Meeting Women Online... And Other Great Places
NOTE: Meeting women online is one of the best
"practice grounds" there is... but most men just
don't know how to pull it off. If you want to
learn how to quickly meet and attract women
right from your home computer, take a second
and go check this out now:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline
***SUCCESS STORY***
Ive been a Wussy all my life, hooked up with a
seemingly great gal, married, etc. and she started
being unhappy. She wanted to separate and the more
I tried to "give her what she wanted" the worse it
got. So here I was, starting all over again. got
your e-book and I was insulted at first about the
things I read, but I tried not to judge it yet. I
went on to test your theories and found a lot of
it really works and is true, especially about not
giving a woman what she wants (not directly or
immediately anyway). I went onto get your
Advanced DVD series and I am very impressed at
how much more useful information is there,
especially the stuff about re-programming the way
we think about our selves and goals in situations.
Ive started approaching more and more 10's (not
that women should be "rated") being myself and
most importantly: as if I could care less about
talking to them, as if they owe me something
already, poking fun at something they say, do,
have, or are (short, amazon tall, etc) and bust
their balls for it... but ALWAYS in a playful
friendly way with a big cocky smile. They eat it
up and cant get enough, so I try to pull back
(thats where my problem is). Since im still a
newbie I want to keep going but I realize thats
exactly when I need to hit the breaks and give
her the gift of missing me, and making her
confused about what just happened so shell be
thinking about me till we meet again ;) .. this
wont be my last posting to you David!!
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, my hat is off to you.
I don't actually wear a hat, but you get the
idea.
You have done something that I have A LOT of
respect for...
You've opened your mind to a new way of looking
at something.
You mentioned that when you first read my book
you initially felt "insulted".
But you also say that you tried not to judge
what you were reading, and instead you went
out and TESTED THE MATERIALS yourself to
see if they actually worked for you.
Look, this is a big deal.
The reason I have so much admiration for you
is because most men are too stuck in one way
of thinking to even TRY something new.
Every once in awhile I get an email from a
guy who says "your techniques would NEVER
work"... or "I'll bet you're making up all
of the emails in your newsletters"... etc.
I have to laugh to myself when I see this
kind of thing.
First of all, all you have to do is walk out
your door, and TRY some of the things you're
learning.
Just TRY THEM.
Test them out (like you did).
Take a week of your life and try new things
to see if they work.
It so simple.
But then again, I guess it isn't.
Well, congratulations again for actually
putting yourself out there, controlling your
emotions, and putting it to the test.
You're going to see DRAMATIC improvements in
the near future with women.
Again, you have my respect for doing something
that most guys don't have the guts to do.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave,
I've always been big into motivational materials.
I've read every one of Napleon Hill's books at
least 10 times each plus dozens of others from
several authors. I bought your DVD series
obviously to increase my success with women but
the material applies to all areas of life. I've
watched it over and over and over again during
the past 2 months and the changes are amazing. A
lot of potential I had locked up inside me seems
to have been unleashed. Going out and having
success with women definitely adds confidence to
all areas of life but the self-image and
self-confidence exercises you go through have had
a lot to do with it as well.
For quite some time I'd been working on finishing
up a sales training book and audio program based
on the huge success I've had in my selling career
using unconventional methods. Finally, about a
month ago while watching your program again
something just snapped in my head and I sat down,
got the website up, got the marketing started,
finished up the product, and I'm already making
more money from that than from my job and already
have booked my first speaking engagement.
Seriously, your program and the self-improvement
messages and exercises had a lot to do with it.
(Interestingly, I've also had the concept of
perceived "fame" with women proven to me. My site
has an "about the author" page with a photo and
several women have already emailed me with
pictures practically begging to meet me in
person). The conversion rate from my homemade
site has been high enough to justify the expense
of having a custom professional site done which
is in the works now.
Dave, thanks not only for more success with women
but in my life in general!
Things are definitely going to the next level for
me and this bit of business success has also
changed my perspective and my "reality" with
women in a big way too, and when I go out it's
obvious that they know it without me having to
say a word.
FR
Phoenix AZ
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, as you can probably tell, I've read quite
a few "self help" books myself, and spent a lot
of time reading "motivational materials".
I found something VERY SIMILAR to what you found
in my journey over the last few years...
Guys who go from unsuccessful to successful with
women also tend to find success in other areas
of their lives as well.
There's something about being CONFIDENT in the
fact that you can leave your house any time, any
day, anywhere and meet women that kind of puts
your mind "at ease".
I can remember five years ago or so in my own
life... when I was single, I was insecure.
That was that.
If I didn't have a girlfriend, I felt this
STRONG insecurity and weakness. It was a kind
of "shadow" that covered all of the other
areas of my life.
Now things are very different.
By the way, let's face reality for a minute...
most guys are trying to be successful in life
to attract women.
Why do guys try to earn a lot of money?
Why do guys strive for fame?
Why do guys compete with each other?
Of course, it's not ALL for women. But it is
MOSTLY for women in the long run.
Back to what I was saying...
Now that I can meet women anytime I want, it
has freed up a part of my mind that used to
be devoted to trying to figure out how to get
a girlfriend... and worrying because I didn't
have one.
And, of course, my own personal success has
improved as well.
I think you're right on track here... thanks
for the email.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
Finally a chance came to really test your book
and I was overwhelmed by the results. I had
gotten your online book about 6 months ago and
now that I'm out of Student Teaching I have time
to put it to work. I was the DD for a trip to a
really hot club in NC. I overcame my fear of
dancing and got out there. I was rejected by some
girls but that didn't matter: I ended up spending
some good time with the most INCREDIBLE looking
woman I have ever seen. She is as if God had put
her together out of all my favorite things in a
woman.
I played by the rules. Left her and danced with
several others just when things were looking
great. Just before closing time I've got her by
the hand leading her to the bar. A couple of
cocky/funny minutes and I have her email and
phone number. What a confidence booster!
Only thing is, she is spanish and doesn't speak
english very well. Thank God I speak a little
spanish myself. I just emailed her back (she
wanted to know when I was moving to NC). But how
to do C & F when English isn't the main language?
Thanks,
Boosted but needing help still.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
lol... say what?
Now you know how to meet beautiful women, and
you're emailing me to ask how to be Cocky &
Funny by email with a woman who speaks a
different language?
lol... you're killing me. (lol= laugh out loud)
Don't worry about being Cocky & Funny. This
girl obviously likes you...
Cocky & Funny is a PIECE of the formula. Not
the entire thing. In this case, open up your
"Bridges" report that you got with Double Your
Dating, and READ IT AGAIN.
You need to get in FRONT of this girl again,
and DO SOMETHING!
Now get to it, and quit wasting time writing
her love letters!
***QUESTION***
David,
I am a 51 year old widower who had dated pretty
attractive women in high school and in college.
But after being married twice and falling into
the "yes dear" routine, I had definitely become a
"wussy" boy over the past twenty years. I had
been dating a few women recently, but not getting
to first base with the beautiful ones I really
wanted to go out with. I thought it was because I
was older, had a few gray hairs in my beard, and
could stand to take about twenty pounds of the
old "spare tire". Not so....
I started receiving your e-newsletter about six
weeks ago and decided "what the hell have I got
to loose?", let's try some of his suggestions,
I'm not getting what I want anyway.... Well, I am
now dating five different women between the ages
of 35 and 47, three of them are drop-dead gorgeous.
One I have been going out with for a while knows
that I am seeing other women, but is OK with it
as long as I still go out with her. A 39 year old
I met online a month ago just wants to meet
regularly for a "no strings attached" sexual
relationship and we've gotten together three
times. I met her in person two days after I first
wrote to her using your "Funny & Cocky" approach.
She's the least attractive of the lot but one of
the best lovers I've ever been with and even has
me talking her to climax over the phone when we
can't be together in person!
Dave, thanks for your help. I once again feel
like the man I was in my twenties!
Later,
MojoMan
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, I'll bet your friends hate your guts right
about now.
Then again, doesn't sound to me like you've had
any time to call them... so what the hell.
Isn't it interesting how different things can
be when you know how to communicate with women
in a way that triggers their ATTRACTION?
Women love the play, the challenge, the mystery,
and the EMOTIONS that they feel when you use
this stuff.
Great job, and thanks for the email.
Oh, and I personally believe that any man who
utters the words "Yes, dear" as a serious response
to a woman should be taken out back, beaten until
crying (which probably wouldn't take long), and
forced to wear an uncomfortable, tight-fitting
dress to the chalkboard... at which time he should
be made to write "I will stop acting like a Wuss
Bag" four million times.
Nothing personal, mind you...
***SUCCESS STORY***
My shy demeanor while standing back and hoping my
looks will attract has provided little success
with the hot women I wanted to meet. I am 44 years
old and have been doing this shy respectful what
does she think of me frame forever and real
results where just not happening.
I bought your advanced series and was hooked.
Reframing and not caring about the outcome is so
powerful! On the first night out after listening
to your series was fantastic. I went to a concert
with a friend of mine and I immediately interacted
with a very attractive 25 year old at the
refreshment counter. At intermission we were back
for more with her but just not really getting in.
At that moment I stopped 2 very hot women walking
by and proceeded with cocky and funny and a who
cares about the outcome frame and within two
minutes one of them was asking for MY number and
actually initiated a kiss!!
Women are Competitive, I turned around and this
attractive server was wide eyed smiling and also
proceeded to also ask for my number. I am getting
together with both of them after they initiated
the first call to me the very next day! I felt
that power in almost every situation I encountered
that night and ended up with 8 phone numbers in
total!
This was only my first step with so much more to
come. Your series was clearly the best investment
I have made in this women and dating area! IT
WORKS!!!
Thanks David
N Z
Milwaukee, WI
>>>MY COMMENTS:
8 Phone numbers in one night out.
For a "shy and respectful" 44 year old guy.
Not bad, I'd say.
BUT THAT'S not the BEST part!
The BEST part is that you "GOT" an important
lesson. You realized that women are VERY,
ULTRA, MIND-BOGGLINGLY COMPETITIVE. (Don't
you love it when you say a word, but you
don't know if you made it up, but you don't
care either because it was perfect?)
Yes, women are VERY competitive with each
other.
And one of the STRANGEST aspects of this
competitive nature is that the MORE
ATTRACTIVE a woman is, the more COMPETITIVE
she usually is with other women.
I can't figure this one out for the life of
me, but hey... I don't ask why electricity
works. I just flip the light switch on.
Married guys often get more than their fair
share of attention from women.
If you're out on a date with a super-hot
woman, other women will look at you (and
her) more.
If women see you talking to other women, they
will be more likely to talk to you.
If you walk into a bar and talk to every
woman in the place, other women will see it
and be more receptive to you.
Are these universals? No. But they do TEND
to be true in most cases.
And the situation you mentioned... talking to
one or more women, then stopping to talk to
DIFFERENT women, then turning BACK to the first
one or ones you were talking is VERY
POWERFUL.
It "says all the right things" without you
even having to "say" anything.
It's like strong eye contact, or slow and
deliberate movements. It's something that
INSTANTLY communicates everything that you
need to say without words.
By the way, thanks for calling my program the
best investment you've ever made "in the women
and dating area". I put a lot of time and energy
to make it the best, and it's great to hear that
it's working for you.
***COMMNENT***
Hi David,
I'm B and I'm eighty one years old. I've been
on your mailing list for some time and think that
what you are doing is truly marvelous. Just being
on your list has changed my outlook on
relationships and self respect. Habits of
deference to females is pretty ingrained in old
guys like me, but I'm trying to adjust to your
inspiration. I've been "dating" a couple of
younger (60-70s) for bike rides and such and
thank you for new insight.
You are a national treasure.
B (old high school teacher)
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Now THAT'S what I call cool...
You have to write me a story about one of your
"younger gals"... this is going to be VERY
interesting.
I love my job.
***QUESTION***
Hi David,
I have your Advanced Dating Techniques DVD set and
it was well worth the money spent many times over.
It has been amazing to see how many mistakes I
have made over the years with women due to a weak
inner game and understanding of women. Thank you
for taking the time and energy to put this series
together. I am finally "getting it." I am now
putting your techniques into practice with a new
confidence and will report back soon I'm sure with
success stories.
My question is when using online dating services
such as match.com, what is an effective way to
describe yourself in your profile, what you're
looking for in a mate, and also what are
effective methods for an initial email to a woman
of interest?
Regards,
whm
Irvine, California
>>>MY COMMENTS:
It sounds to me like you haven't listened to the
ENTIRE program yet.
Later in the program you'll find that I have
actually provided you with examples of profiles
that I've personally used to meet women online,
several examples of instant message conversations,
and insights into the psychology of meeting women
using the internet.
I met my last girlfriend on the internet,
actually. She's 5'10" tall, and the hottest
woman you've ever seen in your life. Not to
mention intelligent, funny, emotionally stable,
and a joy to be around.
And she contacted ME first.
ALSO, I interview one of my good friends who
taught ME how to meet women online... and he
shares some of his secret strategies as well.
A hint about most of these personals sites
that most guys don't know:
If you update your profile, it brings your ad
back "to the top of the pile" and more women
see it.
So update your profile DAILY. Even a small
change will do.
That one little tip will EXPONENTIALLY
increase your results...
Now LISTEN TO THE PROGRAM!
It's all in there.
...and speaking of "It's all in there", if you're
reading this right now and you haven't invested
in my "Advanced Dating Techniques" program, then
TIME IS A WASTIN'.
Remember a year or so back when I wrote a KILLER
newsletter about how to use personal ads to meet
women?
Remember the exact word-for-word example response
that I included in that newsletter?
If you do, then you remember all the guys who
wrote in over the following month or so talking
about using that "cut and paste" to get tons
of responses from women.
That particular newsletter is reprinted word-for-
work in my Advanced Dating Techniques Program.
Guess what else is in there?
Oh, a few things like all of my PERSONAL
approaches that I use with women... the exact
words I use myself that I don't share ANYWHERE
except in that program and in my LIVE SEMINARS.
Things like the specific exercises that I have
used PERSONALLY for YEARS to improve my own
self image and overcome my own fears of women.
Things like live interviews with five of my
friends who are AMAZING WITH WOMEN... so
you can SEE and HEAR them... and understand
how they communicate... and listen to the
exact things they do to meet women...
Things like exactly how to smoothly take
things to a "physical level" with a MINIMUM
RISK of "rejection". These techniques are
so powerful that I personally guarantee to
you that women will comment on them and even
THANK YOU for using them. I know, sounds a
little hard-to-believe, but I'm not kidding.
The point is that this program is the best
thing available... and it will teach you more
great ideas than anything you'll find anywhere
at any price.
Here's the deal.
I want you to have this program.
I am convinced that it will change your life,
and help you meet more women.
You can order it, watch or listen to it all
the way through, THEN decide if you want to
keep it.
If you don't want it, send it back in 30 days.
No questions and no hassles.
If you want to keep it (and I'm betting that
you will), you'll make five easy monthly
payments (so it's easy on your budget).
The time is now, and the deal is unbeatable.
You can watch free video clips from the program and hear all the details here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries
If you'd like to download my online eBook
Double Your Dating for a free 7 day trial,
click here... you'll be reading it in just a
few minutes from right now:
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I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. If you'd like to be able to meet ANY woman
you want - whether it's face to face, or online -
and get the ATTRACTION going immediately,
then you must go check out these video clips
from the programs I've created just for you:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
P.P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:
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2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask
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stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how
well your stuff works" comments, but the fact is
that I DO need to hear all of the specifics...
because this helps other guys to see what's
working in different situations.
3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success
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and tell me where you're from.
5) Send it to me at:
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...don't just hit "reply" to this email. Thanks!
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