What NEVER To Say To A Woman

What NEVER To Say To A Woman

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*** QUESTION FROM A READER ***

I have recently started to like this girl a lot.
We hang out almost everyday, and everybody that is
around us say that we act like we are going out.
We flirt all of the time, but i dont want to be
the one that admits that i like her first. I have
also become really good friends with one of her
friends and she told her friend that she likes me
and everything, but she hasn't really had too much
experience in dating.

She is one of the nicest girls in the world and
she is very pretty so I dont really understand
why. I really want to tell her that i like her,
but i have read your book and you always seem to
push getting the girl to admit it to you first. I
think she may be too shy to do this though. Would
it be ok to admit it to her first in this
situation? I know you probably think hanging out
with her everyday seems needy, but she is the one
that calls me everyday and it is very hard to turn
her down. Any suggestions would be greatly
apreciated. Thanks.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Nice.

   Well, today is your lucky day... for today I'm
going to give you advice that will probably be
PRICELESS to you.

   First, let me start with some ranting, raving,
and confusing double-talk, then we'll get to the
good stuff.

   I'll begin by verbally abusing you for not
paying attention to what I say, then drift into a
little bit of talk about exactly what to do in
your situation.

   I hope you can tell I'm in a fun mood...

THE VERBAL ABUSE:

   It's annoying when I go through all the trouble
to explain a concept in detail... and try 100 ways
to say it in my newsletters, eBook, etc. and then
someone JUST DOESN'T GET IT.

   In your email you say:

"I really want to tell her that i like her, but i
have read your book and you always seem to push
getting the girl to admit it to you first."

   Now, what I'm about to say might sound a little
bit "trivial" to you. You might call it "semantics",
like the smart people do.

   But, pay attention.

   CLOSE attention.

   I do not recommend that you get a woman to
admit that she likes you FIRST.

   Getting a woman to admit that she likes you
"first" naturally implies that you "admit it"
BACK.

   And I DO NOT say, "admit it back" OR "admit it
later" OR anything else of the sort.

   Why is this so important?

   Simple, really.

   I personally believe that TELLING a woman that
you "like her" is one of the WORST things you can
do.

   If you want a woman to know that you like her,
the best way is to have her FIGURE IT OUT by the
fact that you guys are getting PHYSICALLY
INVOLVED.

   Let me confuse the issue further...

   "Telling her" that you like her and "feeling
like you really want to tell her" are two
completely different issues, and they're BOTH
bad... but for different reasons.

   TELLING her is bad because it takes the MAGIC,
the SUSPENSE, the MYSTERY, and the SEXUAL TENSION
out of the situation.

   It pops the balloon.

   It kills the chemistry.

   FEELING like you want to tell her and then
asking about HOW to tell her is bad because it
shows that you're not GETTING IT.

   Before I go on, I must tell YOU something in
particular...

   What you REALLY need to get your hands on is a
copy of my "Deep Inner Game" program, and learn to
get some control over your emotions. I'm serious
here. Go check it out... it will help you BIG
time:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame

ANOTHER TANGENT

   All right, so let's go off on tangent number
2...

   You mentioned in your email that this girl
you're seeing is inexperienced in the dating
world.

   If she's REALLY inexperienced, then you might
be in big trouble.

   See, she might be falling IN LOVE with you.

   All of this seeing her every day business but
not taking things to the next level (and feeling
like you want to tell her how you feel really
really really badly) might be setting her up
emotionally for a late-night drive to Vegas and
marriage vows at the Drive Thru with Elvis.

   If a woman is inexperienced, then it's very
important that you NOT screw this up. If you do,
it might be bad.

   Another thought: When you're with an
inexperienced woman, it's sometimes a good idea to
"dial down" the ball-busting and the Cocky & Funny
a little bit.

   Instead of having it turned up to a 9.5, dial
it back to a 5.79235 setting. That will probably
work better for you and her.

WHAT TO DO

   So, let's talk a bit about ATTRACTION.

   It happens for reasons that are difficult to
explain to a person who has a "bad model" of how
it works.

   But, let's just say that if it DOES happen, you
want to AMPLIFY it. You don't want to WEAKEN it.

   One of the problems with "telling her how you
feel" is that it instantly changes the dynamics of
the situation.

   When you say, "I like you" - in her head the
woman hears:

   "He is admitting to me that he likes me, which
gives me all the power, which, for some strange
reason, makes me not like him as much anymore."

   I realize that this sounds crazy, and doesn't
make a whole lot of "logical sense", but it's what
usually happens.

   It has a lot to do with the fact that when most
guys say, "I like you" they sound like needy
kittens that just want to cuddle and suckle the
bosom of mommy... which isn't exactly "attraction
creating" stuff.

   If you want to "tell" a woman that you "like
her", the best way to do it is to ADVANCE
PHYSICALLY.

   In other words, TAKE THINGS TO THE NEXT LEVEL.

   DO something, don't SAY something.

   Words are to be used when ACTIONS don't work
better.

   And this is NOT one of those cases.

   Remember "The Kiss Test" I talk about on my
website?

   Use it.

   Remember the sequence that I describe in the
bonus booklet that you got with Double Your Dating
called "Sex Secrets"?

   Use it.

   But DO NOT "tell her how you feel".

   Unless, of course, you want to drive to Vegas.

   Finally, let me give you some advice about this
situation of "she calls me everyday to hang out
and I can't turn her down".

TURN HER DOWN.

   I know, I know... Powerful.

   If you're in love with this girl and want to
marry her, have kids with her, drive your cute
brats to soccer practice in your white minivan,
and wear lots of Dockers clothing, then forget
what I'm telling you.

   Who knows, you might have found one of those
rare, wonderful women that so many of us are
looking for.

   BUT, if you're just at the stage where it's
time to take things to the next level, then do it
with your ACTION, not with your WORDS.

   Now, if you're reading what I'm telling this
guy and saying, "I really need to learn how to
make women feel attraction for me" - then I have
to agree with you.

   You REALLY DO need to learn.

   It's important.

   Very important.

   My latest book, "Attraction Isn't A Choice"
will give you a behind-the-scenes look at how to
trigger that magical physical and emotional
response that we call ATTRACTION.

   Inside, I'll teach you why there's a HUGE
difference between what women SAY they want in a
man... and what makes women feel ATTRACTION.

   I'll also teach you how to "go to work on
yourself" to become the kind of man that
AUTOMATICALLY and INSTANTLY triggers this
attraction in the women you meet and interact
with.

   I could go on and on, but you should just go
and download the eBook here, and start reading it:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook

   NEXT, you need to get your hot little hands on
a copy of my newest CD/DVD program, "Cocky Comedy
And Other Conversation Skills".

   If you get nervous when you talk to women,
don't feel like you know what to say to women, and
want to learn how to make women LAUGH... and in
doing so have them feel more ATTRACTION for you,
then this program is going to literally change
your life.

   I have one warning:

   Make sure you set aside at LEAST an entire day
to go through the program.

   The emails I'm getting from guys are saying
things like, "I started to watch the program, and
wound up staying home all day and missing three
appointments because I was riveted to the screen".

   I'm not joking at all.

   This program will supercharge your
communication skills and teach you how to be
"Cocky & Funny" with every woman you meet... Go
watch killer sample clips of the program here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

   I'll talk to you again soon.

      Your Friend,

      David D.

P.S. Don't forget to check out all of the programs
I've created to help you learn how to attract and
meet women. My programs cover ALL aspects... from
"Inner Game" stuff like how to overcome fear and a
limiting self-image, to specific techniques like
how to approach women, how to meet women online,
and how to make sure that your conversation
creates ATTRACTION. You can check them all out
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

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