Online Dating Tips & Secrets: What Annoys Women And What Attracts Them

Hey Man,

There's just no way around it...

If you listen to women talk about men, you'll often hear them use the word "annoying" to describe certain men and certain things that some men do.

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Now, as you can probably guess, it's not usually a good thing when a woman uses this particular word to describe a guy... And, as you can also probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word, it's not usually about guys who she is attracted to (although this isn't always true).

Now, it's taken me a few years of paying attention to really get a handle on what women are talking about when they say, "He's annoying" or "It's so annoying when he does that."

And guess what I discovered was the #1 reason that women say that a guy is annoying and they can't stand being around him...

Escape The 4 "Secret-But-Deadly" Attraction Killers

Have you ever thought that things were going well with a woman... when she suddenly started to "flake" on you... "blow you off"... or just plain lose interest in you?

If so, here's what YOU need to know:

There are four common, instantly ATTRACTION-KILLING things that a man does to instantly "tell" a woman that he's not right for her. (Whenever a woman suddenly loses interest in you, chances are it's because you accidentally did one of these four things!) Find out what they are right here:

The Answer... It's A Man's WUSSY Behavior.

But let's get much more specific. Here they are - the list of Wussy behaviors that annoy a woman the most and make her want to run for the hills:

Calling her too often
Telling her that you have "feelings" for her too early
Giving away your power to her and making her the boss
Always asking a woman what she wants instead of leading
Acting submissive and weak
Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative requests
Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside

"What?" you say. "How could this be?" you might be thinking.

How is it possible that demonstrating your affection for a woman by calling her, telling her how you feel, letting her make the decisions, and putting her first could be considered annoying, of all things?

Well guess what? It is. Women, and especially the most attractive and desirable women, usually consider the above things to be very annoying.

Of course, the reason for this is because no matter how good these kinds of behaviors seem on the surface, there's only one conclusion that can be drawn from them: The man doing them is a bona fide, 100%-certifiable wussy.

And like I always say:

Women Are NEVER Attracted To Wussies. EVER

Now, do I really, really, really mean that women are never, ever attracted to Wussies? I mean, isn't that an over-generalization? Nothing is always true, right?

Well, this one is.

Actually, what I mean is... as far as generalizations go, this particular one is as close to being true all the time as they get. And just in case I haven't said this enough, let me say it one more time... just to make sure it's clear:

Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

So now you understand why all of the nice things that you've done for women seem to always result in the woman pulling away. It's because she finds your nice-guy Wuss behaviors to be annoying. And it keeps getting worse...

To further confuse things, you'll often hear a woman say something to the effect of... "I want a strong guy who is also sensitive..." ...or... "He needs to have his own life, his own interests, and his own friends, but also be totally focused on me..."

I see things like this in women's personal ads all the time. I'm sure you've seen things like this yourself. Women often talk about wanting a combination of things in a man that just don't seem to fit... So what's going on here?

Are women crazy? Yes. But seriously, what are they talking about?

How is it that women seem to always talk about wanting men who have these qualities that don't fit together?

If you'd like a complete, behind-the-scenes education in what REALLY makes women feel "addicted" to being around a certain type of guy, read this NOW.

Meanwhile, I know that I personally used to hear this stuff and then say to myself "Ok, well I've got the sensitive part covered so I guess I need to start acting a little bit stronger." I thought that maybe this came down to getting my lazy ass to the gym and working out. You know, to become "stronger."

Well, here's the big realization that I had...

I Realized That I Had Everything All Wrong!

Instead of thinking to myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little stronger, what I really needed was to become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on occasion.

The difference seems almost like word-play, but it's not. Not at all. You see, when a woman says that she wants a "strong guy who's also sensitive," that's what she means. She wants a guy who's strong. The sensitive part is far more optional than the strong part.

This is why women often date jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don't date us "nice guys" who would do anything for them.

Remember... ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.

Women do not sit down and make a list of the qualities that a particular guy has, then think it over it for a few days, then decide whether or not to feel ATTRACTION. No way. It happens in an instant, and it happens for all kinds of "illogical" reasons... reasons that even the woman who is feeling it can't usually describe.

So What's The Answer Here?

Before I tell you... if you are reading these words I'm saying, and you're thinking to yourself "Yes! This is my problem, and I NEED TO CHANGE" then I want you to click this button before you read any further:

Next, I want you to raise your right hand, and repeat after me:

I will stop being a Wussy around women... I will stop being a Wussy around women... I will stop being a Wussy around women...

Stop doing things that say "I'm a Wussy," because those are the very things that women find annoying. And START doing the things that you're learning here...

Lean back
Act Cocky & Funny around women
Bust on them and give them a hard time
Lead the way, don't follow

Now, another one of the problems that a lot of guys run into is putting together different personality traits that don't seem to go together.

Women say that they want guys who are funny... but also strong. Many of the things women say they want seem like they conflict with each other.

What's a guy to do?

Well, the FIRST thing a guy should do is learn what works. Not what sounds like it might work. Not what should work. And not what is supposed to work.

Learning What REALLY Works: 3 Major Lessons

I personally spent several years trying to figure out what works. Why did it take me so long? Because, as it turns out, I started out with a HUGE disadvantage. And I'm not talking about a disadvantage like a big nose (which I have).

I'm talking about a disadvantage like BAD PROGRAMMING. I had a "map" in my mind... of how I thought I should behave around women... and it turned out to be the wrong map.

The most frustrating part was that when I did the things that should work, they made women UN-interested. It was as if the world wasn't working right.

I would be sweet and nice, and a woman would not want to talk to me. I would call often and share my feelings with her, and she would fall for the rude jerk who could care less about treating her well.

The magic breakthrough came only after I started making friends with and watching guys who were very successful with women... then putting what I knew about psychology and behavior together with the NEW stuff I was learning "in the field."

What I discovered was literally shocking to me. I can remember slapping myself on the forehead, shaking my noggin, and laughing to myself... as I watched some of my new friends who were good with women... doing things that just plain shouldn't work... but that did work.

When it comes to succeeding with women, here are three of the BIGGEST lessons I learned:

Lesson #1: Body Language is FAR more important than WORD language.

In fact, you can have the smoothest "pick up lines" in the world... but if you don't understand Body Language, the woman you're talking to can't feel attraction for you.

Here's another one:

Lesson #2: Doing "nice" things for a woman doesn't make her any more likely to feel attraction for you. In fact, most of these things backfire... and wind up pushing her AWAY.

In other words, you have to "get" that the answer here is to realize that many of the things you do when you're around women that you feel attracted to, are considered annoying by those women.

You must understand that you sometimes have to do things that seem to be "inconsiderate" in order to give a woman what she really wants (which is a man who is in control of himself, the situation, and often her).

Here's a third lesson I learned:

Lesson #3: Even though "jerks" and "bad boys" don't treat women well, it doesn't mean that women don't feel attraction for them.

In fact, women often report feeling incredibly attracted to these kinds of men... so powerfully, in fact, that they can't control these feelings...

As I was learning these interesting and counter intuitive lessons, I also began documenting the specific things that the guys who were "naturals" with women did... in order to attract women. One of my biggest realizations was that literally any guy can attract women... if he just understands how attraction works.

And any guy can use the secrets that jerks and bad boys have discovered and used... WITHOUT being abusive or mean. In fact, if you leave out the meanness or abuse, a woman will be far more likely to stay around.

Which takes us to...

2 Major Breakthroughs Designed To Help YOU Start Succeeding NOW

If you're a man who's had enough of painful failure with women, then listen closely... I've created and released 2 SUCCESS-PROVEN educational programs specifically designed to teach YOU the most critical (yet easily learn-able) aspects of how to attract women...

The first program is called Body Language For Success With Women And Dating. In this program, I will show you how to transform yourself from a nice, sweet, annoying WUSSY into a guy who women feel attraction for... by transforming your body language alone.

Like I said, if you don't know how to use body language to communicate with and attract women, then the words you say don't matter.

I want you to go right now and watch some video clips from this program here:

The second important program is called Cocky Comedy. In this program I, and my special guests, spend several hours teaching you how to master the technique that I like to call Cocky & Funny.

This is one of the interesting secret techniques that the guys who are naturally good with women use. It's a special mix of humor and arrogance... that really switches on the chemistry with a woman.

There is no other program in the world like this one... and I'd like you to go and watch some of the preview video clips so you get the idea by clicking here:

Oh, and if you haven't taken the time to download my latest eBook "Attraction Isn't A Choice," then you really need to go and do that immediately. You can go and download it right now, and be reading it within a few minutes to learn "the basics" of what I teach. Download it here:

That's just the beginning of what I want to share with you in the coming weeks, so keep watching your inbox for your next Dating Secrets newsletter.

Your friend,

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