Dating Younger Women, How To Be "Cocky & Funny"
>I get a lot of questions about how I learned
to be successful with women and dating... so I
took the time to write out my story, plus add
some good tips and tricks... along with some
great descriptions and video clips of all my
different audio and video programs. If you want
to see it all, then go check this out:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
***SUCCESS STORY***
Davie D,
I have had your book and newsletters for almost
2 years. Yesterday I sent away for your advanced
series. Your material is quality and obviously the
way to go (I'm ridiculously cheap and I wouldnt
have spent the extra money on the advanced series
if i knew it wouldnt work)
My most recent story goes like this: I was
working and met some female (9.0 on my scale)
exactly the type of face i like. She had a hard-
to-get personality. I teased her and had some good
conversation for a few minutes. She had to go but
returned a while later asking 'what time it was'
or some stupid question like that that you can ask
anyone and still look casual. (typical of girls i
have busted on to come back and ask some stupid
question) I continued to bust on her and maintain
my uninterested/laid back mood.
I told her to write her number down, she did and
she told me 'she liked me' or some pick up like
that, i said "yeah i like me too"
She wanted to do something later, I said 'like
what' (just seeing where she was coming from). She
smiled and didnt really answer, to which i
followed up with "whatever, you couldnt handle
this"
I had a friend come by who i work with and she
started talking to him 'acting' interested (i
assume to see how i would handle it). So ignored
them and went on with my stuff, instead of cock
blocking i bragged a little about him.
she said she had to leave and was standing right
in front of me for a couple seconds so i just
moved in for a kiss and she did also (btw that was
after less than a total of 15 minutes of talking).
She left and I went back to my work, but not
before a little 3-second Conan O'Brien dance
behind my desk. earlier she told me to call her
that night so i called her the next night.
That night she wanted to get busy and I would
keep backing up when she went in to kiss me and
didnt act too thrilled about the whole occasion.
She took her shirt off right after she got in my
house and i told her to put it back on and that
she could take it off later. that night she said
"Your the only guy who I can't figure out" and
"I'm so lucky to be here with you" and even "How
come you picked me, you deserve so much better"
This beautiful, hard-to-get girl's personality
changed right in front of me. And i used the
beautiful "just say please" line once again.
I love you Dave (but not like that you sicko!)
-D from CA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Great story.
You've mentioned a couple of my favorite types
of "comebacks" to things women say.
In one situation, she said, "I like you" and
you replied, "I like me too".
In another, she mentioned that she wanted to do
something later with you, and you replied "Like
what?"... and then said "Whatever, you couldn't
handle this".
You TOTALLY get the equation:
COCKY + FUNNY
In your first comeback, you've taken something
"nice" that she was saying about you, and turned
it into a perfect opportunity to dial up the
tension in a funny way.
"I like you"... "Yeah, I like me too". Classic.
In your second comment, you really add one of
the "magic ingredients" of ATTRACTION called being
a CHALLENGE.
Most women have never had a guy say something
like, "You couldn't handle this" to them.
It's so surprising to a woman when she hears
this kind of thing... and it's INCREDIBLE when
it's done in a FUNNY way.
Unless you understand the dynamics of how women
become attracted to men, this stuff doesn't make
any sense at all.
Remember when you were a kid and you had those
little cars that you could wind up by pulling them
backwards on the floor... then when you let go
they would spin out and fly forward?
You could feel the tension building as you
pulled the car backwards... winding it up. And
when you let go, it would scream out of your hand.
I always thought those were pretty cool.
Well, there was another great lesson in those
cool little cars: You need to dial up the tension
before you can release the energy inside.
Your story and comments do a GREAT job of this.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David, I, like you, am a slow learner with
women and I own nearly every product that you sell
(which i am incredibly grateful for). And proof
of my learning about women came just the other
night. I had been achieving mild success with
women but nothing to sneeze at.
Anyhow, I was in a strip club with some
friends (fyi...i HATE strip clubs, seriously) just
chatting it with some people i hadn't seen for a
long time sittin in sniffler's row with my back
cocked to the side, halfway ignoring the
"dancers". So, I held up $3 for a beer just as the
dancer was coming my way and right before she got
in my face i notified the bartender for a Bud
Light, then turned away. This, obviously, pissed
her off. I continued to sit relaxed, just
chillin, ya know. Ten minutes later she comes out
in somewhat normal attire and sits right next to
me and starts in with how I am an a**hole and she
hated me. I just smile demurely and say, "Well
i'm glad you could determine that in the first 5
minutes rather than waste your time" and did NOT
look away until she did. Then, not 5 minutes of
conversation later, she confessed to me that she
hated me yet was "so attracted to me" she couldn't
explain it. At this time i am like "wow, this
sh** is like magic". Next i am making out with her
in front of the ENTIRE bar after she had bought me
2 beers and 2 shots. Meanwhile, this tool of a
man that had tipped her in excess of $200 that
night was groping her while we were playing
volley-lime with our tongues. Holy sh** were all
the dudes in the club impressed and needless to
say she left with me to finish the deal. I went
from nobody in a club of perverts spending big
money to the stud that left with free alcohol and
the hottest stripper there.
I always was a believer in you, David, and the
other night just reaffirmed my beliefs. Talk to
you again soon...... D the Cunnilingualist SoDak
>>>MY COMMENTS:
What can I say?
I've already thought of a few things...
1) Use protection. Lots of it.
2) Don't marry her, no matter how good the sex
happens to be.
3) Wipe that DAMN Sh**-Eating-Grin off of your
face already. It's bad enough that every guy hates
you... lol.
So, when you're finished playing with fire, do
yourself a favor and test out your skills in a
bookstore, art show, or other place where you
might meet more "quality" women.
Oh, and shut up.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave,
Your material is great! I went to this library
in town where this very beautiful woman works.
There are about 6 women that work there (no men).
This woman has had very wealthy men date her and
policemen and a body builder etc. I'm 49 and bald
and don't make a lot of money but she has fallen
for me!
Every time I'd go in there I'd get cocky and
funny with all of them and this woman wants to
date ME! So we've been dating for a couple weeks
now and she's really falling in love with me.
Her birthday was about 5 days after we first
met and I didn't buy her anything. She obviously
finds this very attractive that I feel confident
enough in myself that I would do that.
Last night she said she loved me for the first
time. I held my ground and refused to be
intimidated into saying I love her too. She was
flabberghasted when she asked: "Don't you love
me?" I said I need to know her more.
This morning she went to town and got me a pop
and pop corn and wouldn't allow me to pay her back
and she brought it to me.
I've never been able to do this before. I was
always the very nice and shy guy.
Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
T.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, it's OK to be a nice guy. Just do it in a
way that doesn't make women use the WORD "nice" to
describe you.
The fact is that when you're being Cocky &
Funny, you're actually being VERY nice... and
women know it.
They love the fact that you're paying attention
to them in a way that's INTERESTING, entertaining,
funny, and unpredictable.
Good for you. Sounds like you've met a great
gal.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave,
I have emailed you before with a success story
but this email is more of a reply to the guy who
felt his age of 37 was an issue with girls in
their 20's.
My thought on this is age is only a barrier if
you choose to make it one. Sure there are girls
out there where they have a problem with an age
difference. To me these girls are looking for
someone to settle down with, bring to her parents
for Sunday dinner and have the approval of her
friends and not someone to date for sake of
dating.
I met this Latin girl at my gym who on a scale
of 1 - 10 is about a 9. After an aerobic boxing
class we went out for a cup of tea. We talked and
I did a little C&F and she said to me before I
leave remind me to give you my phone #. I didn't
even get to ask for it but that's OK.
The other day we were at a Wendy's for lunch
when she told me I was incredible. She went on to
say I don't crowd her I give her, her space.
Keeping the C&F going I told her I agree I am
incredible. I told her if it wasn't for the fact I
like girls so much I would give myself a hug and
kiss.
Well, Dave, we have been dating a few months
now and about the age thing she is 27 and I am 56.
It was on our second date when she asked how old I
was and without any hesitation I just said 56.
Just being honest and straight with her. Now,
granted I do not look nor act my age for she
thought I was 36 or so, I am into Hip Hop & Techno
music and started taking Salsa dance lessons,
there are a number of Latin clubs here in Miami.
So age is only a number to me and a lot of the
girls I have gone out with. When a girl I date
tells her girl friend how old I am the girl friend
thinks her friend is dating this old man until I
meet her and she doesn't see an age difference any
more.
N. Miami Beach
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Great points.
I know many men who date women that are 10 or
even 20 years or more younger.
I read an interesting statistic that men who
get divorced wind up marrying women that are an
average of 10 years younger the second time, and
that one in five men marries a women 20 years
younger the second time.
Thanks for the email.
***COMMENT***
Dear Dave,
Your stuff is right on target...It took me a
week to buy your ebook which is well worth it!! I
don't even think a genie could have given me
better luck with women than the things you teach
in ~THAT~ book. Anyway onto my SUCCESS STORY...
I'm 5'9" weigh 140 pounds normal teenage acne
problems nothing too big. The thing that got me
down is I have kind of a big nose which brought my
self-esteem sky rocketing downwards and kept it
there for the 18 years I have been alive. Your
newsletters alone gave me the confidence I needed
to approach a woman. Well make a long juicy story
short. HOT woman bumps into me at gym. I ask did
you grab my ass and really crank up the ball
busting and C&f routine ...a week later I (had
sex) for the first time before I even got my first
kiss. LOL. And to all you idiots who ask dumb
questions before you read the book...well...you're
idiots...Thanks Man!
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Hey, good job.
And I appreciate your plug for my book.
I also wish that more guys would invest in
themselves and get my book before asking
questions.
The questions would be so much better, and the
answers would as well.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dear Dave,
So, the reason I haven't written you since my
last message is because I've been too busy having
the best sex ever. Seriously. I've got your last
20 newsletters sitting in my inbox because I
haven't had time to read them. That's how powerful
your interview series has been. It is INVALUABLE.
Just hearing you talk was a great educational
tool. I mean, the level of confidence that you
both exude about everything, not just dating,
makes me feel respect for you even before I've
actually tried what you suggest. Then I try
incorporating your tips and guidance into my own
relations with women, and WOW what a difference.
Listening to Marie's insights (and GOD does she
sound sexy!!!) helped me realize that women
actually WANTED me to be the type of person I was
naturally, but I was afraid to be a MAN. And it's
the fear that drives them away. What a turn
around.
So, back to this incredible sex :D!!. I ran into
this sexy girl I knew 2 years ago when I was in
college. I always had a thing for her, but I was
so shy and awkward, there was no chance it was
gonna go anywhere. But now I've been reading the
newsletters, I read the eBook and pamphlets, and
I've listened to the Interview series thus far (3
times) and I just GET IT. So I run into her after
not having seen her in 2 years, turn on the charm
DD style and her first response is, "God, you seem
so...mature." I knew it was on then. Dave, every
time I get a test, I just think "WWDDD: What would
Dave DeAngelo do?" For instance, the other day,
after giving her a considerable hard time, she
said, "You know, being too cocky is just NOT sexy"
So I turn to her, flash a confident smile and say,
But you don't think I'm too cocky," She starts
laughing and throws her arms around my neck and
says, "I hate that you're always right." She says
things to me I never thought I'd hear a girl say,
like "How did you get to be so cute?" and "Why is
it you always know exactly the right thing to
say?"And, on top of that, she's always begging me
for sex. BEGGING. And what's more, she's okay
that I'm dating other women, as long as I still
see her once a week. Do you realize what I'm
telling you? This incredible sexy women, who I
could hardly look in the eyes 2 years ago, is
begging me for sex (and doing crazy things in
bed), bragging to her friends about me, and
allowing me to do anything I want with anyone I
want. It's the type of story I wouldn't believe
if I weren't living it.
Thank you, Dave.
And keep those interview CD's coming!!!
CK Los Angeles.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, it's amazing when you finally start
"getting" how it all fits together, and seeing
these types of responses from women.
By the way, thanks for the plug for my
Interview Series. I'm getting KILLER feedback on
it.
As a reminder, details are here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/InterviewSeries
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hi Dave.
Im not gonna say that you're a god or anything,
but you are a good guy who seems to know his
stuff. I'd be a 21 year old virgin right now if it
wasn't for you. I began reading your emails about
9 months ago, while trying to figure out why my
last girl left me before we even got into bed
together. Your book made the answer painfully
obvious. I was just too nice to her. I did
everything to please her, and in the process ended
up tuckin my balls between my thighs. After
downloading your book, my success has come about
gradually. I've just been gradually being more
open with women, less worried about offending
them, and saying even rude or controversial things
to them just for laughs. Like I said it takes time
to get use to doing this, but I really put it to
use well with a girl I met this summer, and wow. I
was amazed at how easy it was to get a reasonably
attractive woman to sleep with you. Well that one
didn't work out, but I don't care cause I've had
more success with others since. Rock on Dave.
B from Michigan
>>>MY COMMENTS:
This is some good stuff.
It's important to test these ideas out until
you become comfortable with them... and for some
guys it's VERY unusual or uncomfortable to say
"rude or controversial things just for laughs"
when it comes to women they're attracted to.
Most guys fear that if they say the wrong
thing, a woman won't "like" them.
The problem with this kind of reasoning is that
women don't like men who PUSSYFOOT around looking
for approval.
So by winning, you lose.
And yes, women like sex too.
They tend to enjoy it more with men who act
like MEN, and not men who act like WOMEN.
Thanks for your email, and Rock On yourself,
dude.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave,
I have been receiving your emails and bought
your book, and I think I'm starting to get it. I
am practicing to learn a new skill now, so that I
can remain "in character" as cocky and funny,
while I work to assimilate the approach into my
personality. A recent newsletter helped me
overcome my fear of being direct with women. I
always was afraid to make a move because I figured
the attractive ones were already married, hooked
up, or lesbians. I thought I would be embarrassed
and feel stupid if I made a move on someone who
isn't available. You said simply ask "Are you
single?" I agree that it does say all the right
things. So last week I tried it, and the woman was
married. But I could see she was complimented, and
I felt good about the exchange. The next time,
a woman said she was dating. Again, it was a
positive experience.
Then yesterday, a hot woman came into my office,
and she seemed to be getting into me. So I asked
her if she was single, and she bent over backwards
to assure me that she was. Then I shocked
myself when I took it a step further, blurting out
"Well, but are you straight?" This knocked her for
a loop -- and as she insisted just how straight
she really is, I noticed an immediate increase in
her feminine behaviors. So I busted her again,
"Well, I just couldn't be sure." Thanks, Dave. I
do think I'm starting to get it... T.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
NIYYYYYYYYYCE!
Yes, you are demonstrating that you're starting
to get it. By the way, once you get a woman on
the defensive (in a fun way, like you did) it's
always fun to keep going... and accuse her of all
kinds of crazy things.
After she said that she was straight, you could
have said, "OK, that's good. But can you cook?".
Once you're on a roll, stay with it. These
first moments present an amazing opportunity to
turn up the heat and really amplify the
ATTRACTION.
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave,
Love your stuff and these e-mails. Really
informative.
I've a couple of points about the last set. 1)
NLP can work in some cases but usually as a back-
up to your stuff. Women love it AT THE RIGHT TIME
but use it too much and you sound wussy. DON'T
give up the cocky-funny approach EVER in a
relationship. Keep the woman guessing, unsure and
bust other women while she's around you. You don't
have to be trying to pick up women while she's
there, just teasing shop assistants, waitresses,
her friends, etc. shows her you're in control and
attractive to other women; they won't want rid of
you then....... ever. They love it and it keeps
them on their toes. It makes you unpredictable,
confident, assertive (in a positive way) and not
needy and wussy.
2) One 37 year old guy in a previous e-mail
said he felt he couldn't approach younger women.
He didn't want to be thought of as a creepy old
guy. Well, I'm 48, split 3 years ago (I've 3
kids!), thought my world had ended and I'd no
future. I could've retreated to a lonely cocoon-
like existence but decided, "What the hell it's my
turn now!" This really pissed off my ex-wife who
wanted to split! I began to study everything I
could find on women, how they thought (or didn't
think), what made them tick (or didn't), why - to
us guys - they were so irrational, the "let's just
be friends" thing, etc. The only thing I've found
that REALLY works is your stuff (I've had the book
for ages). I have had loads of success with
younger women (20s and 30s). My current girl is
34, attractive and I feel like a million dollars
when I walk into a club or bar with my piece of
arm candy (other women never stop looking and you
know they're attracted to a guy who can pull
younger women, they're curious, it's amazing). She
says this is the best relationship she's ever had.
So, my advice to older men is ignore everyone, go
have some fun, approach who the hell you like,
just use the cocky and funny routine and you WILL
succeed more than you'll fail. Life's too short so
get out there and enjoy. I wouldn't have believed
it could be like this.
Thanks for everything and helping me get a life
back.
J. Edinburgh, Scotland
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You've made some great points here...
Let me comment on one or two of them.
One thing you mentioned is demonstrating how
you can control situations with women... so that
the woman you're with KNOWS IT.
It's always interesting to me how COMPETITIVE
women are.
And there's nothing quite like a woman knowing
that her man can meet other women whenever he
wants.
In fact, I'll bet that a large percentage of
women who stay in bad situations with men are only
there because they know that their man can go meet
other women anytime he wants, and they just can't
deal with the jealousy that it triggers... so they
stay.
I know this doesn't make much logical sense,
but hey, it's reality.
Now, as you know, I really don't like the idea
of "manipulating" women by lying and playing with
their emotions for your enjoyment.
But if you naturally like to have fun with
other people, and your girl just happens to be
there when you're joking around with the girl
behind the counter at the coffee shop, then you'll
probably get some big benefits from it.
You also mentioned that when you decided to
start learning about how to be more successful
with women it pissed off your ex.
That's pretty typical.
I mean, let's face it... just between us
guys... you probably allowed yourself to become a
pretty boring, predictable husband... lol. So now
that you're getting your game together she's
thinking to herself "That JACKASS! Why didn't he
act like this before?! Now other women get to
enjoy the part of my man that I always wanted more
of!".
A lot of guys write me to ask how they can get
their ex-girlfriend back. The reality is that the
reason she probably left you is because you had NO
GAME. You were about as sexually interesting to
her as Homer Simpson. If you want to get her back,
go learn how to make women feel ATTRACTION, and
then date other women. And if it's possible to fix
your relationship, that combination usually does
the trick pretty nicely.
Finally, I agree with you about approaching the
women you find attractive.
Look, no one is going to live your life for
you.
No one is going to go meet attractive women for
you.
You need to take control of your own life, and
meet the kinds of women you want to meet.
Thanks for the reminder.
...and if you're reading this right now and
you're thinking "Yea, that's what I need... to
take control of my life and my success with
women", then guess what?
YOU'RE RIGHT.
You do.
And if you'd prefer to save yourself a few
YEARS of trial and error (or more), and a lot of
MONEY and TIME, then I suggest you check out my
Advanced Dating Techniques program.
It will definitely help you take your success
with women to a whole new level, whether you're
just starting out or you already have some success
with women.
All the details, plus some great audio and
video samples are here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries
If you haven't downloaded your copy of my
online eBook "Double Your Dating", then I'd like
to remind you of the offer I mentioned to the guy
earlier in this newsletter.
Here's how it works:
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I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Want to watch some great free video clips and
learn about all of the different programs I've
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