| Where is that guy who used to love you and want you like crazy? Why won't he answer any questions that involve feelings or your relationship? Has he become a shell of a man who doesn't even know what he wants? Or the guy who never romances you anymore? Doesn't pay enough attention to you? Is he a workaholic? Bottom line: what do you do when he seems to want nothing more than take up permanent residence in his man-cave? If this rings familiar, read on. How To Create Relationship Magic ⇐ Why Treating Your Partner How YOU Want To Be Treated May Be Ruining Your Relationship (And What To Do Instead) 
PLATINUM RULE OF RELATIONSHIPS I get a lot of emails from my female followers about similar issues. Many men, unable to deal with their frustrations at work or home, retreat from their relationship. Women miss their husbands' love and affection. So today, I'm about to show you a course of action to get your husband back. First, I want you to think about something... Tip #1: Loving Memories When you knew your husband loved you, what was he doing then that he's not doing now? Make a list of things he used to do that made you feel loved. Hang onto that list. Now, I want you to understand something... Being testosterone-driven, men are usually pretty happy when we feed and have sex with them regularly. Being estrogen-driven, women need a lot more romance, conversation, full-body touch, and verbal appreciation. Because men and women are wired differently, women have to be very specific to men, so they know what to do. Tip #2: Guys want a to-do list. It assures them of a win. Giving him a list of things to make you feel loved will help him understand what you need. Okay. Let's talk about his inability to put things into words, which is quite normal. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He just doesn't understand how vital conversation and verbal appreciation are for you. That's quite common. Most men don't know that they need to keep wooing us with words. Tip #3: Don't Put Him In A Trap If it's not your guy's natural inclination, don't drag him into conversations. That will just push him further away. Better to go into "stealth mode" and figure out his relationship values - and yours. Then you can get busy building your relationship on solid ground. Here's how. Start by doing what I said above: Make a list of what he used to do that made you happy. Include what you want from him at this stage in your relationship as well. Then go through the exercise in my book Relationship Magic to uncover the values behind the actions. That will help you understand YOUR top four relationship values. How To Create Relationship Magic ⇐ Why Treating Your Partner How YOU Want To Be Treated May Be Ruining Your Relationship (And What To Do Instead) 
RELATIONSHIP MAGIC Once you connect those dots, you can give him a list of behaviors, actions, and desires that he can execute. Each time he does one, you reward him. Men need to feel like they're winning. So make a BIG FUSS over him knocking stuff off your list. This trains him to enjoy meeting your needs. At the same time, I want you to do three things for him: 1) Get dressed in a way that makes you look very appealing to him and feed him a home-cooked meal - bonus points for showing some cleavage and shaking your booty a little. 2) Start being more physically affectionate. Give him a wet kiss when you greet him after work. Press yourself up against him in a hug. Sit on his lap. Put your hand on his crotch in the car. Stuff like that. 3) Have sex with him. Give him directions, so he makes you feel terrific. Encourage him to ejaculate inside you. His semen is a mood lifter. Get as much of it as you can. That alone may very well get your husband back! Do this even if you are pissed at him for being so emotionally disconnected. Take the high road. Do you want your man back? Then meet him more than halfway and drag him back with the things that guys need. Almost all men will respond positively when you tangibly demonstrate your love. Feed him. Be physical with him. Teach him how to make you happy. That will reinvigorate your marriage. Make sure you keep it up. Even if you get discouraged, keep it up for at least a month. From time to time, let me know how it goes. I can't wait to hear from you. Click Here To Get Relationship Magic ⇐ Why Treating Your Partner How YOU Want To Be Treated May Be Ruining Your Relationship (And What To Do Instead) 
I've been on television MANY times talking about the power of this simple workbook. Give it a try. You'll be amazed at how it will bring you back together as a couple. To Enhanced Romance,
Susan  Susan Bratton, Intimacy Wellness Expert, is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ on YouTube at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements, FLOW, BOOST, DESIRE, and DRIVE at The20store.com
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