Sunday, July 25, 2010

5 Ways To Trigger "Sexual Tension" With Women

5 Ways To Trigger "Sexual Tension" With Women


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SEXUAL TENSION... AND HOW TO CREATE IT...

    Let me ask you a quick question.

    It's a question that MOST men do NOT know the
answer to...

    It's also a question that most women DO know
the answer to...

    The question: "What is SEXUAL TENSION?"

    Take a minute and "mentally answer" that
question. Think it over if you have to.

    I'm not kidding. Think about it.

    What did you come up with?

    To most men, the words "Sexual Tension" are a
MYSTERY.

    They just don't make sense.

    Or if they DO make sense, they make sense in a
way that DOESN'T make sense. Make sense?

    In other words, some guys think that the words
Sexual Tension mean "negative anxiety about sex"
or something equally unhelpful.

    But, if you go ask a group of WOMEN what the
words mean, you'll get a MUCH different answer.

    Women know what Sexual Tension is.

    To a woman, Sexual Tension is the feeling that
she feels during those times when she is
interacting with a man that she feels ATTRACTION
for... but she doesn't know exactly what's going
to happen.

    Maybe she can't tell if he's into her, but the
conversation is so good that something MUST be
happening...

    Maybe he's making her laugh a little bit "too
much", and she's unable to control her feelings
towards him...

    Or maybe it's obvious that he's interested, but
he's so in control of himself and the situation
that he's not blatantly "making a move"... and
she's on the edge of her seat waiting to know
what's going to happen.

    These are all possible examples of Sexual
Tension.

    Now, just because one of these situations is
happening doesn't mean that Sexual Tension is
present.

    But these are the types of situations where it
is MOST LIKELY to be present.

    With that, let me see if I can take you behind
the scenes and give you a different perspective.

    Men and women have some BIG differences when it
comes to ATTRACTION.

    Men have their "attraction mechanisms"
"triggered" by much different things than women.

    For women, things usually begin with a small
spark.

    Eye contact for a little too long.

    A Cocky & Funny comment.

    A teasing remark.

    It can be anything.

    The point is that SOMETHING SPARKS the
ATTRACTION.

    Then it GROWS over time.

    It doesn't have to be a lot of time, but it
does usually require time.

    It might take an evening, or it might take a
date or two... but if a man does all the right
things he can AMPLIFY one these little sparks of
attraction into a powerful emotional feeling for a
woman... that is too much for her to resist.

    Of course, as we both know, a man can usually
feel a sexual attraction to a woman INSTANTLY.

    I'm sure you've had a woman smile at you and
BOY-OY-OY-OY-ING.

    SCHWING.

    AWWWWW YAYAHHHHH.

    What's worse, we totally don't get how things
work for women.

    So we tend to do all the WRONG things.

    And when we do all the WRONG things, women
don't even get the little sparks that can grow
into full-blown ATTRACTION.

    So let's talk about Sexual Tension...

    Why "Tension"?

    Most people don't like the idea of "tension".

    It's uncomfortable.

    It usually means confrontation or dealing with
someone who's mad at you or who doesn't like you.

    Tension is seen as a NEGATIVE by most people.

    And when most men feel ANY type of tension
around a woman, they make a HUGE mistake...

    THEY RELEASE THE TENSION.

    Because most guys are so caught up in the
"tension is bad" way of thinking, they DESTROY all
of the great Sexual Tension that arises in the
situations they find themselves in with women.

    It's a total bummer.

    So, the first thing I'm going to ask you to do,
for the purposes of understanding this concept, is
to put your ideas of what tension is and how it
works behind you.

    Open your mind to a new way of thinking.

    Become "OK" with the idea of CREATING TENSION
when you're around women that you feel an
attraction for... and even AMPLIFYING that
tension.

    And realize that if you can do this, women will
LOVE you for it.

    Women, and especially ATTRACTIVE women who are
approached all the time by loser guys, don't enjoy
dating guys who are boring, predictable, and lame.

    They love guys who are unpredictable,
mysterious, and CHALLENGING.

    They love guys who keep them guessing what's
going to happen next.

    And they love guys who can keep the TENSION
BUILDING, and NOT LET UP.

    If what I'm saying is starting to make sense,
but you'd like to get a more in-depth understanding
of Sexual Tension and Chemistry, then read THIS
before you read the rest of this newsletter:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/

    Here are a few ideas for "sparking" that
initial tension that I'm talking about...

1) TEASE.

    If you want to INSTANTLY change the way a hot,
stuck-up woman is behaving, TEASE HER about
something.

    Now, not all beautiful women are stuck up.

    Duh.

    But, teasing works PARTICULARLY well when a
woman IS stuck up... lol.

    Maybe it's her big purse.

    Or her tall shoes.

    Or her "runway model" walk.

    Whatever.

    Just tease her.

    Say, "Hey, what's with the big purse? You're
not one of those women with a live dog named
"Precious" in there, along with organic vegan
high-protein treats for when she's in the mood to
be pampered, are you?"

    It doesn't matter.

    Just say something to tease her.

    Oh, and it's usually better if you can do this
with a STRAIGHT FACE. This creates even MORE
tension.

    If you MUST smile, make sure it's the "I'm only
smiling because I know that you can't believe how
confident I am that you love me" kind of smile.

2) EYE CONTACT

    When a man and a woman make eye contact for the
FIRST TIME, it's USUALLY the man who looks away
first.

    Men are WUSSIES when it comes to doing things
that say "I'm a strong, confident person".

    Looking away when you make eye contact with a
woman is one of those things. BIG TIME.

    Instead, if you HOLD the eye contact until SHE
looks away (and you don't fidget or twitch like
you've got some strange bug crawling up your
shirt), it will send a strong signal.

    Oh, and it has a good chance of "sparking" this
attraction that we're talking about.

3) ROLE PLAY

    Often an opportunity will come up when you're
meeting a woman where you'll want to instantly
shift into a "roll play".

    Maybe she mentions that she's getting a new
job. Tell her that you sure hope it pays well,
because she's going to have to support both of
you...

    And then tell her that you hope she has enough
energy to cook at night after work, because you
need a wife who can bring home the bacon, AND fry
it up in a pan...

    Then tell her that something she just said
screwed it all up for you, and that you're
probably going to wind up divorcing her a week
after you get married... and taking half of HER
money.

    Roll playing is fun, and if it's done right it
can REALLY spark this tension that we're talking
about.

    The point is that you have to SPARK it.

    YOU must lead the way, and YOU must do
something to create that little moment where
things transition into "we're playing like
adults". Women feel this, and respond to it
INSTANTLY.

- TURNING UP THE TENSION

    Now, once you've sparked this tension and
engaged her into an interesting banter, it's time
to DIAL UP THE TENSION.

    That's right, I said, CREATE MORE TENSION.

    Let's say that you were talking to her about
making a lot of money so she can support you, and
she answered with, "Well, I can support you, but
you're going to have to do all the housework,
dishes, and take care of the kids".

    Most guys would be thinking to themselves
"Cool, she's having fun with me, I'll say
something to make her like me now".

    So they'd say, "OK, I can do that" or something
equally dumb-assed.

    This is the place to TURN IT UP.

    Say, "Oh no you don't. I'm the man here. I get
to lie around all day watching TV.., then go out
with my friends when you get home".

    Reversing gender stereotypes like this, and
teasing is all kinds of fun.

    At this point the woman might open her mouth
with the "Oh no you didn't just say that" look.

    Of course, you should look back at her, raise
your eyebrows, and slowly nod your head, as if to
imply "Oh yes, you're going to support me".

    This is just one example.

    Here are a few more, just so you really "get"
what it is that I'm saying.

1) DON'T take advantage of something.

    Let's say that the woman you're talking to is
wearing a sexy outfit. She gets up and walks
across the room to get something. She KNOWS that
you're going to be looking at her.

    BUT YOU DON'T.

    When she turns around to come back, you're
looking down at your shoes, and commenting about
what great taste you have.

    THIS IS SUBTLE, BUT POWERFUL.

    Not taking advantage of a look, a touch, a
kiss, etc. when it's available DIALS UP the Sexual
Tension.

2) Push her away.

    Let's say that you have your first kiss.

    PUSH HER AWAY gently just before the kiss
"should" be finished.

    Shake your head.

    Say, "you're trouble".

    TENSION BUILDS.

3) End interactions first.

    If you're talking to her on the phone, and
you're both enjoying the conversation, say, "OK,
I've got things to do. See ya."

    This is MAGIC.

    Not only are you ending a great conversation
when it was on an UP note, but you're also not
trying to get anything from her.

    Most guys cling and stay on the phone forever,
then ask for a date or if they can call later.

    DON'T DO IT.

    Just get off the phone.

    If it's the end of the date, leave just a
little bit too soon.

    The point is to create TENSION in the moment.

- EVERYDAY SITUATIONS

    In just about every situation there is an
opportunity to TURN UP THE TENSION.

    When you do this, you create a very special
emotion for women.

    It's that combination of her laughing, her not
knowing what's going to come next, and you not
acting like a WUSSY...

    It's that special curiosity that is aroused
inside of a woman when she doesn't know what's
going to happen... but she WANTS to know...

    It's that magical moment when it's obvious that
most guys would start acting like CLINGY WUSSBAGS,
and you're just leaning back as if you've got all
the time in the world... and you need nothing.

    These things spark and amplify Sexual Tension.

    And they INSTANTLY communicate to women that
you understand something that most men DON'T.

    Now, of course this isn't a simple topic.

    There's a lot more to it.

    In fact, one of the most important factors in
creating sexual tension is your ability to not act
needy... which has more to do with your self image
and overcoming your insecurities than it does with
your "behaviors" alone.

    As you probably know, I believe that it's as
important to work on your "Inner Game" as it is to
work on our "Outer Game".

    It's as important to learn how to change how
you think and feel as it is to learn the words and
actions.

    You must start on the INSIDE, and work your way
OUTSIDE.

    You can have the 100 best pick up lines ever
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too much what women think of you, then THEY WON'T
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    In fact, almost NOTHING WILL WORK if you don't
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    I'll talk to you again soon.

         Your Friend,

         David D.


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