Why Paying For Dinner Is A BAD Thing

Why Paying For Dinner Is A BAD Thing

It's a FACT: right now, most single women are
feeling frustrated and unsatisfied with the men
they're meeting. That in mind, I have to ask you...
WHY AREN'T YOU TAKING ADVANTAGE
OF THIS SITUATION?
If you're still "sitting on the bench," there can
only be 2 possible reasons for it:
#1) You have so many women chasing you that
you don't even need to try.
Or...
#2) You're dealing with obstacles like anxiety, fear,
or lack of self-esteem that
destroy your chances of success before you even
get started.
If #2 sounds like you, I'm here to tell you that you can
CHANGE EVERYTHING RIGHT NOW...
and it's easier than you think.
Learn why here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame/

***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

I have a question concerning dating and when/when
not to pay for stuff. At what point (if any)
should I pay for both of us when dating? I don't
want to get the woman into the mindset of
"courtship." What should a man pay for when he's
dating?

"DOUBLE YOUR DATING" has changed me for the
better. I look forward to getting your advance
dating series.

Sincerely,

M.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    This is a common dilemma that most men face...

    "To pay or not to pay, that is the question."

    Here are some of the problems that "paying"
creates:

1. It sets you up as the one who is "pursuing" the
woman, which symbolically gives away your power to
her.

2. It can be expensive.

3. It usually causes women to play even "harder to
get".

4. It triggers all kinds of "courtship" behaviors.
Like her making you prove yourself, waiting to
have sex, etc.

5. The places you'll be going to "pay" are often
not the best places to actually get to know
another human being.   Movies, fancy dinners, etc.,
aren't natural environments and they don't lead to
people "being themselves".

    So, what's the alternative?

    Well, the FIRST thing you should do is CHANGE
THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT "DATING"... and "paying".

    Most guys just naturally assume that if they're
"taking a girl out" that they need to take her to
a show or movie, a nice dinner, etc.

    And by the way, this is actually part of a much
BIGGER issue... that most guys feel OBLIGATED to
give things to women, buy them things... and
basically PAY for their attention and affection.
If you've got a "bad" case of this, then I
recommend that you get your hands on a copy of my
"Deep Inner Game" program. It will help you change
all of that BAD programming, and build a self
image and a powerful self confidence that will
make women feel more NATURALLY attracted to you.
Details are here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame/

    Of course, these are basically the WORST places
to go with a woman in the beginning because, as I
mentioned above, they aren't very "natural" places
to be.

    Instead of asking a woman "out to dinner", try
this...

    When you're talking on the phone about getting
together say, "Let's meet for a cup of tea. This
way, if YOU turn out to be a complete freak, I can
run away easily."

    This will get a laugh, and it will get her
thinking to herself, "Wow, this guy is qualifying
ME."

    Also, suggest a place that's close to your
house, in case you want to invite her over
afterward.

    When you meet for tea, actually drink tea (or
iced tea).   Because coffee makes your breath nasty
and tea is perceived as a more "classy" drink.
It's also cheaper than a latte or a mocha.

    After you have tea for 30 or 60 minutes, decide
how YOU like HER. If you want to continue say
either:

    "Hey, let's keep talking. I want to shop for a
bit, come along."

    ...or...

    "Hey, let's keep talking. Where are you parked?
You can follow me..." (to your place, of course).

    In either case, just assume that she will go
along with whatever you're doing, and she almost
always will if you're doing a good job of being
Cocky & Funny and keeping her attention.

    If you do go out "shopping", go to a funky
alternative neighborhood that has tattoo shops,
record stores, ethnic food restaurants, etc. Every
city has an area like this, so go there.

    These places are SO GREAT because they have fun
and interesting conversation BUILT RIGHT IN.

    If things are going well, and you're enjoying
the time with her, you can then have her follow
you over to your place. Again, just tell her that
you're enjoying the conversation, and that you'd
like to continue... and for her to follow you.

    Total expense (if you pay for her tea and
yours):

    A few bucks.

    How much better is this than taking her out to
an expensive meal and trying to have a normal
conversation across a table while being forced to
look right at each other all night?

    You do the math.

    If you actually do a little creative thinking,
you can figure out ALL KINDS of great things to do
that cost little or no money at all when you go
out with women.

    Extra bonus:

    When you don't do "normal" dating things, women
will tend to play "hard to get" less.   They'll
expect less in the way of gifts and money spent on
them and they'll actually HAVE MORE FUN.

    Really.

    You mentioned above that you're going to be
getting my Advanced Dating Techniques CD Program.
Good choice!

    It contains a workbook and about 18 HOURS of
digitally recorded and edited audio and/or video
that's JAM PACKED WITH HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS of
great techniques for approaching, dating, and
getting physical with women.

    The guest interviews alone are priceless.

    Of course, it comes with my "try it before you
buy it" no-risk guarantee.

    If you're not THRILLED with it, just send it
back to me and you won't be charged at all.

    In fact, I'll send it to you and even pay the
shipping, just to let you TRY it out. I'm serious.

    I know it's going to help you meet women. Go
to:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/

    ...for the details.

    And if you're reading this right now, and you
haven't yet downloaded my online eBook "Double
Your Dating", you really need to get a copy. It's
the foundation for everything I teach in these
newsletters, and it will make EVERYTHING about
women and dating make more sense.

It's at...

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/

    I'll talk to you again soon.

         Your Friend,

         David D.

P.S. Do NOT forget to check out all of my other
great programs, each one designed to teach you a
specific area of success with women and dating.
They're all here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/






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Hey Man,

    Today I have a painful confession to make.

    Deep breath. Here goes...

    There was a time I didn't think much of
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    I know, hard to believe. But one of my biggest
mistakes rising from dating zero to being able to
attract women in any situation was my ignorance
about putting the web to work for me.

    In fact, I never even CONSIDERED online
dating to be a "real" way to meet women... until
I watched a good friend of mine start meeting one
after another using the web.

    Soon they were pinging him in droves. He was
taking his pick of the crop. Juggling more dates
than he knew what to do with.

    So, being a sane and rational guy, I had to
ask myself:

    WHY AM I MISSING OUT ON ALL OF THIS?

    Was I lazy? After all, mastering online dating
meant learning a whole new skill set. Getting
familiar with a bunch of sites, social networks,
chat groups, etc, that I knew nothing about.

    Was I skeptical? After all, most guys who meet
women online have trouble transitioning those
relationships into the "real world." And that's
the only place, as far as I'm concerned, that
they really count.

    Or maybe I was just doing well enough meeting
women in the real world that I didn't think
plugging into cyberspace was necessary.

    But looking back, I realize it was probably a
little of "all the above." And the painful thing
for me to admit is this:

    I could literally kick myself for all the time
I wasted, the great women I missed out on, before
I finally jumped online.

    I mean, it literally HURTS to think about it.

    The good news is, once I learned just a FEW
SIMPLE SECRETS, it changed EVERYTHING that I
thought I knew about online dating. And soon
there was just no ignoring it anymore:

    ONLINE DATING IS ABSOLUTELY THE BEST WAY TO
MEET WOMEN

    I discovered I could use everything I already
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system that WORKED EVERY TIME, with absolutely NO
ADDITIONAL EFFORT.

    And after that, the whole thing took on a life
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possibly handle.

    In fact, I was lining up 4 TIMES MORE than I
was getting the "old-school" way. Better yet, I
was meeting exactly the kind of women I wanted to
meet (not just whoever I happened to cross paths
with that day) because *I* was the one selecting
*them*.

    I met the women I considered the most
physically beautiful. I met the smartest women. I
met business women, "regular" women, actresses,
models and dancers.

    (Full disclosure: I even met my last two
long-term girlfriends online.)

    And best of all I was doing it all from the
comfort of home.

    Today, the GOOD NEWS for you is: you don't
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wheel, because I already have.

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    It's called "MEETING WOMEN ONLINE," and it
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    Using my "MEETING WOMEN ONLINE" program
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--How to avoid the BIGGEST MISTAKE men make
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--How long to wait before answering a woman's
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--The one thing NO MAN SHOULD EVER REVEAL about
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    You'll also hear about...

--How to get an avalanche of phone numbers
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--How to handle that critical, first "live" phone
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--How to convert your online connections into
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    My goal was to bring it all together for you,
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    In my "Meeting Women Online" program, you'll
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--"showcase" your flaws in just the right way
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--add an irresistible "bad boy element" to your
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    And so much more.

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    From word-for-word messages you can
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    That's it for now. Can't wait to hear how my
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getting your game on. ONLINE.


         Your friend,


         David D.


PS:   While I'm thinking about it, here's
something that blew my mind when I first heard it.
Did you know that there's ONE SIMPLE SENTENCE you
can add to the bottom of ANY email that makes a
woman TWICE AS LIKELY to respond? Learn about it
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline/

PPS: I'm sure this program will get you more
dates than you can handle, so I   want you to try
it FREE For 30 Days. If you like it, keep it. But
if you decide it's not for you, just send it back
and you'll pay NOTHING.

What do you have to lose - except all the women
you should be meeting online RIGHT NOW...






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