriend? She is
quite an anti-social person. She is sometimes very
nice to me & at other times doesn't seem to care
about me. This is what confuses me. Thanks for
your help. I'm on the verge of subscribing to your
E-book. I've read the samples & thoroughly agree
with the stories & advice.
:-)B
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Uh-Oh.
What we have here is a CODE RED WUSSY ALERT.
Dude, you are in DANGER.
DANGER, WILL ROBINSON... DANGER.
I thought there was hope for you until I saw
the SMILEY FACE at the end of your email.
Now I'm convinced that you're going to screw
this up for SURE.
You're on the VERGE of getting my eBook?
What, you like taking women out a half-dozen
times and having them tell you that you're BORING?
Yeah, great. Sounds like big fun, daddy.
You know, I'd give you some advice, but you're
in need of major de-Wussing. You need a total
mental overhaul, man. The answer is here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
Don't do anything else until you've downloaded
it and read the entire thing. I mean it.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey D -
Okay here's the scenario: 18 year old surfer,
not bad looking but nothing special. I'm coming
home from the beach and I spot a car pulled over
and a gorgeous blonde swearing into the phone. Now
I'm not exactly the confident cocky guy all the
time, but I look to my buddy (a pimp in his own
right) and say "You know what we have to do." We
pull over and fix the flat. He chats her up. I on
the other hand don't pay her too much more than
casual attention (thanks D). Long story short: she
ignores my boy and hits up on me asking for my
number. FF to the first date: She couldn't stop
telling me how hot she thought I was. We hung out
on the beach with a bottle of rum and chatted it
up. I just sat back and smiled without saying
much, like i wasn't all that interested. Turns out
she's a 24 year old stripper/model/future
playmate. Still I'm unimpressed and she keeps on
piling on the compliments. Soon she's asking to
hug me. Asking if its okay to kiss me. I don't
bite though "maybe if you're lucky." Finally one
things lead to another and she's asking if its
okay to... you know. I told her no. Of course by
the end of the night I gave in and had her in the
back of my car. Like what D. Your steez comes
through again.
-RC
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes!
Someone finally used the word STEEZ in an email
to me.
I'm sooo down with the hip-hop, dog.
You're the man. You did it all right, and props
to you.
Thanks for taking the time to send in this
email, this is the kind of thing that makes all of
us older guys applaud for you.
Well done.
If you like this girl, make sure you stay cool
and don't turn into a Wussbag. I'll come down
there personally and He-Bitch-Man-Slap you.
***QUESTION***
David, let me ask you something. I am reading a
lot of these peoples success stories as well as
your advice and I get one common theme that's in
all of them: Confidence. Now let me ask you
something that I think a lot of guys would like to
ask but are too ashamed. What if you're not really
as confident as you portray yourself to be? And I
am talking online now. What if you think that if
you act this confident online or on the phone,
she'll be disappointed in what she sees when the
meeting comes about, after expecting so much?
Because a lot of us guys, while these views of
ourselves may only be psychological, don't feel we
can maintain the image we portray them to believe?
Let's see you answer that one smartalack ;)..
A.D. from Queens
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You bring up a real issue here that I think
we all deal with at one point or another...
But the reality is that if you don't GO FOR IT,
you're not going to improve.
I think that "confidence" is important.
But, the REAL key is to deal with your own
personal INSECURITIES.
That's where the REAL power is.
Do this:
Make a list of all the things you're insecure
about. Put things on there like "I don't make a
lot of money", "I don't drive a nice car", "I
don't look like Brad Pitt"... whatever.
Then spend time accepting each of those things.
Think of a situation you're going to be in with
a woman... and how the topic of the thing you're
insecure about might come up.
Imagine her asking you what you do for a
living, and you feeling insecure because you don't
make a lot of money.
Now, realize that what you do is what you do,
and if she doesn't like it, it has nothing to do
with YOU. It doesn't matter.
Then imagine another one, and how you'll
respond to it.
Go through the entire list.
Learn to laugh at the things you're insecure
about.
I used to be VERY insecure about the fact that
I was poor when I was a kid. I thought that women
would judge me because I didn't come from "money."
It's basically something I've brought with me from
childhood... my baggage.
Well, now if a woman asks me about my
childhood, I just laugh and tell her that I was
poor. I could care less what she thinks about me
and my past.
I've taken the time to really think through all
the areas of my life that I'm "insecure" about,
and worked out my issues around those areas.
I think that's a GREAT first step towards
building "confidence" with women.
Try it, you'll like it.
***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
To whomever can help me:
I have recently started dating again after one
of my longest relationships. It seems lately all
the men I've been dating are falling into the
category of wuss. My father told me about these
online dating tips he's been receiving, so I've
been reading them. I tell you, Dave....you're a
dating GOD. Why can't every man in the world read
your tips? But then I guess there wouldn't be
those wussy men that drive us women into the arms
of the secure man. You're dating tips are great
for men, and I wish you all the best, but got any
advice for women? I have no trouble meeting men,
and I hate to say this but I am an attractive
women, therefore many men stumble their words
around me, and all that comes out of their mouths
all the time is, "You're so beautiful, or man your
sexy, can I buy you a drink? I love you voice, you
sing so great.... bla bla bla" Ugh, I'm sick of
it, I want a challenge, a man I can anticipate his
call, but not expect it. Where in the world do I
find one of those? If you have any advice for
women I would GREATLY appreciate it! Or some
direction on where to turn? Thanks so much, oh and
by the way, since my dad's been reading your
letters, he's been actually "getting some" from
his wife! The house is so much more enjoyable if
they've gotten it on last night!!
thanks! D
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ewww.
I could have done without the "My dad is
getting some from his wife" details.
Yeah, I know.
Men suck.
They act like Girly-Wuss Mama's-Boys.
And, beautiful women like you are, for the most
part, out of luck.
The guys who "naturally" get the things I teach
are usually bad-boy players who have so many women
chasing them that they're impossible to get...
...and the honest, stable, interesting guys
were all raised by their moms to be "nice" and
"sweet" and nauseating.
I feel your pain.
I'm working on it... I'm working on it.
In the meantime, send me your picture, and tell
me about yourself. The chances are slim that I'll
write back, but hey, you can't win if you don't
play.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David you are the man, I can't thank you
enough, I never had this success in my 37 years,
and I have only listened to your cd's 2 times.
I went to visit a friend last weekend and I
meet an aerobics' instructor, I am very fat (15
kilos over weight) So I started busting her balls
about how women who work out a lot become crazy,
every time she made a mistake was an opportunity
to tell her that it happened because of her brain
damage, and things like that. She was fascinated
with me and now thanks to you a fat 37 year old
dude sleeps with a beautiful 26 aerobics'
instructor (among others).
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, Thank
you, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you,
R.C.D. Mexico City
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You're welcome, you're welcome, you're
welcome...
What a GREAT way to deal with women who are
overly-obsessed with working out. I'm going to
steal that, and use it immediately.
LOL... lol!
"Women who work out too much become crazy...
and it damages their brains."
That's funny. Classic.
Love the story.
Now go listen to my CD program ANOTHER 2 times
and learn how to KEEP that cute, healthy girl!
And you're welcome, again.
***COMMENT***
Hey Dave-
What's up out on the West Coast? Anyway things
are rolling here in NYC, thanks to your advice.
Just want to contradict a few things you've said:
The first is that you just help with picking up
women and that you're not offering advice for
relationships. This is not true as all this stuff
still applies if you are in a relationship. In
fact it applies EVEN MORE. I say this because our
"alternate wussy self" is always kind of lurking
in the shadows waiting to jump out and ruin
everything. Your teachings have helped me always
be aware of that.
The second is that "women don't like men who
act like wussies- period. Unless you look like
Brad Pitt." This is also not true. Yes, fellas, I
am a recovering wuss. And not to brag, But I
essentially make my living as male model. My whole
life people have commented on how "good-looking" I
am. But at 24 years old, I can literally count my
successes with women, due to a serious lack of
confidence. Yes, pretty sad. But things have
radically changed since I started applying all
these 'techniques'. So guys don't make an excuse
that you are not 'good-looking' enough, etc. Turn
off the tube and get busy. ES from NYC
ps And that's just what I've learned from the
newsletters! I haven't even gotten the book yet.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, you're right, man.
Even though I stay away from giving
"relationship" advice, what I'm teaching works to
KEEP women as well as it does to GET women.
And I get a lot of emails from "good-looking"
guys who have never had success with women...
because they were Wussies.
Thanks for your email. Good stuff.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Yo Dave!
WOE TO YOU NONBELIEVERS! Nay sayers and the
ignorant, hold your tongues! Take the cotton from
your ears and stick it in your mouths! For you
have but to use your eyes to see how the wussfull
are repaid! Better that you should rip out your
own tongue, than it is to mock what you fail to
comprehend!
Sorry Dave, just had to let that go. Couldn't
help myself see, I live with my bro. He's 28,
never had a girlfriend that lived closer than 2
states away for more than a week, a virgin, in
fact I'm reasonably sure he's never kissed a girl!
...And he was in the navy for three years!!! He
sees the success that I have with the ladies and I
tell him that it's by design and NOT because I
agree to go and pick them up three states away
then another state away to get their friends to
take them to the airport that's in a different
state still. ...All before he's even gotten them
to be his girl!!! Anyway, at the local coffee shop
that I like to go to meet ladies, I take him
along. This total cutie that frequents the place
walks in. I see his eyes pop out and after I pick
his jaw up off the ground she comes to our table.
"Hey, where have you been all summer?" She said to
me. "Well, if I haven't made it painfully obvious.
I'm trying keep as much distance between you and
myself as possible." I blurted out to her and my
brothers astonishment. She then gave me an "F you
then!" To which I responded "NOT on the BEST day
of your life girl." Adding a cocky sh*t-eating
grin sitting back in my chair seemingly unfazed.
She was speechless. "Ya know, I'm gonna go out on
a limb here but let me guess. Back in the day, you
were the sort of little girl out on the playground
that would go up and hit all the little boys that
she liked. I know I'm right, so be careful, I hit
back." Her already big brown eyes got even bigger
seemingly not believing what she was hearing and
my brother frozen with terror, spilled his tea all
over the table. "Oh, and by the way, this is my
brother..." and I excused myself making for the
bathroom. Fully expecting her still be there when
I got out, I was I bit disappointed when she
wasn't. There was just my brother "That's how you
treat women? Here!" he said handing me a card with
her number on it. "She wants you to call her
tonight." "Nah, maybe tomorrow but definitely not
tonight," and I motioned for us to leave.
He sees, and still, he does not believe! Can
we exorcise him err something? Oh, and if this
letter isn't testament enough to it, THANX MAN!!!
CJ from South Jersey
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Your poor, poor bro'...
The problem is that your brother doesn't "get"
what's going on.
It always amazes me how a guy who is good with
women can do his "magic" right in front of an
entire GROUP of other guys... and NONE of them
will GET IT.
I've done it MANY, MANY times myself... and the
other guys just watch, shake their heads, and get
nervous. Oh, and apologize and make excuses for
my behavior.
Of course, when I get the girl's number, or
whatever, they just seem dumbfounded.
You need to get your brother a copy of my
Advanced Dating Techniques program... and you need
to get him to one of my live seminars.
He needs it. Bad.
Thanks for the email.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave, You know what's going on , so this is
possibly for newsletter readers. After learning,
incorporating, practicing (ALL of EVERYTHING) and
learning from failure over and over again, the
changes began. Then, what seems like over night,
it happened. Relationships and sex are now my
choice. I'm in my 40's, I have 2 women friends
(both nines ! ) who are 33 & 40 y.o. And one 22
year-old nympho ( she's an 11 ! ) , who, for
insurance purposes, I swear I'm considering
nailing down all appliances and furniture in my
house. The most important thing I can communicate
is that it's crucial to incorporate ALL elements
of your research and wisdom when dealing with
women. Understanding nature, C&F, busting, be
immaculate with your life and attitudes, go
online, have mentors, work on areas you may need
to etc. EVERYTHING. As an experiment during my
learning phase, for three months I hit on three
bartenders in three different bars, with almost
identical approaches. One I went into EVERY
Saturday. Results; no attraction. One I went into
EVERY OTHER Saturday. Results; some attraction, no
action. The third I hit on every third or fourth
week, and she's the nympho, who , btw, is sitting
here with extreme anger watching me type this, but
also anxious for me to finish so we can....Anyway,
case in point for laying back and being cool. Guys
out there, take full advantage of your opportunity
to learn, and it will come. (I crack myself up).
Thanks Dave, L from MI.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, you crack me up, too.
So you're telling me that guys in their 40's
who don't have much success with women can LEARN
how to meet 22-year-old bartenders who get hit on
all night every night by 100 guys?
You don't say?
Yeah, I actually think that waitresses,
dancers, and bartenders are some of the EASIEST
women to meet. It's taken me a long time to
realize that, by the way.
I think the secret is that these women meet SO
many men... and almost every single one of those
men is a certifiable jackass WUSSY... and when
they meet a guy who actually knows how to
communicate on a level that triggers ATTRACTION,
he REALLY stands out.
Yeah, go figure.
By the way, if you're ready for the ULTIMATE
education in approaching women, starting
conversations, getting emails and numbers, and
turning them into DATES... then you MUST check out
my new "Approaching Women" DVD/CD program.
We're talking about TEN HOURS of live training
on the most critical skill YOU need to learn.
If you go watch a few minutes of the video
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them out here:
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You mentioned something in your email that I
think is a VERY important point...
You mentioned that it's CRUCIAL to incorporate
ALL of the elements when dealing with women.
I couldn't agree more.
In fact, I think it's so vitally important that
I have created an advanced program to actually go
over ALL of the key elements of meeting and dating
women... and to teach any guy everything he needs
to know to meet and date women.
Isn't that generous of me?
It's called my "Advanced Dating Techniques"
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I want you to learn all of the secrets that
it's taken me YEARS and YEARS to figure out. And I
want you to have the kind of success that you've
always wanted with women. But no one is going to
do it for you...
All the details, plus some great free samples
are here:
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...and if you haven't read my eBook "Double
Your Dating", then you need to go and download it
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I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
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***QUESTION***
David,
The other weekend I went out with a couple of
guy friends and we met up with some of our other
guy friends. Well, one of them has a female
roommate (friends for years) who is smoking hot.
She mostly hangs with the guys and they are very
protective of her. Anyways, right off the bat
after I was introduced to her I shot off with the
"nice necklace....what did you get that out of a
cracker jack box?" She had a stunned look on her
face like she just got rabbit punched. My friend,
her roommate, was all pissed at me, kept telling
me to be nice to her, not to be mean, etc. About 2
minutes later I ask her if I am being mean (in
hindsight I realize that was a mistake), she says
no, and we start talking. I smoke when I drink
and I tell her to give me a cigarette. She does.
We talk a little more. I tell her to buy me a
drink. She does. We start talking again and she
is swinging her head, moving her hair, and she
grabs her breasts, you know kind of cups them with
both hands. I say, "What the hell are you
doing...quit grabbing your boobs". She couldn't
believe I had said that. We start talking some
more and she tells me that in all but 5 minutes
since I have met her I have told her 3 things that
no guy has ever said to her: 1. Give me a
cigarette 2. Buy me a drink 3. Quit grabbing your
boobs. And then she proceeded to tell me, "But
look who I am talking to." She was into me. I
kind of went my own way after, didn't want to but
had to, with some other friends, but I didn't try
to get her number because I knew I would see her
again the next time I go over to my buddies
apartment. I had to give her the gift of missing
me, ya feel me. And believe me, I will be
stopping by soon. I think guys need to be
tellers, not doers. As much as women don't like
to admit it, I think that they like being told
what to do. Do you agree? Your thoughts please.
TT Kansas City
>>>MY COMMENTS:
My thoughts:
1) You're a stud. Well done.
2) You should have followed up when she said:
"...in all but 5 minutes since I have met her I
have told her 3 things that no guy has ever said
to her: 1. Give me a cigarette 2. Buy me a drink
3. Quit grabbing your boobs..."
...with:
"Yeah, well that's not all I'm going to tell you.
Now that you're doing everything I tell you, it's
time for you to decide where you're going to take
me to dinner. And make it somewhere nice. I'm
picky."
Before you give a woman the gift of missing
you, you might want to make her like you more.
Just a thought.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David-
I'm a long-time fan of your stuff...I've got
all of your products and am just waiting for the
lunchbox and the David DeAngelo action figure with
kung-fu grip :)
So anyways, I was at work the other day and
this cutie of an Asian girl had just started her
first day so I had to train her. Well, she walked
in with a bitchy attitude if I've ever seen one
and the minute she started whining and being a
total bitch, I just stopped, looked at her and
said to her very seriously, "Listen here little
girl, I don't know if other people accept this
behavior of yours but I won't...got it? You're in
my reality, so cut it out now". At that moment she
FROZE and you could just see her immediately
transform herself into sweetest little girl
ever!!! For the rest of the day, she was all over
me and wanted to know ALL ABOUT ME - yet I never
gave her a straight answer ONCE!!! "Where do you
live?", she asks. "I'm not telling you. For all I
know, you could be a psycho stalker - as a matter
of fact, I think I've seen your face on America's
Most Wanted." **SLAP IN THE ARM** And, I just kept
this up for the next 3 hours and David, let me
tell you, she MELTED. She was grabbing my ass on
the job and I told her that if she didn't stop I
was going to call Sexual Harassment on her (see
the role reversal here!!). It was phenomenal, man!
I'm quitting my job next week so now I can go
ahead and pursue this without "dipping my pen in
the company ink", as you say. I'll let you know
how it goes.
And this is all b/c I could have cared less
what she thought of me and was out just to enjoy
MYSELF - I learned this well from your Advanced
Series CD's. You must create YOUR REALITY and Live
in it, or else you fall victim to someone else's
whims. It's powerful stuff, man!
peace! AG Memphis
>>>MY COMMENTS:
That's a fun story.
As you know, one of my favorite comedy themes
is reversing gender stereotypes...
The whole "If you don't stop grabbing my ass
I'm going to call Sexual Harassment" line is
golden.
Nice!
One of my favorites is accusing women of just
seeing me as a sex object, and not caring about my
feelings...
Another is telling a woman that I want her to
support me and that if she's not nice, I'm going
to divorce her, take half her money, and leave her
with the minivan.
You gotta love the look on a woman's face when
you say that to her...
Classic.
***SUCCESS STORY FROM A WOMAN***
I've been reading your newsletters for a couple
of months now. I thought you were full of crap. At
first I began to read this because I was
interested to know how men went about their sexual
desires. Just out of curiosity only because I am
not into men. I love women, and I am a woman.
After this weekend you have persuaded me to buy
your products. I started in with a group of women
claiming I could read palms, and that led to your
cocky funny bit. I'm still laughing at how easy it
was to have these women eating out of the palm of
my hand. Like I said I thought this was some much
bullsh*t that I would embarrass my self if I tried
it. Well, I had a few drinks and I got the courage
to do so, and it was amazing how the women
reacted. That's all I can say. Sorry boys, I will
be using your techniques against you. You can have
the bimbo's with the fake tits. Keep those on your
side, lesbians don't like them much.
DD South Florida
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, I'll bet all the men are going to be VERY
upset with you for competing... AND stealing all
the natural-breasted women.
I guess we'll just have to make do with what
you leave us.
And yes, I get a lot of emails from women who
use this stuff on both men AND women.
Of course, stories from lesbians are my
favorite, just because everyone knows that
lesbians are COOL.
Thanks for the email. I always love to hear
from "The man on the inside".
***COMMENTS***
David,
I'm 35 and I gotta hand it to ya. Your emails
have helped me stay focused with the girl I'm
dating (she's an 8). Your techniques have also
given me new strategies every day with other women
I meet. The C&F strategy works wonders and it's
AMAZINGLY EASY to hook a woman wh2enever I
tactfully and playfully poke fun at her.
Anyway, I wanted to agree with your point that
age is only a big deal when you make it one. My
current girl is only six years younger than me,
but my last girl was nine years younger. Let me
respectfully spell it out for anyone who wants to
listen: YOUNGER WOMEN LOVE OLDER MEN. But, David,
if I might suggest a couple of additional ideas,
and feel free to elaborate on them.
Young women love older men who are:
--Immaculately and tactfully dressed (no shorts or
t-shirts!). --Not clingy. --At least somewhat
knowledgeable about business & world events --
Able to pick a decent wine with dinner.
Anyway, just my two cents. Feel free to use
however you want.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, younger women also love older men who:
1) Rock her world in the bedroom.
2) Mentor her.
3) Don't tolerate her drama.
4) Treat her like a lady.
5) Aren't WUSSBAGS.
I have to agree with you.
A LARGE percentage of "younger" women LOVE
"older" men.
Thanks for your thoughts.
***SUCCESS STORY***
I have been thinking of buying your ebook and
now I am SURE I will. I have been recently
discussing CONFIDENCE and how important it is in
the dating game... I have been making an effort to
willfully increase mine and I have been DIEING to
try out this approach of yours and not be
intimidated by women. I had a great situation
happen to me on the bus this morning: I am
sitting there reading and this HOTTIE comes up and
asks if the seat next to me is taken (she's about
a 7.5 to 8 or so on my scale)..."no, not really",
I say, kinda nonchalant, like its no biggie. She
made a comment about "just making the bus" and we
start talking. I decided to try using the Cocky
and Funny approach that I have heard about in the
newsletters (I am sure once I get the ebook that
more will be revealed on that)...and she is EATING
IT UP! I'm making unbelieveable progress with
this chick so I decide to try another tip the
newsletters have mentioned...I just flat out ask
her if she is single. "no...unfortunately I'm
not", she says. "Hmmm...well, that's too
bad......for YOU, I mean", I tell her, giving her
a knowing smile. BIG grin from her. MAN this was
great...I was just saying all the things I usually
WANT to say but are afraid they will not "sound
good". I was teasing this girl and she was eating
out of my hand! She, by this time, has already
mentioned a friend of hers that she want to set me
up with and she says "WOW, how come I could never
find any great guys like you when I was still in
the dating scene?"...so I turn up the flame and
bust her with, "You know...you could ALWAYS trade
up", She LOVED it! "You're so AWESOME", she says,
"Its so hard to meet people nowadays, and you
know, I hardly EVER run across guys that are so
intelligent and funny as you are.And, by the way,
I really LOVED how you just cameout and asked me
if I was single...most times guys are too scared
to ask that and so both you just sit there and
wonder and never know, that was really great". I
was STUNNED...WHO KNEW!
MY GOD, HOW SIMPLE AND EFFECTIVE A CONCEPT!
Short story long, I get her email & she BEGS me
for MY info as well...she makes a point (no less
than 3 times, mind you) to mention to me "be sure
and send me an email". She also mentions a
Halloween party she is planning and says she will
definitely include me on the guest list. I haven't
sent her anything yet... I'm letting her stew for
awhile...but plan to and am gonna bust her about
the "Swiss Miss" costume she said she was planning
on wearing to the party. WHAT A MORNING...THANKS!
M.B. Dallas, Texas
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, I'd love to comment on your story, but
you did everything RIGHT, so I don't have much to
say.
A few brainstorms:
When she said that she had a friend that she
wanted to introduce to you, it would have been a
good idea to have said "Tell me about her. Is she
rich? Famous? A supermodel? I'm picky...".
Then, after she finished talking up her friend
you could have said "Well, I guess we'll have to
see what she's like. In the meantime, think of
more cute, single, rich friends... just in case I
don't like this one", etc.
There's a tremendous amount of power in making
friends with beautiful women who have attractive
friends. Think about it.
***COMMENT***
I cannot believe people pay you for this crap.
You must be laughing all the way to the bank.
When you figure out what relationships are
actually really all about, then you'll know for
yourself what a fool you are. Dating what you call
hot, smart women demonstrates how clueless you
really are. You crack me up.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, you've hurt my soft little feelings.
But really, did you have to be so mean about
it?
I'm glad you've turned my head around and shown
me the light... and made me realize what a huge
mistake it is to date HOT, SMART WOMEN.
I'm a new man.
From now on, I'm going to only date UGLY, DUMB
women. Oh, and I'm going to immediately get into
RELATIONSHIPS with them.
No more dating.
I am a fool. You're right.
But, honestly, on a more serious note... I
don't laugh when I go the bank.
But I do laugh at jackasses like you. You
really do add that little extra "sumthin sumthin"
that makes this the best job in the world.
***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***
I accidentally got on your mailing list, but I
read every email you send out. I'd buy your ebook,
but the thing is...I don't really need help
getting women, I am one. Let me just tell you,
that I didn't believe in that cocky funny thing
until I met ...We'll call him... J. I do not
consider myself easy at all, but after only 2
dates I found myself in bed with this guy who
totally epitomizes the cocky funny attitude. I
find myself chasing him until it is ALMOST
frustrating, and I can't believe it. I've never
chased a guy before. People should definitely
listen to what you have to say.
>>>MY COMMENTS
Amen.
***QUESTION***
Hi David,
I'm a 25 year old guy. I have a stable & good
career, money is not a problem. I've been
successful with women in the past. Maybe all these
women were looking for the husband material type
coz it never works. However, now I'm attracted to
a 26-year old independent girl. She admits to
being self-centered & that the world revolves
around her. I have taken her out for around 6
times but I've never held her hand. Every time I
take her out, she would say that I'm boring
although she would say she was joking later. The
problem is that I really like her & I told her
that (big mistake). She replied by saying she is
on neutral ground but she's quite comfortable with
me & that's about it. Is there any chance of
salvaging this & making her my girlfriend? She is
quite an anti-social person. She is sometimes very
nice to me & at other times doesn't seem to care
about me. This is what confuses me. Thanks for
your help. I'm on the verge of subscribing to your
E-book. I've read the samples & thoroughly agree
with the stories & advice.
:-)B
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Uh-Oh.
What we have here is a CODE RED WUSSY ALERT.
Dude, you are in DANGER.
DANGER, WILL ROBINSON... DANGER.
I thought there was hope for you until I saw
the SMILEY FACE at the end of your email.
Now I'm convinced that you're going to screw
this up for SURE.
You're on the VERGE of getting my eBook?
What, you like taking women out a half-dozen
times and having them tell you that you're BORING?
Yeah, great. Sounds like big fun, daddy.
You know, I'd give you some advice, but you're
in need of major de-Wussing. You need a total
mental overhaul, man. The answer is here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
Don't do anything else until you've downloaded
it and read the entire thing. I mean it.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey D -
Okay here's the scenario: 18 year old surfer,
not bad looking but nothing special. I'm coming
home from the beach and I spot a car pulled over
and a gorgeous blonde swearing into the phone. Now
I'm not exactly the confident cocky guy all the
time, but I look to my buddy (a pimp in his own
right) and say "You know what we have to do." We
pull over and fix the flat. He chats her up. I on
the other hand don't pay her too much more than
casual attention (thanks D). Long story short: she
ignores my boy and hits up on me asking for my
number. FF to the first date: She couldn't stop
telling me how hot she thought I was. We hung out
on the beach with a bottle of rum and chatted it
up. I just sat back and smiled without saying
much, like i wasn't all that interested. Turns out
she's a 24 year old stripper/model/future
playmate. Still I'm unimpressed and she keeps on
piling on the compliments. Soon she's asking to
hug me. Asking if its okay to kiss me. I don't
bite though "maybe if you're lucky." Finally one
things lead to another and she's asking if its
okay to... you know. I told her no. Of course by
the end of the night I gave in and had her in the
back of my car. Like what D. Your steez comes
through again.
-RC
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes!
Someone finally used the word STEEZ in an email
to me.
I'm sooo down with the hip-hop, dog.
You're the man. You did it all right, and props
to you.
Thanks for taking the time to send in this
email, this is the kind of thing that makes all of
us older guys applaud for you.
Well done.
If you like this girl, make sure you stay cool
and don't turn into a Wussbag. I'll come down
there personally and He-Bitch-Man-Slap you.
***QUESTION***
David, let me ask you something. I am reading a
lot of these peoples success stories as well as
your advice and I get one common theme that's in
all of them: Confidence. Now let me ask you
something that I think a lot of guys would like to
ask but are too ashamed. What if you're not really
as confident as you portray yourself to be? And I
am talking online now. What if you think that if
you act this confident online or on the phone,
she'll be disappointed in what she sees when the
meeting comes about, after expecting so much?
Because a lot of us guys, while these views of
ourselves may only be psychological, don't feel we
can maintain the image we portray them to believe?
Let's see you answer that one smartalack ;)..
A.D. from Queens
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You bring up a real issue here that I think
we all deal with at one point or another...
But the reality is that if you don't GO FOR IT,
you're not going to improve.
I think that "confidence" is important.
But, the REAL key is to deal with your own
personal INSECURITIES.
That's where the REAL power is.
Do this:
Make a list of all the things you're insecure
about. Put things on there like "I don't make a
lot of money", "I don't drive a nice car", "I
don't look like Brad Pitt"... whatever.
Then spend time accepting each of those things.
Think of a situation you're going to be in with
a woman... and how the topic of the thing you're
insecure about might come up.
Imagine her asking you what you do for a
living, and you feeling insecure because you don't
make a lot of money.
Now, realize that what you do is what you do,
and if she doesn't like it, it has nothing to do
with YOU. It doesn't matter.
Then imagine another one, and how you'll
respond to it.
Go through the entire list.
Learn to laugh at the things you're insecure
about.
I used to be VERY insecure about the fact that
I was poor when I was a kid. I thought that women
would judge me because I didn't come from "money."
It's basically something I've brought with me from
childhood... my baggage.
Well, now if a woman asks me about my
childhood, I just laugh and tell her that I was
poor. I could care less what she thinks about me
and my past.
I've taken the time to really think through all
the areas of my life that I'm "insecure" about,
and worked out my issues around those areas.
I think that's a GREAT first step towards
building "confidence" with women.
Try it, you'll like it.
***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
To whomever can help me:
I have recently started dating again after one
of my longest relationships. It seems lately all
the men I've been dating are falling into the
category of wuss. My father told me about these
online dating tips he's been receiving, so I've
been reading them. I tell you, Dave....you're a
dating GOD. Why can't every man in the world read
your tips? But then I guess there wouldn't be
those wussy men that drive us women into the arms
of the secure man. You're dating tips are great
for men, and I wish you all the best, but got any
advice for women? I have no trouble meeting men,
and I hate to say this but I am an attractive
women, therefore many men stumble their words
around me, and all that comes out of their mouths
all the time is, "You're so beautiful, or man your
sexy, can I buy you a drink? I love you voice, you
sing so great.... bla bla bla" Ugh, I'm sick of
it, I want a challenge, a man I can anticipate his
call, but not expect it. Where in the world do I
find one of those? If you have any advice for
women I would GREATLY appreciate it! Or some
direction on where to turn? Thanks so much, oh and
by the way, since my dad's been reading your
letters, he's been actually "getting some" from
his wife! The house is so much more enjoyable if
they've gotten it on last night!!
thanks! D
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ewww.
I could have done without the "My dad is
getting some from his wife" details.
Yeah, I know.
Men suck.
They act like Girly-Wuss Mama's-Boys.
And, beautiful women like you are, for the most
part, out of luck.
The guys who "naturally" get the things I teach
are usually bad-boy players who have so many women
chasing them that they're impossible to get...
...and the honest, stable, interesting guys
were all raised by their moms to be "nice" and
"sweet" and nauseating.
I feel your pain.
I'm working on it... I'm working on it.
In the meantime, send me your picture, and tell
me about yourself. The chances are slim that I'll
write back, but hey, you can't win if you don't
play.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David you are the man, I can't thank you
enough, I never had this success in my 37 years,
and I have only listened to your cd's 2 times.
I went to visit a friend last weekend and I
meet an aerobics' instructor, I am very fat (15
kilos over weight) So I started busting her balls
about how women who work out a lot become crazy,
every time she made a mistake was an opportunity
to tell her that it happened because of her brain
damage, and things like that. She was fascinated
with me and now thanks to you a fat 37 year old
dude sleeps with a beautiful 26 aerobics'
instructor (among others).
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, Thank
you, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you,
R.C.D. Mexico City
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You're welcome, you're welcome, you're
welcome...
What a GREAT way to deal with women who are
overly-obsessed with working out. I'm going to
steal that, and use it immediately.
LOL... lol!
"Women who work out too much become crazy...
and it damages their brains."
That's funny. Classic.
Love the story.
Now go listen to my CD program ANOTHER 2 times
and learn how to KEEP that cute, healthy girl!
And you're welcome, again.
***COMMENT***
Hey Dave-
What's up out on the West Coast? Anyway things
are rolling here in NYC, thanks to your advice.
Just want to contradict a few things you've said:
The first is that you just help with picking up
women and that you're not offering advice for
relationships. This is not true as all this stuff
still applies if you are in a relationship. In
fact it applies EVEN MORE. I say this because our
"alternate wussy self" is always kind of lurking
in the shadows waiting to jump out and ruin
everything. Your teachings have helped me always
be aware of that.
The second is that "women don't like men who
act like wussies- period. Unless you look like
Brad Pitt." This is also not true. Yes, fellas, I
am a recovering wuss. And not to brag, But I
essentially make my living as male model. My whole
life people have commented on how "good-looking" I
am. But at 24 years old, I can literally count my
successes with women, due to a serious lack of
confidence. Yes, pretty sad. But things have
radically changed since I started applying all
these 'techniques'. So guys don't make an excuse
that you are not 'good-looking' enough, etc. Turn
off the tube and get busy. ES from NYC
ps And that's just what I've learned from the
newsletters! I haven't even gotten the book yet.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, you're right, man.
Even though I stay away from giving
"relationship" advice, what I'm teaching works to
KEEP women as well as it does to GET women.
And I get a lot of emails from "good-looking"
guys who have never had success with women...
because they were Wussies.
Thanks for your email. Good stuff.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Yo Dave!
WOE TO YOU NONBELIEVERS! Nay sayers and the
ignorant, hold your tongues! Take the cotton from
your ears and stick it in your mouths! For you
have but to use your eyes to see how the wussfull
are repaid! Better that you should rip out your
own tongue, than it is to mock what you fail to
comprehend!
Sorry Dave, just had to let that go. Couldn't
help myself see, I live with my bro. He's 28,
never had a girlfriend that lived closer than 2
states away for more than a week, a virgin, in
fact I'm reasonably sure he's never kissed a girl!
...And he was in the navy for three years!!! He
sees the success that I have with the ladies and I
tell him that it's by design and NOT because I
agree to go and pick them up three states away
then another state away to get their friends to
take them to the airport that's in a different
state still. ...All before he's even gotten them
to be his girl!!! Anyway, at the local coffee shop
that I like to go to meet ladies, I take him
along. This total cutie that frequents the place
walks in. I see his eyes pop out and after I pick
his jaw up off the ground she comes to our table.
"Hey, where have you been all summer?" She said to
me. "Well, if I haven't made it painfully obvious.
I'm trying keep as much distance between you and
myself as possible." I blurted out to her and my
brothers astonishment. She then gave me an "F you
then!" To which I responded "NOT on the BEST day
of your life girl." Adding a cocky sh*t-eating
grin sitting back in my chair seemingly unfazed.
She was speechless. "Ya know, I'm gonna go out on
a limb here but let me guess. Back in the day, you
were the sort of little girl out on the playground
that would go up and hit all the little boys that
she liked. I know I'm right, so be careful, I hit
back." Her already big brown eyes got even bigger
seemingly not believing what she was hearing and
my brother frozen with terror, spilled his tea all
over the table. "Oh, and by the way, this is my
brother..." and I excused myself making for the
bathroom. Fully expecting her still be there when
I got out, I was I bit disappointed when she
wasn't. There was just my brother "That's how you
treat women? Here!" he said handing me a card with
her number on it. "She wants you to call her
tonight." "Nah, maybe tomorrow but definitely not
tonight," and I motioned for us to leave.
He sees, and still, he does not believe! Can
we exorcise him err something? Oh, and if this
letter isn't testament enough to it, THANX MAN!!!
CJ from South Jersey
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Your poor, poor bro'...
The problem is that your brother doesn't "get"
what's going on.
It always amazes me how a guy who is good with
women can do his "magic" right in front of an
entire GROUP of other guys... and NONE of them
will GET IT.
I've done it MANY, MANY times myself... and the
other guys just watch, shake their heads, and get
nervous. Oh, and apologize and make excuses for
my behavior.
Of course, when I get the girl's number, or
whatever, they just seem dumbfounded.
You need to get your brother a copy of my
Advanced Dating Techniques program... and you need
to get him to one of my live seminars.
He needs it. Bad.
Thanks for the email.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave, You know what's going on , so this is
possibly for newsletter readers. After learning,
incorporating, practicing (ALL of EVERYTHING) and
learning from failure over and over again, the
changes began. Then, what seems like over night,
it happened. Relationships and sex are now my
choice. I'm in my 40's, I have 2 women friends
(both nines ! ) who are 33 & 40 y.o. And one 22
year-old nympho ( she's an 11 ! ) , who, for
insurance purposes, I swear I'm considering
nailing down all appliances and furniture in my
house. The most important thing I can communicate
is that it's crucial to incorporate ALL elements
of your research and wisdom when dealing with
women. Understanding nature, C&F, busting, be
immaculate with your life and attitudes, go
online, have mentors, work on areas you may need
to etc. EVERYTHING. As an experiment during my
learning phase, for three months I hit on three
bartenders in three different bars, with almost
identical approaches. One I went into EVERY
Saturday. Results; no attraction. One I went into
EVERY OTHER Saturday. Results; some attraction, no
action. The third I hit on every third or fourth
week, and she's the nympho, who , btw, is sitting
here with extreme anger watching me type this, but
also anxious for me to finish so we can....Anyway,
case in point for laying back and being cool. Guys
out there, take full advantage of your opportunity
to learn, and it will come. (I crack myself up).
Thanks Dave, L from MI.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, you crack me up, too.
So you're telling me that guys in their 40's
who don't have much success with women can LEARN
how to meet 22-year-old bartenders who get hit on
all night every night by 100 guys?
You don't say?
Yeah, I actually think that waitresses,
dancers, and bartenders are some of the EASIEST
women to meet. It's taken me a long time to
realize that, by the way.
I think the secret is that these women meet SO
many men... and almost every single one of those
men is a certifiable jackass WUSSY... and when
they meet a guy who actually knows how to
communicate on a level that triggers ATTRACTION,
he REALLY stands out.
Yeah, go figure.
By the way, if you're ready for the ULTIMATE
education in approaching women, starting
conversations, getting emails and numbers, and
turning them into DATES... then you MUST check out
my new "Approaching Women" DVD/CD program.
We're talking about TEN HOURS of live training
on the most critical skill YOU need to learn.
If you go watch a few minutes of the video
previews on my web site, you'll learn a ton. Check
them out here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
You mentioned something in your email that I
think is a VERY important point...
You mentioned that it's CRUCIAL to incorporate
ALL of the elements when dealing with women.
I couldn't agree more.
In fact, I think it's so vitally important that
I have created an advanced program to actually go
over ALL of the key elements of meeting and dating
women... and to teach any guy everything he needs
to know to meet and date women.
Isn't that generous of me?
It's called my "Advanced Dating Techniques"
program, and it includes over 12 full hours of
digitally recorded and edited audio or video of me
teaching all of my best concepts and techniques.
Right now you can order it for a trial
period... with absolutely zero risk. If you don't
like it, you don't pay. If you do like it, you'll
be charged in three easy monthly payments.
I want you to learn all of the secrets that
it's taken me YEARS and YEARS to figure out. And I
want you to have the kind of success that you've
always wanted with women. But no one is going to
do it for you...
All the details, plus some great free samples
are here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
...and if you haven't read my eBook "Double
Your Dating", then you need to go and download it
RIGHT NOW. It's a great introduction to my
concepts and techniques. You can download it right
now, and be reading it within a few minutes. It's
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Take a few minutes and look at the entire
list of programs I've create to help you learn
how to meet women. You can see them all, plus
watch some great video clips of each of them
right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
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