Monday, April 11, 2011

How To Fix Your "Inner Game" Dating Problems

NOTE: If you're ready to finally say goodbye to the "inner game challenges" like insecurity, fear, and anxiety that are holding you back from TRUE success with women...here is your answer:

Hey Man,

I have a couple of personal questions I'd like to ask you.

You may have never shared these things with anyone before...but I want you to think about them, and be as honest as possible...

Have you had a life of poor success with women...and not known why...and maybe even wondered, "why me"?

Has the lack of women in your life ever made you worry that something might be WRONG with you... but you don't exactly know what?

Have you ever felt (or do you feel now) that if you could just get that one special girl, those feelings would disappear...and everything would be ok?

Do you secretly fear that this might NEVER happen...that you might NEVER find that "one" girl for you...and that you might spend the rest of your life lonely...and alone? Now, on a slightly different note...

Was there ever a time when you felt that if you could just learn the right "moves", you would have the success with women you are looking for?

Since then, have you had the experience of learning some great lines, techniques, and strategies that SHOULD work with women...but they just don't seem to working for YOU?

Do you secretly fear that no matter WHAT you learn...things might never REALLY come together for you...and that you might NEVER really have the success with women you want?

If this hits home with you, you are not alone.

For many of us guys, these types of "Inner Game" challenges can be a mystery that's almost impossible to solve.

The frustration and pain can keep you awake at night.

If you've ever felt this way...or feel this way now...I can relate.

I've been there myself...and I remember it well.

I remember feeling so hopeless that at times I thought it might be easier to just give up and accept things as they were.

The most frustrating thing was that I couldn't put my finger on exactly what my problem was.

I figured if I could just get a sexy, caring, affectionate, girlfriend...I would be "the man"...my friends would be green with envy... most importantly...I would prove to myself and everyone else that I was a man women wanted.

I secretly imagined that on that day...the day I met that "perfect girl"...my pain and desperation would end FOREVER.

And...of course...I figured that if I could just learn the right "tricks", I'd be able to meet her.

I can even remember making "pictures" in my head about learning to meet women...

I would be able to go up to a woman in a bar...whisper a few words in her ear...then take her straight back to my place for some fun...

I would be able to make a woman fall in love with me the very first time we got together... and keep her interested for as long as I desired...

I would be able to finally meet that special girl I had been looking for...and all of my problems would disappear...

I figured that these techniques HAD to exist... I'd seen guys do this kind of stuff before... so why couldn't I just learn what those guys did and do the same thing?

I made a plan...and I read all of the books, every magazine article I could find...and I quizzed every woman I knew...

I made friends with some guys who were "naturals" with women...and memorized everything they said word-for-word.

But something was wrong.

I would approach a woman with one of the same lines I had heard one of my friends use...but it just wouldn't have the same effect.

I would use my skills to get 3 phone numbers from women in a single night...and I wouldn't be able to get any of them to even meet me for a cup of coffee afterwards...

Then there were times when a woman would agree to meet up with me...only to call and cancel at the last minute...or even worse...not show up at all.

Now...every once in awhile I would end up going out with a girl that I was REALLY into and things would go GREAT...sometimes we'd end up hanging out 2 or 3 times in one week...

But sooner or later...for reasons I couldn't explain...she would become unavailable or just disappear...and I'd never see her again.

I just couldn't pull it all together.

What killed me was that I didn't understand why...

I had all of the "tools"...I knew more "pick up lines" then any of my friends...even the guys who were "naturals" with women!

But why did these friends of mine still have more women in their lives than I did? Why weren't things working out for ME?

Even worse was the FEELING that I had inside.

I was trying SO hard, but it just wasn't working for me...

Maybe I'm just an ugly dude...and there was nothing I could do about it...

Maybe I was just too short...

Or maybe the women were to blame. I knew I was a good guy... what was wrong with these women that they couldn't see it?

Or...as much as I was afraid to admit it... maybe there was something WRONG with ME (this was my SECRET FEAR, actually).

Have you ever felt this way?

Maybe you've gone down this same road yourself... and had this same experience.

It hurts.

And the worst part is... it feels like there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING you can do about it.

You feel like you're riding a never-ending wave of frustration, pain, and failure...and just when you think you're about break free-like when you meet a woman that seems interested in you-she doesn't return a call...or flakes on a date...or tells you she's not interested...and the wave smashes you back down to the ground where you started. Frustrated, hopeless, and alone.

The really sad thing is that most men experience these painful situations forever. They never escape.

But why?

I believe that the HONEST reason why...is because most men never address their "Inner Game".

They never learn how to overcome their Inner Game psychological and emotional issues...

Instead, they try to learn "techniques" and "tricks"...hoping that they won't NEED to address the HARD stuff.

To make a long story short, the BIG changes came for ME when I finally took the time to go INSIDE...and work on my Inner Game issues.

And once I did, EVERYTHING changed for me with women.

Probably the most IMPORTANT change was that I stopped NEEDING women. This one "shift" that happened for me has probably had the biggest effect of ALL.

Once I stopped NEEDING women, I started to attract them LIKE CRAZY.

There's an old saying "The hungry don't get fed".

Well, the same goes with women.

If you're NEEDY, then women RUN away from you.

If you're a mature, "real man"...who has his life together...and has taken the time to get his "inner issues" handled, then women can FEEL it.

And they're attracted like a MAGNET.

If you've gone through any of my programs, then you know that I think it's CRITICAL for a guy to work on his "Inner Game". In fact, it's the one thing that guys report as the MOST important thing they've learned about success with women.

Until now, there has been NOTHING available for men...that is TOTALLY focused on helping them get their Inner Game together...when it comes to women and dating.

All that is about to change.

This is a special program I did with a good friend named "Dr. Paul" (you may have heard him on one of my monthly interviews...or at one of my other programs).

Deep Inner Game was designed with ONE thing in mind...to help you overcome your INNER issues FAST.

And I want you to go check it out.

I've put up a special webpage where you can sign up for the "interest list"...which will then automatically take you to the website where you can read all about it...and watch some killer sample video clips of the program.

If you want to ELIMINATE your Inner Game issues, then this program is going to CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

Go here to sign up for the interest list...and you'll instantly be taken to the page where you can watch the sample videos and get all the info:

Go check it out...and let me know what you think.

Your Friend,

David D.



Thursday, April 7, 2011

Why Women "Run" From NICE Guys

LISTEN UP...

When it comes to getting AMAZING RESULTS with women at bars and clubs, there are just 2 MAKE-OR-BREAK MOMENTS you need to master to SUCCEED LIKE A ROCK STAR.

But here's the kicker:

These moments actually occur *BEFORE* and *AFTER* you ever step into the room!

Click below to learn what these key moments are (and how to master them for MIND-BLOWING results every time you go out):

NOTE: One of the hidden keys to success with women is understanding the secret language I call "Sexual Communication." Learning it will give you the kind of success with women that most men only DREAM about. Go here to see what I mean:

I have a lot of guys write me to say, "I know this girl who's beautiful and smart and attractive. She and I are great friends, we have everything in common, and we get along perfectly...but she says that she's just not attracted to me..."

Have you ever noticed that:

1) The most attractive and interesting women seem to be attracted to men who don't treat them very well?

2) That the "nicer" you are to a woman the more she often seems to act like "just a friend" to you?

What's going on here? Didn't mom say to be "nice" to girls?

Here's the deal: Women aren't usually romantically attracted to "nice" guys. Women are attracted to men who are funny, confident, and mysterious. Good looks don't hurt, but if you're not 6'4" tall and model-handsome, then you have to learn how to attract women with your personality.

And being "nice" isn't going to do it for you.

A while back, I mentioned an interesting book that was written about the band "Motley Crue." Remember those guys?

Well, the book is called "The Dirt: Confessions of the Worlds Most Notorious Rock Band." As I read through that book, I realized that these guys have dated more of the world's most attractive women than anyone (except maybe Hugh Hefner).

In case you didn't know, the guys in Motley Crue are not very "nice." They're famous for taking every drug known to man, beating their women, fighting, and having a lot of people die around them.

Now, the first thing most guys say is, "Yeah, but they're rich and famous..."

And this is true, they are rich and famous. But, and it's a BIG ONE...all of the women that they have dated, married, and beaten up are ALSO RICH AND FAMOUS TOO!

These are supermodels and playmates of the year and such. These women can date whoever they want. Tommy Lee was MARRIED to both Heather Locklear AND Pamela Anderson...remember?

These women didn't need Tommy Lee for his money or his fame...they're dating these guys for some OTHER REASON!

Are you with me on this?

So what's going on here? And more importantly, how can you use this information to be more successful with women and dating?

First of all, don't go out and start taking drugs and beating up your dates. I mean, I know that an occasional woman will drive a man to drink, but I don't recommend going "Motley Crue" on a girl...lol.

The first chapter of my book "Double Your Dating" is called "Women Don't Make Sense." Here's what I mean...

*****Side Note*****

By the way, if you're just learning about how to be more successful with women and dating, you need to go and download a copy of my book NOW. You can download it here, and be reading it in just a few minutes:

Onward...

I believe:

1) Women make decisions very, very quickly about whether a man is going to be "just a friend" or if he has romantic potential, and once her decision is made, it's probably going to stay made.

2) These decisions are made "subconsciously," meaning that women make all of them quickly and at a "gut level."

3) If you know how, you make her feel attraction feelings rather than "friend" feelings.

4) The way to do it is to stop acting "nice" and start acting, well...something else...and I don't mean "not nice."

So what DOES attract women? And how do you do it exactly?

Good questions...

At the beginning, I mentioned three qualities: Funny, Confident, and Mysterious.

Before I talk about each, I first have to remind you that WOMEN DON'T USUALLY MAKE SENSE. Remember that.

Here's a good metaphor: Remember when you learned to drive? It all made sense...turn the wheel left and go left, turn it right and go right...

But do you remember when you learned to back up? Backing up was a whole new game. Everything that used to work now works in a different way. At first you feel disoriented. Turn the wheel left and go right...and you have to learn how to maneuver with the back wheels staying straight while the front wheels turn...all with your head turned around.

For most people, this takes some time and practice. But once you "get it" then you can do it anytime you want.

Well, women are very similar. At first it's very confusing. You have to try things that don't seem to make sense. But once you get the hang of it, then you see how it works and can make it work...just like backing up a car.

As much as many women would hate to admit it, there's something very attractive about a man who is just a little more confident than he should be. And if you combine this with the right amount of humor, you have a magic combination that will charm almost any woman.

Here are a few ways to use this idea:

1) When you first meet a woman, tease her about something. It doesn't matter what it is, as long as you do it early on. For instance, you might say: "So what's with the big purse? Are you carrying a gun in there?" or maybe "Those are some pretty tall shoes, what are you like 4' tall without them?" If you tease a woman, it shows that you're not intimidated by her, and that you have a fun sense of humor. KEY: Make sure you say something FUNNY. If you don't know how to be funny, get a book on it. The test: If she's not laughing, then it wasn't funny!

2) Look around at other things and seem kind of pre-occupied when you first start talking to her. Make your funny remarks with a carefree, detached tone. You want to sound like you're talking to your best friend. Attractive women are approached all the time. It's not attractive to a woman when you look like you've just met Madonna. This "just a little too confident" attitude is very attractive to women...especially when it's combined with humor.

3) Don't answer her questions directly. Women love to ask questions like: "What do you do?" and "Where do you live?" and "Tell me about your family." Answer with funny answers, and don't give her what she wants. Most guys say, "Oh, I'm an engineer" or "I'm a stock broker." BORING, BORING. If she asks what you do...say, "Oh, funny you should ask. I'm a Calvin Klein Underwear Model...What do you do?..." (This is especially funny if it's OBVIOUS that you are NOT a model) Do you get it? Keep it up and keep her laughing.

It's important to remember that I'm not telling you to be mean, or to be a jerk to women. I'm telling you to start being confident, funny, and mysterious.

If this is starting to make sense to you, and you'd like to learn more about the art of communicating with a woman on a "sexual" level, then you might want to go and check out my "Sexual Communication" program.

This is an entire educational program that will teach you how to use your COMMUNICATION to trigger and build ATTRACTION with women. All the details, plus some great video clips are here:

Now, if you want to REALLY learn how to get away from being a "nice guy" who never gets anywhere with women, I recommend that after you read my eBook, you get yourself a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques program.

This program will give you an in-depth education on how to think and behave in such a way that will spark a woman's GUT-LEVEL ATTRACTION for you...no matter what your looks, height, income, age, etc.

You will learn literally HUNDREDS and HUNDREDS of killer ideas for getting over your fears, approaching women, getting dates, and taking things to a physical level.

The best part? I'll send it to you at MY RISK.

I'm not kidding around here. You can order it now and try all the techniques YOURSELF...and if you aren't THRILLED with this program, just send it back and pay nothing. No questions, and no hassles.

Trust me, I don't get many of them back! But I DO get back a lot of letters telling me about the success that guys are having meeting women after using it...and the complete transformation that this success leads to in other areas of life. Go check out the free video preview clips and read about it here:

I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Don't forget to go and look at all of the other programs I've created to help you learn how to meet women. You can see them all here: