Using "Cocky & Funny" To Spark Attraction

Using "Cocky & Funny" To Spark Attraction

>NOTE: If you want to create INSTANT
CHEMISTRY with a woman, then I highly
recommend you master the art of being
Cocky & Funny. Go here to learn how:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

***QUESTION***

I'll keep this short and sweet... (you probably
get this all the time and are sick of hearing it
although i did not yet read a response so I'll
quit prematurely apologizing.) I'm like a 6-7 and
want to date 8-9's. I'm slightly above average
looking and want to date girls above my range. Is
this possible? I can't settle for less so how can
I pull this off with out getting rejected 9 out of
10 approaches??

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   This is a very interesting combination of
questions...

   First of all, what would be so bad about only
having 1 out of 10 women who are "8-9" range go
out with you?

   Just think of it...

   You could make 10 women feel good by
approaching them and boosting their self esteem,
and one of them would wind up going out with you.

   You'd probably spend about 60 minutes of time,
and about 147 calories of energy (try a Zone bar
or something if you begin to feel tired).

   Investment: One hour plus 147 calories

   Return: A date with an unusually attractive
woman.

   I'd play that game with you all day long...

   But I think you see where I'm going with this.

   The problem most guys have is that they imagine
the 9 times that they don't wind up with a date as
being "cold, hard, shut down" style rejections.

   And unless you have no class or tact at all,
this just isn't going to happen.

   At a recent seminar I gave, my friend Orion
shared his perspective when it comes to meeting
women. (I've personally seen this guy get 25
women's phone numbers in three days... with my own
two eyes)

   His objective is "to make women smile". He
likes to see if he can make a woman smile when he
starts talking to her. Then, if she's the kind of
woman that he'd like to date, he gets her
information.

   Think of it! He wants to find out if SHE'S THE
KIND OF WOMAN HE LIKES by seeing if he can make
her smile before he decides if she's the kind of
woman he'd like to date.

   Interesting new way of looking at things.

   To answer your first question, OF COURSE YOU
CAN DATE WOMEN THAT ARE MORE
PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU!

   Look around... you'll see all kinds of stunning
women with average guys. It's actually the rule,
rather than the exception.

   And try making women smile when you meet
them... find out if they're beautiful on the
INSIDE as well as the outside before you choose to
see them again.

***QUESTION***

WOW! yeah, that's the best word i can describe
your techniques with. I've been in situations
where i can't help but smile, or even burst out
laughing when i see the magic work... keeping a
straight face can be hard just because i never
thought it would work so well. anyway, to the
point: I've been using the 'cocky/funny/ you can't
get what you want' on this girl. well it was
working well, but one instance she was
discouraged, and i wasn't sure what to do. i felt
bad, like i broke her or something... i was hoping
you could help me with a line that would give her,
or any other girl alike, a good feeling after they
turn around and feel bad. i wanted to make sure
and not turn into 'PUSSYMAN' to make her feel
better. rather, something to encourage her to
pursue me, and give her the 'it'll be worth your
while impression.' Your advice seems to have
covered everything but this, or i just missed
something. help make it clear. I appreciate the
time you put into saving our lives. I think i was
on the verge of wasting a lifetime before i was
introduced to your work.

F. F. Toronto

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   One of the things you need to watch for when
you're learning to be cocky & funny is GOING TOO
FAR.

   I've seen guys get a little too cocky, while
forgetting that FUNNY is a key component of the
formula... and then winding up turning a woman
off.

   I've done it myself a few times...

   Just remember, if you wind up coming across as
arrogant and hurting a woman's feelings, you need
to change the frame of what's going on.

   Try saying:

   "Lighten up... what, you don't have a sense of
humor?"

   This tells the woman you're talking to that it
was a joke without you turning into a wussy in her
eyes.

   Then add more humor.

   Women are very adaptable, and if you take
things too far, just remember to diffuse the
situation quickly and learn from it. Once she sees
that you were just busting on her, she'll most
likely bounce right back.

   Unfortunately, too many guys will turn into
insta-wuss and start apologizing. Don't do that!

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

You are more than just the man, you're the man's
man. I don't know how the hell you did it, but
you've done what Freud couldn't--figure out what a
woman wants. Buy the BOOK!!!! There's so much
more to learn from it, including BRIDGES and SEX
SECRETS. In Sex Secrets, Dave even teaches you
how to transition into the position that woman
hate, but men love...DOGGY-style!!!! You can't
beat this. You had better believe I've got a
SUCCESS STORY.

My cousin (he has a long-term girlfriend) and I
wanted to work on our C&F, so we decided to go to
Barnes and Noble...like you said normal places.
NOTE: he went to work on his C&F, but not to meet
women. Anyways, I tell you what: it's nerve
racking as hell approaching a girl, but each time
I went and talked to girl I became more and more
confident. I RECOMMEND this to anyone: find a
friend who has some balls and go with him...it was
good having the support, and we had an awesome
time. In the end, my cousin got this hot ass
model chic's e-mail, along with the usually
"you're kind of rude." (He accused her of faking
a cell-phone Call ...LOL) But whatever, it
worked. Anyways, later we met this chic...I
didn't have anything to lose, so I went balls to
the wall with the C&F. She completely dug it, she
was hinting at sex and all that. PROBLEM: I
eventually found out she was married, and like you
say, there's too many women out there to ruin
relationships. The point is THAT A MARRIED WOMEN
WANTED TO RISK HER MARRIAGE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO
SHE FOUND ATTRACTIVE!!!!!!!!! My question is this.
We sometimes found that our jokes didn't always
catch. For example, my cousin walked into Ravegirl
and accused the waitress of stealing. LOL. She
didn't quite take the joke, and she got all pissy
(Don't worry he didn't apologize). How do you
hint that what your saying is supposed to be a
joke? Should you smile (I know you say to avoid
this)? Also, what books other than Comedy Writing
Secrets do you recommend? Also, we're both
attractive (I'm getting a 9 at HotorNot.com), thus
we have to work on the FUNNY part of C&F because
chics assume the cocky part.

PS. Don't forget to keep us posted on the videos
or audio tapes of the seminar. I couldn't make it.

PPS. Even when we failed, we laughed our asses
off. It was great. Just make sure that your
partner pushes you to go by YOURSELF to talk to
the chic.

--Student in NY, 21 years old

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   You have some great points here... and I think
that you're going to find your balance very soon.

   A quick distinction that I'll point out to you:

   When you're first meeting a woman, I think it's
better to just get the email/number and leave.

   Then, when you email, talk on the phone, and
meet up later, start being more cocky and funny...

   This will probably help you out A LOT.

   As for married women... I don't recommend going
there.

   A final note: If you're a pretty good looking
guy, you might turn down the cocky, and turn up
the funny.

   Women perceive good looking guys who act cocky
as MAJOR PLAYERS, and too much cocky too soon can
backfire on you. Learn the art of the "sly
smile"... squint a bit and smile just barely. This
says "I just teased you but you didn't get it..."
It's great.

***QUESTION***

Hey David,

Your book is pretty amazing, and before I even
bought it I started experimenting with your ideas,
and already know they can work. However there is
one question that pervades, will this work on
different culture? I am arabic, and must wonder if
this will work with Indians, Pakistani's, Arabs,
and other different cultures? Just curious if you
already knew, otherwise, you'll probably hear from
me on my success stories.

FJ

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   I cannot personally attest to the fact that my
materials work across all cultures, but I do get
emails from all over the world saying that they
do.

   I personally think that all women will respond
to a confident, funny guy... how could they help
it?

***QUESTION***

Dave,

Hey, your COCKY + FUNNY stuff is nice! It
works most of the time since I tried it. I am
currently dating a cute chick I approached two
days ago. She was watching our basketball game....

I have a question... Would it be alright if I
add a little "sweetness" in the COCKY+FUNNY
attitude? I am just curious because a lot of girls
I know love sweet guys, and I was wondering if it
could be a good addition. If it is, could you
give me an example. I would very much appreciate
it. Thanks Dave, and keep up the GREAT work.

G.D.H.

Philippines

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Don't be "too sweet, too soon."

   If you're overly attentive, etc. early on with
a woman, she'll see you as needy... which isn't
attractive.

   It's OK to be a little bit sweet, sure.

   For instance, let's say you've been seeing her
for a few weeks. Get her a flower, and tell her
you were thinking of her.

   What not to do: Buy her a dozen roses and bring
them with you to the first meeting.

   Get it?

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave here's a little ego boost for you. Been
playing around here on the net for some time with
little success. Bought your book. Read it and
tried to apply it.

This is the scoop. two weeks before I purchased
your book I answered an ad to a 8 1/2 to a 9 3/4
and received of course no reply. I used your tip
"what playing hard to get already? Nice. Write
me." and she replied. Know two days later she
pulls her ad. I figure she hooked up with some
one so I move on right.

Guess what a month latter her ad pops up. I
figure what the heck and I writer a letter. This
time instead of being chatty I loaded up the plan
and headed for Tokyo.

This is a close copy of the letter I wrote:

"Back again?

Sorry to see you got dumped. I think you should
rewrite your ad and remove your picture. In your
ad you wrote Its getting hard trying to find some
one it makes you sound kind of needy. Are you a
needy kind of girl? If you are I needy some one to
fold my laundry. That should give you a sense of
purpose.

If you would like a picture of me send me your
email, but you have to promise not to drool all
over your self and the key board."

I thought I was being kind of harsh, but I got a
good laugh out of it. Surprise she wrote back
today and said she liked my style. I hadn't heard
from her in a week and wrote her off and boom
there was her real name and email address. Got to
hand it to you Dave this stuff works.

My question is what have you heard about
patterning? I've read a little on it... and wonder
have you tried any of this stuff? Does it really
work? Also do you use the three second rule?...

Well ttfn

gb

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Great job being Cocky, Funny, and just Charming
in general. Nice one.

   As for other techniques... I've tried just
about every single idea you can imagine, and I
teach the things that work best.

   Feel free to try other ideas, but I think
you'll find, just as I have, that nothing can
compare to using the combination of materials that
I teach.

   For you, I'd recommend that you get your hands
on a copy of my "Meeting Women Online" CD/DVD
program. It will help you take your success
meeting women online to a new level. You can check
it out here, and watch some great video clips too:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline

***QUESTION***

David,

My friend Leo turned me on to your newsletter.
THANKS L.!!

Tried the email technique with a stunning Latina
beauty at Kinko's. Spotted her as she worked, she
was dressed to impress. Timed my work to finish
when she did. Saw her in line, ready to pay.
Scooped up my stuff and got in line behind her.
Asked if her if all was going okay, chatted about
what she did, it turned out to be related to what
I do. She had been in the field about a year.
Then she moved to the register. Then when a second
register opened up - I brushed past her without a
backward glance. Wondered how to tease etc. Saw a
line piling up behind her - she was trying to pay
with a $100 bill. So of course I teased her about
holding up the line... and showing off... she
apologized, that her boss had given her the large
bill to pay with. Anyway I went back to my
business, winding it up just in time to see her
headed out the door. She was already halfway into
the street when I called out, stopped her, made
quick conversation. Asked her if she had e- mail.
She said no. I said "do you have electricity?"
(Stole your line verbatim - I HAVE NO SHAME,
DAVID, when it comes to stunning Latinas! Besides
it was good fun!!) She said yes, clearly on the
defensive. I asked her if they'd given her a
business card yet. She said no, I looked
condescending, and pulled out a pen and paper. I
asked for the phone number, and promised I'd only
call her EIGHT TIMES A DAY!! (Yes, yes, no shame
whatsoever!) She hesitated as she was about to
write down the number - asked if this was about
business - (perhaps she was considering which
number to give)- I said NO - because I do not need
professional networking, I'm interested in WOMEN.
But then I remembered to keep it fun, and said
with a grin, "or maybe it is business, who knows,
we'll see." Keep her guessing and all that.
Anyway, I GOT THE NUMBER!! I'll keep you posted.
Anyway, it was TEXTBOOK!! And it was easily under
three minutes. It was under one, I suspect.

One small point: I wonder if women dress to
impress each other, sure, but more generally as an
expression of power or strength. This chick had
her colors flying, but seemed shy and
controllable. I wonder if the power of your
approach is that it bypasses their defenses (their
looks) by ignoring them - or not getting gah- gah
over their looks anyway - not getting impaled on
the defensive breastworks so to speak - and
instead, attacks with our own strength. Very
interesting stuff. I must confess I am concerned
about how to maintain this kind of posture if we
go out. I usually do well on first dates, but
would like to try some of your stuff; also I am
thinking I could keep relationships less deep,
more fun, and generally lighter with your
approach.

LOL about the whole thing. All the best. -H

PS Any tips on how to get her to go out? I met
her yesterday (Thursday. I left a message today
(Friday) late in the day - it was a cell phone
number - told her I was the guy who had met her
while she was holding up the line at Kinko's, and
told her I was "a few calls behind." Left my name,
but not my number. Told her I'd call again when I
got a chance. Casual tone and all. Next move?
Yeah I know, get more emails and phone numbers,
and call my other girlfriends. But besides that!
What's my next move with her. For what it's worth,
she is from a somewhat conservative culture,
dressed expensively. I had planned to talk with
her once, talk about what music she likes or a
nice spot to meet, then get off the phone WITHOUT
asking her out, leave her hanging for a day or so.
It's not my style, I'm usually two-fisted,
straight ahead, direct but fun, a gentleman but
forceful. But I do want to learn here. So how
would you proceed, maestro?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Great story... just call her up and say:

   "Hey, I'm going to be busy tonight and tomorrow
evening, but let's get together Friday for a cup
of tea and some stimulating conversation..." etc.

   I don't like the idea of wasting time on the
phone with small talk. Just do it.

***SUCCESS STORY***

I will confirm your advise to be correct and
global. I live in Las Vegas and most of the girls
here are materialistic, superficial, "just plain
bitches" or bi - that's not so bad sometimes! ;)
Unfortunately, this is "typically American." I
have much fun with them, but I am ultimately
disappointed with any American but the "girl next
door" type. I thought it was me for a while, but I
now know I have a problem. You see, this is both
my bane and my success: I have spoiled myself
rotten with foreign women to the point that
American women really only appeal to me for sex. I
travel to other countries, regularly, just to look
for hot, intelligent, "not American" women. I have
been successful with women all over the world
without speaking any spoken language but English.
Yes, most intelligent foreign women speak English,
but I communicate well without knowing their
language because of the same principles you teach.

To be successful with women, it is important to
understand that PLAYFUL TEASING, EYE CONTACT and
CONFIDENCE are much more ATTRACTIVE than anything
you can repeat, do or own.

Additionally, the QUALITY of a woman who knows and
responds to "cocky and funny" is significantly
higher than the girls who are impressed by lines,
looks or money. It is INSTINCTIVE for any good
woman to look for these characteristics in a man.
Anyone can get better at anything with study and
practice. Keep up the good work!

BMW - Las Vegas

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   I agree with you... it is the more intelligent,
attractive, self-confident women that respond most
powerfully to the cocky & funny attitude.

   Most women respond very well to it, but the
really sharp ones just LOVE it.

   And thanks for confirming that women from all
over the world respond to cocky & funny. I hear
this often.

***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

Congrats on the TREMENDOUS seminar! It was cool
to read the success story about the Canadian...I
sat next him at the event...I think most any
average guy can improve his game
exponentially...rock on, my Canadian friend!

I stopped at a neighborhood tavern after my plane
landed; I immediately, unconsciously used some
great lines I learned at the seminar. I know, I
know...it's not all about pick up lines, but
eventually she left my apartment the next morning.
Let's say it's a mindset. But here's what worked:

The music on the jukebox was skipping painfully,
so I looked at this chick directly and said,
"Excuse me, (pause) are YOU the DJ tonight?" Then,
"That's a pretty big purse, you carry a gun in
that?" She was laughing so....we were OFF to the
races.

After some small talk she asked me what I did for
a living, I said, "That's kind of personal, what
if you're a stalker?" then when she asked again
with puppy dog eyes, I said, "I'm an ass model,
what do you THINK?" I slapped mine then slapped
HERS.

We chatted about a woman I met last week who had
an $80 dildo (showing her that I'm comfortable
with sexuality), I finished my beer and said, "I'm
going to the Pontiac Bar, (pause, pause), you can
come if you want." (Taking her from first meeting
though a date sequence while leading the way...)

I gave her a little of the Geisha girl neck
massage at the next bar, and of course, split the
tab. All that was left was to drove her straight
back to my place...not needing to ask for her
permission.

Thanks again, David! You ought to include
condoms with your books and seminars; size LARGE
for EVERYBODY.

D.

Illinois

PS.Hey all you knuckleheads out there! Buy
David's E-book and future materials...he's a class
act and the sh** is UN-REAL!

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Thanks for joining me at the seminar, you
helped make it great.

   And by the way, you're my hero. Rock on.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Wassup Dave??,

I just want to say that you are the man!! I'm
sure you hear that a lot. I've been reading your
emails for the last two months but just haven't
put any of you ideas into action. But anyways I
decided to use your street pickup routine and
works like a charm!! I used it twice and got
emails for BOTH women, they even gave me their
phone numbers!!. I already have a date this
weekend with one of the hotties.

Let me just say that I'm an average looking guy
and I'm a 6'2, 400 lb black guy. I like to think
of myself as a "Big Bodied Hottie." Works so well
for my confidence. I've never had a problem
talking to women, I've just never really knew what
to say. With your tips, I feel invincible. As
soon as I get my next paycheck, I'm buying your
book. Who knows what I can be doing after I read
that. You're heaven sent! Not Jesus or anything,
but pretty close. Keep spreading the word. Let
this be an example to all "Big Bodied Hotties" out
there that it can be done, it's just all in your
head. The head on your neck that is.

T.J.

Kansas City, MO

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   It always makes me smile to read letters like
yours. Nice.

   OK, if you're reading these fantastic stories
right now and saying to yourself "I want success
like that", then GOOD.

   I'm glad.

   And even better, I want to help you GET this
kind of success for yourself... and I want to help
you meet the kinds of women that you've always
wanted to meet.

   If you enjoy using my favorite technique,
"Cocky & Funny", and you'd like to learn how to be
a PRO with it, then you MUST get your hands on a
copy of my Cocky Comedy DVD/CD program.

   Cocky & Funny is a PARADOX.

   It SOUNDS easy.

   It works LIKE CRAZY.

   But, it's TOUGH to perfect.

   If you're too COCKY, you'll come off like a
JERK, and turn women off.

   If you're too FUNNY, you'll come off like a
goofy wuss, and REALLY turn women off.

   If you get the balance JUST RIGHT, you'll HAVE
FUN while you trigger a POWERFUL attraction inside
of the women you interact with.

   I KNOW that you know what I'm talking about.

   If you've tried being Cocky & Funny with women,
then you know just how it can create INSTANT
CHEMISTRY...

   And you know just how important it is to MASTER
this area of communication.

   Go here to check out the preview video clips of
my Cocky Comedy program:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

   If you're ready to really get a world class
education in female psychology, approaching women,
"getting physical" and everything in between, then
I think it's time for you to get yourself a copy
of my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.

   In this program, I will personally teach you
some of the "deeper" secrets I've learned about
women and dating...many of which women would
really prefer you didn't know.

   I guarantee that this program will increase
your success with women. No question.

   In fact, I put my money where my mouth is on
this one...

   I'll send it to you to check out risk
free.. You can try it before you decide to keep
it (I offer this "try it risk free before you
decide" guarantee with ALL of my programs)...

   All the details, plus some great free video
samples are here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

And if you haven't downloaded your copy of my
online eBook "Double Your Dating" yet, then you
really need to go and do that right now. You can
download it to your computer and be reading it
within a few minutes from right now. You can
download it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

   Talk to you in a few days.

      Your Friend,

      David D.

P.S. Make sure you take a few minutes and look at
my entire list of programs available to help you
learn to meet women. You can see them all, plus
watch video previews of each right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

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