If you're like 99% of guys, you won't even TRY to
approach a "hot" woman because you think you'll
BLOW IT. That you'll be EMBARRASSED and
HUMILIATED.
But here's the REAL TRUTH:
Learn just a few SIMPLE, FAIL-PROOF TECHNIQUES,
and you can approach ANY woman you want...
ANY TIME... ANYWHERE... and get mind-blowing
RESULTS.
Everything you need to know is right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
Dear Man,
Something's been bothering me...
I'm talking toss-and-turn, up-all-night
bothering me.
It's just this:
I hear from SO many men who have SO many
problems approaching attractive women.
And in the end, they all share just one thing
in common...
They're AFRAID of rejection.
They EXPECT to fail, so they won't even try.
It's a "self-fulfilling prophecy" and a TOTAL
DISASTER...
These guys are doomed to NEVER experience what
it's like to be with a hot woman!
Just tragic.
But here's the part that REALLY has me up at
night...
All of their fear is COMPLETELY UNNECESSARY.
There.
I said it.
I feel better already.
Maybe now I can stop crying myself to sleep
every night...
But seriously... the REAL question is...
WHY do so many men feel this way?
In reality, what do they think is going to
happen if they walk up to a super-hot woman and
try to start a conversation?
Do they think she'll scream and run?
Do they think she'll slam them upside-the head
with an Aquafina bottle?
Are they afraid she'll laugh and point and
call her friends over to see the freaky "wuss"
that dared to talk to her?
Well, as the famous shrink once said, the word
"fear" really stands for this:
False.
Evidence.
Appearing.
Real.
Get it?
It still holds true.
Yet every time I talk to guys about this, it's
always the same...
They're SCARED TO DEATH they'll blow it if
they even try to approach a woman.
In other words... most men EXPECT negative
outcomes. And they don't CONSCIOUSLY REALIZE that
they're sabotaging themselves for no good reason.
Don't believe me?
Let's do a little exercise to prove it...
Take a moment and imagine a smoking-hot woman.
Go all out.
Think about the kind of woman you might see in
a bar or club, maybe at a coffee house or
supermarket... wherever... that you INSTANTLY
wish you could meet.
She has that killer look... the way she
carries herself... the body... the smile that
makes your heart pound and palms sweat.
Now... imagine walking toward her.
In a moment, you'll have to open your mouth.
You'll have to actually SAY something to her.
Okay... now you're next to her.
And remember -- this woman is HOT. So
drop-dead gorgeous, there's already a
Brad-Pitt-looking dude coming this way with a
big, cheesy smile.
But right now it's your turn... you have just
ONE CHANCE to talk to this woman before Brad gets
here.
Now FREEZE this moment.
Think about how YOU feel.
And predict, in all honesty, what's likely to
happen next.
Now, I'm no mind-reader... but let me guess
what you're thinking...
You're thinking that EVERYTHING IS ABOUT TO GO
WRONG.
That you're about to BLOW IT and lose this
woman (as usual) to Brad.
And you know what?
You're exactly right.
For most guys, "negative expectations" like
these TAKE OVER their minds in this scenario...
so much that they can't even IMAGINE a positive
outcome!
And guess what...
Once upon a time... I couldn't imagine
"success" either.
In fact, I spent YEARS trying to overcome my
fear and shyness.
See if you can relate to this...
You see a woman you want to meet in a bar or
club, maybe at a coffee house or supermarket...
wherever.
She just has "that" look. A way about her that
makes your heart beat faster. Your palms sweat.
Then what happens?
If you're like I used to be, you immediately
go into "IF ONLY" world.
You start FANTASIZING...
IF ONLY I could meet this woman.
IF ONLY I could talk to her without sounding
like a dork or wuss.
IF ONLY I could make her smile at me like she
smiles at Brad-Pitt-looking dudes.
IF ONLY I could feel her hand wrap around mine
and lead me back to her bedroom.
Point is... you see this woman, and you want
all this, but you literally feel like there's a
WALL between you and her.
One so tall and thick that you can't even get
yourself to walk in her direction... let alone
start a conversation with her.
This sensation sucks.
Like I said... I'VE BEEN THERE.
But after taking the time to watch and learn
from the "naturals" -- the kind of men who know
exactly what to say and do to SUCCEED with
women -- I discovered my biggest mistake was
simply this:
I had NO IDEA how to overcome my FEAR.
I had no idea about the #1 WAY to start having
IMMEDIATE, mind-blowing success with women.
And that is:
Just TRY.
Yup. You heard me.
It's so basic, it hurts.
TRY.
It's kindergarten when it comes to becoming
successful with women.
The ONE AND ONLY way to turbocharge your
success with women RIGHT NOW is to START TRYING.
In fact, I recommend you learn much more about
the GUARANTEED POWER of "just trying" right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
But for now, what I REALLY want to talk about
when it comes to "trying" is this:
What YOU'RE busy doing INSTEAD.
If you're like 99% of guys...
...you're doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
When you see a woman you'd like to meet... you
WISH... and you WANT... and you FANTASIZE...
...and then DO NOTHING.
What SHOULD you be doing?
You should be looking at EVERY woman you want
to meet as an opportunity... a chance to work on
yourself and your "skills"... instead of looking
at her as an impossible challenge.
When you teach yourself to think about things
this way, you become less attached to the
outcome... you become more relaxed...
...and more able to TAKE ACTION.
Look at it this way...
If you just TRY -- just go up to a woman and
open your mouth and say something -- ANYTHING AT
ALL -- you're already doing more than 99% of
guys.
Now look... there's no doubt that starting
conversations with hot women can be a nerve-
racking experience.
In fact, most guys are so intimidated that
they avoid them altogether... and miss out on
SURE-FIRE opportunities to CHANGE THEIR LIVES
almost every day.
And that's where BEING PREPARED comes in.
When I talk about "being prepared," I am NOT
talking about having cheesy "pick up lines" ready
to unleash at the drop of a hat.
In fact, guys don't realize that their lame
attempts to get a woman's attention this way are
actually TOTALLY DESTROYING their chances with
them.
They don't realize what they're saying and
doing give women an INSTANT NEGATIVE IMPRESSION.
Even worse... these guys are making it
IMPOSSIBLE for these women to feel ATTRACTION.
And, as you know, it's the basis of
everything I teach... ATTRACTION IS THE WHOLE
BALLGAME.
That's why, if the first impression you make
on a woman is that you're a WUSSY... then it
doesn't MATTER what you say and do next.
She's NEVER going to feel any ATTRACTION for
you.
And then it's GAME OVER.
So... how do you create the RIGHT first
impression immediately -- and trigger INSTANT
ATTRACTION?
I can tell you this:
It takes a whole lot more than cheesy
"pick-up" lines.
The fact is, it takes a PROVEN SYSTEM for
approaching women in EXACTLY the right way and
starting conversations.
It requires making the whole PROCESS so
"second nature" to you that you don't even have
think about it.
And once you can do that, I GUARANTEE IT:
You'll NEVER feel that sickening "IF ONLY"
feeling when you see a hot woman you'd like to meet.
You'll always have the confidence you need to
TAKE ACTION instead of "wishing" and "wanting."
Most importantly -- as you approach her,
you'll ALWAYS come across as calm, cool, and
in-control.
And all of this ADDS UP to ONE THING:
INSTANT ATTRACTION.
Period.
So what's the bottom line here?
It's this:
The BEST WAY to get this part of your life
handled for good is to stop making excuses.
Stop the "She'll never go for me" and the
"She'll think I'm a loser" and the "I don't want
to bother her"...
...and START TRYING.
That in mind, I have a few questions for
you...
--Do YOU want to kick your fears of approaching
women to the curb forever?
--Do YOU want carry the SKILLS you need (to
approach ANY woman you want) right in your back
pocket?
--Do YOU want to know EXACTLY what to say and do
to spark attraction INSTANTLY?
If you answered "YES" to any of the above,
then there's no two ways about it... You're
ready to stop the "IF ONLY's"... and START
getting results with amazing women.
Here's how I want to help you make it
happen... I want to teach you 4 things:
#1) How to read a woman's signals to know EXACTLY
when to approach her.
#2) How to come off BETTER than every other guy
who's ever done it.
#3) How to do it at EXACTLY the right time.
#4) What you must SAY and DO to GUARANTEE
SUCCESS.
And. in my acclaimed "Approaching Women And
Starting Conversations" DVD program, all of this
*exactly* what I'm going to teach you.
Best of all, you'll learn it all (and much,
much more) so QUICKLY and EASILY you'll be
kicking yourself for waiting so long to do it.
This complete DVD home-study course is
designed to CHANGE EVERYTHING you think and feel
about approaching women.
It's designed to ELIMINATE YOUR FEARS for good
-- and replace them with the FAIL-PROOF SKILLS
you need to make SUCCESS WITH WOMEN a permanent
part of your life.
Once you do just that much, I GUARANTEE IT:
Like magic, instead of women INSTANTLY
REJECTING YOU... they'll BEG to spend more time
with you.
Ready to make this one happen?
Excellent. Then click here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
Your friend,
David D.
PS - Did you know there's a simple, "magic" thing
you can do RIGHT NOW that will INSTANTLY TRIPLE
your chances of success when you a approach a
woman?
I can teach it you in just 30 seconds -- along
with TONS of other "magic tricks" that will
practically FORCE a woman to respond positively
to you -- but only if you click here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
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