3 Secrets Of Meeting Women Online
>If you've "tried" online dating, and not
gotten the results that you wanted... or you'd
like to learn how to write online personal ads
that get MASSIVE RESPONSE, then go read this:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline/
***SUCCESS STORY***
Well I have to say I was a little skeptical
about your book at first. I've never been very
successful with women. I've always been the shy,
quiet type that treat women like a prize and act
like a wussy. Well after a few newsletters I
decided to give it a shot. Well it all made sense
to me so I got your CD series and it's even better
then the book. So I decided to try the C&F method.
I've been on some dating sites for a few years and
occasionally I would get a response. A little over
a week ago I changed my profile so I wasn't such a
wussy and pleading with women with how good of a
catch I'd be (as most women say they want a nice
guy) In less then a week, I've gotten 5 responses.
It's amazing. I'm only about half way through with
the CD's too can't wait to see what else they
hold.
JN from NY
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Oh, Ye of little faith...
Remember something.
Women are always INTERPRETING everything you
say.
In other words, they want to know what things
MEAN.
When you say, "I'm a great guy" in your
profile, a woman reading it says to herself,
"yeah, right... If you were a great guy, then you
wouldn't need to SAY it. You're probably a loser
who WISHES that he were a great guy."
On the other hand, if you write a Cocky & Funny
profile that talks about how picky you are and
that you're trying this online dating thing as a
last resort because all the attractive women you
meet bore you... then a woman will think to
herself, "Ah ha! A challenge! I'll bet you that I
can get his attention...".
Great job, and keep me posted on your future
success stories.
***QUESTION***
Double D Dog!
First let's get the formalities out of the
way... you are the Boddhisatva of Bootay! To your
newsletter subscribers...you know you wait for
each new mail from this guy...thinking you'll "get
it" sooner or later without checking out the e-
book...GET IT DONE! You'll thank yourself. I
took you up on your 7-day offer and read DYD the
day I downloaded it. My situation is a little
different. After literally years of being single
and settling for 2:30 am random drunk hookups, I
finally triggered ATTRACTION in a great woman
about four months ago. I don't know how I got it
right, because it's in my nature to be a Wuss, but
put 100 monkeys in a room with typewriters and
eventually you'll get the complete works of
Shakespeare, right? Anyway, we hit it off
really well. In the beginning she was a little
too instantly infatuated, and I had to say NO to
many of her requests for my time...not because I
was working your program yet, but it was just too
much for a brand new thing and I actually have a
life. Of course this drove her nuts for me.
About 3 months into this thing, she starts turning
the tables with the testing, and it goes like this
"I'm really falling for you, and this is new for
me. I usually have a really hard time with
commitment because I like variety in my life."
The sex is very good...multiple O's for both of
us regularly. I think she's just got an amazon
appetite! A few weeks later she says to me that
she wants to meet this guy she's been chatting
with on the Internet since before I met her...you
know, see what might happen and back to the
variety thing. This triggered the Wuss in me and
I spent a good hour being jealous and needy before
coming to my senses and telling her to go check it
out with my blessing. She says she changed her
mind, but ever since then I found myself groveling
to make her happy and keep her with me. I became
jealous at the stupidest things. I was full of
FEAR and freaking out. Somewhere along the way I
started getting your mail (cue the angelic
music)...then 3 days ago I got the ebook, read it
and it all clicked. So, realizing I was already
dangerously deep down Wussy Way, I arranged a
unique date with her. I told her where I was
going to be hanging out that night, told her to
put on the sexiest thing she could find and meet
me there at whatever time she wanted to and we
would pretend we were meeting randomly for the
first time. I applied the C/F approach, body
language and other tips from your book and she
definitely noticed consciously that I was up to
something, but nevertheless, VIOLA! I triggered
her attraction again. Not only that, but I
learned new things about her and how she works
that I had tuned-out based on established
expectations and self-centered wussiness. We
communicated better, laughed more, had WAY OVER
THE TOP sex and a great conversation early into
the morning afterwards.
I'm converted Dude, and the best part is that
these tools have taken away my fear of losing her.
I love this woman, but if her Attraction or need
for variety cause her to stray, I KNOW WHAT TIME
IT IS! A million thanks! m
ps - if you haven't already, check out a book
called The MultiOrgasmic Man...dynamite for when
the rubber hits the road...so to speak.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I'll check that book out.
I'm kind of afraid, man. I might not ever leave
my house again.
OK, back to your email...
I really enjoyed your story.
I particularly like the fact that you're using
the things you're learning to KEEP a great woman
that you enjoy...
I think that too many guys make the mistake of
assuming that it's all about GETTING the girl...
and they put far too little emphasis on keeping a
great girl once they find one.
And the fact is, that until you're in a
situation where you've found a great woman who
you'd like to keep in your life, you won't realize
just how important it is to KNOW HOW to keep her.
You did exactly the right thing when she
started to talk about possibly seeing another guy.
I know that tests like this one can be a pain
in the ass, but this is reality... and we have to
deal with it when it shows up.
I've been in many situations with women where
I've felt like a jealous, insecure Wussbag
myself... I get it.
I'm proud of you for coming to your senses and
telling her to go check it out if she wanted to.
And then you did a GREAT thing by figuring out
how to "restart" your relationship with her and
put some FIRE back into the situation.
I honestly believe that most guys want to find
a great woman they can click with, have fun
with, and enjoy a relationship with.
The problem is that most guys have no idea how
to GET and then KEEP an attractive woman's
attention.
They're two very different challenges, and I'm
glad to hear that you're working on the "keep"
challenge in your own life.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David,
I bet you get this all the time: My life has
changed, thanks to your books and the advanced
series. I get it! But I'm having so much fun
relating to people in general, that I'm in no rush
to get an email or go out on a date. Just being
able to talk to anyone about anything, and being
comfortable with it, is an incredible gift. In a
way, I'm on a date with a girl just by having a
conversation, in my mind. And who the hell cares
what she thinks... Hehehe...
I was so amazed at what I learned in the books,
that I wrote you a spontaneous email. Then another
when I started to "feel" results. You should
know that I'm not the type of guy to do that, and
here I am doing it again after listening to the
advanced series. I walked into work yesterday,
and the most gorgeous (no sh*t!) chick on staff is
staring at me from across the room, interrupting
her own conversation. I just cockily smiled and
winked, then watched her until she turned away.
That momentary connection was one of the most
intense feelings I've ever had. That's just the
extreme example. I have these connections with
just about everyone, including the "cool guys",
who now treat me in a more respectful manner (or
maybe it's just my perception, but who cares).
I've been a slob all of my life, and now I'm
committed to keeping my house, car and myself
clean and organized.
I'm listening to the CDs over and over in my
car, and I keep picking up something that I
missed. Turning a negative thought to a "how do
I..." thought is my latest favorite. THAT was a
bombshell for me.
Please accept my deepest gratitude. I wish you
the best in life. Those of us who've benefited
from your teachings need to find a way to get you
sainted... Hehehe...
Thanks David!! You're the best!!
JH Burbank, CA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You know, it's interesting, and you're right
on... When you start behaving differently, it has
an amazing effect on all kinds of different
things, and on many different types of
relationships.
I regularly get "special" treatment in bars,
clubs, restaurants, coffee shops, etc., because I
"get it" myself.
One of the benefits of being interesting,
funny, challenging, and unpredictable, that I
don't really mention, comes up in situations where
you're seeing the same person (especially the same
woman) over and over.
Examples are: Favorite coffee shops, favorite
restaurants, grocery stores you visit often, etc.
When you tease and bust on a woman who you're
NOT interested in, and continue to keep the sexual
tension up, you'll find that all kinds of magical
things will happen.
The list of things I've gotten for free at
restaurants, bars, and coffee shops is pretty
extensive... all courtesy of some cute girl I
was flirting with.
And good job getting other aspects of your life
together. It will lead to good things for you.
Nice!
***QUESTION***
i met a girl i liked, we were hanging out and
she started talking about how i had good chances
with her. and a couple days later i asked her if
she wanted to go out to dinner she said yes and i
let her pick the place, we went to dinner, and the
whole dinner she talked about her ex and i paid
like 40 bucks for dinner. when we got back to her
house i got the cold shoulder when i tried talking
to her and got told she was tired and i should
probably go, can u tell me what it was i did wrong
there?
thanx m
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Oohhhhhh, bad news.
These types of situations SUCK. Really.
First of all, if a woman ever says something
like, "You have good chances with me", either:
1) Run
...or...
2) Look at her, shake your head with a
"disappointed parent" look on your face and say,
"Yeah, well you don't have such hot chances with
me... so watch yourself."
Secondly, don't offer to take this type of
woman TO DINNER.
Thirdly, if you DO offer, NEVER let HER choose
the place.
Fourthly, if a woman ever starts talking about
her EX at dinner, stop her and say, "Heyyyyyy,
wait a minute here. If you want therapy, that will
be $200 per hour, and I have a two hour minimum.
And it will have to be later, because I'm enjoying
my dinner right now".
Fifthly, you need to learn how to take things
from one step to the next with a woman, because
going back to her place and "trying to talk to
her" isn't the answer, my man.
What did you do wrong?
Basically everything, right from the beginning.
Stop that!
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave, I am in my forties, successful in
business, live in a nice condo, drive a great
auto, in great physical shape and am considered
handsome. The moral to this story is that none of
these matter! "Getting it" is the key that
unlocked the door to my success with women. I have
your e-book, cd series and of course the
collection of weekly newsletters. I have become a
student of "getting it" and creating attraction in
women. I am currently dating a 9.5 on a scale
where 10 is drop dead gorgeous, extremely
intelligent, witty, sexually creative, etc. I
constantly tease her, push her away, insist on her
treating me on dates, give her the gift of missing
me thus driving her crazy to the point she can't
help but call me! I have kicked her out of my
condo for acting bratty on two occasions, pick on
her for minor flaws (that she pointed out
initially) ...example: she asked "Do you think my
ass needs some more toning, I need to focus on
those exercises in the gym" , well, I have taken
full advantage of this to bust her balls! HERE'S
THE KICKER...she will look me in the eyes with a
sultry look and say to l me "no man has ever
treated me so good and made me feel so complete as
a woman like you do".
Now, let me qualify this for the "getting it"
challenged! I am never cruel and I never ridicule
her, nor do I openly embarrass her in public, I am
always a gentleman, treat her as the princess that
she is....but I am the new me...extremely
confident, cocky & funny, romantic, and
powerful...I assume I am in control in every
situation... Do I have times of doubt and areas I
screw up? Sure, but it just doesn't matter,
remember I am a student and students must make
mistakes to learn.
Dave, thanks for the hard work and diligent
research required on your part, hope this can be
an encouragement to others!
rh atlanta, ga
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, this is one of the most IRONIC and
interesting things about learning how to be
successful with women.
NEVER in my life have I had so many women give
me so many compliments as when I TEASE AND BUST ON
THEM LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW.
Why is this?
Because when you're doing these things, the
woman gets the DEEPER message...
That you're the kind of man she's been looking
for all her life.
The kinds of things you're doing are triggering
and satisfying drives and urges that have been
wired into her mental, physical, and emotional
systems for millions of years.
You're activating powerful sexual drives and
female emotions that most men will NEVER trigger
inside of her... and she's grateful to you for it.
Even though an outsider might look at an
evening that you spend with her and say "He didn't
treat her very well... he was difficult, very
challenging, and not complimentary at all. I don't
think he's going to get very far with her"...
...while at the end of the evening the woman
you're with will go home with a deep, profound
feeling of inner satisfaction that she won't be
able to describe.
Yes, you do "get it." Congratulations.
If you just read that story, and then you read
my comments, and you said to yourself: "I'd like
to learn how to do that kind of thing, and create
massive attraction with my words and body
language," then you need to go and check this out:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/
***SUCCESS STORY***
David,
I'd like to leave my email to you at "Thank you",
but I am overwhelmed at what has happened since I
read your online book just once. Not only have I
given up the nice guy approach, but it is fun to
see women squirm in their seats when you start
busting their balls. Brilliant!
I prefer online dating so I took your advice and
starting being more forward in emails, cracking
jokes and making fun of more stuff. Sounds
unorthodox right? Hell NO. I use a dating site
that won't let you give an email address through
their system, but phone numbers are ok. The women
know this already, so they are expecting to get a
number from you if you get their attention. More
on your book, I work in radio and when you said
the voice was one of your best tools to use, it
hit me like a ton of bricks. Your right and phone
calls are perfect place to practice your sound.
Definitely slow down in your speech and a better
sound will come from within. So my point is this:
I meet this chick on line, give her my number, she
doesn't call for two days. So I send her the "what
are you playing hard to get email" (thanks again
Dave), the next morning my phone is ringing at
8:30 am. It's her, she feels bad about waking me
up, which I bust her balls for and use the fact
that I just woke up to bring out the best in my
voice. We only have a 4 or 5 minute conversation
before I tell her I need to get some more sleep,
so I give her MY email address and leave it at
that. I get to work later that morning, and here
is her email.
D.,
I only have a minute before I need to leave for a
meeting, but I just wanted to say . . . GREAT
voice!
I hope you have a great day you Bum!
Take care!
J.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
As one of my friends says:
"YOU OWN HER."
By the way, great insight to MAKE FUN of women
who have online personals.
Think of it this way...
A cute woman posts an online personal.
She gets 50 emails a day saying, "Oh, you're so
beautiful..." and "You sound very interesting, we
have a lot in common..." and "I have the same
values as you, and I'm seeking a relationship as
well..."
...and then she sees one that says:
"Hey, I don't think that this picture is really
you. What, did you go to the mall and get one of
those Glamour Shots done or something? Do you have
a real picture? Like you at home on your
stairmaster or something? Or do you even work out?
OK, stop trying to fool all of us guys, and let's
see what you REALLY look like..."
What's she going to do?
Of course, she's going to say to herself, "I'll
show him", and she's going to send you a bunch of
pictures of herself and say, "No, really, this is
me!"
NICE IS BORING. And it's never more boring then
when it's ONLINE... in a place where there are a
million other "nice" guys who have zero
personality chasing after her.
And great job telling the woman who called you
when you were sleeping that you wanted to go back
to sleep... and to email you sometime.
You're doing well. Keep it up!
***COMMENTS FROM A WOMAN***
Hey, David I am a woman who reads your
newsletter. I have to admit, you've got us
figured out! I never could figure out why all the
guys I dated before were pathetic losers until I
realized what they were doing wrong. That helps
me weed out the dorks and get on to the good
stuff.
Thanks a bunch for your program!
S. in Kansas
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Uh oh.
I never really thought of it that way...
I guess that the women who are reading my
newsletters are learning some of the ways to spot
Wussbags from even FURTHER away... and getting new
ammo to use with the pathetically weak.
You go, girl.
Weed out the dorks.
Avoid the Wussy guys who chase after you and
try to get your approval... and annoy the hell out
of you in the process.
Oh, and don't forget to tell them to visit
DoubleYourDating.com for great free tips!
***QUESTION***
Sup Dave.
dude your stuff rocks! I already started
changing my whole attitude towards chicks.
I was at a party and this girl kept looking at
me, I would look back at her but keep my distance
talking and having fun with other girls. later she
asked my friend to introduce me. we sat down and
talked. I was being funny not too cocky...i know
bad bad. I didn't ask for her number...I was
testing if she would ask for mine. She didn't ask
for it, is that a rule? do guys always get the
number?
thanks bro, keep up the good work! KP
>>>MY COMMENTS:
LOL... OK, you already "changed your attitude
towards chicks", but you can't hook up with a girl
who ASKS to be introduced to you?
I think maybe you should reconsider your
approach, my man.
Regardless of the situation, a woman wants you
to LEAD the way. You're going to have to TAKE THE
NEXT STEP in some way.
Even if you say, "So aren't you going to ask
for my number? What's taking you so long?" you
need to do it.
If you're one of those guys who's fortunate
enough to have the looks and game that result in
woman WANTING to meet you before you've met them,
then this is DOUBLY important.
Lead.
Don't wait around and hope something happens.
There's always a smooth, interesting way to
take the ball and move forward with it.
If you don't, you're going to be taking your
own ball and moving forward with it later in the
evening...
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dear Dave,
Since listening to your C.D.'s I
have transformed from a guy who occasionally has
"luck" with women into a demon. I always thought
before that when a woman was busting my balls that
she was rejecting me when in reality she is
sparing with me. I use to be afraid I was over
stepping my boundaries when I got that "Aah" (what
an a**hole look). Now instead of backing down I
turn it up because I know I got her right where I
want her.
Most guys will never understand what you have
taught the privileged nation of men. I don't want
them to because most of them are not ready for it.
When they are then I turn them on to you. Some of
my friends think to impress a girl you need to
spend money on her. Ha! Since I realized
attraction is not a choice I've spent a total of
$1.75 on a drink for a friend. A girl I even had
to turn down because she is my buddies ex and they
just broke up. It's amazing that now I have to
turn down dates and/ or decide which girl to go
out with on any given night. Thank you for your
wisdom.
You rock, C.P.-L.A
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Great insight!
And you're right... most guys miss the point
ENTIRELY when a woman starts challenging them.
Instead of turning up the volume and hitting
the ball right back over the net twice as fast,
most guys just crumble... and lose all the energy,
sexual tension, and chemistry that was in the
situation.
When a woman throws down the challenge, or
starts to test you, it's time to realize that this
is the VERY BEGINNING... and instead of responding
by saying, "OK, whatever you want", you need to
create even MORE tension... and turn it up... and
understand how to AMPLIFY the sexual tension and
attraction in the situation.
Chemistry is an AMAZING thing if you understand
it (the way you describe not being afraid to "step
over the boundaries" when you get that, "Ahhh,
you're an a**hole" look... and instead, seeing it
as sparring).
But, it's a curse if you don't... because
you'll just misinterpret everything that happens
and miss all of your opportunities.
Great email.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David,
I have been through the CD series twice now and
am now on a third pass hitting some of my favorite
sections. For months I have been hanging with some
really talented guys and getting frustrated
because they get girls left and right and I
couldn't remember the last time I kissed a girl. I
have been meeting women and getting numbers but
always blowing it and not closing any deals. I
just turned 40 and have been getting frustrated
and feeling like I was washed up with women. The
Advanced Series has put a new spin on things for
me. I feel like there are many things I can do to
turn my romantic life around. I got it.
I have been putting this stuff into practice for
the past couple of weeks. I am working on being
confident, cocky and funny. I have determined that
I am living in my reality, that is all that
matters. I am thinking about the importance of the
skill over the importance of the girl. So, on the
first weekend I hooked up with a hot little 23
year in a pub. I was practicing and it was
working... she spent the night at my place. This
past weekend I was with another attractive woman
and again it worked. I actually had some idea of
things that I could do to create attraction. This
girl has a hot little body and I have a little
extra padding so I was talking to her about how
she could tighten up her stomach through dieting
and exercise. Oh my God that was fun! I love it,
so did she. I was just playing and having fun. You
have a great training program that goes way beyond
success with chicks. Thanks.
LSM -- Seattle
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeahhhh, baby!
And by the way, you're CRACKING ME UP over
here...
Your comment:
"This past weekend I was with another attractive
woman and again it worked. I actually had some
idea of things that I could do to create
attraction."
...is cracking me up.
So, you actually have "some idea" now, huh?
This is great stuff. I'm excited for you.
And yes, my training program DOES go WAY beyond
"success with chicks." I'm glad you're getting
that "way beyond" kind of success from it.
...and if you're reading this right now and
thinking to yourself, "Hey, I'm 40 and have a
gut... and would like to learn how to use it to
meet women", then have I got a sweet offer for
you!
No, seriously...
The reality is, the thing that stands between
most guys and success with women is NOT what they
think it is.
I've found that most men have what I call their
"Secret Reason" for failure with women.
This guy was 40 and had a gut... and felt like
he was "washed-up" with women.
Some guys are bald. Some are short. Some don't
make much money... and some are just afraid.
But, these are NEVER the REAL reason why these
guys aren't successful with women.
The REAL reason they aren't successful is
because they just don't understand the dynamic
that I call ATTRACTION.
They don't even know what "chemistry" and
"sexual tension" and "ATTRACTION" are in the first
place.
Hey, I used to be one of those guys.
I used to stand in bars and look at women that
I wanted to meet for HOURS... and have NO IDEA
what to do or say to even START a conversation,
never mind get a number or a date.
And I had my own "Secret Reason" for failure.
Mine was FEAR.
I was just plain afraid of women.
Well, the good news is that I've figured out
how to get past these "Secret Reasons", and even
better, I've figured out how to make women feel
ATTRACTION by using body language and other
communication. It's really not that hard.
But, like any other skill that's valuable, it's
not something that you can learn in 2 minutes.
It takes a little practice.
The GREAT news is that instead of taking
several YEARS of research, reading, and trying
crazy stuff that doesn't work like I did, you can
get the benefits of my "banging my head against
the wall" research... and go straight to the good
stuff.
My Advanced Dating Techniques program is the
ULTIMATE training program for this stuff. Not only
did it take me YEARS to learn all of this stuff in
the first place, and figure it all out, but it
also took me literally HUNDREDS of hours of my
time to put this particular program together.
I really designed this thing from the beginning
to be the absolute best training available in the
history of the world on how to meet and date
women.
If you read some of the feedback in these
newsletters and on the web site, I think you'll
find that quite a few guys agree that it's pretty
damn good.
But I want YOU to be the judge.
My offer is still available: Go to my web site
and order the trial. If you don't like it, just
send it back to me, and don't pay. I'm convinced
that after you get your hands on it and start
learning from it, you'll send me an email with a
success story instead of the program back.
The details are here, along with some good
samples:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
And of course, if you haven't downloaded your
copy of my online eBook, you need to get that
immediately. It's the place to start, and you can
be reading it in literally a few minutes from
right now. It's here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. You should also take a look at my online
"catalog" of programs... each one designed to
help you with a different area of success with
women and dating. You can check it out, and watch
great video clips of each of my program here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
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***SUCCESS STORY***
Well I have to say I was a little skeptical
about your book at first. I've never been very
successful with women. I've always been the shy,
quiet type that treat women like a prize and act
like a wussy. Well after a few newsletters I
decided to give it a shot. Well it all made sense
to me so I got your CD series and it's even better
then the book. So I decided to try the C&F method.
I've been on some dating sites for a few years and
occasionally I would get a response. A little over
a week ago I changed my profile so I wasn't such a
wussy and pleading with women with how good of a
catch I'd be (as most women say they want a nice
guy) In less then a week, I've gotten 5 responses.
It's amazing. I'm only about half way through with
the CD's too can't wait to see what else they
hold.
JN from NY
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Oh, Ye of little faith...
Remember something.
Women are always INTERPRETING everything you
say.
In other words, they want to know what things
MEAN.
When you say, "I'm a great guy" in your
profile, a woman reading it says to herself,
"yeah, right... If you were a great guy, then you
wouldn't need to SAY it. You're probably a loser
who WISHES that he were a great guy."
On the other hand, if you write a Cocky & Funny
profile that talks about how picky you are and
that you're trying this online dating thing as a
last resort because all the attractive women you
meet bore you... then a woman will think to
herself, "Ah ha! A challenge! I'll bet you that I
can get his attention...".
Great job, and keep me posted on your future
success stories.
***QUESTION***
Double D Dog!
First let's get the formalities out of the
way... you are the Boddhisatva of Bootay! To your
newsletter subscribers...you know you wait for
each new mail from this guy...thinking you'll "get
it" sooner or later without checking out the e-
book...GET IT DONE! You'll thank yourself. I
took you up on your 7-day offer and read DYD the
day I downloaded it. My situation is a little
different. After literally years of being single
and settling for 2:30 am random drunk hookups, I
finally triggered ATTRACTION in a great woman
about four months ago. I don't know how I got it
right, because it's in my nature to be a Wuss, but
put 100 monkeys in a room with typewriters and
eventually you'll get the complete works of
Shakespeare, right? Anyway, we hit it off
really well. In the beginning she was a little
too instantly infatuated, and I had to say NO to
many of her requests for my time...not because I
was working your program yet, but it was just too
much for a brand new thing and I actually have a
life. Of course this drove her nuts for me.
About 3 months into this thing, she starts turning
the tables with the testing, and it goes like this
"I'm really falling for you, and this is new for
me. I usually have a really hard time with
commitment because I like variety in my life."
The sex is very good...multiple O's for both of
us regularly. I think she's just got an amazon
appetite! A few weeks later she says to me that
she wants to meet this guy she's been chatting
with on the Internet since before I met her...you
know, see what might happen and back to the
variety thing. This triggered the Wuss in me and
I spent a good hour being jealous and needy before
coming to my senses and telling her to go check it
out with my blessing. She says she changed her
mind, but ever since then I found myself groveling
to make her happy and keep her with me. I became
jealous at the stupidest things. I was full of
FEAR and freaking out. Somewhere along the way I
started getting your mail (cue the angelic
music)...then 3 days ago I got the ebook, read it
and it all clicked. So, realizing I was already
dangerously deep down Wussy Way, I arranged a
unique date with her. I told her where I was
going to be hanging out that night, told her to
put on the sexiest thing she could find and meet
me there at whatever time she wanted to and we
would pretend we were meeting randomly for the
first time. I applied the C/F approach, body
language and other tips from your book and she
definitely noticed consciously that I was up to
something, but nevertheless, VIOLA! I triggered
her attraction again. Not only that, but I
learned new things about her and how she works
that I had tuned-out based on established
expectations and self-centered wussiness. We
communicated better, laughed more, had WAY OVER
THE TOP sex and a great conversation early into
the morning afterwards.
I'm converted Dude, and the best part is that
these tools have taken away my fear of losing her.
I love this woman, but if her Attraction or need
for variety cause her to stray, I KNOW WHAT TIME
IT IS! A million thanks! m
ps - if you haven't already, check out a book
called The MultiOrgasmic Man...dynamite for when
the rubber hits the road...so to speak.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I'll check that book out.
I'm kind of afraid, man. I might not ever leave
my house again.
OK, back to your email...
I really enjoyed your story.
I particularly like the fact that you're using
the things you're learning to KEEP a great woman
that you enjoy...
I think that too many guys make the mistake of
assuming that it's all about GETTING the girl...
and they put far too little emphasis on keeping a
great girl once they find one.
And the fact is, that until you're in a
situation where you've found a great woman who
you'd like to keep in your life, you won't realize
just how important it is to KNOW HOW to keep her.
You did exactly the right thing when she
started to talk about possibly seeing another guy.
I know that tests like this one can be a pain
in the ass, but this is reality... and we have to
deal with it when it shows up.
I've been in many situations with women where
I've felt like a jealous, insecure Wussbag
myself... I get it.
I'm proud of you for coming to your senses and
telling her to go check it out if she wanted to.
And then you did a GREAT thing by figuring out
how to "restart" your relationship with her and
put some FIRE back into the situation.
I honestly believe that most guys want to find
a great woman they can click with, have fun
with, and enjoy a relationship with.
The problem is that most guys have no idea how
to GET and then KEEP an attractive woman's
attention.
They're two very different challenges, and I'm
glad to hear that you're working on the "keep"
challenge in your own life.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David,
I bet you get this all the time: My life has
changed, thanks to your books and the advanced
series. I get it! But I'm having so much fun
relating to people in general, that I'm in no rush
to get an email or go out on a date. Just being
able to talk to anyone about anything, and being
comfortable with it, is an incredible gift. In a
way, I'm on a date with a girl just by having a
conversation, in my mind. And who the hell cares
what she thinks... Hehehe...
I was so amazed at what I learned in the books,
that I wrote you a spontaneous email. Then another
when I started to "feel" results. You should
know that I'm not the type of guy to do that, and
here I am doing it again after listening to the
advanced series. I walked into work yesterday,
and the most gorgeous (no sh*t!) chick on staff is
staring at me from across the room, interrupting
her own conversation. I just cockily smiled and
winked, then watched her until she turned away.
That momentary connection was one of the most
intense feelings I've ever had. That's just the
extreme example. I have these connections with
just about everyone, including the "cool guys",
who now treat me in a more respectful manner (or
maybe it's just my perception, but who cares).
I've been a slob all of my life, and now I'm
committed to keeping my house, car and myself
clean and organized.
I'm listening to the CDs over and over in my
car, and I keep picking up something that I
missed. Turning a negative thought to a "how do
I..." thought is my latest favorite. THAT was a
bombshell for me.
Please accept my deepest gratitude. I wish you
the best in life. Those of us who've benefited
from your teachings need to find a way to get you
sainted... Hehehe...
Thanks David!! You're the best!!
JH Burbank, CA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You know, it's interesting, and you're right
on... When you start behaving differently, it has
an amazing effect on all kinds of different
things, and on many different types of
relationships.
I regularly get "special" treatment in bars,
clubs, restaurants, coffee shops, etc., because I
"get it" myself.
One of the benefits of being interesting,
funny, challenging, and unpredictable, that I
don't really mention, comes up in situations where
you're seeing the same person (especially the same
woman) over and over.
Examples are: Favorite coffee shops, favorite
restaurants, grocery stores you visit often, etc.
When you tease and bust on a woman who you're
NOT interested in, and continue to keep the sexual
tension up, you'll find that all kinds of magical
things will happen.
The list of things I've gotten for free at
restaurants, bars, and coffee shops is pretty
extensive... all courtesy of some cute girl I
was flirting with.
And good job getting other aspects of your life
together. It will lead to good things for you.
Nice!
***QUESTION***
i met a girl i liked, we were hanging out and
she started talking about how i had good chances
with her. and a couple days later i asked her if
she wanted to go out to dinner she said yes and i
let her pick the place, we went to dinner, and the
whole dinner she talked about her ex and i paid
like 40 bucks for dinner. when we got back to her
house i got the cold shoulder when i tried talking
to her and got told she was tired and i should
probably go, can u tell me what it was i did wrong
there?
thanx m
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Oohhhhhh, bad news.
These types of situations SUCK. Really.
First of all, if a woman ever says something
like, "You have good chances with me", either:
1) Run
...or...
2) Look at her, shake your head with a
"disappointed parent" look on your face and say,
"Yeah, well you don't have such hot chances with
me... so watch yourself."
Secondly, don't offer to take this type of
woman TO DINNER.
Thirdly, if you DO offer, NEVER let HER choose
the place.
Fourthly, if a woman ever starts talking about
her EX at dinner, stop her and say, "Heyyyyyy,
wait a minute here. If you want therapy, that will
be $200 per hour, and I have a two hour minimum.
And it will have to be later, because I'm enjoying
my dinner right now".
Fifthly, you need to learn how to take things
from one step to the next with a woman, because
going back to her place and "trying to talk to
her" isn't the answer, my man.
What did you do wrong?
Basically everything, right from the beginning.
Stop that!
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave, I am in my forties, successful in
business, live in a nice condo, drive a great
auto, in great physical shape and am considered
handsome. The moral to this story is that none of
these matter! "Getting it" is the key that
unlocked the door to my success with women. I have
your e-book, cd series and of course the
collection of weekly newsletters. I have become a
student of "getting it" and creating attraction in
women. I am currently dating a 9.5 on a scale
where 10 is drop dead gorgeous, extremely
intelligent, witty, sexually creative, etc. I
constantly tease her, push her away, insist on her
treating me on dates, give her the gift of missing
me thus driving her crazy to the point she can't
help but call me! I have kicked her out of my
condo for acting bratty on two occasions, pick on
her for minor flaws (that she pointed out
initially) ...example: she asked "Do you think my
ass needs some more toning, I need to focus on
those exercises in the gym" , well, I have taken
full advantage of this to bust her balls! HERE'S
THE KICKER...she will look me in the eyes with a
sultry look and say to l me "no man has ever
treated me so good and made me feel so complete as
a woman like you do".
Now, let me qualify this for the "getting it"
challenged! I am never cruel and I never ridicule
her, nor do I openly embarrass her in public, I am
always a gentleman, treat her as the princess that
she is....but I am the new me...extremely
confident, cocky & funny, romantic, and
powerful...I assume I am in control in every
situation... Do I have times of doubt and areas I
screw up? Sure, but it just doesn't matter,
remember I am a student and students must make
mistakes to learn.
Dave, thanks for the hard work and diligent
research required on your part, hope this can be
an encouragement to others!
rh atlanta, ga
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, this is one of the most IRONIC and
interesting things about learning how to be
successful with women.
NEVER in my life have I had so many women give
me so many compliments as when I TEASE AND BUST ON
THEM LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW.
Why is this?
Because when you're doing these things, the
woman gets the DEEPER message...
That you're the kind of man she's been looking
for all her life.
The kinds of things you're doing are triggering
and satisfying drives and urges that have been
wired into her mental, physical, and emotional
systems for millions of years.
You're activating powerful sexual drives and
female emotions that most men will NEVER trigger
inside of her... and she's grateful to you for it.
Even though an outsider might look at an
evening that you spend with her and say "He didn't
treat her very well... he was difficult, very
challenging, and not complimentary at all. I don't
think he's going to get very far with her"...
...while at the end of the evening the woman
you're with will go home with a deep, profound
feeling of inner satisfaction that she won't be
able to describe.
Yes, you do "get it." Congratulations.
If you just read that story, and then you read
my comments, and you said to yourself: "I'd like
to learn how to do that kind of thing, and create
massive attraction with my words and body
language," then you need to go and check this out:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/
***SUCCESS STORY***
David,
I'd like to leave my email to you at "Thank you",
but I am overwhelmed at what has happened since I
read your online book just once. Not only have I
given up the nice guy approach, but it is fun to
see women squirm in their seats when you start
busting their balls. Brilliant!
I prefer online dating so I took your advice and
starting being more forward in emails, cracking
jokes and making fun of more stuff. Sounds
unorthodox right? Hell NO. I use a dating site
that won't let you give an email address through
their system, but phone numbers are ok. The women
know this already, so they are expecting to get a
number from you if you get their attention. More
on your book, I work in radio and when you said
the voice was one of your best tools to use, it
hit me like a ton of bricks. Your right and phone
calls are perfect place to practice your sound.
Definitely slow down in your speech and a better
sound will come from within. So my point is this:
I meet this chick on line, give her my number, she
doesn't call for two days. So I send her the "what
are you playing hard to get email" (thanks again
Dave), the next morning my phone is ringing at
8:30 am. It's her, she feels bad about waking me
up, which I bust her balls for and use the fact
that I just woke up to bring out the best in my
voice. We only have a 4 or 5 minute conversation
before I tell her I need to get some more sleep,
so I give her MY email address and leave it at
that. I get to work later that morning, and here
is her email.
D.,
I only have a minute before I need to leave for a
meeting, but I just wanted to say . . . GREAT
voice!
I hope you have a great day you Bum!
Take care!
J.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
As one of my friends says:
"YOU OWN HER."
By the way, great insight to MAKE FUN of women
who have online personals.
Think of it this way...
A cute woman posts an online personal.
She gets 50 emails a day saying, "Oh, you're so
beautiful..." and "You sound very interesting, we
have a lot in common..." and "I have the same
values as you, and I'm seeking a relationship as
well..."
...and then she sees one that says:
"Hey, I don't think that this picture is really
you. What, did you go to the mall and get one of
those Glamour Shots done or something? Do you have
a real picture? Like you at home on your
stairmaster or something? Or do you even work out?
OK, stop trying to fool all of us guys, and let's
see what you REALLY look like..."
What's she going to do?
Of course, she's going to say to herself, "I'll
show him", and she's going to send you a bunch of
pictures of herself and say, "No, really, this is
me!"
NICE IS BORING. And it's never more boring then
when it's ONLINE... in a place where there are a
million other "nice" guys who have zero
personality chasing after her.
And great job telling the woman who called you
when you were sleeping that you wanted to go back
to sleep... and to email you sometime.
You're doing well. Keep it up!
***COMMENTS FROM A WOMAN***
Hey, David I am a woman who reads your
newsletter. I have to admit, you've got us
figured out! I never could figure out why all the
guys I dated before were pathetic losers until I
realized what they were doing wrong. That helps
me weed out the dorks and get on to the good
stuff.
Thanks a bunch for your program!
S. in Kansas
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Uh oh.
I never really thought of it that way...
I guess that the women who are reading my
newsletters are learning some of the ways to spot
Wussbags from even FURTHER away... and getting new
ammo to use with the pathetically weak.
You go, girl.
Weed out the dorks.
Avoid the Wussy guys who chase after you and
try to get your approval... and annoy the hell out
of you in the process.
Oh, and don't forget to tell them to visit
DoubleYourDating.com for great free tips!
***QUESTION***
Sup Dave.
dude your stuff rocks! I already started
changing my whole attitude towards chicks.
I was at a party and this girl kept looking at
me, I would look back at her but keep my distance
talking and having fun with other girls. later she
asked my friend to introduce me. we sat down and
talked. I was being funny not too cocky...i know
bad bad. I didn't ask for her number...I was
testing if she would ask for mine. She didn't ask
for it, is that a rule? do guys always get the
number?
thanks bro, keep up the good work! KP
>>>MY COMMENTS:
LOL... OK, you already "changed your attitude
towards chicks", but you can't hook up with a girl
who ASKS to be introduced to you?
I think maybe you should reconsider your
approach, my man.
Regardless of the situation, a woman wants you
to LEAD the way. You're going to have to TAKE THE
NEXT STEP in some way.
Even if you say, "So aren't you going to ask
for my number? What's taking you so long?" you
need to do it.
If you're one of those guys who's fortunate
enough to have the looks and game that result in
woman WANTING to meet you before you've met them,
then this is DOUBLY important.
Lead.
Don't wait around and hope something happens.
There's always a smooth, interesting way to
take the ball and move forward with it.
If you don't, you're going to be taking your
own ball and moving forward with it later in the
evening...
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dear Dave,
Since listening to your C.D.'s I
have transformed from a guy who occasionally has
"luck" with women into a demon. I always thought
before that when a woman was busting my balls that
she was rejecting me when in reality she is
sparing with me. I use to be afraid I was over
stepping my boundaries when I got that "Aah" (what
an a**hole look). Now instead of backing down I
turn it up because I know I got her right where I
want her.
Most guys will never understand what you have
taught the privileged nation of men. I don't want
them to because most of them are not ready for it.
When they are then I turn them on to you. Some of
my friends think to impress a girl you need to
spend money on her. Ha! Since I realized
attraction is not a choice I've spent a total of
$1.75 on a drink for a friend. A girl I even had
to turn down because she is my buddies ex and they
just broke up. It's amazing that now I have to
turn down dates and/ or decide which girl to go
out with on any given night. Thank you for your
wisdom.
You rock, C.P.-L.A
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Great insight!
And you're right... most guys miss the point
ENTIRELY when a woman starts challenging them.
Instead of turning up the volume and hitting
the ball right back over the net twice as fast,
most guys just crumble... and lose all the energy,
sexual tension, and chemistry that was in the
situation.
When a woman throws down the challenge, or
starts to test you, it's time to realize that this
is the VERY BEGINNING... and instead of responding
by saying, "OK, whatever you want", you need to
create even MORE tension... and turn it up... and
understand how to AMPLIFY the sexual tension and
attraction in the situation.
Chemistry is an AMAZING thing if you understand
it (the way you describe not being afraid to "step
over the boundaries" when you get that, "Ahhh,
you're an a**hole" look... and instead, seeing it
as sparring).
But, it's a curse if you don't... because
you'll just misinterpret everything that happens
and miss all of your opportunities.
Great email.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David,
I have been through the CD series twice now and
am now on a third pass hitting some of my favorite
sections. For months I have been hanging with some
really talented guys and getting frustrated
because they get girls left and right and I
couldn't remember the last time I kissed a girl. I
have been meeting women and getting numbers but
always blowing it and not closing any deals. I
just turned 40 and have been getting frustrated
and feeling like I was washed up with women. The
Advanced Series has put a new spin on things for
me. I feel like there are many things I can do to
turn my romantic life around. I got it.
I have been putting this stuff into practice for
the past couple of weeks. I am working on being
confident, cocky and funny. I have determined that
I am living in my reality, that is all that
matters. I am thinking about the importance of the
skill over the importance of the girl. So, on the
first weekend I hooked up with a hot little 23
year in a pub. I was practicing and it was
working... she spent the night at my place. This
past weekend I was with another attractive woman
and again it worked. I actually had some idea of
things that I could do to create attraction. This
girl has a hot little body and I have a little
extra padding so I was talking to her about how
she could tighten up her stomach through dieting
and exercise. Oh my God that was fun! I love it,
so did she. I was just playing and having fun. You
have a great training program that goes way beyond
success with chicks. Thanks.
LSM -- Seattle
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeahhhh, baby!
And by the way, you're CRACKING ME UP over
here...
Your comment:
"This past weekend I was with another attractive
woman and again it worked. I actually had some
idea of things that I could do to create
attraction."
...is cracking me up.
So, you actually have "some idea" now, huh?
This is great stuff. I'm excited for you.
And yes, my training program DOES go WAY beyond
"success with chicks." I'm glad you're getting
that "way beyond" kind of success from it.
...and if you're reading this right now and
thinking to yourself, "Hey, I'm 40 and have a
gut... and would like to learn how to use it to
meet women", then have I got a sweet offer for
you!
No, seriously...
The reality is, the thing that stands between
most guys and success with women is NOT what they
think it is.
I've found that most men have what I call their
"Secret Reason" for failure with women.
This guy was 40 and had a gut... and felt like
he was "washed-up" with women.
Some guys are bald. Some are short. Some don't
make much money... and some are just afraid.
But, these are NEVER the REAL reason why these
guys aren't successful with women.
The REAL reason they aren't successful is
because they just don't understand the dynamic
that I call ATTRACTION.
They don't even know what "chemistry" and
"sexual tension" and "ATTRACTION" are in the first
place.
Hey, I used to be one of those guys.
I used to stand in bars and look at women that
I wanted to meet for HOURS... and have NO IDEA
what to do or say to even START a conversation,
never mind get a number or a date.
And I had my own "Secret Reason" for failure.
Mine was FEAR.
I was just plain afraid of women.
Well, the good news is that I've figured out
how to get past these "Secret Reasons", and even
better, I've figured out how to make women feel
ATTRACTION by using body language and other
communication. It's really not that hard.
But, like any other skill that's valuable, it's
not something that you can learn in 2 minutes.
It takes a little practice.
The GREAT news is that instead of taking
several YEARS of research, reading, and trying
crazy stuff that doesn't work like I did, you can
get the benefits of my "banging my head against
the wall" research... and go straight to the good
stuff.
My Advanced Dating Techniques program is the
ULTIMATE training program for this stuff. Not only
did it take me YEARS to learn all of this stuff in
the first place, and figure it all out, but it
also took me literally HUNDREDS of hours of my
time to put this particular program together.
I really designed this thing from the beginning
to be the absolute best training available in the
history of the world on how to meet and date
women.
If you read some of the feedback in these
newsletters and on the web site, I think you'll
find that quite a few guys agree that it's pretty
damn good.
But I want YOU to be the judge.
My offer is still available: Go to my web site
and order the trial. If you don't like it, just
send it back to me, and don't pay. I'm convinced
that after you get your hands on it and start
learning from it, you'll send me an email with a
success story instead of the program back.
The details are here, along with some good
samples:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
And of course, if you haven't downloaded your
copy of my online eBook, you need to get that
immediately. It's the place to start, and you can
be reading it in literally a few minutes from
right now. It's here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. You should also take a look at my online
"catalog" of programs... each one designed to
help you with a different area of success with
women and dating. You can check it out, and watch
great video clips of each of my program here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
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