How To "Impress" Her On A Date
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sites... plus how to create attraction over
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***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
I am a good looking guy but never really got the
chicks i wanted, only got ones that wanted me.
That is history now thanks to your material..
In the lecture hall a chick asks me pointing "is
that free?" (meaning the seat next to me coz the
hall was full)... i made it out she was pointing
at my lap and i said.. "No you can't sit on my
lap, how about this seat?!". she cracks up
laughing and sits down.
I tease her hard at the interval, and after
lecture she asks me if i am single. To which i
reply "Yeah, i suppose i have space for one
more!!"- she giggles and calls me naughty.
She texts me all the time now and we plan to do a
proper hook up next week....life is great!
I noticed you can use C&F in doses, just 5 good
hits and you're in. Rest of the time just sit back
and enjoy having a "normal" conversation.
Anybody else noticed this?
J.D. London, England.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You've made a great point here...
If you start off the interaction with a woman
in the right way, you'll form a "first impression"
that will cause her to see ANYTHING you do from
then on in the context of the "Cocky & Funny"
attitude that you've demonstrated.
I personally think it's a good idea if you keep
up the Cocky & Funny, easing off as you start
having more and more conversation. But, don't stop
entirely, because at some point you'll begin to
lose the magnetic challenge that worked for you in
the first place.
This is another reminder that once a woman
thinks of you in a particular way, she's likely to
think of you in that way for a LONG time.
And if you start out by acting like a WUSSY,
then she's going to assume that you will ALWAYS
act like one, and run.
***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
Hey Dave,
A casual "playmate" of mine just turned me on to
you and your sage advice and I must admit that
it's terribly accurate. Nothing is sexier than
confidence and if a man can tie it all up with a
funny bow, all the better!!!
Speaking of being tied up, I'm a very submissive
woman behind closed doors but outside of the
bedroom I tend to employ the c&f approach myself
(it's reflex - I come by it naturally). My
question is how do I put these two aspects of my
personality together to achieve optimum success
out there in the dating world?
L. from Vancouver
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Um, well the first thing you do is SEND ME
PICTURES AND GIVE ME YOUR PHONE NUMBER.
I recommend PERSONAL COACHING from me...
nothing else will do. It really is a must.
Your challenge is going to be finding a man who
is a match to you. It's not going to be easy...
(I love my job, by the way.)
***QUESTION***
Dave,
Alright, just bought your book a few weeks ago and
have devoured it twice over! Great stuff in there!
The ladies LOVE this stuff! Now, like they say,
WHEN IT RAINS IT POURS!
I have more ladies than I can handle, being a very
busy college student. Needless to say, I find
time!
Now, my question here is on jealousy:
If Girl A sees me out with Girl B, given Girl A
likes me enough, will this jealousy INCREASE Girl
A's attraction to me? Or, for that matter, Girl A
knowing anything about me being involved with any
other girl? I ask this b/c I'm a little more
attracted to Girl A than the others but still want
to "get to know" the others!! What do you say,
Dave?
Thanks, dk
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Jealousy is an interesting emotion.
Some believe that it's the most POWERFUL
emotion.
Generally speaking, if a woman knows that
you're seeing other women, it will make you more
attractive.
But you must be careful.
Jealousy can make people crazy... and it can
lead otherwise normal people to do all kinds of
insane things. If you make the wrong person
jealous, they can turn into a stalker...
That said, my perspective is that you need to
live your life and not worry about what others
think of you.
This trait will lead to women finding you more
attractive in and of itself.
If you're always worrying about whether a woman
will be upset because she sees you out with
another woman, then you'll be acting like a wussy
all night because you're scared.
On the other hand, if you could care less what
others think of you, then it will project into all
other areas of your behavior, and will lead to
other good things.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey big D-
I've been getting your newsletter for a while now,
and man has it helped- you're a genius! Every
Friday night I go out to parties, but there's
usually the same people there, so they'd notice if
I drastically changed how I act, so I've been
working in your techniques bit by bit, and most
everyone just thinks I'm finally coming out of my
shell.
Last Friday night I was there and there was this
new girl from another school- she'd never seen me
before, so I figured I had nothing to lose. I
went over to her and went all out. She was
wearing one of those shirts that's just a strap in
the back- basically a half-shirt. I walked right
up to her and said, "Ya know, when someone wears
that kind of thing, it can only mean one thing."
She pulled one of those half-smile "I'm hot and I
know it- just give me your stupid line and go
away" looks. So I said, "It means you can't
afford an entire shirt, and you were just hoping
no one would notice since it's dark in here."
Needless to say, she was caught off guard. She
started to get a mad look on her face, so I gave
her crap about not being able to take a joke, and
mentioned that it's a good thing she could at
least afford an entire pair of pants. Finally she
laughed, and said, "What, you don't like my
shirt?" and kind of pouted. So I said, "It's not
bad, but it'd look even better on the floor of my
bedroom." Ya know, those really cheezy pick up
lines can actually work if you deliver them
sarcastically so the girl knows you're making fun
of people that use them for real. Another kind of
backward logic that works, so ya just use it, I
guess. Anyway, about a minute later I got her to
give me her e-mail address and number, and I
walked away. A couple days later I sent her an e-
mail saying it was nice to meet her and if she
wanted to see me I'd be there the next week. She
replied the same day saying she'd be there - and
that's tonight. I'm off to go there now, so I'll
be sure to fill you in on how things go on our
"second time."
Thanks again, David! T in CO
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Love it! Great work, and good job sticking it
out through those first couple of minutes of
conversation.
***COMMENT***
Hey whats going on Dave?
I don't have a question, cause i have the C/F down
patt. So the other night i decided to take it a
little further. I was with this girl and then
after a while, i knew that she wanted to start to
get busy, so I TEASED HER!!!! I don't wanna get
into much boring detail, but I made her want it
more, it was like i owned her. It was great. And
the best part here, I've only received now 2 e-
mails from you. The 2nd one was the one with
questions and stories... and i got it the day
after. What can i say, I'm a natural. Thanks
Dave, keep the e-mails coming... soon to get the
book.
A Saskatoon, SK
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ah, a man who gets it.
It's hard for most guys to lean back and not
give a woman what she wants in the moment.
But, if you can just hold back, tease, and let
the anticipation build up... and learn how to
amplify a woman's feelings by doing this, you'll
get so much further, so much faster.
On the other hand, if you try to keep pushing
forward always, you'll run into resistance at
every turn... and wind up frustrated because she's
telling you to stop.
Nice moves.
***QUESTION***
Hows it goin, Dave? Just wanted to start off by
saying I've read your book and the c&f techniques
have worked wonders. But, lately I've been having
a bit of a problem. See I've had this one girl
who has been my good friend for a few years now,
and shes always set me up with her friends etc.
ppl always joke about how we should get married
and everything and we just laugh... but lately im
realizing that i really do like her. I'm at a
total loss on how i should confront her (the 3-5
minute c&f routine doesn't really apply here!),
and need some tips/ideas from turning a 'just
friend' into a girlfriend.
Thanks in advance,
--CJ from Austin
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, you're an interesting guy.
Most guys who have a golden goose (her) that is
laying (no pun intended) golden eggs (her friends)
wouldn't be so quick to try to hook up.
Think about what you're risking here...
If things don't work out with her, you're going
to most likely be out of luck as far as the
getting hooked up with the girlfriends... and
you'll probably lose her as a friend as well.
These things aren't certainties, but they're a
pretty good bet.
If you want to see if she's interested in you,
try using the Kiss Test on her (it's on the second
page of my main web site, and in my book). It
works wonders.
***QUESTION***
Hello Dave,
I totally agree that success with women only comes
when you actually grab your balls, go out and do
something about it - you actually need to IMPROVE
in all of the ways possible. Just recently i've
been concentrating on training my voice.
What advice would you give on how to best train
your voice so it is "attractive" to women - and
generally conveys self-confidence and control? By
the way you sound great on your seminar CDs.
B London
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, let's summarize what you've said here:
1) You grab your balls when you go out to meet
women.
2) You like the way my voice sounds.
I'm not sure about you, dude.
lol... the best things you can do to train your
voice are:
1) Speak slowly and clearly.
2) Put more bass in your voice... talk in a lower
register.
3) Use pauses for effect.
Just as important as the VOICE is your "Body
Language" and gestures. In fact your voice tone
and your Body Language make up almost ALL of the
stuff that makes a woman feel ATTRACTION for you.
More great tips on this stuff are here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage/
***QUESTION***
You are the man. i think people should put a
monument for u. the C&F routine had worked wonders
for me. im actually now getting digits and e-mail.
But this C&F routine got me thinkin. your great
methods are now probably in the hands of a million
guys or even more, so if two guys playing the C&F
on the same girl, who will she choose? like i
mean, do we have then add another part to our
character? And another question, wont these babes
get tired of us guys of approaching them with the
same C&F routine??? i think they will need
something different in their lives so wont they go
for the jerks or some other people???? u gotta
answer these questions for the sake of
humanity!!!!
U.W Israel
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, for the sake of humanity, here's the
deal:
Most guys just want to meet a nice girl and
settle down into a relationship. My materials help
guys do that FASTER than they would have before,
and date more women in the process, so they
eventually meet a BETTER girl in which to have a
relationship than they would have before.
And you don't have to worry... there are plenty
of women out there.
***QUESTION***
Dear Dave,
I want to thank you for all of the help. I admit,
I used to be a Wussy. I know this now. But I
recently started working at a store and found a
lady there to be very attractive. I had never
asked a lady out before, because of my shyness,
and being use to them just confronting me or
having their friends do it. I was ready for a
change in this and decided to use your techniques.
I used your techniques and simply asked the lady
out with a C&F approach. Needless to say, after
work tonight we were eating out and SHE actually
requested we go to a more 'Private' location
nearby. I kept the C&F routine rolling all night.
Having to be at work the next morning we decided
to head for home. Keeping up the C&F routine I
ended up with her number and she suggested that we
go out the next night (tomorrow night). I learned
a lot about her and these bring me to some
questions.
She wanted to talk about our lives the whole
night. I kept up the 'Is this a job interview?'
stance and kept off of the normal subjects. But
she kept coming back to these subjects. How do
you get off of these subjects/questions if they
keep insisting? Also, she and I are religious
people, and I am not after the normal 'one thing.'
I'm after a relationship. Keeping in mind that we
are both religious, but sex is not out of the
question completely, how do I still make her feel
attracted to me? I also want to say thank you for
bringing light to the subject of women and God
Bless you for all of the help. You are simply THE
MAN!
Many thanks, Grateful Virginia
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I think you're on the right track.
If you're looking for a relationship with this
woman, and you're not going to have sex with her
before that point or before marriage, then you're
OK talking about "normal" topics.
The Cocky & Funny material will only make you
more attractive to her, so make sure you ask HER
the kinds of questions you want the answers to,
and make sure that SHE is the right girl for you.
Thanks for the email.
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave.
I've read your book and i totally agree with your
C&F attitude (it has worked for me). Anyway, here
are some facts about me:I'm 21 yo, live in Greece,
really handsome,never done a PICK UP(get her
number). Although i look older and...experienced,
I'm quite inexperienced with women. I'd appreciate
if you answered a specific question. Here is the
situation i have been maaany times:I'm sitting
with a friend of mine in a cafeteria. 3 or 4
meters away there is a table with 2-3 girls
chatting or playing a board game.I "catch" one of
them staring at me with that silly expression that
says"I LIKE YOU".What should i do?I should
immediately stand up and approach their table with
confidence. Then what?I'd like you to tell me the
EXACT words i should use.
I look forward to hear from you.
Aris P.
P.S. Please forget about the email. The target
here is clear: Her mobile phone number
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, this is going to sound simple... and it
is.
The first thing you need to understand is that
if a woman likes you, then she's VERY likely to
give you her phone number, email address, or
whatever. I even know a guy who gets women's
addresses and a map to their house when he first
meets them. Really.
You need to just start talking to women.
Walk over to the table, say, "Hi" to one of the
girls, and then ask her a few questions about
herself. Finally, say "It was nice talking to
you... I'm going to get back to my friends." As
you turn to walk away, turn back and say, "Hey! Do
you have a mobile phone?" If she says "yes", then
give her a pen, and say "Write down your number,
I'd like to talk to you again."
It really is that simple.
You need to do that about 100 times in the next
month.
You'll learn so much that you won't believe it.
Do it!
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I bought your book about a month ago and I have
used some of your techniques to success. There is
this girl I like at my bank and who I thought
liked me. The problem is I let the beauty get the
best of me. I bought your book after I met her in
hopes to getting her. Well I used some charm by
dropping a card through the drive through and
writing if she wanted to go out Sunday night. Let
me tell ya she melted and told me that no one has
ever did that for her before. She told me to give
her my number and that she would call me for
Sunday night. Well Sunday rolled around and she
didn't call but the next time I saw her she turned
red and greeted me with a smile and the apologetic
excuse that I was away this weekend and I feel so
bad I didn't call you and then she bowed her head
and said she was sorry but didn't say she would
call. I asked two of my friends one c+f guy who
has great success with girls and he said you
should have told her "playing hard to get" and
laugh at her excuse to get her thinking. While my
other friend who seems like a wuss at times but
also gets laid quite often said to be up front and
say what happened and lets try again. What do you
think I should do? Should I say anything? Its been
a month but I see her about 3X a week at the bank.
Plus she is always telling the other tellers I
look hot by the way I dress--Armani guy and that I
am well off because I drive a real nice SUV. My
gut feeling is to move on. Thanks.
J in Ct.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, at this stage in the game, I'd recommend
that you ALWAYS get her number and email.
You be the one to email and call her first.
This way you can follow up, and she knows that
you know how to get a hold of her.
The card and the asking her out on a "date" was
probably a little too much, in my opinion.
When you do things like this, you come across
as overly interested.
Better to say "Hey, give me your email", then
to email and suggest a cup of tea. Then, if tea
goes well, suggest something else... and so on.
Let things progress naturally, and don't come
on so strong in the beginning.
Here's what I'd do if I were you:
Next time you see her, say "OK, you're playing
hard to get, but it's not working on me (in a
funny way). Give me your email and number, and
I'll call you in a few days."
Then get her info, and wait a few days to call
her.
When you do reach her, tell her that she owes
you a cup of tea for being flaky. And make her pay
for it.
And make sure you don't act like a needy Wuss,
OK?
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
Your material rocks, after Henry Ford, you are the
man who has changed America. I have one huge
question. As you often say, women test a lot and
do it by many different ways. I recently have come
to a certain girl who we call, a woman player. At
some point, were everything I was doing was going
well, she just said "I love you". I know that
saying this on the first date for a guy is a no-
no, but what if she says it. I know that this time
it was a test, but what if this happens and the
girl is serious?
thank-you s-d
Quebec
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, if you are interesting enough, you're
going to have women saying things like "I love
you" all the time.
And, just like Hans Solo said to Princess Leia,
you need to say...
"I know."
Don't turn into Wussy Boy and say something
dumb like... "really?".
And by the way, if a woman is SERIOUS when she
says "I love you" on the first date, then you need
to be really, really careful... lol.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hi Dave
Bought the book a couple of days ago, printed it
off yesterday (guess that defeats the point of e-
books, but it makes it easier to read sitting on
the toilet!) and read it. Went out on a date
yesterday evening, and suddenly I'm like a mind
reader...
Had a date Friday, before reading the book. She
said she doesn't even want to talk to me again.
Date last night (Sunday), was a bit cold and
wasn't opening up. Had a few beers, then told her
I could tell her things about herself that no-
one's ever told her before. Did a few minutes of
that, she melted and asked me was reading a
woman's mind my party trick! Bear in mind I only
picked this up from reading the book, and threw in
a bit of common sense and guess work into it to
make it sound good :-)
She went home to hers, I went back to mine. Asked
her to text me on my mobile when she got back
home. She done that. She's already emailed me this
morning too. Suddenly after all these years it's
starting to make sense...
Enough of my rambling, thank you for a damn fine
book. It's very early days, but already things are
changing.
Thanks again, keep up the good work!
A.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
It's funny, because I get a lot of emails from
guys who say things like "I downloaded your book
today, and I sat and read it all the way
through... then I went out and got a girl's
number", etc.
Of course, the best is when I get the success
stories like yours from guys who are taking the
materials, and using them to get responses from
women that they've never gotten before.
Great job...
Now, if you're ready to take your success with
women up about ten more notches, it's time for you
to get yourself a copy of my Advanced Dating
Techniques CD/DVD program.
This program is jam-packed with literally
hundreds and hundreds of fantastic concepts and
step-by-step techniques that will dramatically
increase your successes... far beyond where it is
right now.
You can watch some great sample video clips and
get all the details here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
And if you're reading this right now, and you
haven't downloaded my online eBook, you need to go
and do that RIGHT NOW. You can download it and
literally be reading it in a few minutes. Go
download it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
And I'll talk to you soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. I wrote you a letter telling the story of how
I learned all this stuff about how to meet women,
get dates, and everything else... If you have a
minute, you should read it:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
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>NOTE: If you'd like to learn a few new tricks for
meeting women online, using the Internet dating
sites... plus how to create attraction over
instant messengers and email, then take a minute
and read THIS:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline/
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
I am a good looking guy but never really got the
chicks i wanted, only got ones that wanted me.
That is history now thanks to your material..
In the lecture hall a chick asks me pointing "is
that free?" (meaning the seat next to me coz the
hall was full)... i made it out she was pointing
at my lap and i said.. "No you can't sit on my
lap, how about this seat?!". she cracks up
laughing and sits down.
I tease her hard at the interval, and after
lecture she asks me if i am single. To which i
reply "Yeah, i suppose i have space for one
more!!"- she giggles and calls me naughty.
She texts me all the time now and we plan to do a
proper hook up next week....life is great!
I noticed you can use C&F in doses, just 5 good
hits and you're in. Rest of the time just sit back
and enjoy having a "normal" conversation.
Anybody else noticed this?
J.D. London, England.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You've made a great point here...
If you start off the interaction with a woman
in the right way, you'll form a "first impression"
that will cause her to see ANYTHING you do from
then on in the context of the "Cocky & Funny"
attitude that you've demonstrated.
I personally think it's a good idea if you keep
up the Cocky & Funny, easing off as you start
having more and more conversation. But, don't stop
entirely, because at some point you'll begin to
lose the magnetic challenge that worked for you in
the first place.
This is another reminder that once a woman
thinks of you in a particular way, she's likely to
think of you in that way for a LONG time.
And if you start out by acting like a WUSSY,
then she's going to assume that you will ALWAYS
act like one, and run.
***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
Hey Dave,
A casual "playmate" of mine just turned me on to
you and your sage advice and I must admit that
it's terribly accurate. Nothing is sexier than
confidence and if a man can tie it all up with a
funny bow, all the better!!!
Speaking of being tied up, I'm a very submissive
woman behind closed doors but outside of the
bedroom I tend to employ the c&f approach myself
(it's reflex - I come by it naturally). My
question is how do I put these two aspects of my
personality together to achieve optimum success
out there in the dating world?
L. from Vancouver
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Um, well the first thing you do is SEND ME
PICTURES AND GIVE ME YOUR PHONE NUMBER.
I recommend PERSONAL COACHING from me...
nothing else will do. It really is a must.
Your challenge is going to be finding a man who
is a match to you. It's not going to be easy...
(I love my job, by the way.)
***QUESTION***
Dave,
Alright, just bought your book a few weeks ago and
have devoured it twice over! Great stuff in there!
The ladies LOVE this stuff! Now, like they say,
WHEN IT RAINS IT POURS!
I have more ladies than I can handle, being a very
busy college student. Needless to say, I find
time!
Now, my question here is on jealousy:
If Girl A sees me out with Girl B, given Girl A
likes me enough, will this jealousy INCREASE Girl
A's attraction to me? Or, for that matter, Girl A
knowing anything about me being involved with any
other girl? I ask this b/c I'm a little more
attracted to Girl A than the others but still want
to "get to know" the others!! What do you say,
Dave?
Thanks, dk
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Jealousy is an interesting emotion.
Some believe that it's the most POWERFUL
emotion.
Generally speaking, if a woman knows that
you're seeing other women, it will make you more
attractive.
But you must be careful.
Jealousy can make people crazy... and it can
lead otherwise normal people to do all kinds of
insane things. If you make the wrong person
jealous, they can turn into a stalker...
That said, my perspective is that you need to
live your life and not worry about what others
think of you.
This trait will lead to women finding you more
attractive in and of itself.
If you're always worrying about whether a woman
will be upset because she sees you out with
another woman, then you'll be acting like a wussy
all night because you're scared.
On the other hand, if you could care less what
others think of you, then it will project into all
other areas of your behavior, and will lead to
other good things.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey big D-
I've been getting your newsletter for a while now,
and man has it helped- you're a genius! Every
Friday night I go out to parties, but there's
usually the same people there, so they'd notice if
I drastically changed how I act, so I've been
working in your techniques bit by bit, and most
everyone just thinks I'm finally coming out of my
shell.
Last Friday night I was there and there was this
new girl from another school- she'd never seen me
before, so I figured I had nothing to lose. I
went over to her and went all out. She was
wearing one of those shirts that's just a strap in
the back- basically a half-shirt. I walked right
up to her and said, "Ya know, when someone wears
that kind of thing, it can only mean one thing."
She pulled one of those half-smile "I'm hot and I
know it- just give me your stupid line and go
away" looks. So I said, "It means you can't
afford an entire shirt, and you were just hoping
no one would notice since it's dark in here."
Needless to say, she was caught off guard. She
started to get a mad look on her face, so I gave
her crap about not being able to take a joke, and
mentioned that it's a good thing she could at
least afford an entire pair of pants. Finally she
laughed, and said, "What, you don't like my
shirt?" and kind of pouted. So I said, "It's not
bad, but it'd look even better on the floor of my
bedroom." Ya know, those really cheezy pick up
lines can actually work if you deliver them
sarcastically so the girl knows you're making fun
of people that use them for real. Another kind of
backward logic that works, so ya just use it, I
guess. Anyway, about a minute later I got her to
give me her e-mail address and number, and I
walked away. A couple days later I sent her an e-
mail saying it was nice to meet her and if she
wanted to see me I'd be there the next week. She
replied the same day saying she'd be there - and
that's tonight. I'm off to go there now, so I'll
be sure to fill you in on how things go on our
"second time."
Thanks again, David! T in CO
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Love it! Great work, and good job sticking it
out through those first couple of minutes of
conversation.
***COMMENT***
Hey whats going on Dave?
I don't have a question, cause i have the C/F down
patt. So the other night i decided to take it a
little further. I was with this girl and then
after a while, i knew that she wanted to start to
get busy, so I TEASED HER!!!! I don't wanna get
into much boring detail, but I made her want it
more, it was like i owned her. It was great. And
the best part here, I've only received now 2 e-
mails from you. The 2nd one was the one with
questions and stories... and i got it the day
after. What can i say, I'm a natural. Thanks
Dave, keep the e-mails coming... soon to get the
book.
A Saskatoon, SK
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ah, a man who gets it.
It's hard for most guys to lean back and not
give a woman what she wants in the moment.
But, if you can just hold back, tease, and let
the anticipation build up... and learn how to
amplify a woman's feelings by doing this, you'll
get so much further, so much faster.
On the other hand, if you try to keep pushing
forward always, you'll run into resistance at
every turn... and wind up frustrated because she's
telling you to stop.
Nice moves.
***QUESTION***
Hows it goin, Dave? Just wanted to start off by
saying I've read your book and the c&f techniques
have worked wonders. But, lately I've been having
a bit of a problem. See I've had this one girl
who has been my good friend for a few years now,
and shes always set me up with her friends etc.
ppl always joke about how we should get married
and everything and we just laugh... but lately im
realizing that i really do like her. I'm at a
total loss on how i should confront her (the 3-5
minute c&f routine doesn't really apply here!),
and need some tips/ideas from turning a 'just
friend' into a girlfriend.
Thanks in advance,
--CJ from Austin
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, you're an interesting guy.
Most guys who have a golden goose (her) that is
laying (no pun intended) golden eggs (her friends)
wouldn't be so quick to try to hook up.
Think about what you're risking here...
If things don't work out with her, you're going
to most likely be out of luck as far as the
getting hooked up with the girlfriends... and
you'll probably lose her as a friend as well.
These things aren't certainties, but they're a
pretty good bet.
If you want to see if she's interested in you,
try using the Kiss Test on her (it's on the second
page of my main web site, and in my book). It
works wonders.
***QUESTION***
Hello Dave,
I totally agree that success with women only comes
when you actually grab your balls, go out and do
something about it - you actually need to IMPROVE
in all of the ways possible. Just recently i've
been concentrating on training my voice.
What advice would you give on how to best train
your voice so it is "attractive" to women - and
generally conveys self-confidence and control? By
the way you sound great on your seminar CDs.
B London
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, let's summarize what you've said here:
1) You grab your balls when you go out to meet
women.
2) You like the way my voice sounds.
I'm not sure about you, dude.
lol... the best things you can do to train your
voice are:
1) Speak slowly and clearly.
2) Put more bass in your voice... talk in a lower
register.
3) Use pauses for effect.
Just as important as the VOICE is your "Body
Language" and gestures. In fact your voice tone
and your Body Language make up almost ALL of the
stuff that makes a woman feel ATTRACTION for you.
More great tips on this stuff are here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage/
***QUESTION***
You are the man. i think people should put a
monument for u. the C&F routine had worked wonders
for me. im actually now getting digits and e-mail.
But this C&F routine got me thinkin. your great
methods are now probably in the hands of a million
guys or even more, so if two guys playing the C&F
on the same girl, who will she choose? like i
mean, do we have then add another part to our
character? And another question, wont these babes
get tired of us guys of approaching them with the
same C&F routine??? i think they will need
something different in their lives so wont they go
for the jerks or some other people???? u gotta
answer these questions for the sake of
humanity!!!!
U.W Israel
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, for the sake of humanity, here's the
deal:
Most guys just want to meet a nice girl and
settle down into a relationship. My materials help
guys do that FASTER than they would have before,
and date more women in the process, so they
eventually meet a BETTER girl in which to have a
relationship than they would have before.
And you don't have to worry... there are plenty
of women out there.
***QUESTION***
Dear Dave,
I want to thank you for all of the help. I admit,
I used to be a Wussy. I know this now. But I
recently started working at a store and found a
lady there to be very attractive. I had never
asked a lady out before, because of my shyness,
and being use to them just confronting me or
having their friends do it. I was ready for a
change in this and decided to use your techniques.
I used your techniques and simply asked the lady
out with a C&F approach. Needless to say, after
work tonight we were eating out and SHE actually
requested we go to a more 'Private' location
nearby. I kept the C&F routine rolling all night.
Having to be at work the next morning we decided
to head for home. Keeping up the C&F routine I
ended up with her number and she suggested that we
go out the next night (tomorrow night). I learned
a lot about her and these bring me to some
questions.
She wanted to talk about our lives the whole
night. I kept up the 'Is this a job interview?'
stance and kept off of the normal subjects. But
she kept coming back to these subjects. How do
you get off of these subjects/questions if they
keep insisting? Also, she and I are religious
people, and I am not after the normal 'one thing.'
I'm after a relationship. Keeping in mind that we
are both religious, but sex is not out of the
question completely, how do I still make her feel
attracted to me? I also want to say thank you for
bringing light to the subject of women and God
Bless you for all of the help. You are simply THE
MAN!
Many thanks, Grateful Virginia
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I think you're on the right track.
If you're looking for a relationship with this
woman, and you're not going to have sex with her
before that point or before marriage, then you're
OK talking about "normal" topics.
The Cocky & Funny material will only make you
more attractive to her, so make sure you ask HER
the kinds of questions you want the answers to,
and make sure that SHE is the right girl for you.
Thanks for the email.
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave.
I've read your book and i totally agree with your
C&F attitude (it has worked for me). Anyway, here
are some facts about me:I'm 21 yo, live in Greece,
really handsome,never done a PICK UP(get her
number). Although i look older and...experienced,
I'm quite inexperienced with women. I'd appreciate
if you answered a specific question. Here is the
situation i have been maaany times:I'm sitting
with a friend of mine in a cafeteria. 3 or 4
meters away there is a table with 2-3 girls
chatting or playing a board game.I "catch" one of
them staring at me with that silly expression that
says"I LIKE YOU".What should i do?I should
immediately stand up and approach their table with
confidence. Then what?I'd like you to tell me the
EXACT words i should use.
I look forward to hear from you.
Aris P.
P.S. Please forget about the email. The target
here is clear: Her mobile phone number
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, this is going to sound simple... and it
is.
The first thing you need to understand is that
if a woman likes you, then she's VERY likely to
give you her phone number, email address, or
whatever. I even know a guy who gets women's
addresses and a map to their house when he first
meets them. Really.
You need to just start talking to women.
Walk over to the table, say, "Hi" to one of the
girls, and then ask her a few questions about
herself. Finally, say "It was nice talking to
you... I'm going to get back to my friends." As
you turn to walk away, turn back and say, "Hey! Do
you have a mobile phone?" If she says "yes", then
give her a pen, and say "Write down your number,
I'd like to talk to you again."
It really is that simple.
You need to do that about 100 times in the next
month.
You'll learn so much that you won't believe it.
Do it!
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I bought your book about a month ago and I have
used some of your techniques to success. There is
this girl I like at my bank and who I thought
liked me. The problem is I let the beauty get the
best of me. I bought your book after I met her in
hopes to getting her. Well I used some charm by
dropping a card through the drive through and
writing if she wanted to go out Sunday night. Let
me tell ya she melted and told me that no one has
ever did that for her before. She told me to give
her my number and that she would call me for
Sunday night. Well Sunday rolled around and she
didn't call but the next time I saw her she turned
red and greeted me with a smile and the apologetic
excuse that I was away this weekend and I feel so
bad I didn't call you and then she bowed her head
and said she was sorry but didn't say she would
call. I asked two of my friends one c+f guy who
has great success with girls and he said you
should have told her "playing hard to get" and
laugh at her excuse to get her thinking. While my
other friend who seems like a wuss at times but
also gets laid quite often said to be up front and
say what happened and lets try again. What do you
think I should do? Should I say anything? Its been
a month but I see her about 3X a week at the bank.
Plus she is always telling the other tellers I
look hot by the way I dress--Armani guy and that I
am well off because I drive a real nice SUV. My
gut feeling is to move on. Thanks.
J in Ct.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, at this stage in the game, I'd recommend
that you ALWAYS get her number and email.
You be the one to email and call her first.
This way you can follow up, and she knows that
you know how to get a hold of her.
The card and the asking her out on a "date" was
probably a little too much, in my opinion.
When you do things like this, you come across
as overly interested.
Better to say "Hey, give me your email", then
to email and suggest a cup of tea. Then, if tea
goes well, suggest something else... and so on.
Let things progress naturally, and don't come
on so strong in the beginning.
Here's what I'd do if I were you:
Next time you see her, say "OK, you're playing
hard to get, but it's not working on me (in a
funny way). Give me your email and number, and
I'll call you in a few days."
Then get her info, and wait a few days to call
her.
When you do reach her, tell her that she owes
you a cup of tea for being flaky. And make her pay
for it.
And make sure you don't act like a needy Wuss,
OK?
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
Your material rocks, after Henry Ford, you are the
man who has changed America. I have one huge
question. As you often say, women test a lot and
do it by many different ways. I recently have come
to a certain girl who we call, a woman player. At
some point, were everything I was doing was going
well, she just said "I love you". I know that
saying this on the first date for a guy is a no-
no, but what if she says it. I know that this time
it was a test, but what if this happens and the
girl is serious?
thank-you s-d
Quebec
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, if you are interesting enough, you're
going to have women saying things like "I love
you" all the time.
And, just like Hans Solo said to Princess Leia,
you need to say...
"I know."
Don't turn into Wussy Boy and say something
dumb like... "really?".
And by the way, if a woman is SERIOUS when she
says "I love you" on the first date, then you need
to be really, really careful... lol.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hi Dave
Bought the book a couple of days ago, printed it
off yesterday (guess that defeats the point of e-
books, but it makes it easier to read sitting on
the toilet!) and read it. Went out on a date
yesterday evening, and suddenly I'm like a mind
reader...
Had a date Friday, before reading the book. She
said she doesn't even want to talk to me again.
Date last night (Sunday), was a bit cold and
wasn't opening up. Had a few beers, then told her
I could tell her things about herself that no-
one's ever told her before. Did a few minutes of
that, she melted and asked me was reading a
woman's mind my party trick! Bear in mind I only
picked this up from reading the book, and threw in
a bit of common sense and guess work into it to
make it sound good :-)
She went home to hers, I went back to mine. Asked
her to text me on my mobile when she got back
home. She done that. She's already emailed me this
morning too. Suddenly after all these years it's
starting to make sense...
Enough of my rambling, thank you for a damn fine
book. It's very early days, but already things are
changing.
Thanks again, keep up the good work!
A.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
It's funny, because I get a lot of emails from
guys who say things like "I downloaded your book
today, and I sat and read it all the way
through... then I went out and got a girl's
number", etc.
Of course, the best is when I get the success
stories like yours from guys who are taking the
materials, and using them to get responses from
women that they've never gotten before.
Great job...
Now, if you're ready to take your success with
women up about ten more notches, it's time for you
to get yourself a copy of my Advanced Dating
Techniques CD/DVD program.
This program is jam-packed with literally
hundreds and hundreds of fantastic concepts and
step-by-step techniques that will dramatically
increase your successes... far beyond where it is
right now.
You can watch some great sample video clips and
get all the details here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
And if you're reading this right now, and you
haven't downloaded my online eBook, you need to go
and do that RIGHT NOW. You can download it and
literally be reading it in a few minutes. Go
download it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
And I'll talk to you soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. I wrote you a letter telling the story of how
I learned all this stuff about how to meet women,
get dates, and everything else... If you have a
minute, you should read it:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
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