| "Hi, Susan, My husband of 35 years only went down on me twice when we first got married. Since then, he doesn't anymore. When I asked him why, he said it tasted like spit. I have flavored edibles I put on my yoni for him, but that doesn't help. He likes it when I give him a blow job, but then I always seem to go without and have to use my toy. He just walks away until I'm done. Also, I bought a sex swing, thinking that might be better for him cause he complains about his back hurting. He always makes me be on top. 
I still have no luck getting him to touch me, let alone hold me. I no longer know how to regain that spark; I'm afraid it is too late. I told him the kids are gone now, and we still have a lot of life to live. He is only 66, and I will turn 63 this year. He had two heart attacks last week and insisted he didn't want to go to the hospital twice, two days in a row, and we had to plead with the paramedics to take him on the second day. When we are skin to skin I get horny and tell him I want him. But that doesn't work either, so I'm all out of ideas." – Myra (name changed to protect privacy) Dear Myra, Your husband's already low libido is going to continue to decrease because his health is failing. Even if he attempts to turn his health around when he recovers from these heart attacks, it's not likely anything is going to change with his desire for you. It's not your fault. There's nothing wrong with you, but I don't see him changing. Once his health has stabilized, suggest to him you are going to take a lover on the side. He will probably feel like he's finally off the hook. If he cannot provide you with the sex life you crave, that's ok. You can have fun with another partner. There are a TON of married men in your exact situation. Find them on dating apps. Make sure they pay for your and their STI tests before doing anything other than kissing them or hands on their bodies – no mouth-to-genital or genital-to-genital contact without a complete STI panel. Use these Basis Diagnostic Comprehensive 8 STI at-home test kits. They are often covered under insurance. 
At 62, you are in the prime of your sexual potential. Buy yourself a few new sex toys from this list: Orgasmic Cross Training. Spend a lot of time giving yourself pleasure. Let your husband just do his thing. 
Get yourself my Pleasure Protocol. 
And you will meet a super hot guy who wants to give you incredible pleasure. Pick him for his integrity and kindness and that he makes your pussy wet. He doesn't need to be husband material. You already have a great guy. As you know, at 62, I'm having the HOTTEST sex of my life, and you can too, girl! Send me a pic of you and your lover after a recent session. Love,
Suz  Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She's created hundreds of techniques that transform having sex into making love and is the world's most well-respected sexual biohacker. Susan is a best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Ravish Him, Dirty Talk, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. Susan is co-founder and CEO of two companies: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and sexual regenerative therapies and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of DESIRE libido botanical multivitamin/mineral complex and blood FLOW Nitric Oxide Booster™️ supplements and her new DESIRE sexual energy bars. She is the spokesperson for GAINSWave® sexual regenerative treatments, the Dr. Joel Kaplan Company erection devices, and Foria Wellness intimacy products including her Pleasure Protocol. In addition, she serves as the Chief Advocacy Officer for Basis Diagnostics, a state-of-the-art at-home STI testing kit company. You can follow her personal shares @SusanBratton on Instagram and her FREE OnlyFans @SusanBratton. Susan frequently appears on ABC, CBS, The CW, and NBC as well as being the #1 downloaded sexpert on hundreds of podcasts and summits. | 
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