| Hey, Jim, I wanted to share a lesson it took me six decades to fully comprehend. It's about "boundaries."  Many times people think that stating boundaries can be selfish, limiting, self-indulgent, negative or mean.
But it's quite the contrary! Offering boundaries with friends, family and lovers helps them love you better. Hear me out. If you don't tell a person what works for you and what doesn't, they can't give you what you want. When you don't ask for what you need, they have to guess at what you want. If you're hiding what will make you happy because you're sacrificing your own happiness thinking you are making them happy, especially if you are afraid they won't love you if you ask for what you need – then how are they able to truly love you for who you are? Think about boundaries as requests for what will make you comfortable and loved. Not a shield to prevent others from doing what they want. Think about boundaries as a test for how much they can truly love exactly who you are. If one of your boundaries is a deal-breaker with someone, scroll down and I have the solution…
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If you're trying to cut down on ultra processed foods while also eating healthy snacks, AND you want to experience more libido, desire and arousal… I have a fantastic new sexual vitality bar with whole food ingredients for you. Introducing the DESIRE Bar.  This dark chocolate crunchy peanut butter energy bar with chocolate chips also has flax seeds, pumpkin seeds, 1.5 grams of Maca, the "Peruvian Aphrodisiac" and 200 mg of cacao polyphenols, otherwise known as flavonoids. This is a nutraceutical – which means it's a real food product with medicinal benefits. And best of all…
The DESIRE Bar tastes GOOD! Chock full of organic whole foods such as peanuts, maca, cacao, pumpkin seeds and flax seeds, you get lots of protein with zero sugar alcohols or sugar substitutes. I'm a big bar eater. They get me through to meals and sometimes serve as a meal when I'm busy. But most bars, even the ones that look like they are just nuts pressed together, have ultra processed ingredients such as glucose syrup, palm kernel oil, soy protein isolate, whey isolate, polydextrose, glycerin, sodium caseinate, soy flour, and those fake sugars that make you gassy: Sucralose, and Erythritol. Whole food ingredients are expensive. The bar manufacturers need to lower their costs and increase their profits by replacing real food with processed chemical additives. You want to avoid as much of that as you can. We are a small 18-year old company in the sexuality niche. You, our fans and followers are our community. You rely on us to help you with your intimate experiences and wellness. We want to create excellent products that you love, so you'll keep choosing to buy our bars over the grocery and convenience big box brands. But we also know that TASTINESS is vital! If I made a bar that had effective ingredients but didn't taste good, you wouldn't keep consuming. So we did both: natural, whole foods plus effective doses of Maca, the Peruvian Aphrodisiac, and Cacao polyphenols. To make it easy to decide, without committing to purchasing a whole box of a dozen bars, we put together a special launch offer. Buy one bar and pay shipping and we will put two more bars in the shipment for free. Buy one, get two more free for a total of three DESIRE Bars. I call this our Taste-Test Trio special offer. DESIRE Bar Taste-Test Trio ⇐ $2.95 Buy One, Get Two Free + Shipping (Limited Quantities) 
When you purchase one bar for $2.95, we will send you three. And you will be put on our VIP List to order some of the limited supply of our Boxes of DESIRE Bars. So if you love them, as I hope you will, you can lay a few boxes in your pantry. This dark chocolate crunchy peanut butter energy bar with chocolate chips tastes delicious and nutritious. We jokingly call it the Boner Bar and the Nookie Cookie. I want you to try them and send me your funny names and a photo of yourself eating one. I can't wait to see what sexual innuendos you come up with! Let's have fun, eat well and have great sex. DESIRE Bar Taste-Test Trio ⇐ Fans First Special Offer
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I find myself drawn to my PEMF mat. It is so relaxing for me. I love the Earth's grounding frequencies and to sit on a bit of adjustable warmth. One of my clever little ways I reboot my nervous system into a calm state is with a PEMF mat. PEMF stands for Pulsed Electromagnetic Frequency. The frequencies combat the other household, WiFi and mobile frequencies, which are not resonant with the human condition. PEMF mats reset the balance to Earth's grounding frequencies. I also try to go out on my lawn in my bare feet. But the PEMF mat on my sofa is just THERE, waiting for my butt. So I use it daily. HigherDOSE PEMF Mat ⇐ 20% DISCOUNT UNTIL 4/20/24 With Promo Code SUSAN20  When I'm making dinner and having a glass of wine, I sit down for a minute while the food is cooking.
If I'm writing in bed, I move it in there and lie on it. Sometimes I sit on it in my office chair. It's portable! This is a REALLY GOOD DEVICE for your health and relaxation. I think you might love it. I want you to consider it. I asked the HigherDOSE team to sweeten the deal and until 4/20 you can use promo code SUSAN20. HigherDOSE PEMF Mat ⇐ 20% DISCOUNT UNTIL 4/20/24 With Promo Code SUSAN200 Literally get it while it's hot.
If One Of Your Boundaries Is A Deal-Breaker
If one of your boundaries is a deal-breaker with someone, you can always reconsider, find a compromise or realize they can't love you the way you need to be loved. And that is informative in and of itself. Boundaries make people feel at ease with you. They know you are in the happy zone when they are with you. And boundaries go with honesty. Honesty is a practice. Honesty in relating is the path to calmness and feelings of security and acceptance. It takes time to deprogram ourselves from our societally inculcated avoidance, withholding, glossing over, walking on eggshells, and the fear of looking greedy or selfish. Honesty is the ONLY path to conscious loving. A good book to read about how to become honest is Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton. When Tim and I became totally honest with each other, that's when our relationship got really juicy. I hope you'll try it and honor your needs and desires to allow yourself to be fully loved for exactly who you are. Live Your Truth,
Susan  Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She's created hundreds of techniques that transform having sex into making love and is the world's most well-respected sexual biohacker. Susan is a best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Ravish Him, Dirty Talk, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. Susan is co-founder and CEO of two companies: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and sexual regenerative therapies and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of DESIRE libido botanical multivitamin/mineral complex and blood FLOW Nitric Oxide Booster™️ supplements and her new DESIRE sexual energy bars. She is the spokesperson for GAINSWave® sexual regenerative treatments, the Dr. Joel Kaplan Company erection devices, and Foria Wellness intimacy products including her Pleasure Protocol. In addition, she serves as the Chief Advocacy Officer for Basis Diagnostics, a state-of-the-art at-home STI testing kit company. You can follow her personal shares @SusanBratton on Instagram and her FREE OnlyFans @SusanBratton. Susan frequently appears on ABC, CBS, The CW, and NBC as well as being the #1 downloaded sexpert on hundreds of podcasts and summits. | 
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