What Women Look For In A Man
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I thought it would be interesting to give you a
different point of view this time.
And I thought it might be helpful to take you
"behind the scenes", and show you what it's like for
a woman when she's "looking" for a man.
OK, to start with, I have something important to
tell you:
WOMEN ARE CRAZY.
I know, profound.
You can write me later and tell me how this new
revelation has changed your life.
But please calm down, collect yourself, and let
me explain.
Why do I say that women are "crazy"?
Well, BECAUSE THEY ARE, first of all. lol...
No, it's because women do something that SEEMS
crazy (especially if you're a man).
Women like to SAY ONE THING, but when the time
comes around to actually ACT, they do something
TOTALLY DIFFERENT.
I could go into an essay on why this is, but
for the purposes of this discussion, the most
important reason has to do with EMOTIONS.
Women tend to SAY what they THINK when they're
asked a question.
But they tend to ACT on their EMOTIONS when an
actual SITUATION presents itself.
Here's an example:
You meet a woman, and get her number. You call
her up. She agrees to meet you the next day for
a cup of coffee. The next day comes around, and she
doesn't show up. You call her. Something came up,
and she just couldn't make it.
Ever been there?
What happened? (And doesn't it piss you off when
women ALWAYS seem to do this? Me too.)
Well, what HAPPENED is when you were talking to
her on the phone, coffee the next day sounded fine.
But when the next day showed up, something else
that was more interesting came up, and she didn't
FEEL like meeting you anymore.
Or maybe she just decided that she DIDN'T FEEL
like meeting you when she woke up the next day.
Whatever.
But it PROBABLY had something to do with her
not FEELING the same way anymore.
Now, if you're a man, you hear something like
this and say "She lied. She said she would be there,
and she didn't show up. She's a liar."
Or you say "Women who do this lack integrity."
Or even "Women are FLAKY!"
Of course, ALL OF THESE ARE TRUE!
lol... no, no, no. Just kidding. Well, I'm not
kidding 100%, but I'm kidding.
The point that I'm trying to make here is that
when a woman says one thing, then does another, she
sees that as being perfectly OK, because she's
"just following her feelings".
But from a MAN'S point of view, if a woman says
one thing, then does another, she's either a liar,
being flaky, or doesn't have integrity.
Here's the point:
Women aren't going to change "how they feel"
about this topic anytime soon.
So us guys are basically left with two main
options in a situation like this one:
1) Keep banging our heads against the wall and
expecting women to change, and start showing up
when they say they will.
2) Learn how to make women FEEL like they want to
actually show up for the meeting, so when they
wake up the next day, they SHOW UP.
Get it?
Good.
Now let's talk about the REAL topic of this
newsletter... WHAT WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A MAN.
Of course, in my usual style, I'm going to put
an interesting twist on this concept.
I'm going to argue that women will SAY that
they "look for" one thing, but they actually
RESPOND to something completely different.
All guys know that women seem to be "naturally"
attracted to things like fame, wealth, Brad- Pitt-
handsomeness, height, etc.
But I've now realized something that is
actually pretty profound when you REALLY get it.
I now believe that women DON'T KNOW what they
are ACTUALLY responding to.
In other words, these things like money and
fame trigger EMOTIONS inside of women.
And if you're NOT rich or famous or naturally
handsome, you can get the same kinds of responses
from women if you learn how to TRIGGER THE
SAME EMOTIONS.
So, in the end, what women are REALLY "looking
for" is a man who triggers their ATTRACTION.
Of course, a woman will never SAY this to you.
If you ask a woman what she's looking for,
she'll say "I'm looking for a nice, honest guy who
is successful and cute".
But if she actually MEETS this guy, and he just
happens to be a WUSSY who acts needy and clingy,
then she's NOT going to be into him.
In this case, she won't respond to the guy that
she's "looking for" by being attracted to him. And
it won't work out.
On the other hand, if this same woman meets a
guy who ISN'T what she "thinks" that she's "looking
for", but he triggers her ATTRACTION EMOTION,
then it's all over.
It DOESN'T MATTER if he's rich or handsome,
because he's done something that TRUMPS these
things.
It has taken me a long time to actually get to
the point where I BELIEVE this at a deep level. And
the REASON I believe it is because I've never been
the type of guy that women "approach".
I have friends that are tall and handsome... and
when we go out, women start conversations with them.
Before I learned what I know now, women never
felt that powerful, GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for me
that they do for my taller, handsome friends.
But NOW, now that I know how to use my body
language and other communication to trigger the
EMOTIONS in a woman, it's COMPLETELY different.
I get responses from women that I actually
considered IMPOSSIBLE before.
And it's not because I grew 5 inches or became
more handsome.
It's because I KNOW SOMETHING that most guys
just don't know.
As you've read in these newsletters, there are
certain techniques, like being Cocky & Funny,
teasing women, never acting like a Wussy, etc. that
will help you be successful as well.
Use them. Use what you learn.
There's a BIG difference between what women are
"looking for" and what they RESPOND TO. Don't let
anyone tell you any different.
AND, if you're reading this right now, and you're
saying to yourself "OK, it's time that I stopped
wasting time screwing around, and I GOT MY BUTT IN
GEAR and learned how to meet women", then you need
to do yourself a HUGE favor.
You need to TAKE ACTION, and get yourself a copy
of my Advanced Dating Techniques program.
It's taken me about FIVE YEARS to find, test,
and develop the concepts that I teach in this
program... and I guarantee that it will forever
change the way you view the topic of women and
dating.
More importantly, it will help you walk out your
front door, and meet more attractive women starting
IMMEDIATELY.
And I'm not kidding.
When you get it, you'll be stunned.
You'll probably lock yourself in your house for
three days and listen to the whole thing.
But when you finally unlock your door, and walk
back out into the world, your interactions with
women will be VERY different.
I think I've said enough.
Go read all about it, and check out the free
audio and video samples here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries
And if you haven't downloaded your copy of my
original eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need
to do that immediately. It's the introduction to
all of my concepts, and it's the perfect primer to
get you ready for my Advanced Dating Techniques
program. Details and free samples are here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook
And I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. If you'd like to become a master of attracting
women... and getting dates... then you owe it to
yourself to check out all of the different
programs I've created to help you learn this very
important skill. You can see them all here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
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