Singles looking to start a wonderful relationship...
And couples wanting to make your current relationship bloom even more...
I just discovered a NEW way you can take all the friction and risk out of your relationship, marriage or dating experience.
How? By putting it into writing.
This may sound far-out for some people, but if you're a person who likes to do quirky "couples" exercises, this one's right up your alley.
One of my readers, Dr. David Murphy of Sydney, Australia, introduced this wonderful idea to me.
For many, this common law Relationship Agreement is a beneficial, renewable and flexible way to achieve the most out of your relationship, marriage or dating life.
The Relationship Agreement provides a blueprint you and your partner can follow.
Basically, the Relationship Agreement, or RA, is a renewable set of rules, goals, expectations, and boundaries you and your partner set for each other.
Think of it as a "contract" for a project.
Every year you "renew" your RA together. You review, update, or change any of the details you agreed to uphold. You can take out details you want. You can add more.
However, you both have to agree on them.
These details can include a number of things like schedules and frequency of date nights, modes of communication, vacation plans... whatever is important to the two of you.
Since finances can be a cause for disagreements in relationships, you can also choose to include the running costs of your relationship in your RA. You can both decide if it should be split 50/50, or however you want.
What else can you include in your personal RA? Well, according to Dr. David Murphy, anything under the sun. Anything and everything you want to measure.
If you have specific goals in your relationship like having your first child, or getting in shape together, or travelling outside the country, include them.
If you have specific requests, such as wanting your partner to show more affection, initiative and leadership, or more patience and less nagging, by all means include them.
I'm always a believer of the saying, "What is measured gets managed. What gets managed gets done."
The Relationship Agreement is for those who are not afraid to set up mutually agreed upon rules and boundaries, and have it in writing.
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It's a NEW, quirky, and fun way to work on your relationship.
I love coming up with, and discovering new and fascinating ways of helping people achieve the relationship and intimacy they desire.
That's why over the week, I sent you articles I know you're going to love. If you missed any of them, please take the time to go through the ones you like to read.
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