What Causes Women To Leave Men?

What Causes Women To Leave Men?

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   Why do women leave men?

   Interesting question, isn't it?

   We've all had women leave us...

   And we've all been in the situation, wondering
why she was leaving... and willing to do literally
ANYTHING to get her to stay.

   Read the following scenarios, and nod your head
silently if you can identify with one of them:

- You met an incredible woman, and you really hit
it off at the beginning. But the more time you
spent with her, the less interested she became...
but the MORE interested you became. You could feel
the balance of power shifting, but there was
nothing you could do about it. Eventually she just
stopped seeing you, but she never explained why in
a way that made any sense...

- You were seeing a woman for several months,
maybe even a year or so. Everything seemed fine.
But then one day she came to you and said, "I
don't know how I feel anymore, and I just need
some time ALONE... some time to 'find myself'...
it's not YOU, it's ME"... but, her time "alone"
turned into her seeing some other guy that didn't
treat her half as well as you did...

- You were in a serious long-term relationship
that had lasted more than a couple of years, and
you were with the woman you thought you'd spend
the rest of your life with. Sure, you had your
problems, but you knew that you'd always work
through whatever came up, and she would stick by
your side forever. Out of nowhere, she started
acting strange... she started to become more
controlling and angry... no matter how hard you
tried to make her feel better and do nice things,
it only got worse. They she dropped the bomb that
she didn't love you anymore, and she was leaving.
Or maybe she cheated on you, then told you as her
way of breaking up...

   ...of course, there are a million variations of
these basic situations, but I'll bet you can
identify with one of them.

   I can identify with ALL of them. In fact, I've
been through each of them... some more than once.

   And I'll tell you... I can remember the PAIN
and the DESPERATION I felt each time.

   I mean, it SUCKED. I hated it.

   Probably the WORST part of it was the feeling
of POWERLESSNESS that went along with each time.

   It's bad enough having the woman you like or
love leave you... but to have to ALSO deal with
the fact that you don't know how to change things,
and there's NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT is just
plain depressing.

   Again, if you've been there, nod silently with
me...

   Now let's talk about how to AVOID this kind of
thing in the future.

THE PROBLEM ISN'T WHAT YOU THINK

   The first thing you must realize in this type
of situation is that the problem you're dealing
with isn't what you THINK it is.

   Most guys naturally assume that the woman is
leaving them because he's not being "nice" enough,
or he's not giving her what she wants, or he's not
being a good boyfriend... etc.

   Or they assume that this is just "one of those
things that happens", that "feelings change" and
that there's really nothing he could have done
anyway.

   Well, these ideas, and almost all the others
that most guys think, are DEAD WRONG.

   So STEP ONE is for you to realize that what you
THINK you know is WRONG. Throw it out.

   Start over, and open your mind to a new way of
seeing things. I'll share more on this later.

YOU CAN'T SOLVE IT WITH MORE OF THE SAME

   Now I want to talk about what NOT to do.

   I know that this is going to sound pretty
obvious, but if what you're doing isn't working in
a particular situation, you need to STOP.

   Don't keep doing what's not working.

   In other words, if the woman you love is
breaking up with you, and you've been being nice
to her, doing whatever she wants, and telling her
that you'll do anything to make it better... if
only she'll stay... then STOP.

   Stop doing that.

   Whatever it is you're doing that isn't working
ISN'T WORKING. Duh.

   So stop it immediately.

   More of the same is only going to get you more
of what is happening.

WHY ATTRACTION IS SO IMPORTANT

   One of the main reasons why I talk about and
teach the concept of ATTRACTION is that when it
comes to these types of situations, the REAL
underlying reason for them is usually that the
woman doesn't feel ATTRACTION anymore.

   When it all boils down, she just plain does not
FEEL IT.

   Now, a woman will say and do all kinds of
things OTHER than telling you that this is the
problem.

   Women have all these ideas in their heads, like
"I can't tell him how I REALLY feel because I
don't want to hurt his feelings" and "I can't tell
him what's going on because I don't want to
emasculate him" and "It's just easier if I just go
away".

   Love it.

   But when you take away all of the B. S., and
you get right to the core of what's going on,
you'll usually find that it all boils down to
ATTRACTION... or, more specifically, the LACK of
ATTRACTION.

   I'm going to say something that's pretty bold
right now. Get ready.

   If you do not know how to make a woman feel the
GUT LEVEL physical and emotional response called
ATTRACTION, then you are going to be out of
control in relationships, and you will very likely
have women leave you for the rest of your life.

   There is no security when you don't "get it" in
the ATTRACTION department.

   And you know EXACTLY what I'm talking about.

   Women KNOW that they have the upper hand with
most men.

   As a guy, you can FEEL IT when a woman "has you
by the balls".

   And even if she's not evil or mean, a woman can
still crush you emotionally when she's in this
powerful position.

   Well, guess what?

   YOU'RE THE ONE WHO GIVES HER THIS POWER.

   And if you choose, you can KEEP this power for
YOURSELF.

   Before I give you some tips on how to do this,
I want to recommend something to you. If you know
that you give your power away to women too often,
and you'd like to get a SERIOUS mental overhaul in
this area, then check this out before you read the
next section:

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SOLVE THE PROBLEM BEFORE IT STARTS

   Now, the BEST way to deal with this particular
problem is to SOLVE it BEFORE it even starts.

   The absolute most important prevention method
is an understanding of female psychology and
ATTRACTION.

   Here are a few pointers to get you started:

1) Women are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES.

   Women don't feel ATTRACTION for weak men.

   Sure, if you chase a woman for long enough, and
buy her enough things, she may "fall" for you. But
in that case it's not because she feels ATTRACTION
for you. OHHHHH NO. It's because she feels
AFFECTION for you, and she confuses it with
ATTRACTION.

   So if your Inner Wussy has been taking the
wheel, EVICT IT! Bitch-slap the Wuss out of
yourself. Do it now.

2) Don't be PREDICTABLE.

   Predictability is a mortal sin when it comes to
attraction.

   If a woman can guess what you're going to do or
say, you're being predictable.

   If she CAN'T guess what you're going to do or
say, she'll always be wondering...

   Now, keep in mind that women are MUCH better at
predicting behavior than men.

   So if you're going to stop being predictable,
then you're going to need to LEARN how.

   To begin with, PAUSE before you do and say
things. Think about what you'd normally do, then
DO SOMETHING ELSE.

   Throw in some crazy, off-the- wall stuff for
good measure.

   Predictable is BAD BAD BAD for business.

3) Don't be BORING.

   Boring is the bastard child of Predictable.

   When you are SO predictable that NOTHING is new
or different, then you are officially BORING.

   Boring is also the lack of adventure, passion,
energy, humor, and ATTRACTION.

   Unfortunately, most men are REALLY, REALLY,
REALLLLLLLLLLLLY boring.

   I mean like shoot-yourself boring.

   Like, if there was a "Boring Score" that took
into account everything from food to clothing to
interests to conversation, most men would score a
99.75 on a 100 scale.

   It's a bad situation.

   I used to be pretty damn boring myself, so
boring, in fact, that I could probably be
certified as an expert on the topic.

   So take it from me, BORING is BAD.

   I don't care WHAT you have to do to stop being
boring, but do it.

   A few quick ideas:

   Take up an interesting hobby. Think wine
collecting, not comic book collecting.

   Mountain biking, not chemistry.

   Fashion, not X-Box.

   You feel me?

   Now, this is just a taste.

   More important than what you do and talk about
is HOW you do it and talk about it.

   There is a way to communicate with women that
prevents you from being boring. I suggest that you
pay attention to the things you're learning from
me so you "get it".

   IF THINGS GET BAD, BREAK UP FIRST

   Now I'm going to REALLY stick my neck out.

   This one is going to make the little baby hairs
stand up on the backs of necks of women all over
the world...

   If you find yourself in one of these bad
situations that I mentioned above, and you sense
that the woman in your life is about to leave,
then BREAK UP WITH HER FIRST.

   DO IT.

   Don't hesitate.

   Cut the line.

   Hit the road.

   No matter what your emotions tell you to do,
you have to end it FIRST.

   If you want to have ANY chance of having things
work out in the LONG RUN, then you need to TAKE
CONTROL of the situation, and BREAK UP WITH HER.

   From this position, you will then be able to
see things more clearly, and she will be about 100
times more likely to want to work things out with
you.

   If you REALLY want to increase your chances of
having things work out, then you should also start
dating other women as well.

   But let's not talk too much about that, because
I'm already in the danger zone here.

   If you take the time to think about it, you'll
realize that breaking up with her FIRST is the
best possible thing you can do.

   As you've heard me say quite a few times, it's
important to give a woman the GIFT of MISSING YOU.

   Never is it more important than in one of THESE
situations.

   I know, this is a damn hard thing to do when
you're in the heat of the moment... but if you
don't do it, you'll probably wind up with her
leaving... and you feeling that lame POWERLESS
feeling that I described earlier.

   OK, so to wrap, let me talk about one more
thing...

   As I mentioned before, the REAL thing that
causes women to LEAVE comes down to the man in her
life not understanding ATTRACTION and how to make
her FEEL IT for him.

   And, as I mentioned, no woman is EVER going to
TELL this to you.

   Instead, she's just going to LEAVE.

   When I first started learning all of this stuff
about how to be successful with women and dating,
I had NO IDEA that I would wind up solving the
mystery of why women LEAVE men.

   I was only looking for the answer to how to get
a woman in the first place... I never even thought
about KEEPING one once I got her...

   But now I realize that this particular topic
usually winds up being the most important one,
because once you find that amazing woman, and get
something good going, you certainly don't want to
LOSE her.

   And when you find yourself in the situation,
and you realize that the woman you have is about
to leave... you would basically do ANYTHING to
stop it.

   Of course, at that point it's usually TOO LATE
to do anything... which sucks.

   So one of the most important things you can do
RIGHT NOW in your life is to learn how and why
women feel ATTRACTION for some men... and how to
make women feel it for you.

   And what's the best way to do it?

   I have a couple of ideas...

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   Look, man.

   No one is going to do this for you.

   You need to do it for YOURSELF. So get to it.

   I'll talk to you again soon.

      Your Friend,

      David D.

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