Friday, April 30, 2010

David DeAngelo Confesses His Secrets

Hey Man - If you really want to learn how to
start turning your "hit and miss" success with
women into consistent, repeatable, MASSIVE success,
and become the type of man ALL women find
irresistible, then go here, right now:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/


Hey Man,

Hi, it's David D. here.

I wanted to take a minute and tell you my
story, explain how I learned what works to attract
women... and to give you some pointers on how you
can get the most out of my different techniques,
concepts, and programs.

First, let me answer the question:

"Who Is David DeAngelo... And How Can He Help Me
Become More Successful With Women And Dating?"

I'm actually a pretty normal guy, who went
through a point where I decided that I needed to
get this part of my life called "meeting women"
handled.

I won't bore you with the details, but I was
going through a time where I had just moved to a
new city... I was single... and I had NO IDEA how
to meet women or get dates. One night I was
talking to one of my best friends and I said, "I
am going to figure this out for myself, no matter
what it takes".

Well, it wasn't exactly easy to "figure it
out". I spent the next few years reading a lot of
books, listening to "motivational tapes", going to
seminars, and generally trying out a lot of whacky
ideas that I was learning.

The real "break" came when I started meeting
and hanging out with guys that were NATURALLY good
with women.

I'm talking about guys who had figured out how
to get ANY woman on their own.

As I learned from these guys, I noticed that
they did certain things and communicated with
women in certain ways that REALLY didn't "add up".

Maybe they would make fun of an attractive
woman... but the woman would respond by laughing
and playfully hitting them on the arm.

Or they'd tell a woman that they didn't like
being treated like a sex object, and that she'd
better not try the "buy me a drink trick" just to
get a date... and they'd wind up having the woman
begging for their number.

The more I saw things that "didn't make sense"
actually WORKING with women, the more I began
thinking that I might be on the verge of
discovering something big.

To make a long story short, I made rapid
progress by learning from these "naturals", and I
took the things I learned from them... tested and
refined the ideas into a system... and put it all
together for myself.

Guys often ask me to tell them stories or give
them "field reports" about women I've dated. They
want to know if I've dated anyone famous... or
they want the exact word-for-word transcript of
every time I've approached a woman.

It's not my style to brag a lot or tell
stories, but the fact is that I have dated some
pretty amazing women over the last several years.
Yes, I've dated famous women. Yes, I've dated
models. And yes, I've dated women that would be
PERFECT in a starring role in a future "Fatal
Attraction" movie.

Be careful what you wish for!

One of the things I've realized is that dating
a supermodel isn't going to automatically change
your life and make you "happy" on the inside. In
fact, if you believe that attracting a woman will
be the answer to all of life's problems, I've got
bad news for you...

But I can also tell you that learning how to
successfully meet women anytime, day or night, in
any situation will bring you HUGE benefits.

I have now come to believe something that I
think is very important...

If you don't know how to successfully meet
women, then you're probably going to walk through
life feeling like "less than a man". It's not an
easy thing to explain to someone who doesn't "get
it", but I'll bet that you know EXACTLY what I'm
talking about.

On the other hand, if you DO know how to meet
and attract women, you're going to have an inner
confidence and "cool" that other people can sense
INSTANTLY.

Why Should You Believe That I Can Help You?

As you already know quite well, there are a lot
of people running around trying to convince you
that they have all the answers.

Well, unfortunately for you, I don't have ALL
the answers.

But I do believe that I have SOME of the
answers (and I think the answers I have are pretty
important).

The question you're probably asking is "Why
should I believe what David D. says?".

And my answer to you is that you SHOULDN'T just
blindly believe me.

In fact, I would recommend that you approach my
materials with a healthy skepticism, and a
"scientific" perspective.

I want you to TRY what you learn from me.

I think you'll find that I'm not interested in
things that don't work. I like stuff that gets
results. And BIG results, at that.

Only after you've seen that this stuff is
REAL... do I want you to "believe" me.

By the way, my materials aren't "perfect".

I've spent a lot of time trying to explain and
describe what I've learned over the years... and
to do it in a way that allows you to get results
as fast as possible.

The fact is that I'm learning and growing all
the time... and I've updated some of my programs
recently to reflect new things I've learned, new
understandings I have, and new techniques I've
developed.

I'm a person, and as a person I have my flaws.
But I also think my programs are the best in the
world, and I stand behind them. I honestly hope
you get a TON of value from them.


"Try Before You Buy"

I honestly believe that you should only have to
pay for my stuff IF IT HELPS YOU MEET WOMEN.

If it doesn't help you, then you shouldn't have
to pay... makes sense, right?

Before I tell you about my different programs,
I want to FIRST tell you that every program I sell
comes with a "Try Before You Buy" guarantee.

I will let you go through any program or book
you want, learn everything inside, and actually
TRY IT OUT in the real world BEFORE you pay me for
it.

If you don't get results IMMEDIATELY, then just
send it back to me... and I won't charge you. I'm
serious.

If you get to the point where you'd like to
invest in one of my programs, and you want to get
all the details, just go to any of the websites
where you can order the program, and it will all
be there.

I am 100% serious about this offer... it's
real. I only want you to pay me if you meet more
women.

Where Should You Start?

Once you start seeing improvement in your
success with women and dating, you're going to
naturally want to get into some of my more
"advanced" ideas.

The best place to start is with my first ebook:
"Double Your Dating". I've updated it, added some
great new material, and even added condensed
chapter summaries for you to reference anytime.
This book contains my very best thinking, and I
believe it's the best place to start... for ANY
guy who wants to learn how to attract and meet
women.

Before I tell you about my other programs, I
want to say something that might not be the best
thing for my wallet...

My best ideas are in this book. I'm serious.
You don't need to invest in my more advanced DVD
programs, or come to one of my live seminars to
get my "good stuff".

In fact, many of my best ideas are actually in
my FREE newsletters. Really.

My DVD programs and other materials are
designed to help guys who are interested in
getting a more "in-depth" education.

Think of it like fishing...

If you want to learn how to fish, just go
fishing with a buddy. You'll learn what you need
to know.

But if you want to learn how to fish like a
PRO, it's going to require some more education,
research, and practice.

My free newsletters and Double Your Dating
ebook will teach you everything you need to know
to meet women. If you want to become a MASTER,
then consider investing in my other programs...

You can download the ebook and be reading it in
literally minutes. Just go here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/


"Attraction Isn't A Choice"

My second ebook is called "Attraction Isn't A
Choice."

This book is heavy on the "psychology" of
attraction... but it also includes a few specific
techniques. I think of it as a deeper journey into
the mind of a man and the mind of a woman... and
the complex underlying mechanisms that are at play
during the human "mating process".

If you're fascinated by psychology and behavior
(like I am), then you'll not only enjoy learning
what's in this book... but you'll also learn how
to see every aspect of meeting women differently.

All the details are here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook/


What's The Next Step?

If you've decided to take this part of your
life "seriously", and you'd like to get a more in-
depth education, then here's how to do it...


"Interviews With Dating Gurus"

As I mentioned before, my real success with
women came after learning from guys who were
"naturals" with women.

I recommend that YOU make friends with guys who
are good with women, and spend time learning from
them.

If you don't have a lot of extra time, and
you'd like to learn from some of the guys that I
have learned from and met over the years, then you
might want to invest in my monthly "Interviews
With Dating Gurus" program.

Every month, I interview a different "Dating
Guru"... and then I edit the recording down to a
tight, focused CD that I'll send out to you.

This is the next best thing to learning from
these people in real life (it might actually be
better, because you get my experience and
connections as part of the deal).

After listening to ten or twelve of these
interviews... a few times each... it will begin to
"reprogram" your mind. It will change how you see
the world. It will install a new way of thinking
about meeting and attracting women.

Getting several different perspectives will
open your mind to the possibilities that are out
there for YOU... and you'll also learn TONS of
practical, real-world, step-by-step techniques for
every aspect of meeting women.

If you'd like to learn more about my monthly
Interviews With Dating Gurus program, just go
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/InterviewSeries/


"Advanced Dating Techniques"

I think of my Advanced Dating Techniques DVD/CD
program like "Boot Camp".

It's probably the Advanced Program I'm most
proud of, as it will really give you a DEEP
education on all aspects of meeting women.

I can remember when I first created this
program, and guys who were at the live filming of
the program said things like: "I thought you were
just going to teach the same stuff you teach in
your book... this was almost all new stuff!".

I originally created this program for guys who
were interested in more of the "inner psychology"
of dating success... in other words, guys who
wanted to learn: how and why women were attracted
to guys (and how to trigger that attraction)...
how to fix "self image" problems and how to
overcome the fear of approaching women... and how
to "undo" bad programming from earlier in life.

Of course, the program also contains literally
HUNDREDS of great tips and techniques... and even
"pick up lines" for approaching women in different
situations.

It also features me interviewing some of my
good friends who have taught ME how to meet women.
Priceless.

In short, if you're going to get started with
one of my more advanced programs, START WITH THIS
ONE. You can watch some video clips of the program
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/


"The Inner Game And The Outer Game"

As you might already know, I put a lot of
emphasis on what you might call the "Inner Game"
of success with women and dating.

The Inner Game is all about what's going on
INSIDE your mind, body and emotions.

I honestly believe that if you don't have your
Inner Game together, then almost NOTHING you do or
say is going to get you success with women.

If you don't have your inner game together,
then fancy techniques and cute pick-up lines will
only waste your time... because the woman you're
talking to will QUICKLY see that you're not the
smooth guy you're pretending to be.

On the other hand, if you DO have your Inner
Game together, then you can use almost ANY
technique or "opening line"... because the woman
you're approaching will be able to FEEL that
you're the kind of man that she's been looking
for...

Now, don't get me wrong...

Techniques, lines, and strategies DO work with
women. No question.

In fact, I've found that women APPRECIATE it
that you've taken the time to polish up your
presentation (so to speak), and learn how to
communicate in a smooth, interesting way.

But it's only part of the puzzle.

With this in mind, I like to think of my
programs as being "Inner Game" programs, "Outer
Game" (or "technique") programs... and "combined"
programs.

By the way, my ebook "Double Your Dating", and
my "Advanced Dating Techniques" program are a
balance between Inner Game and Techniques...

The reality is that I always sneak some of each
into EVERY program... but I'm going to talk about
them in terms of these two categories, so you get
an idea of how they work together...


"The Inner Game"

A solid "Inner Game" is the foundation for all
success with women (and with life in general, I
believe).

I've created several programs that are aimed at
helping you build a POWERFUL Inner Game... and I'd
like to tell you about a few of them...

"The 77 Laws Of Success With Women And Dating"

To that end, I've created a simple DVD program
called "The 77 Laws Of Success With Women And
Dating".

A quick confession: These aren't really "laws"
at all.

These are guidelines. They're concepts. They're
shortcuts.

I think of this program as me sharing my 77
best ideas... rapid fire... in a quick
"affirmation-style" program.

Most of the ideas are either Inner Game
concepts... or they're techniques or strategies
that help you BUILD a solid Inner Game.

This program is relatively short, very
condensed, and INTENSE. If you want to watch some
preview clips, go read about the program and check
them out here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/77Laws/


"Sexual Communication"

After spending years trying to learn how to
attract women, I began to notice that the guys who
were the MOST successful were actually
communicating with women on a "different level".

As I mentioned a little while ago, I took some
big personal steps forward when I went out and
actually WATCHED guys who were "naturals" as they
interacted with women.

I also mentioned that they often did things
that didn't make "logical sense". Sometimes they'd
tease a beautiful woman about her looks... or
accuse her of trying to use tricks to "get
laid"... or turn the tables in some other way.

At first, it didn't make any sense at all to
me.

In fact, it took quite awhile before I would
even ACCEPT that this stuff could POSSIBLY work to
attract women.

I mean, why would an attractive woman... who
has her choice of guys... put up with being
teased, busted on, and made fun of?

Well, the more I watched, the more I learned...
and the more it made "sense" to me.

What I discovered was that there was a level of
communication that was happening... right in front
of me all along... that I just hadn't "seen"
before.

One of the things that was MOST exciting was
that once I started to "get" what was going on, I
started to practice the "language" myself and made
pretty dramatic progress.

Later, I named this level of communication...
and I called it "Sexual Communication".

It's a language... just like the English
language... and once you learn it, you'll totally
"get" how to use it in ANY situation with women.

You'll also "get" why it is that women never
responded to you BEFORE on this level.

This type of communication is the KEY to
flirting with women effectively, building
attraction without risk... and taking things from
one "step" to the next... smoothly, and without
any rejection.

Toward the end of this program, I'll also teach
you easily take things to a "physical" level whenever
you'd like.

I think of this program mostly as an "Inner
Game" program, even though it contains some
fantastic step-by-step techniques and
progressions. I HIGHLY recommend it if you'd like
to learn how to connect the Inner and Outer game
together.

Details and video preview clips are here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/


"On Being A Man... Who Naturally Attracts Women"

After putting a lot of time and energy into
learning what it takes to attract and meet women,
I finally realized that women aren't attracted to
BOYS. They're attracted to MEN.

And the single best thing you can do to
increase your success with women and dating is to
learn what's holding you back from maturing into a
MAN... and then fix those things so you become the
kind of man that women are NATURALLY attracted to.

Now, I have to warn you... this program
probably has fewer "techniques" you can use to
attract women than ANY of my programs.

But it's probably also the most PROFOUND of all
my programs.

This program will explain to you why most men
walk around like Wussbags, begging for attention
from women... and why this turns women off faster
than you can flip a light switch.

And it also explains what to do if YOU need to
get rid of your "Inner Wussy"... and it explains
how to become a MAN... even if you didn't have a
strong masculine male figure as a role-model
growing up.

In this program, you're going to face
everything from your fears... to your fear of
DEATH. It's heavy, no question.

I guarantee that one review of this program
will deeply affect your view of life, women, and
yourself. It's like taking a sip of water from a
fire hydrant... refreshing, but scary.

I also guarantee that this program will create
a change in you that other people will notice...
no question.

If it sounds like something you need, then go
read the details and watch some video clips here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan/


"Deep Inner Game"

The program I just told you about (On Being A
Man) is directed at your CORE. It's about
affecting your IDENTITY.

If you already "get" what it means to be a
mature, masculine, confident man who knows what
he's doing in life... and you have more specific
PSYCHOLOGICAL Inner Game challenges, then you
might want to consider investing in my Deep Inner
Game program.

This program came about after several
conversations that a friend (who goes by the name
of "Dr. Paul") and I had about the challenges that
men face with their Inner Game.

I met Dr. Paul at one of my live seminars, and
we became fast friends.

I think of myself as a "regular guy who likes
to read a lot about psychology", and I think of
Dr. Paul as a "psychologist who likes to help a
lot of regular guys".

As I got to know him, he explained that he had
spent the last several years developing a "unified
theory" of psychology. The more he explained it to
me, the more I realized that his system was the
simplest, easiest-to-understand, most applicable,
and FASTEST system for getting RESULTS... that I'd
ever seen.

Well, after talking about it for quite awhile,
and after doing one of my monthly "Interviews With
Dating Gurus" (and getting great feedback from
guys on it), we decided to do a program together.

This program is called "Deep Inner Game". It's
all about the psychology of overcoming your inner
limitations, fixing "believe-level" problems, and
developing a rock-solid self image... and high
self-esteem... so you can confidently meet and
attract women.

It's the only program of it's type... because
it takes the scientific advancements from the
field of psychology, and applies them to this
SPECIFIC challenge of becoming more successful
with women and dating.

If you need to work on your DEEP Inner Game,
then go read the details and watch some video
preview clips here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame/


"Become Mr. Right"

It's the most powerful program of its kind for
creating and sustaining a relationship with a
"Total 10" woman - a woman who's a 10 on the
"inside" and a 10 on the "outside."


This program is built around a set of EMOTIONAL
TOOLS - for managing your emotions, and your Total
10's emotions - so you can build a deep, lasting,
powerful connection that can withstand the test of
time.


I'm going to teach you a revolutionary method
to make sure your relationship STARTS STRONG, and
STAYS STRONG.


Now, one of my programs wouldn't be "complete"
if I didn't also JAM-PACK it with killer
techniques as well - and this one is full of them.

Check it out here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BecomeMrRight/


"Power Sexuality"

It's tough to call this program an "Inner Game"
program without explaining what I'm talking
about... so here goes.

This is one of the latest programs I've
developed, and I waited to do this program until
after I had created most of my others... for a
very specific reason.

The more I learned about different aspects of
meeting women, and the more I put my ideas "on
paper"... and taught them in live seminars... the
more I saw that almost EVERYTHING connected in one
way or another to SEXUALITY.

When I finally DID a program on sex, I found
that most of the materials that I was including
really weren't about "technique" or the ACT of
sex... they were more about the CONCEPT.

Over the years, as I've worked with not only my
own challenges... but also helping many other guys
overcome their challenges... I've found that many
of our challenges with things like approaching
women... starting conversations... kissing a woman
for the first time... come down to how we THINK about sex.

I now believe that if you don't have your
"issues" worked this... and if you don't
BELIEVE that you will give a woman a MIND-BLOWING
experience in the bedroom... then you're going to screw-up
just about everything ELSE that happens BEFORE you even
GET the chance to be physical.

In other words, if you don't have sex
"handled", then it will literally sabotage the
rest of your success with women.

And to fix this, I've created a program that I
call "Power Sexuality: How To Increase Your
Sexual Confidence By Mastering Advanced Mental,
Emotional, And Sexual Techniques".

You'll notice that the second part of the title
above starts with the words "How To Increase Your
Sexual Confidence...".

Now, why did I choose THESE specific words?

What is "Sexual Confidence"?

And why do we need it?

Well, I've had a lot of guys say things to me
like "I don't have any sexual confidence" and "I
wish I had more sexual confidence". These are the
words that REAL GUYS use to describe their
problems.

At first, I didn't really notice that these
specific words were being used so often.

But after I started paying closer attention, I
realized that men have a common challenge... and
they often use the same words to describe it.

I've now come to realize that if you don't have
CONFIDENCE when it comes to sex, then you're not
going to have CONFIDENCE when it comes to just
about anything else with women...

You're not going to have confidence when it
comes to approaching a woman. You're not going to
have confidence when it comes to asking for her
number... or asking her out on a date... or
kissing her... or anything else.

This program is ALL about BUILDING that Sexual
Confidence. It's all about overcoming guilt,
shame, fear, self-consciousness and anxiety that
are connected to your DESIRE and sex drive.

And it's also all about teaching you some
secret tricks and techniques for giving any woman
a MIND- BLOWING bedroom experience with you.

You can read all about this program, and watch
some great video clips of it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/PowerSexuality/


The Technique-Based Programs

Once you've gotten your "Inner Game" together,
it's time to really start working on your "moves".

And if you'd like to learn the most effective
techniques for meeting women and getting dates,
then this is the place to learn them...

"Approaching Women And Starting Conversations"

For most guys, the scariest, most intense part
of meeting women is APPROACHING women in order to
start conversations.

How many times have you seen a girl that you'd
like to meet, and maybe even made eye contact with
her... but you just couldn't get up the nerve to
talk to her?

Well, it's happened to me about a MILLION
times.

And before I knew HOW to approach women and
start conversations, I was STUCK.

Of course, the worst part was that I'd think
about it for hours or even DAYS afterward... and
I'd mentally beat myself up about it.

The good news is that approaching women is a
SKILL that can be LEARNED.

It's not magic, and anyone can do it.

The good news is that once you learn this
skill, you'll see that it's actually easy and fun.

First, you must learn to overcome your
irrational inner fears, and then you must learn
what to do and say.

Once you put these two pieces together, you can
approach virtually any woman in virtually any
situation, and easily start a conversation.

Once you learn how to start conversations
naturally, it will be EASY for you to get phone
numbers and email addresses... and DATES.

In this program, I'm going to help you work
through your fears of approaching women... and I'm
going to teach you exactly how to start
conversations without rejection.

Oh, I've also brought in a group of guest
speakers that are MASTERS at approaching women.
When you add them up, the guys in this program
have approached literally THOUSANDS of women.

You're also going to meet a pair of WOMEN who
take men out and teach them how to approach women
LIVE "in the field".

It's going to blow your mind, really.

If you'd like to learn the skill of approaching
women and starting conversations, go read about
the program and watch some preview video clips
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/


"Cocky Comedy & Other Conversation Skills"

Have you ever heard that women are attracted to
humor?

Have you ever had the feeling that if you could
just make a woman LAUGH... the rest would be easy?

Have you ever wondered why some guys were so
NATURAL at making conversation with women... while
it always seemed like a challenge to you?

I can relate. In fact, I can more than
relate... I can IDENTIFY.

One of the most obvious "common denominators"
that I found when I was meeting guys who were
"naturals" with women... was their ability to make
women LAUGH and SMILE.

The more I saw this, the more I thought that
these guys must understand how to be "funny".

This turned out to be only PART of the
equation.

The REST of the equation was the HOW.

After observing many interactions between men
and women, I started to notice a pattern...

Many of the things that the "successful" guys
were saying to women weren't what you might call
"nice". They weren't sweet, affectionate "please
like me" words. And they weren't a bunch of
"jokes" that you might hear from a stand-up
comedian.

No, this was something different.

One of my friends tried to describe it to me
using the words "cocky" and "funny".

And I noticed that he would often make
arrogant, condescending, sarcastic remarks to
women... that were somehow "OK"... because they
weren't entirely SERIOUS.

I eventually came to understand this technique,
why it works, and how to use it. And I have to
tell you, it's one of the most EFFECTIVE
techniques you will ever learn for creating
ATTRACTION.

In my program "Cocky Comedy", I'm going to
teach you the "roots" of humor. I'm also going to
teach you all about why humans laugh (it's not why
you think). As a matter of fact, think about it
for a minute...

Why do most people laugh?

Is it because they heard something funny?

No, it's not.

The next ten times you hear someone laugh, ask
yourself "Did they just hear something funny?".
The answer will almost ALWAYS be "no".

People only laugh in response to humor on RARE
occasion.

Most of the time, we're laughing in response to
something that contains no humor at all... like
another person talking about the weather... or
about a work situation.

Laugher serves an important purpose that is WAY
beyond humor. And it is a way that women
communicate INTEREST in men, as well.

If you'd like to learn how to use humor and
other conversation skills to create ATTRACTION,
then I highly recommend that you go check out the
details of this program... and watch some of the
video clips here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/


"Using Body Language To Attract Women"

When guys first start learning about how to
meet women, the first thing they want is almost
always "pick up lines"...

They want to know the WORDS to use to meet
women.

They're often surprised when I tell them that
their BODY LANGUAGE is at least as important as
the words they're using (actually, it's MORE
important).

Posture, gestures, eye contact... all of these
are signals that women can read VERY well. I've
heard that women can read body language ten TIMES
better than men.

If you ask women, they'll often tell you that
they can know what another person is feeling and
thinking just by looking at how they're sitting or
standing... how they're moving... and what their
expression is.

For some reason, most men do NOT have this
"natural talent".

For us guys, we have to LEARN how to
communicate with our body language.

I've created a program dedicated to exactly
that... how to use Body Language to create
ATTRACTION with women.

In this program, I'll teach you about the
different messages you're sending with your body
language, gestures, and eye contact... and I'll
teach you how to INSTANTLY make yourself more
attractive by understanding the mistakes you're
currently making (and how to fix them fast).

Women are making dozens of decisions about you
in the first few seconds... and you might as well
take CONTROL of those decisions by taking CONTROL
of the messages you're sending with your body.
This program will help you do exactly that.

You can read about the details, and watch video
clips here:

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"Meeting Women Online"

When I first started learning how to meet women
"seriously", the Internet was a HUGE help to me.

Why?

Because it allowed me to "test out" my ideas...
and it allowed me to "practice" with women in a
"slow motion" environment.

Talking to a woman on an instant messenger
program is different from talking to a woman in
person.

You get to communicate, and you get to do
things that build attraction... but you get to do
it at about a TENTH the speed of normal
conversation... and you get to do it without all
the distractions that come from being right in
front of someone.

It allows you to focus on the art of
communicating your ideas with words... and it
allows you time to THINK about what you're going
to say between comments.

Communicating by email "slows down" the dialog
even MORE.

When I first started, I would spend time almost
every day chatting and emailing with women... and
it was a PRICELESS experience.

Even MORE incredible is the power of placing
online personal ads...

This allows you to really put your "best foot
forward", and learn what makes women respond to
YOU.

It also allows you to test different ideas,
approaches, and styles of communicating... so you
can see EXACTLY what works and what doesn't. As
you can probably imagine, this is very valuable
information. It teaches you not only what works
ONLINE, but also what works in GENERAL.

Practicing your Cocky & Funny conversation
skills online "drills" them into your mind... so
you have them ready when you meet women in PERSON.

And finally, there's nothing more convenient
than being able to sit down at your computer
anytime, day or night, and chat with single women
who are looking for dates.

I've put an entire program together that will
teach you about all of the important aspects of
meeting women online... and how to use different
types of technology to start conversations, build
attraction, and get dates.

I've brought in several of my friends to teach
you their step-by-step methods for meeting women
online... and I even do some "make-overs"... where
we take a guy and his profile, and fix it LIVE.

If you're interested in learning how to use the
incredible power of the Internet to meet women,
then you MUST check this program out. Go here to
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"Meeting Women In Bars & Clubs"

Wouldn't it be great if attractive single women
would all go out and gather together... so you
could find them all in one place?

Wouldn't it also be cool if they put on their
best clothes, made themselves up and did their
hair, then put on some great music in the
background?

I know, I'm making bars and clubs sound like
paradise... huh?

Well, the truth is that bars and clubs are
AMAZING places to meet women.

If you've ever been out to a popular place on a
Saturday night, then you know that beautiful
single women show up in GROUPS...

But there's more to the story...

Anywhere that attracts a lot of hot women also
attracts a lot of COMPETITION.

Most guys find that trying to meet women in
bars and clubs is CHALLENGING.

I mean, we are talking about an environment
that's loud and distracting... and full of other
guys who are working hard to meet the same women.

What you may NOT realize is that most of the
guys who go out to bars do NOT meet many women.

And what you may also not realize is that if
you KNOW how to meet women in this environment,
it's actually EASY.

When I first started learning how to meet women
myself, I would go out to bars and clubs, and use
them as "practice" environments.

It's truly amazing to be able to go somewhere
and try something ten times in a row... just to
see how it works.

It's also great to be able to approach women,
one after the other, knowing that it really
doesn't matter what happens... because if the
first one isn't interesting, there are fifty more
behind her.

But like anything else, the key to success in
these environments is KNOWING WHAT YOU'RE DOING.

I've created a special program dedicated to
helping you meet women in bars and clubs, and if
you're interested in learning how to take
advantage of this amazing opportunity to meet
attractive women where they gather in groups...
then this program will help you DRAMATICALLY.

You can get all the details and watch some
great video clips here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BarsAndClubs/


So Now What Should I Do?

I'd like to wrap this up by pointing out a
couple of things to you, and making a couple of
recommendations.

First of all, let's talk about your future.

There's an old saying that goes like this: "If
you keep doing what you've done, you'll keep
getting what you've got".

In other words, if you want different RESULTS
in your life, then you're going to have to DO
something different.

Success with women isn't an "accident". You're
not going to wake up tomorrow and know how to
attract women. Sorry to be the one to tell you the
bad news.

But the GOOD news is that you can LEARN how to
meet women.

I know, because I used to have no idea what I
was doing with women... and I LEARNED how to
overcome my fears, approach women, and get dates.

The difference between you and me is that I had
to learn the HARD way. I spent YEARS of my life...
and a lot of money learning stuff that just didn't
work.

You have the chance to take advantage of all
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After you go through that program, you need to
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If you'd like to work on your Inner Game, then
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If you like to work on TECHNIQUES, then
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Your Friend,

David D.


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Wednesday, April 28, 2010

10 Reasons Intelligent Men Fail With Women

10 Reasons Intelligent Men Fail With Women


>NOTE: If you're finally ready to stop failing
with women, and you want to learn how to
meet and attract women like a MASTER, then
go watch the VIDEO clips of the programs I've
created to give you the success you're
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The Ten Reasons/Mistakes Why HIGHLY INTELLIGENT
Men FAIL With Women... AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT...

   I've been teaching men how to become more
successful with women and dating for several years
now... and one "problem scenario" just keeps
coming up OVER AND OVER... and OVER and OVER and
OVER again...

   ...and it really amazes me.

   I'm going to refer to it as "The Genius Failure
Paradox".

   "The Genius Failure Paradox" is the tendency
for UNUSUALLY intelligent men to have very LOW
levels of success with women and dating.

   After contemplating this particular paradox,
discussing it, and working on it for an awesome
amount of time, I'd like to share my thoughts
about it with you.

   I assume that if you've read this far, then you
probably see yourself as smarter than the average
guy.

   You know that you're a little different than
other guys.

   You probably realized at a young age that you
saw things differently and thought differently
than others in school...

   And you've probably realized that your smart
mind gives you an advantage over others in many
areas of life...

   Your smart mind gives you a particular type of
advantage that can be very, very powerful in life:
YOU'RE USUALLY RIGHT.

   Smart people get used to being "right" because
they usually ARE right.

   And when you're RIGHT more often than others,
you can get ahead in many situations.

   But unfortunately, this smart mind of yours can
actually be WORSE than USELESS when it comes to a
key area of life:

   WOMEN AND DATING.

   By the way, I did say WORSE than useless.

   It can actually be like having a hammer when
you need to tighten a bolt. If you use the tool
you have for the job, you'll most likely make the
situation WORSE.

   Of course, it's hard for a smart guy to even
IMAGINE a situation where his smart mind could
HURT his chances for success...

   But trust me, this is one of those situations.

   So relax, open your smart mind, and let me
share with you the ten reasons why smart guys fail
with women... and what to do about it.


REASON #1: THEY'RE WRONG, BUT THEY CAN'T OR WON'T
SEE IT OR ADMIT IT.

   I mentioned that smart guys are used to being
RIGHT in most situations.

   And what do most smart guys do when they come
across a situation where they're WRONG?

   They find a new situation... one that fits
their strength. They know they'll be right next
time, so they just walk away... knowing that it
won't be long before they're right again.

   (OR they let the "problem situation" destroy
them... more on that later.)

   Well, the BITCH about being wrong when it comes
to women and dating is THERE'S NOWHERE TO RUN AND
HIDE.

   There's no quick "I'm right" around the next
corner to make you feel better.

   It only takes "failing" with a few women in a
row for a smart guy to see the pattern... and
realize that something isn't working.

   Solution? Think harder.

   A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be
good... so he just keeps thinking harder.

   But when no success comes, it really starts to
become mentally difficult.

   Accepting that you're wrong is a VERY hard
thing for a "smart guy" to do.

   Accepting that you're not only wrong, but you
have NO CLUE WHERE TO EVEN START is even more
difficult.

   Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the
following logical conclusion:

I AM A SMART GUY, THEREFORE IF I CAN'T FIGURE OUT
HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND DATING, THEN
THE PROBLEM MUST NOT BE SOLVABLE OR WORTH SOLVING.

   Try that on for a self-defeating idea.


REASON #2: THEY'RE BLIND AND ARROGANT.

   In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that
a good, solid, workable answer could come from
someone "dumber" than them, so they discount any
idea that comes from an "obviously less
intelligent person" before trying it.

   Let me ask you a question:

   If you were going to be walking across Africa
on foot, would you rather have your guide be the
guy on this planet with the highest I.Q., or a
caveman who lived a million years ago that had an
I.Q. of about 50... but who grew up being chased
by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to
eat him all his life?

   It's an interesting question.

   Now, hopefully you'd like to have the guide who
isn't the smartest guy around... but who has
escaped from many, many dangerous situations with
deadly animals...

   But now let me ask you:

   If you'd like to learn how to be more
successful with women and dating, would you take
advice from a guy who isn't very intelligent, but
who knows how to attract women?

   There's something about being smart that makes
some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or
instruction from anyone who isn't either as smart
or smarter than them.

   Well, any SMART GUY can see the folly in this
particular approach... once it's examined closely.

   If you've been making this mistake, then you
need to STOP IT. Stop being an arrogant bastard,
and open your eyes.

   Look around.

   Learn from some "dumb" guys... and let them
teach you how to get what you REALLY want.


REASON #3: POOR SOCIAL SKILLS.

   It BLOWS MY MIND how many smart guys I meet
that just don't GET IT when it comes to basic
social skills.

   It's as if they have logically reasoned that
social skills are for lower beings who need to
play games... and not worth the time it would take
to learn them.

   In fact, I believe that there are a lot of
smart guys running around this planet who don't
even have "social skills" and "be a cool guy that
people like" in their MENTAL MODEL of what it
could possibly take to be successful with women
and dating.

   Social skills are just that... SKILLS.

   They're not social INFORMATION.

   They're not social THEORIES.

   They're social SKILLS.

   And you don't get them by THINKING about them.
You get them by GETTING them.

   Excellent social skills are the foundation for
good communication with other humans... and if you
don't have good social skills, you dramatically
lower your chances for success with women.


REASON #4: THEY PSYCH THEMSELVES OUT.

   Smart guys do something that fascinates the
hell out of me...

   They come up with all the reasons why
everything WON'T WORK when it comes to women and
dating.

   They actually figure out why what it is that
they would like to do will probably fail...

   They use their amazing creative imaginations to
imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and
scenes... and then they use those imaginary
outcomes to create negative emotions... which
ultimately stop them from having success with
women and dating.

   THEY DON'T EVEN TRY.

   Now, if you've thought something through and
come up with a good reason why it would fail, it
makes sense to not do it, right?

   I mean, why would you want to do things that
are going to fail?

   It is sound logic, but HORRIBLE thinking when
it comes to the REAL WORLD... and success with
women.

   Because smart guys don't UNDERSTAND women, and
they don't UNDERSTAND what it takes to be
successful with women, they are working with bad
figures. They're wrong before they even start
figuring!

   Using your mind to come up with all the reasons
why things won't work in this area of your life
leads to ULTIMATE FAILURE.

   You must learn to overcome this habit if you
have it.


REASON #5: THEY SEEK ONLY "INFORMATIONAL
SOLUTIONS"

   What does a smart guy do when he runs into a
problem... or he needs to figure something out?

   He looks for INFORMATION to help him solve the
problem.

   MORE INFORMATION is always the answer.

   Information is the friend of a smart guy.

   Got a strange virus on your computer? Just hop
on the Internet and search for how to eliminate
it.

   Don't know how to change the alternator on your
car? No prob. Just buy the manual and turn to page
147.

   Don't know the definition of a word? Open up
your dictionary.

   MORE INFORMATION solves the problem.

   So what do smart guys do when it comes to
overcoming a problem with women?

   They want MORE INFORMATION.

   They think the answer lies in learning just ONE
MORE TECHNIQUE... or one more magic concept.

   Well what if there were a situation in life
where the "get more information" strategy actually
made things WORSE?

   How would you even know that it was making
things worse?

   Now, I don't want to suggest that learning more
about how to be successful with women is a bad
thing. It's not.

   But if you have a problem that is EMOTIONAL or
PHYSICAL in nature, then reading five million
theories on it probably isn't going to help you
very much.

   You need to get out in the real world and try
some stuff!

   You need to look at the REAL problem... the
ROOT of the problem.

   When it comes to women and dating, there's a
very good chance that you have MORE than enough
"information".

   Smart guys often use "more information" to
distract them from TAKING ACTION.

   I've heard this referred to as "Creative
Avoidance".

   Nod silently if you've ever figured out a
creative way to avoid facing something in your
life.

   Good, thank you.


REASON #6: THEY FOCUS ON LOGIC INSTEAD OF EMOTION.

   NEWS JUST IN: Women don't feel ATTRACTION for
men who make them THINK.

   Women feel ATTRACTION for men who make them
FEEL.

   So what do most smart guys do when they first
meet a woman?

   EXACTLY!

   They get into a LOGICAL CONVERSATION.

   I'm shaking my head right now...

   Smart men try to engage women in LOGICAL
conversations and interactions because that's
where THEY feel comfortable... not knowing that
they're SHOOTING THEMSELVES IN THE FOOT by doing
it!

   Get this: A monkey sitting at a typewriter will
type the collected works of Shakespeare before you
will make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you by
engaging her in logical conversation.

   When you start a logical conversation with a
woman you've just met, you are basically taking
out a NEON SIGN that says, "I don't get it when it
comes to women" and putting it on your head.

   Typical "logical" conversations include talking
about work, family, school, and jobs... discussing
politics, religion, weather... and anything that
has to do with math, science, or INTELLIGENCE.

   On the other hand, if you start talking to a
woman and you say, "OK, so tell me something...
Why is it that all women say that they want sweet,
nice guys... but they all date sexy, selfish, bad
boys?" (and then make fun of any answer she gives)
Now you're having an EMOTIONAL conversation.

   If you don't know what I'm talking about, keep
reading. You need more help than I thought.

   IMPORTANT NOTE: If you just read this section,
and you can identify with what I'm talking about,
then I highly recommend that you go to this page:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication


REASON #7: THEY'RE NOT USED TO THE CHALLENGE OF
THE MOMENT

   Smart people usually have time to THINK about
things.

   If you're taking a test, you can sit there and
work out the answers.

   If you have a math problem, you can work on it
until you've figured it out.

   If you're trying to fix something, you can keep
working on it until it's fixed.

   Smart guys are used to being able to take at
least a LITTLE bit of time to prepare and show off
their "good sides" in most situations.

   Not so with women...

   If you don't know what to do at every step
along the way, you'll be shut down very quickly.

   Women have an AMAZING "He doesn't get it" radar
system.

   Women have all kinds of subtle and ingenious
tests that they throw at men to separate the "get
its" from the "don't get its".

   And if you don't get it, then you're going to
fail one of these tests VERY quickly.

   But the worst part is that you won't ever KNOW
that you were being tested... OR that you failed.

   Smart guys aren't used to dealing with complex
EMOTIONAL and COMMUNICATION challenges in the
moment... and especially the "women and dating"
kind.

   One of the keys to becoming more successful
with women and dating is learning to handle all of
the tests that women throw at you effortlessly.

   But before you can learn how to deal with the
tests, you must first learn how to communicate on
an emotional level, how to demonstrate that you
have fundamental social skills, and how to keep
your cool in the moment.


REASON #8: THEY THINK THAT DOING "NICE" THINGS IS
THE "SMART WAY"

   OK, let me ask you a trick question:

   If I told you that you were going to have a
date with the super model of your choice, which of
the following would you choose as a "smart" way of
preparing:

1) Find out what her favorite type of flowers are,
and show up with a dozen of them so she would be
"wowed".

2) Learn about her favorite travel destination so
you could discuss it with her.

3) Find out what her favorite type of food is so
you could take her to dinner... and she could see
that you cared enough to choose something that she
enjoyed.

   OK, time's up. Which did you choose?

   Now, I already mentioned that this was a TRICK
question.

   The answer is NONE OF THE ABOVE.

   But WHY?

   These three options all seemed logical, right?

   I mean, why WOULDN'T you want to show up with
her favorite flowers?

   Why WOULDN'T you want to talk about to her
about her favorite places to travel?

   Why WOULDN'T you want to take her to eat her
favorite foods so she enjoyed herself?

   Go with me here...

   Smart guys think that they're being CLEVER when
they do things like buying a woman her favorite
flowers... and bringing them to the FIRST DATE.

   Right?

   In their minds they're thinking, "I'm going to
be the guy who is thinking ahead... and I'm going
to show up with the flowers that I KNOW she
loves... and she's going to see them and like me
more because of it".

   Makes sense... good math, right?

   Well the one teensy-weensy mistake that these
"smart" guys make is not realizing that it doesn't
actually take a smart person to think like this!

   In fact, ANY jackass can figure out how to kiss
a woman's ass.

   And guess what?

   WOMEN KNOW THIS!

   And guess what else?

   EVERY WUSSBAG DOES THIS STUFF.

   An intelligent guy, in his proud arrogance,
will think he's being such the charmer by using
this "thoughtful" approach...

   ...and the woman he is chasing will interpret
it as just another Wussy who's trying to
MANIPULATE her.

   Ouch. Another blow to intelligence.


MISTAKE #9: THEY ALWAYS NEED TO BE THE EXPERT

   Have you ever met a smart guy who always needed
to be "right"?

   Have you ever met someone who would actually
argue with you about something they knew nothing
about... and make a fool of themselves because
they just couldn't shut their "smart mouths"?

   Over the last few years helping guys improve
their success with women, I see this one pattern
over and over again...

   Smart guys don't like to be "beginners" at
ANYTHING.

   They don't like the idea of screwing up...
especially if others are watching.

   They want to maintain this "smart guy" image of
themselves... so they try to always be "The
Expert" at whatever they do.

   Instead of saying, "Hey, you know what? I'm a
beginner at this... how do I do it? What should I
do first? What next?"... and instead of being
totally OK with screwing up, making mistakes, and
making a fool of themselves in front of others in
order to LEARN...

   ...they won't risk embarrassment, failure, or
others thinking that they're beginners... so they
wind up ultimately FAILING.

   MORE NEWS JUST IN: It's OK to be a beginner.


MISTAKE #10: THEY CAN'T DEAL WITH FEAR AND OTHER
EMOTIONS

   A smart guy's STRENGTH is his MIND.

   His WEAKNESS is often his EMOTIONS.

   Smart guys are often IMMOBILIZED by FEAR.

   Totally stopped.

   FROZEN.

   And since many smart guys aren't comfortable
dealing with things they're not good at, they just
repress or RUN away from fear.

   Many men would rather DIE in lonely isolation
than admit that they don't know how to deal with
their emotions... or, GOD FORBID, ask for help!

   Hey, I went for YEARS like this.

   I know what it's like.

   But the reality is that any guy can learn to
handle and even MASTER his emotions (even fear)...
if he just takes the time and effort to learn HOW
to do it.

   If this is you, then do yourself a big favor...
take the time. Take the effort.

   Don't worry about what anyone else thinks of
you... it doesn't matter.

   What matters is you doing the things that YOU
need to do FOR YOU.

   ...I think the reason why I'm so fascinated
with "The Genius Failure Paradox" is because I
have had to struggle with all of these issues for
a lot of years of my life.

   Now, I'm not saying that I'm the smartest guy
on the planet...

   But, I don't think mamma raised no fool.

   And it always bothered the hell out of me that
even though I was so good at figuring things out,
I couldn't figure WOMEN out.

   Something tells me that you know what I'm
talking about.

   Well, after beating my head against the wall
for a few years... trying all kinds of crazy
"logical" stuff... I finally got the "bright" idea
to start studying guys who were "naturally" good
with women.

   Of course, I found out that you could be both
NOT SMART and VERY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN at the
same time.

   I also learned that you can be SMART and VERY
SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN too.

   By carefully studying what the "naturals" did
with women... and learning how they "thought"
about the topic, I began to realize that success
with women wasn't entirely LOGICAL.

   Much of what I learned was very tough for me to
accept... because my logical brain just didn't
want to buy into it.

   One thing I saw was guys pushing women away
from them... and having the women then chase them
in response.

   Made no sense at all.

   I saw guys tease beautiful women and make jokes
about them to their faces... and then watched
those women become "little girls" in response...
unable to maintain their composure and therefore
unable to maintain their manipulative power...

   It took me quite a long time, but I continued
to learn, test, and refine what I was learning
until I personally figured out how to approach
women in any situation... get any woman's number I
wanted anytime I wanted... date any type of woman
I wanted...

   ...and most importantly, GET RID of that
"empty" feeling that I carried around my whole
life because I didn't know how to attract women.

   And once I got this area of my own life
together, I decided to help other guys get this
area of THEIR lives together.

   The first "major" result of all this time,
effort, and energy is my Advanced Dating
Techniques CD/DVD Program.

   It's over 12 full hours of me personally
teaching all of my very best concepts, secrets,
and step-by-step techniques... recorded at a
special 3-day live program I did just for this
purpose.

   You not only get to learn directly from me, but
you also get to see and/or hear from many of the
guys that I learned from... because they're guests
on the program.

   As a matter of fact, the guest interviews alone
are priceless.

   If you're ready to finally get this area of
your life "figured out", then you need to get
yourself a copy of this program.

   All the details, plus some great audio and
video sample clips are here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

   And if you haven't downloaded my online eBook
"Double Your Dating", then you need to go and do
that now. You can download it and be reading it
within a few minutes from right now. You can
download it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

   I'll talk to you again soon.

      Your Friend,

      David D.


P.S. I've got an entire "curriculum" of programs
to help you in every area of success with women
and dating. You can see all of them right here,
watch VIDEO clips of them, and get all the
details...

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/





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Monday, April 26, 2010

What Women Look For In A Man

What Women Look For In A Man


>NOTE: The secret to why some men get more
women than they can handle is something YOU
also possess inside of you. The only difference
between you and the "naturals" is that you haven't
developed it yet. Go find out how here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan


   I thought it would be interesting to give you a
different point of view this time.

   And I thought it might be helpful to take you
"behind the scenes", and show you what it's like for
a woman when she's "looking" for a man.

   OK, to start with, I have something important to
tell you:

   WOMEN ARE CRAZY.

   I know, profound.

   You can write me later and tell me how this new
revelation has changed your life.

   But please calm down, collect yourself, and let
me explain.

   Why do I say that women are "crazy"?

   Well, BECAUSE THEY ARE, first of all. lol...

   No, it's because women do something that SEEMS
crazy (especially if you're a man).

   Women like to SAY ONE THING, but when the time
comes around to actually ACT, they do something
TOTALLY DIFFERENT.

   I could go into an essay on why this is, but
for the purposes of this discussion, the most
important reason has to do with EMOTIONS.

   Women tend to SAY what they THINK when they're
asked a question.

   But they tend to ACT on their EMOTIONS when an
actual SITUATION presents itself.

   Here's an example:

   You meet a woman, and get her number. You call
her up. She agrees to meet you the next day for
a cup of coffee. The next day comes around, and she
doesn't show up. You call her. Something came up,
and she just couldn't make it.

   Ever been there?

   What happened? (And doesn't it piss you off when
women ALWAYS seem to do this? Me too.)

   Well, what HAPPENED is when you were talking to
her on the phone, coffee the next day sounded fine.

   But when the next day showed up, something else
that was more interesting came up, and she didn't
FEEL like meeting you anymore.

   Or maybe she just decided that she DIDN'T FEEL
like meeting you when she woke up the next day.

   Whatever.

   But it PROBABLY had something to do with her
not FEELING the same way anymore.

   Now, if you're a man, you hear something like
this and say "She lied. She said she would be there,
and she didn't show up. She's a liar."

   Or you say "Women who do this lack integrity."

   Or even "Women are FLAKY!"

   Of course, ALL OF THESE ARE TRUE!

   lol... no, no, no. Just kidding. Well, I'm not
kidding 100%, but I'm kidding.

   The point that I'm trying to make here is that
when a woman says one thing, then does another, she
sees that as being perfectly OK, because she's
"just following her feelings".

   But from a MAN'S point of view, if a woman says
one thing, then does another, she's either a liar,
being flaky, or doesn't have integrity.

   Here's the point:

   Women aren't going to change "how they feel"
about this topic anytime soon.

   So us guys are basically left with two main
options in a situation like this one:

1) Keep banging our heads against the wall and
expecting women to change, and start showing up
when they say they will.

2) Learn how to make women FEEL like they want to
actually show up for the meeting, so when they
wake up the next day, they SHOW UP.

   Get it?

   Good.

   Now let's talk about the REAL topic of this
newsletter... WHAT WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A MAN.

   Of course, in my usual style, I'm going to put
an interesting twist on this concept.

   I'm going to argue that women will SAY that
they "look for" one thing, but they actually
RESPOND to something completely different.

   All guys know that women seem to be "naturally"
attracted to things like fame, wealth, Brad- Pitt-
handsomeness, height, etc.

   But I've now realized something that is
actually pretty profound when you REALLY get it.

   I now believe that women DON'T KNOW what they
are ACTUALLY responding to.

   In other words, these things like money and
fame trigger EMOTIONS inside of women.

   And if you're NOT rich or famous or naturally
handsome, you can get the same kinds of responses
from women if you learn how to TRIGGER THE
SAME EMOTIONS.

   So, in the end, what women are REALLY "looking
for" is a man who triggers their ATTRACTION.

   Of course, a woman will never SAY this to you.

   If you ask a woman what she's looking for,
she'll say "I'm looking for a nice, honest guy who
is successful and cute".

   But if she actually MEETS this guy, and he just
happens to be a WUSSY who acts needy and clingy,
then she's NOT going to be into him.

   In this case, she won't respond to the guy that
she's "looking for" by being attracted to him. And
it won't work out.

   On the other hand, if this same woman meets a
guy who ISN'T what she "thinks" that she's "looking
for", but he triggers her ATTRACTION EMOTION,
then it's all over.

   It DOESN'T MATTER if he's rich or handsome,
because he's done something that TRUMPS these
things.

   It has taken me a long time to actually get to
the point where I BELIEVE this at a deep level. And
the REASON I believe it is because I've never been
the type of guy that women "approach".

   I have friends that are tall and handsome... and
when we go out, women start conversations with them.

   Before I learned what I know now, women never
felt that powerful, GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for me
that they do for my taller, handsome friends.

   But NOW, now that I know how to use my body
language and other communication to trigger the
EMOTIONS in a woman, it's COMPLETELY different.

   I get responses from women that I actually
considered IMPOSSIBLE before.

   And it's not because I grew 5 inches or became
more handsome.

   It's because I KNOW SOMETHING that most guys
just don't know.

   As you've read in these newsletters, there are
certain techniques, like being Cocky & Funny,
teasing women, never acting like a Wussy, etc. that
will help you be successful as well.

   Use them. Use what you learn.

   There's a BIG difference between what women are
"looking for" and what they RESPOND TO. Don't let
anyone tell you any different.

   AND, if you're reading this right now, and you're
saying to yourself "OK, it's time that I stopped
wasting time screwing around, and I GOT MY BUTT IN
GEAR and learned how to meet women", then you need
to do yourself a HUGE favor.

   You need to TAKE ACTION, and get yourself a copy
of my Advanced Dating Techniques program.

   It's taken me about FIVE YEARS to find, test,
and develop the concepts that I teach in this
program... and I guarantee that it will forever
change the way you view the topic of women and
dating.

   More importantly, it will help you walk out your
front door, and meet more attractive women starting
IMMEDIATELY.

   And I'm not kidding.

   When you get it, you'll be stunned.

   You'll probably lock yourself in your house for
three days and listen to the whole thing.

   But when you finally unlock your door, and walk
back out into the world, your interactions with
women will be VERY different.

   I think I've said enough.

   Go read all about it, and check out the free
audio and video samples here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

   And if you haven't downloaded your copy of my
original eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need
to do that immediately. It's the introduction to
all of my concepts, and it's the perfect primer to
get you ready for my Advanced Dating Techniques
program. Details and free samples are here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

   And I'll talk to you again soon.

      Your Friend,

      David D.


P.S. If you'd like to become a master of attracting
women... and getting dates... then you owe it to
yourself to check out all of the different
programs I've created to help you learn this very
important skill. You can see them all here:

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Saturday, April 24, 2010

3 Secrets Of Meeting Women Online

3 Secrets Of Meeting Women Online


>If you've "tried" online dating, and not
gotten the results that you wanted... or you'd
like to learn how to write online personal ads
that get MASSIVE RESPONSE, then go read this:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline


***SUCCESS STORY***

Well I have to say I was a little skeptical
about your book at first. I've never been very
successful with women. I've always been the shy,
quiet type that treat women like a prize and act
like a wussy. Well after a few newsletters I
decided to give it a shot. Well it all made sense
to me so I got your CD series and it's even better
then the book. So I decided to try the C&F method.
I've been on some dating sites for a few years and
occasionally I would get a response. A little over
a week ago I changed my profile so I wasn't such a
wussy and pleading with women with how good of a
catch I'd be (as most women say they want a nice
guy) In less then a week, I've gotten 5 responses.
It's amazing. I'm only about half way through with
the CD's too can't wait to see what else they
hold.

JN from NY

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Oh, Ye of little faith...

   Remember something.

   Women are always INTERPRETING everything you
say.

   In other words, they want to know what things
MEAN.

   When you say, "I'm a great guy" in your
profile, a woman reading it says to herself,
"yeah, right... If you were a great guy, then you
wouldn't need to SAY it. You're probably a loser
who WISHES that he were a great guy."

   On the other hand, if you write a Cocky & Funny
profile that talks about how picky you are and
that you're trying this online dating thing as a
last resort because all the attractive women you
meet bore you... then a woman will think to
herself, "Ah ha! A challenge! I'll bet you that I
can get his attention...".

   Great job, and keep me posted on your future
success stories.


***QUESTION***

Double D Dog!

First let's get the formalities out of the
way... you are the Boddhisatva of Bootay! To your
newsletter subscribers...you know you wait for
each new mail from this guy...thinking you'll "get
it" sooner or later without checking out the e-
book...GET IT DONE! You'll thank yourself. I
took you up on your 7-day offer and read DYD the
day I downloaded it. My situation is a little
different. After literally years of being single
and settling for 2:30 am random drunk hookups, I
finally triggered ATTRACTION in a great woman
about four months ago. I don't know how I got it
right, because it's in my nature to be a Wuss, but
put 100 monkeys in a room with typewriters and
eventually you'll get the complete works of
Shakespeare, right? Anyway, we hit it off
really well. In the beginning she was a little
too instantly infatuated, and I had to say NO to
many of her requests for my time...not because I
was working your program yet, but it was just too
much for a brand new thing and I actually have a
life. Of course this drove her nuts for me.
About 3 months into this thing, she starts turning
the tables with the testing, and it goes like this
"I'm really falling for you, and this is new for
me. I usually have a really hard time with
commitment because I like variety in my life."

The sex is very good...multiple O's for both of
us regularly. I think she's just got an amazon
appetite! A few weeks later she says to me that
she wants to meet this guy she's been chatting
with on the Internet since before I met her...you
know, see what might happen and back to the
variety thing. This triggered the Wuss in me and
I spent a good hour being jealous and needy before
coming to my senses and telling her to go check it
out with my blessing. She says she changed her
mind, but ever since then I found myself groveling
to make her happy and keep her with me. I became
jealous at the stupidest things. I was full of
FEAR and freaking out. Somewhere along the way I
started getting your mail (cue the angelic
music)...then 3 days ago I got the ebook, read it
and it all clicked. So, realizing I was already
dangerously deep down Wussy Way, I arranged a
unique date with her. I told her where I was
going to be hanging out that night, told her to
put on the sexiest thing she could find and meet
me there at whatever time she wanted to and we
would pretend we were meeting randomly for the
first time. I applied the C/F approach, body
language and other tips from your book and she
definitely noticed consciously that I was up to
something, but nevertheless, VIOLA! I triggered
her attraction again. Not only that, but I
learned new things about her and how she works
that I had tuned-out based on established
expectations and self-centered wussiness. We
communicated better, laughed more, had WAY OVER
THE TOP sex and a great conversation early into
the morning afterwards.

I'm converted Dude, and the best part is that
these tools have taken away my fear of losing her.
I love this woman, but if her Attraction or need
for variety cause her to stray, I KNOW WHAT TIME
IT IS! A million thanks! m

ps - if you haven't already, check out a book
called The MultiOrgasmic Man...dynamite for when
the rubber hits the road...so to speak.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   I'll check that book out.

   I'm kind of afraid, man. I might not ever leave
my house again.

   OK, back to your email...

   I really enjoyed your story.

   I particularly like the fact that you're using
the things you're learning to KEEP a great woman
that you enjoy...

   I think that too many guys make the mistake of
assuming that it's all about GETTING the girl...
and they put far too little emphasis on keeping a
great girl once they find one.

   And the fact is, that until you're in a
situation where you've found a great woman that
you'd like to keep in your life, you won't realize
just how important it is to KNOW HOW to keep her.

   You did exactly the right thing when she
started to talk about possibly seeing another guy.

   I know that tests like this one can be a pain
in the ass, but this is reality... and we have to
deal with it when it shows up.

   I've been in many situations with women where
I've felt like a jealous, insecure Wussbag
myself... I get it.

   I'm proud of you for coming to your senses and
telling her to go check it out if she wanted to.

   And then you did a GREAT thing by figuring out
how to "restart" your relationship with her and
put some FIRE back into the situation.

   I honestly believe that most guys want to find
a great woman that they can click with, have fun
with, and enjoy a relationship with.

   The problem is that most guys have no idea how
to GET and then KEEP an attractive woman's
attention.

   They're two very different challenges, and I'm
glad to hear that you're working on the "keep"
challenge in your own life.


***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

I bet you get this all the time: My life has
changed, thanks to your books and the advanced
series. I get it! But I'm having so much fun
relating to people in general, that I'm in no rush
to get an email or go out on a date. Just being
able to talk to anyone about anything, and being
comfortable with it, is an incredible gift. In a
way, I'm on a date with a girl just by having a
conversation, in my mind. And who the hell cares
what she thinks... Hehehe...

I was so amazed at what I learned in the books,
that I wrote you a spontaneous email. Then another
when I started to "feel" results. You should
know that I'm not the type of guy to do that, and
here I am doing it again after listening to the
advanced series. I walked into work yesterday,
and the most gorgeous (no sh*t!) chick on staff is
staring at me from across the room, interrupting
her own conversation. I just cockily smiled and
winked, then watched her until she turned away.
That momentary connection was one of the most
intense feelings I've ever had. That's just the
extreme example. I have these connections with
just about everyone, including the "cool guys",
who now treat me in a more respectful manner (or
maybe it's just my perception, but who cares).

I've been a slob all of my life, and now I'm
committed to keeping my house, car and myself
clean and organized.

I'm listening to the CDs over and over in my
car, and I keep picking up something that I
missed. Turning a negative thought to a "how do
I..." thought is my latest favorite. THAT was a
bombshell for me.

Please accept my deepest gratitude. I wish you
the best in life. Those of us who've benefited
from your teachings need to find a way to get you
sainted... Hehehe...

Thanks David!! You're the best!!

JH Burbank, CA

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   You know, it's interesting, and you're right
on... When you start behaving differently, it has
an amazing effect on all kinds of different
things, and on many different types of
relationships.

   I regularly get "special" treatment in bars,
clubs, restaurants, coffee shops, etc., because I
"get it" myself.

   One of the benefits of being interesting,
funny, challenging, and unpredictable, that I
don't really mention, comes up in situations where
you're seeing the same person (especially the same
woman) over and over.

   Examples are: Favorite coffee shops, favorite
restaurants, grocery stores you visit often, etc.

   When you tease and bust on a woman who you're
NOT interested in, and continue to keep the sexual
tension up, you'll find that all kinds of magical
things will happen.

   The list of things I've gotten for free at
restaurants, bars, and coffee shops is pretty
extensive... all courtesy of some cute girl that I
was flirting with.

   And good job getting other aspects of your life
together. It will lead to good things for you.

   Nice!


***QUESTION***

i met a girl i liked, we were hanging out and
she started talking about how i had good chances
with her. and a couple days later i asked her if
she wanted to go out to dinner she said yes and i
let her pick the place, we went to dinner, and the
whole dinner she talked about her ex and i paid
like 40 bucks for dinner. when we got back to her
house i got the cold shoulder when i tried talking
to her and got told she was tired and i should
probably go, can u tell me what it was i did wrong
there?

thanx m

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Oohhhhhh, bad news.

   These types of situations SUCK. Really.

   First of all, if a woman ever says something
like, "You have good chances with me", either:

1) Run

   ...or...

2) Look at her, shake your head with a
"disappointed parent" look on your face and say,
"Yeah, well you don't have such hot chances with
me... so watch yourself".

   Secondly, don't offer to take this type of
woman TO DINNER.

   Thirdly, if you DO offer, NEVER let HER choose
the place.

   Fourthly, if a woman ever starts talking about
her EX at dinner, stop her and say, "Heyyyyyy,
wait a minute here. If you want therapy, that will
be $200 per hour, and I have a two hour minimum.
And it will have to be later, because I'm enjoying
my dinner right now".

   Fifthly, you need to learn how to take things
from one step to the next with a woman, because
going back to her place and "trying to talk to
her" isn't the answer, my man.

   What did you do wrong?

   Basically everything, right from the beginning.

   Stop that!


***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave, I am in my forties, successful in
business, live in a nice condo, drive a great
auto, in great physical shape and am considered
handsome. The moral to this story is that none of
these matter! "Getting it" is the key that
unlocked the door to my success with women. I have
your e-book, cd series and of course the
collection of weekly newsletters. I have become a
student of "getting it" and creating attraction in
women. I am currently dating a 9.5 on a scale
where 10 is drop dead gorgeous, extremely
intelligent, witty, sexually creative, etc. I
constantly tease her, push her away, insist on her
treating me on dates, give her the gift of missing
me thus driving her crazy to the point she can't
help but call me! I have kicked her out of my
condo for acting bratty on two occasions, pick on
her for minor flaws (that she pointed out
initially) ...example: she asked "Do you think my
ass needs some more toning, I need to focus on
those exercises in the gym" , well, I have taken
full advantage of this to bust her balls! HERE'S
THE KICKER...she will look me in the eyes with a
sultry look and say to l me "no man has ever
treated me so good and made me feel so complete as
a woman like you do".

Now, let me qualify this for the "getting it"
challenged! I am never cruel and I never ridicule
her, nor do I openly embarrass her in public, I am
always a gentleman, treat her as the princess that
she is....but I am the new me...extremely
confident, cocky & funny, romantic, and
powerful...I assume I am in control in every
situation... Do I have times of doubt and areas I
screw up? Sure, but it just doesn't matter,
remember I am a student and students must make
mistakes to learn.

Dave, thanks for the hard work and diligent
research required on your part, hope this can be
an encouragement to others!

rh atlanta, ga

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Yeah, this is one of the most IRONIC and
interesting things about learning how to be
successful with women.

   NEVER in my life have I had so many women give
me so many compliments as when I TEASE AND BUST ON
THEM LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW.

   Why is this?

   Because when you're doing these things, the
woman gets the DEEPER message...

   That you're the kind of man she's been looking
for all her life.

   The kinds of things you're doing are triggering
and satisfying drives and urges that have been
wired into her mental, physical, and emotional
systems for millions of years.

   You're activating powerful sexual drives and
female emotions that most men will NEVER trigger
inside of her... and she's grateful to you for it.

   Even though an outsider might look at an
evening that you spend with her and say "He didn't
treat her very well... he was difficult, very
challenging, and not complimentary at all. I don't
think he's going to get very far with her"...

   ...while at the end of the evening the woman
you're with will go home with a deep, profound
feeling of inner satisfaction that she won't be
able to describe.

   Yes, you do "get it". Congratulations.

   If you just read that story, and then you read
my comments, and you said to yourself: "I'd like
to learn how to do that kind of thing, and create
massive attraction with my words and body language"
then you need to go and check this out:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication


***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

I'd like to leave my email to you at "Thank you",
but I am overwhelmed at what has happened since I
read your online book just once. Not only have I
given up the nice guy approach, but it is fun to
see women squirm in their seats when you start
busting their balls. Brilliant!

I prefer online dating so I took your advice and
starting being more forward in emails, cracking
jokes and making fun of more stuff. Sounds
unorthodox right? Hell NO. I use a dating site
that won't let you give an email address through
their system, but phone numbers are ok. The women
know this already, so they are expecting to get a
number from you if you get their attention. More
on your book, I work in radio and when you said
the voice was one of your best tools to use, it
hit me like a ton of bricks. Your right and phone
calls are perfect place to practice your sound.
Definitely slow down in your speech and a better
sound will come from within. So my point is this:
I meet this chick on line, give her my number, she
doesn't call for two days. So I send her the "what
are you playing hard to get email" (thanks again
Dave), the next morning my phone is ringing at
8:30 am. It's her, she feels bad about waking me
up, which I bust her balls for and use the fact
that I just woke up to bring out the best in my
voice. We only have a 4 or 5 minute conversation
before I tell her I need to get some more sleep,
so I give her MY email address and leave it at
that. I get to work later that morning, and here
is her email.

D.,

I only have a minute before I need to leave for a
meeting, but I just wanted to say . . . GREAT
voice!

I hope you have a great day you Bum!

Take care!

J.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   As one of my friends says:

   "YOU OWN HER."

   By the way, great insight to MAKE FUN of women
who have online personals.

   Think of it this way...

   A cute woman posts an online personal.

   She gets 50 emails a day saying, "Oh, you're so
beautiful..." and "You sound very interesting, we
have a lot in common..." and "I have the same
values as you, and I'm seeking a relationship as
well..."

   ...and then she sees one that says:

   "Hey, I don't think that this picture is really
you. What, did you go to the mall and get one of
those Glamour Shots done or something? Do you have
a real picture? Like you at home on your
stairmaster or something? Or do you even work out?
OK, stop trying to fool all of us guys, and let's
see what you REALLY look like..."

   What's she going to do?

   Of course, she's going to say to herself, "I'll
show him", and she's going to send you a bunch of
pictures of herself and say, "No, really, this is
me!".

   NICE IS BORING. And it's never more boring then
when it's ONLINE... in a place where there are a
million other "nice" guys that have zero
personality chasing after her.

   And great job telling the woman who called you
when you were sleeping that you wanted to go back
to sleep... and to email you sometime.

   You're doing well. Keep it up!


***COMMENTS FROM A WOMAN***

Hey, David I am a woman who reads your
newsletter. I have to admit, you've got us
figured out! I never could figure out why all the
guys I dated before were pathetic losers until I
realized what they were doing wrong. That helps
me weed out the dorks and get on to the good
stuff.

Thanks a bunch for your program!

S. in Kansas

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Uh oh.

   I never really thought of it that way...

   I guess that the women who are reading my
newsletters are learning some of the ways to spot
Wussbags from even FURTHER away... and getting new
ammo to use with the pathetically weak.

   You go girl.

   Weed out the dorks.

   Avoid the Wussy guys who chase after you and
try to get your approval... and annoy the hell out
of you in the process.

   Oh, and don't forget to tell them to visit
DoubleYourDating.com for great free tips!


***QUESTION***

Sup Dave.

dude your stuff rocks! I already started
changing my whole attitude towards chicks.

I was at a party and this girl kept looking at
me, I would look back at her but keep my distance
talking and having fun with other girls. later she
asked my friend to introduce me. we sat down and
talked. I was being funny not too cocky...i know
bad bad. I didn't ask for her number...I was
testing if she would ask for mine. She didn't ask
for it, is that a rule? do guys always get the
number?

thanks bro, keep up the good work! KP

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   lol... OK, you already "changed your attitude
towards chicks", but you can't hook up with a girl
who ASKS to be introduced to you?

   I think maybe you should reconsider your
approach, my man.

   Regardless of the situation, a woman wants you
to LEAD the way. You're going to have to TAKE THE
NEXT STEP in some way.

   Even if you say, "So aren't you going to ask
for my number? What's taking you so long?" you
need to do it.

   If you're one of those guys who's fortunate
enough to have the looks and game that result in
woman WANTING to meet you before you've met them,
then this is DOUBLY important.

   Lead.

   Don't wait around and hope something happens.

   There's always a smooth, interesting way to
take the ball and move forward with it.

   If you don't, you're going to be taking your
own ball and moving forward with it later in the
evening...


***SUCCESS STORY***

Dear Dave,

Since listening to your C.D.'s I
have transformed from a guy who occasionally has
"luck" with women into a demon. I always thought
before that when a woman was busting my balls that
she was rejecting me when in reality she is
sparing with me. I use to be afraid I was over
stepping my boundaries when I got that "Aah" (what
an a**hole look). Now instead of backing down I
turn it up because I know I got her right where I
want her.

Most guys will never understand what you have
taught the privileged nation of men. I don't want
them to because most of them are not ready for it.
When they are then I turn them on to you. Some of
my friends think to impress a girl you need to
spend money on her. Ha! Since I realized
attraction is not a choice I've spent a total of
$1.75 on a drink for a friend. A girl I even had
to turn down because she is my buddies ex and they
just broke up. It's amazing that now I have to
turn down dates and/ or decide which girl to go
out with on any given night. Thank you for your
wisdom.

You rock, C.P.-L.A

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Great insight!

   And you're right... most guys miss the point
ENTIRELY when a woman starts challenging them.

   Instead of turning up the volume and hitting
the ball right back over the net twice as fast,
most guys just crumble... and lose all the energy,
sexual tension, and chemistry that was in the
situation.

   When a woman throws down the challenge, or
starts to test you, it's time to realize that this
is the VERY BEGINNING... and instead of responding
by saying, "OK, whatever you want", you need to
create even MORE tension... and turn it up... and
understand how to AMPLIFY the sexual tension and
attraction in the situation.

   Chemistry is an AMAZING thing if you understand
it (the way you describe not being afraid to "step
over the boundaries" when you get that, "Ahhh,
you're an a**hole" look... and instead, seeing it
as sparring).

   But, it's a curse if you don't... because
you'll just misinterpret everything that happens
and miss all of your opportunities.

   Great email.


***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

I have been through the CD/DVD series twice now
and am now on a third pass hitting some of my
favorite sections. For months I have been hanging
with some really talented guys and getting
frustrated because they get girls left and right
and I couldn't remember the last time I kissed a
girl. I have been meeting women and getting
numbers but always blowing it and not closing any
deals. I just turned 40 and have been getting
frustrated and feeling like I was washed up with
women. The Advanced Series has put a new spin on
things for me. I feel like there are many things I
can do to turn my romantic life around. I got it.

I have been putting this stuff into practice for
the past couple of weeks. I am working on being
confident, cocky and funny. I have determined that
I am living in my reality, that is all that
matters. I am thinking about the importance of the
skill over the importance of the girl. So, on the
first weekend I hooked up with a hot little 23
year in a pub. I was practicing and it was
working... she spent the night at my place. This
past weekend I was with another attractive woman
and again it worked. I actually had some idea of
things that I could do to create attraction. This
girl has a hot little body and I have a little
extra padding so I was talking to her about how
she could tighten up her stomach through dieting
and exercise. Oh my God that was fun! I love it,
so did she. I was just playing and having fun. You
have a great training program that goes way beyond
success with chicks. Thanks.

LSM -- Seattle

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Yeahhhh baby!

   And by the way, you're CRACKING ME UP over
here...

   Your comment:

"This past weekend I was with another attractive
woman and again it worked. I actually had some
idea of things that I could do to create
attraction."

   ...is cracking me up.

   So, you actually have "some idea" now, huh?

   This is great stuff. I'm excited for you.

   And yes, my training program DOES go WAY beyond
"success with chicks". I'm glad you're getting
that "way beyond" kind of success from it.

   ...and if you're reading this right now and
thinking to yourself, "Hey, I'm 40 and have a
gut... and would like to learn how to use it to
meet women", then have I got a sweet offer for
you!

   No, seriously...

   The reality is, the thing that stands between
most guys and success with women is NOT what they
think it is.

   I've found that most men have what I call their
"Secret Reason" for failure with women.

   This guy was 40 and had a gut... and felt like
he was "washed up" with women.

   Some guys are bald. Some are short. Some don't
make much money... and some are just afraid.

   But, these are NEVER the REAL reason why these
guys aren't successful with women.

   The REAL reason they aren't successful is
because they just don't understand the dynamic
that I call ATTRACTION.

   They don't even know what "chemistry" and
"sexual tension" and "ATTRACTION" are in the first
place.

   Hey, I used to be one of those guys.

   I used to stand in bars and look at women that
I wanted to meet for HOURS... and have NO IDEA
what to do or say to even START a conversation,
never mind get a number or a date.

   And I had my own "Secret Reason" for failure.
Mine was FEAR.

   I was just plain afraid of women.

   Well, the good news is that I've figured out
how to get past these "Secret Reasons", and even
better, I've figured out how to make women feel
ATTRACTION by using body language and other
communication. It's really not that hard.

   But, like any other skill that's valuable, it's
not something that you can learn in 2 minutes.

   It takes a little practice.

   The GREAT news is that instead of taking
several YEARS of research, reading, and trying
crazy stuff that doesn't work like I did, you can
get the benefits of my "banging my head against
the wall" research... and go straight to the good
stuff.

   My Advanced Dating Techniques program is the
ULTIMATE training program for this stuff. Not only
did it take me YEARS to learn all of this stuff in
the first place, and figure it all out, but it
also took me literally HUNDREDS of hours of my
time to put this particular program together.

   I really designed this thing from the beginning
to be the absolute best training available in the
history of the world on how to meet and date
women.

   If you read some of the feedback in these
newsletters and on the web site, I think you'll
find that quite a few guys agree that it's pretty
damn good.

   But I want YOU to be the judge.

   My offer is still available: Go to my web site
and order the trial. If you don't like it, just
send it back to me, and get a refund. I'm convinced
that after you get your hands on it and start
learning from it, you'll send me an email with a
success story instead of the program back.

   The details are here, along with some good
samples:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

   And of course, if you haven't downloaded your
copy of my online eBook, you need to get that
immediately. It's the place to start, and you can
be reading it in literally a few minutes from
right now. It's here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

   I'll talk to you again soon.

      Your Friend,

      David D.


P.S. You should also take a look at my online
"catalog" of programs... each one designed to
help you with a different area of success with
women and dating. You can check it out, and watch
great VIDEO clips of each of my programs here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/





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