Why "Cocky & Funny" Attracts Women
QUICK QUESTION: Have you tried out using the
Cocky & Funny technique with women, and you really
liked the results? Would you like to learn how to
MASTER the technique, and create SUPER attraction
with women? If so, then I want you to take a
minute and look at THIS:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/
WHY THE COCKY & FUNNY ATTITUDE IS ATTRACTIVE TO
WOMEN... AND HOW TO USE IT
I get a lot of email from guys who don't quite
get the Cocky & Funny attitude.
It just doesn't make sense to some guys that
teasing women, busting their balls, being slightly
arrogant, not kissing up to them, etc., could or
should make them feel attraction.
I can understand this because I was exactly the
same way the first few times I heard it and saw it
being used.
I kept thinking to myself, "If I do this cocky
and funny thing, I'm only going to come across as
arrogant... and that can't make women like me
more."
Well, was I wrong.
You must always remember that ATTRACTION isn't
logical. It doesn't follow the rules that it
"should" follow. ATTRACTION is a very powerful
emotion that has reasons and triggers that don't
make any sense at first glance...
I'm sure you've seen many attractive women with
guys who mistreat them, abuse them, and were
exactly the opposite of what you'd expect a woman
to accept.
Why?
ATTRACTION. In the beginning she felt
attraction, and as bad as it may sound, almost no
amount of being "bad", abusive, or jerk-ish can
convince a woman, feeling a strong attraction to a
guy, to leave.
So let me take the opportunity to talk a bit
about the Cocky & Funny attitude, why it works,
and how to use it to attract women (without having
to be an abusive jerk).
First of all, you have to remember that the
formula is Cocky PLUS Funny. Always both.
If you act too cocky, you'll only come off as
arrogant and insecure.
If you're just funny, always telling jokes, and
making people laugh, you will probably come across
as "too goofy."
But if you use BOTH together, you will create
magic. Cocky + Funny is like sparring... it's
sport... it's fun... it's challenging... it's
interesting when used with skill.
So let's get clear about what "Cocky + Funny"
is.
Here's a cocky statement:
"Her dress makes her look fat."
Here's a Cocky + Funny statement:
"If she doesn't find a dress that fits better, the
fashion police are going to send in the SWAT team
for her ass."
Get it?
Start with arrogance, then add humor.
So why does it work to attract women?
Well, the short (email-newsletter size) answer
is:
COCKY AND FUNNY ATTRACTS WOMEN BECAUSE IT QUICKLY
AND DIRECTLY SAYS ALL THE RIGHT THINGS ABOUT YOU.
Women are attracted to "alpha male" types - We
all know that. Women are attracted to a sense of
humor. We all know that one too.
Women AREN'T attracted to men who give away
their power, kiss up to them, smother them with
attention, act like whipped puppies, and get
nervous just being in the same room with them.
And by the way, giving away power to women is a
much more complex topic than using humor, etc. If
you have a problem giving away your power to
women, or becoming a "Wussbag" when you're around
a woman that you like, then you need to try THIS:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan/
If you meet an attractive woman, and
IMMEDIATELY start giving her a hard time about
something, busting on her, and having fun, it
basically says to her:
"You are interesting enough to talk to, but
you're going to have to do a lot more than just
look good to impress me. Your beauty doesn't make
me nervous in the least, I'm perfectly calm, and
in fact, I'm so comfortable that I just noticed
something about you that I'm going to make fun
of..."
There is no faster way on earth to communicate
all the right attitudes, beliefs, self-image,
comfort, confidence, and power than to be Cocky +
Funny.
(Except maybe to put on a perfect Brad Pitt
costume.)
Once you start using this attitude, you will be
totally astounded at the results.
Here's a low-risk example:
Next time you're at the grocery store in the
checkout line paying for your groceries, say:
"So how much of this cash do you get to keep?"
(as you hand her the money)
She'll probably laugh and say: "None... I
wish."
To which you can respond with:
"Oh, I figured you were pocketing 10 or 20%...
I assumed you were rich and could support me, but
now I'm not interested... I want a rich girl."
(Turn up your nose.)
This is a great one. It's always fun to ask a
woman if she's rich or famous, then when she says
that she's not, tell her that it messed up her
chances with you, and that you're not interested
anymore.
One of the keys to the Cocky + Funny attitude
is to never "crack." If she opens her mouth and
gives you the "I can't believe you just said that"
look, you need to turn it up a notch...
Most guys will crack and say "Oh, I was just
kidding."
DON'T DO THAT! It makes you look like a wussy.
In the example above, if the checker looks at
you and gives you the open mouthed "I can't
believe you said that" look and says, "Hey! I may
not be rich, but I'm nice!", you just look at her
and say "Nice isn't good enough, I need RICH AND
nice."
Your goal is not to upset a woman, but to get
under her skin enough by teasing, busting on her,
and acting cocky and funny so that it ignites the
magical challenge/attraction mechanism.
And once you can see that you're getting a good
response from a woman, GET HER NUMBER. Or get her
email. Don't stand around like a dork trying to
make her laugh.
As you become better and better with these
tools, you can then begin "extending" the
conversation... increasing the attraction... and
taking things to the "next level."
So get out there and use it, because the magic
formula of Cocky + Funny will create all kinds of
good things for you. You'll see.
And if you're reading this right now and
thinking to yourself "I really need to learn how
to master this Cocky & Funny thing", then I
AGREE!
In fact, learning how to be Cocky & Funny is
one of the FASTEST, EASIEST, and MOST FUN ways you
can make women feel ATTRACTION for you.
If you'd like to get a "fast track" education
on Cocky & Funny, then I HIGHLY recommend that you
check out my Cocky Comedy DVD/CD program.
This program features me and several amazing
guest speakers teaching you STEP-BY-STEP how to
master the technique... along with DOZENS and
DOZENS of specific Cocky & Funny "lines" and
"comebacks" for every situation you can imagine.
Go watch some of the preview video clips, and
see for yourself how valuable this program is:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/
Another skill you need to learn is how to use
your BODY LANGUAGE to trigger and increase
ATTRACTION with women. As you've probably heard, I
recently released an entire DVD program on this
exact topic.
Just like my Cocky Comedy program, this is a
cutting-edge education that isn't available
ANYWHERE else... at ANY price.
Using tools like Cocky Comedy and Body Language
to attract women has MANY advantages. You don't
have to buy women gifts, you don't have to chase
after them... and you don't have to take them out
to dinner hoping that they'll "magically" feel it
for you because they appreciate the food so much.
Just like my Cocky Comedy program, I've put up
a set of preview video clips for you to watch...
and I think you need to go check them out right
now. They're here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage/
Oh, and if you haven't taken the time to
download my online eBook "Double Your Dating",
then you need to go and do that RIGHT NOW. You can
download it and be reading it within a few
minutes. Go and download it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
I'll talk to you again soon,
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. You should also take a minute and look at the
other programs I've created to help you learn how
to attract and meet women. You can see them all,
plus watch video clips of them right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
--------------------------------------------------
Copyright 2010 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. By
reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as "professional advice". You are responsible for
any use of the information in this email, and hold
David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
link at the end, and remove yourself, or to take
yourself off of our list, you can send mail to
"DDMI" 3960 Howard Hughes Pkwy, 5th Floor Las
Vegas, NV 89109.
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QUICK QUESTION: Have you tried out using the
Cocky & Funny technique with women, and you really
liked the results? Would you like to learn how to
MASTER the technique, and create SUPER attraction
with women? If so, then I want you to take a
minute and look at THIS:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/
WHY THE COCKY & FUNNY ATTITUDE IS ATTRACTIVE TO
WOMEN... AND HOW TO USE IT
I get a lot of email from guys who don't quite
get the Cocky & Funny attitude.
It just doesn't make sense to some guys that
teasing women, busting their balls, being slightly
arrogant, not kissing up to them, etc., could or
should make them feel attraction.
I can understand this because I was exactly the
same way the first few times I heard it and saw it
being used.
I kept thinking to myself, "If I do this cocky
and funny thing, I'm only going to come across as
arrogant... and that can't make women like me
more."
Well, was I wrong.
You must always remember that ATTRACTION isn't
logical. It doesn't follow the rules that it
"should" follow. ATTRACTION is a very powerful
emotion that has reasons and triggers that don't
make any sense at first glance...
I'm sure you've seen many attractive women with
guys who mistreat them, abuse them, and were
exactly the opposite of what you'd expect a woman
to accept.
Why?
ATTRACTION. In the beginning she felt
attraction, and as bad as it may sound, almost no
amount of being "bad", abusive, or jerk-ish can
convince a woman, feeling a strong attraction to a
guy, to leave.
So let me take the opportunity to talk a bit
about the Cocky & Funny attitude, why it works,
and how to use it to attract women (without having
to be an abusive jerk).
First of all, you have to remember that the
formula is Cocky PLUS Funny. Always both.
If you act too cocky, you'll only come off as
arrogant and insecure.
If you're just funny, always telling jokes, and
making people laugh, you will probably come across
as "too goofy."
But if you use BOTH together, you will create
magic. Cocky + Funny is like sparring... it's
sport... it's fun... it's challenging... it's
interesting when used with skill.
So let's get clear about what "Cocky + Funny"
is.
Here's a cocky statement:
"Her dress makes her look fat."
Here's a Cocky + Funny statement:
"If she doesn't find a dress that fits better, the
fashion police are going to send in the SWAT team
for her ass."
Get it?
Start with arrogance, then add humor.
So why does it work to attract women?
Well, the short (email-newsletter size) answer
is:
COCKY AND FUNNY ATTRACTS WOMEN BECAUSE IT QUICKLY
AND DIRECTLY SAYS ALL THE RIGHT THINGS ABOUT YOU.
Women are attracted to "alpha male" types - We
all know that. Women are attracted to a sense of
humor. We all know that one too.
Women AREN'T attracted to men who give away
their power, kiss up to them, smother them with
attention, act like whipped puppies, and get
nervous just being in the same room with them.
And by the way, giving away power to women is a
much more complex topic than using humor, etc. If
you have a problem giving away your power to
women, or becoming a "Wussbag" when you're around
a woman that you like, then you need to try THIS:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan/
If you meet an attractive woman, and
IMMEDIATELY start giving her a hard time about
something, busting on her, and having fun, it
basically says to her:
"You are interesting enough to talk to, but
you're going to have to do a lot more than just
look good to impress me. Your beauty doesn't make
me nervous in the least, I'm perfectly calm, and
in fact, I'm so comfortable that I just noticed
something about you that I'm going to make fun
of..."
There is no faster way on earth to communicate
all the right attitudes, beliefs, self-image,
comfort, confidence, and power than to be Cocky +
Funny.
(Except maybe to put on a perfect Brad Pitt
costume.)
Once you start using this attitude, you will be
totally astounded at the results.
Here's a low-risk example:
Next time you're at the grocery store in the
checkout line paying for your groceries, say:
"So how much of this cash do you get to keep?"
(as you hand her the money)
She'll probably laugh and say: "None... I
wish."
To which you can respond with:
"Oh, I figured you were pocketing 10 or 20%...
I assumed you were rich and could support me, but
now I'm not interested... I want a rich girl."
(Turn up your nose.)
This is a great one. It's always fun to ask a
woman if she's rich or famous, then when she says
that she's not, tell her that it messed up her
chances with you, and that you're not interested
anymore.
One of the keys to the Cocky + Funny attitude
is to never "crack." If she opens her mouth and
gives you the "I can't believe you just said that"
look, you need to turn it up a notch...
Most guys will crack and say "Oh, I was just
kidding."
DON'T DO THAT! It makes you look like a wussy.
In the example above, if the checker looks at
you and gives you the open mouthed "I can't
believe you said that" look and says, "Hey! I may
not be rich, but I'm nice!", you just look at her
and say "Nice isn't good enough, I need RICH AND
nice."
Your goal is not to upset a woman, but to get
under her skin enough by teasing, busting on her,
and acting cocky and funny so that it ignites the
magical challenge/attraction mechanism.
And once you can see that you're getting a good
response from a woman, GET HER NUMBER. Or get her
email. Don't stand around like a dork trying to
make her laugh.
As you become better and better with these
tools, you can then begin "extending" the
conversation... increasing the attraction... and
taking things to the "next level."
So get out there and use it, because the magic
formula of Cocky + Funny will create all kinds of
good things for you. You'll see.
And if you're reading this right now and
thinking to yourself "I really need to learn how
to master this Cocky & Funny thing", then I
AGREE!
In fact, learning how to be Cocky & Funny is
one of the FASTEST, EASIEST, and MOST FUN ways you
can make women feel ATTRACTION for you.
If you'd like to get a "fast track" education
on Cocky & Funny, then I HIGHLY recommend that you
check out my Cocky Comedy DVD/CD program.
This program features me and several amazing
guest speakers teaching you STEP-BY-STEP how to
master the technique... along with DOZENS and
DOZENS of specific Cocky & Funny "lines" and
"comebacks" for every situation you can imagine.
Go watch some of the preview video clips, and
see for yourself how valuable this program is:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/
Another skill you need to learn is how to use
your BODY LANGUAGE to trigger and increase
ATTRACTION with women. As you've probably heard, I
recently released an entire DVD program on this
exact topic.
Just like my Cocky Comedy program, this is a
cutting-edge education that isn't available
ANYWHERE else... at ANY price.
Using tools like Cocky Comedy and Body Language
to attract women has MANY advantages. You don't
have to buy women gifts, you don't have to chase
after them... and you don't have to take them out
to dinner hoping that they'll "magically" feel it
for you because they appreciate the food so much.
Just like my Cocky Comedy program, I've put up
a set of preview video clips for you to watch...
and I think you need to go check them out right
now. They're here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage/
Oh, and if you haven't taken the time to
download my online eBook "Double Your Dating",
then you need to go and do that RIGHT NOW. You can
download it and be reading it within a few
minutes. Go and download it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
I'll talk to you again soon,
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. You should also take a minute and look at the
other programs I've created to help you learn how
to attract and meet women. You can see them all,
plus watch video clips of them right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
--------------------------------------------------
Copyright 2010 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. By
reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as "professional advice". You are responsible for
any use of the information in this email, and hold
David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
link at the end, and remove yourself, or to take
yourself off of our list, you can send mail to
"DDMI" 3960 Howard Hughes Pkwy, 5th Floor Las
Vegas, NV 89109.
__________________________________________________
To ensure that you get my Dating Tips Newsletters each week,
add me to your address book. Instructions are here:
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______________________________________________________________
If you have a question about these newsletters or anything else
related to Double Your Dating, chances are it has already
been answered on my Frequently Asked Questions page. This is usually
the quickest way to get the answers you need, so always check my FAQ's
before sending us an email.
Contact Us
View our permission marketing policy:
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