| "Where there is trust there is lust."
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I was texting with my girlfriend Katie. She is very sexually self-expressed. I asked her what is going on in her sex life for her right now.
She said, "Top of my head - I have a new man I'm always thinking of ways to be his little slut cuz I'll be damned if I'm not his best or better than his porno."
I queried, "How do you "compete" with porn?"
She responded, "Lol by doing absolutely anything and everything he wants."
I wondered, "Does that ever make you feel like you're compromising what you want?"
She replied, "Oh god no, I get off on it."
I thought about it and said, "I think if I write that to women they will feel subservient."
To which she came back with, "Eh probably lol."
And here's where I netted out for you, Roy. (scroll down)
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Now I don't know where that text interaction landed with you. You could be judging her or relating to her.
But one thing ALL of us women have to deal with is how much porn men watch and the effects it has on us. So dude, if you're reading this, I want you to take it all the way in. This is an insight into your woman's experience.
I'm not going to get into the issue about men who've lost their ability to achieve climax with a real woman because they masturbate to porn so much that it's the only thing that gets them off...
Let's stick to what's going on for US women.
PORN IMPACT
Sometimes we're dealing with men who see things in porn that they want for themselves. (maybe you are too?)
Guys want to give their women squirting orgasms. They want to have anal sex. They want to have threesomes. They want novelty, variety, new adventures.
And so do we women.
We NEED novelty and variety to keep our libidos blossoming with sexual energy and desire.
So HOW do you give a guy what he wants without losing yourself in it?
Do you feel like you have to compete with the porn stars your guy is filling his brain with day in and day out?
How do you feel about "doing absolutely anything and everything he wants?"
WHERE THERE IS TRUST THERE IS LUST
Listen, I love to have ejaculatory orgasms. And I learned how from Tallulah's trainings when I was 45 years old.
I have come to love anal sex upon occasion and it feels AMAZING.
And yes, I not only have had threesomes, I've had many, MANY successful, heart-connected and life-affirming experiences with two lovers simultaneously.
Really, all that stuff you see in porn is just a deformed version of human sexuality... sullied by the camera shots and empty-heartedness of adult entertainment.
But "parts is parts." Tab A fits into Slot B. Erectile tissue just loves to get engorged and feel pleasure.
What I've found is that if I keep true to what feels right to me I can have a lot of fun trying new things sexually.
I trust that my lover(s) would never want me to do anything that isn't 100% positive for me.
And my lovers come up with great ideas that left to my own imagination (not being a porn watcher) I'd never think up.
FIND YOUR FREAK INSIDE YOU
Still, the most memorable sexual experiences I've had are the ones where I'm fully allowing my sexual appetite its hunger...
Where I am listening to what my body wants and letting her have it...
When I am a YES to my desire for that moment, wonderful things spring up from inside ME. With ZERO input from porn, I still end up being super freaking sexalicious.
So here's my advice.
Net net.
If you let your own sexuality bubble up from within in a the most natural way you will be SEXIER than a porn star.
Because your sexuality is AUTHENTIC.
Don't force it.
But don't stifle yourself.
LET ME GET YOU A FLAG POLE
Here's a flagpole. Run your freak flag on up there and let it fly, baby!
What is it you want?
What does your body want today?
What is inside you, buried deep, that wants to come out and play?
Are you denying your sexual fantasies?
DON'T LET ANYONE SLUT-SHAME YOU
Because of how negatively our society reacts to women's sexuality, we often hide our lusty fantasies - PADLOCK them - and throw away the key.
If you haven't figured out how your lover can make you feel 100% free from any form of shame or dishonor... You may not even be able to access the sexual fantasies that are stuffed deep inside you.
It's not your fault. And you're also not alone in this sad situation.
It's the same for most women around the world.
THE KEY TO PICKING THE LOCK ON YOUR SAFE IS TO MAKE YOU FEEL SAFE
Safety, security and love.
Three words that hold the key to unleashing a thunderstorm of erotic energy and secret desires and fantasies you never knew you had.
When your lover can just let you express your hidden, animalistic, lusty side without you feeling any kind of shame whatsoever...
It will generate more surrendered sex than you can ever imagine.
TRAIN YOUR LOVER
The secret to unlocking your inner desires starts with SAFE fantasy.
To be more specific, these are the three steps you're going to take:
1. First, unlocking all your deepest, most intimate erotic DREAMS and DESIRES...
2. Next, offering your lover a variety of sexual experiences BASED ON THOSE FANTASIES...
3. And lastly, giving and receiving the RESPECT and FREEDOM to express your lustiness WITHOUT shame or pressure.
But how exactly do you do this?
Well today, you're in luck.
We have an amazing video called, Kama Sutra Secrets: How To Have Exotic Erotic Sex <=== Watch It Now
In it Susan, my super sweet boss, shows you how to have:
• Exotic Sex
• Erotic Sex
• Fantasy Play
And you'll discover how to create a whole library of sexual fantasies you share together...
Plus discover how you can combine them with positions and techniques to have the kind of lovemaking that the best lovers in the world have.
Kama Sutra Secrets: How To Have Exotic Erotic Sex <=== Watch It Now
If you have a partner, tell them about the part in this video around "boundaries."
If you want to share fantasies, you have to establish the ground rules Susan explains in this video.
Because, the only way you can compete with porn is NOT TO.
Just find and be true to your own desires and you'll be just fine, sister.
We Are The True Stars In Our Own Sex Life,
Sloane
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