| For our last lesson on our intimacy Checklist, we're going to talk about a common problem in thousands of couples I've helped throughout the years. We don't know how to find out what we don't know. And we don't know that there's a multitude of things we don't know. We're trapped in our little bubble, our tiny world. And we don't know there are hundreds of different ways to kiss your lover, hundreds of ways to touch for some secret rapture, hundreds of ways to tell them you love them, and much, much more. Sure, we know the basics. And we have TV shows and movies to teach us a few things. But all these are just the tip of the gigantic iceberg. The question to ask ourselves is… 
What don't we know, that we would love to know, that we might see if we started having fun and communicating in different ways? Our society and upbringing have failed to address our real underlying needs. We're taught to suppress being in deep connection with our true desires. One result is that we (unconsciously) withhold words, emotions, and sensuality from ourselves and our partners. We're told not to be selfish. To always think about the other person. However, if the other person feels the same way and is always blindly trying to please the other without knowing what they genuinely want… It will all be for a lost cause. That's why it's so important to ask for what you want and let your lover understand your needs and desires. This can be accomplished easier when you both have developed your love language, both verbal and non-verbal, and learning new things you've never thought of or even imagined before. Always keep learning. Those who find ways to keep learning and continue practicing will discover they will continue to learn more… And they will continue to grow more and more in their love lives and relationships. When you both learn to adopt a beginner's mind in these things, strip yourself of the pride and the curse of knowledge, beautiful things will be possible. What can I learn today? What can my partner learn today? What new things can I show and teach my lover? What phenomenal experiences will you have tonight? Always be searching. Always be learning and constantly expanding in love. This week's articles are all about expanding your love life and relationships. Take some time tonight to read the ones you like.  | How Women Can Give The Sexiest Lapdance Ever
I had the pleasure of taking a daylong class from an ex-stripper and learned some pole dancing, floor show and lapdance techniques I'll share with you now. |
|  | Prep Your Vagina For Sex Again
Here are two mind and body strategies for getting yourself ready, excited, and confident about making love… Even if it's been so long, you're wondering if there are cobwebs down there. |
|  | Vaginal Tightening/Incontinence Solution
The RF technology of the Viveve system penetrates deeper into the vaginal tissue. This is basically the "big guns" for incontinence and vaginal tightening. | Expand Your Life,
Suz  Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com.
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