What Attracts Women "Sexually"
QUESTION: Is it really possible for a guy who
has no sexual confidence and no control over his
sex life - to transform himself into the kind of
"in control" man that women desire, respect, and
secretly FANTASIZE about? Find out here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/PowerSexuality/
I'd like to talk about a concept that is
rather difficult for most men to "get".
Ironically, it's a concept that's rather easy
to understand, but because it's so illogical and
"counter intuitive", it's also easy to miss
entirely.
It's understanding what attracts women
sexually.
And, what I'm about to share with you took me
literally YEARS to figure out... even though it
was right in front of my face the whole time.
When I first decided to get this area called
"Women and Dating" handled in my own life, I did
what I think most guys do... I THOUGHT a lot
about it, I READ a lot about it, and I ASKED a
lot about it.
I've spent a lot of time studying psychology
and human behavior, because it fascinates me...
and I figured that all of my understanding about
how people worked, would really give me an
advantage in this quest I had started.
And, since I think I'm pretty smart, I figured
that this would be something that I'd get figured
out rather quickly.
Well, what a humbling experience I was in for.
As I soon learned, it's not easy to solve an
illogical problem by thinking about it logically!
In fact, now that I know better, I think that
attraction IS rather logical... it's just that
how it works is so UNEXPECTED that it SEEMS
illogical. But for now, let's just use the term
"illogical" because it forces the mind to put
aside pre-conceived notions of what "should"
happen.
As I was trying to figure all this stuff out
for myself (and keep in mind, I had no idea that
I would later write a book to help others) I kept
running into challenges.
It seemed that every logical thing I did just
didn't work in a way that made sense.
One of the biggest mistakes I made was
ASSUMING THAT ATTRACTION WORKED THE SAME WAY FOR
WOMEN THAT IT DOES FOR MEN.
It only made sense that since men are
attracted to looks and sweet personalities that
women should be too... right?
So, of course, I tried to work this angle by
wearing nice clothes, doing nice things for women,
and being the NICEST guy you could ever meet. I
was accommodating to the extreme. I would do
whatever a woman wanted, and basically accepted
whatever flaky or manipulative behaviors she used
with me.
But since none of that stuff seemed to really
help at all, I just kept coming to the same
conclusion:
I MUST NOT BE ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH,
GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH, RICH ENOUGH,
OR SOMETHING ENOUGH.
I was doing everything I could imagine to be a
nice, sweet, great guy... but women just didn't
seem to respond to me in a "sexually attracted"
way...
"It must just be me that's the problem" I
thought.
Well, fortunately for me, I'm not one to quit
easily.
I stuck with it, and I finally did something
that had a PROFOUND impact on my personal
success...
I MADE FRIENDS WITH DIFFERENT GUYS WHO WERE
"NATURALLY" SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND I WATCHED
WHAT THEY DID.
When I think back now, I think to myself "DUH!"
But it REALLY made a huge difference.
By watching different guys in different
situations as they interacted with women, got
phone numbers, went out on dates, and even made
"physical" moves, I learned a lot.
What really fascinated me was that these
different guys, who in many cases didn't even
know each other, were doing EXACTLY THE SAME
THINGS in many cases.
And, the REALLY mind-blowing part was that the
great techniques they were using were "no big
deal" to them, and therefore had never been
organized and taught in the "main stream".
By imitating what I learned from these new
friends, and by getting their help, all of a
sudden my success began to SKYROCKET. I mean...
BIG TIME.
I went from barely being able to talk to a
woman and get her number... to having 3 or 4
dates a week. It was great.
But there was a problem...
IT STILL DIDN'T MAKE ANY DAMN SENSE TO ME!
Even though I had more "game", and better
techniques... and women were responding better to
me, things still didn't "feel" quite right.
And I didn't always get the same results when
I did things with women. Now, you'll never get
100% consistency with anything in the real world,
but it was just TOO inconsistent most of the time.
And even worse, women would either fall in
love with me quickly, or not call me back after
the first few dates, most of the time.
I knew enough to be dangerous, but not enough
to really, really understand what was going on.
Well, fast-forward to now.
In the last several years, I've written a book,
produced seminars at both ends of the country,
released several comprehensive CD and/or DVD
programs, and generally spent a lot of time
teaching and refining this material.
A major benefit that this has provided me is
the ability to explain things better and faster...
and I'd like to give you a quick explanation of a
CRITICAL aspect of female sexual attraction that,
once you understand it, can literally change your
life FOREVER with women.
Here's the revelation:
Men are more attracted to physical traits, and
women are more attracted to PERSONALITY traits.
Men get sexually aroused and "turned on"
instantly at the sight of a young, shapely female
body. As a man, you know that this process
happens instantly and "all by itself", meaning
you don't really have a choice in the matter.
Well, WOMEN get sexually aroused initially and
"turned on" when they interact with a man that
has certain QUALITIES and PERSONALITY TRAITS.
Women become instantly turned on sexually when
they are in the presence of certain personality
traits, just like men become turned on by certain
physical traits... and the GOOD NEWS is that ANY
MAN can learn these traits and "integrate" them
into his own personality.
If you're as fascinated with this process of
how and why women get turned on differently than
men, and you'd like to read more about it, go
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/PowerSexuality/
Think about that for a moment.
Men become turned on by what they can see.
Women become turned on by what can NEVER be seen.
And, even when it comes to the physical, women
are still more interested in the HOW than the
WHAT...
It's not as much his body as the way a man
holds it and carries it.
It's not as much his voice as the way a man
uses it.
Do physical looks, money, fame, power, height,
age, etc. play into this at all?
Of course they do.
But they're not NEARLY as important as most
men think they are.
If you're tall, handsome, rich, and famous...
great. You'll probably have an easier time
attracting women. But just watch the tabloids...
this can open the door for a guy, but it doesn't
at all guarantee that the woman will stay around.
There are a LOT of rich, famous, powerful men who
still have no success with women.
To sum it up...
- Attraction is different for men than it is for
women.
- While men are attracted mostly by physical
traits, women are attracted mostly by PERSONALITY
traits.
Women don't decide who to feel attracted to
with their logical minds. They "decide" with
their emotions and then make up reasons and
rationalize it.
ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE!
This is why some men attract women so well,
while others don't... and why ANY man can improve
his success with women DRAMATICALLY, no matter
what his looks, age, or income.
I want you to think about what you've just
read, and pay attention when you're out watching
men and women interact.
Start noticing those things that men are doing
to attract women that are related to their
PERSONALITIES and their COMMUNICATION
with women. You'll see things you've never seen
before, and learn secrets that will improve your
success with women tremendously.
Of course, if you want to shave a couple of
YEARS off the learning curve, and get a detailed
description of those qualities and methods of
communicating that women find SEXUALLY
ATTRACTIVE, then I recommend that you check out
my Power Sexuality Program.
In it, I spend several HOURS going into great
detail and teaching the exact, step-by-step
process of communicating with women in a way that
triggers their SEXUAL ATTRACTION mechanism.
Once you learn this skill, you'll have it
FOREVER - and that means a lifetime of
interesting and attractive women in your life.
You can go listen to actual samples from the
program and learn all about it right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/PowerSexuality/
And if you'd like an introduction to my main
concepts and to learn the basics of how to be
more successful with women and dating, then go
right now and download my eBook "Double Your
Dating". It comes with three bonus booklets that
are INVALUABLE and CRITICAL to your understanding
of, and success with, women.
It's all at:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
Thanks for tuning in, and I'll talk to you in
a couple of days.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. This program will give you the tools to
quickly and completely transform yourself into
the type of man that ALL women want. You'll be
amazed at just how quickly you feel your
confidence building... and the improvements in
your dating life will start happening
immediately. Chances are this program contains
EXACTLY what you need to take your game to the
next level, and I guarantee it will work for you
as it has for so many other men. Get more info
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/PowerSexuality/
--------------------------------------------------
Copyright 2010 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. By
reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as "professional advice". You are responsible for
any use of the information in this email, and hold
David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
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QUESTION: Is it really possible for a guy who
has no sexual confidence and no control over his
sex life - to transform himself into the kind of
"in control" man that women desire, respect, and
secretly FANTASIZE about? Find out here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/PowerSexuality/
I'd like to talk about a concept that is
rather difficult for most men to "get".
Ironically, it's a concept that's rather easy
to understand, but because it's so illogical and
"counter intuitive", it's also easy to miss
entirely.
It's understanding what attracts women
sexually.
And, what I'm about to share with you took me
literally YEARS to figure out... even though it
was right in front of my face the whole time.
When I first decided to get this area called
"Women and Dating" handled in my own life, I did
what I think most guys do... I THOUGHT a lot
about it, I READ a lot about it, and I ASKED a
lot about it.
I've spent a lot of time studying psychology
and human behavior, because it fascinates me...
and I figured that all of my understanding about
how people worked, would really give me an
advantage in this quest I had started.
And, since I think I'm pretty smart, I figured
that this would be something that I'd get figured
out rather quickly.
Well, what a humbling experience I was in for.
As I soon learned, it's not easy to solve an
illogical problem by thinking about it logically!
In fact, now that I know better, I think that
attraction IS rather logical... it's just that
how it works is so UNEXPECTED that it SEEMS
illogical. But for now, let's just use the term
"illogical" because it forces the mind to put
aside pre-conceived notions of what "should"
happen.
As I was trying to figure all this stuff out
for myself (and keep in mind, I had no idea that
I would later write a book to help others) I kept
running into challenges.
It seemed that every logical thing I did just
didn't work in a way that made sense.
One of the biggest mistakes I made was
ASSUMING THAT ATTRACTION WORKED THE SAME WAY FOR
WOMEN THAT IT DOES FOR MEN.
It only made sense that since men are
attracted to looks and sweet personalities that
women should be too... right?
So, of course, I tried to work this angle by
wearing nice clothes, doing nice things for women,
and being the NICEST guy you could ever meet. I
was accommodating to the extreme. I would do
whatever a woman wanted, and basically accepted
whatever flaky or manipulative behaviors she used
with me.
But since none of that stuff seemed to really
help at all, I just kept coming to the same
conclusion:
I MUST NOT BE ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH,
GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH, RICH ENOUGH,
OR SOMETHING ENOUGH.
I was doing everything I could imagine to be a
nice, sweet, great guy... but women just didn't
seem to respond to me in a "sexually attracted"
way...
"It must just be me that's the problem" I
thought.
Well, fortunately for me, I'm not one to quit
easily.
I stuck with it, and I finally did something
that had a PROFOUND impact on my personal
success...
I MADE FRIENDS WITH DIFFERENT GUYS WHO WERE
"NATURALLY" SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND I WATCHED
WHAT THEY DID.
When I think back now, I think to myself "DUH!"
But it REALLY made a huge difference.
By watching different guys in different
situations as they interacted with women, got
phone numbers, went out on dates, and even made
"physical" moves, I learned a lot.
What really fascinated me was that these
different guys, who in many cases didn't even
know each other, were doing EXACTLY THE SAME
THINGS in many cases.
And, the REALLY mind-blowing part was that the
great techniques they were using were "no big
deal" to them, and therefore had never been
organized and taught in the "main stream".
By imitating what I learned from these new
friends, and by getting their help, all of a
sudden my success began to SKYROCKET. I mean...
BIG TIME.
I went from barely being able to talk to a
woman and get her number... to having 3 or 4
dates a week. It was great.
But there was a problem...
IT STILL DIDN'T MAKE ANY DAMN SENSE TO ME!
Even though I had more "game", and better
techniques... and women were responding better to
me, things still didn't "feel" quite right.
And I didn't always get the same results when
I did things with women. Now, you'll never get
100% consistency with anything in the real world,
but it was just TOO inconsistent most of the time.
And even worse, women would either fall in
love with me quickly, or not call me back after
the first few dates, most of the time.
I knew enough to be dangerous, but not enough
to really, really understand what was going on.
Well, fast-forward to now.
In the last several years, I've written a book,
produced seminars at both ends of the country,
released several comprehensive CD and/or DVD
programs, and generally spent a lot of time
teaching and refining this material.
A major benefit that this has provided me is
the ability to explain things better and faster...
and I'd like to give you a quick explanation of a
CRITICAL aspect of female sexual attraction that,
once you understand it, can literally change your
life FOREVER with women.
Here's the revelation:
Men are more attracted to physical traits, and
women are more attracted to PERSONALITY traits.
Men get sexually aroused and "turned on"
instantly at the sight of a young, shapely female
body. As a man, you know that this process
happens instantly and "all by itself", meaning
you don't really have a choice in the matter.
Well, WOMEN get sexually aroused initially and
"turned on" when they interact with a man that
has certain QUALITIES and PERSONALITY TRAITS.
Women become instantly turned on sexually when
they are in the presence of certain personality
traits, just like men become turned on by certain
physical traits... and the GOOD NEWS is that ANY
MAN can learn these traits and "integrate" them
into his own personality.
If you're as fascinated with this process of
how and why women get turned on differently than
men, and you'd like to read more about it, go
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/PowerSexuality/
Think about that for a moment.
Men become turned on by what they can see.
Women become turned on by what can NEVER be seen.
And, even when it comes to the physical, women
are still more interested in the HOW than the
WHAT...
It's not as much his body as the way a man
holds it and carries it.
It's not as much his voice as the way a man
uses it.
Do physical looks, money, fame, power, height,
age, etc. play into this at all?
Of course they do.
But they're not NEARLY as important as most
men think they are.
If you're tall, handsome, rich, and famous...
great. You'll probably have an easier time
attracting women. But just watch the tabloids...
this can open the door for a guy, but it doesn't
at all guarantee that the woman will stay around.
There are a LOT of rich, famous, powerful men who
still have no success with women.
To sum it up...
- Attraction is different for men than it is for
women.
- While men are attracted mostly by physical
traits, women are attracted mostly by PERSONALITY
traits.
Women don't decide who to feel attracted to
with their logical minds. They "decide" with
their emotions and then make up reasons and
rationalize it.
ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE!
This is why some men attract women so well,
while others don't... and why ANY man can improve
his success with women DRAMATICALLY, no matter
what his looks, age, or income.
I want you to think about what you've just
read, and pay attention when you're out watching
men and women interact.
Start noticing those things that men are doing
to attract women that are related to their
PERSONALITIES and their COMMUNICATION
with women. You'll see things you've never seen
before, and learn secrets that will improve your
success with women tremendously.
Of course, if you want to shave a couple of
YEARS off the learning curve, and get a detailed
description of those qualities and methods of
communicating that women find SEXUALLY
ATTRACTIVE, then I recommend that you check out
my Power Sexuality Program.
In it, I spend several HOURS going into great
detail and teaching the exact, step-by-step
process of communicating with women in a way that
triggers their SEXUAL ATTRACTION mechanism.
Once you learn this skill, you'll have it
FOREVER - and that means a lifetime of
interesting and attractive women in your life.
You can go listen to actual samples from the
program and learn all about it right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/PowerSexuality/
And if you'd like an introduction to my main
concepts and to learn the basics of how to be
more successful with women and dating, then go
right now and download my eBook "Double Your
Dating". It comes with three bonus booklets that
are INVALUABLE and CRITICAL to your understanding
of, and success with, women.
It's all at:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
Thanks for tuning in, and I'll talk to you in
a couple of days.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. This program will give you the tools to
quickly and completely transform yourself into
the type of man that ALL women want. You'll be
amazed at just how quickly you feel your
confidence building... and the improvements in
your dating life will start happening
immediately. Chances are this program contains
EXACTLY what you need to take your game to the
next level, and I guarantee it will work for you
as it has for so many other men. Get more info
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/PowerSexuality/
--------------------------------------------------
Copyright 2010 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. By
reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as "professional advice". You are responsible for
any use of the information in this email, and hold
David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
link at the end, and remove yourself, or to take
yourself off of our list, you can send mail to
"DDMI" 3960 Howard Hughes Pkwy, 5th Floor Las
Vegas, NV 89109.
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