22 years of hurt and resentment (Mailbag)

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Susan Bratton Dr. Patti Taylor Sloane Fox Tallulah Sulis Have you heard that old say­ing, "You're putting the cart before the horse?" That means doing things in the wrong order. Over many years, I've been help­ing sin­gles and cou­ples improve their rela­tion­ships and inti­mate lives. Going back to the foun­da­tion of the rela­tion­ship and build­ing on a sol­id base helps cou­ples get on an upward plea­sure spi­ral. Take Kather­ine, for exam­ple. She wants a pas­sion­ate rela­tion­ship but talks about 22 years of piled up resent­ment. Scroll down for her sto­ry and my advice. Click Here For Rela­tion­ship Mag­ic ⇐ Why Treat­ing Your Part­ner How You Want To Be Treat­ed Is Mak­ing Things Worse MAKE IT WORK "Dear Susan, I received the email about your spe­cial sale on your Steamy Sex Ed® video col­lec­tion. I'm will­ing to try it even though I'm not sure my mar­riage will make it. There is so much hurt and resent­ment loom­ing over us. We've been mar­ried 22 years. Any­how, what I have seen, thus far, in all your videos I was able to watch is they are incred­i­ble! You're a class act, Ms. Susan Brat­ton! P.S. your hus­band is adorable too! Many bless­ings!" - Kather­ine (not her real name) When you've been togeth­er for 22 years of hurt and resent­ment, no amount of pas­sion­ate love­mak­ing will make it bet­ter. The prob­lem lies deep­er. I'm talk­ing about your core val­ues. When a person's core rela­tion­ship val­ues aren't sat­is­fied, they will seek it some­where else or force it from their part­ner by act­ing neg­a­tive­ly. Nei­ther of these actions will solve the root prob­lem. That's why I believe it's bet­ter to start with the foun­da­tions of your mar­riage than try first to fix your sex life. The best place to start is by doing the Rela­tion­ship Mag­ic exer­cise. Doing this lets you both dis­cov­er each other's core rela­tion­ship val­ues. You'll know what your part­ner tru­ly wants in your rela­tion­ship, and vice ver­sa. You're prob­a­bly not going to end up hav­ing the same val­ues. Don't wor­ry. Most cou­ples only match on one of four val­ues. It's not that you have to be aligned. You have to know how to treat your part­ner, so they feel hap­py with you... and they need to do the same for you. When you have a sim­ple list of your partner's wants and vice ver­sa, it gets much eas­i­er to sat­is­fy each other's needs. There will no longer be any guess­ing - no more mys­tery. Rela­tion­ship Mag­ic also puts you both in a "com­mit­ment" mode. Both of you have agreed to open up and get vul­ner­a­ble with each oth­er, thus mul­ti­ply­ing the chances of your rela­tion­ship work­ing out. If you can get your spouse to do this work­sheet with you, you will repair your mar­riage and get back to emo­tion­al­ly-pos­i­tive sex 1,568% faster. Just a joke, but it is the first step - mak­ing it clear what you both want and oper­at­ing from that plan going for­ward. THEN you can fol­low my heart-con­nect­ed sex tech­niques on the Steamy Sex Ed® video col­lec­tion and have a renais­sance in your sex life togeth­er. Click Here For Rela­tion­ship Mag­ic ⇐ Why Treat­ing Your Part­ner How You Want To Be Treat­ed Is Mak­ing Things Worse Keep Love Burn­ing, Susan Susan Bratton, Intimacy Wellness Expert, is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ on YouTube at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements, FLOW, BOOST, DESIRE, and DRIVE at The20store.com P.S. Watch For More Awesome Articles Coming This Week: Friday - ☄️ How much do you love blowjobs? (VIDEOS) - ☄️ Avoid These Libido Killers (VIDEO) - Free + Shipping for P3-OM (Voucher Here) Saturday - "Never had a penetration orgasm Help!" (Mailbag)

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