Attraction And How It Works With Women
>If you love the topic of attraction, and you'd
like to get my most in-depth thinking about it,
then go and read THIS:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook/
Our topic this week is ATTRACTION.
Before you read further, I'd like you to take a
minute and think about what the word ATTRACTION
means to you.
By the way, I'm talking about the romantic
concept of ATTRACTION... not gravitational
attraction, etc.
If you can, WRITE DOWN exactly what you think
the word ATTRACTION means. The process of writing
down your thoughts helps you to organize them (I
recommend that you also keep a journal of your
experiences as you improve in this area of your
life). There are no right or wrong answers here,
so think about it for a few minutes...
ACTUALLY WRITE YOUR THOUGHTS DOWN.
...
...
...
OK, did you do that? Nice.
So what did you come up with?
A lot of guys seem to think that ATTRACTION is
when one person wants what another person has.
Some think of ATTRACTION as the result of being
good-looking or otherwise "attractive." In fact, I
think a LOT of people confuse ATTRACTION with
"attractive."
When I think of the concept of ATTRACTION, I
think of it primarily as an EMOTION. It seems to
me that it's more a COMBINATION of powerful
emotions that come together to form a very, very
special new SUPER-emotion.
However you think about it, there is a process
that happens that keeps men and women getting
together to have sex...
You are reading this right now, which is a
miracle.
Think of the thousands upon thousands of
generations of ancestors that you have had... and
think about the fact that NOT ONE OF THEM DIED A
VIRGIN.
And not one of them died in childhood.
And then think about the fact that you beat out
about five hundred MILLION other sperm-racers to
get to the egg first.
You are the result of, and represent, probably
the most amazing process I have ever heard of.
One of the parts of this process that
fascinates me is how each pair of your ancestors
decided to get together with THAT PARTICULAR
PERSON at THAT PARTICULAR TIME.
I know that some people will be upset that I'm
talking about this whole concept in such an
analytical, detached way... women in particular
seem to love the fantasy of two people being "soul
mates" and "knowing that your special someone is
out there" and "it just happening."
If you're one of those people, stop reading
now! lol...
After working on this area of my own personal
life for a few years, and trying all kinds of
techniques, it finally dawned on me that
ATTRACTION WAS BASICALLY EVERYTHING.
If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, then
nothing else really matters.
Looks, age, nationality, wealth, religion,
personal loss, peer pressure from friends and
family... none of it matters!
On the other hand, if a women DOESN'T feel
ATTRACTION for a man, then nothing else matters in
that case either!
You can't "talk" a woman into feeling
ATTRACTION, any more than you can "talk" a person
who hasn't eaten for three days out of feeling
hungry.
I mean, if you really wanted to be fancy, you
could learn to be a hypnotist and talk them into
it that way...
But I'll tell you a little secret: Even THAT
isn't the best way to do things! (I actually know
several people who use this method of hypnotizing
women... and I haven't met one yet who could use
this technique alone to get women... there's
ALWAYS something else going on.)
What I'm trying to say is that one day it hit
me like a ton of bricks that ATTRACTION IS THE KEY
TO EVERYTHING WITH WOMEN!
If you don't know what it is or how to create
it, you'll wander around trying different
techniques... and probably never land on something
that works consistently.
And once I realized this, all kinds of things
that didn't make sense before INSTANTLY made sense
to me.
All of a sudden I realized why women dated
abusive jerks... ATTRACTION.
I realized why women dated men who were clearly
using them and cheating on them... ATTRACTION.
And I also saw the FLIP SIDE!
I realized why women pass up guys who are
honest, stable, attractive, and wonderful for
losers... ATTRACTION.
Think of ATTRACTION like a drug (which it
really is). If a woman is under the influence of
it, then she's gone. She'll do anything to get
more. One of the things that most fascinates me is
the "language" that triggers attraction inside of
women. I call it "Sexual Communication" and you
can learn all about it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/
If she's NOT under the influence, then YOU'RE
gone. Nothing you do will matter if she doesn't
feel it.
If you doubt what I'm saying, ask the next 10
SUPER HOT women you see what they think of this.
Read this newsletter to them, and watch their
reactions. You'll see.
OK, now that you've heard a little bit more of
my personal perspective, I'd like you to look back
into your life and think about all those
situations with women that made no sense at all...
Think about the women that you treated
wonderfully that passed you up for the jerks...
and think about all the women "friends" you had...
the ones who told you about how mean and
inconsiderate their boyfriends were... while you
looked at them thinking "I would kill my own
mother for just one date with you."
Is it all making sense now?
THEY DIDN'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU!
YOU WERE BEING A "NICE GUY" AND PROBABLY A
WUSSY BOY, AND YOU HAD NO IDEA THAT IT WAS HAVING
THE EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT OF WHAT YOU WANTED! AND
WORSE YET, THERE WASN'T A DAMN THING YOU COULD DO
ABOUT IT!
It's harsh to think about, but it's true. (By
the way, if you don't do something to learn how to
make women feel ATTRACTION, then most likely, this
is going to keep happening to you for the rest of
your life.)
I have to point out one more thing. As I
mentioned earlier, I think a lot of guys confuse
the idea of being "attractive" with the emotion
called ATTRACTION.
You can make a woman feel an INCREDIBLE
ATTRACTION, even though you're not what most
people would think of as "attractive." Of course,
you have to know how...
The point is that if you're not tall, handsome,
and dashing, you can LEARN how to make women feel
this wonderful emotion called ATTRACTION.
It's a skill. It's taken me YEARS to be able to
even talk about this stuff in simple terms like
this that makes sense, and it's taken me the same
time to figure out how a regular guy like you or I
can make women who we used to think of as "out of
our league," feel ATTRACTION for us.
How, you ask, can we do that?
Well, you've read about the technique called
"Cocky and Funny"... that's a part of it.
But there are several other pieces of the
puzzle, from voice tone and body language, to
specific ways to touch a woman to get her
physically turned on, and everything in between.
It's a system, and it all works together.
There are two KEY aspects of learning how to be
successful with women and dating:
1) The Inner Game
2) The Outer Game
The INNER GAME is all about learning how to
THINK and how to manage your thoughts and
emotions. It's also about understanding how and
why attractive women feel that amazing emotion
called ATTRACTION for some men, and not for MOST
men.
The OUTER GAME is all of the techniques, what
to say and such.
Which is more important?
Well, they're BOTH important.
But what I notice is that most guys want to
learn the OUTER GAME first.
In other words, they want pick-up lines, fancy
tricks, and other things.
I can remember when I first started learning
this stuff.
I had this idea in my mind that if I could
learn how to get women to give me their numbers
that I'd be the MAN.
Well, I learned that I can get just about any
woman's phone number in a few minutes.
But guess what?
Once I learned how to get women's phone
numbers, I ran into a much BIGGER issue... the
women usually flaked out on me, didn't show up,
etc.
And the ones that DID show up were difficult.
Nothing happened.
I realized that there had to be more.
And, as it turns out, there is... A LOT more,
in fact.
The REASON that the "Inner Game" is so
important, is that attractive women don't judge
you on your "pick-up lines."
And just because a woman gives you her phone
number or email address DOES NOT mean that she
FEELS anything inside (like ATTRACTION).
Women don't DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for a
man.
ATTRACTION is something that happens on its
own, for its own reasons.
Attraction Isn't A Choice!
The way to cause women to feel ATTRACTION for
you is to UNDERSTAND how and why it works, and
then communicate in a way that makes it happen.
In my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD
program, I spend several HOURS teaching "The Inner
Game"... all those things that help you get the
INSIDE together, so you can then get the OUTSIDE
together.
This stuff is CRITICAL to your success.
I wouldn't have taken all the time, effort, and
energy to put this together unless I thought it
was important.
If you want to overcome your challenges and
really take your success to the next level, then
you owe it to yourself to check it out.
It's here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
And if you haven't had a chance to download my
eBook "Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should
Know About How To Be Successful With Women," then
you need to do that now. You can download it and
be reading it within a few minutes...
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
If you've tried all kinds of techniques, and
nothing seems to "work," then you need to work on
your Inner Game. When you get the inner game
together, everything will start to work a LOT
better...
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. If you'd like to see all of the different
programs I've created to help you learn how to
meet women, take a minute and check this out:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
--------------------------------------------------
Copyright 2010 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. By
reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as "professional advice". You are responsible for
any use of the information in this email, and hold
David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
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>If you love the topic of attraction, and you'd
like to get my most in-depth thinking about it,
then go and read THIS:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook/
Our topic this week is ATTRACTION.
Before you read further, I'd like you to take a
minute and think about what the word ATTRACTION
means to you.
By the way, I'm talking about the romantic
concept of ATTRACTION... not gravitational
attraction, etc.
If you can, WRITE DOWN exactly what you think
the word ATTRACTION means. The process of writing
down your thoughts helps you to organize them (I
recommend that you also keep a journal of your
experiences as you improve in this area of your
life). There are no right or wrong answers here,
so think about it for a few minutes...
ACTUALLY WRITE YOUR THOUGHTS DOWN.
...
...
...
OK, did you do that? Nice.
So what did you come up with?
A lot of guys seem to think that ATTRACTION is
when one person wants what another person has.
Some think of ATTRACTION as the result of being
good-looking or otherwise "attractive." In fact, I
think a LOT of people confuse ATTRACTION with
"attractive."
When I think of the concept of ATTRACTION, I
think of it primarily as an EMOTION. It seems to
me that it's more a COMBINATION of powerful
emotions that come together to form a very, very
special new SUPER-emotion.
However you think about it, there is a process
that happens that keeps men and women getting
together to have sex...
You are reading this right now, which is a
miracle.
Think of the thousands upon thousands of
generations of ancestors that you have had... and
think about the fact that NOT ONE OF THEM DIED A
VIRGIN.
And not one of them died in childhood.
And then think about the fact that you beat out
about five hundred MILLION other sperm-racers to
get to the egg first.
You are the result of, and represent, probably
the most amazing process I have ever heard of.
One of the parts of this process that
fascinates me is how each pair of your ancestors
decided to get together with THAT PARTICULAR
PERSON at THAT PARTICULAR TIME.
I know that some people will be upset that I'm
talking about this whole concept in such an
analytical, detached way... women in particular
seem to love the fantasy of two people being "soul
mates" and "knowing that your special someone is
out there" and "it just happening."
If you're one of those people, stop reading
now! lol...
After working on this area of my own personal
life for a few years, and trying all kinds of
techniques, it finally dawned on me that
ATTRACTION WAS BASICALLY EVERYTHING.
If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, then
nothing else really matters.
Looks, age, nationality, wealth, religion,
personal loss, peer pressure from friends and
family... none of it matters!
On the other hand, if a women DOESN'T feel
ATTRACTION for a man, then nothing else matters in
that case either!
You can't "talk" a woman into feeling
ATTRACTION, any more than you can "talk" a person
who hasn't eaten for three days out of feeling
hungry.
I mean, if you really wanted to be fancy, you
could learn to be a hypnotist and talk them into
it that way...
But I'll tell you a little secret: Even THAT
isn't the best way to do things! (I actually know
several people who use this method of hypnotizing
women... and I haven't met one yet who could use
this technique alone to get women... there's
ALWAYS something else going on.)
What I'm trying to say is that one day it hit
me like a ton of bricks that ATTRACTION IS THE KEY
TO EVERYTHING WITH WOMEN!
If you don't know what it is or how to create
it, you'll wander around trying different
techniques... and probably never land on something
that works consistently.
And once I realized this, all kinds of things
that didn't make sense before INSTANTLY made sense
to me.
All of a sudden I realized why women dated
abusive jerks... ATTRACTION.
I realized why women dated men who were clearly
using them and cheating on them... ATTRACTION.
And I also saw the FLIP SIDE!
I realized why women pass up guys who are
honest, stable, attractive, and wonderful for
losers... ATTRACTION.
Think of ATTRACTION like a drug (which it
really is). If a woman is under the influence of
it, then she's gone. She'll do anything to get
more. One of the things that most fascinates me is
the "language" that triggers attraction inside of
women. I call it "Sexual Communication" and you
can learn all about it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/
If she's NOT under the influence, then YOU'RE
gone. Nothing you do will matter if she doesn't
feel it.
If you doubt what I'm saying, ask the next 10
SUPER HOT women you see what they think of this.
Read this newsletter to them, and watch their
reactions. You'll see.
OK, now that you've heard a little bit more of
my personal perspective, I'd like you to look back
into your life and think about all those
situations with women that made no sense at all...
Think about the women that you treated
wonderfully that passed you up for the jerks...
and think about all the women "friends" you had...
the ones who told you about how mean and
inconsiderate their boyfriends were... while you
looked at them thinking "I would kill my own
mother for just one date with you."
Is it all making sense now?
THEY DIDN'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU!
YOU WERE BEING A "NICE GUY" AND PROBABLY A
WUSSY BOY, AND YOU HAD NO IDEA THAT IT WAS HAVING
THE EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT OF WHAT YOU WANTED! AND
WORSE YET, THERE WASN'T A DAMN THING YOU COULD DO
ABOUT IT!
It's harsh to think about, but it's true. (By
the way, if you don't do something to learn how to
make women feel ATTRACTION, then most likely, this
is going to keep happening to you for the rest of
your life.)
I have to point out one more thing. As I
mentioned earlier, I think a lot of guys confuse
the idea of being "attractive" with the emotion
called ATTRACTION.
You can make a woman feel an INCREDIBLE
ATTRACTION, even though you're not what most
people would think of as "attractive." Of course,
you have to know how...
The point is that if you're not tall, handsome,
and dashing, you can LEARN how to make women feel
this wonderful emotion called ATTRACTION.
It's a skill. It's taken me YEARS to be able to
even talk about this stuff in simple terms like
this that makes sense, and it's taken me the same
time to figure out how a regular guy like you or I
can make women who we used to think of as "out of
our league," feel ATTRACTION for us.
How, you ask, can we do that?
Well, you've read about the technique called
"Cocky and Funny"... that's a part of it.
But there are several other pieces of the
puzzle, from voice tone and body language, to
specific ways to touch a woman to get her
physically turned on, and everything in between.
It's a system, and it all works together.
There are two KEY aspects of learning how to be
successful with women and dating:
1) The Inner Game
2) The Outer Game
The INNER GAME is all about learning how to
THINK and how to manage your thoughts and
emotions. It's also about understanding how and
why attractive women feel that amazing emotion
called ATTRACTION for some men, and not for MOST
men.
The OUTER GAME is all of the techniques, what
to say and such.
Which is more important?
Well, they're BOTH important.
But what I notice is that most guys want to
learn the OUTER GAME first.
In other words, they want pick-up lines, fancy
tricks, and other things.
I can remember when I first started learning
this stuff.
I had this idea in my mind that if I could
learn how to get women to give me their numbers
that I'd be the MAN.
Well, I learned that I can get just about any
woman's phone number in a few minutes.
But guess what?
Once I learned how to get women's phone
numbers, I ran into a much BIGGER issue... the
women usually flaked out on me, didn't show up,
etc.
And the ones that DID show up were difficult.
Nothing happened.
I realized that there had to be more.
And, as it turns out, there is... A LOT more,
in fact.
The REASON that the "Inner Game" is so
important, is that attractive women don't judge
you on your "pick-up lines."
And just because a woman gives you her phone
number or email address DOES NOT mean that she
FEELS anything inside (like ATTRACTION).
Women don't DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for a
man.
ATTRACTION is something that happens on its
own, for its own reasons.
Attraction Isn't A Choice!
The way to cause women to feel ATTRACTION for
you is to UNDERSTAND how and why it works, and
then communicate in a way that makes it happen.
In my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD
program, I spend several HOURS teaching "The Inner
Game"... all those things that help you get the
INSIDE together, so you can then get the OUTSIDE
together.
This stuff is CRITICAL to your success.
I wouldn't have taken all the time, effort, and
energy to put this together unless I thought it
was important.
If you want to overcome your challenges and
really take your success to the next level, then
you owe it to yourself to check it out.
It's here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
And if you haven't had a chance to download my
eBook "Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should
Know About How To Be Successful With Women," then
you need to do that now. You can download it and
be reading it within a few minutes...
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
If you've tried all kinds of techniques, and
nothing seems to "work," then you need to work on
your Inner Game. When you get the inner game
together, everything will start to work a LOT
better...
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. If you'd like to see all of the different
programs I've created to help you learn how to
meet women, take a minute and check this out:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
--------------------------------------------------
Copyright 2010 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. By
reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as "professional advice". You are responsible for
any use of the information in this email, and hold
David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
link at the end, and remove yourself, or to take
yourself off of our list, you can send mail to
"DDMI" 3960 Howard Hughes Pkwy, 5th Floor Las
Vegas, NV 89109.
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add me to your address book. Instructions are here:
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