Meeting Women Online: "Tips And Tricks"

Meeting Women Online: "Tips And Tricks"

>If you're just getting started learning how to
meet women online, or you have been online awhile
but you're not happy with your results so far,
then take a minute and look at this:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

***QUESTION***

Dear David,

WOW. It works. I started by reading part of your
book, and used some of it, and it worked great. I
couldn't believe that it was your advice that
helped me, I thought it was a shift in the
universe or something. It was amazing. So, I went
back to being a wussbag. The girl who accepted me
one day rejected me the next. Bewildered, I
continued to read your book, applied it once
again, and I now get plenty of wonderful feedback
from women of all sorts (not to mention the
wonderful dates).

But, my question is this. How cocky is too cocky?
I have stated the meekest positive aspect of
myself and other times flouted my greatness. I do
not know what the limit is, and I know it must
exist. Mustn't it?

MSY, from Maryland

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   You're asking a good question here.

   Remember, the formula isn't "Cocky".

   The formula is "Cocky PLUS Funny".

   You can say just about ANYTHING as long as what
you are saying is actually FUNNY.

   Remember, this technique is very powerful. It's
a way of communicating with women that actually
TRIGGERS and then AMPLIFIES ATTRACTION.

   I've learned that "arrogance" or "cockiness" is
NOT unattractive to women... as long as they're
not an obvious over compensation for INSECURITY.

   When you ask me what the "limit" is, what I
hear you saying is, "I'm afraid to push this too
far".

   Don't let your own insecurities and doubts stop
you from using a great technique.

   Use it. But make sure you add the all powerful
ingredient: HUMOR. The humor is what makes this
technique magic.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

I've been enjoying your advanced series very much,
and have found a lot of success over the last few
months. All this success is exciting, but I'm
finding that I have to rethink my usual responses
to just about everything. A case in point:

Last night over the phone, the woman I've been
spending the most time with lately spent a lot of
effort telling me how much she loves me. In fact,
I think she's really falling for me hard. The
question is, though, how do I respond to a woman
that gets all mushy without spending all of my
attraction points? If she says something like
"I've fallen in love with you" or "I love you
soooooo much", what are some examples of things to
say back that will keep the attraction building?

Your devoted fan,

A in Oregon

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Yeah, that's one of the fringe benefits of
learning these concepts... women actually start to
LOVE you.

   You left an important part out of your
question...

   You didn't mention how you feel about this girl
yourself, and what YOU want out of the
relationship.

   I'll have different answers for you based on
what your intentions are.

   But to give you the most direct answer to your
question of how to respond to this... take a page
out of the "Han Solo Manual For Responding To
Women Who Say That They Love You".

   Remember at the end of Empire Strikes Back when
Han was about to be frozen in Carbonite, and
Princess Leia said, "I Love You"?

   Remember what Han said back?

   He said, "I know".

   Cocky, Funny, and Evasive.

   Some variations:

   "You should."

   "I don't blame you."

   "Well, I would if I were you."

   ...these are all fun.

   One warning: If this woman is ACTUALLY falling
in love with you because you've been seeing her
five times a week for the last six months, then
you need to remember that this is a serious thing.

   If you've gone out with her 4 times over the
last 3 weeks, that's different. But, if she thinks
you're getting married soon, then you might want
to consider what you really want out of this, and
act accordingly.

***QUESTION***

I must commend you on that masterpiece you wrote,
your Double Your Dating. You captured my attention
and maintained it through out the entire reading!
I actually downloaded it this morning 'round 8:00
or so and you kept me reading it until almost
noon! I don't think there's another person out
there that has EVER kept my attention so intensely
though such a restricted and normally dry medium!
I found much of the thoughts you expressed to be
very insightful and exceptionally well
communicated. This being said, I find myself in a
conundrum that seems like it would lend itself to
your expertise. A bit of pre-amble.....

I'm 22 years old and I live in Ontario, Canada but
only about 10 minutes from the Michigan border.
About 3 months ago I joined some sorta gay- assed
meeting service online here more out of curiosity
than anything else but I came across this one
wonderous lady from Michigan who lives about an
hour and a half away. We've emailed each other
probably 60-70 times and we've talked on the phone
quite a number of times as well but we've never
met in person yet. Well that day is to be
approaching soon and I've come across a conflict
of ideas now that I've read your book. For the
most part, everything I do is the opposite of what
you suggest with the odd exception like my
humorous nature. The problem lies in the idea of
changing my character to suit what you described
(in a VERY logical manner) to be the ideal actions
a fellow is to take. I have an interest in her,
and she (as far as I can tell) has an interest in
me... but the idea of being very nonchalant and
sort of distant/hard to get although it appeals to
me GREATLY with someone new, I'm not sure would be
advisable in this situation. If you could give me
some feed back I would be greatly indebted to your
wisdom even more.

Thanks for your time, J

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   In your email you said, "I don't think there's
another person out there that has EVER kept my
attention so intensely though such a restricted
and normally dry medium!"

   I'll tell you what man... if you keep talking
this way the "medium" isn't the only thing that's
going to be dry.

   Someone get this guy a copy of the "How to talk
like a normal guy that most people don't think is
a JACKASS" manual.

   Look man. You can't go through life trying to
sound like you're more intelligent than everyone
else... especially when you're 22... unless you
want women to respond to you the way the woman in
the bar responded to Russell Crowe's advances in
"A Beautiful Mind". Watch the movie if you need
the specifics.

   It's OK to be smart. No problem.

   But when you try to TALK like you're smart, you
usually end up coming off as insecure and nerdy.

   Case in point: Your email.

   And no, saying "gay-assed" doesn't make you
cool.

   Trust me.

   Now, as for your girl situation...

   If you've met a girl on the internet and
emailed her back and forth 60 or 70 times, then
you should probably do what has worked for you so
far, and don't change what you're doing just
because you read my book.

   You're going to want to practice for a little
while before you go completely changing your
entire personality with a woman who thinks she's
going to be marrying you soon. (Did I say that?)

   You're dealing with a classic problem:

   You don't know how to meet women effectively,
so this one woman is VERY IMPORTANT.

   If you start doing the things that I recommend
with her, and it doesn't work out, you'll blame
me... when it was probably your fault for acting
like her girlfriend for the last 47 years by
email.

   Go meet more women. Practice what you've
learned. And do what you've been doing with the
girl you met online, because if you change into a
different person right before her eyes she might
think you're psycho... and get a restraining order
against you. Hell, I'm trying to figure out why
she doesn't have one ALREADY the way you talk...

   lol.

   I know, I know. I'm a funny guy.

   And, another thing (or two)...

   Get yourself a copy of this:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline

   And, a copy of this:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

   They will help you TREMENDOUSLY.

***QUESTION***

I just used cocky+funny in an email to an ex-
girlfriend. She wrote back saying, "what's with
the attitude? Do you find it increases your
client's confidence in you when you comment on
their rack?" Not a good sign. What can I do? She
is getting married in two weeks, but I am hoping
she eventually gets back together and/or has lots
of sex with me. She broke up with me five years
ago because I cheated on her. I've been trying to
save it ever since, but up until now, had totally
turned into a wuss in my contacts with her. Can I
save this one?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   lol... OK, your question fits into the "You're
the dumbest person I've heard from lately"
category.

   Say what?

   Let me get this straight...

   Your ex broke up with you FIVE YEARS AGO,
because you CHEATED ON HER...

   Then you turned into a WUSSY, and have behaved
that way towards her EVER SINCE...

   Now she's engaged to be MARRIED in two weeks...

   Then you emailed her recently and commented on
her RACK in an attempt to get her back (or at
least get her to have "lots of sex" with you)?

   And the best part of your email:

   "Can I save this one?"

   Somebodypleasebitchslapthismanim mediately!

   That's your answer. You can pay me later for
it.

***QUESTION***

David,

Now that I'm attracting women like crazy thanks to
your info and especially the CD/DVDs, I'm wondering
how to approach scenarios where women who I see on
a regular basis are flirting with me big-time,
specifically waitresses in bars I hit on a regular
basis, girls who work in my neighborhood
Starbucks, etc. Every time I come back the
flirting gets more blatant and intense, and most
of these girls are college-age (I'm 30) and VERY
attractive. On one hand, I feel like I should
hold off on getting their email/number and let the
suspense and attraction build, but on the other
hand if I wait I think they may interpret me as a
Wussy and think I don't have the balls to move in
for the kill. To complicate matters, these girls
all happen to work in places that I use to meet
women and so there are all the obvious issues that
arise if I hook up with a waitress and then she
sees me getting other women's numbers a week
later.

Thanks!

FR Phoenix

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Well, good job "attracting women like crazy".

   That's a good thing.

   Now onto your situation...

1) Don't wait 100 years to get a woman's number.
Do it NOW. Letting the "suspense and attraction
build" can wait until you've gotten her number and
gone out with her...

2) Your issue of avoiding the women who work in
places you frequent is probably sound. I
personally don't date women that work in my
favorite restaurants and coffee shops. But, keep
in mind, these types of jobs are usually SHORT-
LIVED. In this situation, it's a GOOD idea to
tease and keep the attraction building. It's fun
as hell, and it can payoff in the future.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Hey Dave,

I am out on my own after nineteen years of being a
Provider and have found I need a new paradigm
shift in my thinking when it comes to dating and
being a Lover. So, blah blah blah and kudos to you
from all of us suckups out here who are being de-
wussified under the tutelage of your information.

I bought the ebook and advanced techniques
and it has been great learning this material. I
work in a place that provides internet access to
some students so I am actually paid to be online
at work. If nothing is going on with our network I
have lots of downtime with nothing to do so
decided to start practicing online with women. It
is amazing what that one word "brat" can do in a
fun playful situation of C&F.

Here are a couple of my successes with just that
one word....

ME: So, you aren't a brat are you? HER: See for
yourself. without my asking> ME: This isn't one of those
nude pics is it? It's way too early in the
relationship for anything like that. HER: LOL, no.
Did you get it? ME: Yes. of a bikini clad hottie> HER: Well? ME: I was
right. HER: About? ME: You are a brat! HER: What
do you mean? ME: I can see it in your smile and in
your eyes. You're a brat! HER: lol

NEXT MORNING...receive instant message from her
HER: Hey Sweetie, how are you doing?

Next example:

ME: You aren't one of those bratty girls are you?
HER: What if I want to be? ME: Because then I'd
have to spank you... ME: nah, you might like it
too much if I did (TOOK A SHOT IN THE DARK ON THIS
ONE) HER: You're right, I would (BINGO! HIT THE
JACKPOT) ME: Hmmmmm HER: You can't handle it? ME:
Oh that's not the problem, I usually don't have
sex on the first date...

(Needless to say, we are getting together very
soon)

I wasn't trying to do anything but have a little
fun practicing online and...well, go figure. :-)

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Ah yes, another guy who "gets it".

   You've obviously paid attention to the subtle
things that I teach in my Advanced Dating
Techniques Program.

   Good for you.

   It is amazing when you treat women like your
"Bratty Little Sister".

   ESPECIALLY women who are used to having guys
chase after them and compliment them constantly on
their beauty.

   And the kind of conversation you're using with
her works PARTICULARLY well ONLINE. It's
COMPLETELY different from what all the other loser
guys are saying.

   Good job, and thanks for the killer examples.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

As a guy who used to be scared to death to
approach women, to being that suave "Bad Boy" that
isn't needy and throws out the C&F like he was
born with it took a lot of work, and your series
DEFINATELY helped speed the process along. The
biggest advice that I got from one of your
newsletters that helped me climb out of my shell
was the realization that I really didn't have
anything to lose when approaching women. Rejection
did not put me at a loss at all, and this same
attitude gets me numbers, emails, and TONS of
dates every time.

My problem now is my male friends. Going from a
loser to the ladies man was great, but I can't
bring girls around my friends because they act
like total wuss bags, and it makes me look bad. I
tried to convey your wisdom to them myself, and
they seem to understand, but they lack confidence
to try things with women. What recommendations do
you have for ways to gain confidence? One guy in
particular has some major issues. He's been
courting a girl now for 4 mo. Hasn't kissed her
more than just on the cheek. He says he doesn't
want to screw it up by being too forward with her,
mostly because it's his first "girl-friend" in the
last 4 years. If he'd have a little more
confidence in himself he'd be either move his
courtship into an actual relationship, or end it
completely and find a girl worth his time, since I
think this girl is just playing him. I told him
to just kiss her and see what happens after that,
but he's the kind of guy who waits for something
to happen to him, and then take it with a grain of
salt rather than making decisions that will direct
him where he wants to go. It pisses me off that
he's such a wuss, and I'm really good friends with
him, but he needs to get his game together real
soon, cause it's throwing a wrench in my game when
I try to bring women around him. Any advice would
be really helpful.

thanks again Dave.

J Spokane, WA

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Yeah, you're welcome.

   I feel your pain.

   As I made this change in my own life, I found
the exact same thing happening to me.

   "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't
make him drink" goes the old saying.

   I have a suggestion...

   Try some of the new things you've been learning
on your GUY friends.

   No, don't kiss them...

   Instead, don't talk about your success very
often, and when they ask, just say "Naw, you
probably wouldn't understand".

   They'll start saying "What, what? Tell me!"

   Only after they've promised to respect what you
tell them and actually listen should you share the
info.

   Your buddy with the girl he's been dating for 4
months is either going to wind up with:

1) A wife who OWNS him.

2) A girlfriend who cheats on him.

3) A broken heart.

4) All of the above.

   95% chance. Mark my words.

***COMMENTS FROM A WOMAN***

Hi David,

I am one of those women fortunate enough to be
what you call exceptionally attractive. I've done
modeling for years (mostly lingerie and swimsuit).
I've read several of your newsletters and I must
say congratulations. You always hear that no man
will ever understand women, but you have come
closer than any man I've ever known to pinpointing
exactly what works. I sent a copy of your
newsletter to the man I'm currently dating because
a lot of the things you say remind me of him. The
cocky & funny bit is awesome. Men have to do
something unexpected to get and keep a woman's
attention. Showering with gifts and basically
being a pushover gets BORING very quickly. I've
dated the most attractive men, and some that
people would actually say to me "What are you
doing with him?" It's all how you come across to
a woman and the confidence you exhibit. You are
absolutely right by saying that men have to make a
woman want them and keep the attraction building.

In fact, the man I'm dating made me want him
more by backing off from sex. I literally had him
naked and very able to perform, but several times
he backed away with some cocky/funny excuse. Now
we have the most awesome physical attraction and
sex just keeps getting better. If some of these
guys don't believe what you say, then let them
continue to have their boring lives as "wussies".
Once again, I must say Congratulations.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

NEW RULE: Beautiful women who email me are
REQUIRED to send pictures. I get some, but now
it's the law.

   I mean, how can I REALLY, REALLY know if you're
telling me the truth?

   OK... on to your letter.

   I appreciate your comments and compliments.

   It always amazes guys when they finally have
that "Ah Ha!" moment and realize that beautiful
women are NOT attracted to men who act like
WUSSIES.

   The sad part about this whole thing is that
most guys act like Wussies as their MAIN STRATEGY
with women.

   The ONE THING that can NEVER work is also the
one thing that most guys do most often.

   Go figure.

   Thanks for your letter.

   And get rid of that loser you're dating so you
can pursue me.

   ...and that about wraps it up for this week...
except for one more thing...

   I was reading an email that I got from a guy
recently.

   In the email, he said, "It's funny how women
say that there's nothing you can do to become
better at meeting women... and that you just need
to learn how to "be yourself and things will work
out".

   If you're like me, then you've heard this about
a bazillion times from women.

   Well guess what?

   IT'S B.S.

   "Being yourself" only works if you're one of
the guys that naturally attracts women.

   Duh. I mean, if you're not meeting any women in
the first place, then how is acting even MORE like
yourself going to change things?

   Here's the deal:

   If you want to learn how to be more successful
with women and dating, then you need to LEARN how.

   It will NEVER happen "on its own".

   Problem is that most of the materials out there
that teach "relationships and dating" SUCK.

   Trust me, I tried most of them.

   Go into any bookstore and wander into the "Self
Help" section... and find the area called
"Relationships".

   Flip through some of the books you find there.

   Read things like "Honesty and good
communication are the foundation for a mutually
satisfying relationship" and "Women need
compliments to validate their own sense of worth
and beauty".

   It's almost enough to make you PUKE.

   Well, the good news is that SOMEONE has taken
the time to figure this stuff out, and then
explain it in easy-to-understand language that any
guy can understand.

   Before you start thanking me, remember that I
didn't do it for YOU originally.

   When I started learning this stuff, I did it
for ME.

   It just so happened that after learning all
these amazing things about how to attract women, I
realized that other guys need to know this stuff
too.

   SOOOOO... I wrote a book and put together an
Advanced Program. Inside, I reveal and explain all
of the different techniques that I discovered and
developed to meet and attract women like crazy.

   Probably the most INTERESTING thing that I
learned was that most of this stuff is "COUNTER
INTUITIVE".

   In other words, it doesn't MAKE SENSE when you
first hear it.

   The things that work to attract women aren't at
all "logical" in the obvious sense.

   They often go against everything you've been
taught about how to interact with women.

   And they're things that you'll never figure out
"by accident". It just won't happen.

   If YOU have made the decision that it's time to
learn how to meet and date women ONCE AND FOR
ALL... then you need to get a STRONG START.

   I had to spend YEARS figuring this stuff out
for myself... because I couldn't find anything
that worked PREDICTABLY and CONSISTENTLY...

   Fortunately, you can "take cuts" and take
advantage of all the time, effort, energy,
mistakes, and money I spent on this "research
project"... and just get the programs I've created
to teach you what I learned.

   If you're just getting started, then I
recommend the following:

1) Order a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques
program on CD/DVD. This program will allow you to
actually SEE the communication that I and my
special guests are using... and learn my
techniques more thoroughly.

   This program will teach you a new way to think
about women and attraction, how to overcome fear
and shyness, how to approach women, how to start
conversations and get dates, and how to take
things to a "physical" level smoothly and without
rejection.

   I'm so sure you're going to get a PRICELESS
education from this program, that I'm willing to
let you actually try it out at MY risk. I'll send
it to you (in a plain box, of course) to try for a
month. If you like it, keep it... If you don't start
meeting more women IMMEDIATELY, just send it
back, and I'll give your money back. Is that fair?

   Go here to watch some sample preview video
clips and order a risk-free month trial:

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2) Right after you do that, go and DOWNLOAD my
eBooks. The first is called "Double Your Dating"
and the second is called "Attraction Isn't A
Choice". You can download them in a few minutes
and literally be learning how to meet women TODAY.

   The Double Your Dating eBook is here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

   The Attraction eBook is here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook

3) Finally, I'd like you to get a copy of my "Body
Language For Success With Women And Dating" DVD
program. Body Language is the most important form
of communication... when it comes to creating
ATTRACTION... and you need to learn it. Go check
out some of the video clips of the program here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

   ...and that's it! Go get that stuff now. It
will SUPER-CHARGE your success with women and
dating.

   I'll talk to you again soon.

      Your Friend,

      David D.

P.S. You should also take a minute and look at
some of the other programs I've created to help
you learn how to meet women - both in person
and online. You can see them all here, plus watch
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*** QUESTION FROM A READER ***

I have recently started to like this girl a lot.
We hang out almost everyday, and everybody that is
around us say that we act like we are going out.
We flirt all of the time, but i dont want to be
the one that admits that i like her first. I have
also become really good friends with one of her
friends and she told her friend that she likes me
and everything, but she hasn't really had too much
experience in dating.

She is one of the nicest girls in the world and
she is very pretty so I dont really understand
why. I really want to tell her that i like her,
but i have read your book and you always seem to
push getting the girl to admit it to you first. I
think she may be too shy to do this though. Would
it be ok to admit it to her first in this
situation? I know you probably think hanging out
with her everyday seems needy, but she is the one
that calls me everyday and it is very hard to turn
her down. Any suggestions would be greatly
apreciated. Thanks.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Nice.

   Well, today is your lucky day... for today I'm
going to give you advice that will probably be
PRICELESS to you.

   First, let me start with some ranting, raving,
and confusing double-talk, then we'll get to the
good stuff.

   I'll begin by verbally abusing you for not
paying attention to what I say, then drift into a
little bit of talk about exactly what to do in
your situation.

   I hope you can tell I'm in a fun mood...

THE VERBAL ABUSE:

   It's annoying when I go through all the trouble
to explain a concept in detail... and try 100 ways
to say it in my newsletters, eBook, etc. and then
someone JUST DOESN'T GET IT.

   In your email you say:

"I really want to tell her that i like her, but i
have read your book and you always seem to push
getting the girl to admit it to you first."

   Now, what I'm about to say might sound a little
bit "trivial" to you. You might call it "semantics",
like the smart people do.

   But, pay attention.

   CLOSE attention.

   I do not recommend that you get a woman to
admit that she likes you FIRST.

   Getting a woman to admit that she likes you
"first" naturally implies that you "admit it"
BACK.

   And I DO NOT say, "admit it back" OR "admit it
later" OR anything else of the sort.

   Why is this so important?

   Simple, really.

   I personally believe that TELLING a woman that
you "like her" is one of the WORST things you can
do.

   If you want a woman to know that you like her,
the best way is to have her FIGURE IT OUT by the
fact that you guys are getting PHYSICALLY
INVOLVED.

   Let me confuse the issue further...

   "Telling her" that you like her and "feeling
like you really want to tell her" are two
completely different issues, and they're BOTH
bad... but for different reasons.

   TELLING her is bad because it takes the MAGIC,
the SUSPENSE, the MYSTERY, and the SEXUAL TENSION
out of the situation.

   It pops the balloon.

   It kills the chemistry.

   FEELING like you want to tell her and then
asking about HOW to tell her is bad because it
shows that you're not GETTING IT.

   Before I go on, I must tell YOU something in
particular...

   What you REALLY need to get your hands on is a
copy of my "Deep Inner Game" program, and learn to
get some control over your emotions. I'm serious
here. Go check it out... it will help you BIG
time:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame

ANOTHER TANGENT

   All right, so let's go off on tangent number
2...

   You mentioned in your email that this girl
you're seeing is inexperienced in the dating
world.

   If she's REALLY inexperienced, then you might
be in big trouble.

   See, she might be falling IN LOVE with you.

   All of this seeing her every day business but
not taking things to the next level (and feeling
like you want to tell her how you feel really
really really badly) might be setting her up
emotionally for a late-night drive to Vegas and
marriage vows at the Drive Thru with Elvis.

   If a woman is inexperienced, then it's very
important that you NOT screw this up. If you do,
it might be bad.

   Another thought: When you're with an
inexperienced woman, it's sometimes a good idea to
"dial down" the ball-busting and the Cocky & Funny
a little bit.

   Instead of having it turned up to a 9.5, dial
it back to a 5.79235 setting. That will probably
work better for you and her.

WHAT TO DO

   So, let's talk a bit about ATTRACTION.

   It happens for reasons that are difficult to
explain to a person who has a "bad model" of how
it works.

   But, let's just say that if it DOES happen, you
want to AMPLIFY it. You don't want to WEAKEN it.

   One of the problems with "telling her how you
feel" is that it instantly changes the dynamics of
the situation.

   When you say, "I like you" - in her head the
woman hears:

   "He is admitting to me that he likes me, which
gives me all the power, which, for some strange
reason, makes me not like him as much anymore."

   I realize that this sounds crazy, and doesn't
make a whole lot of "logical sense", but it's what
usually happens.

   It has a lot to do with the fact that when most
guys say, "I like you" they sound like needy
kittens that just want to cuddle and suckle the
bosom of mommy... which isn't exactly "attraction
creating" stuff.

   If you want to "tell" a woman that you "like
her", the best way to do it is to ADVANCE
PHYSICALLY.

   In other words, TAKE THINGS TO THE NEXT LEVEL.

   DO something, don't SAY something.

   Words are to be used when ACTIONS don't work
better.

   And this is NOT one of those cases.

   Remember "The Kiss Test" I talk about on my
website?

   Use it.

   Remember the sequence that I describe in the
bonus booklet that you got with Double Your Dating
called "Sex Secrets"?

   Use it.

   But DO NOT "tell her how you feel".

   Unless, of course, you want to drive to Vegas.

   Finally, let me give you some advice about this
situation of "she calls me everyday to hang out
and I can't turn her down".

TURN HER DOWN.

   I know, I know... Powerful.

   If you're in love with this girl and want to
marry her, have kids with her, drive your cute
brats to soccer practice in your white minivan,
and wear lots of Dockers clothing, then forget
what I'm telling you.

   Who knows, you might have found one of those
rare, wonderful women that so many of us are
looking for.

   BUT, if you're just at the stage where it's
time to take things to the next level, then do it
with your ACTION, not with your WORDS.

   Now, if you're reading what I'm telling this
guy and saying, "I really need to learn how to
make women feel attraction for me" - then I have
to agree with you.

   You REALLY DO need to learn.

   It's important.

   Very important.

   My latest book, "Attraction Isn't A Choice"
will give you a behind-the-scenes look at how to
trigger that magical physical and emotional
response that we call ATTRACTION.

   Inside, I'll teach you why there's a HUGE
difference between what women SAY they want in a
man... and what makes women feel ATTRACTION.

   I'll also teach you how to "go to work on
yourself" to become the kind of man that
AUTOMATICALLY and INSTANTLY triggers this
attraction in the women you meet and interact
with.

   I could go on and on, but you should just go
and download the eBook here, and start reading it:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook

   NEXT, you need to get your hot little hands on
a copy of my newest CD/DVD program, "Cocky Comedy
And Other Conversation Skills".

   If you get nervous when you talk to women,
don't feel like you know what to say to women, and
want to learn how to make women LAUGH... and in
doing so have them feel more ATTRACTION for you,
then this program is going to literally change
your life.

   I have one warning:

   Make sure you set aside at LEAST an entire day
to go through the program.

   The emails I'm getting from guys are saying
things like, "I started to watch the program, and
wound up staying home all day and missing three
appointments because I was riveted to the screen".

   I'm not joking at all.

   This program will supercharge your
communication skills and teach you how to be
"Cocky & Funny" with every woman you meet... Go
watch killer sample clips of the program here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

   I'll talk to you again soon.

      Your Friend,

      David D.

P.S. Don't forget to check out all of the programs
I've created to help you learn how to attract and
meet women. My programs cover ALL aspects... from
"Inner Game" stuff like how to overcome fear and a
limiting self-image, to specific techniques like
how to approach women, how to meet women online,
and how to make sure that your conversation
creates ATTRACTION. You can check them all out
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

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How To Approach A Woman ANYWHERE

How To Approach Women ANYWHERE

>Want to learn how to approach women like a master
of the game? Then you might want to go here and
read THIS...

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen

   This week I would like to turn the tables
around and try something a little bit different.

   Something that just might make you take a new
perspective and think about things in a way you've
never thought about before... something that just
might stir you up enough to get you to take some
ACTION...

   First, I'd like you to think about the last
time you saw a really attractive woman... you
wanted to go over and talk to her, but for
whatever reason you just didn't do it. I'm talking
about a REALLY hot woman.

   Take your time if you need it. I'm not going
anywhere.

   Good.

   Now, let me ask you something:

   Did you ever stop a day or two after one of
these situations happened to think about where
that particular woman might be, and what she might
be doing?

   Did you ever stop to think about what the rest
of her day was like after she walked by you?

   About the ten or twenty other men that saw her
that day who didn't have the nerve to talk to
her... and the two or three that did...?

   About the, most likely, BORING job that she
went to, the same-old-same-old "Wow, you're
beautiful" lines that she heard from the guys who
got up the nerve to talk to her?

   Did you ever consider that it might be useful
to take a little time out and consider what it
might be like to be an attractive woman, walking
through life having almost every man you see light
up with the "Whoa" look?

   Hmmm...

   What do you think we might be able to figure
out if we just took a few minutes to explore what
that attractive woman's PRIVATE life is like?

   Here are a few things that I've come up with:

1) Most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR
MINDS by most men. One of the reasons for this is
that guys have NO IDEA what to do when they run
into an attractive woman, so they do the same
default thing: Dumb look, compliment.

2) As I've said before, and I'm sure I'll say
many, many, many times in the future: You can't
BORE a woman into feeling attracted to you. If
she's most likely got a boring life like everyone
else, and you do something that every one of the
other 499 guys she's going to walk by this month
did, then you're probably not going to attract any
special attention.

3) If you just start with the idea of NOT DOING
WHAT OTHER GUYS DO you will be WAAAAYYYY ahead of
the game.

   Wow, this is fun, isn't it? Bet you never
thought you'd be thinking like a woman, did ya?

   So, what are a few things you might do?

   Maybe NOT be like the other 499 boring,
predictable, "nice" loser guys she encountered?

   And maybe BE interesting, attractive,
attention-getting in a way that makes her feel
like you might actually be someone to provide her
with a pinch of spice in her life?

   I thought you'd never ask...

   And, as you may have already predicted, I have
a few more ideas of my own (but don't let that
stop you from thinking about this on your own as
often as you get a chance).

   To start with, you'd probably want to get rid
of the "Wow, you're a beautiful woman, and I'm
just an average guy admiring you" vibe. That's not
helping.

   Next, you could take a moment and think about
how a guy that she would feel ATTRACTED to might
act... then choose that style.

   My experience is that if you take an attitude
of "I guess fate has good taste putting us in the
same place, now let's see if you have a
personality to match your looks", then stir in a
generous portion of Cocky & Funny, you're likely
to do well.

   Here's a variation of something I've used
myself once or twice:

YOU: "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?"
(leaning back and playing it cool, talking cool
and slow)

HER: "Sure"

(pause.. pause.. pause for suspense)

YOU: "Are you single?" (stone cold straight face)

HER: "Well, um..."

YOU: "I'll take that as a yes..." (nodding, sly
smile)

HER: (Laughter)

YOU: "Well, I just happen to know someone that I
think might really like you... if you're more than
just a pretty face, that is... He's funny, has
great taste, and I think you'd like him... I'd
love to sit down and get your life story, but I'm
on my way somewhere... do you have email?" (very
cool, calm tone of voice)

HER: "Yes."

YOU: Great... (takes out pen)... write it down for
me, and I'll have, uh (clears throat) HIM send you
an email."

(Get email and wish the lady a good day.)

   Now, let's talk about what just happened here.

   First off, did I give her any compliments? Did
I act like the other 499 guys? Did I instantly
communicate that "I'm not worthy"?

   HELL NO.

   I said, "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?"
in a very laid back, almost too relaxed and
mysterious tone of voice (your body language is a
VERY important component of this approach... and
if you'd like to learn how to use body language to
create MASSIVE attraction, then you should go and
check this out... it will really help:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

   Anyone will respond to that with a "yes".

   Next, I did something kind of fun: I asked her
DIRECTLY if she was single.

   LOL... I really love this one. It's so fun.
Most guys will say, "Uh, I'll bet you have a
boyfriend, huh?" or "So, do you have a man?" or
some other lame thing.

   The question, "Are you single?", takes women
off guard. It's great. And then being assumptive
when she hesitated with an answer... in a cocky &
funny way... magic.

   Next, I followed up with a cocky, funny, semi-
confusing little bit about "knowing someone" that
might find her interesting. Now, she might think
that it's really ME, but she won't know FOR SURE
until she gets the email.

   And even then you might play with her a bit...
"So, what did you think of my friend? I think he
might like you..." etc.

   The point is, I can pretty much guarantee you
that this particular sequence hasn't happened to
her lately.

   She's still trying to overcome her sheer awe
about how many guys in a row can ask "Don't I know
you from somewhere?"

   This kind of fun approach will be a welcome
breath of fresh air.

   Now, I want you to do something. Go back and
READ IT AGAIN... VERY CAREFULLY. Imagine it
happening exactly like it's written. Try to
imagine it in a few different settings. Work on it
until you can clearly see it happening in your
mind's eye. (The reason I can see it clearly is
because I've done it so many times in real life!)

   OK, so now you know how to approach women.

   Fantastic.

   I can remember when I first learned how to
start approaching women... I thought that if I
could just start conversations easily, the rest of
it would be a snap.

   Well, after meeting a lot of women, but not
getting so many dates... and having the few dates
I did get not go anywhere... I realized that there
was a lot more to it.

   The reality is that success with women comes
down to understanding female psychology, knowing
the entire "mating game" front to back, and then
knowing all the specific techniques and steps you
need to take at each moment with a woman.

   And there's only one place in the world I know
of where you can learn all of this information
quickly, easily, and thoroughly...

   That one place is my "Advanced Dating
Techniques" CD/DVD program.

   In this program, I'll take you all the way
through the things you need to know to be
successful with women... from theory to
practice... from nuts to bolts... from meeting to
dating to "getting physical".

   All of it.

   You can check out some great free samples here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

   And, if you haven't downloaded my online eBook
yet, then you really need to go and do that right
now. You can download it and literally be reading
it within a few minutes from right now. It's here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

   ...and download it now. You'll be glad you did.

   I'll talk to you again soon,

      Your Friend

      David D.

P.S. If you REALLY want to get good at meeting
women, then you should also take a few minutes and
look at the other programs I've created to help
you do just that. You can see them all, plus watch
video clips of them... right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

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Using "Body Language" To Attract Women

Hey Man,

When I first started learning how to meet women,
one of the things I wanted to learn was how to
"flirt" with women. I had read in books that women
show different types of "signals" when they're
attracted to a man, and I wanted to learn how to
both flirt with women, AND "read" these signals so
I'd know when it was working.

Well, it took me a long time to figure out, but I
finally realized that most of the stuff in these
books about "flirting" and other "body language"
was a total waste of my time.

Why?

Because I didn't know the FIRST THING about how to
create ATTRACTION inside of a woman.

Well, the good news is that I finally figured out
the "trick" to using this thing called "body
language" to make women feel ATTRACTION... and
once I did, then all this stuff about "flirting"
made sense. Better yet, it started to really WORK.

The bottom line is that if you'd like to learn the
secret of how to use your own "body language" to
create ATTRACTION inside of women, then you need
to go and check this out... and make sure to watch
the video clips:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

I'll talk to you in a couple of days,

David D.

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are under 18 years old, please click the
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How To "Get Physical" With A Woman

How To "Get Physical" With A Woman

>NOTE: If you want to learn EXACTLY how to get
physical with a woman easily and FAST, plus other
techniques that will "supercharge" this one - and
attract women like an ELECTRO-MAGNET, then
you're going to have to go here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Mastery

MOST MEN ARE DEATHLY AFRAID...

   Most men don't know the FIRST THING about how
to take things to a "physical" level with a woman.

   Here's why:

   Let's say you've been out on a date with a
woman, and you're now back at your place, having
an enjoyable conversation.

   You look over at her.

   She looks back at you.

   You want to kiss her.

   She KNOWS that you want to kiss her.

   You know that she is the one with all the
power.

   If you try to kiss her, and she pulls away, she
might reject you forever.

   If you DON'T try to kiss her, maybe it will
happen later, or maybe she'll even kiss you...

   The risk of being rejected FOREVER is so
powerful and creates such fear that you decide to
just "walk away" from the situation and hope
something happens later.

   Or, let's say that you've been out with a woman
a few times, and you have just kissed her for the
first time.

   You know that she's enjoying it.

   She knows that you want her.

   You'd REALLY like to do more, but you're afraid
that if you try, you'll be seen as "moving too
fast", or even worse... a "pushy pervert".

   You hate the idea of being rejected after
you've invested all that time and come so far...

   So you decide to stop and hope that maybe
things will "heat back up" later.

WE'VE ALL BEEN THERE

   If you really stop and think about it, the
reason why you run into problems in situations
like these is that:

1) You don't understand exactly what turns women
on.

2) You are afraid of rejection.

3) You don't know what SHE'S thinking, so you
hesitate.

   I honestly believe that most men CAUSE their
own problems and resistance when it comes to
"getting physical" with a woman.

   Yes, you read that right... MEN are the ones
who CAUSE the problems.

   It's not the woman!

   It's the fact that you don't understand the
situation, what's REALLY going on, and how to
proceed.

WHAT WOMEN WANT... BUT WILL NEVER TELL YOU

   Here's a little secret that most women will
NEVER share with you...

   SHE KNOWS WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND.

   Women can tell what you're thinking!

   If you want to kiss her, but you're nervous
about it, SHE KNOWS.

   If you're kissing her and want to do more...
SHE KNOWS.

   And here's the KICKER:

   If you're afraid of her rejecting you, SHE
KNOWS.

   Really.

   Women are approximately TEN TIMES as good as
men when it comes to reading and interpreting
subtle body language, and THEY KNOW WHAT WE'RE
THINKING.

   Let me correct myself... slightly.

   They know what MOST men are thinking.

   If you understand the dynamics of how and why
women become sexually aroused, then EVERYTHING
CHANGES.

   I'll also mention... if you'd like to get an
education on how to increase your inner "Sexual
Confidence"... then you should check out my
program called "Power Sexuality". Inside this
program, I will reveal to you the "sexual secrets"
that most men will simply never know. You can
check it out here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/PowerSexuality

   Now, let's talk a little bit about the topics
of RESISTANCE and REJECTION.

   Here's an interesting thought:

   In their book "Sexual Interactions", Albert and
Elizabeth Allgeier mention that in one study
almost 40% of women reported refusing sexual
intercourse when they actually WANTED it. They
call this "The token no".

   So, what's going on here?

   Hold on... one more thing before I discuss
this, I want to point out that this DOESN'T mean
that a woman wants a man to force himself on her.
NEVER force a woman to do anything!

   Here's what's going on...

   Women enjoy ANTICIPATION.

   Anticipation leads to sexual arousal.

   Write that down...

   ...on your forehead.

   You need to remember that women like the idea
of WANTING and EXPECTING what's going to happen.

   The reason why a lot of women say that they
don't want to sleep with men even when they do is
because the man doesn't GET IT.

   Men act like they would enjoy it if a woman
just took off her clothes and said, "Let's do it."

   Women act like they want a man to chase them
around all night... and then MAYBE do it. Maybe.

   So if you want her to feel more turned on, and
to get less "resistance", then USE ANTICIPATION.

   I have a technique that I teach that's called
"Two steps forward, one step back".

   This is a way to INCREASE a woman's sexual
arousal and AMPLIFY the ATTRACTION that's already
present in the situation.

   Here's how it works:

   Let's say that you're talking to a woman at
your place, and you start holding her hand.

   After a few minutes, take your hand back and
STOP.

   Lean back.

   Keep talking.

   A few minutes later, reach over and take her
hand again... and keep talking.

   Then, lean over and kiss her (use "The Kiss
Test" as described at my website and in my "Double
Your Dating" ebook).

   After you've kissed her, STOP.

   Lean back again.

   Keep talking.

   A few minutes later, reach over and kiss her
again.

   This time, kiss her for a little longer.

   Kiss her a little deeper.

   Then stop.

   Lean back.

   Smile.

   ARE YOU WITH ME?

   When you use this technique, you will be
absolutely STUNNED at the results.

   First of all, it completely changes the
situation.

   Instead of a woman RESISTING you, she'll be
MUCH more likely to try to get you to DO MORE.

   She'll very likely be confused.

   She'll be thinking to herself, "What's going on
here? Most guys try to push themselves on me, or
they don't do anything at all. This guy seems like
he's so in control of himself. And I keep getting
more turned on. Maybe I should tell him that we're
not going to sleep together tonight. But this is
so great..."

   And the best part of this technique is that
IT'S WHAT WOMEN WANT YOU TO DO!

   Of course, they'd never TELL you this. And even
if a woman COULD explain it, she wouldn't WANT to
tell you. Women want men who ALREADY GET IT.

   I want to mention a couple of more important
things.

   First, if you want to even GET to the point
where it's time to hold a woman's hand, kiss her,
and get even more physical, then you MUST
understand how ATTRACTION works, and how to make
women feel that powerful emotion.

   If you don't, then knowing all the fancy
techniques in the world won't help you.

   It's also VERY useful to understand what to do
AFTER you've kissed a woman... the details of how
to do OTHER, more INTIMATE things.

   Where can you learn this stuff?

   I recommend my online eBook and my Advanced
Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program.

   When you download the ebook, "Double Your
Dating", you'll also get three free bonus
booklets. One of them is titled "Sex Secrets". In
that report, I explain in greater detail how to go
from one step to the next with a woman, from the
first kiss all the way to the bedroom.

   In my Advanced Dating Techniques program, I
give an incredibly detailed explanation of how and
why women feel ATTRACTION for men. It's taken me
literally YEARS to figure all of this stuff out,
and you can learn it ALL in a matter of 12 hours
of listening.

   It will blow your mind, and get you a LOT of
dates.

   The eBook is here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

   The Advanced Dating Techniques Program is here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

   I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

      Your Friend,

      David D.

P.S. You can see all of the other programs I've
created to help you learn how to meet women, build
attraction, AND take things to a physical level - plus
watch great video clips of every one of them right
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

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all of the following: You understand that this is
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The Most DANGEROUS Mistake You Can Make With A Woman

The Most DANGEROUS Mistake You Can Make With A Woman

>What is a woman's BIGGEST frustration with the
men she dates? Well, if you ask MOST women, they
will tell you that they can't find any REAL MEN
these days. It's a big, frustrating problem. If
you want to learn what a "Real Man" is, plus
find out how to show this side of yourself to a
woman, then take a minute and read this:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan

***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

I just bought the advanced series & it's
amazing what a difference they make over the book.
Being able to listen on the way to work, whilst
out doing chores, etc. is cool. I can feel the
confidence building inside me, it's like my own
personal coach.

The C&F doesn't come naturally to me at present so
I've taken your advice and am using the Internet
as a 'woman simulator' in order to practice. I've
had mixed results so far, I think a few took the
teasing the wrong way as some of them would
suddenly stop replying.

I must be better at the C&F than I thought though.
The first time I went on this site I was chatting
to a few girls and one of them ended up giving me
her mobile and asking if we could go for coffee
before I had chance to.

Anyway my question: You suggest that a date should
simply be 'tea & stimulating conversation', which
for all of the reasons you give makes perfect
sense to me. But once I've done the tea &
conversation with this girl, do you have any
suggestions for other dates where I can come
across as the 'lover' instead of the 'provider'.
The only one where I wouldn't end up having to
shell out (buy her stuff) that I can think of is a
walk along the river or something, but that's
rather dependant on the weather.

Thanks for changing my life.

AIB - London, UK

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Yeah, well you're welcome for the "changing
your life" thing. Glad to help.

   Now, you're kind of mixing up a couple of
concepts that I never intended to "depend" on one
another...

   If you want to know where to take a woman for
dates, that shouldn't be confused with whether or
not you come across as a "lover" personality, and
not a "provider" personality to her.

   Let me ask you something... what is a "date"?

   What do you think that the purpose of a "date"
is?

   Now, I call my material "Double Your Dating",
but what I DON'T mean is "take women out to dinner
twice as much as you used to".

The word "Dating" is simply a word that all of
us guys understand to mean as "romantic
interactions with women".

   So I use it.

   But if you want to have more romantic
interactions with women, that does NOT mean that
you need to "take women out on dates" in order to
do it.

   Are you with me?

   I mean, what do couples do a year after they
get together...?

   They stay home most of the time, do normal
things like go shopping, and generally behave like
they did before they met.

   This whole "going out to dinner" ritual is
really an amazing concept.

   It's awesome how powerful it is... and how guys
really believe that they need to do it (or similar
things) in order to get a woman's attention in a
romantic way.

   Here's the bottom line:

   If you want a woman to think of you as a
"lover", then BE ONE.

   If you want her to think of you as a provider,
then just BE ONE.

   What you haven't quite realized fully yet is
that when you know how to trigger ATTRACTION in a
woman, all the "normal" rules go away.

   If a woman feels that powerful emotional
ATTRACTION for you, then she'll do ANYTHING with
you... just to be in your presence and have your
attention.

   If you have dialed up the ATTRACTION, then all
you need to say is "come over here".

   No dates required.

   Now, if you buy her dinner 10 times, call her 3
times a day, and chase her around, then it will be
EXPECTED that you continue this pattern... and
provide for her.

   NOTE: If you're buying a woman dinner twice a
week, giving her flowers, calling her every day,
and basically "chasing" her, then you can be about
80% sure that there's another guy in the
picture... but guess what? He's the one who SHE
calls, and he's the one who says "Come over later,
I'm busy now"... no dates required.

   If you want to be a LOVER to a woman, then DO
IT.

   You don't need to wait until the third time out
for coffee or tea.

   You'll learn that ATTRACTION doesn't have a
timeline.

   It happens VERY QUICKLY, if you know how to
trigger it... and you don't need a lot of "date
ideas" once you do.

   And now that I've avoided your question for a
page or two, let me answer with this:

   I often take women to do "regular" things with
me. I'll take them to the grocery store to shop
with me, out to the mall to pick things up, and
down to the bookstore to buy a book.

   First, start BEING the LOVER immediately.

   Then, notice how women DON'T CARE what you do
together, as long as she's with you.

***SUCCESS STORY***

David, Just wanted to say that after reading your
material, I experienced a mental shift. I now see
situations in terms of: was I self-referenced (C &
F Man) or externally referenced (wussie boy)? It
is now very clear that success in anything comes
to leaders not followers and women hate dealing
with followers. For example look at little boys
dealing with little girls when they are playing
together. They boss them around, make them play by
their rules and those girls grow up expecting men
to lead them. Just watch any John Garfield or Lee
Marvin movie. Leaders get the girl, wussies get to
be used and discarded. I've made my choice.
Thanks David E from Chi

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Good. Now help me get the word out to the other
3 billion guys on the planet.

   You're right. Women don't like men who are
FOLLOWERS.

   Women aren't ATTRACTED to men who are
FOLLOWERS.

   But guess what? Most men FOLLOW anyway.

   Thanks for reminding us that we need to LEAD.

   Leading creates ATTRACTION. Following creates
the curious dry feeling.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave--

I definitely have to give it to you. You are "da
shizznitt", lol. Your DYD series has really
changed my entire life.I now feel like I am in
control of "My World". I was a little hesitant
about buying your product... but I just said "What
the Hell...What can I loose???" I am military and
in my spare time I am a bartender. You know what
that means... I see females out the izzass, lol.
I was working one night and a female came up to
one of my fellow bartenders to order something and
while getting her drink... she asked told him..."
all these guys are staring at me. Do you think
i'm cute?" Now normally if I were in his shoes and
hadn't learned what you taught me... I would have
melted and told her that she was the finest thing
to step foot on this base... case in point...that
was what he said. He just bent down unzipped his
pants and practically handed her his nuts. Hence,
her hands being the nutcracker. I interrupted
them while he was "dazed and confused" and told
her "Actually they're looking at that big pimple
on your forehead. She stopped and turned towards
me and laughed and hit me on the arm. Then I told
her not to get mad cuz I was cuter than she. She
smiled and for some odd reason... she could not
keep herself away from the bar. I just pretended
that she was one of my friends that I tease all
the time and just called her on everything that
she did. Man... I couldn't believe that she was
really eating this up!!! The other bartender that
she was talking to first, couldn't believe that I
was doing this!!! He....for some odd reason didn't
GET what was going on... It was like jets flying
over his head. And to show that his nuts belonged
to her... he just kept trying to compliment her.
She just glanced at him smiled and quickly turned
her head to pay him no mind. I got her e-mail and
number and she has been like putty in my hands for
the past three months. I have to give it to you,
Dave. You da man!!! I'm not a selfish person...so
I gave him your e-mail address and hopefully he'll
get your system and realize what he's been doing
wrong. I should give him her e-mail address so
that he can ask for his balls back, lol. But...
for those who have doubts about Dave's system...
I'm living proof of success.

Thanks Dave!!! JR - Mexico

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   OK, first of all, I think that you must have
some kind of bizarre NUT OBSESSION, dude.

   And it's not right.

   But hey, fortunately you're on the right side
of the "don't hand them over" equation, so
everything seems like it might be all right for
you.

   You've given some great examples of how to get
an attractive woman's attention, tease her, and
play with her to "spark" that initial sexual
tension and "chemistry".

   Now make sure you keep it up so you're not
writing me in 3 more months with the "She used the
Trojan Horse De-Nutting Technique" on me.

***QUESTION***

Hey Man, What has happened to women's standards?
All the beautiful babes with no neck dorks! I am a
good looking guy and I can't even get a phone
number. They go out with guys that weigh like 300
lbs and dress like slobs. I wear nice clothes and
drive a nice car and I can't get a single date.
Maybe it is where I live. In order to get a date I
will have to gain 200 lbs and have someone break
my nose so I am ugly enough for some girl to date
me. American girls suck! They have no taste
anymore! I give up!

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   No, I think that the problem is that you whine
like a whipped Biatch.

   Women can smell a "victim" attitude 100 miles
away, and it IS NOT ATTRACTIVE.

   Women's "standards" are just fine.

   The problem isn't them, it's YOU.

   Now do yourself a favor and quit ACTING like a
little girl, and DO SOMETHING about your
situation.

   What, do you think that all the average and
ugly guys out there who have HOT girlfriends are
getting them by being ugly?

   The answer is "No, they're not".

   These guys are getting the babes because they
know how to make the women feel ATTRACTION.

   Trust me, I know quite a few guys who are NOT
exactly the picture of "handsome"... but these
guys get a lot of women.

   Why?

   Because they KNOW HOW.

   Now quit whining, and go LEARN.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dear Dr. D,

Just wanted to drop you a quick note. I am a 34
year old and divorced using your E-book to learn
how to get back into the game. Since I was raised
by my parents to be a nice guy, submissive, wussy,
it has been a challenge to overcome these self-
destructive traits--- but I am gaining ground
every day. Also, I don't have any natural ability
for C&F. For the most part I am quiet and
reserved----so I have needed to re-train myself in
that area also. You have given me a good start by
explaining attraction and what women want.

I want to stress the importance of "practice".
It's the only way to quickly improve your inner
and outer game. What has helped me is practicing
on an old girlfriend. I am sure many of your
students like me have a woman that just won't let
you go from an old relationship. So, I have not
completely ended it for sex and companionship and
she keeps me around for sex and emotional support.

Anyway----to my amazing weekend: Saturday, I went
out with the old girlfriend and busted on her and
challenged her on many issues all night. My old
self would have shut up and zoned out---not this
time. I didn't put up with any of her nonsense. It
ended at my place and we had an amazing double
session. She is now hooked more than ever even
though she knows I am seeing other people. She
can't help herself. I have triggered the
attraction mechanism and more importantly I know
what I did to accomplish that.

Sunday I spent the day with a cute girl who had
responded to my Internet ad. We had only been out
once before. I played the game---didn't act overly
sexually interested, just enough....I used the C&F
when I could, but basically kept cool. She
offered to pay our lunch/cocktail bill. My old
self would have foolishly denied her offer---
thinking I was the man, thinking I was being
chivalrous (how foolish ;). This time I accepted
without hesitation. Once back at my place I used
the start and stop technique. I would get her hot,
then I would back off. She would stop my hand from
reaching too far so I decided that I wasn't going
to push it and that tonight might not be "the
night" with her so I was very relaxed. At 10:00
she was getting ready to leave. We started making
out while saying goodbye----next thing I know, we
were in the bedroom. It was amazing. The fun
lasted all night. Today I am tired with a smile on
my face. I know it worked out because I put the
proper groundwork in place. By turning my sexual
advances on and then off----- it really got to
her. Acting as if I was evaluating her... the
whole thing. Thank you for pointing me in the
right direction, I am starting to get it!!!
Literally ;)

C Fort Lauderdale, Fl

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Yeah, you really are starting to GET IT.

   And you are RIGHT ON.

   This stuff takes practice and real-world
experience using it before you really "get it".

   Too many guys are just too damned overly
analytical, and want to know how to do EVERYTHING
before they do ANYTHING.

   I used to be this way... and it cost me a lot
of time and energy.

   It's so amazing to actually get out there and
SEE results right in front of your eyes. It gets
you excited and willing to try more things... and
it prepares you for the future... for situations
that are REALLY important.

   Get out there and use this stuff.

   Start NOW.

***QUESTION***

Dave, What does it mean when a woman says she
wants to "work on herself" before she can have a
relationship?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   The literal translation for this is:

   "I DON'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU, BUT I DON'T
KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU WITHOUT HURTING YOUR LITTLE
WUSSY BOY GIRLIE FEELINGS."

   Any of the following:

   "I need time alone right now."

   "I need to find ME first."

   "Let's just be friends for now."

   ...etc. mean:

   "I DON'T FEEL ATTRACTION."

   That's the bottom line.

   The problem is YOU, not HER.

   Don't be surprised if this same girl either IS
or STARTS dating another guy seriously soon.

   If you're hearing this kind of thing often,
then you need to take it as a sign that you're not
triggering ATTRACTION inside of women... and, more
importantly, that you need to LEARN HOW.

   I recommend my Advanced Dating Techniques
Program.

   This will help eliminate these types of
comments from women once and for all.

   Here, let me brag for a minute...

   I'm sitting here thinking about it, and I can't
remember a woman saying one of these things to me
in YEARS.

   Now go and get THIS right now:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

***QUESTION***

Mr. Dave!

You are the man! I have been getting your emails
for about 8 months now I believe and have read
your book! Just yesterday I was in the store
looking at CD's and I noticed these two beautiful
girls walking around and they would constantly
look over towards me. As I wandered around the
store more I noticed that they seemed to always
show up wherever I was. So I stopped them and
asked the girl that I was more attracted to
"Excuse me but i'm going to have to ask you to
stop stalking me." She looked at her friend like
'What is this boy talking about' and then she
asked me for my name. I immediately answered "Do
you really think i'm just going to give my name
out to a stalker?" once again she looked like she
couldn't believe I was talking to her this way. We
talked about five more minutes and then I told her
I had to go. She asked me if I wanted her number
so we could continue the conversation. I pretended
to think about it and then told her "I'm sorry but
I'm just going to be way too busy to find time to
call you. So If you promise to stop stalking me
i'll give you my number and you can try and catch
me when I have a few minutes of free time to
talk." She eagerly took my number and when I got
home about an hour later she had already left a
message on my machine to see if I could go out
with her this weekend!

I was so happy because I was curious too see if I
reversed the three minute phone number to give
away my number instead of getting hers would work
and it did! Anyway on to my question. As I stated
this girl was with a friend at the store who was
also very attractive and was there the whole time
I was hitting up her friend. Is there anyway in
these situations where you can get both girls
numbers?

AF- AK

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Nice "reverse stalker" move.

   I say things like this to women all the time,
and they generally love it.

   To answer your question, YES, there's an easy
way to get both girls' phone numbers.

   ASK.

   Then call and ask them BOTH to come join you
for a cup of tea.

   Kill two birds with one stone.

   Then, over tea you can decide which one you
like more.

   I've had friends who have been in similar
situations report back that sometimes both women
will like you... and EACH OTHER as well.

   I mean, what do you have to lose? 2 minutes of
getting a phone number?

   Look, your question was based in fear.

   Fear that you'd offend one or both of the
women, and then lose everything.

   The fact is that you never HAD anything.

   A phone number is easy to get. If you feel like
asking both women for their numbers, do it. If you
feel like asking them both to join you for tea, do
it.

   You get to make the rules.

***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

I received your series about a month ago and
have watched it in its entirety a few times. I've
noticed a strange circumstance since then, similar
to what Napoleon Hill says about how when you
choose a definite major purpose in life, ways and
means of attaining that purpose seem to magically
appear to you. When I've been in situations where
I wasn't actually interacting with a woman and
laying on the C&F, they've still been acting
attracted to me despite the fact that I
consciously did NOTHING in these situations. For
example:

- A bar/restaurant I hit about once a week has a
very hot waitress staff, and one in particular is
a Pam Anderson clone who's always being stared at
and complimented by all the wussy guys. She's
been working at least a dozen times that I've been
in there but has never acted like she even noticed
me until the last time (since I've watched the
DVDs) and she kept looking at me, over and over
again, despite the fact that I did NOTHING
different. Finally I gave her the "wrinkled brow"
suspicious look and she got all self- conscious,
said "what?" and I came right back with "if you're
gonna be that forward and flirty with me you
could've at least done your hair up a little
better" and then it was ON!

- I met some friends for happy hour and a very hot
chick was sitting at a table holding some guy's
hand. Every other guy in the place was staring at
her and she was so hot that I even overheard some
of the waitresses trashing her. The thing is, I
had been watching the DVDs that same day and came
walking in with a particularly cocky swagger and
the wrinkled brow and she stared me down the whole
way in. Then she would not stop looking over at me
while she was holding this dude's hand, he was
obviously a Wussy since he saw what was going on
and did nothing (I guess he's the guy she uses for
free dinners while she's banging the real men). At
one point she even took the long way to the
bathroom to walk by me and flirt but with the
Wussy watching there was no op to get the info...
hopefully I run into her again.

It's obvious that just watching the DVD series
gives one an aura of confidence, since I did
nothing in these situations but show up. Kinda
like reading Comedy Writing Secrets then suddenly
being funnier without actually thinking about it
and trying. Simply watching and learning this
material opens doors for you without trying!

FR Phoenix

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Ah, you're tapping into the power of the mind
here.

   One of the BIG benefits of learning all of the
material that I teach in my programs is the
changes that naturally occur inside your mind.

   Once you see things differently, you begin to
BEHAVE differently as well. And it will happen
automatically.

   Now, I don't mean to sound new- agey here, but
this is the reality of the situation.

   Women can pick up on subtle body language that
most men don't even know EXISTS.

   When you start "mentally rehearsing" some of
the things you learn from my programs, you will
automatically act differently when you're in
future situations with women.

   Great job, and keep it up.

   And make sure you send in some future Success
Stories, as I'm sure you're going to have many.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Hey Dave,

Blah blah blah, I shamelessly compliment you, you
feel like a deity... there we're done.

Your book would be worth it's weight in gold, even
if it were made of lead! I stumbled onto your site
by accident. A month before, I was Let's Just
BeFriended for being "too nice", and this was with
an UGLY thing too! eh... I was desperate. I
actually laughed at those "losers" for getting
slapped on the arm and called a**hole, and later,
I thought the chicks were idiots for dating them!!
I'm better now. After reading your book it was
like the heavens were parted and g*d HIMself bitch
slapped the wuss right out of me! Thanks.

Not only am I getting slapped, bitten, chewed on,
and fought over, I am LOVING it too! Just the
other day I was in a bookstore, and an old friend
(read "hot chick") of mine came in, I thought,
'hey I am here just being my new self, lets try
something', so I walked over to her, said hi, and
then said "I didn't expect to see a beautiful
young woman here" she said "aww that's so sweet"
(read "you wussy") but then I did something that
has been working really well for me, I busted on
her. I said "maybe I still will" Slap on arm, AND
big smile. She was wearing this rather large skirt
with ruffles, so I said "wow... I didn't know the
parachute look was still in" while obviously
staring at it. Another slap on arm, this time
laughing. Later she asked if I got my hair cut (I
hadn't) she said it "whatever it is, its really
attractive." There is this coffee shop in the
store, so we had "stimulating conversation" a
little while went by, and she asked me to go to
her car with her, so she could "show me a new
piece of art." well needless to say, we are still
"appreciating art" together, and its been two
months!

So the question is... Will complimenting the
ladies then busting on whatever I just
complimented work the same as if not complimenting
at all?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Ahhh, one of my favorites...

   Giving a woman a compliment, then putting a
backhanded twist on it.

   "Wow, your shoes are cute. Did you buy them
new?"

   "Your hair is pretty. Did your mom do it for
you?"

   "Nice car. If you're homeless."

   Pick up any modern men's magazine and you'll
get a bunch of good ideas for this type of thing.

   Cocky & Funny can be very powerful once you
learn how to use it.

   Great example, and thank you.

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

I have been reading your emails and have purchased
your ebook and have read and studied from both. I
would 'study' areas I felt I was weak in or would
that be wussy in, to improve, naturally, but would
read everything for as much knowledge as I could
absorb. Well, I have a success story but with a
slight twist to it. The twist is my success was
due to playing off of 2 other guys' failures.

I went to a club in a part of town I normally do
not go to. Not that it is a bad part of town I
just never thought of going there. I went by
myself, so on my own, no one for moral support, in
a place I have never been before. Talk about
giving your ideas the acid test, this was going to
be it. I was looking down at the dance floor
getting into the music and noticed behind me two
girls sitting at a table. I then noticed 2 guys
approach and one started to talk to one of the
girls. The other guy was just standing there
looking at girl #2 trying to get up the nerve to
say something, from what I could tell, since I was
that way myself in a not so distant past. I just
turned away and didn't pay much attention but
after 10 mins or so the same guy talking to girl
#1 is not making any headway. Guy 2 still had his
wuss game going so no change there. I decided to
ask girl # 2 to dance but wanted to get her
attention and interest, as well. So I leaned over
and said, "While that guy is trying to hustle your
friend, whom, I might he is not doing very well,
would you like to dance?" Well, this girl just
cracked up laughing, she did not want to dance but
did want to talk more. She went on to say that
there is nothing he could say or do at this point
to make her want to dance or go out with him. He
just doesn't get it, she said. I went on to say I
know it is crowded and a bit loud here but one
should understand NO easy enough. She agreed and
went on to mention how much of a loser his friend
is just standing there. I then remembered a
statement someone used in an email of yours and
thought I would use it myself. I said to girl #2
"what's that smell, do you smell that?" She
replies, "What smell?" I said, "The smell of
desperation." Well, Dave, that girl laughed so
hard she fell out of her chair. I helped her up
and when she told me she had to tell her girl
friend that and when she leaned over to talk to
her I just turned away and went back to looking at
the people dancing.

After a bit this girl came up to me and said look
at those losers they are just standing on the
dance floor while people are dancing around them.
They did look pretty pathetic. We talked a bit and
I asked her name but I did not quite understand it
since she was Latin and had a Latin name I could
not make out what she said, what with all the loud
music and noise. Just then some friends of hers
and her girl friend's came in and she started to
talk to them so again I just turned away and
watched people on the dance floor. After a bit she
came back and grabbed my arm and said come on I
want to introduce you to my friends. After she
introduces everyone to me I turn to her and ask
what was your name again? Is it ludicrous? She
just busted up laughing again and tried to tell me
her name again. By now, she is holding my hand and
we started dancing right there. We talked a bit
and I told her she has to write her name down so I
can pronounce correctly when I call her. She
say's, "Call me?" I said, "Yes, since you are
writing your name down you might as well give me
your number. How else am I going to call you?
Oh, and if you have email you might as well give
me that also."

She said, that it was cool meeting me and gave me
a hug and kiss. She then went back to her friends
and I just turned away and called it a night.

It may not have been nice to use the 2 guys wuss
behavior to my advantage but it worked.

N from Miami Beach

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   LOL... so you went off secretly to a bar
alone... hoping that no one would see you testing
the materials out for yourself... lol.

   Yeah, sometimes it's rough when other guys act
like Wussy Jackasses...

   But hey, it makes your life easier and more
fun!

   So what the hell, right?

   I have to say, one of my personal favorite
things to do with women I've just met is make fun
of how other guys are acting.

   It's particularly fun in these bar-type
situations, where you can watch one interaction
after another.

   Most guys suck at approaching women, and it
makes for great humor and conversation.

   Of course, talking about how terrible other
guys are INSTANTLY separates you from the herd,
and kind of puts you in the "NON-WUSS" category
all by itself.

   Another personal favorite of mine is to tell a
girl that she should get together with one of the
guys that is acting like a jackass.

   "I think you and that Wuss-Boy over there would
make a cute couple. He looks like he needs a mom
like you to tell him what to do..." etc.

   You've done a great job here, now keep it up.

   And thanks for the great example.

   Always remember in these situations that a big
scoop of COCKY & FUNNY will make things go well.

   ...and if you're reading this right now and
would like to take your success with women to a
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   I'm that confident that it's going to help you
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   Really.

   I want you to be one of the success stories in
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   And in this Mailbag you've also heard from a
lot of guys who are using my original eBook
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   I'll talk to you again soon.

      Your Friend,

      David D.

P.S. Don't forget to check out all of the programs
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