Where To Take Women On Dates... Plus: Virgins,
Panties, And All Kinds Of Other Fascinating
Stuff...
***QUESTION***
I have to admit your material is dead on the
money. C & F works great, and your analysis of how
the female mind works answers a lot of questions
I've had.
While I am loath to admit it, I am a 22 y/o
virgin. When girls find out about this they almost
always ask why? Some girls have even gone as far
as to change their minds about sleeping with me
because I was a virgin. They claimed that they
didn't want to risk giving me a bad first time,
but I smell some BS there. I know girls read into
everything, so what are they reading into the fact
that I'm a virgin and is there any explanation I
can give that won't have me looking like a loser?
Thanks D.S. Chicago
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow.
I really admire the fact that you're willing to
reach out and ask for help.
Most guys are so caught up in themselves and
their problems that they wind up suffering in
silence... and, of course, are worse off because
of it.
I'm going to give you an "outside the box"
answer for your particular situation (even though
it sounds like you've been doing quite a bit of
"out of the box" thinking all by yourself... I
know, I just couldn't help myself).
Here it is...
Don't talk about it.
Don't "explain" it in the first place.
Many problems in life are ILLUSIONS.
And yours is one of them.
Think of it this way...
Your dad, grandfather, great-grandfather, and
so on, all the way back to the first humans
figured out how to have sex for the first time.
It's not that big of a deal, man.
I recommend that you focus on learning how a
woman's body works, how to get her turned on and
keep her turned on, etc. rather than focusing on
YOURSELF... which is what you're doing.
If you can make a woman feel incredible
physical pleasure, she won't care if you're a
virgin. In fact, she won't ask or even bring the
topic up, because she'll be feeling so good that
the thought will never cross her mind.
It is not your obligation as a person to inform
the person you're about to sleep with that you've
never had sex before... lol.
Great email...
***QUESTION***
I am recently divorced and am 32 years old.
Haven't dated since I was 21. So I have just kind
of thrown myself back out there. A friend of mine
told me about you and this newsletter so I started
reading it and am fascinated by your advice. I
have always been the nice guy - ready with an
honest compliment and holding the door etc. Its
not an act - its just how I am. But I seem to be
sensing a problem with this...
With my friends and gal pals I get the "you're too
nice" comment all the time. I am still trying to
figure out how you can be too nice. How can you be
too much of a gentleman. Is this truly something
that can kind of trip you up dating these days, if
you are like me. Thanks
DK - Denver, Colorado
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ah yes, the big realization that "nice" isn't
always "good".
I'm going to give you a piece of advice that
could be PRICELESS to you.
Get my Advanced Dating Techniques program.
It will change your entire perspective of how
the world works (at least when it comes to dating
and relationships).
I guarantee beyond a shadow of a doubt that you
will get TREMENDOUS benefit from it.
Why do I just recommend my program rather than
giving you an explanation?
Because I can tell from your question that you
need more than a short answer.
You need a new understanding of WHY "nice"
doesn't attract women... and what to do instead.
I was a "nice" guy for a lot of years of my own
life, and I honestly believed that I was doing the
"right thing".
It only makes sense, right?
How could it POSSIBLY be true that ANYTHING
other than "niceness" could lead to success with
women?
Well guess what?
It IS true.
And if you don't take the time and make the
investment in yourself to LEARN what you need to
do, you're going to suffer a lot longer than you
need to.
Trust me on this one.
If, for some reason, you can't afford my
program at this point in your life, then stay
tuned to these newsletters for hints. There are a
lot of good ideas here.
But if you can afford it, get it.
Women don't feel those powerful, magical, GUT-
LEVEL emotions for "nice" guys.
It may suck, it may not be "fair", and it may
not be "right" or whatever.
Get used to it. It's reality.
***SUCCESS STORY*** Hey Dave,
I attended your seminar a few months ago and have
almost all of your materials (guys you've got to
get the interview series, it'll blow you away, and
is VERY affordable). I am finally starting to
"get it." Here's an example: I recently met a
girl online (she responded to my personal ad) and
we got together a few evenings ago. She stayed
the whole evening and after some verbal teasing
(C&F) things progressed physically. Teasing her
with smooth kissing & touching then pulling away
really seemed to turn her on (2 steps forward 1
step back). Later, after making out, I playfully
tried to kick her out of my apartment. I said
things like "isn't it past your bedtime, I need to
sleep, don't you have to work tomorrow, don't your
cats need food," etc. Well she didn't leave until
8 the next morning :) and even then she didn't
want to leave, but had to go to work. We've
exchanged several emails since, in which I've
really busted her balls, she remains very
interested and we're meeting again soon. I
learned a few things here. Not only did proper
use of the C&F and 2 steps forward, 1 step back
concepts build sexual tension & anticipation, but
trying to get rid of her (playfully), as counter-
intuitive as it may seem, actually drew her
closer. I realized that in general, being willing
to walk away is so powerful because it shows
you're confident and not needy, in control of
yourself (and your hormones), and instantly makes
you a challenge she must work for, all of which
makes her want you more, not less. This worked
especially well because I had set up the
relationship properly first (i.e. created
ATTRACTION). This definitely shows a big
improvement in my "game." Keep the great materials
coming!
N. from Salt Lake City (yeah you know me)
>>>MY COMMENTS:
What can I say? You're the man...
It's clear to me that you've gotten to the
point where you can UNDERSTAND what is going on...
and you've reached the point where you can
actually control yourself (and those hormones).
Nice!
Now, QUIT EXCHANGING "A FEW EMAILS" so fast!
Give her room to miss you and think about you.
Give her at LEAST a day or two off here and
there to think about you... but not hear from you.
If you do not, you'll feel the tide begin to
shift, her interest begin to fade, and you'll be
wondering what happened.
Now keep up the great work!
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dear David:
I have been receiving your emails for a few weeks
now, and wanted to pass along a success story of
my own.
I heard something on the radio few weeks ago that
grabbed my attention. The caller said that he just
walks up to women he sees, and asks them for their
bra or panties or both. (He only tells them that
he collects them.) Well, after reading your
emails, I thought this was a great C&F thing to
try. I went out last Saturday night, and I saw an
attractive woman and told her that I was
collecting women's underwear, and that I wanted
hers. After the shock wore off, she got up and
went into the bathroom. When she came out, she
handed me her panties and said, " I swear to God,
if you sniff these, I'll kick your ass." Well, I
couldn't resist. I turned around and stuck out my
butt. She smacked it, and then I sniffed her
panties! Again, she was so shocked she just stood
there looking at me with her mouth open. Well, to
make a long story short, when I left a few minutes
later, she was giving me her number without my
even asking for it!!! I would never have thought
of doing something like this before reading your
emails, let alone actually doing it. You've
changed my life. Thank you
B. B. Casper, WY
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I don't know what to say to this one, except
for "I had to include this one".
Guys, try this one at your own risk...
But it makes for some damn good reading.
Maybe it's something in the water there in
Casper, Wyoming...
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
Great stuff. I got your e-book a while back, and
it has totally changed my attitude and approach
towards women. It's helped me tremendously in
meeting and talking to them. I can't wait to get
your advanced series. My dilemma is is that I'm
only 5-2, I weigh 120 lbs., and I'm balding, to
top it off (pardon the pun). I know from
experience that most females will pretty much have
nothing to do with a guy as short as I am. On the
rare occasion, when I can meet someone who isn't
so worried about height, I have no problem being
c & f and making them laugh. But even they seem to
not take me so seriously. I even tried my luck
online, but again, it's the rare female that
responds to me. Credit to those who do, they
usually are a ton of fun to talk to, and could
care less how tall a guy is. Any recommendations
(short of platform shoes or stilts) on different
approaches I could use to change my luck with
them, and make them realize that personality's
more important than height?
T in FLA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yea, my recommendation is that you stop
thinking that you have a "dilemma".
You have what you have.
Calling it a dilemma, thinking of your size as
a problem, and trying to figure out "tricks" or
techniques to deal with your "problems" isn't the
answer.
Do this:
Boldly approach every woman you're interested
in as if you're the greatest opportunity she will
ever have.
Learn how to overcome your own issues with
yourself.
Stop talking about "luck" as if it's the reason
why you're unsuccessful with women.
Approach each new woman with an open mind, and
realize that every one is different.
Most importantly...
If you are rejected, shut down, criticized, put
down, laughed at, or whatever is the WORST thing
you can think of, GET OVER IT.
You'll get in a car every day without thinking
about it, and drive down a road at 60 miles per
hour, NEARLY MISSING every single car that goes by
in the other lane...literally taking your LIFE
into your hands... with NO FEAR... but you're
allowing your concept of how women are biased
against you IMMOBILIZE you.
Stop that!
Your whole "I know from experience that woman
won't have anything to do with a guy that's as
short as I am" thing is BS!
I have a friend who's about 5'4" or so who is
ALWAYS surrounded by hot women.
In fact, a DIFFERENT friend of mine who's also
shorter dates some of the most beautiful women in
the world.
Your limitation is in your mind.
Sure, women PREFER taller guys ON AVERAGE.
But your limiting belief sucks. Get rid of it.
***QUESTION***
Hey D, I'm a 20 year old guy, i work in a grocery
store and am attending college. I read your
newsletters but haven't gotten around to buying
your book yet. Anyway, here it is, I use your C&F
techniques with women that i meet, get their
numbers and email, etc. but when we go out, not
like a date, just to the clubs, or parties, or
whatever. Most of the time even though i was the
one who did everything, the girls always seemed to
be more interested in my friends than in me. I
don't act to needy or clingy or wuss like (i once
was, but after reading some of your newsletters i
realized i was being more of an ass than
anything). anyway, can you help me out here?
later.
T in elba
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well what are you doing, man?
You get a woman's email and number, then call
her, then get a date with her... then take her to
A PARTY?
Or even WORSE, a CLUB?
Duh.
The whole idea of getting a girl's email and
number is so you can spend more time ALONE with
her.
If you want to hang out with women at clubs,
DON'T TAKE YOUR DATE, dumbass.
Here's my recommendation:
When you're arranging your first date with a
girl, tell her to come to your house, and that
you'll go to coffee or tea with her from there.
Then, when you're finished with your beverages,
tell her that you want to show her your new
Spiderman comic books.
ANYTHING is better than taking a girl to a
party, dude.
Stop it!
Oh, and quit being lazy, and download my eBook.
It's going to make your life a lot better, and
fast.
***QUESTION***
David,
I've never really had any problems getting numbers
from girls. I have been using your guidelines even
before I knew what they were. I always keep it
short and to the point. No fancy pick-up lines
just say "hi" get a little personal info, crack a
joke and bam I'm off, usually with a number in
hand ( or in phone ). But lately I've been testing
out a new strategy that has been getting very
positive results. I wanted to see what your
insights were and whether you had any additional
advice on the subject.
The strategy is pretty simple, I just blow girls
off. I start off acting very interested, ie..
getting a number or name, and then I let that
marinade with them for as long as it takes for
them to break down. Usually they keep pestering me
to call them, hang out, whatever. I just keep
acting like ( not telling them outright ) I will
call or that we will go hang out "sometime". Being
a college student, eventually I see these girls
out on the weekend at a club, bar, party or any
social gathering, and they are so excited that I'm
finally in a place to hang out with them hooking
up is almost too easy. Anyway. what do you think?
Good? Bad? And what are the possible negative
aspects of this strategy.
J.C.
Knoxville, TN
>>>MY COMMENTS:
The only possible "negative" aspects of this
strategy are:
1) You might have to get a new phone number
because you'll have so many women calling you.
2) You may need to move as well to avoid the
stalkers.
You're on the right track BIG TIME here.
This is gold, pure and simple.
Now you're talking.
***QUESTION***
Dave - I recently met this lady and after a little
chit chat she gave me her email. I sent her an
email a couple days later which basically said
that i would like to get to know her. She did not
respond to the email, but two days later I saw her
and she came to me and said thank you for the
note. My question is whether or not she is worth
pursuing?
L
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Not. Oh, and stop sending emails to women that
say "I'd like to get to know you".
Be interesting.
Be fun.
Say crazy stuff.
Play.
Bust her chops.
ENERGY!
Have you been reading my newsletters?
Boring is BAD.
You sound boring to me.
Bad.
***SUCCESS STORY**
David,
I've been getting your newsletters for a few weeks
now and I realized something. When I was younger
I was very successful with women because I didn't
care about a relationship. I'm 30 years old now
and somewhere along the line I started behaving
differently because I was looking for someone to
settle down with. That is when I started having
problems meeting women. By reading your
newsletter, I made the connection as to why I was
successful in the past. It had nothing to do with
how I looked, but my attitude.
Last week I decided to put your methods to the
test. There's this girl that had been flirting
with me at a weekly gathering some of my friends
attend. At the end of the night I made my move
and she shot me down cold. When I asked what all
the flirting had been about she said that it was
all in good fun. The next week I started the
cocky & funny routine. She pulled me outside,
threw her arms around me and said, "Kiss me!" I
blew her off and made some smart ass comment. She
just stood there staring at me like she couldn't
believe what had just happened. I just stared back
and refused to break eye contact. Eventually, she
looked away, slapped me on the arm and said,
"You're bad!" Later on we made out on the balcony
and then she asked what I thought.In a sarcastic
tone, I said, "It was alright." She playfully
punched me in the arm and I went inside and acted
like nothing had happened between us. It was
great to turn the tables on her. If I've started
having success just by reading your newsletter, I
can't wait to order your materials.
S, Oklahoma
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Gold star for you.
You get it. Your letter should be read by
every living single man, period.
Thank you, and good night.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave, I just got your Advanced Series in the
mail last week and I've been studying left and
right for the past 7 days. It is thoroughly
phenomenal!!! In my life, I've never heard such
powerful techniques for attaining lifestyle
success - this is a godsend to me! Thank You so
much!!
Now, to the success...I went on a road trip
yesterday to Indianapolis to visit a friend and
stopped off at the shopping mall to pick up a few
shirts. There was a smokin' black girl working in
the store and I reallllly wanted to approach her
so I say, "Excuse me, Fashion Goddess..." and hold
up two shirts to compare, "...if you saw me at a
party wearing one of these shirts, which one would
you find me most attractive in?" "The green one",
she replies. I say to her, "Well, I'll make sure
not to get that one, then...see, I've been trying
to avoid unstable women lately." Dave, this
woman's jaw just drops to the floor - I broke
right through her brat barrier in no time flat.
So, we flirt for 10 minutes or so...and I TELL her
- not asking her - to take her lunch break with
me, because I'm hungry and I need someone to buy
me lunch. Well, of course, she did and she bought
me lunch after 10 minutes of flirting and ball
busting. And, as a side note, she was 27 and
seemed to be very experienced with guys and I JUST
TURNED 21 this week - she knew this first hand and
didn't even care...I made her feel attraction off
the bat and, as you say, "No amount of logic (or
age differences) could convince her otherwise".
PHENOMENAL!!!!! I'll definitely get together with
this bombshell next time I'm in town.
Thanks Dave, this stuff is absolutely changing my
life!!! I can't wait for some of the new
products!!!
Ciao! DF Bloomington, IN
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ah, another man that gets it.
You've pointed out a personal favorite little
humor trick of mine...
Leading a girl to think that you're saying one
thing, then turning it completely around.
Another example:
You sit down to eat at a restaurant, and start
talking to the cute waitress.
You start flirting with her. She flirts back a
little bit.
Next, you ask her what she thinks the best
thing is on the menu.
After she answers, you either say:
"Well, if your taste in food is even half as
good as your taste in men, then it must be damn
good."
or...
"Well, I just wanted to know what to avoid...so
I'll make sure to NOT order that."
Good stuff.
Killer flirting material.
Thanks for your email... keep it up.
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave,
I just bought the advanced CD series & it's
amazing what a difference they make. Being able
to listen on the way to work, whilst out doing
chores, etc. is cool. I can feel the confidence
building inside me, it's like my own personal
coach.
The C&F doesn't come naturally to me at present so
I've taken your advice and am using the internet
as a 'woman simulator' in order to practice. I've
had mixed results so far, I think a few took the
teasing the wrong way as some of them would
suddenly stop replying. I must be better at the
C&F than I thought though. The first time I went
on this site I was chatting to a few girls and one
of them ended up giving me her mobile and asking
if we could go for coffee before I had chance to.
Anyway my question: You suggest that a date should
simply be 'tea & stimulating conversation', which
for all of the reasons you give makes perfect
sense to me. But once I've done the tea &
conversation with this girl, do you have any
suggestions for other dates where I can come
across as the 'lover' instead of the 'provider'.
The only one where I wouldn't end up having to
shell out (buy her stuff) that I can think of is a
walk along the river or something, but that's
rather dependant on the weather. Thanks for
changing my life.
AIB - London, UK
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You're welcome for changing your life.
Glad to help.
Now, on to your question...
Other "date" ideas...
I'm going to answer your question with one of
my favorite "not quite answer your question" type
of answers.
I think that you need to REALIZE something.
You need to REALIZE that a "date" is just an
IDEA. It's a CONCEPT.
You don't need to "go out" on "dates" with
women.
I went for several months of my life without
"dating" women...
But during those months I "saw" a TON of women.
How did I do that?
Look, a "date" is a nice idea.
You meet a girl, you like her, you offer to
take her out and show her a good time in order to
prove to her that you're a nice guy.
What ACTUALLY happens?
It backfires.
You wind up spending a bunch of money, paying
for her attention, going places that are loud or
uncomfortable, and basically saying to her in a
subtle way that you don't have what it takes to
attract a woman, so you need to take women "out"
instead.
Here's my point.
You have listened to my Advanced Series.
Think about the CENTRAL MESSAGE that I'm really
communicating in that program.
What I'm saying is that you can be the kind of
man that women want to be around.
In other words, you can become so damn
interesting and stimulating to women that they
want to be with you, no matter WHAT the situation
happens to be.
Look, I have women call me that I haven't
talked to in months or even YEARS... who just call
up to say "Hi, how are you? I'd like to see you
sometime".
Is it because I buy them things? Or because I
write them love letters? Or take them out a lot?
No way.
It's because they remember how they FEEL when
they're around me. And they want MORE.
Of course, I'm not the only guy in the world
that is in this situation.
I know many guys who have this very same thing
happen to them a lot.
Stop thinking about where to TAKE women, in the
"physical" sense, and start realizing that you can
TAKE a woman somewhere EMOTIONALLY with your
communication and behavior that will make the
PHYSICAL LOCATION unimportant.
Now, to answer your question... lol...
Try fun things like:
-Tell her that she's going to the grocery store
with you because you need to shop.
-Pick her up and go to a museum. They're often
free, and you actually get to learn something at
the same time.
-Play pool, air hockey, or something else that's
FUN. It's cheap, too.
-Go to a mall or funky shopping area and just walk
around.
...there are a million ideas for where to go.
But pay attention to what I said earlier. It's
not important where you go. It's important who you
are when you get there.
...Oh, and one more IMPORTANT thing...
If you're reading this right now, and you'd
like to stop WATCHING guys meet women, and
LISTENING to stories about other guys meeting
women... and actually BE THE GUY who meets women,
then it might be time for you to DO SOMETHING
about it.
It took me YEARS of trial and error to figure
out all the amazing things I've learned.
Much of that time was spent making friends with
guys who were naturally good with women, going out
with them, watching them, talking to them,
interviewing them, etc.
After taking what I learned and making MYSELF
successful with women and dating, I decided to put
together some materials to share what I've learned
with others.
My book "Double Your Dating" and my Advanced
Dating Techniques CD/DVD program are just two of
the results.
If you're ready to take your success with women
to the next level, no matter WHERE you are right
now, then this is the way to do it.
You can download my eBook here NOW:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook
And you can go and watch some fantastic preview
video clips of my Advanced Dating Techniques
program here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
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